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What i've learned from cold approaching over 350 women (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Auxfite

Past 5-6 months I’ve probably cold approached around 300-400 girls

Things I've learned:

  1. Cougars go for young men because they missed out on hypergamy at a young age. Due to FOMO (Fear of missing out)
  2. Cold approaching women at college parties, Clubs is as easy as ever. I cant remember a time i got rejected once. I simply go up to her ask her whatever vibe i feel from her. They will never be angry or mad at you or turn you off. In fact women are more than willing to give you their snapchat if you ask. Ive learned that rejection comes from them giving you their social media but never opening your stories ONCE. they simply just used you for validation.
  3. Location is very important part in where you cold approach you have a way better success rate @ parties, clubs, and bars but places like the grocery store, shopping, a park will catch a women off guard and she will be creeped out. But when you display high value she then will be interested to hear what else you have to say and honestly its not worth the effort i hate giving girls free validation and attention. my success rate at parties was 9/10. outside of that environment 2-3/10. Las Vegas is probably the easiest place in the world to game and cold approach. Law 4: Always say less than necessary
  4. The cure to stop being a beta (which 85-90% of men in the USA suffer from) is to take action and boost your testosterone by lifting heavy ass weights 4-5x a week. Women are attracted to masculine as men are attracted to feminine women. So do whatever it takes to boost your test (I don't advice steroids or TRT). Eat healthy fats (avocados, grass fed beef, eggs, almonds, etc) lift, lift, lift, avoid soy, stop watching porn, and stop fapping everyday. Its proven fact that your testosterone gets a small boost when you stop fapping for a week. Before TRP i was 60% alpha 40% beta and how i cured my betaness was going to the gym 5-6x a week. Instead of being the average guy to make excuses and complain I went out and did the work and what i sowed i reaped. Law 25: Re-create yourself
  5. As i got more experience it became very very easy to spot out damaged goods, alpha widows, and BPD. These girls are the empty ones who post nudes or sexual pics on social media or are constantly seeking validation to fill the emptiness. These girls are usually the ones with tattoos, wear lots of make up (to hide the insecurities), wear tight clothes and try to reveal as much as possible, the bigger the hoop earning the bigger the hoe, they give you the thousand cock stare, they have piercings outside of their ears, they talk about their exes, they post on social media EVERYDAY. Damage pair bond is real and its affecting the younger generation more than ever and its because everything is become accepted and apps like tinder dont help, Hollywood music artist like Cardi B & Nicki Minaj promote the dominate female and how being a whore is how to get ahead. The divorce rate in the last 10 years is up 60% and its only going to grow higher.
  6. Men SMV doesn't peak till 40. I'm in my mid 20s and i know that if i was in my early 20s i wouldn't be able to have this much success due to my facial features (women like masclinality) so my advice to the young men out here know you are super blessed to discover TRP at a young age. As you see i approach this many women and i dont feel anything special about it. Just like how rich people say money doesnt bring you happiness its the same with women. I didnt find a wife or someone who can raise my kids so i gained nothing out of this. So focus on becoming your best version of yourself, try out monk mode, hit the gym, read as much as you can, learn the stock market and cryptocurrency cycles. When you go out and have fun dont just game girls go out and befriend bros. read as much of the TRP as you can, find a spiritual life, and find balance. Dont rely on anything like drugs,alcohol,women to bring you happiness because its all temporary. Law 29: Plan all the way to the end
  7. Young women are more damaged as ever. Pick your poison 1 Hot 2 Single 3 Sane. You can only pick 2
  8. If you meet a girl and make plans with her and she flakes ghost her and dont even bother watching her stories or trying to get in contact with her and watch her hamster spin. If she sees youre high value she will hit you back up (FOMO). this works especially with high ego, low attention span millennial girls. (Law 8: Make other people come to you – use bait if necessary)
  9. When your friends or others see your success with women they will start treating you like a god. But they are just using you for what you can provide and offer(clout chasers). Dont be confused and think they are your friends they are your enemy. (Crab in a bucket) Drop your loser friends (beta males) Low-T attitudes are contagious. Being friends with emasculated men that are pussy-whipped and passive is toxic. The same goes for your friends that do nothing but drink beer and watch sports highlights on the weekends. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, and high-T men have high-T friends Law 2: Never put too much trust in friends, learn to use enemies
  10. Women are more attracted to you when they see you with other girls. It hamsters in their brain what does she see in him? I don’t really know how to put this in words but it’s true

Please don't forget to read Part 1 I commented it below.

My background and stats. African/Caribbean.. in my mid 20s, Live in the liberal SF Bay Area, 6'0..

To those asking how do i know i approach this much? My snapchat stories went from 40 views to 300s and majority of the people i added were females.

PLEASE PLEASE READ 48 LAWS OF POWER. Become the Machiavellian women desire. Jesus Christ is King! Happy holidays to you and your family!


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[–]JW_2 95 points96 points  (22 children)

Good post. Except I find women in their 30s/cougars want just sex a lot of the time. Seems like women in their 20s want marriage/fairytale. Probably location dependent as well - I’m in the Midwest where people get married early.

[–]omega_dawg93 37 points38 points  (19 children)

this is absolutely true.

women have the disney version of life over their heads too. but past 32, they wake-up and realize that their fairy tale is just that... a fairy tale. marriage & relationships are hard work and NOT like a movie.

men get sold a line of blue pill bullshit, and so do women.

also, women don't reach their sexual prime until age 32. that strong desire for companionship + higher sex drive + realizing the disney fairy tale is a lie = hot MILF sex.

personally, i find it harder to bag women 35 to 45. most are into their careers and only date men who "know exactly what they want," meaning, she's ready to settle and your time to decide if she's the one has a hard stop. note: it's not about what she wants... she will settle for just about any decent guy.

she makes it about what YOU want, but she won't be there for too long fucking & sucking like a 20 yr old while you remain undecided. when she asks, "where is this relationship going," you better have a ring or know where the door is located. she's done.

[–]ExcellentStudio 2 points3 points  (18 children)

also, women don't reach their sexual prime until age 32.

K lol. Enjoy your "hot milf sex", I'll enjoy 18 to 22 year old women in their physical prime. Honestly if you consider fucking a 32 year old anything less than shameful I don't know what you're doing on this sub. Milf hunters are like chubby chasers... They convince themselves it's their preference, not the only thing available to them.

[–]omega_dawg93 52 points53 points  (2 children)

so i should have the same tastes as you... and be your age. cool. np.

I'm probably older than your father... and even tho i prefer older women (32 to 55) for me... read that 'ME," i can still bag the occasional youngster (under 28) for ME.

I'll tell you a secret but promise not to tell anyone. girls from 18 to 22 are a complete headache. you won't learn this till you're older... asking yourself, "why did I put up with all that shit... wasting all that time?"

sure there are easy girls but overall, compared to older women who know what they want, there's no comparison (to ME).

i promise you... i give no fucks what you like or what you think about where i insert my dick. you have your own... worry about that one.

[–]grundlecrunch 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Would have been good to differentiate between reproductive and sexual prime. A girl being fuckable doesnt mean shes young enough to healthily produce a child, or has a pair bonding ability undamaged to the point where she can form one with you in order to raise that child effectively.

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sexual prime for women is two-fold imo. one is where she's in her best years to reproduce a healthy baby... the other is her years where she fully embraces her sexuality for her enjoyment.

that can happen at any age (above 18 of course). as for pair bonding, that's a tough one. i know girls that were absolute sluts thru hs & college... numbers well above 50 cocks; they're happily married soccer moms now.

meanwhile i know women who "saved themselves" or got married very young (under 20) who often asked, "did i miss out on too much fun by settling down so young?"

those are the ones that hypergamy really control bc they feel they've missed out. after a divorce or just because, those women typically go crazy on cock from all their newfound freedom and abundant attention, esp if they use social media.

pussy is so easy to get nowadays that it has no value (to women). what they want is attention, attention, & more attention.

there will be no pair bonding from the woman who is constantly searching for the "next big thing," esp if that thing is bigger $ and/or better sex. social media is destroying women imo... they don't want to pair bond. marriage is just a tick on the "been there done that" check-off list.

personally, i love sluts... not my purpose or duty to sway their behavior. they can deal with the fallout from allowing a feral vagina control their behavior... using it to gather attention & likes on the computer.

[–]five-acorn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You must be young, but honestly even in high school, there were a ton of 32+ year old teachers I'd fuck. And no, they weren't all moms either.

32 isn't even all that old. Hell I'd fuck Tomay or Demi Moore in their 40s and many others. And then some.

Having such sexual hangups that aren't even that extreme, is essentially, the same thing as only liking Chicken Tendies. Which means you only like socially approved, generic sex with white 18-22 year old women. Anything experimental whatsoever is "icky". Well, more for me then. But you should probably expand your mind and tastes beyond "Chicken Tendies" for your own sake.

Also let's get real. The young girls have nice bods, and that's nice, but they usually suck at sex, and the conversation is frequently boring. I don't care about your "major."

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[–]omega_dawg93 16 points17 points  (6 children)

if you can't find any good looking women above 29, I'd hate to live where you are. plus girls are at the wall at 22? wtf?

Houston Texas to New Orleans LA, is full of good looking women... 18 to 45.

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[–]i_have_a_semicolon 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Sunny... Do these women look old or something? A women who does creams and exercises will be hot at 27-35

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[–]i_have_a_semicolon 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Idk, about 35 but I've seen 35 year olds who do not have wrinkles or fine lines. I would assume that someone who has a "baby face" and takes good care of themselves can pass themselves off as 5 years younger at least.

[–]1ozaku7 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I would rather drive on a Chevrolet Spark with Michael Schumacher than Amy Schumer in a Lambo Aventador.

You obviously didn't fuck any woman so far, or you are user to mediocre sex. I had girls in their 20's which were downright boring, also one in her 30's who literally laid there like a corpse and didn't want to do anything.

Then I had this 40+ lady, she had wrinkles, little bit more fat than the eye desires and nice fake tits that make them look like 30 instead of 45. But for ducks sake she knew how to fucking turn me on and she wasn't even fucking me at that point. The gave me a "blowjob" with her neck which felt much better than the average blowjob out there, sucked my fingers during it, ravaged my neck with her mouth.

She knew where to push my buttons and far exceeded the average or higher than average 20-30 year olds, which range from "I don't to anything" to "I have no idea what I'm doing" to "I know a few tricks".

Older women simply aren't so insecure and just want to fuck a nice piece of meat. Plus they have the experience.

Yes, 20 year old girls can be great aswell, but that 45 year old is number one on my list. It's not how fast your car is, it's about how you ride it. If the girl is sexually attractive, whether a 6 or a 10, all that makes the difference is skill.

[–]ExcellentStudio -2 points-1 points  (2 children)

This is one of the most pathetic things I've ever read.

[–]1ozaku7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So is fucking lazy potatosacks. You are in your young stage where you need ass and tities to get aroused. It doesn't work for me anymore, I need a woman who knows how to turn a man on. A naked body doesn't cut it for me anymore.

It's because of idiots like you why women think that lying there like a corpse is acceptable sex.

[–]chrispp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not everyone is chad enough for young pussy

[–]CharacterReindeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a stupid amount of women who watche too much disney.

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