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Blue Pill ExampleBeta male orbits thot for 9 years while she rides the cock carousel, then she hits the wall and he buys her a house. Don't be this guy. (self.TheRedPill)

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This is straight from the whorses mouth, let me translate:

I was that girl who loved the bad boys. My nice guy had been my best friend for a number of years and I always knew he liked me but I was busy chasing assholes. 9 years we were best friends and grew up together and he watched me pick all the wrong people and get hurt.

I had a beta orbiter for nine years who I used for favors and as an emotional tampon in between getting pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone.

Other friends kept telling me to give it a chance etc. Two years ago he asked me to come over for dinner - it seemed fairly casual until I realised he’d asked me for Valentine’s Day. I can’t say I was guilted a-such but it still felt a little awkward. I was mega nervous thinking it was gonna be so awkward but when I turned up it was fine he’d cooked me a meal, bought flowers, a bottle of wine and chocolates and lit candles on the table.

The Chads weren't committing and my friends were encouraging me to settle down so I wouldn't end up as a spinster, so I agreed to go on a date with my favorite orbiter. He proved that he was willing to spend lots of money on me so I decided to make him my beta bucks provider.

We’re now headed towards our 2nd anniversary, have a lovely home together, a beautiful (but evil) Egyptian mau cat and couldn’t be happier. Because we were friends first we know we get on, we finish each other’s sentences and never run out of conversation. Yet to have one argument that goes beyond whose turn it is to wash up lol. He is genuinely the best thing to happen to me ever.

My beta bucks simp bought me a house and a cat and does whatever I tell him to without question. I am happy because I got to have my cake and eat it too, and if I get bored I can always divorce him, take half his shit and live off of alimony while I go back to getting pumped and dumped by Chad.

Sometimes the nice guy does win!

What exactly did the poor simp "win" here? A used-up, post-wall skank who has seen miles of dick and will do nothing for him but spend his money and occasionally give him duty sex with her twat that has been cummed in by dozens of other men.

This is textbook AF/BB. Men should stop rewarding bad behavior; if she didn't give you the best years of her life, don't pay her for the "privilege" of getting the worst. These desperate beta males are too thirsty to listen to reason, sadly, and the other commenters were cheering her on.

EDIT: The thot's post has now been gilded. We are in trouble as a nation.


[–]Valenx_Ackerman 253 points254 points  (49 children)

Sometimes I wonder how can someone have this lack of selfrespect... This is not about redpill, it's about fucking commonsense and respecting yourself

But what's really disgusting is not the girl's mentality, but the man who allows it to get pussy. It's fucking terrible. Then you've to listen this kind of guys saying things like "the past doesn't matter", "I've found the one", "patience has its reward"... makes me wanna kill myself

[–]AllahHatesFags[S] 84 points85 points  (15 children)

It's sad and disgusting, but what even worse is that most of the commenters are actually celebrating it! Makes me sick.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 80 points81 points  (5 children)

Yeah - that comment section essentially normalizes slut-whore behavior and makes it seem as is Mr. Beta Chump won this "great prize" of a used-up, banged-out, man-hopping Jezebel. This chick basically "aged-out" based on the fact that Chad no longer has interest - otherwise Mr. Beta Bucks had ZERO chance in the first place.

This guy is pathetic. He only knows about the confirmed "relationships" versus the one-night stands and 3-person sex sessions...none of which he will EVER receive at any point in the marriage.

The best case scenario is this Pass-Around burnout has GENUINELY changed her mindset, her behavior, and is sincere about being a loyal, honest, faithful and dutiful wife.

Only time will tell - especially if some past Bad Boy calls her up when he's in town for a few days "to catch up" on old times.

[–]Helmut_Newton 51 points52 points  (3 children)

The best case scenario is this Pass-Around burnout has GENUINELY changed her mindset, her behavior, and is sincere about being a loyal, honest, faithful and dutiful wife.

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

[–]untonyto 5 points6 points  (1 child)

You can't, but The Wall can

[–]zue3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Except that's a house"wife" in the loosest possible definition of the term. I bet this cuck is probably doing the dishes and laundry for her while also working a full time job.

[–]Raknith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I give it 5 years tops

[–]divorce33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best case scenario is this Pass-Around burnout has GENUINELY changed her mindset, her behavior, and is sincere about being a loyal, honest, faithful and dutiful wife.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa (goes to sleep) (wakes up) (goes to work) (comes home) (makes himself some dinner) (opens up reddit) ......Hahahahahaahahahhahahahahahah hahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahhaahahahahaha!

[–]1Jaereth 36 points37 points  (4 children)

Women won't ever understand what it's like to be a guy. At least in the U.S. they've been at a certain level in society since birth, just by value of being a female.

[–]ShoushaJr 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not just the US buddy. (I live in Egypt) - Thirsty low life men and harassers are the reason for this. They give girls (even the fugly one) huge self esteem. You see them flooding her facebook, instagram and whatever other shitform and all she gets CONSTANTLY is approval and appraisal - for what? Being a female. That gives her power, and most humans abuse power or get caught up in it.

[–]JcHgvr 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You guys across the pond must stop thinking there's some kind of promised land outside of the US. There isn't one. Eastern European woman have as little idea od what it's like to be a man as all others.

[–]zue3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is just another case of the grass being greener on the other side. Spoiler: it isn't. Exported western culture ruined it for everyone else too.

[–]The-Red-Vagabond 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Look at this comment I saw from the post.

Thank fucking christ, someone who actually ended up with a nice guy.

That's just so sad and pathetic. Crazy the amount of shit these guys have no idea what they're about to get into the years to come.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let's face the facts he is the only one to blame in this situation. Even in an alternative reality, where bluepill was the truth and girls were really interested in flowers and chivalry. He would have lost out because he asked her on a date after 9 years. He should have been closing on her way early even if he would end up doing the romantic dinner champaign routine. He would have gotten rejected and realized his girl is interested in Chad's dick or they would end up together and lived happily after and he would have found a unicorn. But unicorns don't exist. Probably she would have broken up with him after a few weeks.

Being the Billy beta he is, he realized that the best time to strike would be when his crush is post wall and would gladly accept him for the money and has already rode the carousel to her heart's delight.

[–]1Jaereth 65 points66 points  (5 children)

This is not about redpill, it's about fucking commonsense and respecting yourself

Yes.

Once i've moved on from a girl, that's it. If I tried to pursue you romantically, and you were not having it, that's it.

The fuck are these "hanger on" guys. I guess orbiters. FIRST thing I would think is "What changed to make her want to be with me now?"

Idk, they must have NEVER succeeded with a woman. The feeling when your partner is REALLY into you, like they just fucking CRAVE you. It's a good feeling. I'd never fuck around with someone you had to coerce or wear down into giving you affection. There's plenty more out there.

[–]Quaternionz 50 points51 points  (2 children)

Idk, they must have NEVER succeeded with a woman. The feeling when your partner is REALLY into you, like they just fucking CRAVE you. It's a good feeling.

My longterm relationships when I was blue pilled always lacked that genuine desire from the woman. I'd struggle to get the girl's begrudging acceptance. I'd get it and a mediocre relationship would follow, with tepid sex and her being a controlling nagging shrew.

Then I got red pilled after a bad break up. I started lifting and developed some game. When I started dating again I had a first date with a 9 that ended back in a hotel room. At one point she got on top of me, looked me in the eyes, and said "I want you so bad right now." The sex was great.

Now I don't settle for anything less than genuine fuck-me-right-now enthusiasm.

For a while it puzzled me why women date guys who they don't have this enthusiasm for, and even get into LTRs or marriages with them. It's pretty clear now why they do this. They just can't attract better men, so they have to settle. Lots of women don't even know what it feels like to be with a man who they genuinely desire, because the men they genuinely desire are too busy banging 20 year old hotties to give a 7 any time.

This happens even to younger girls, like 23 year old 6's and 7's who aren't comfortable enough with their sexuality to dive into their party years.

Lots of these women develop an ego preserving defense mechanism where they think "I'm not into muscular, vain, masculine guys. That's toxic masculinity. That's why I date betas, it's my genuine preference." It's never really their genuine preference. They get into a shitty feedback cycle where they turn themselves off from masculinity because the Chad's aren't biting. They stop putting any effort into being feminine because it's not paying off anyway, and that makes the Chad's bite even less. They throw in with feminism and masculinize themselves to such a degree that they cease being able to click with men, and can only click with feminized beta boys. Masculine energy always clicks better with feminine energy, even with the masculine energy is coming from the woman and the feminine energy is coming from the dude.

[–]reluctantly_red[🍰] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

don't settle for anything less than genuine fuck-me-right-now enthusiasm.

Exactly!!! Probably the single most important thing guys have to learn.

[–]untonyto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nailed it so hard it's expecting twins

[–]1Imperator_Red 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The feeling when your partner is REALLY into you, like they just fucking CRAVE you. It's a good feeling.

You really don't know what this is like until you experience it for the first time. Then you feel stupid for thinking that all the girls before were actually into you after you see what it actually looks like when a girl is into you.

[–]captainsadness1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a thrill to turn it into that feeling, more of a challenge. But admittedly not ideal for a long term partner