A recent comment thread was getting so many upvotes for the most BP shit, I felt the need to drop some truth in a quick post. Try to get this through your skull, and stop trying to use TRP awareness to achieve your BP fantasies:
There are no unicorns. Period. No “if they're out there, it’s futile to try to find one.” Or, “once a man is alpha enough and super duper awesomely self-actualized, he will deserve his unicorn and she’ll prance into his life on a rainbow of pussy juice.” THERE ARE NONE. ZERO.
A “unicorn” is built and maintained by a man with the ability to, given that he finds a woman with the right foundation. Some women have better potential than others, however, in every case, she is not a unicorn by nature. And she only remains one because the man keeps polishing the horn that he fucking fashioned in the first place. Her unicorn status is CONDITIONAL. All relationships with women are CONDITIONAL. I’m often told “I found a unicorn” with regards to my current LTR. I just luckily somehow stumbled upon a quality woman! I laugh my fucking head off inside. I made her who she is today, and I have no problem admitting it. I built who she is now, and continue to guide her and you know what, its fucking work. I’m not afraid to admit that creating and maintaining a “unicorn” takes a portion of my mental space.
But she is not a real unicorn. She’s a woman who was inspired to emulate one, and she can decide to stop whenever she feels like it. The guys who tell me she’s a real unicorn don’t want to admit to themselves that they are incapable of creating one, nor willing to put in the work it takes to be able to. They want them to exist, and my girl is the confirmation bias they need to maintain their blue pill fantasies. That there’s one out there for them too, they just need to stumble upon her like I did. Don’t be like them. You have to work for everything you get in this life, including a unicorn if that's something you want. And it’s not really a fucking unicorn if it’s only a unicorn as long as you put in the work now is it.