Rant/VentingAwkward women want to fuck you (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by brideboy

I've been a severe dumb ass and will continue to be in the future.
If a woman is acting awkward she wants to fuck you. Plain and simple.
I used to wonder why women: dodged eye contact with me, let me get extremely close, smiled a lot when I approached, got upset when I walked away, always called me a flirt, laughed at my corny jokes... They wanted me in one way or another.
I used to wonder why men did dumb shit like: saying I'm a "well put together man", avoid eye contact with me when talking, talk about how I made their girlfriends "uncomfortable", try to compete with me covertly and overtly in public... They knew their girl wanted to fuck me.
Chances are all of you have at least one or two women in your life that want to fuck you and you are just too fucking dumb to realize it, or you don't want to fuck her back.
If you're anything like me, your brain is your own worst enemy. You've made dumb assumptions about life as a kid and are currently building the red pill on top of them. Find those dumb assumptions and replace them.
In sum: assume attraction always, if she's even remotely nice to you she either wants the dick or wants something from you, either way the right move is to try to fuck her or put her in the friend zone, but always do what you want the moment you realize what you want. No exceptions.

[–]twofones 299 points300 points  (19 children)

This is gold. Also how I had my first ever FWB

Girl came back to my place after a first date. I honestly didn't know how to proceed, and knew her through mutual friends so getting friendzoned was a very real risk.

At this point I had only slept with a couple LTRs in high school and was at the end of a brutal dry spell a few years into college.

I was pretty nervous, talking way too much and was thinking I'd probably take her home, play it slow and be patient, and hopefully something would happen one day.

Then I noticed she kept fidgeting in her chair and fixed her collar for like the FIFTEENTH time and kept looking down. It didn't occur to me the whole night that SHE was the nervous one.

It was like spotting a glitch in the matrix or like Inception when one small thing gives away the whole dream. I stopped midsentence, walked right up to her, grabbed her by the arm, laid her on the bed and took her clothes off with ZERO protest. Not a word.

My mind was blown. I was never the same after that.

assume attraction always

[–]chiefbl 127 points128 points  (16 children)

A good trick is to remove any chairs in your room before you head to the date. Now she can either choose to sit on the floor or on the bed when you bring her back to your place. 98% of the time she'll choose the bed. From there, you know the drill

[–]FlexGunship 87 points88 points  (1 child)

Hah. I just had an image of doing this in my place. I've got a loveseat and two large armchairs in my bedroom.

"Why the fuck did you flip your chairs over?"

"Practicing for you."

[–]LidlKwark 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love the laughs I get from this sub.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (4 children)

Lol, and if she chooses the floor that means she REALLY ain't into you.

[–]1Shyrk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Naw, that's last-ditch ASD. I sit on the floor next to her. It makes for very natural kino into a kiss and then, you're already a step closer to getting "dirty." Pull her onto your lap and go for it.

[–]TheGillos 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Remove the chairs and the floor.

[–]chiefbl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It might be the case but it really depends. If you have a soft carpet and she chose that, I would still say that's a go. Anyways, remember If you manage to bring her back to your place, she's down to fuck. You're just trying to minimise ASD

The concept behind the trick is so it isn't weird to sit next to her to do some more kino. If she isn't a yes girl and she's sitting in a single chair, what are you going to do? Roll another chair up or stand next to her?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 33 points34 points  (0 children)

98% of the time she'll choose the bed

"Did I say you could sit on my bed, slut?"

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Had never thought of it that way.Thanks for the tip.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this is gold man, gold.

You just improved my closing game.

[–]failingtheturingtest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years back (pre TRP) I had a chair in my room. Brought a Sheila back and she chose to sit on the bed to finish her glass of wine.

I didn't escalate until she had finished her wine and decided it was time to leave.
Needless to say she was no longer interested at that point and I had now managed to place myself squarely into orbiter-at-best status.
Luckily, unaware Turing didn't enter orbit and just accepted that he had done this to himself.

Moral take the fucking hint!

[–]ImHydeRightNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a small apartment because I live cheaply at home and spend most my money on travelling. The only places to sit in my apartment are the bed and a tiny couch. Forced kino.

[–]GrooveSyndicate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it be difficult to initiate with a girl who was sitting in a chair? I don't get it. This seems really cringey

[–]DarylDixonK -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Get the bitch drunk and do your thing man!

[–]1ozaku7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was like spotting a glitch in the matrix

That's the entire thing that named this mentality Red Pill. Wake up from the dream, and accept reality.

[–]Docbear64 107 points108 points  (5 children)

The fact of the matter is ,and I think all of us men should know or will probably have experienced it at one time , Most women won't give you the time of day if they aren't into you. If they do it will be purely as an orbiter and they'll stuff you right into the " Let's Just Be Friends" box if you try to make a move .

If she's out with you and not asking you to be her emotional tampon , go pick up food for her, or tell her she's not fat then she is considering riding your dick . It's all on you to prove her that you don't deserve to be ridden .

A few weeks ago I was meeting a new chick for the first time and after our date when I was escalating and looking for a hotel room she let me know verbally at least 10 times that I wasn't going to fuck her . I'd touch her thigh , she'd throw me a fake dirty look and not move my hand , She let me know I might have a chance , I reassured her that I knew I did .

Before the end of the night her legs were on my shoulders .

Now did I know 1000% I was going to fuck her ? No not at all but It really is a simple rule of thumb to hold . If she's out with you and you haven't done anything egregious to dry her up then she on some level wants to fuck you . Women are generally experts at formulating and exercising escape plans when they are with Dudes that they have no interest in fucking .

If she doesn't make an excuse to go home ( without you coming with her) , or in some way imply she needs to go but is totes down to see a nice guy like you again, then assume she wants to ride and follow that line of thinking until you're proven wrong .

[–]-tacoTime- 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for using paragraphs. People in this part of Reddit blast walls of text too often. Good read.

[–]Denver_Luv3 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Most women won't give you the time of day if they aren't into you

Yes. Also, in the real world, seduction and intersex relationships are often fucking awkward. Most girls actually have shit social skills and don't know how to act around guys they like and aren't good conversationalists.

If you are a guy your job is to assume the sale and keep escalating (in a reasonable way / time) until you are fucking her or she stops you. The whole process might be awkward but when your dick is in her you don't care, do you?

In movies and TV a lot of things are smooth and the characters have witty banter and the sex is magic and everyone comes after three pumps. That's because Hollywood produces fantasy. In real life shit doesn't work that way, yet we're conditioned by watching and absorbing fantasy.

[–]Docbear64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't co-sign this enough the chick I fucked in my little blurb up there and I Had quite a few awkward pauses . she wasn't a great conversation piece but definitely ranks towards the top in terms of the most attractive women I've been with .

Awkward silences, jokes I thought fell flat, flirting attempts that seemed to work without her holding up a thumbs up to tell me she approved. It was not at all like a movie but we had a good time anyway .

I think this is a key point because I feel like a lot of guys just starting to spin plates or create their harem nitpick themselves into the ground . If you got laid and see cracks in your game definitely fix them but just because you don't come off like James bond every time you open your mouth doesn't mean you aren't still hitting the right notes.

[–]Alpha_Buddha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it's all on you to prove that you don't deserve to be ridden

Fucking amazing way to think. Kudos.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG 135 points136 points  (14 children)

assume attraction always

You are corrrect. The sidebar mentions 'assume the sale' which means when you approach, you approach with a firm belief that you will get to fuck her. It also helps to assume she's attracted to you and just needs you to 'bust a move'.

[–]ChadJr 24 points25 points  (10 children)

How do you firmly believe this if evidence says otherwise

[–]GhostRecon08FX points points [recovered]

Simply approaching with the mentality that you already have it in the bag, could actually be the reason that you "get the sale". When you change your thinking, you change your body language, tone of voice, posture, the words you use, the actions you take etc... Which then in turn, changes the person's opinion about you and let's you "get the sale". (of course this isn't going to work 100% of the time, but is far better than going in and having a poor mentality)

[–]Koryphae_ 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Simply approaching with the mentality that you already have it in the bag,

I think that approaching with the mindset that it does not matter whether it is 'in the bag' or no works better long term, because I think you would want every approach to be a teaching lesson in terms of getting over anxiety (if you have), shit-test recognition, woman's body language etc. Also, I think it is better to have no expectations and be shot down than have expetations and be shot down.

Then again, I guess you can not be too ambivalent. It might give out the vibe that you are not interested.

[–]Hamilton950B 17 points18 points  (2 children)

You need both. It's not really a contradiction. Say you go in to the bathroom and walk up to the first urinal. You expect you'll be able to use it, you have no reason to think it won't work. Turns out it's all plugged up with cigarette butts and used condoms. You wouldn't panic, you wouldn't get angry, you'd just move on to the next urinal. Although you expected to be able to use the first one, it doesn't really matter that it was broken, because there are 3 billion other urinals in the world.

[–]Koryphae_ 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Exactly. And when you go to the bathroom next time and again step in front of a 'dead' urinal, you already have had this interaction. What I am saying is that you should not step into the bathroom thinking "hey, i'm going to get a clean urinal or dead urinal". It just seems that if you are approaching with the mindset that 'I'm banging this chick' you would be at one of the extremum points.

Then again I have the mind of natural sciences scientist so my way of thinking may not work for everybody.

[–]RedPillFreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this technique great when you combine it with visualization. Then use CBT to make yourself do anything.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 40 points41 points  (0 children)

How do you firmly believe this if evidence says otherwise

You stop bullshitting.

You're not looking for evidence. You're just afraid of rejection.

Dude, bitches are ridiculous, remember? They spend all their time taking the perfect kissy-face selfie or tweeting about Melania Trump's outfits.

Why the fuck should you be afraid of that?

[–]RedPillandNoFap points points [recovered]

How do you firmly believe this if evidence says otherwise

Watch Glengarry Glen Ross or Boiler Room. Or, to a lesser extent, The Wolf of Wall Street.

A woman at a car lot is there to buy a car, sell her one. A woman at a club...

[–]brinkleybuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't have good evidence until you approach and escalate. That's what OP is saying. Words, facial expressions and body language don't always reflect desire. Based on her physical response, is she receptive to your advances? That's the only reliable evidence of whether or not she wants you.

[–]Rando9937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attraction is not a rational process. You do not need evidence. You should be irrationally self confident. Why do you think nerds have trouble w women? They are often highly rational. Women want their emotions spiked by the guy who is completely irrational, just like them.

[–]1ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this to build confidence. Ever seen an insecure salesman?

[–]usago 13 points14 points  (1 child)

If they go back to your place it's to fuck.

[–]Docbear64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mean they really aren't interested in my baseball card collection ?

[–]relish-tranya 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was trying to tell the Forever Alones that any reasonably normal man already has willing romantic interests in his life. All he has to do is frame conversations to occasionally open the door.

You don't have to be a PUA to say "Hmm, I have tickets to the game this weekend but nobody to go with. Like to go?". If a guy did this a total of 10 or 20 times is his life, he could end up happily married.

[–]3savoryprunes 40 points41 points  (1 child)

Find those dumb assumptions and replace them.

...or as u/Neoreactionsafe would say, "Kill the Beta."

[–]RedPillFreedom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love that phrase

Approach Anxiety 3-2-1 Kill the Beta

Sugar Cravings Kill the Beta

Hot Water resisting switching it to cold Kill the Beta

It's applicable to so many things. I have combined it with gun to the head analogy to get myself to always do the thing. Works great.

[–]brinkleybuzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Find those dumb assumptions and replace them.

Great line. One dumb assumption is that women aren't as sexual as men. They are and most minimally attractive women are banging someone and most of the ones who aren't want to. Is it irrational confidence to believe if they're banging someone it might as well be you?

Another dumb assumption is that modern, "sex positive" women are more overt about signalling sexual desire. Some are, but most women still prefer for men to make the first move and will assume that you aren't interested if you don't make a move.

[–]trauma_gland 12 points13 points  (15 children)

I'm gonna be the guy who challenges you on the "no exceptions" part.

What do you think about shitting where you eat? If you have a girl giving you IOI's at work, don't you think it's a good idea not to act on it?

[–]PissedPajamas 50 points51 points  (2 children)

That pussy isn't gonna pay the rent

[–]timrafctd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This needs to be higher brodude

[–]Docbear64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to plaster this all over AskTRP the next time a question starts with " So there's this girl at work"

[–]longbowfosho points points [recovered]

either way the right move is to try to fuck her or put her in the friend zone, but always do what you want the moment you realize what you want. No exceptions.

Or if it isn't best idea to fuck them (coworkers are NEVER a good idea), put them in the pseudo-friend zone and reap the benefits of them continuing to try to get your attention.

[–]Kakistokratic 6 points7 points  (2 children)

This was what I opted for. It's a nice social simulator with verbal flirting and light kino where I also know there is a ceiling on escalation. I can't fuck'em but at least I can make the most of it.

[–]supremelummox 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I guess this is what women do with most betas.

[–]dRePe_Thill 8 points9 points  (2 children)

"What do you think about shitting where you eat?"

Great question, I have seen this backfire on coworkers and in both instances they were let go by our company. My father gave me a piece of advice to NEVER. EVER. EVER. shit where you eat.

One guy was jobless for 8+ months because he couldn't get references from other coworkers or his managers, and when potential employers called as to the reason for his firing then he wasn't hired. IF you were to pursue a relationship or plate her then you should inform HR to protect yourself from sexual harassment or anything that could come from a vindictive woman.

[–]askmrcia 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Ahhh man, I'm actually planning on setting up a date with a lady who works in my HR department. Yes, I'm well aware of the phrase of not shitting where you eat, but I see a lot of employees at not only my job, but other corporate environments get married.

Not lying. A guy on my team is married to some chick in the HR department. And they did that while working together.

I see this being more of the case, then some guy getting fired or charged for sexual harassment.

This is why I'm going for the HR lady. She's too hot to pass up. The only thing is, I don't want an actual relationship with her and if she does, then yea things could get dicey.

But, I'm curious, haven't you seen relationships in the office work out? They all could not have ended badly.

[–]dRePe_Thill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I see a lot of employees at not only my job, but other corporate environments get married."

What's not to love about female hypergamy? (sarcasm) That's a very vague statement, but i'd assume that they are much higher valued BB men and these women are locking in their meal tickets. I saw one instance of this at my company, female was HB7 28yo account specialist and she married an executive sales manager 35yo, within a year she quit and now has a couple kids. As for your last question, did it work out for them... only time will tell...but she's locked in her resources.

At a high level, I would think about this as risk versus reward. The TRP teaches us to focus on our health, wealth and mission in life

Is the gain of a plate(you mentioned not wanting a LTR) worth the risk of your wealth ie. income or professional reputation affecting you getting hired else where (future income).

I am under the assumption that shit hits the fan with her (potential job loss). How will you cover your necessities? How will you get another job, future employer will be calling her HR department? How will you work on your health if you can't afford a gym membership? You'll have to buy cheaper/lower quality food because of income loss which could affect your health. Is one plate worth the cost of current or future plates?

Also, she could gossip and tell other women who will tell your male coworkers, just be prepared to manage HR female, male and female coworkers .

My recommendation, I would be cordially with her and spin the plate when you change companies.

RP side notes: "She's too hot to pass up."

You know the rules: * RPers exclude the word "Hot" in referencing female attractiveness, instead use something like interesting. * Abundance mentality - RPers have many options, you might not have them yet, but you will if you continuing learning and applying rp concepts.

[–]Oz70NYC 8 points9 points  (1 child)

About 7 months ago I made a field report of a 9 at work I plated after months of escalation, kino and destroying her SMV compared to mine. By the time I fucked her she believed she had something wrong with her...because while she had every other dude she interacted with eating out of her hand, I roasted the fuck out of her.

Getting to the point...what you need to do is cover your ass. Save every text. If it arises she may play the harassment card cuz you pumped and dumped her, make sure you have proof it was consensual by both parties.

How do you do this? Be unapologetic in your intent. Inn your texts (if you reach that point) be as direct as possible as her responses are direct as well. That way if it comes up you can show there was no denying it was mutual between you both.

[–]PissedPajamas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or find a 9 elsewhere and avoid the hassle...

[–]epicdeartime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really want this answered as well. I've recently been in a position where I could have made a move on this girl but the whole "don't shit where you eat" concept kept popping up in my head.

[–]trippinallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right before the no exceptions part he says "either way the right move is to try to fuck her or put her in the friend zone". A co-worker would be best in the latter category.

Don't be a pussy and justify complacency, but sexual strategy and getting laid isn't worth your job.

[–]theredpill22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation with a roommate, it took me way too long to realise that she was nervous around me.

I don't get nervous.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Well I guess he's got the irrational over confidence part down.

[–]blackedoutfast 12 points13 points  (0 children)

true. and they can awkward in weird ways, it's not always obvious stuff like awkwardly grabbing your ass or zoning out staring at your dick bulge. some girls get shy and clam up. sometimes they act bitchy. it's best to always assume atrraction until they give you a solid NO.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (6 children)

Let's try not to fuck everything that walks

[–]1conofsyn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sex is a natural and healthy part of a man's life

It's okay to be enthusiastic about it

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Yeah,sometimes reading other things apart from fucking in this sub can be nice.

[–]Katavasis 18 points19 points  (1 child)

But this sub is about sexual strategies mate...

[–]tuffbot324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it goes much deeper than that. Sex is just surface level.

[–]fcb98292 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The awkwardness could be as subtle as just staring at you. Sometimes, no words are required.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

We will see. Personally I need a girl to be super obvious if she is attracted to me in a sexual manner. Like it has to be super obvious. Literally her looking at me and making the cock sucking motion obvious. I really just am not fully aware when a girl likes me. Mainly because I have self-esteem issues, and feel that I am never good enough. Feels bad man. Sometimes I think a girl might like me, but I need to be sure before I approach her. I just dont want to go up to some random girl, and be like hey can I get your number. Always feel really awkward doing that. I prefer if the girl comes to me, and asks me for my number instead. It seems most girls prefer me to ask. Fuck I remember this one girl, straight up told me she is ":the kindve girl you have to ask." Another one started talking to me about babies, and said she really wanted one and it wouldn't be that difficult to take care of one child while Im in college. That was pretty cringe worthy, because even this guy was like go talk to her and ask her out, she likes you.

Im really trying to get better at it, because I do know girls usually will go out of their way to make it obvious they want you. However it seems like very few of them want to be the one to initiate the conversation and ask for the number or ask a guy out on a date or to fuck. We shall see. Im going to change it up this time, and the next girl that I think likes me, Im just going to go up to her. Hopefully it works.

Its just stepping out of my comfort zone that is sometimes hard, because I'm really quite shy. My first girlfriend, on our first date I didn't say a single word to her literally. Usually I have to get to know the girl first, and then illl start talking to her. This little muslim girl even said its ok she knows I'm very shy, but likes that because she wouldn't have to worry about me talking to these little bitches who try. That was within like the first couple of days of us talking. Especially when a girl has a really phat ass, lawd have mercy. This older bad bitch hispanic lady with a phat ass would always sit by me at the bookstore, but I was so shy. So I'm going to ask this girl out and see what she says. Hopefully she likes. I dont know.

[–]CraftyTiger 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Personally I need a girl to be super obvious if she is attracted to me in a sexual manner.

You're not the only one. I went to lunch with a co-worker, engage in some idle talk with the lunch counter lady and leave. Outside he is telling me that she was throwing blatant signals at me. I didn't see it. I can't decipher hair tosses and stupid giggles.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. I know the feeling. Im somewhat oblivious to the stuff, or at least I dont think that just because a girl talks to me or whatever. Or maybe happens to be in the same place I am multiple times. That qualifies as a sure sign that she likes me. I dont know.

[–]Arie_R 16 points17 points  (10 children)

I'm nice to my coworkers even if I don't work on the same project and have no interest in becoming friends or more. Good behaviour is good for the work environment.

[–]Ibanezguitarrocks 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Therein lies the rub. Sometimes being "nice" is how they choose to flirt.

Women will purposely send off "ambiguous" signals so they can bail from an interaction if the feeling isn't mutual, without appearing like they had any interest in the first place. I would say this is more pronounced when in a public place with other people around who can observe them.

Most "attractive" women expect interested men they like to approach them, even if they haven't said a word or made eye contact. They use very subtle body language that sometimes other women can pick up on.

It's quite the dance.

[–]The_Good_Delusion 4 points5 points  (2 children)

My problem is, awkwardness really turns me off. And as I improve myself, more and more women that I consider really hot turn awkward-creepy while pursuing me.

[–]AttackOnKvothe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same shit, mainly because I relate it with "Eww don't touch me"

At least that would be my feelings if I was awkward.

[–]bigredchewinggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you improve too you have to deal with gross chicks pursuing/annoying you. It's been happening to me a bit and all I can think is "damn, this must be what it's like to be a hot girl who gets hit on and sent creepy Facebook PMs from neck beards".

[–]aanarchist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can't build red pill on top of them, you have to use the red pill to shred through them and destroy them. most red pill betas think that by using the techniques it will somehow make them valuable and make people like them, it will not. the truth is nobody likes you, not even you, and you have to deal with that reality before you can do anything of any sort of value.

[–]SwagToTheMaximum12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tfw when you've had girls try to (sometimes successfully) fuck you your whole life but are still n00b level at game. This is an important point. Thinking you can't means you won't. That's how it is with money, that's how it is with chicks.

[–]mcr00sterdota 5 points6 points  (3 children)

What if it's just in her personality. Like an awkward low SMV girl?

[–]Docbear64 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I've been with my fair share of awkward low SMV girls and even in their own way they show interest . I've had them awkwardly fling themselves at me for a kiss , Awkwardly stand gawking at me on the door step waiting for me to make a move , or just anxiously wait for me to grab them .

When they are attracted to you many women become " broken" they often times don't know the best way to initiate and are just waiting for you to make a move . Hell if she's a Low SMV awkward girl I would suggest she's an even better candidate to try your luck on . If it works you have a slump buster experience ( doesn't matter had sex) and if not then you just missed the opportunity to fuck a 4 with poor social skills ...... oh shucks ...* Kicks dirt *

[–]Oz70NYC 1 point2 points  (1 child)

When I was developing my game at the start of my RP pilgrimage to Alphadom, I set my sights on these types. Low SMV with ok looms. 5s and 6s. A much larger margin for error in my approaches and in sealing the deal. Pretty much if I got ANY interest, getting them naked was a sure thing. Even to this day, 3 years where my strategy is refined to a sharpened edge...I'll plate one for an easy score.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tru like they laugh at the most unfunny shit and buying you drinks thats when you know

[–]rainyweathergirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me personally, I am awkward around most people. I'm sure however if the girl isn't normally awkward and there are other signs like you have mentioned then she probably does like you.

[–]Ovadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post would have been upvote worthy if it was a little more detailed, perhaps with an embedded field report, example, and dote, etc...

[–]SadKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TL;DR: OP said fuck girls who have low self-esteem issues or don't fuck 'em -- it's up to you homie.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how do I know if she wants my dick, or just wants something from me. I know a girl now that I think likes me but I'm not one hundred percent sure. She brought her girlfriend roommate to where I was at and everything. However I dont know, I'm just not the kindve guy to assume a girl likes me. Shes actually kindve pretty to. I would definitely fuck her if thats what she wants. Lol kindve like finding out this hot hispanic girl liked me this entire time, I had no idea. I always felt she was top notch, but didn't think she actually liked me or anything. Just thought it was coincidence.

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SO I think I might know a girl who may like me but I am unsure. She is actually somewhat pretty and has a nice phat ass that I like, however she doesnt talk to me all that often. I do like her from a physical standpoint for the most part. Seems to take care of herself, and seems like she comes from a good family. Not sure how I should approach her, or if I should maybe wait for her to come and talk to me and give me her number or something. Her ass and thigh set are spanish thick. Cot damn, just thinking about the possibility that she would want to me fuck on a consistent basis.... Lawdddd......

[–]Abs_Be_Shaking 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I can't be the only one who thinks this is just fucked up.... People are nice to one another because we have empathy.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's flirting. I learned the hard way.

[–]ecosci -4 points-3 points  (1 child)

YEA EXCEPT WHEN SHE GETS YOU IN DEEP SHIT FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT women change emotions all the time its best to be confident and have options dont go around faking badboy moves it can get ya hurt remember women cant love you fully but she will respect you learn female nature these tactics wont work.