Red Pill TheoryThe Personality Trap (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by TRP VanguardArchwinger

The modern blue-pill world wants men to judge women using the same standards by which they judge other men. In short, disregard a woman’s age or appearance, unless she is unusually beautiful or grotesque. Act as though appearance is absolutely no factor for the middle 80% of women. Then, focus entirely on her intellect, her personality, and her accomplishments.

Except for her past sexual “accomplishments” which don’t count, and should not be considered at all. I guess people realize that a history of sluttiness doesn’t really count as an accomplishment for women. Though, they’ll phrase that a little differently by telling you something about equality and sex-positive debauchery being important. But the truth is that fucking guys is pretty damn easy for most girls. So easy, that women take great pains not to bore you by talking about their sexual history. You know, because it’s so boring and unimportant. Out of consideration for you, they don’t mention it. Wouldn’t want to bore you to death with a horrendously boring topic like sex. Are men even interested in that?

Essentially, the modern rules state that men are supposed to disregard the three most important factors of all when gauging whether a woman is relationship material: age, beauty, and sexual history. It’s not that other characteristics are completely unimportant. They make a woman better. But you can’t make lemonade when you have pristine sugar, fresh spring water, and all of your lemons are bloated, wrinkled, rotten, and covered with semen.

But men are supposed to hold their nose and drink the rotten sperm lemonade anyway, then comment how lucky they are to have Evian water in their lemonade instead of the store brand. Because Evian is really classy and spent a summer in France… but she was considerate enough not to bore us with stories about all of the boring stuff she did there.

Is a woman with a kick-ass, pleasant, fun personality better than a bitchy or boring woman? Hell yes. Is a smart woman who can ace college calculus better than a woman who has to move her lips when reading 50 Shades of Gray? You bet. Is a woman who cures cancer better than a woman who can’t cure her own yeast infection? Definitely.

But let me let you guys in on an unpopular secret: Women aren’t actually stupid. In fact, they’re pretty smart, at least as far as their self-interest is concerned.

Women are very, very skilled actresses, and exceptionally accomplished liars. Women know the score. They know what matters to men and what doesn’t. They know what to say and what to do based on what kind of man they’re dealing with. And they know what to say and what to do to figure out what kind of man they’re dealing with.

In fact, the paragraph just above this sentence is pretty much why The Red Pill exists.

Women want men to judge them based on their personality – whether there’s a “spark” or a sense of “chemistry” there – because this is precisely how women hide the ball. A woman’s personality is not who she is. In fact, it's the opposite. A woman's personality is her greatest tool for hiding who she really is. And she is very, very good at it.

I think every guy knew at least one: the cute, virginal, nerdy, girl-next-door that you were friends with back in the day. Maybe you liked her for something more that didn’t pan out, maybe you thought she was out of your league, maybe you didn’t want to ruin her because she didn’t seem like she was into guys or dating or sex. Whatever. But fast forward a few months, maybe a year, and you find out that she’s made her rounds. That she’s “dated” (e.g., blown) half the football team, or that she has a soft spot (e.g., her vagina) for guys who play guitar in local bands, or that she casually fucks most of the guys in her friend circle – all while maintaining the carefully constructed, cute, virginal, nerdy, good-girl persona she presents to the world.

You can’t trust the way a woman seems, because women know the score, and they know what you want to hear. Women aren't people. They're person-like. They're a collection of masks, costumes, songs, dances, and roles. Is there a real person inside of there, somewhere? Maybe. But is that real person actually who she is when she's around you? Maybe not. She casts off that role so easily as soon as she's around somebody different.

A woman’s age will tell you whether she was able to lock down and keep a man, and whether she’s the type of woman who had the discipline and inclination to do so.

A woman’s looks will tell you whether she has the discipline to eat right, work out, groom, and maintain herself.

A woman’s sexual history tells you all about her impulse control, and how she regards men, love, sex, and relationships.

So you're supposed to be a good boy and ignore all of that. You're suppose to focus entirely on a woman’s personality. Because that’s how she hides who she really is.

Whether you feel chemistry, she majored in chemistry, or she won the Nobel prize in chemistry, the real issue is whether she’s hot and how big of a slut-past she must be hiding by babbling on and on about her accomplishments.

Don’t fall into the personality trap. Trap her instead. You want her to be on her best behavior with you, putting on her best mask and her prettiest costume, singing and dancing exactly the song and dance you want to hear, pretending everything you want her to pretend. All while you dangle the carrot just out of her reach, because you know who she really is. Let her think she’s fooling you. Let her think she’s just about to win. Let her think she’s tricked you into believing she’s not a lying slut…while you use her like the slut she is.

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[–]BlackJ1 146 points147 points  (20 children)

I am never disappointed by your posts Archwinger. It's been awhile since the "judge by personality, not by looks" caveat has been addressed here and this explains it perfectly.

Women are FULLY aware of what men like and what they are attracted too. Yet they want to delude themselves to believe otherwise and/or protest you shouldn't care about looks when it's convenient for them.

They sure never complained when they were 18, 10/10, and a virgin. But as soon as they turn 30, decreasing in beauty, and been around the neighborhood with other men it becomes a problem.

However I think it's worth mentioning that religion is another little strategy for women to hide in.

[–]103342 65 points66 points  (17 children)

Honestly, after some of the stuff I've seen and experienced, being very religious and single past 23~25 is actually a red-flag.

[–]thisishowiwrite 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Biggest slut in my high school reined it all back and became a born-again virgin in grade 12. But we knew. We all knew.

[–]Dred 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's because it's usually a sign of their "reclaimed" sanctity.

[–]shadowchicken85 33 points34 points  (3 children)

When I lived in Indonesia I noticed something about Muslim girls. When they are young and not married yet they don't like to wear a Hijab, smoke, drink, rarely or never pray, and hook up (but are never up front about it nor brag.) Yet once they get married or are getting older (past 25) they put on the Hijab, pray everyday, and are over the top with their Islamic beliefs.

So if you meet a single not married Indonesian Hijab wearing woman over the age of 30 chances are she used to be a big slut, and is now in the mood to land a man who will accept her for being a good girl. ;)

[–]Tom_The_Human 20 points21 points  (1 child)

At my university, there was a Muslim girl who even had a picture taken for a naked calendar. A year later, she's married and wears a hijab.

[–]shadowchicken85 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a friend of mine. She used to live in Holland, and she used to have a live in boyfriend (Dutch guy) and they used to have threesomes, she used to pose nude for 'amateur photography', and have swinger parties. After she finished school she moved back to Indonesia, married a businessman, and teaches kids how to read the Quran in Arabic.

Now she preaches against 'free sex' (Indonesians make a huge deal about this) and immoral things like alcohol and drugs.

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[–]hesalop 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Interesting...I know a hot girl like this. Do tell...

[–]103342 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I have so many examples of this shit is not even funny.

I'll just say one: The ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine. VERY religious girl since I've known her (since she was 16), traditional family and all.

She has already taken (that I know!) 4 guys up her asshole. She tried cheating on my friend with me AND with my brother. Fucked one dude in a chemical bathroom in the middle of the carnival...

The girl is now hitting 24 and is church girl more than ever. Walks with her head down and dresses like a nun.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend of mine is a third world development aid worker and told me that prudeness of a country and pervertedness of its inhabitants behave directly proportional to each other.

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    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    so boring what was the point

    [–]hipfash3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    nvg katie

    Didn't get it. Did you ask us to see a porn video?

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    It's not porn. Video will explain how so called religious girl happily bounces on the dick. You're supposed to watch the whole video and not fast forward to sex part.

    [–]redolas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Let me tell you about this girl. She was a wife of a friend. Very religious. Takes her to church to help her deal with depression. He lets her pray by herself, because he isn't religious. She cheats on him with one of the monks there ...

    [–]Letters567 11 points12 points  (1 child)

    However I think it's worth mentioning that religion is another little strategy for women to hide in.

    Are you talking about born again whores?

    [–]disposable_me_0001 60 points61 points  (2 children)

    If I primarily wanted someone with a great personality, I'd get a dog.

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      [–]nevva_Again 54 points55 points  (5 children)

      Except for her past sexual “accomplishments” which don’t count, and should not be considered at all.

      Not only do they tell you to overlook their past sexual ''accomplishments'', these days, they actually shame you into conformity.

      How dare you have standards! This is 2016. And they have a lot of shaming tactics:

      Are you insecure?

      Maybe you have a tiny dick!

      And many others...

      And what makes their shaming tactics so effective is that they have White Knights on their side. Guys who think that helping a girl shaming another guy for having standard will give them a chance with the girl.

      [–][deleted] 66 points67 points  (1 child)

      My 10 year old cousin (girl) told me to "man up" when I wouldn't do one of her chores for her. Lol

      They learn how to shame men young.

      [–]reckful994 46 points47 points  (0 children)

      "Sure thing. Ill 'man up'. Go 'woman up' and fetch me a beer".

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