For all you newbies, this is for you. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by MAX_Fury

  1. Never, never, never stay or return to a woman who has cheated on you. No matter what. It is never worth it, you can't fix it, and you will always regret it if you do it.

  2. Don't change her mind, change her mood.

  3. No woman can fix your happiness or be the main source of it. Get your shit together first and improve yourself.

  4. Don't deal with a shitty women. Ever.

  5. Don't be ashamed of your sexual desires or think that girls don't want sex and have to be 'convinced' into having sex with you. When it comes to sex, men are like an on-off switch, women are like a volume knob.

  6. The amount of girls that want their hair pulled, ass slapped, and to be told what to do in bed is astounding.

  7. The guys who are banging girls out of their league are doing it because they went for it.

  8. Look at how she treats her parents/friends.

  9. You need to be BOLD. The sting of rejection is nothing compared to the sting of regret.

  10. Don't feed them with compliments, leave it to the betas. Your eyes should do the talking when she dazzles in that dress.

  11. You want to touch her, she wants to be touched. Be unapologetic about it. Talk simultaneously while you do kino.

  12. Be ready to walk away from any relationship. This also applies to real life, if something doesn't seem right, walk.

  13. Be always less invested than she is. You hold the power.

  14. You can't build attraction over text, use texting for logistics. The face to face interaction is what you need to seek.

  15. Do not make a woman your goal. You're on your own path and she can just join you.

  16. Don't mate guard.

  17. Treat women like human beings, not goddesses.

  18. Women treat relationships like men treat jobs. You may have a fine job--decent pay, vacation, just got a promotion, whatever. You're thinking, "Yeah, I'll probably stick around awhile". Then somebody comes up and asks if you want to be an astronaut at triple your current pay. You couldn't put in your resignation fast enough.

  19. A monkey doesn't let go of the branch its on until it has another branch in hand.

  20. Swing at everything, you miss 100% of the chances you don't take. There are no special snowflakes, they're turning 18 everyday.

  21. If you want true love, get a dog.

  22. She's not yours, it's only your turn.

  23. Hookers cost less than girlfriends and go away when you tell them to. Just saying.

  24. They have their mobile phones near them at ALL times, and i mean ALL, no matter what they are doing (or what is being done to them). if they want to contact you immediately, they can and will. so if you message them and they do not text you back until a few days later, they are deliberately ignoring your ass.

  25. It doesn't matter how long you've been with a woman, how many memories you have together, or how much effort you've put in...she will forget you in less than a week and move onto the next guy.

  26. Women want someone to take care of them but they want to feel like they are taking care of themselves

  27. Dont stick your dick in crazy (trust me) and wrap your shit

  28. What women truly want is value. They want a combination of things that excite their dopamine receptors, none of which come directly from you loving her. She wants your value; your status, your wealth, your protection, and your comfort.

  29. Don't forget to lift :)

[–]Il128 266 points266 points [recovered]

  1. If she's making out with you on the first date always try and progress the sex. The number of guys who get Nexted because THEY didn't fuck on the first date is mind boggling!

[–]thor_meaway 102 points103 points  (2 children)

This hit home hard

I learned my lesson

[–]Monsterpiece42 57 points58 points  (1 child)

Yep, had a date with this girl once. I thought it went great. She texted "sorry you weren't interested." soon as I drove away. Never heard from her again.

[–]kinklianekoff 38 points39 points  (8 children)

A rejected sexual advance will rarely hurt your chances, with the huge caveat of it being calibrated properly.

[–]Il128 79 points79 points [recovered]

Escalation isn't rocket science. Failure to escalate when she thinks you're alpha is disaster.

[–]Hyokaji 24 points25 points  (2 children)

Experienced this recently, fuck me.

[–]firedum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Old post, but just happened to me. Shit.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (2 children)

it will never hurt your chances.

She will say no because she's completely not into you. This saves you time and is a huge favor.

-or- She will say no because she's making you wait. This is OK, you can calculate how much waiting is worth to you and how long you want to wait. But she'll view you as a sexual being and she will know you're connecting on a sexual level. If she turns that into indefinite waiting it's up to you to cut bait and move on.

If she's going to think "eww, what a creep he wanted to have sex with me" ... fuck that. Move on.

[–]Physio_Tool 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Me and my bro have had several occasions where have escalated down to top off and tit sucking but no sex. plowed too hard so girl got cold feet on next meetup "oh no, im gonna be expected to put out" so they dont meet. The lesson is, dont push too hard past her resistance. A hand full of attempts is worth a try, after that its ruining future dates and u can blow out

[–]epixs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i too learned this the hard way.

[–]frerri 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Can comfirm. I got nexted becaus I didint push through LMR. LMR is the final shit test.

[–]vipernick913 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup definitely learned this the hard way.

[–]idontwanttostart 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Unless. Unless they are stinky. I just can't do it B. HOT as fuck? Great! HOT as fuck but stinky? Noooooo.....I'm out

[–]mugatucrazypills 7 points8 points  (1 child)

"Your nose knows", trust Toucan Sam on that

[–]idontwanttostart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lolol that niga used to say "follow your nose"....yeah...follow it right the fuck away from her.Lolol

[–]Tatersalad99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meh don't stick your dick in a crazy though.

[–]thor_meaway 279 points280 points  (13 children)

45. Look at her actions, not her words

[–]StupidButSerious 102 points103 points  (10 children)

46. Don't try to reason with woman.

[–]Redasshole 20 points21 points  (7 children)

Don't even listen to what they say, they have nothing interesting to say most of the time, or they try to manipulate you with their words, or it's just drama and you will have better answers to your questions by watching their behavior without asking anything.

[–]DforDeadpool 10 points11 points  (5 children)

As I say, man up and do what your old man does. Don't listen to women.