Red Pill Example"Don't Be Afraid to Dominate" (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Senior ContributorOmLaLa

"Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"

I used to see this cute chick named Suzy.

We’d been seeing each other for the past few months. We’d met during the creation of the original version of “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating”.

She was… the dominant type. She’d step on any man who’d give her the chance. But I respected her for that, even more so for her brutal honesty on the matter.

“If he’s dumb enough to buy some random girl he barely knows a Tiffany bracelet, I’d be dumb not to take it. Anybody’d do the same and spin it like they’ve earned it. Morality? I can’t pawn morality.”

Well, she wasn’t wrong.

She didn’t want a serious relationship, so our relationship was strictly sexual.

Over time, with careful frame control, dominance and a touch of influence, she became one of the most submissive woman I’ve ever met.

She would bring a meal every single time she’d stop by, wait quietly for sex and leave as soon as it was over.

You may say she sounds trained. I see it moreso as discipline.

She kicked at being dominated at first. Hard. And it was by no means a delicate process. But she ultimately adapted and grew to like our established roles.

Well anyways, I received an email recently with her resignation.

I’d like to share it with you all to show the positive qualities real dominance can have on a woman under the vein of mutual beneficence.

redactedname [[email protected]] 2:02 PM (1 hour ago)


I do believe in marriage and monogamy. I want the fairy tale ending and true love. Yes, I do understand that life happens and people get divorced like my parents.

But no matter how hard I try not to accept it, I still believe in it.

I know Im an asshole to most people that don't understand me. I love family and I am all about it. I am the baby of two older siblings so I don't like to share at all.

Also you made a comment that I’m obedient now.

That's because thanks to you my level of confidence has changed. I have been racking my mind trying to figure out why would you pick me?

But yu made me realize I do have worth and deserve to be loved. I thank you for introducing me into your world because it has pushed me passed my comfort zone. Also hanging out with you has been amazing and one of the most honest experiences that I have ever had.

-[redacted] xoxox

I’m sure she’s left for reasons other than marriage and monogamy, I’m not mourning the loss of her, nor am I valuing these words alone as anything more than chaff.

The real takeaway here is that through submission, she's benefited in kind.

She’s reached a level of discipline she never would have gained on her own, all taught while putting myself first.

Now my turn is over. She’ll live a better life from what I’ve instilled in her and I walk away with a better sense of what I’m capable of.

So don’t be afraid to dominate. To lead. To get rough, get dirty or push limits. So long as it’s done correctly, they’ll ultimately thank you for it.

[–][deleted] 144 points145 points  (31 children)

Have you made a guide on implementing this type of dominance that I can read?

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 401 points402 points  (29 children)

No, but if this article is well received I can.

[–]Bewboi 86 points86 points [recovered]

I for one would definitely appreciate a post like that. Strike while the iron is hot.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 93 points94 points  (5 children)


Welp, the community has definitely spoken.

Okay. I'll do it.

But it's going to take some time.

When making a guide on something like dominance, there'll be a LOT of variables to consider. Plus since it was so adamantly requested, I want to do this right.

I'd say expected something on par in scale with my Online Dating guide by sometime next week.

Until then RPers.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Please let me know when you can do a skype session. I would greatly appreciate it. OmLaLa, the prophet of poon. Haha. You are a great asset to this community. I really, really, appreciate all your hard work with your guides and posts! Great to have you here.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's great to be here. I'll be in touch shortly.

[–]BradPill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me know if you need help proofreading, editing etc.

[–]2IVIaskerade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still looking for video material? Pimp yo channel, son.

[–]exotictantra 17 points18 points  (0 children)

same here. I am doing it by instinct, a guide will give me some metrics to judge against

[–]NihilDicoAmplius 12 points13 points  (0 children)

please do, I would be very interested

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That'd be greatly appreciated.

[–]elchucknorris300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd enjoy that reading that. I'm in that exact situation and don't know how to handle it.

[–]TomilloDanup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes please. I've been learning a lot from your posts.

[–]Jani1157 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah please get on that, I like the strategy posts you do

[–]DeltaRecon2552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people want it. I sure as hell do.

[–]suuupreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds good, I'd love to read it.

[–]fingerthemoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be interested to read what you have to say in regards to specific tactics on how to dominate a woman so that you both benefit.

Ass far as I can see there are many variables with every situation being unique. Distilling it all down into usable concepts would be impressive.

[–]momomotorboat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This article is well received. You can proceed.

[–]Firespit 6 points7 points  (1 child)

How many upvotes do you require? Is 666 enough?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No upvotes needed sir only understanding. I'll take anything I can get my hands on to help change my way of thinking for the better.

[–]Late30sMasculist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, but if this article is well received I can.

I'd love to read such a guide. IME, I have attained that "dominant frame" you write about with several different women. There are some though that, as you say, "Like to kick hard" against it. I generally just walk from them because I figure it's not worth the hassle. I'd love to read some of your insights on taming such women. Maybe I can learn something.

[–]BradPill 47 points48 points