Field Report"...And Candy Cheats Again" (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Senior ContributorOmLaLa

TL;DR- A girl who cheated on me cheats with me.

“…And Candy Cheats Again”

“It is necessary to the happiness of man that he be mentally faithful to himself. Infidelity does not consist in believing, or in disbelieving, it consists in professing to believe what he does not believe.” ― Thomas Paine, The Age of Reason

I dated this cute chick named “Candy”.

Together almost 6 months just as TRP really started to click. One post had me thoroughly convinced LTRs were stupid. Still believe it to this day. I think it was one of u/Whisper ‘s posts. Love the guy. Smart shit.

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that. No call, no text. Just stopped seeing her. Hurt like shit but it had to be done. Think she was cheating with some Chad, shit like that. Focused on me, moved on.

So last week me and Fine China [Plate] went to the mall and bump into Candy. She's with some guy. Mike I think. We kept it brief and left.

She called that night. Wanted to talk about ”us”. Wanted “closure”. Says she looks at our pictures and thinks of me. Asks if I do the same. Nope. I’ve moved on. She hung up.

Next day she’s at my door. Won’t leave ‘til I talk to her. But what about Mike? “We’re just talking. We’re not together like that.” Okay, sure. I hear her out.

She goes on about the good times we had. How nice our time was together. She misses the “old” me. The "me" that put up with her shit. That bought her shit because “that’s what guys are supposed to do”. That came by Every. Single. Fucking. Day. for hooours on end just cause that’s what a ”good boyfriend” does.

That guy’s been dead a while now. Tough break.

She had to ask who Fine China is to me. Like a cheap cologne I could smell that jealousy a mile away. “Are you two dating now?” “Is she better than me?” I tell her we're just fucking and we hang out sometimes. And yeah she’s better. She cooks for me. Candy never did that shit.

That bugged her. She threatens to leave. Says she doesn’t have to put up with being insulted. I open the door. Say I don’t do games. You asked for my opinion, I gave it. Now leave or don’t. She leaves.

So that night she’s at my door again. Fine China’s over so we talk outside.

“I don’t know if I can ever see you as a boyfriend again…but I think we should at least be friends.” Okay? Ask her what kind of friends. “Friends that, you know… 'do stuff'.” She means fuck.

She asks if we can “do stuff” tonight. Fine China’s over, another time.

The next night she’s at my door, we “do stuff”, she’s asleep. Her phone goes off like 5 times. It’s Mike. I read a few texts. He’s her boyfriend. Poor guy had no idea.

Best part? She’s got me listed as her best friend “Miranda”. She told him Miranda was going through some shit and needed a “true friend” tonight. I’m Chad now.

LL- Through overcoming a woman’s perceptions of your former self and all her shit tests that’ll accommodated those opinions, you can ideally fit any role in which she deems you suitable. Past is harder to overcome than simply starting fresh with a new woman, but it can be done with time, frame, consistency and most importantly through dominance/control of the situation.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 239 points240 points  (50 children)

It's such a satisfying aspect of women's caprice - that is, if she ever cheats on you, you can bet your ass she's going to cheat on the guy she cheated on you with.

It's almost never as personal as the guy on the receiving end tends to think it is. It comes from habitually giving women way too much credit that they never deserved. Most of the time, the infidelity has nothing to do with our guy or his qualities, she's just "being herself"...

[–][deleted] 156 points157 points  (4 children)

good to see you're not holding them back from discovering themselves, that would have made you a misogynist

[–]newls 2 points3 points  (3 children)

As a side note I find it amusing that whenever somebody here regales about how their ex said they wanted to "discover themselves and who they are", nearly all of the new guys reading it say "holy shit that's exactly what my ex said, word for word".

Is this phrase a thing among women? Or are all hamsters just as homogeneous as we say they are?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

women for the most part defend each other even if they dont know each other and if they are obviously in the wrong. they will also do it for the government. this is toxic femininity, the consensus reality, hive mind borg collective

[–]Mr_Andry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While this is true, women are also the most vicious when in competition with other women. This is hugely beneficial to a man, as long as he can be subtle about inducing the competitive spirit within her.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c 169 points170 points  (89 children)

The first time I realized I was being Chad was a transcendent moment for me. One of those "holy fuck, I can see everything clearly" kind of moments.

I wasn't even trying to be Chad, just applying red pill principles. That's the moment you finally see first-hand the machinery underneath the guise we call "romance" or "love" or whatever. The script of male/female human mating behavior, humming away like clockwork. The moment it goes from being theory to your reality.

[–]IGoYouStayTwoAutumns 43 points44 points  (16 children)

This should be its own post right here, with comments galore. "Tell us about the first time you realized YOU WERE CHAD"...

[–]hirjd 24 points25 points  (1 child)

You can be like chad but you will never actually be THE chad. Ive heard enough blasphemy today. Praise his thunder.

[–]2SidedTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The praise his thunder made me actually lol

[–]ilikeurbootyimnotgay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When her husband called that I didn't know about. Oops.

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[–]blacwidonsfw 15 points16 points  (4 children)

I keep weekends open cause I'd rather go out with my buddies and meet new chicks then re-do old ones.

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[–]blacwidonsfw 14 points15 points  (2 children)

I get the biggest and only Shit tests from long term plates for it. "Why don't you ever have time for me on the weekend? why don't you ever take me anywhere on trips like you do with your friends?"

[–]IGoYouStayTwoAutumns 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Classic line from GOODFELLAS: "Saturday night was for wives, but Friday night at the Copa was always for the girlfriends..."

[–]CacTye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When her husband called, knew she had driven six hours to have dinner with me and go to a swank hotel, and believed her when she told him we were just friends.

[–]dotadodger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was 17 and someone gave me a list of 7 girls who wanted me.

[–]J_Dizzle1000 -3 points-2 points  (3 children)

I have a friend who will find a cute girl he wants to hook up with, will put in work for a week and then find out I was fucking them after he was trying hard to get with them.

Also had a few times in my frat where I would bang a chick in my room while her "bf" was at the party drunk.

Makes me wonder how many times shit like that has happened to me though.

[–]Syzmatiq 9 points9 points [recovered]

NGL dude, that makes you seem like an asshole. If he's your actual friend, don't do shit like that. Bro's aren't people you should fuck with. You don't seem like 'Chad', you seem like a cunt.

[–]J_Dizzle1000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, but I can't help it if I find out after I hit that he's been trying too. Plus all our friends know if I bring girls around they have first crack at it, but if they're striking out, I take a shot at it.

I have friends who have girls that have tried to hook up with me I always turn them down and let my friends know. I ain't about that bad karma. Got me back once a few years ago and I learned my lesson.

[–]Luckyluke23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just all the same man.... i mean if you can do it then someonw else can do it to you.

Just dont get but hurt when it happeneds and know you are going to loose a few on the way.

[–]1neveragoodtime 32 points33 points  (1 child)

That was a brief moment for me. I was in an LTR, told her I wasn't going to be exclusive any more and she didn't care. I started fucking this other girl who knew I was fucking others and didn't care. The LTR asks if I'm fucking new girl, and like an idiot, I lie "no." Pretty much stopped talking to her after that, but I'm quite confident if I had been a man and said "hell yeah," I would have been on the path to a threesome. Exhibit brutal and consistent honesty with women like OP and you will be shocked by how much they let you get away with and want more.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (9 children)

Seriously, it feels like being Socrates in his time where his beliefs were considered a threat to the state. Or Copernicus and Galileo's discoveries being considered "heretical" to the church.

These men were that tiny fringe portion of the populous who had uncovered this unknown knowledge for the first time that very few people knew or understood. They were seeing their theories and understandings of reality unfold before them repeatedly under the nose of the ignorant masses.

TRP and its principles have a very similar dynamic. We're seeing everything unfold and as you say witnessing these theories "humming away like clockwork" while TBP masses stand on the sidelines and shout "misogynist" "woman hater" and other things; much like the Athenian court condemning Socrates or those who followed the church condemning scientific discoveries in the enlightenment.

[–]Elodrian 6 points7 points  (8 children)

Socrates drank hemlock and Galileo spent his life under house arrest...

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (3 children)

You're missing my point. Whatever happened to them; fact is the masses demonized their beliefs as "heretical" even though they were the truth because they wanted to hold on to the fantasy that the church or state created for them.

Just like Blue pillers who want to hold on to their blue pill beliefs and demonize those who took the red pill and took in this newly found knowledge.

[–]Elodrian 9 points10 points  (2 children)

I get that. My point is that the heretical truth tellers might be exonerated by history but things tend to go poorly for them within their own lifetimes.

[–]warjesus420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you had white knights or other blue pillers "burn you" online. That's today's equivalent

[–]trpftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case you're right, I wouldn't compare myself or anyone in TRP to those great minds of the past. I'd simply consider us smart cunning men who figured shit out while being constantly criticized by society.

[–]StrokeGameHusky 4 points5 points  (3 children)

when being "Alpha" goes wrong....

[–]NidStyles 5 points6 points  (2 children)

A lot of alphas need to learn to just keep their mouths shut.

[–]Mr_Andry 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It takes a strong man to be able to smile and not reply.

Sigh. I'm not that strong yet, but it's a goal.

[–]NidStyles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't even have to smile. Just be able to look them in their eyes. Know the limits that you will allow and stand to them. Mine is physical violence. Nothing matters until that happens. Keep your mouth shut until then, and then you should have better things to do than run your mouth.

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[–]RealRational 16 points17 points  (6 children)

I find that you have to be at a pretty stable place mentally to be able to handle acid. And on a related note, a lot of girls can not handle acid.

lol, yeah. I find that to be the case with all psychedelics. Your Ego wants to fight the trip, but you cannot beat the trip. Either you yield or you have a terrible experience.

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[–]RealRational 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Unless you have some cool ass chicks it's usually better as a guys-only sort of thing.

Completely agreed, I do know one girl who's hot and "chill" enough to do stuff like that. I like her a lot, but sometimes knowing her is depressing cause it acts as a reminder that literally every other female I've ever known is, by comparison, terrible.

[–]RealRational 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I just noticed your username too, assuming that's a reference to the games. How cool would it be if you turned out to be one of the developers, haha.

[–]kaspell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true. Even at my worst hallucinagens have been like my annual trip to church. Spiritual in good ways... and fun. The only time I experienced some with a gf and she freaked out and tried to ruin my trip. SHe was not prepared for the beach

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

So... what was the activity?

[–]NidStyles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen the same dynamic with lsd. There are a lot of people out there that shouldn't touch it. I pretty much used to swim in the stuff, as it was the only drug I have ever actually enjoyed myself on. The rest make me feel sick or paranoid.

[–]_the_shape_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of girls that I've tripped with can not handle acid.

What girl would want to take a drug that shows her her own hamster in all its glory?

[–]rpdoomed 62 points62 points [recovered]

I was fucking a plate, and one night I got done, got up, and I saw a picture of her and her boyfriend, who was in the army and away on deployment. I laughed, and I realized I had become Chad and Jodie all at the same time.

[–]Dude219 25 points26 points  (36 children)

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[–]1Dis_mah_mobile_one 20 points21 points  (10 children)

You could easily amend that to "not be in a serious relationship while in the military" and it'd be totally valid.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 25 points26 points  (9 children)

LTRs can be discarded and replaced with no damage other than the emotional. Marriage, not so much.

[–]1Dis_mah_mobile_one 8 points9 points  (7 children)

Most LTRs. I'm in my early 20s, and though I have no plans of forming an LTR anytime soon and will never get married) I'm still thinking over how to raise a family with as little risk as possible.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 8 points9 points  (6 children)

Cohabitation. Raise children without a marital contract.

[–]1Dis_mah_mobile_one 2 points3 points  (2 children)

It's going to be some variation of that. I'm thinking more on legal aspects, asset division/retention, LTR game, qualities for a potential LTR, etc.

[–]trpftw 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yes do it. Once you figure it out make sure to make a guide for the rest of us and then help raise a generation of red pillers, we'll call it the 2nd wave of redpill.

If you can make a better legal contract that would be great too. We could call it a "relationship union contract." Suddenly we destroy the institution of marriage, and it won't be the gay guys that destroyed it.

[–]Precocious_Kid -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Common law marriage is ten years.

[–]isthatyoujonwayne 5 points6 points  (1 child)


It varies by country and the 9 states that actually have it as a law, but living together for 10 years does not make you defacto husband and wife.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why NEXT applies universally in LTR s when she isn't living up to her end.

Marriage shackles a man as NEXT has serious implications for his children.

Did I warn you guys yet? Do not get married

[–]StrokeGameHusky 17 points18 points  (16 children)

I'm quite sure I don't have to tell you this, but don't marry a military chick. It's like marrying a soriety ho, but instead she was bunking with 95% dudes for 2+ years, and MMFs in abundance.

Source: plated an AF chick, great sex, but wanted me to punch her in the face while fucking. Also, wrap ur dick.

[–]Dude219 8 points9 points  (15 children)

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[–]StrokeGameHusky 6 points7 points  (8 children)

I am not from a military background, (tried but can't do to a digestive disease) but I always keep in mind most military chicks have a very male mindset. The plate of mine did, she messaged me on fb, I fucked her that night. No longer playing her bc she became very possessive/jealous (male mindset)

I have never knowingly been Jodie, bc I try and respect the military as much as possible, when it comes to other men, I try to live by the golden rule as much as possible (do unto other as you would have them do unto you)

You are right about the socially awkward/loser type. She mentioned this many times. She probably enlisted expecting them to all be captain America Chads...

[–]Dude219 6 points7 points  (7 children)

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[–]rpdoomed 2 points2 points [recovered]

I fucked the chick I mentioned earlier a few more times, but since my brother just graduated from the AF academy, and I have 3 close relatives in the marines, I couldn't keep doing it.

I'm not saying everyone can't do it, but I couldn't.

[–]StrokeGameHusky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Up to you at that point. Not my cup of tea either. There's plenty of single options. And the cheating thing makes it exciting, but not one of my kinks.

[–]Dude219 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your little brother cock blocked you. Traitor.

[–]StrokeGameHusky 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Well being surrounded by men most times of day, made to wear the same uniform of a man, and going thru the extract same training and treatment as a man, may have an effect on most women.

This chick hit me up on fb, go to her house, she suggested power hour, got drunk and fucked. She went thru the steps most men go thru to get laid. I had worked w her when she was 18 and had a bf, 4 years ago.

She later got fake tits, nips pierced, they came out very nice. I Have pics to confirm of course

[–]UniversalFapture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pics of tits or it didn't happen

[–]n8dawwg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. After I finished AF basic and went to tech school, there was about 350 newbs that came in that week. OF those 350, I would say only about 40-50 were women. Most definetely there were tons of fucking losers. This one guy was about 27 years old and got arrested for stealing YuGiOh cards fromt he base BX.......... fucking loser.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (4 children)

You are in Charleston, aren't ya! Lots of sluts on and around that base, ah the memories of mammarys. I would guess you're Travis, but he got married to a thick girl... So it can't be you.

[–]Dude219 2 points3 points  (3 children)

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Username is similar to his nickname, and it's obviously Goose Creek when you say Navy nuke. Dorchester Ave and the South end of 526 still full of complete idiots?

[–]Dude219 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, once you can get out and do stuff Charleston can be fun, but the drivers suck. Worst in the world, no bullshit. Have a jarhead bud who is a Citadel grad, he grew up in West Ashley, not far from you.

[–]UniversalFapture -1 points0 points  (4 children)

Ouch bro! That guy is defending our country. You don't mean to tell me you didn't feel a little bad?

[–]Dude219 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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[–]UniversalFapture 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Whoops. Did i reply to you?

[–]RobertCarraway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Couple years back I turned down the opportunity to be Jodie. Buddy was giving us both a ride back to my place and I said screw it - take her home - I'm not going to do it. I don't really blame men for going for it, but we talk a lot about brotherhood here, and for those of us who are legitimately disgusted by this culture a good course of action is to get her to be ready to cheat on him with you and then humiliate her by turning her down. She then suffers all the shame of being ready to cheat combined with the shame of rejection without any sexual pay-off.

Screw these hoes, I get more fulfillment from being an honorable man who has enough opportunities with women that I can afford to put cheating hoes in their place. This is much more rewarding than an orgasm.

[–]UniversalFapture -2 points-1 points  (6 children)

That Man is defending out country. You don't mean to tell me you didn't feel just a little bit bad? I know you didn't know at first, but come on bruh.

[–]areyounew 2 points2 points [recovered]

Defending the country from who? What a stupid comment.

[–]UniversalFapture -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Whoever our enemy may be. How is that stupid ? Your a moron if you lack respect for a soldier. Nobody wants to be gone so long. Nobody wants to be put in harms way. If it weren't for war we'd be probably be speaking German right now

[–]Mr_Andry 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I don't mean to disparage men and women of the military, but they are not defending our country, or freedom, or any of that. They are mostly defending certain international business interests.

When an opposing military force starts threatening our borders, then we might be able to again say they are defending their country.

[–]UniversalFapture 1 point2 points  (2 children)

What international business interest? Explain

[–]Mr_Andry 2 points3 points  (1 child)

  • Military industrial complex
  • Oil conglomerates
  • Construction contractors
  • Wide variety of smaller companies who can sell in markets that get forced open

Remember these two facts:

  1. The US has the largest economy in the world by far. With a population of 320 million, the US GDP is 7 trillion ahead of China who has a population of 1.3 BILLION.
  2. The US has the largest military in the world by far. More than the next ten countries combined.

The US has more military bases around the world than anybody in history, yet we aren't rushing into Syria to stop the violence. Nor do we rush into the African nations where there is violence. Nor are we rushing to crush IS. Occasionally the world pressures us to contribute to those causes, but the area we really rush to put boots on the ground are the countries that we can exploit for resources.

[–]UniversalFapture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. But still. I rather we have control than be punked & pushed around

[–]ReclusiveHermit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

finally see first-hand the machinery underneath the guise we call "romance" or "love" or whatever. The script of male/female human mating behavior, humming away like clockwork.

It's an amazing realization. Everything we hold dear about "romance" and "love" is just the product of 50+ years of marketing.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 159 points160 points  (18 children)

This field report illustrates a very important principle:

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Remember, women are constantly surrounded by men who are looking for an opportunity to get with them. Women don't have to go out of their way to get male attention. So when they do, something is up.

Candy didn't have to come over multiple times. She didn't have to talk with you. She didn't have to interact with you at all.

She came because she was impelled to by her biology. She was testing a theory that she wasn't even consciously aware of. The theory that you are a Chad that she let slip through her fingers.

Now that she has re-categorized you, you are free to use her as you see fit. So, do just that. If you want her to continue serving you in this way, never let her believe she is satisfying you more than any other girl you're seeing. Tell her she's "doing all right," with a tone of mild disinterest. Make her work for even the smallest compliments. She now works for YOUR satisfaction, and if she fails to do so, she knows that you've got Fine China (and who knows how many other girl) lining up to make a fool of her.

Congratulations. You are The Chad now.

[–]Kaelteth 40 points41 points  (1 child)

Exactly true.

I have an ex in my past (way past, since I'm married 20+ years now) named Amy. Amy sucks dick like a champ, but is otherwise a typical well-past-wall single mom of 4 from 3 different baby daddies that might have once been a HB7 but has long since slid into a 4-5 at best.

Amy goes through a cycle of purging me from her life, and then months later coming back, looking for me to leave the wife (or not) and ride the D. I refuse, she gets offended, purge, and the cycle keeps going. I don't ever initiate any contact, its always her, always "innocent", and then always about wanting to take the dick out for a ride.

When she comes to me, sex is always on the table. Same with any woman that voluntarily comes and approaches you...she WANTS to fuck.

Be Chad :)

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 26 points27 points  (5 children)

The medium is the message. The fact she is approaching you is the message. Watch what she does, not what she says.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (3 children)

That's one of the best articles I've ever read. Changed the way I view just about every situation

[–]four20wenty 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Please tell which article you're referring to, kind sir.

[–]futuremo 10 points11 points  (1 child)

[–]trpftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very intriguing. One thing though the blog seems to say that covert comms are "a different form" but in my opinion the women's preference for covert comms comes from evolutionary fear. Rejection, abandonment, left-behind, lack of attention, that is what women fear. They learned to use psychology as children because doing it like a rational man in a frank manner will immediately lead to devastating consequences of depriving them of resources. They are built by evolution to avoid confrontation, use passive-aggressiveness, and to dodge any male rage that could be directed onto them.

Could you imagine a tribal cavegirl communicating overtly her hatred at something established in the village to the tribal chieftain or expressing that to the chieftains wife? What do you think happened to those rational talking women?

[–]StrokeGameHusky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. "The medium is the message"

She didn't have to talk to you face to face. At your home. At night.

She could've easily had texted you/called you to get the "information" she needed.

She wanted to speak to you f2f, so she could see you again, watch your reactions, and in her case, hopefully get fucked.

Source: BA in Communication Studies

[–]BowlOfCandy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Too many male hamsters overlook this principle based on the expectation of always having to initiate. This rhetoric only serves to challenge your abundance mentality. There is nothing wrong with initiating, but you have to know your worth - your time.

Female sexual strategy is based on them having something we want, (sex), and them giving it out selectively to maintain it as a high quality commodity in the supply/demand chain. That is their frame, if you align to it you "get" what you "work" for.

You must define the context of the relationship, not her.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

This was a big realization for me. Literally a 100% correlation between a text from a girl and us fucking within 48 hours. They just have to save face by using symbols and placeholders ("we're just getting coffee").

Let's get coffee never means coffee.

[–]TaeTaeDS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The most important bit about the re-categorizing it is that you have to think it yourself. It's no point acting like you're Chad T because you've gone monk mode or something but you have to believe it yourself. You got to tell yourself you are and believe it.

[–]Zerwas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

These are true words of wisdom!

In college I met the roommate of a friend for and went to a party with her.

After that she did a surprise visit on my birthday. Needless to say she brought a personal gift.

Also: When you are aware of this any potential fear of rejection is obsolete.

[–]1aguy01 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Strongly disagree.. women love to 'interact' with their orbiters, by asking for favors and complaining about their problems.

[–]willowhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, except if her orbiters where cold ass fuck with her and "opened the door to leave" she wouldn't be banging to get let back it. Quick whine, there back orbiting extra hard. Or she gains extra validation from other orbiters and the old one trys to claw back in.

[–]Mr_Andry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Context matters. If you're not an orbiter, then the point applies. If you're her good friend who listens and comforts her after some alpha kicks her out the door, then yeah the point doesn't apply to you.

[–]bea5tly 75 points75 points [recovered]

In society today you either die a BP or live long enough to be a Chad.

Good read, I love how easy girls with bfs are. Its like no commitment either which I love. The biggest chad moment I've had was picking a girl up from work, getting a blowjob while driving and came in her mouth. Then dropped her off to her house with her bf outside waving. And I saw him kiss her.

[–]Trpidation 9 points10 points  (2 children)

The biggest chad moment I've had was picking a girl up from work, getting a blowjob while driving and came in her mouth. Then dropped her off to her house with her bf outside waving. And I saw him kiss her.

Mind sharing a bit more on this? I'm curious how all this went down, no pun intended. What was the relationship between you and this chick? What happened in the car leading up to the skinflute symphony?

[–]bea5tly 4 points5 points  (1 child)

The relationship was we drunkly hooked up once and we were just snapchat friends (I always seen her mirin my snaps). Then one day she said she needed a ride home and I told her ok but your going to give me a bj. She agreed and that was that. TBH I didn't know she had a bf til I dropped her off. She told me later she told her bf that I am her best guy friend and he didnt need to get her that day as I was already in the area.

[–]Trpidation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol that's fucking classic. Excellent work, sir, I'll be using this as a reference.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 30 points31 points  (7 children)

What people here will find is that when their ex dumps them for being beta and branch swings to chad(s), chad pumps and dumps her, then she goes looking for beta bob for security. This is the time she will most likely reach out to you and you can test TRP.

Chad theory/instructional posts coming soon to a screen near you.

[–]GrandmasterHurricane 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Nah dude. Honestly, the best thing to do is bypass her altogether. If a girl dumps you for Chad, she probably had already fucked him.

You need to have self respect and completely erase her from your life for life.

[–]Muhguul 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Nothing makes me respect myself more than making sluts feel stupid, so I would fuck her, then chuck her.

[–]GrandmasterHurricane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an ex that cheated on me with her "best friend". The dude she told me not to worry about because "we're just frans". He played her and she came crawling back after she left me.

Never took her back or asked her why she cheated. I deleted her off FB without blocking her and went no contact. I have a new number since then. It's been 3 years and she still attempts to talk to me via FB every now and then even though she has a bf. I'm the only person who ever walked out of her life like that.

I left a hole in her soul that no amount of cocks or material things can fill.

[–]Nebulose11 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I think you should design some matching pants/jackets to go with GLOs shirts. The two of you combined bring a fantastic knowledge database to TRP.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You (u/dr_warlock) and u/GayLubeOil could also make them "GLO"-in-the dark.

That'd be neat.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bluepillers called me a 'second rate GLO' in their sub awhile ago lol.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 50 points51 points  (14 children)

Good shit. It's kind of funny how fast the transition can be. Chad is the caricature of the uber alpha, a non-existent entity that just exemplifies our ideas. Going from being a beta that gets walked all over, however, to the guy women are willing to cheat on their boyfriends with can happen rather quickly.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 30 points31 points  (6 children)

I have two posts in queue about (1) what I learned from being chad and (2)how to test TRP with your exgf (be her chad). It is the most important experience newbs will acquire and is a major eye opener, especially if she was his innocent unicorn who was a prude in bed.

[–]fpsdr0p 3 points4 points  (4 children)

are you going to be posting it soon? would love to read it

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 30 points31 points  (3 children)

Still working on it and will require at least two posts due to the character count limit. It's very extensive, detailing what to expect her to say (and the alternatives), why she says it, what her thought process is, how to arrange a meetup, how you should respond and why you should respond that way, the mindset you need, the new feelings that it will evoke and how to deal with them, how to counteract asd and lmr, how to fuck her correctly, how to act right after sex, how to leave the scene post coitus, and how to make it FWB.

[–]fpsdr0p 10 points11 points  (0 children)

can't wait to read it bro. will keep an eye out for it.

[–]thefisherman1961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really looking forward to reading those.

[–]Jaghiro 11 points12 points  (1 child)

While reading your text, I always thought "His name was Robert Paulson"

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His name is Chad McThundercock.
His name is Chad McThundercock.
His name is Chad McThundercock.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Lol, really?? Quickly?? I wish someone would've told me that sooner

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah man. A big part of it is the little mental switch over from "I'm a beta nice guy" to "I'm the Chad". Telling yourself you are the former cements the idea that you always will be. You can't really get far until you change your mindset from "I'm a loser" to "I'm a winner".

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

labels are important. Don't let someone label you as Beta Brad, or unsuccessful, or limited. Once you accept the label, you accept the frame. It will color the entire way you view your opportunities.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going from being a beta that gets walked all over, however, to the guy women are willing to cheat on their boyfriends with can happen rather quickly.

And back the other direction even quicker. I just realized that I was Chad with the girl I lost my V-card to, and in beta limbo within a few weeks.

[–]Dre995 42 points42 points [recovered]

I am become chad, the destroyer of vagina

[–]London-Bananas 2 points2 points [recovered]

"I think we all thought that in that moment, one way or another"

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 19 points20 points  (2 children)

Time to add to my growing list of red flags:

Chicks named after carbs.

[–]xfLyFPS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Add chicks with stripper names.

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (6 children)

Its often said its much easier to start over with a new woman then to change an old ones perception that you "turned alpha from beta"

While thats true, OP shows how its done. Preselection, negging, holding frame, and abundance mentality.

Well done you could've ended up like Mike.

Dont be Mike

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS 11 points12 points  (4 children)

Plate to GF is a common and uncomplicated transition.

GF directly to plate usually doesn't happen in one step though. There needs to be a breakup "reset period" after which a new relationship is started on the new terms. Note: Her hamster still likely won't see it as a "new" relationship; how you work this can be a big factor in success or failure at re-plating.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found its easiest after about 4 months. Its long enough for them to not hate you entirely, but not be over you entirely. Instead they end up hating themselves because they're fucking someone they somewhat hate. Its kind of funny to watch them try to hamster it away.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

GF directly to plate usually doesn't happen in one step though. There needs to be a breakup "reset period" after which a new relationship is started on the new terms. Note: Her hamster still likely won't see it as a "new" relationship; how you work this can be a big factor in success or failure at re-plating.

He's right u/theultimatecad.

Read "The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Attraction". It covers all that shit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree. I post regularly at MRP and see the long hard road it takes to reclaim power in a relationship if one didnt establish his terms at the onset

Dont get married.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very very uncommon, women can't go backwards in lifestyle, men in sexuality

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its often said its much easier to start over with a new woman then to change an old ones perception that you "turned alpha from beta"

/u/Rollo-Tomassi explains this well in his post The Quick Fix. Hint : there is no quick fix

[–][deleted] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

There goes my hero. Watch him as he goes

[–]FarOrAMess 6 points7 points  (3 children)

I fuckin' love your posts, OmLaLa. Just wanted to say that. Very eager for your future plans (the dating sites post & YouTube stuff).

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 12 points13 points  (2 children)

...and I fucking love you fucking love reading my shit u/FarOrAMess.

I also love covering online dating. It's a new frontier. A lot of my future stuff'll cover it in more depth. Hope you'll read that shit too.

[–]BaconEggsAndSleaze 4 points4 points [recovered]

Hey, /u/OmLaLa - I have no idea what "friends" on reddit means, but you're one of them.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We tighter than leggings on college chicks.

[–]nantucketghost 13 points14 points  (4 children)


[–]GrandmasterHurricane 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Got some bad news for you bruv. She probably had a side of guacamole while with you and your couldn't even tell. Maybe some chips too? Seviche even?

A girl like that can never really stop herself.

[–]Muhguul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So true. Don't know how people go around boasting being alpha while they are in a LTR with a slut. And that's what she is.

20 years ago? I'm sure that your salsa lost it's kick a while back. What's that thing we say around here? AWALT? Yea, your girl isn't special.

[–]MGHOW_ATL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Nah, we're not dating, just fucking. And she's way better than you. Wanna learn some new tricks?"

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

A wise philosopher once said that these women be not loyal. And then he made that statement into a lyrical song and spread the message to every scholarly man out in the world, right after his boxing match. He danced a jig of happiness as his message spread. Another man, one with long braided hair, but nonetheless a good scholar, aided the man in his research on women. He also spread a message, while donning golden chains to gather attention. His message quoth that why should a man give a woman his heart when she would rather have a purse. The listeners to his message realized the man was right, even though his voice was wheezy, and he was quite young. They all proclaimed AWALT

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I doth believe you have failed to accurately provide quotation of said philosopher. I doth remember his exact words to be "these promiscuous harlets be-eth not of the trustworthy variety".

Please do practice correct citations, old sport.

[–]Veqq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he/she/it doth, I do. (thou dost) these harlets be

[–]sxerra 17 points17 points [recovered]

I’m Chad now.

Holy shit, that was an awesome thing to say, send shivers down my spine. I need this kind of stories to constantly remind me I am on my way to better me.

[–]miladmaaan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great post, this was my favorite part by far.

[–]Crotch_Snorkel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheers buddy! Good field report

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

" I’m Chad now."

Sweet writing, you have potential!

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (4 children)

I had this, and I let my "morals" get the better of me. That slut could suck cock better than a high-dollar hooker and I let her go all because I "felt bad for the other guy".

I guaran-fucking-tee she's blowing some guy other than her husband/whoever... it's just somebody other than me. Ah well, I'm still somewhat new at this. I'll get it eventually. And if I die at the hands of a jealous husband... well, there are worse ways to leave this world I'll tell you that much.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Key here is you're recognizing and learning from your mistakes. Good luck out there.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I went through the same thing with a girl who had a boyfriend before and learned that it's honestly not even worth giving a fuck about. Men who put up with shitty women deserve to have it happen to them, because they're the dudes that reinforce the idea that it's okay for said woman to have all these "guy friends" and shit that they're secretly fucking or have attraction for.

Plus it's happened to me a bunch of times since I first started dating until I discovered TRP like 2 years ago. That's what happens when you date a fucking shitty woman because it's "important to be open minded" and "trust her" SMH.

"Trust" what a fucking con-game that is. Trust and loyalty are things that are earned, not just given out. Oh well, I learned through my stupidity, naiveté, and desperation not to be that way anymore.

[–]holytrpbatman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bingo. Any guy that puts up with the shenanigans deserves the end results. Had a fling with a bird, two kids and a fiance who kept putting off the wedding. He found out, she kept at it for a while till I next her. Goes back to him. A few months later I see her at the store, next day she's at my house. A few weeks and he finds out again. A year later he married her. When I run into her at the store again, he'll deserve it even more.

At one point I even told his brother to tell him he's an idiot if he marries her. Turns out she was (and probably still is) blowing the brother...

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Betas "trust" their girlfriends. Alphas don't give a fuck. Guess which ones get cheated on?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I'm Chad now"... That is some powerful shit I wish I could upvote more than once

[–]F_Dingo 3 points4 points  (1 child)

She’s got me listed as her best friend “Miranda”. She told him Miranda was going through some shit and needed a “true friend” tonight. I'm Chad now.


[–]RedKnight1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating. One of Rollo's laws is if a woman wants to have sex with you, she will find a way. Candy here is literally throwing herself at you and wanted to fuck even with another girl over.

Good job, OP, you took control over the boat and made yourself the captain.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool story bro. Would read again.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 12 points13 points  (2 children)

And this, class, is why /u/OmLaLa is distinguishing himself as a rising star around here.

I usually advise hard nexting women who see you as a beta. Because you're starting from less than zero. It's better to begin with a fresh woman. In fact, I write snarky comments about how impossible it is to dig yourself out that hole. But of course, that's not really true. Like so much around here, it's an colourful exaggeration intended to instruct. It keeps novices away from the oneitis who had them on a leash.

When you get good enough, you start to realize the true power of standing your ground. 90% of game is standing your ground. Women take their cues for what is acceptable from others. Women will accept just about anything you act unashamed of, and all but murder you for the slightest annoyance if you apologize for it.

  • If your girl "catches" you eyeing another woman, and you protest your "innocence", she'll soon have you not allowed to talk to other women, including all your female (former) friends.
  • If your girl "catches" you eyeing another woman, and you confirm her suspicions and then dress her down for daring to try to control you, you can soon have her helping you pick up other chicks for threesomes.

Same woman.

/u/OmLaLa had no advanced techniques here. No special trickery. Just an abundance mentality and no fear of "losing" her. When you can discard a woman with no distress at all, standing your ground is easy.

Free yourself of the desire for her in particular. Then free yourself of the desire to score or "win" by getting her. Free yourself of the desire to be a "Chad" instead of a "Chode".

Learn to regard standing your ground as a higher form of victory than getting laid. If you can do that, I promise you, you will never be thirsty again.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Holy shit, u/Whisper. Got me blushing over here.

[–]dapowa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watch, I bet Whisper escalates.. Kidding.

[–]tomQrsd 6 points6 points [recovered]

I wonder if you've changed physically over the time

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

I have. Take my appearance a lot more seriously.

[–]Osoto_Gari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm at the start of my journey- but taking my appearance seriously is one of the first things I took on board.

[–]ChrisBenRoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Last girl I dated I was your standard BB boyfriend. She cheated on me probably at least 3 times. Found TRP after, learned a lot. Not long after we broke up she started working at my building, got to talking a bit, eventually she came over and we fucked. Next night her new b/f was calling my house all pissed about it because she told him we were getting back together and he was trying to tell me that "I've been fucking her for awhile and you're a good dude and don't want to see you get hurt blah blah blah" even showed up to my house. Little did they both know I was just taking the easy pussy closure and my new TRP awakening.

Also, after we broke up and had sex outside of our "relationship" she did shit in the bedroom she never did before, I got more road head from just picking her up and taking her to my house the few times we fucked than she gave me blowjobs in our relationship, and she swallowed which she never did before. Par the course.

[–]doveenigma13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being Chad is kinda nice when you leave all that BP conscience shit behind.

As I'm typing this I see the top comment showing that if she cheated on you, she will cheat on the guy she cheated on you with. Sometimes she cheats on him with you.

Just don't fall back into her trap.

[–]MrRexels 2 points3 points  (1 child)

She had hooker name, what were you expecting?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now it's Mike's turn to become Chad.

[–]tallpaulguitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a chad in college. Girl ask me over to watch a movie. Mean girls drinking game. Her bf doesn't please her in bed. I didn't talk the whole night. She tried to impress me with knowledge of music. I'm a musician. Take her up to her room. Rail her out. Pictures of her bf all over her room. Says she will break up with him. I don't care. We do this for months. Bf is clueless. Amazing sex. She hasn't ever had it rough. I don't feel bad for her bf. He was a beta who after learning what I was doing never confronted me. Once he talked to me about Pokemon. We were in college. Lol

[–]The_Nekt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last bit was gold congrats on your transformation.

[–]rabbitriven 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Do you ever think that if you knew she had a boyfriend who was close you would still do it?

I mean I love what I learn here and all, and apply it always, but sometimes I feel there are lines for me. Especially with this topic. I know if she'll cheat she'll cheat, but I just feel I rather not be THE guy. But I can see me scrapping that if this was a girl who I knew before.

I don't know it feels like I need to have some morals, and know I would be pretty pissed if I was on the other end. But then again, I probably would realise.

Dunno what hit me from the story, the fact that her phone goes off 5 times and this guy has no clue, lmao. Whats everyones opinion?

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

As high value as I am (or at least think I am), even if I was with a low value woman dated me and a higher value man came along and tried to fuck her, he'd succeed.

Understanding this is key. You'll never be "the best", she'll never be happier with lower if she can get higher.

AWALT implies that all women have the propensity to cheat. And if she's faithful now it means you're the highest valued guy with her range.

[–]rabbitriven 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I totally agree with you. in a lot of circumstances that would be the case. But is there never a boundary to which it's possible for a woman to reject a higher value man? I have heard stories of wives doing that (rejective actors/celebrities) and I can never place that on the AWALT scale.

Hope you understand why this is a bit frustrating to me, it's a part of the pill which I've swallowed but is going down really slow. Extremely frustrating because I know (to an extent) it's true, but at the same time want to refuse it because it's so frustrating to think.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ASD would be a strong motivator not to. If a celeb approaches her in a crowd amongst her peers she might turn him down to save face. But should she be near him on multiple occasions, well... let's just say privacy opens a lot more things than doors.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had a genuine good laugh at the ending. Very nice.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To u/akjoltoy, who wrote the following comment to myself and TRP yet quickly deleted it without giving me a chance to respond:

Hardcore man. Dump a girl just because you realize you're in a LTR.

No one is as sex motivated as the people in this sub pretend to be.

You're just guys who got hurt and learned the wrong lessons from it.

There's trash and quality in both genders.

Pretending all women are garbage and that acting like a stonecold dickhead is the best way to get laid is just your defense mechanism against the fact that in the REAL world, you have to actually play games to get ahead.

You have to do a mix of telling the truth and lying, of being yourself, and being someone else. Of playing games and being real. Of trusting people and being a dick.

This people in this sub are so unbelievably pathetic it's unreal. Every one of your posts reads like a virgin trying to prove he's not.

If (and this is a colossal if) this shit is face value true, then it's unbelievable because we've got a gathering of like a thousand guys with sex drives at the 3 standard deviation mark.

Statistically that's just impossible.

Unbelievably transparent and pathetic.

Here’s u/OmLaLa’s response:

Hardcore man. Dump a girl just because you realize you're in a LTR.

Dump a girl because I realized I'm in a bad LTR.

No one is as sex motivated as the people in this sub pretend to be.

Understanding sex and chasing it are two different things.

You're just guys who got hurt and learned the wrong lessons from it.

And what's the right lesson? Keep trying until I "find the one? Ignoring that divorce rates in the U.S. are nearing 50% for couples between 20 and 39?

There's trash and quality in both genders.

I'm not arguing against that.

Pretending all women are garbage and that acting like a stonecold dickhead is the best way to get laid is just your defense mechanism against the fact that in the REAL world,

Not once have I said or supported that "all women are garbage". I've said "all women are like that", meaning there's no special batch of women that operates outside a certain parameter.

You could say AMALT that on a ton of topics. A need for sex for instance.

You have to actually play games to get ahead.

Dating, marriage, relationships. It's all a game. Your there to get something you want whether it' sex or validation. To think it's anything but is willing delusion.

You have to do a mix of telling the truth and lying, of being yourself, and being someone else.

I'm me at all times. If anything I'm more honest then most because when all I want from a girl is sex, I tell her that from the start. She's a big girl, so I'll leave it up to her on whether or not to sleep with me.

Of playing games and being real.

See above.

Of trusting people and being a dick.

I trust people that have earned my trust. Trusting every person that hops into my life is a recipe for failure. I wouldn't trust every gun to fire or every car to start because I want them to.

This people in this sub are so unbelievably pathetic it's unreal.

How? You should throw around baseless insults.

Every one of your posts reads like a virgin trying to prove he's not.

If that's the only way you can read it, maybe you're perception is limited to that of a virgin or a sex depraved individual.

If (and this is a colossal if) this shit is face value true, then it's unbelievable because we've got a gathering of like a thousand guys with sex drives at the 3 standard deviation mark.

Every guy has a high sex drive. Weaker men deny this fact because they're taught it's something to be ashamed of.

Statistically that's just impossible.

Look up the average man's levels of testosterone compared to a woman's, then look up the range of a man's possible testosterone levels in correlation to their libidos and make that statement again.

Unbelievably transparent and pathetic.

Again, baseless.

You came to us for an answer. Don't leave before we can give it to you.

[–]musclebound92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to be a goody good and add morals to the equation, but if I was in your position, which I have been in similar ones twice, I would tell Mr. Mike. Fucken use a friends phone or leave a note on his car, who knows. If the sex is good with this ex girlfriend and is something you want to hold on to, I say be discreet in telling him. Being cheated on like that is a shitty feeling, no matter how tough someone is. Tell the poor guy what he probably already knows, and let this bitch know that she is not in control of the situation or her attempts to manipulate men. Its the right thing to do, and I would want a guy to do that for me. Men should look out for one another, fuck, tell him about TRP, maybe this will open his eyes to the vast, awesome world that can be his if he wants it. Good luck, and great fucken post man.

[–]thefinn12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on guys the real question is - did she improve ?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that.

Because women want what they can't have, alpha widows are created by the dumping, not the pumping.

Well played.

[–]EmpyMagazine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I remember the scene from the Highlander where the hooker walks into Kurgen's room."Hi,I am Candy."

[–]ucfgavin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful about Mike...it sounds like he already knows whats up. Make sure you call her on her bullshit and lies (you know she is going to lie to him).

[–]AntixD 1 point2 points  (1 child)

"I'm the chad now" You funny motherfucker I love you

[–]mrmeyhemn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same sort of story with my last LTR. stopped being her friend, she came back wanting to "be friends", found out a couple of months later that I was her chad. nsa sex? good times, enjoy!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I'm not saying this is a fabricated story but it does read like TRP porn.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, even if it is fabricated.. Any guy who's gone to college or had a social life in their 20's knows this shit happens all the time.

One of my plates has an LTR that's FB official right now. We just hook up when we go out and run into each other and BF isn't around (same social circle). One of her good friends wants to fuck too and she's all over my instagram, yet is in a steady LTR.

My roommate has been fucking some girl who lives with her BF and carries out her rape fantasies with him. He also banged this other chick in our social circle and when she left he said "Oh and tell (boyfriend) I said what's up dude" with a shit eating grin.

My last girlfriend wound up cheating on me with her best friend's boyfriend. Literally threw that friendship under the bus and our relationship for just one night with Chad. She also tried to make out with my other roommate at a party we had, but the kid's really my true bro, said no and told me I should dump her. Wish I listened to him and dumped her on the spot, but I was all hopped up on blue pills back then.

slootz exist and they're out there in high numbers. Don't let the assumption that a story on here might be fabricated sway you from that truth. I see stories and I think "yeah that's probably made up" too, but it's important to just let it be and reinforce TRP concepts through it.

[–]Vlauer 0 points1 point  (1 child)

That feeling when your plate's bf calls her right after you fuck her... For now I've been able to "channel" Chad's spirit from time to time, but I'm working on fully becoming Chad.

Great post as always, OmLaLa.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol or when her cell phone is vibrating with texts from BF on the lamp table next to the bed while you're pounding her vag to orgasmville.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Just a warning to any new guys out there who think they might find themselves in this sort of situation. Your frame better be rock fucking solid.

I found myself in this same sort of situation, with the ex wanting to talk things out and "hang out." So I had her over to my place, showed her how good I was doing without her (if I tried to explain how good I'm doing in comparison to back then, you guys wouldn't believe me) and I was dominant and all that good shit.

To make a long story short, I fucked her probably better than I'll fuck any girl ever again. What happened right after that? She got me to talk about my emotions and I watched in horror as she completely smashed through my frame that I'd been building up for months. I'm back to a good point now, but I'm still rebuilding. It probably isn't worth doing this unless you absolutely know that you feel nothing towards her.

For those of you who know for a fact that you can get away with it? Do it. The ex is the easiest lay of your life.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. And actually, I'm glad that I got myself into that scenario. My frame may have been broken, but only because it wasn't solid in the first place. I welcome the breaking of my frame. While it's painful and it takes time to build back up, I'd rather have a faulty one knocked down rather than let it go unchallenged and have it hurt me in the long run.

Something tells me that the frame I'm constructing now will be much more permanent.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points1 points [recovered]

wasn't there some girl fox, or something that you said you would write about? get back on track son, you playin' this chundercock and the girlies game, jizz you should know better!

all right, show over. no new knowledge can be extracted from my telling. this comment has meant nothing.

really, unless you actually get something from this appreciation comments that's it. i wasted your time. but still seeing that 2nd chapter story about fox or whatever was her name from the freak show gathering would be nice.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It involves piss and cum. That's your teaser trailer. I'm having to rewrite it.

[–]razorwan -1 points0 points  (1 child)

The biggest mistake here is anyone seriously dating a girl named "Candy." Sounds like a stripper off the bat.

[–]korben_manzarek -3 points-2 points  (6 children)

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that. No call, no text. Just stopped seeing her. Hurt like shit but it had to be done. Think she was cheating with some Chad, shit like that. Focused on me, moved on.

You had a relationship, and then out of the blue you just cut off all radio contact? Why didn't you say didn't want to see her again, like, in person?

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa[S] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Why should I need to? Why should I care what she thinks about it?

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In Greek Mythology, Cupid (male God of erotic love and desire) told Psyche (the most beautiful mortal woman) she was never to look at Cupid and become aware of his identity for he was a beautiful God and wished this to remain a secret. Psyche's sisters believed she is with a hideous beast as told by the oracle and they convince her to kill him.

Well one night she goes to Cupid's palace with candle and knife in hand. She shines the candle onto Cupid in order to kill him in his sleep but instead the light reveals the most beautiful God in existence and she is so stunned by his beauty that she spills candle wax on him. He awakens and realizing she violated the one boundary he set, makes no excuses and just flies away. He makes no attempt to contact with her or give any reason why he left. Just up and go.

This story in my mind illustrates a male instinct we have that we have the absolute innate right and ability to up and go and give no excuses about it. Now there is more to the story and that is Psyche regrets it so much that she has to go through Hades and escape Cerberus to win him back (perhaps analogous to Candy overcoming covert communication to fuck you Omlala) with triumph of other tribulations and eventually wins him back. But the main gist is if any girl fucks up a big enough boundary you can just up and leave just like Cupid did.

[–]PartyTimeMentats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and Psyche got off light by Greek Myth standards.

[–]unassumingusername7 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You don't owe a cheater an explanation. She knows what she did.

Besides, it'll just be a huge shitstorm. Why bother?

[–]Sementeries 0 points1 point  (1 child)

No she won't, she'll rationalize everything and tell everybody "I don't know what happened. We just broke up."

[–]unassumingusername7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, and it makes it even less necessary to talk to her. She won't even fucking hear you over her hamster.

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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

no he won't learn that way, he has to find out and lose his faith and stop giving to these hoes

[–]Atlas405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would You give Your hand for this "guess" ?

[–]Primemale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He'll just hate on you and not candy, ''you must have tricked her/seduced her'' etc.

Focus on yourself and stop worrying about all the mikes in the world, either that or don't fuck candy when she's got a boyfriend. Don't half ass your morals, i.e. I'll fuck candy but then tell mike what a hoe she is, that's even more spiteful. So yes in summary I think that would be a bitch move and also quite pointless drama that you could probably do without.

[–]mightysultan 3 points4 points  (7 children)

Not bitchy but you are risking your safety. Other than sociopaths, too-attached betas are the most likely to commit violence due to relationship reasons - though they do for opposite reasons, as the sociopath strikes to claim territory and the beta strikes for "honor".

[–]Atlas405 2 points3 points  (5 children)

like the whole military is full of betas

[–]mightysultan 2 points3 points  (4 children)

I've always entertained this issue but never said it out loud.

[–]RPmatrix 1 point2 points  (3 children)

like the whole military is full of betas

I've always entertained this issue but never said it out loud.

I have, and usually get my arse kicked by most of reddit, it's highly unpopular to criticize the US military here, and it's not something I've considered saying here at TRP as it has now been mentioned, I sadly concur!

How can any man who's "following *another person's orders" ,, even though he may also give them to others, ever feel to be "his own master"?

That's not to say there aren't exceptional men in the military, but to surrender my liberty to another for love or money is something I cannot/will not do, ever.

"I'd rather be a free man in my grave than living as a puppet or a slave, it's better to die on your feet than live on your knees"

IMHO That guys are joining the military just to have a job that they think is like a RL CoD and they will come out 'badass alphas' is something i wish I knew how to change, but how do you explain to an 18yo and 'bulletproof' guy, chomping at the bit to "get going" with his Life where "death is not an option", the reality of what they're getting into and the highly likely results of doing so?

and this situation is exactly what TPTB want ... To seize control of these kids minds before using them and then throwing them back into a world they have little help re-adjusting to.

IMO it sounds many ways worse than being in prison IMO!

It's frightening to see the effects or our own indocrination of our kids that has come directly from the desire to 'make money' on everything.

In many ways these 'self entitled' people here in the West are just as deluded as a teen suicide bombers we hear about in the East, we're just being fed different types of bullshit which leads to different ways of "showing the crazy"

This world is moving very fast compared to 30yrs ago, and the more I look at the world from a RP perspective, the more I begin to see a LOT of very confused young women who are really struggling to find their feet into today's world

Many have had no decent male role models after often being raised by their mothers, (who are often successful which is how they could afford to have the kids BUT the price paid is a loss of time with them) so they turn to common sources of 'socially approved role models", who are usually some type of celebrities, who give them no useful advice leaving them so they still have No idea about much, who's speaking the truth, who they can trust and so on, and so they 'run with the pack' for safety's sake, not becoz they really want to.

I believe the RP community is part of the first seminal steps in changing this current 'male vs female sexual agenda' into a more functional way for both men and women, I have heard some great ideas put forth by my younger friends about possible changes

Hey OP, nice post btw, although these days I rarely hard next a person, but when I was younger, I think I was less caring of other people's feelings. These days I know how shit "flows on" and I avoid starting it in the first place when I can

cheers bro


[–]carnage_panda 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Because one dude cannot solo a platoon. You don't win wars because you have a mythic soldier, which doesn't exist btw. Rambo is complete fiction. Like your hopes and dreams.

[–]mightysultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I say Romantism and the American ideal of self-made man have some (large) influence on this whole "the great man who turned the tide of war" thing.

[–]terabyter9000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like Tyler once said or maybe it was Jeffy, for a chode it's LIFE OR DEATH. They will get violent and go crazy.

[–]Kaelteth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily a bitch move...but more of a case of "Why spend the effort?"

Who gives a shit about Mike? Mike is irrelevant, and we can't force-feed Mike TRP. If Mike is happy being a beta provider to a cheater, let him be happy.

All telling Mike does is make Candy suffer. Why? Who gives a shit? Use her, then forget her.

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It would be entirely possible that she would aim rape allegations against dude in that situation, especially if Mike (or any BB) was in the process of being locked down by Candy (or any other deceitful trollop).

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (3 children)

I dated this cute chick named “Candy”.

I think that's all you had to say for most of us to get a picture of where this was headed..

[–]iLLprincipLeS 2 points2 points [recovered]

a girl with a dick that it can be sucked? i bet you wish now you did not make that comment.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"a girl with a dick that it can be sucked"


I was referring to the fact that her name has her destined to the following careers; stripper, hooker, bartender, or hooter's waitress.

EDIT: Or that sl00t who let's you save your progress in the first Donkey Kong Country on SNES.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you can ideally fit any role in which she deems you suitable.

Here's where you fucked up; you're still peacocking to her tune. Regardless of if you're Chad or Charlie.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She thinks that she can fuck you back into a relationship with her. And she's more than likely right given your history.

Should have done the sensible thing when she refused to leave and called the police and told them your ex is outside, is refusing to leave, and is insinuating that she's armed.