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Blue Pill ExampleThis is the future you chose male feminists - stay at home dad is cucked and terms it as enlightenment. (self.TheRedPill)

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tl;dr Man is a loser cucked by numerous alphas who are banging out his wife every other night - his male hamster is spinning beyond light speed. His hamster is now spinning at ludicrous speed.

https://archive.is/EaUjs

I could literally quote the entire thing but here's some of the more absurd lines that I will translate for you:

As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won’t explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I’ll tell her it’s a hot story and I’m glad she had fun. It’s hot because she’s excited, and I’m glad because I’m a feminist.

Paolo Thundercock just put my wife's pussy on blast and sent her home to me so I could smell the aftermath.

Before my wife started sleeping with other men, I certainly considered myself a feminist, but I really only understood it in the abstract.

Being a true male feminist requires the ultimate sacrifice of self respect and personal self worth. I am up to that task!!

When I quit working to stay at home with the kids, I began to understand it on a whole new level. I am an economically dependent househusband coping with the withering drudgery of child-rearing.

I am the ultimate example of Briffault's Law. I offer little benefit to my wife and now she is bullshitting me right to my face - auditioning other cock on a nightly basis to eventually swing to while keeping me as a live in nanny, servant and placekeeper - and I bought her line of bullshit hook line and sinker.

Mothers care; fathers provide care. The difference is crucial. Despite my total withdrawal from the economy and the traditional sources of masculine identity, I can still argue I am a provider. I provide care.

What mothers do is superior to what fathers do... Or something... But even though I'm a broke dick, completely dependent and subservient to my wife, I'm still manly enough for this marriage (except for the part where my wife wants to fuck other men).

It wasn’t until my wife mentioned one evening that she’d kissed another man and liked it and wanted to do more than kiss next time that I realized how my status as a Man depended on a single fact: that my wife fucked only me.

My rationalization hamster tells me that me not getting upset that - not only does my wife want to stray in the marriage, but knows I'm so much of a docile self-loathing male feminist faggot, she can boldly flaunt it in my face like she was serving me pudding - means that I have self esteem... Yeah that's the ticket...

When people ask how it started, I say this: We married young. She’d had sex before me, but only with a handful of people a handful of times. She never had a boyfriend, never had a lover. I was the first man she ever had the chance to get to know intimately.

Best case scenario - she's mad she never got a chance to fully experience the cock carousel and now wants to ride. Worst case scenario, she was a such a whore nobody wanted to get serious beyond wham bam thank you m'aam - and found my beta ass to stupidly buy what everyone else got for free. Either way, she's bored now and is readying herself to better deal my ass.

She didn’t present it as an issue of feminism to me, but after much soul-searching about why the idea of my wife having sex with other men bothered me I came to a few conclusions: Monogamy meant I controlled her sexual expression, and, not to get all women’s-studies major about it, patriarchal oppression essentially boils down to a man’s fear that a woman with sexual agency is a woman he can’t control. We aren’t afraid of their intellect or their spirit or their ability to bear children. We are afraid that when it comes time for sex, they won’t choose us. This petty fear has led us as a culture to place judgments on the entire spectrum of female sexual expression: If a woman likes sex, she’s a whore and a slut; if she only likes sex with her husband or boyfriend, she’s boring and lame; if she doesn’t like sex at all, she’s frigid and unfeeling. Every option is a trap.

A trap I fell for completely. She's out fucking different men and I'm stuck at home being her bitch until she eventually tires of the current arrangement.

Feminism always comes back to sex, even when we’re talking about everything else.

I'm so close to self awareness, but yet so far.

Whatever power I surrendered, I don’t miss.

I can't wrap my head around what kind of train wreck life I'm living - or what eventual destruction this is leading to.

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

She gets banged out on the regular, me not so much - barely ever really (as predicted by TRP). But I've rationalized that too.

The sex is the easy part, the fun part. It’s what the sex connects to, stands for, reveals that can be difficult. I don’t want her to fall in love with anyone else, and every time she goes on a date, I confront the possibility that she might. It happened at the beginning: The first person she dated after we opened up fell hard in love with her, and my wife, overwhelmed by his ardor, tried to love him back. Watching it happen, I was confused, angry, and terrified that she wanted to leave me. She assured me she didn’t, and whatever feelings she had for him didn’t lessen what she felt for me. Believing her then was the ultimate trust exercise. We survived because eventually I did believe her, and also because I learned to trust myself.

I almost got bounced and didn't learn that HOLY FUCK I'M PLAYING WITH FIRE HERE. I escaped only because the kids were very young, but that won't last forever and I won't escape the next episode. Its an eventuality. I continue to refuse to accept the reality of my situation.

From everywhere comes the message that what I’m doing is for weaklings, losers, failures, pussies; that if I had money and status, I could keep my wife “in line”; that her self-discovery comes at the expense of my self-esteem. My open marriage has made heavy demands on my ability to silence the voice of doubt in my head, that gnawing feeling of worthlessness. But I find I can meet those demands, and that I am able to build my self-confidence out of nothing more than the basic dignity we all possess. I’m grateful to my wife for pushing us to take this leap, and whatever happens to us in the future I would do it all again. And when she comes home tonight and crawls into bed beside me with a hot story about her date with Paulo, she’ll do it all again, too.

I'm grateful my wife is fucking other dudes 2-3 time a week. I'm a hopeless faggot suffering from Stockholm syndrome. Please kill me now.

I think the lesson here is obvious. Feminism is a sexual strategy and especially 3rd wave radical feminism is the AF/BB strategy in the extreme. It only serves to pander to womyns whims no matter how decadently perverse and/or selfish.

Being a male feminist is as this beta idiot has unwittingly admitted is a complete surrender to the imperative. Its utter subservience and capitulation.

Edited: A few misspelled words


[–]RealGucciSosa 366 points367 points  (39 children)

What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

Tell that to the actual feminists.

[–][deleted] 95 points96 points  (18 children)

The funny thing is how deep that comment goes. Women have ever opportunity a man has to succeed in the western world. Due to biological differences the outcomes aren't the same

But hasn't true equality thus been achieved?

[–][deleted] 90 points91 points  (13 children)

True equality will never be achieved because men and women are fundamentally different from one another and naturally have different temperaments, drives and motivations.

[–]ImnotTHATdrunk 134 points135 points  (1 child)

"The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal." - Aristotle

That's why modern feminism will NEVER be about true equality.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Equality between the sexes is impossible. Any relationship built on equality between a man and a woman will fail and has already failed. Only the denial is holding it together.

[–]boscoist 16 points16 points [recovered]

Imdeed, women want equal or superior outcomes. men look at opportunity instead.

[–]1Halfjor 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Notably not for better or worse. Men and women are just different. They are intrinsically unequal due to their natural biological traits. Some people automatically think there is a connotation of superiority/inferiority to inequality when it couldn't be further from the truth.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who feel inferior buoy themselves with the notion of equality. The successful arent concerned about equality. Whether they are equal or not, they are successful foremost, so who cares. The search for equality is for the weak and cowardly, who cant stand on their own merits.

[–]1ErasmusOrgasmus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who are you trying to convice?

Whether men or women are superior in their inequality is a matter of perspective since in the context of sport or philosophy for example there is no contest: men are superior and have been since time immemorial. And I'm struggling to think of any meaningful areas in which women are superior to balance that out and reach the conclusion that neither men nor women are superior.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (4 children)

That's why I don't believe in "equality". It's impossible to even achieve or attempt to achieve. I do believe in opportunity though. And men/women both are different when it comes to opportunity

[–]randomuserwot -1 points0 points  (3 children)

As in women are far less likely to take risks? Please elaborate.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of career? Absolutely. Men are valued by career accomplishments much more than women. This leads to greater risk taking and overall different decision making.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see women and men are not equal.

[–]2012Aceman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The people who want will never have as much as the people who make. "The givers have to set limits, because the takers rarely do."

[–]1nzgs 0 points1 point  (1 child)

True equal opportunities were achieved a long time ago. The original point is the salient one; leftists use equality to mean some kind of state-imposed arbitrary "equality" of outcomes, which invariably involves a high amount of discrimination.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't have said it better myself

[–]EvrythingISayIsRight 29 points30 points  (2 children)

I wonder if he realizes that women have the opportunity to fuck a guy almost any time they want. If you're a decently attractive woman, you can just walk up and ask strangers for sex if you wanted and they would gladly do it. That would NEVER work for a decently attractive guy. So, in his logic, where is the equal opportunity for sex?

[–]PMMeYourBootyPics 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's why women don't do that. Their hamster brains need to create a regulatory system where they can filter out inferior mates. Women, in mating terms, only exist to get pregnant and raise children. Of course attractiveness is a factor for men, but there biggest drive is reproducing through as much sex as possible. Women need to be able to sort alphas and betas. Men just need to find a decently hot vagina.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And thats why equality between the sexes is impossible. With sex comes power. Controlling who gets laid is a tremendous power. Any woman who truly believed in equality would support sexual socialism. And none of them do. Women love sexual inequality, and thus inequality by extension. You cant have it both ways.

[–]dejour 16 points17 points  (9 children)

That line makes me think the author is trolling.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (6 children)

Seriously though, run the article through a gender analyser, i'm fairly certain it's a feminist troll throwing things out trying to make a space for this in society.

The prose is very feminine, my children are here, the radio is playing xyz...

[–]Planner_Hammish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How does "emasculated male" fit into the gender analyzer? It seems like he is a woman because he is taking on all female gender roles and seems to have lost all self esteem.

[–]dejour 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Roosh's forum thinks the same thing.

http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-49136-page-2.html

https://uclassify.com/browse/uclassify/genderanalyzer_v5?input=Text

84% chance female, 16% male.

Also "Michael Sonmore" doesn't seem to have published anything else anywhere. I guess he could be just protecting his reputation - but I think there is a decent chance this is fake.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whether it is a real man living this life or an idyllic feminist fantasy written as social narrative propaganda - the lesson to be learned here is the exactly same.

I think the lesson here is obvious. Feminism is a sexual strategy and especially 3rd wave radical feminism is the AF/BB strategy in the extreme. It only serves to pander to womyns whims no matter how decadently perverse and/or selfish.

Being a male feminist is as this beta idiot has unwittingly admitted is a complete surrender to the imperative. Its utter subservience and capitulation.

[–]kellykebab -2 points-1 points  (2 children)

the radio is playing

Uh..... How is that gendered writing style?

[–]whowasphoneQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The name doesn't show up anywhere else nor is it said to be a pseudonym.

Fake as hell but people upvote it because they think it is plausible.

Trp is pretty bluepill (asleep) in terms of some of this shit

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The want the feminist women and the male cucked drones spouting that. Meanwhile the ones with any power push the opposite

[–]Sir_Shitlord_focker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how that doesn't work when it comes to salary :D

[–]Rathadin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That happened on Reddit already. Remember about a month ago, with the woman who cheated on her husband, so he asked for an open marriage, then she got pissed off that he was fucking a different broad every week while the guy she cheated on him with, ended up dropping her like a hot stone after less than a month...

Then she posted it to Dead Bedrooms, where nearly everyone pretty much told her to fuck off, except for one or two fuckers who said she was being abused.

Shame she didn't post it to Relationships or TwoFuckedUpXChromosomes, she'd have got all the support she could have handled and then some.

EDIT: Also, check out the comments and order by Top Comments. Everyone realises this is a load of horseshit...

[–]n0oo7 -2 points-1 points  (2 children)

The article says that both of them are having sex with other people.

It all depends on who's doing the more banging. If the man is going 2,3,4,5 times the sexual adventures than the girl than I'd side with the guy. If the girl is bringing in thoose numbers than she's winning.

It's all about the numbers in theese types of "open" relationship. You cant bring in a boat full when she's bringing in the whole damn ocean.

[–]RealGucciSosa -1 points0 points  (1 child)

It all depends on who's doing the more banging. If the man is going 2,3,4,5 times the sexual adventures than the girl than I'd side with the guy. If the girl is bringing in thoose numbers than she's winning.

My comment wasn't on sex per se. I was commenting on entitlement, welfare, affirmative action, gender quotas, so forth. Feminism basically. Since he says "What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome" and then calls himself a feminist.

[–]n0oo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I understand, from that perspective I agree on all points. No man should call himself a Feminist. Feminists want to solve gender problems from a woman's perspective. Feminism ignores the wills of the male sex. At most you should do is sympathize with the feminist movement (like I do) but even the charleston church victims sympathized with their killer. Doesn't mean they want to get shot

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 158 points159 points  (9 children)

Some of the comments are a hoot.

But this isn't marriage. It's basically saying I want to fly an airplane but I want to fly it underwater and backwards. If that works, great but you aren't flying an airplane.

Modern Feminist Marriage: Flying a plane backwards underwater.

[–]Myrpl 53 points54 points  (6 children)

Here's another one

Personally, I allow for the reality that he's a happy doormat and there's nothing wrong with that.

Sure, there's nothing wrong with being a doormat, unless you were born a man and became a doormat in the process. Then it is.

[–]mryddlin 14 points15 points  (2 children)

unless you were born a man and became a doormat in the process

I'd argue it sounds like he was never born with one.

The phrase 'we can't all be winners' come to mind when reading this entire post.

Ouch, just ouch!

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Everyone is a winner! Paulo is just winning a bit more.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was born a boy and became a doormat.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 4 points5 points  (1 child)

There is a disturbing trend of men willing to become doormats across the world and I'm worried that it's not slowing down.

[–]holytrpbatman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them. As more show their true nature, the more society will fracture, making way for the next era.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine to me that he is being a doormat. His life, his choice. It's when he begins to preach his morals, beliefs and way of life to other people that I have a problem with him.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Sounds like Paulo is a regular barnstormer though.

[–]1jb_trp 178 points179 points  (33 children)

Third wave feminism is not about equality, but about furthering the privilege of white upper-middle class college-educated women.

They complain about "manspreading" and stupid things like some scientist's shirt because they've ran out of real problems to complain about. So they have to find bullshit to show how "oppressed" they are in order to further the feminine imperative. Likewise, feminists identify with other "oppressed" groups like blacks and LGBT only because it helps to further their self-serving feminist agenda. They don't really give two shits about real oppressed women, like the ones in the middle east who might get acid thrown on their faces for being out of line... At least not enough to do a damn thing about it.

Of course they're going to cuckhold these betas.

Women will get away with as much lousy behavior as society lets them. They are empowered by white-knights and thirsty beta males... But they will turn on them in a second in order to get what they want, or to get away with their childish behavior.

[–][deleted] 74 points75 points  (5 children)

It's scary how they've tricked the world into believing they are victims. A wealthy and college educated white female might have more opportunity than anyone on the planet, yet they still have most of the world by the balls

No wonder their older female generation is absolutely repulsed by their behavior

[–]IronMeltsinmyHands 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Almost sounds like warnings in books like the Bible and Qur'an aren't misogyny huh.

Misogyny is a great card. Anything they don't like/anything that scares them/anything they shows them they're wrong is misogyny because "most women aren't like that."

Awalt mother fucker

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[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 2 points3 points  (1 child)

The great thing about the human mind is that it can convince itself of nearly anything.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's our biggest strength and weakness. "Whether or not you think you can do something, you're right"

[–]through_a_ways -1 points0 points  (0 children)

White women are the cutest and nearly the most physically neotenous group in the world, on average (maybe some northern Asian women beat them slightly in facial features, but white women make up for it in pigmentation).

They don't even need to claim to be victimized for white knights to want to help them.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's narcissism. We've let the female mind out of pandoras box and it's running roughshod over society; the serving of the self is literally going to lead us all to demise as how can a society be expected to make the tough choices in regards to environment, global population, etc, when the solutions might infringe upon muh oppressed vaginas?

We wilfully ignore the lessons of the past in allowing narcissists so much freedom, to the worlds detriment, in the name of being 'progressive'.

[–]Redpillc0re 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's more than just about that, they seek to actually implement the most bat-shit-insane man-hating feminist extremities of the 70s (e.g. science is sexist, society is logical and thus unfeminine and other bs) . The worst thing is, despite the decades of ridiculous failure to achieve sameness, feminists march on (of course they do, what could stop them? logic?) to our collective catastrophe. It's probably gonna take more than a decade to see a reversal.

The bottom line is that they complain because it works for them. Women can get anything they ask for from men. Men don't have anyone to complain to, so complaining isnt an option.

[–]1edwardhwhite 24 points25 points  (20 children)

I disagree. I do see some women still discriminated against, especially black women. I am an employment lawyer. It does happen.

What I don't see is white rich feminists caring about that shit. They literally are in it for themselves, everyone else be damned.

Women run ape societies. Yet we are supposed to believe we are the one ape society run by men. Yeah right.

[–]FarfromaHero40 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Actually, of the great Ape societies, 4/5 are patriarchal in nature. Us humans, chimpanzees, gorillas, and orangutans (if you care to count orangs, they are pretty solitary). The outlier is the bonobo - in which the females DO run society.

However as a general rule, female mate-selection determines the direction and evolution of the species. Sexual dimorphism accounts for some of this.

[–]DarthRoach 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are matriarchal human societies. However, there are no matriarchal civilizations. None. Never have been.

[–]zapatosdemadera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bonobo societies actually sound the best to me. Apparently, when two bonobo groups encounter each other, rather than going into battle, they just have sex with each other.

[–]2niczar 21 points22 points  (1 child)

I disagree. I do see some women still discriminated against, especially black women. I am an employment lawyer. It does happen.

I don't doubt that. The point is, if feminists cared about poor black women, they wouldn't waste so much time talking about manspreading.

[–]1edwardhwhite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My point exactly. They spend all of their time trying to shame us for shit we didn't do.

[–]1jb_trp 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Of course. Discrimination still happens, just not at the Patriarchal level that feminists claim. And men get discriminated against as well.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Newsflash (to feminists) - people do shitty things to each other, sometimes. Some of them have vaginas, and some of them have penises. Really crazy stuff.

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[–]Miheegz 2 points3 points  (4 children)

See your post comes off as racist and you lose a lot of people when you fail to distinguish that these black women are ghetto. Middle-class black women don't act like that. My biggest pet peeve is people using black and ghetto interchangeably. Your comment is totally true if you replace the words. Ghetto women are insufferable. I wouldn't enter a professional or personal relationship with one with a ten foot pool. But please don't disparage an entire race.

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[–]Miheegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah my bad, I assumed you were a racist piece of shit

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In fact ghetto black women are better, at least they know they aren't shit.

Did you mean to say "at least they know the are shit"?

[–]1edwardhwhite 1 point2 points  (1 child)

my greatest work mentor was a black woman. you are a very small mind, especially for a doctor.

[–]oldmanwho 0 points0 points [recovered]

his pay requires that he not believe this. hopefully, he's at least getting paid well.

hard to escape that bubble of magical thinking, of post hoc ergo propter hoc, of discrimination coming first. unfortunately, the world has been convinced that it does, when in fact discrimination has always come after the wasted trade.

but again, it is a nice way to make money for mr edwardh, at least until there are no more kings left to steal from via magical truth inversion. can't disagree.

[–]drtigerface 0 points0 points [recovered]

Thank you, doctor (?). It seems even on the internet my colleagues steer me right.

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[–]1jb_trp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very interesting thought. You wonder if they see the collapse of the social structure and family in the west, and they're like, "Oh, hell no. There will be no first wave women's liberation movement."

[–]through_a_ways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don't really give two shits about real oppressed women, like the ones in the middle east who might get acid thrown on their faces for being out of line... At least not enough to do a damn things about it.

As if women in the middle east are even particularly oppressed to begin with. That place is terrible for the average male, you run getting your hands chopped off for minor offenses, rampant censorship, legalized polygamy, and extreme income inequality. Since it's a theocracy, tax laws derive from Islamic law, and that means that taxes are 2.5% flat for everybody. That's anywhere from 10 to 20 times lower than American and European ones, so Saudi welfare is pretty much on the same level as rich white people tossing a few bucks to Ethiopia.

Meanwhile, the women stay at home doing house chores, with zero burden of doing actual work or provisioning. Many Saudi women support the ban on women driving, because it's one less thing they have to do.

It might be better over there for women, if anything. Just because they cover their bodies in public, doesn't mean they're oppressed.

[–]VinylGuy420 125 points126 points  (4 children)

This reads like a feminists wet dream. The ultimate end game for a female. Have someone provide for all your needs, you party and fuck around as much as you want with hawt guys to get that crack hit of validation, provider takes care of all bastard children each from a different guy, and hubby accepting it all with a smile on his face. Its all about her. He sacrifices, she's in paradise.

This is why I think this is fake as fuck. It's too textbook of a case feminists want.

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Martyrs suffers for a just cause, he suffers for feminism.

[–]razor5151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup its almost like 1984, except there's a Big Wifey instead of Big Brother..

[–]PMME_YOUR_TITS_WOMAN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's totally fake. From a google result for the name, a forum:

" this is "his" first and only story.

Also, the only references I can find on the Web regarding a "Michael Sonmore" relate to this story. There is no Facebook profile or anything like that. Most writers are huge attention-whores and are on FB.

Nor do I see any college info or race info when I reverse the last name to "sonmore michael" (you can usually tell people's backgrounds by seeing where they graduated or what races they've run).

This story doesn't say Michael Sonmore is a pseudonym. So with all this in mind, I'm saying Scorpion called this one and the magazine either got played by a fake writer or is playing the public with a fake story."

[–]CMidnight 157 points158 points  (28 children)

If you swapped the genders of the people in the story, this situation won't be acceptable. It isn't feminism; it is hypocracy.

[–][deleted] 80 points81 points  (5 children)

Ding Ding Ding!

We have a winner!

A good male feminist would never question his master enough though to figure that out.

[–]kireol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A good male feminist would never question his master enough though to figure that out.

Of course not! To do otherwise is to foster patriarchy. You do what your woman tells you to do, and you do it now you privileged scum.

https://33.media.tumblr.com/6ddd54f55404c5000e156b0542cc12e3/tumblr_mzk2rrNT5g1sek2a3o1_500.gif

[–]PlayerXz 21 points22 points  (4 children)

Yup. If this story was the other way around feminists would absolutely lose their shit. This would be an example of how oppressed women are and how men are filthy pigs that only care about sex. Good chance media would get involved and they would try to sue this guy.

But now it's a beautiful story about a man really loving and caring for his wife. He gets compliments for being so loving and open-minded and how there should be more men like him!

He then feels validation because of all the compliments he gets from the feminists. That's probably the reason he posted this in the first place, just to get some compliments to fall back on when he starts doubting again that being a doormat is really the right thing to do.

In this guy I see the ultimate blue piller. This guy has never faced adversity in his life and is afraid to stir things up and cause any amount of trouble how minor that may be. He is extremely desperate for validation, and extremely scared anyone will become angry or even slightly annoyed with him.

[–]systemshock869 12 points12 points [recovered]

He then feels validation because of all the compliments he gets from the feminists. That's probably the reason he posted this in the first place, just to get some compliments to fall back on when he starts doubting again that being a doormat is really the right thing to do.

I think this is the basis for ALL of the rampant female hypocrisy and general shitty behavior. Spineless enablers that seek female approval above all else. Enjoy the decline!

[–]1KyfhoMyoba -3 points-2 points  (2 children)

White knighting is hard wired into us.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down voted?! This is an evo-psych demonstrable fact. Men are hard wired to protect women and children. We revel in risking our lives for them. There is a sound, biological reason that the pussy pass exists.

I didn't say that it was just, fair, or reasonable by the standards of civilization, only that it was reasonable by the standards of biology.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 30 points31 points  (12 children)

If you swapped the genders of the people in the story, this situation won't be acceptable.

But if you swapped the genders, it would work. Women are perfectly willing to share a man if they do not fear losing his affection, attention, or support by doing so.

Why?

Jealousy is fear someone else will take what you have. For a man, this happens when another man fucks his woman. For a woman, this doesn't happen until another woman actually gets her man to leave her.

For a woman, male cheating is the threat of damage. For a man, female cheating is the threatened damage in and of itself.

[–]TheQuestion78 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I disagree though. At the part where this beta "enlightened" feminist mentioned how his wife almost fell in love with the first dude she dated. If a husband told a wife that she would lose her shit because that would mean she would start losing affection, attention, etc. If the dude is beta, she would go apeshit on him and basically consider this cheating. If the dude is alpha/Red Pill, this would effectively be dread game and she would probably try to fuck him more to reign him back in.

[–]Ringoddess -4 points-4 points [recovered]

Heeeell no. If you have a woman that doesn't even care about you cheating, then she never really loved you in the first place. If she is willing to share you then likely she only loves the lifestyle you provide to her. Or she's as "progressive" as that brainwashed guy in the OP. I would throw up my own guts and kill myself if I knew my husband fucked another woman.

[–]writewhereileftoff 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Women will do anything for alphas. That includes sharing with other women. They love alphas that much an alpha can do whatever the fuck he wants, exept for beta behaviour ofcourse. Doesn't mean she does not care it means exactly the opposite.

[–]1mojo_juju 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Banged 3 plates while having a New gf back in January. Forgot to delete plates nude photos they texted me and their "I want to suck your dick" texts.

Gf must have found out (she knew my phone pw) because the playfully called me polyamorous and 2 or 3 times brought up that I was or might have Been cheating on her. I just denied it and said she was the only one for me. Hugged it out. She didn't really bring it up again...

Recently broke up with her (I have a 6 month limit) and now Tindering new plates

[–]BetterRedThanRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are more likely to forgive one night stands, but this does not mean that they do not care.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Looks like you just discovered the TRP subreddit, and are writing a number of comments devoted to disagreeing with much of the basic theory.

Problem is, you're not supporting those disagreements with anything other than "because I said so". We've been field testing this stuff for years.

If you have evidence to share, share it. Otherwise, vent your wounded feelings elsewhere.

[–]Ringoddess -3 points-3 points [recovered]

So your argument basically is "you backing up your opinions with personal experiences is invalid, because we have been backing up ours with our own experiences". Well ok then, logic.

I actually agree with a lot of red pill, in the sense that I think modern feminism has been harmful to both genders, promiscuity is ruining people's ability to bond and build strong families, and people (both men AND women, maybe especially women) need to develop more of a drive for self-improvement and for effort if they want functioning relationships, because yes, a person can love you for you, but if you are just an empty shell, no aspirations, no interests, no nothing, what's there to love?

I don't believe in AWALT because I know I'm not like that and know other women who aren't - maybe it's the upbringing, I'm not from the U.S., I don't know. And I don't believe in the "stud/slut" theory. Sure, it is harder for a man to be sexually appealing to a large number for women, but being a stud who fucks all the sluts interested in him makes a man a slut imo. If a quality woman, who has both the looks and additional qualities and skills, manages to keep her partner count low despite all the offers, why would she want to go for a so-called "stud" who just because he finally gets female attention loses basically all self-control?

And no, I am not new to TRP, I just never posted until recently.

Edit: spaces so ppl won't get eye-cancer

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 7 points8 points  (1 child)

So your argument basically is "you backing up your opinions with personal experiences is invalid, because we have been backing up ours with our own experiences".

You wandered into a conversation years in progress, disagreed with premises we discharged long ago, and now you want us all to stop and strat at the beginning so you can catch up and don't have to read the sidebar?

No.

I actually agree with a lot of red pill, in the sense that I think modern feminism has been harmful to both genders, promiscuity is ruining people's ability to bond and build strong families, and people (both men AND women, maybe especially women) need to develop more of a drive for self-improvement and for effort if they want functioning relationships, because yes, a person can love you for you, but if you are just an empty shell, no aspirations, no interests, no nothing, what's there to love?

This is true. All love is conditional, because every reason is a condition.

But how is that relevant to the question of male vs. female sexual fidelity? You only touch peripherally on the question when you say

promiscuity is ruining people's ability to bond and build strong families

... but you used the wrong word. You said "people", implying all people.

Let me fix it for you:

promiscuity is ruining women's ability to bond and build strong families

There, that's better. Men and women don't work the same way.

Remember that the original definition of a family was "a man, his wives, and their children". While our culture did introduce monogyny later, it did so for other reasons than "families are unstable because men cannot bond". Polygynous families bond just fine, we know that because it happened. And we are now seeing that polyandry does not produce the same stability.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Change the last line to female cheating

[–]collidoscope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would be interesting to see Rollo (or any one of us) flip this article like he did with Eat. Prey. Love.

[–]ztsmart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you swapped the genders of the people in the story, this situation won't be acceptable.

It could very well be acceptable to the two people in the relationship. Society may not find it acceptable, but society can go fuck themselves for all I care.

Personally I prefer open relationships. She can sleep with whomever she wants, but so can I. And we can both leave anytime we want. But that is the case of all relationships really, most people just pretend otherwise.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have literally never heard once of a guy suggesting to his wife/GF/whatever that he should be allowed to fuck other people and have it turn out well. And according to feminists, that's fine. Because only women should be allowed to do shit like this, of course. As a strong independent Womyn they should be allowed to do whatever they want, without consequence. Anything else is rape/misogyny.

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[–]Myrpl 59 points60 points  (7 children)

I don't know many male feminists but the one I do is indeed spineless. His wife actually divorced him after she milked him dry, she got another guy and a few months after I attempted to suggest him to start working on himself and get back on his feet. Guess what his response was: "don't tell me how to live my life".

For now he's still talking with his ex-wife, and according to him they are friends. I just... Can't comprehend why the fuck would anyone orbit and allow his ex-wife to friendzone him, unless he has no balls. Bingo!

[–]1rporion 33 points34 points  (6 children)

Women tell him how to live his life.

Are you a woman?

[–]Myrpl 35 points36 points  (4 children)

Dude, only thing I tried to push him to is to workout because he's like a stick with meat wrapped around it. Nowadays, I stopped advising others and I prefer to lead by example. Lesson learned.

[–]1rporion 30 points31 points  (3 children)

Yeah sure, I just wanted to point out that he does have boundaries with you, but when it comes to women he is good little doggie, isn´t he?

[–]PlayerXz 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He agrees with his wife, he agrees with feminism, he agrees with all those female role models who told him to be like that. But when a friend says something he almost becomes hostile. This guy is an extreme case of self-deception.

Feminists: "You should support women because they are so oppressed!" (Live your life like an ATM and an emotional tampon). Dude: "Ok!"

Wife: "I should be able to do whatever I want, that includes fucking other men." (Live your life like my slave and doormat). Dude: "Ok!"

Friend: "You should start hitting the gym." (Start caring a little more about yourself). Dude: "Don't tell me how to live my life okay! I can make my own decisions!"

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[–]TRPAlternative 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And attraction. And respect.

But it doesn't matter, she can get all of them in abundance from other men (with variety too!) while still getting all the validation, supplies and stability she desires from her BB.

What's not to like from her POV?

[–]through_a_ways -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women are neotenous looking, so we aren't threatened by them.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 23 points24 points  (4 children)

There's a reason why male feminists look like this. Low testosterone, probably only eats kale that has been hand-picked by transgendered black lesbians.

They are men only in the very loosest sense of the word. You can tell how much they struggle with the idea that they're more woman than man, like the chump in OP's post.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Oh my god. Of course that faggot is a male feminist. Of course.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I'm surprised his wrists are strong enough to hold up that sign.

[–]randomkloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with the amount of exercise it probably gets it should be strong enough.

[–]systemshock869 15 points15 points [recovered]

I have to feel like these stories are bitch-porn. I stumbled across a story somewhat like this once where the dude realized his wife had cheated, didn't tell her, and slowly started to come to terms with it - eventually revealing to her that he knew she was cheating and it turned him on. It was too well written and too explicit with it's sexual details of cuck-faggotry to be a real story. This one looks more plausible but I still can't help but think that it's fake. What man in his right might could rationalize this shit?

I guess I just answered my own question. Women really are completely superior beings to these spineless blobs who will stoop to any level for some pussy points. In this case, the pussy points being the privilege of being a live-in servant. At least some of the white knights get actual pussy points for their dumbass supplication. If he's real, this guy is a bottom feeder.

[–]TRPJZ 11 points12 points  (1 child)

The author has no history, no other writings, I think it's fake.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 6 points7 points  (2 children)

What man in his right might could rationalize this shit?

I am currently dating/fucking a woman with a husband that actively encourages her to fuck other men. She had 3 kids after she married him. None are his.

I try not to think about him. I get the same feeling I do when I think about innocent children that die in wars.

[–]through_a_ways 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't. Children shouldn't be expected to know better.

[–]ColdEiric 7 points8 points  (3 children)

I was feeling like shit a few seconds ago, but now I'm more than fine. If bluepillers are like this one are our competitiors, then I think we're more than fine. If we go lift, that is.

[–]1rporion 8 points9 points  (2 children)

How do go about this.....

If that is your competition, you do not really have to lift, just have a spine...

A semi flexible rubber hose....

Something...

Anything...

[–]ColdEiric 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Isn't that what the majority of our texts are for? We're guys who were bluepillers, but now we are rebuilding our spines. From head to cock.

[–]1rporion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but then you are the iron that sharpens iron.

While I welcome the competition kind Sir, shall we regard spineless worms as our competition?

We shall not!

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (6 children)

If it's true his wife is a special kind of selfish monster. I could never imagine doing that to someone I loved.

[–]1SuperStalin 11 points12 points  (4 children)

He let himself become a person which a woman can not actually love. He is nothing more to her than a maid.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Nanny might be closer.

But if she loved him she would help steer him away from that behavior. If a close friend, family member, or significant other is going down that path you help them.

He deserves to take personal responsibility sure but that doesn't absolve the white guilt of being a manipulative cunt

[–]1SuperStalin 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I agree, but sadly that's not how women are. They want a perfect finished product, without participating in the building up to something.

Whether that thing is a man's manhood and a manly attitude, or abs, or a man's career, or a man's car.

[–]newmewuser4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And no shoulders, they will evolve into something like the Anglerfish male. Feminazis already look like the female version.

[–]zapatosdemadera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I think that there are degrees of "feminist". I'd consider myself a feminist in that I think that all people should have the same rights and standing under the law, and be judged as individuals. I want my SO to be treated fairly at work, but I also understand that she must compete with others to rise to the top. Strength recognizes strength like real recognizes real, so if you trade your spine for a suit of White Knight armor, you won't be impressing ANYONE that still has their spine.

[–]geekygirl23 0 points1 point  (8 children)

The guy in the story is most likely fictional. What I find hilarious though are the people here (cough OP cough) getting mad about the lady in the story having the same mindset that is shared on this subreddit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

What mindset is that? That you should fuck people other than your SO? Because I will go on the record as one who believes cheating is morally wrong in the vast majority of circumstances.

[–]geekygirl23 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Something your SO knows about isn't cheating but the "playing the game" mentality is the entire point of this sub. I guess she's playing it better.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand this sub. This place is for discussing sexual strategy. A sexual strategy may either be moral or immoral. The point of this sub is neither to 'play the game' as best you can without regard to values or consideration of others nor is it the converse.

Also, if you look around, a lot of anger is directed at the man who has allowed this situation.

[–]TheSKSpecial 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Actually, the people here are pissed at him for being a pussy. They already know that she'd take advantage, they're pissed at him for giving it to her.

[–]geekygirl23 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Maybe she's been reading up and doesn't want to lose frame.

[–]TheSKSpecial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just pick a random RP term to throw out there? This is about him failing on a massive scale, not her.

[–]ThePedanticF0x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hilarious that what you find hilarious betrays only your ignorance. Your reasoning (or lack thereof) depends on the assumption that males and females are equal and have equal sexual needs, desires, strategies and instincts, this is an impossibility.

Of course I would never dare expect you to base your reasoning in oppressive reality, that kind of deplorable misogyny should be classified as rape. Right?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really you think I'm mad? Did you not get that the post was made in effort to LOL at the absurdity of this mindset?

You will not find any posts on this sub where anyone advocates emotionally abusing a wife - especially one that has declared devotion to her husband on the level that the man in the story has. At best we talk about "Dread Game", which is something we suggest doing only when a man is in a relationship that is already troubled or failing because of any of the spectrum of emotional abuse to lack of respect occurs. You don't abuse a wife that is good to you. You care for her by earnest hard work, providing, showing leadership, showing emotional strength and yes also kindness, tenderness and physical intimacy as well.

There is a profound difference between a single bachelor "playing the field" and a Machiavellian cunt gaslighting her stay at home husband into a life of subservient cuckoldry.

Time and again here on TRP it is said that one does not have to tell lies or run any con games to "spin plates" - there are no lies told - there is no coercion performed. You simply just go out, keep things casual and make no promises. If you find a woman you like enough to be exclusive with - then by all means be exclusive - but always remember that no relationship is worth your self respect. One should always be emotionally ready for the worst-case scenario.

This makes us shitlords?

If you equate what TRP stands for with what the wife in the story has done, then you have zero idea about what we're talking about here on this board.

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[–]1jb_trp 35 points36 points  (23 children)

Ahhh, /u/GayLubeOil, you always hit the nail right on the head. You're doing God's work, man.

The irony is that the man beta cuckhold who wrote this article will soon be divorced raped when his wife leaves him for some random guy she's banging and with whom she "fell in love." She'll take the kids, the house, get child support... And when that day finally comes there might not be TRP to take him in and help him reclaim his manhood.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 73 points74 points  (6 children)

I wrote a post about this and I'll say it again. I welcome the bodies. For every Healthy at Every Size David Futerelle who suffers a heart attack. For every cuckold man who's soul gets crushed. For ever loser who refuses to lift and improve himself and gets hypergamied by muscle chad. For every corpse there is a fresh example for our young men of what not to do.

Praise the corpses!

[–]199639 12 points13 points  (1 child)

It's tragic that society is collapsing but honestly I'll be dead before it affects me. In the meantime I get to fuck all these women before they lock down their beta chump. Sometimes it sounds like everyone here rails against the CC, but life on the CC is good. Women come and women go, I'm just here to enjoy myself.

[–]Mr_Zarika 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeh, you can't complain about the CC while enjoying the fun of a soft harem.

If the woman's optimal is a powerful man who gives her the tingles while providing a lifestyle for her, then man's optimal is a harem of beautiful women all fighting for your attention.

[–]TheJessee 1 points1 points [recovered]

Ah i remember that post, pure gold, seeing you mention David Futrelle i decided to look him up and he's absolutely hilarious, his picture and shit content on his site is exactly what i expected from a male feminist and fat accepter

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 5 points6 points  (2 children)

David Futerelle has written two articles about me. One about my post Treating Women Like Children and the other calling me a lift bro pejoratively.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

That's impressive level of salt you collected from the bitch patrol.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I say, I'm a professional collector of FeeFees.

[–]zxDanKwan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're completely wrong.

Irony is when it's not the outcome you were expecting.

[–]randomkloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, if the cuck is a househusband wouldnt he be the one entitled to alimony

[–]Nieben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I really can't comprehend his cognitive dissonance.

I'm happy that the woman I married to is seeing other men that she could like more than me.

He'll probably appeal to the past as a reason for them to continue to be together, but the past is strictly that. Over. Done with. You let her move forward and onward onto greener and better pastures without improving yourself and with complete and utter disregard of your own well being. You deserve everything that comes to you. I don't even pity this being - he is by no means a man.

[–]TheInevitableHulk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it's her stuff he did not pay for it he is a stay at home dad and his only use is for the kids

[–]PlayerXz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What a great picture I must say. A perfect example of manipulating a photo for your own needs. Carefully adjusting the light, trying to flex and make his arms and chest as big as possible while hiding his belly with an actual living baby. Someone put a little too much thought in this for a simple picture to show what a sexy body he has. And even with all this effort the result is still vastly underwhelming...

All I have to say is, I wonder how this guy is going to convince himself he is a sexy beast when his wife is fucking Chad.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you send me a link to the tweets of your cyber stalker with the 'sexy picture'? I believe it will be entertaining.

[–]Life_Can_Be_Simple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol is this David guy for real? Just went through is twitter and gave me a good laugh. His life is so pathetic, how delusional can you get.

[–]cariboo_j 3 points4 points  (3 children)

Kinda looks like he's jerking off with that baby...

[–]let_terror_reign -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Not kidding, thought that was a deformed penis the first time.

[–]cariboo_j -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Why is he holding a baby in the first place? It's bizarre

[–]Upvote_To_The_Left 47 points48 points  (6 children)

I cant even read this nonsense.

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (4 children)

It's fucking crazy. Cringeworthy definitely, but you have to laugh at it.

Don't stare too hard into the abyss my friend.

[–]ColonelMitchell 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I read about halfway through and quit because I knew the outcome. It's just depressing to see delusions such as this so willfully proclaimed as the truth. All I know is that that will never be me.

[–]zapatosdemadera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depressing, bleak, tragic... all good synonyms.

[–]2niczar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me neither. The cringe is making me sick in my stomach.

[–]Zachar1a 36 points36 points [recovered]

This guy is not a feminist, but rather a masochist.

[–][deleted] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Male feminist, masochist

tomato, tomayto

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst kind of masochist, at that. One that leads their whole live in misery and pain. Masochism of the soul is not healthy.

[–]1MajorMid 34 points35 points  (2 children)

"As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo"

Fucking burst out laughing on the first sentence

[–]1mojo_juju 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty sure the dude is literally a closeted fag. I know a guy who had 5 daughters then realized he is gay, divorced his wife and now lives with a man.

[–]S74RK 46 points47 points  (11 children)

Never thought I'd say this, but:

That's enough red pill for me today.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (10 children)

LOL thus is about as BP as it gets. The ultimate failure as a man.

It tough to take isn't it?

[–]poopie420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

nahh i don't think he means it that way. i think he must feel the same way as me, embarrassed for this dude. I cringed hard reading this post, and was like damn its depressing. what a mangina.

[–]SilentForTooLong 9 points10 points  (6 children)

This isn't even remotely as BP as it gets...

There are men that literally pay women horrendous amounts of money based on nothing...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACJ7-_G16G0

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (5 children)

Holy smokes british women are fucking ugly

[–]PaulAJK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Europe's worst. And getting fatter.

[–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (2 children)

What do women look like in your area? They look half decent compared to the girls in my state.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I live in a pretty multicultural area so there's plenty of fit girls. In my universiry, I see loads of 8s and 9s on a daily basis.

[–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky man. Most attractive girls leave my state for uni. My uni only has fat feminist types. Or just unattractive ones.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like there's no middle ground...some are gorgeous, most are hideous. Not sure how accurate that is but just based on what I've seen that seems to be the case.

[–]BleauGumms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think him being a cuck with cleanup would be the most BP he could get.

How much longer do you think it would be before she comes home after Paulo dumped a load in her cootchie and she makes this BP eat it out of her?

[–]truthiesttruth 39 points40 points  (6 children)

More male feminists = more faggot cuckolds = more potential plates for me. I get to scuz up her puss and he gets to deal with her bullshit. Win-Win.

The only potential problem I can foresee is if I get the whore pregnant and she carries my child to birth. I would not want my genetic offspring being raised by one of these faggots.

[–]aallen1587 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That or you end up infected with some shit because you fucked a whore that's had four different dicks inside her every week for the past two years.

[–]Vovamas 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Atta boy. As long as you realize that what you doing is akin to having a feast amidst plague. When I read that shit it literally made me sad, society is desintegrating and you guys can't see past your own dick, thinking stuff like this is some kind of utopia.

[–]6of1halfdozenofother 2 points3 points  (1 child)

He's like a kid finally getting to eat all the cookies in the pantry without getting yelled at because Mom and Dad are dying of ebola upstairs.

Sure, it seems great now, but it is not a good thing.

[–]truthiesttruth 0 points1 point  (1 child)

As long as you realize that what you doing is akin to having a feast amidst plague

Because starving yourself on principal is so much better and will surely lead to bountiful harvests in the future right?

When I read that shit it literally made me sad

Thats because you are new around here still have delusions of hope for the future western culture. Libcucks will welcome the influx of backward muslims with open arms, where they then live off the dole and have 10 children. Rinse and repeat, in a few generations europe will no longer be white. http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a25011625/top-baby-boy-names-2014

The future belongs to asians, blacks and muslims. Their cultures will dominate and whatever notions you have of the "way it should be" will be lost to history. I have already accepted this fact and do not have a problem with it.

The sooner you realize this and relinquish your need to fix what you cant, the sooner you will be able to move on and find happiness in whats going on around you.

You are sorely mistaken if you think I should be sad this this libcuckfaggot who lets his wife get railed by other men on the reg.

[–]averageredpill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i don't think so. Every culture/race when exposed to western societies will fall back to the 1/2 children per couple. When resources are abundant humans tend to have less children. So this new Muhammads will be fully exposed growing up and will have smaller families and adding to it Multi culturalism failed in Europe and the UK is getting more and more control over immigration.

[–]ferengiprophet 23 points24 points  (3 children)

I imagine somewhere out there, a person like u/gaylubeoil wrote this article to parody male feminists in an attempt to get men to wake up to the reality. If this is indeed a real story, it's depressing AF; we not only have to fight against female feminists but males like him as well, who are so far gone that they don't think that being cuckolded is a bad thing.

[–]zxDanKwan 9 points10 points  (2 children)

What do you mean "fight"?

This guy and his ilk are just making it easier to separate the AF from the BB.

The lower they set the bar, the less we'll have to do to be above it. And you don't want to get too far above it, or you'll be singled out for it.

Learn how to use the hamster to your advantage.

Become Paulo.

[–]ferengiprophet 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I get the sentiment of sitting back and enjoying the times but I'm a builder by nature. I can't look at what's happening in our society and just take a backseat. I need to do something about it otherwise I'll feel impotent.

In the world of technology, there are black, white, and gray hat hackers. Black hats exploit systems solely for their own gain; white hats learn how to compromise a system and tell its owners how to make it better; and gray hats fall somewhere in between.

So in the "Matrix" we live in, there are guys out there who look at the slutty nature of women and try to get laid as much as possible. Then there are guys who learn how AWALT, hypergamy, and AF/BB works in order to either find a good partner or save themselves from the system all together. And lastly, there are guys like me who fall somewhere in the middle, who want pussy but at the same time acknowledge that a healthy society needs some hard limits.

TL;DR: Given a choice between being a builder or a king of ashes, I want to build a good society that prioritizes the nuclear family. This jungle shit hypergamy doesn't work.

[–]zxDanKwan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say you had to just sit on your ass. I only said that it's easier to define yourself as AF when the BB roll over and show their belly like that.

So spend less time worrying about defining as AF, and you'll have more time to be the builder you want to be. More than that, the more of your potential opponents are neutered and beaten down like this, the easier you'll find it to make the changes you want to see in the world.

It always benefits you to find ways to use your opponent's energy against themselves.

[–]2popthatpill 20 points21 points  (2 children)

my children are asleep in their room

Er, might want to get them paternity tested. Just a thought.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

If he doesn't mind sharing his wife, I don't think he'll mind raising their kids too.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any man can be a dad, but it takes a real man to be a father. /s

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (1 child)

Sickening. What good is a man's self respect generated through hamstering if the entire world deep down thinks you're pathetic (including your wife and eventually, kids). He's so fragile he has to reach out on the internet for validation and still can't get it. It's clear he isn't happy, despite his flowery talk.

[–]199639 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling he is writing this to convince himself more than an audience. This is one step before suicide.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 18 points19 points  (1 child)

This is satire, right?

...right?!

[–]randomkloud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope so. It was very painful to read. I'm glad I found TRP or I would have remained stumbling in the dark surrounded by wolves.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (2 children)

Hahaha, he thinks she entered her sexual prime in her 30s, oh God I'm in tears, she had a string of sexual affairs before him, but he was the first she got to know intimately.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she had a string of sexual affairs before him, but he was the first she got to know intimately.

Aka "I was the first guy who didn't just p&d her".

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The ultimate in cluelessness

[–]GetRichOrDieTRPin 16 points16 points [recovered]

I used to bang a feminist years ago who had an LD boyfriend who was also feminist. I guess they had an open relationship, that's what I was told. Shit was cash, she was a total freak and I pushed her boundaries as much as possible... She just ate it up! The really dominant sex made her squirt for the first time with me. Anyways her relationship fell apart because she had literally zero respect for the guy (not even enough to be her long distance emotional tampon) and she tried to branch swing to me... Lol no. Btw I'm not some kind of Adonis, I look decent and have a ton of improvement ahead of me.

[–]GetRichOrDieTRPin 18 points18 points [recovered]

One more thing from the article... Notice how he needed to get shitfaced with his wife multiple times to convince himself of this arrangement? It's because it's not natural for a man to sit at home while his wife gets plowed!!!

[–]Organicdancemonkey- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt be surprised at all to learn he eventually lets a bullet fly to take him home.

[–]1NV0K3R 15 points16 points  (5 children)

>and I’m glad because I’m a feminist

Edit:

if she only likes sex with her husband or boyfriend, she’s boring and lame

What. In. The. Literal. Fuck.

[–]Ringoddess 12 points12 points [recovered]

Believe it or not, some ppl actually do think that. Ppl seem to think I missed out on shit because I married the first and only guy I was ever with. They automatically think it means you only forever have vanilla sex and are super boring. Truth is, I have no desire to "experiment" with anyone else if I can explore my sexuality with the man I love, it's probably more rewarding, a lot less awkward and less dangerous than trying to do it with random other men, plus I feel attracted to ONLY this man so what am I possibly losing out on? I mean hey, if other people prefer to do this shit with people they don't love, don't trust, and have a good reason not to love or trust, you do you, but stfu about it being the "right way" to do things.

[–]1ErasmusOrgasmus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel attracted to ONLY this man so what am I possibly losing out on?

3.5 billion men on earth but sure, you're only attracted to this ONE guy who just miraculously happens to live in your vicinity.

HAMSTER ALERT! HAMSTER ALERT!

Edit: --Also note gentlemen, exhibit no. 445105 of how women just cannot stand to leave men alone and let them have their male spaces.

[–]kafka-tamura -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Guys we've found the unicorn

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to be your basic average sentiment for any normal woman. Note, it's not that somehow she wasn't a hypergamous creature any more; she was, but she "had the right idea" in her head.

Now she's trying to explain herself, as if being a decent woman she gotta hide it in the shadows, lest the blue haired chicks find out, and you're declaring she's a magical unicorn. In less than 50 years they been able to mess things up pretty damn bad family-wise (on purpose, of course), using primarily television.

[–]recon_johnny 14 points15 points  (2 children)

This shit CANNOT BE REAL. I'm mean, it just can't. What kind of man can not only accept, but want this?

I've got so much anger at not only the beta depicted in the essay, but of all the sub-men who think shit like this is even REMOTELY acceptable.

I want to know the steps that someone could take in getting to this position. Where's the drive? Where's the self-respect? Where's the MALE part of you that SCREAMS for what is rightly yours?

God forbid men have the same attitude--hey honey, take care of the kids, I'll be back after banging some hot HB8+, and will give you a full report on how well she serviced me. Good thing you don't work, because I'm going to need some looking after. But somehow, this fantasy is listed in a mainstream (NY Mag) media as perfectly acceptable? Fuck me.

Fucking shit, I'm so angry right now.

[–]newmewuser4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a thing called brain washing. Feminazis love to turn impressionable young males into spineless faggots they call "male" feminists.

[–]aallen1587 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anger at someone else ruining their life is wasted energy. Save it for when someone's idiocy threatens your own well being.

[–]RedPillarOfSalt 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I'm calling bullshit on this article. I think its a false flag from a female feminist.

  1. Google the authors name and the only thing that comes up is a few references to that article. No other article ever written by that name, no Facebook or other information pulls up either. The only existence of the authors name is that article, nothing else anywhere. When does that ever happen in real life?

  2. "Paulo"? That's the stereotypical name given when people talk about women indulging their fantasies with a latin lover. Its the name women use to relate the idea of such things to other women. Its their version of "Suzie Rottencrotch" for military men. Whenever such a thing is described in broad terms "Paulo" is invariably the name used.

  3. "It took me about six months — many long, intense conversations, and an ocean of red wine — before I knew it, too." What man talks like that? Long intense conversations and red wine? I like conversations and I like red wine but...that's not the drink a man would choose to convey this information to other men. That's the drink a woman would choose to convey this information to another woman. Even a beat feminist man would say "Gallons of whiskey or an ocean of beer"

And many more things written in the article. I'm not buying it. This was written by a woman for other women to read and become convinced they should be cucking their men, and then to show their men to show "see? other men are opening up to the freedom of womens' sexuality!".

This is false flag, faux outrage-porn, propaganda from a feminist.
This is a fairy tale about a feminists ideal man. This is NOT what it appears to be.

You're being hoodwinked! Bamboozled! Led astray!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if this is so - the lesson learn remains the same:

I think the lesson here is obvious. Feminism is a sexual strategy and especially 3rd wave radical feminism is the AF/BB strategy in the extreme. It only serves to pander to womyns whims no matter how decadently perverse and/or selfish.

Being a male feminist is as this beta idiot has unwittingly admitted is a complete surrender to the imperative. Its utter subservience and capitulation.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This man must be so dead inside and yet has to rationalize his wife's behavior because he cares so much about being a feminist and accepting. This isn't feminism. This isn't marriage. This is cunt lead abuse

Would bet my life that she was the one that came to him with the idea. Would bet my life that she already had someone in mind. Would bet my life that he was reluctant. She then promises the well known trap that "we both can sleep around!"

Guy sees this is a great opportunity. Girl knows that he will not be able to get laid easily (if he could, she wouldn't be so willing to sleep around). Once they both agree he can't EVER ask to go back because she can play the "you're just saying that because you can't get laid" card

Women admire and desire power. Feminism strips men of said power. I guarantee you the guys she's fucking doesn't give a damn about feminism. This guy is so close to the truth... But so far

[–]MikePatton-yakyakyak 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Poe's Law. Can't tell if troll or real anymore.

What kind of a "man" would be proud that his wife finds him so sexually repulsive that she fucks a new guy every night? Even in my most blue-pill state, I wasn't a full-blown fucking creampie-eating cuck.

[–]qwerty622 4 points5 points  (1 child)

This reads less like a post about a feminist man and more like a post of a man trying to alter reality and his feelings towards it to suppress his urge to kill himself.we laugh but I feel genuinely sorry for this guy.

[–]purplecabbage[🍰] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

If this guy only knew what he could do. It would be a great project. He should start lifting hard core, upping his social game, and get some new clothes. Once he starts hitting Tinder and POF and starts looking more alpha, his wife would notice. Then she'd be begging for him while he's about to oblige some carousel riders. Hell, he might even be able to get a threesome with his wife and another bitch. If only he'd wake up to TRP.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lemons to lemonade angle - if it were any of us you know we'd be playing it like that - if we were ever to get into that position in the first place.

[–]lizzardbwain 15 points16 points  (9 children)

This is actually really great. I'd prefer that arrangement.

I get to raise my own kids by myself all properly ? AWESOME ! She gets to date other people and they have to put up with her crap ? AMAZING

Stay at home dad FTW. And when she come back from having sex with chad, I'd say "That's nice dear"

Holy crap. Could I divorce her and get half her stuff and keep the kids ? Play the victim card ?

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Interesting angle... Could be why she hasn't dumped him yet.

Dude better not get a job lol

[–]jcrpta 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Your daughter learns that behaving like this is perfectly acceptable? GREAT!

Your son learns that he should accept this behaviour? WONDERFUL.

[–]lizzardbwain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now son, don't be a little simp like daddy is:)

[–]antariusz 5 points6 points  (1 child)

lol, you think those kids are actually his?

[–]ghostCanape 1 point2 points  (1 child)

And if he's not completely out of shape and boning other chicks from time to time, I'll bet it's not a DB either, since she'll bang the shit out of him for mate retention purposes.

If he can cope with the jealousy it would be a sweet situation, but since he's a clearly beta as fuck and thus has no frame I'll bet he's just sublimating all of it. This is proven by the fact that he took any convincing rather than saying "OK hon, I'll be going out and chasing tail Friday".

And yes, in a divorce it would be very likely he'd win, being a SAHD is one of the few situations where the courts are likely to be in your favor.

[–]lizzardbwain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey honey, I'm not into sex atm, my head hurts.

Wouldn't touch her after first occurrence, might catch chad's crabs and I'm not into seafood:)

[–]GrandmasterHurricane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh man...

This read like the diary of a man trapped in a dark cave, forced to eat his feces, fingernails, and hair to survive. There's a fog of massive desolation and sorrow in his words. He's like a human living sacrifice.

[–]DemonSmurf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We should all find and start fucking this dudes wife.

[–]PetrolFlavored 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Despite my total withdrawal from the economy and the traditional sources of masculine identity, I can still argue I am a provider. I provide care.

This is it, you win the 2015 Mangina Award.

Good work sir. (e: typos)

[–]SlimThugga 6 points7 points  (1 child)

If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won’t explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I’ll tell her it’s a hot story and I’m glad she had fun. It’s hot because she’s excited, and I’m glad because I’m a feminist

I’m grateful to my wife for pushing us to take this leap, and whatever happens to us in the future I would do it all again. And when she comes home tonight and crawls into bed beside me with a hot story about her date with Paulo, she’ll do it all again, too.

Sorry to interrupt the furious circlejerking here but this guy is clearly trolling. You can read his aggression between the lines. He wrote the whole article in a way that makes feminism seem as evil as possible since that's the whole point of his trolling. You can tell because he doesn't do a good job at pretend-rationalizing how exactly feminism ties into his situation. A real feminist cuck would bring up all sorts of studies, quotes and retelling of events in order to back himself up.

[–]1ErasmusOrgasmus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studies? Quotes? Those sound dangerously similar to facts, which we all know are tools of the patriarchy used to oppress women.

Seriously have you ever debated with a feminist? They never cite shit unless it's something they just read on Buzzfeed two seconds ago. They believe that their feelings are sufficient to back up their assertions because their solipsism prevents them from acknowledging the possibility that their subjective emotional experience does not represent objective reality.

[–]I_is_the_best 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol another example of not sure if feminist or trolling

He did however got some things right:

Monogamy meant I controlled her sexual expression

&

We aren’t afraid of their intellect or their spirit or their ability to bear children. We are afraid that when it comes time for sex, they won’t choose us.

Those are some valid points. The first one is relevant as that's the default option we are taught by the society. Wife up / find a girl and then it's up to you to make sure she doesn't cheat on you. So while she's sucking your resources / commitment it is your job to make sure she's not cheating, and even if you catch her in the act it is you who failed and will face conseqences (divorce rape). Let that thought sink in - that's shown as the default option men have. Even here on TRP you see people starting posts on how to make relationship / marriage work - people should realize that it's just a stacked game and you're putting yourself in it.

The second one is also almost close to the truth and revelation. Woman's value is her body and sexuality & women's SMV on SMP is higher than that of most men.

[–]Rhenthalin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Entering her sexual prime at 30", 73% certain that this is a troll. Otherwise....jesus fucking christ dude how does the dirt taste under her boot? god damn....

[–]Pathfinder24 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I call BS on the whole thing. Literally didn't happen.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Same here. What is up with all this cuckold propaganda these past few years?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally I think this is a troll post (not the dude who posted it here, but the article referenced here) because he uses the terms status and money.

I think it's a work of fiction meant to display what can happen if you surrender your dignity.

Maybe not though. Maybe this guy is just that kind of pathetic.

[–]Sks44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From the article:"But I find I can meet those demands, and that I am able to build my self-confidence out of nothing more than the basic dignity we all possess. I’m grateful to my wife for pushing us to take this leap, and whatever happens to us in the future I would do it all again. "

He has no confidence and ceded his dignity to his slut wife. Continue caring for the kids,paying the bills and listening to your slut wife talk about her abnormal behavior. I'm sure your children and peers respect your feminist stance of being a doormat.

[–]king_of_red_alphas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds precisely like Winston at the end of 1984 when he finally, tearfully learns to "love" Big Brother. Right before he is shot in the head.

[–]1jimjackjoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's satire. satire only works as an art form when it's subtle enough for most people to take it seriously. "A Modest Proposal" was subtle enough to trick people in it's day. But now that we teach "A Modest Proposal" as an example of satire, and are conscious of the concept, you have to split hairs more to get your satire across.

[–]Hank711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My open marriage has made heavy demands on my ability to silence the voice of doubt in my head, that gnawing feeling of worthlessness.

Dude just comes out and says it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feminism: it's only okay if I do it

[–]CastratedBetaOrbiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No matter what feminists say, they won't respect a man who has no job, or makes less money than they do.

They'll argue all day that they're for equality and house husbands are all progressive thinking, but in the end they won't respect a man without a good job.

This beta bitch is playing the role of the wife, taking care of the kids while his wife is the man, making money and getting cock when she wants, from whom she wants.

I can't even read pass the second paragraph.

[–]collidoscope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to say the guy who wrote the article is trolling because I would get downvoted into oblivion. However, I'd like to point out that his name looks like a pseudonym and he has no other articles posted on that site or any other site on the Internet. In fact, nothing comes up with you search his name on Google. That's all I'm going to say about that.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children)

Yikes that was painful to read. He was glad she had "fun"?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Maybe he was secretly hoping Chad's load was still dripping out of her puss so maybe he could get a taste.

[–]SilentForTooLong 3 points4 points  (1 child)

There are actual fetishes like that.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's just so fucking ridiculous. Cheating is the only thing that would bring me to violence and this story really riled me up. I can't imagine having that little respect for myself, and that bitch obviously has no respect for him. Fuck that shit.

[–]beltwaytr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading this made me nauseous. I can't imagine any guy having that kind of mindset and believe the kind of shit he is spewing. I can't even begin to guess what this guy's damage is. The lonely virgin desperate for any female attention? The brainwashed male feminists? The complete and total idiot? You just wanna grab the guy and slap some sense into him.

[–]wolverstreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing that infuriates me more than cucktales.

[–]1cover20 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's pathetic. But he says he gets some too. But not as much.

His game sucks. He needs to learn some game and start having more success. Tell her stories of Sarah and Annette, how their pussy was tight and they gave great head too.

He would suddenly see some desire for commitment from here. He should be careful not to fold, let her suffer with her joy for his success. Because this stuff is hard for men to deal with, but it practically kills a woman.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun shines on a dog's ass once in a while.

Think about it - what woman would want to fuck a broke dick, cucked, stay at home dad?

Maybe a prearranged swinger swap - maybe.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this has to be the most elaborate troll ever. like shit like this cant be real. and if it is then is there hope for someone like this? or is suicide the best option

[–]SephiXen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost just had a brain aneurysm reading this. Holy fuck that was crazy.

[–]nouveaugosse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dudes who identify as feminists are a forgone conclusion in my book. Why even waste your time with analysis etc? I think effort would be much better spent waking up the millennial peter pans to the dark future that awaits them if they don't sack up real quick.

[–]user6580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thos guy is an absolute cunt. I have never read any kind of bullshit that has made me so angry. This guy is too far gone, no amount of help will save him.

He is just a cunt, I've met transgenders who are more deserving of the title "man" and they dont even want the title.

You are not a man and you are not a feminist. You are a deluded fool and a cunt.

P.s. everytime I see "shes 30. . In her sexual prime" haha fuck that shit her sexual prime was 22 and now she's jist a used up slut staring down the wall.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's scary how much one can be brainwashed.

No need for sci-fi films.

Being a true male feminist requires the ultimate sacrifice of self respect and personal self worth

Don't forget the sacrifice of dignity.

Despite my total withdrawal from the economy and the traditional sources of masculine identity, I can still argue I am a provider.

Deep down, he knows what he is doing is wrong.

I can't read anymore ot the post. This relationship is not a bad one. I mean, the man is getting out there fucking other people (abundance mentality, dread game at the max) while the woman obediently stays at home and does the housechore.

I'm not agains open relationships. But this man acts and considers this relationship as a traditional marriage. So that's not an open relationship, it's him being cuckholded.

May this fucker's slut leave him without money, connections, ressources and without understanding of what's happening. May he suffer. No pity for male feminists.

[–]SeekingTheWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't finish the article due to ludicrous amount of cringing it was giving me.

[–]1sardinemanR 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I feel like I read this before, and TRP took it apart last time too. Maybe it's new, the date looks like yesterday, but maybe it's just so common that it feels like I already read it.

But one thing I have to write OP, it sounds like she already rode the carousel. She admits to not having a bf but having a handful of men a handful of times. Knowing how women downplay, and what a simp this guy is, that is code for carousel riding to the extreme. I'd say 30 minimum partners. And at a young age too. Then she went looking for her BB, but he couldn't even BB right.

I wonder if the kids are his. I hope not, as I don't think a man like him should be reproducing. For the sake of his kids that is, they need to have better genes to succeed at life, and I'd say why not give them a better shot?

Nobody should ever marry a non-virgin, outside of widows (and even then, if she's like, a 10x widow, that needs to raise some flags with you).

Personally I think the dudes fucking her are probably simps too. I mean she's married, has a bunch of kids, is definitely older, why are people lining up for that? I've been hitting consistently in the 18-23 range. Even if I go up a few years, there's no need to go past 28 or so max. And certainly not someone with kids and in a marriage. While in this case the dude is harmless, you never know if she cries rape because she doesn't want to admit to her husband or family that she's been slutting around.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are people lining up for that?

It's pussy. No effort required. It sells itself.

[–]greencrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't wait to get herpes from my wifes BF

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

How does it work? We take turns going out. Because we have small children (ages 6 and 3), one of us stays home. (We don’t like to use babysitters because it gives us a curfew; we’d rather go out unfettered than worry about turning into a pumpkin at midnight.) Going out alone to hooking up with others was an easy transition. It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

Hi sexy girl at bar, I'm a homosexual, cuckolded, stay-at-home-dad with no income. Want to bang?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id believe it if he didnt say loretta lynn on the stereo. Feminist propaganda trolling ny magazine

[–]poopie420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man this shit is depressing.

[–]mescalinejasp 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I'm experiencing both sadness and disgust towards this 'man'.

What the heck happens to someone that allows them to reach such a pitiful state.

[–]mkopec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shit cant be real. I mean it has to be a fake post by some troll or something?

I mean lets be real here fellas, no man of any self worth would let his wifey fuck other guys and be ok with it, unless he was fucking others as well.

[–]Diabolical_Nuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly almost threw up reading that swill. After reading a bunch of TRP for the last year, I can't believe that something would make me have as physical a reaction as that "article". If nothing else, this is evidence that the male hamster is real, and in some cases stronger than the female.

[–]ioncloud9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm disgusted by this spineless wet noodle of a man, just imagine what his wife thinks of him.

[–]smokeybehr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't read past the first paragraph, as I was already beginning to seethe at how much of a nutless 110% pussy this guy was going to describe himself as by the end of the article.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole article is a fucking nightmare. What an absolute pile of shit. He goes to say

Lying to each other begins with lying to yourself, and now we don’t have to lie to anyone

He says this so that he can justify his wife wanting other people and making it feel like a good thing. She has a deep seeded need to fuck anyone but this stay at home fucktard and he makes it out to be she would be living a lie if she didn't get that opportunity. The problem with that though is that it took him months of convincing to get there so isn't he now living a lie? He has given up on who he was and what he wanted to make his wife happy. The exact next sentence is this

There are of course moments of jealousy, resentment, and insecurity

It feels like you're still living a lie.

I don’t want her to fall in love with anyone else, and every time she goes on a date, I confront the possibility that she might.

Yeah more lying.

This is a result of having zero self esteem. Being a stay at home dad destroys you as a man. It makes you feel worthless and just lucky to have a woman who will send the scraps your way. This complete and total loser is content to have a woman crawl into his bed to tell him all about the other men she is fucking.

Eventually this man will outlive his usefulness. Her children will be old enough soon to not need a babysitter and she will realize that she doesn't need him anymore and that's when she will leave him.

Learn from this man. He is a perfect example of what not to be in every single example. Never let your wife take control of the ship because she will always be a terrible captain. Her solipsistic nature and completely selfish desires will never be in your best interest.

[–]NotQuiteRedPill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That post just doesn't seem real. WTF?

[–]I_TRY_TO_BE_POSITIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really can't even finish reading this. How does someone respect themselves so little?

Honestly though thanks OP because I look down on myself sometimes for not being everything I could be. At least I'm not this sorry bastard.

[–]PMME_YOUR_TITS_WOMAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's totally fake. From a google result for the name, a forum:

" this is "his" first and only story.

Also, the only references I can find on the Web regarding a "Michael Sonmore" relate to this story. There is no Facebook profile or anything like that. Most writers are huge attention-whores and are on FB.

Nor do I see any college info or race info when I reverse the last name to "sonmore michael" (you can usually tell people's backgrounds by seeing where they graduated or what races they've run).

This story doesn't say Michael Sonmore is a pseudonym. So with all this in mind, I'm saying Scorpion called this one and the magazine either got played by a fake writer or is playing the public with a fake story."

[–]PowerMasterLord 2 points2 points [recovered]

I feel sickly when reading his words. I imagine a feigned smile.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine him sleeping in the fetal position every night his wifes out getting ploughed by Paulo and Chad Thundercock as he manically repeats in his head "she loves me".

[–]zapatosdemadera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a really sad article to read. I can't help but suspect that Poe's Law is at play. My only hope is that this guy is also going out with other women so that the playing field is TRUELY LEVEL.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 0 points1 point  (18 children)

Is Paulo Latino? Seems like another wonderful installment of White genocide cuckolding-is-great JTRIG Jew propaganda.

I don't mind throwing out crazy theories when the author is a no-name nobody who has never written before and has no bio whatsoever. This isn't even news and the Semites who push this filth barely even take the time to hide their tracks anymore. I find it all very boring and frankly a waste of time to even consume it--even for the purpose of refuting it.

[–]GetRichOrDieTRPin 28 points28 points [recovered]

I see this pattern all the time. What is the motivation? Why does the media try to turn white dudes into milkbag physique cuckolds? and why do they constantly try to make other races seem sexy to white women? The only alpha white males you see in media are villains. God damn it why is /pol/ always right?

[–]Philhelm 6 points7 points  (5 children)

I've noticed this trend too. White males in movies or on television in are often milquetoast hipsters, or slovenly incompetents. Meanwhile, the black guy is always a cool Alpha male. It's even worse with blond men, who have been relegated to villainous douchebags, at best.

In fact, fair hair (in men at least) and skin are often considered to be less attractive and are sometimes openly ridiculed. Conversely, if one were to state that people with darker features look like dirty mongrels, people would become enraged.

[–]Elodrian 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Every summer since 2007, the Marvel Universe released another blockbuster superhero movie or two featuring 1-6 white alpha male heroes, and also Scarlett Johansson. To date, I think there is one non-caucasion hero, and he's Iron Man's sidekick. These movies are consistently the biggest cinema events of the year. Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit movies were all white males and white male elves.

Game of Thrones, The Flash, True Detective, Arrow, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Supernatural, Gotham. I just rattled off a half-dozen shows currently on TV, and all the protagonists are alpha white males, and also Emelia Clarke. Captain Picard and Jack Bauer have both been retired, but they remain touchstone examples of male leadership to this day.

What trend are you talking about? Your sweeping generalization would be more believable if it accounted for any of the data points I have watched in the past decade.

[–]Philhelm 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Being able to cite several, or even many, counter-examples does not mean that there isn't a trend going in the opposite direction. Furthermore, the examples you cite revolve around medieval warlords, super heroes, long-established characters, etc. These are not normal people by any stretch of the imagination. Super heroes are always going to be super, after all.

Where I've noticed the trend is in the majority of other movie and show genres, in which the depiction of the white, middle-class husband and father is far, far less favorable than it would have been, say, fifty years ago. These are normal people who are depicted as weak, nerdy, incompetent, etc. Normal black male characters are usually depicted as being alpha and cool, or really funny. Obviously there are exceptions, but you'd have to be blind not to see which way the wind is blowing.

[–]Elodrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm blind then. The movies and TV shows I listed are pretty well an exhaustive list of what entertainment media I've consumed in the past 5-10 years. I guess there's Scrubs, too, but neither the black nor white leading men were exactly alpha males in that.

What shows am I not watching?

It's probably worth noting that I don't have a TV I leave on. I download shows that I want to watch, so I might only be watching good TV shows. If you're referring to sit-coms, remember that those are characters the audience is supposed to be laughing at.

[–]LaV-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arnold Schwarzenegger

James Bond (actors, all but one I think)

Archer (obviously)

Kevin Costner (whatever)

Silvester Stallone (Italian, but not Jewish)

Travis Fimmel

Clive Standen

Hugh Jackman

Sam J. Jones (cause fuck yeah)

And on and on, white guys still got it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 6 points7 points  (3 children)

You can read this but basically you already nailed it with your /pol/ is always right comment.

All the information is out there but one just has to formulate the right question in order to start putting the pieces of the puzzle together.

[–]Primemale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to see some one reporting this on TRP. It's like some of the guys think the women control feminism, who do you think funds this garbage? where did it orginate? a long with all the other sub groups of society, they are used to divide and conquer.

You ever listen to the ''racist'' and ''anti-semite'' Dr. David Duke?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

That was surprisingly convincing but I don't get what motivation Jews would have to hate whites so much.

[–]RealGucciSosa 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Don't think we should turn this into a semite vs non-semite thing, but you are absolutely on the mark when you bring up the fact that certain Jews are at the vanguard of the social and economic degradation that we are living in today. From the Federal Reserve to the SPLC to the ADL to the media (warner, viacom, nbc, mgm, comcast, google, facebook) all the way to the AFT (american federation of teachers). Who are leading these organizations? Do your own research people.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 8 points9 points  (2 children)

They should be admired. They wrote the textbook on how to infiltrate and destroy an enemy of superior numbers using psyops. Climb social hierarchies, become leaders in business, law, government, academia. Implode society from within while remaining both "patriotic" and also perpetual victims.

We should admire and aspire to achieve such cut-throat Dark Triad level shit.

[–]RealGucciSosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first victim of ethnocentric Jewry & Zionism was Judaism imo. Then came everyone else. I still want to live in a peaceful world, but i think its a dream. Been an activist, have gotten in trouble, nothings changed. Now i keep my mouth shut most of the time, and enjoy the decline.

[–]LaV-Man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

WTF? I don't hate or love Jews. Don't really know any (that I know of). What is this racist crap? I honestly don't get it and I think it degrades TRP to associate it with racism.

[–]FaustoRMD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This, this and fucking this. It's time for the red pill to swallow the REAL red pill.

[–]Jasmudda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if this guy is just playing the long con? He plays the subservient house husband while his wife openly goes out and bangs whatever she wants. She clearly makes bank if they have multiple kids and he doesn't work. When she tries to let go to swing to that higher branch, she gets slammed by his years of evidence of being a loving husband and responsible father. Makes out like a fucking bandit in court.

[–]LithiumEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Let me reason with the supporters of this opinion who have any knowledge of human nature, do they imagine that marriage can eradicate the habitude of life? The woman who has only been taught to please will soon find that her charms are oblique sunbeams, and that they cannot have much effect on her husband's heart when they are seen every day, when the summer is passed and gone. Will she then have sufficient native energy to look into herself for comfort, and cultivate her dormant faculties? or, is it not more rational to expect that she will try to please other men; and, in the emotions raised by the expectation of new conquests, endeavour to forget the mortification her love or pride has received? When the husband ceases to be a lover—and the time will inevitably come, her desire of pleasing will then grow languid, or become a spring of bitterness; and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of all passions, gives place to jealousy or vanity...

This is, must be, the course of nature:—friendship or indifference inevitably succeeds love.—And this constitution seems perfectly to harmonize with the system of government which prevails in the moral world. Passions are spurs to action, and open the mind; but they sink into mere appetites, become a personal and momentary gratification, when the object is gained, and the satisfied mind rests in enjoyment. The man who had some virtue whilst he was struggling for a crown, often becomes a voluptuous tyrant when it graces his brow; and, when the lover is not lost in the husband, the dotard, a prey to childish caprices, and fond jealousies, neglects the serious duties of life, and the caresses which should excite confidence in his children are lavished on the overgrown child, his wife."

  • Mary Wollstonecraft

[–]ucfgavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that guy....at least the other guys are enjoying his wife.

[–]superonionstrp 0 points1 point  (2 children)

If ever mental gymnastics were to become an Olympic sport, we have our gold medalist.

Seriously though, call me an asshole, a dick, or whatever, but honestly...I'm glad guys like him exist. It just makes it easier for guys like us to go out there and do our thing. He's clearly happy being walked all over, who am I to wake him up, when I can fuck his wife?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Not that I haven't fucked married women in my life - because I have - but if I were to know this woman's entire vile story I might be a little too disgusted to go through with it.

Well, unless she was smoking hot.

If she was smoking hot and I knew I was going to get balls deep - I can't lie - I probably would fuck the taste out of her mouth and then run far away to remove myself from any potential drama.

[–]superonionstrp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You gotta have standards...that's not what I'm talking about though. Lots of people see a guy like this and feel sorry for him. They want to wake him up so badly. Why? He's happy. I'm still very new to RP (and young, so I havent been in the married woman situation, although I suppose I could pull a Bill Burr) but I don't wanna be Joey Diaz, trying to explain to someone who doesn't want to wake up...I wanna be the guy who fucks his wife so hard he gets a rude awakening. In this specific case, they have kids and that's icky, but you get my point.

[–]TheQuestion78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like does feminism destroy a man's ability to understand the term "unequal"? Wtf are you getting out of this relationship? You are stuck raising the kids, your wife is going out getting free sex, affection, etc. to the point where you have to work doubly hard to make she doesn't leave you, and you are in constant fear because she is the one with the economic power in the house and if she leaves you you are royally fucked. Like...where is the equality coming from here? What is the guy getting in return? I want to introduce a term to this dude's feminist lingo: It's a highly advanced concept called "Being taken advantage of" where a person gets all of the benefits in a relationship at the expense of another. Revolutionary idea isn't it!?

[–]rundownweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can anyone be so fucking pathetic, god damn

[–]disposablefleshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, it was enlightening for me too. Swallowing the pill was a lot easier when you have a practical example right in front of you.

[–]jojochan 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but he said he doesn't want to suppress her sexuality because that's the patriarchy...yet he was ad when she was falling in love. Maybe a little different, but wouldn't that still be a patriarchal role by suppressing her? Loophole in the entire argument no?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If expecting fidelity in a marriage is patriarchy, then every married woman in America is a patriarchal shitlord.

Go on twox and tell those women and sycophantic white knights that the expectation of fidelity in a marriage suppresses your sexuality as a man. You'll probably get a shadowban for trolling.

Dude is gaslit into accepting an emotionally abusive reality. He's now suffering from stockholm syndrome at the hands of an abuser. What his wife is doing to him is pure unadulterated savagery.

[–]TheJollySatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know i skipped anger phase... Getting a taste from reading this article.

[–]a_chill_bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about that post doesn't sit right. The way it's worded seems awkward to me. Gotta be fake.

[–]pelag1us 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me literally sick.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, do we think it's fake? The author has no personal details available, but it's possible it's a pseudonym for someone who really is going through this wretched life.

[–]40_SixandTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't read beyond the first paragraph. If this is real that is totally fucked up.

[–]SilentForTooLong 0 points1 point  (8 children)

Er... if he isn't giving her money, then he's, by definition, not a BB.

If he's also not an alpha...

What is this guy?

How do you explain this woman being so loyal to him as opposed to just leaving him?

Also...aren't open marriages ideal for alphas that want to get married for some reason?

[–]aallen1587 3 points4 points  (4 children)

She gets free maid and nanny service while she goes out and bang whomever she wants. And since she's the one with the job, she'd be paying him child support and alimony. So while she doesn't make anything off him, being with him kills so many birds at the same time it would be foolish to break that arrangement. It's the best of all worlds for her.

A penny saved is a penny earned. Sometimes being a BB means you're providing value by saving value somewhere else.

[–]SilentForTooLong 0 points1 point  (3 children)

That makes women out to be much more rational than TRP orthodoxy suggests they are capable of being...

[–]aallen1587 0 points1 point  (2 children)

The worst thing you can do is underestimate the conniving capabilities of a woman.

[–]SilentForTooLong 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Welp, that's a very serious paradox unfortunately... you can't treat women like children, and masterminds of deceit at the same time.

[–]aallen1587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using blanket generalizations to decide how to act when dealing with individual situations lacks any sort of wisdom. You can choose to live your life like that, but if you do I see that as childish. Some women act like children and should be treated as such. Some women are keen as fuck and will get the upper hand on you if you discount them for no reason but believing they all act on baser impulses 100% of the time. And some women can be an overgrown child one day and a master manipulator the next. Life isn't a black and white thing, and to see it as such shows a lack of maturity and awareness. But this is just my point of view. You can choose to see it however you want.

[–]zxDanKwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was right about one thing... he's still providing for her.

He's providing babysitting so she can go out and ride the carousel.

That's why she's not leaving him. She doesn't have another nanny lined up yet.

[–]Diabolical_Nuke 1 point2 points  (1 child)

How do you explain this woman being so loyal to him as opposed to just leaving him?

When did, "Hi honey! I went out and got face-fucked by Chad earlier today!" become loyalty?

[–]SilentForTooLong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you don't get divorced, and you still have sex with that person?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started off laughing manically at this guys stupidity, and your choice use of language.

Then I kind of got sad at the obvious double think this guy is inflicting on himself. He (all betas/manginas/menenists) knows full well he's being fucked over, but knows he's unlikely to secure another womans attention maybe ever. So he enters into the delusional self-pity; 'she still loves me', 'she's just exploring like a good feminist'; 'I am enlightened and enjoy relinquishing power'...

But then I ended on disgust. He is, in summary, a weak man. Anyone willing to guess what physical shape this guy is in? Unable to confront his wife. Unable to improve himself or take responsibility.

On some level he is aware of his blue-balls double think. It's his coping mechanism for not growing a pair. Respect to paolo. Kill or be killed.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could write a thesis on some of the bullshit in this article but he claims that people say to him "Stay at home dad is the hardest work on the planet" and that women DONT receive the same compliment

.... What? Stay at home mom being the hardest job in the world is such a common trope that I've heard it a thousand times

[–]NidStyles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit is just hilarious.

Honestly, I could be a stay at home dad, if I had a plenty of land and a pole-barn with a shop setup in it. Obviously I would be able to make enough money to support my kids. There wouldn't be a woman in the picture though, fuck that noise.

[–]jaredschaffer27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, this actually pained me to read. Holy fucking shit the lack of self respect it takes to allow that to happen is only dwarfed by the balls-aching post-hoc justifications that follow.

He doesn't respect himself and clearly his wife doesn't respect him. The real fucking tragedy here is that his goddamn kids won't grow to respect him.

[–]OctaShot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't read any further. This idiot is so indoctrinated that it hurts. The second that you have to apply political propaganda to justify something non political, you're done. This guy has an 18 wheeler hamster.

[–]Benjruba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so fucking mad and I'm not even a paragraph in. I think I'll just stop reading to save myself from all the anger.

[–]Delumine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck this. That shit was horrendous to read. Dude's living hell on earth

[–]LionLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL the Male hamster can be absolutely fucking pathetic.
This miserable creature is a disgrace to men and a shame to his genetic lineage.

[–]1kick6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My open marriage has made heavy demands on my ability to silence the voice of doubt in my head, that gnawing feeling of worthlessness.

Yea dude, it's not an issue of nuture, this is nature.

But I find I can meet those demands

An ability to fucking lie to yourself is not a skill

and that I am able to build my self-confidence out of nothing more than the basic dignity we all possess.

You have the lowest level of self esteem imaginable: you haven't accomplished anything, you're not good at anything, you haven't created anything...all that's left is basic dignity. Your self esteem is based on being juuuuust goood enough to get locked in a cage at the zoo with the other animals. And magically you've rationalized this as a good thing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

monogamy means I controlled her sexuality via the patriarchy blah blah

Too brainwashed by his cult to see that monogamy is a two way street and a mutual agreement. Buddy, if you were "controlling" her then she was "controlling" YOU in the same way! Shit!

[–]1GroundhogLiberator 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Bit late to the party, but this one word really stuck out to me:

It wasn’t until my wife mentioned one evening that she’d kissed another man and liked it and wanted to do more than kiss next time that I realized how my status as a Man depended on a single fact: that my wife fucked only me.

Not confessed, not admitted, not revealed.

Mentioned.

She thinks so little of her idiot husband that she told him of her infidelity as flippantly as if she were commenting on the weather.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Lol that part had me laughing out loud, you can tell the guys a pathetic little bitch by that comment. I'm just picturing the scene right now. Husband "Hey hun how was work?" Wife "Great darling, Dave the Executive who i've fancied for a long time tried to kiss me and I ended up snogging his face off, next time i'd like to go one further and let him fuck my brains out if that's ok with you"? Husband "Sure honeymuffin, I wouldn't want to oppress your Female sexual expression by trying to control you with old school Patriarchal methods, after all you've taught me a lot about feminism and what it means to be "equal", go and fuck Dave and have a great time". Wife "Thanks babe I will, i'll be sure to tell you all about it, so what's for tea"? These people really exist.

[–]1GroundhogLiberator 1 point2 points  (1 child)

after your description of their conversation, I'm picturing hubby wearing a shock collar.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a great pet that's for sure, her own little lapdog who does everything and says anything she wants to hear.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck, what did I just read?

I could only read a paragraph or two at a time; my head's still reeling reading about this guy spinning his wheel at break-neck speed.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cringed so hard my body turned inside out

[–]Thursday088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the catch? He is paralyzed from the neck down, right? Or he lost his dick and balls in an industrial accident.

[–]fuckin_retard 1 points1 points [recovered]

The "man" in question is so sure that his initial resistance against the open marriage was a "product of patriarchal cultural influences".

Why? Why is this the conclusion he came to? Is our repulsion at dead babies simply a product of our cultural upbringing? If so, should we start killing babies?

Of course not. Because some things are inherently fucking disgusting. And this bitch fucking some alphas and then climbing into bed with her doormat of a husband and telling him all about the "hot sex" she had, is FUCKING DISGUSTING.

This man has been bent over and fucked by the strap-on that is the feminist agenda. And he's so beyond his wits that he's begging for more.

Its fucking sick

The whole situation is disgusting.

[–]TheReasoner94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found myself nodding my head constantly whilst reading this, preach the damn truth. These sluts and cucks truly are lost souls, and it's only getting worse.

[–]Redpillc0re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can somebody confirm this is not satire? If it's not, wow. Just assume the roles were inverted, can you imagine the outrage of an article about how the wife stayed at home while the husband was fucking around?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

Now please tell me this is a troll.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I bet when it's time for divorce it'll be:

I loved her too much to take from her in divorce, I made sure she had no child support payments and that she got full custody of the children! It'd be too patriarchal otherwise!

So she'll get off scot free on the divorce, too.

[–]ChrisBenRoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There can be no fucking way this is real. No way.

[–]ratthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope this is some kind of sophisticated troll. This guy cannot be for real.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more terrifying than any fiction I've ever read. This is truly a nightmare scenario. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight.

[–]Chuckit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the fuck. I've seen some shit, but this... Fuck.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobodu can possibly look at this dude and wanna be just like him. What a pussy ass bitch.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

If a woman likes sex, she’s a whore and a slut;

And rightfully so. Its way easier for a woman to get laid than a man, so its a matter of self control. People shame rapid male mastubrators too.

if she only likes sex with her husband or boyfriend, she’s boring and lame;

No it means her husband is hotter than you.

if she doesn’t like sex at all, she’s frigid and unfeeling.

No it means you don't give her the tingles down in the old musky mines.

And when she comes home tonight and crawls into bed beside me with a hot story about her date with Paulo, she’ll do it all again, too.

It means that he is perfectly okay with the fact that his wife is giving something away for free to guys she has met for only a day that he has had to work 5+ years for.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

She's got a built in baby sitter and housemaid - so for the time being that works for her. But eventually her wants/needs will change as the children get older.

She'll meet a guy with some cash willing to take on beta bucks role and she'll dump this rube.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she still on "dat cock carousel"

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I nearly vomited several times reading this. I know, I know. Obviously we all know this happens, and exists. But to watch someone write that shit, rationalize it, and be completely serious about it - I am stunned. Might as well cut his cock and balls off right now, he won't be needing them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just when I thought these type of men couldn't get more pathetic you motherfuckers prove me wrong. I can say what he should do but instead I can only tell you that this is what civilization will be like if men are programmed like this.

[–]sigmayogi 1 points1 points [recovered]

Becoming a cuck is probably the worst way to fail a shittest.

Saw this article linked from 8chan when it was published, it was oddly satisfying, like watching a really gruesome car wreck after sitting in traffic jam for hours.

I love how he avoids any detailed mention of his exploits, which leads me to believe are non-existent. He probably romanticizes casual conversations he has with women and considers that his "open" successes.

I can't imagine how mentally weak you have to be to put up with this shit. Either that or the whole thing is a troll masterpiece.

[–]TheReasoner94 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I'd love a woman to mention open relationship to me one day, just so I can get the satisfaction of driving her to the nearest brothel and kicking the slut out my car. Imagine the satisfaction man, i'd film it all too just for the lols.

[–]1cover20 0 points1 point  (1 child)

That's why they don't suggest this to you.

[–]watersign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cucks are becoming more and more common

[–]Ojisan1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL a male feminist is a man who has developed a strong hamster instead of a strong character.

[–]ThatSteveGuy33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that article is one of the most cringe-worthy things I've ever read.

[–]Corndog_Enthusiast 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Does anybody else feel wearied when you read things like this? Just glancing over this post made me shake my head.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally thought I was in some sort of bad dream when I first saw the article, then I woke up and realised this is reality.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caitlyn Jenner is more of a man than this guy, I think that says it all.

[–]gzmaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this article made my blood boil, is this normal?

[–]drew967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are the roots of his problem?? Yes, it can cause many of us to not sleep tonight, but really tho what is his core problem that started this whole chain of events??

[–]through_a_ways 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

Except for when the outcome is disfavorable to women.

[–]1cover20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes her tune would change if he started having some success. He should try it.

[–]daveofmars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monogamy is probably the most egalitarian you can get. Progressives like this guy should be all over it. Don't screw other people and I won't screw other people. Keeping equal demands and standards to each partner.

But nah. Wife turned cold, cheated, and in order for him to save his psychological state he now has to backflip into a stupid gender-studies "justification".

I'd feel sorry for the poor bastard if some part of me didn't think it was self-inflicted.

[–]Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me that the OP of this "Cuck Tales" is trolling or performing some type of experiment.

I just don't know if I can accept that some guy would be OK with that arrangement and actually write about it.

[–]bobbyv67 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Made it to the first paragraph then got extremely angry. The world makes me want to kill myself. I would honestly murder my wife, I'm not even exaggerating.

[–]TheReasoner94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if a future gf/spouse I was in a LTR with told me she wanted to fuck other men i'd laugh, very hard and tell her let's go for a drive so we can discuss this arrangement further. I'd then drive her to the nearest brothel and literally kick the slut out of my car before driving off with a huge sense of satisfaction and relief and get on with my life. Thank fuck i'm never getting married.

[–]RPthrowaway123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is truly cringe-inducing. You can see his hamster spinning as he tries to justify what he has become - an androgynous drone. It's absolutely fucking pathetic. How is this something people actually aspire to?

[–]bestpractice1 -1 points0 points  (3 children)

This post title highlights for me something a little wobbly about the red pill ethic(?) as it is delineated anyway, it seems to not acknowledge that people - men and women - are individuals with their own lives and likes and tastes and personalities. No offence intended to OP but this labelling and denigration, basically no more than give a dog a bad name and hang it, is what I call the pathetic side of red-pillism.

Strong people lift others.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes harsh truths are harsh.

[–]1jimjackjoe 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The dude who posted this lifted me and everyone else who enjoyed the post.

Around here, people use "mean" words. But these same guys will be giving free lifting lessons via Skype or mentoring directionless dudes who PMed them looking for guidance.

People lift others with their actions. Kind words are nice, but not often useful. If this feminist guy showed up on trp tomorrow broken and looking for advice, he'd get the help he needs.

And the first piece of advice would probably be: "Stop being a fucking faggot." This is how men talk to each other. It's affectionate.

[–]bestpractice1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are adjectives, and there's tude

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[–]iJJD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting and pretty far off the concept of an "open marriage" Hope by some magic this guy has a pre-nup

[–]Kirkayak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The gent would be better off with porn only, than with such treatment.

[–]clownbasket -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've seen this before. As soon as another woman took interest in the husband, suddenly it was a problem. "But he can't handle it like I can." Needless to say, the relationship didn't last.

[–]FateBender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that dude was my son, I'd murder him.

[–]baroja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ that was painful to read

[–]aussydog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah..um...all of this really really REALLY smells of someone who's trolling. I highly doubt any of this is at all based in reality.

[–]let_terror_reign -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I died so hard, but then I realised EXACTLY what happened to this guy.
He's been living in her frame and adopting her frame all along.
Exhibit A:

It took me about six months — many long, intense conversations, and an ocean of red wine — before I knew it, too.

Red flag. She talks, and has him inebriated: he's playing poker with someone with no face and no tells and who is giving him a footjob to boot. She holds every single card ALREADY, and she has set the battleground too. Think about this - the male equivalent for this would be to propose something to a woman after you've given her one toe-curling-back-clawing orgasm after another and she's too giddy to think straight so you get her to sign on the dotted line. Think he's ever going to win?

When my wife told me she wanted to open our marriage and take other lovers, she wasn’t rejecting me, she was embracing herself. When I understood that, I finally became a feminist.

No, faggot, you finally became a cuckold.
Again, she's setting your reality, you're letting her teach you things because you have no clear direction about what you want and what you believe in.

I see the wine as a gamble, both of you lower your inhibitions a little - but the choice of battlefield, (and the generals involved) has already determined the result.
If he were partly alpha and this were a club, more likely he'd lather her up and grind her till she sucks him off in the parking lot.
But since he's a beta, she forced him into a pass and brought down the catapults.

Whatever power I surrendered, I don’t miss.

At least he realises that power was surrendered. I wouldn't give him that much. He's completely brainwashed at this point.

It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers.

This is not surprising, when you already know it will almost never be used and that he's one-itising hard. This is such an awesome place for a chess metaphor. When you're ahead, every trade you make benefits you.

What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.

Thinking like an honest honorable man, playing against a queen bitch who knows her pull.
1-0 Female

I meet a lot of people who say they’ll never get married because they don’t want to get divorced, and hearing it always makes me sad, because they are cutting themselves off from the possibility of the magic that happens when two people share their lives.

Forget the obvious appeal to the masses here, but did you ever consider whether there MIGHT be some method in their madness? They don't get married because if they beta down they either get divorced or cucked. Neither is a winning strategy for a guy.

I don’t want her to fall in love with anyone else, and every time she goes on a date, I confront the possibility that she might.
She assured me she didn’t, and whatever feelings she had for him didn’t lessen what she felt for me. Believing her then was the ultimate trust exercise. We survived because eventually I did believe her.

Here's the mistake: you're surviving, but she's thriving. She's getting her AF on the side and her BB on the other.
Well played, woman. GG. Salut!
Also, fuck you.

[–]ITworksGuys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God damn...

Every time I think I have seen the lowest of the low some fucking shell of a man advertises his complete emasculation online somewhere.

I don't even know where to start with how fucked up this is.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

I saw this meme on the difference between sluts and studs. I thought it was quite profound.

http://9gag.com/gag/aVQ5qwy?ref=fsidebar

[–]WAFC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She stole that from comedian Jim Jeffries, who is hilarious. Watch his stuff.

[–]evilassaultweapon -1 points0 points  (1 child)

His hamster is now spinning at ludicrous speed.

I would have put the link to 1:00, but that's me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally right - will take your suggestion.

[–]Bottled_Void -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This guy has got to be trolling, right?

On a side note, a guy I used to work with, a highly paid engineer, quit his job to be a stay-at-home dad and look after the kids. His wife skipped out on him after six months and took the kids with her.

Lesson: as we all know, men are valued by their actions, and caregiver is pretty much worthless in the eyes of most women.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is pure brainwashing. The article is planting ideas to wives. 100% fiction.

[–]RP_Vergil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well come on, it's about time man trade in their sword and shield for diapers and milk bottles.

I mean, what's the next level of nobel sacrifice after handing them the ability to dictate how society behaves?

/s

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of the funniest things i have read all day.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. The idol worship is strong in this one. In his eyes, his unicorn wife is the Almighty God, and he is her lowly servant; not only that, he takes pride in being treated as dirt. That is the scary part. I am not sure what kind of brainwashing he had to go through in order to reach this delusional stage, but I don't think there's any hope for him anymore.

[–]balancespec2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You do realize the guy is a cuckold and gets off on being cheated on right? There are a lot of guys that like to feel like a bitch and have their wife fuck other dudes

checkout the cuckold subreddit

[–]Z-Tay -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

If this guy gets off on that, who really cares? You think this is the future of men? Get a grip dude.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The future of male feminism at least...

[–]BlueFreedom420 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

These are the kind of men who looked out the window when Rome was sacked by barbarians, smiling at his cucked civilization.