Red Pill Theory"I like you because you make me feel good" (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by BlueEstee

After having sex with a plate of mine, the oxytocin and dopamine rush made her tell me that she really likes me. "Really really really" likes me.

"Oh yeah?", I asked acting surprised, "Why is that?".

"I like you because...", she made a pause to think about the reasons. Finally she listed them:

  • I like you because you made me a good breakfast.
  • I like you because I sleep really well when you're next to me.
  • I like you because you make me feel safe.
  • I like you because you fuck me really well.

Fun fact: On multiple occasions I saw spicy text notifications on her phone from a guy named Raphael. AWALT, but that's not the point of this post.

Before TRP I would be head over heels, because a girl appreciated my efforts! See, there are so many reasons why I earned her appreciation! So obviously the more I please her, the more she's gonna like me!

However after learning about TRP, here's what I actually heard:

"I like you because you make me feel good".

She didn't mention my character traits, my passions, my actions directed to anything expect herself. She likes me, because I make her feel good. Soon, I will become familiar and thus giving her less intense emotions. My turn will end.

The more I will try to please her to gain her affection, the less she's gonna like me. That's how it works. Thank you TRP for helping me recognize that.

Stay safe, brothers.

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[–]graceful_aggression 158 points159 points  (2 children)

A good reminder that TRP allows a more conscious awareness of common AWALT behavior; over time, occurrences such as these becomes less of a surprise, and you gradually build amused mastery.

[–]Da_RectumWrecker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can predict what they are going to do and how they will behave now. I seem really witty but my responses to the same stuff are so automatic that I have to be mindful of my tone of voice to ensure that it seems authentic.

[–]dirty_ja_galis 310 points311 points  (20 children)

Yep. She likes you because you validate her.

You validate her simply by being a great catch and she being the lucky girl to suck your dick.

Continue being a great catch.

[–]dev_blockchain_ai 47 points48 points  (19 children)

Yeh dude her reasons for liking YOU were literally nothing about you

But honestly those are the best you’re gonna get from a woman in the modern world for now. Only guys can respect your skills and hobbies and character traits about YOU and how they make you self sufficient

Evolutionarily she’s in love with you precisely because she knows you can knock her up and give her babies and they’d eat well, sleep well, and feel comfortable and low drama around you. So in a way you got the highest compliment possible women are capable of. :/

They just can’t do better. IF you decide to lock this down just warning about Raphael. You better make sure that isn’t going on 100%. Or you’re just gonna get cucked.

[–]JayRock379 22 points23 points  (17 children)

I don't think you understand, bud. The thing is, she isn't LTR worthy. Go read the studies of what happens to most women after around the 3 or 4 year mark in relationships. Attraction plummets. So really, optimally, you should at most be looking for an MTR that you switch up every now and then before it sizzles out...

[–]dev_blockchain_ai 29 points30 points  (8 children)

Well I wouldn’t touch her if she’s had too many past ex’s

I married a virgin (first wife was not a virgin and it got me to trp and I figured shit out) and have kids now because I don’t want the entire globe to be Turkmenistan or Zimbabwe in 30 years but if an orgasm with a banging chick keeps the dopamine flowing more power to you. I get more dopamine knowing my genes will live on forever. Dunno why. Also fortunately my wife still asks regularly for sex even at the 8 year mark (of us fucking not how long we’ve been married) and even complains I don’t have sex ENOUGH with her. Also AWALT still applies big league.. this is why I spend a ton of time in the garage building shit, at the gym, or with kids or literally fucking other women :(. If I didn’t I know she’d already be sick of my ass.

End of blog

[–]Scorchyy 5 points6 points  (7 children)

So basically you cheat on your wife and admit it?

[–]dev_blockchain_ai -3 points-2 points  (6 children)

I have a life that would put you into a jealous rage

[–]FalconWrite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no. You were doing so well up until this

[–]Da_RectumWrecker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I believe you. While I am not married nor ever will be, I have seen a few relationships like the one you're describing. Dont let them doubt you just because they cant imagine living like that. I tell people all the time that my life sounds made up and that even I cant believe half of the shit that happens.

[–]Scorchyy 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Fuckin looser, those who say that are the most insecure and unhappy

[–]dev_blockchain_ai -5 points-4 points  (2 children)

I’ll show you how to use tinder if you apologize and watch my car so it won’t get towed

[–]Iticip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you could DM me a link to guide. Just got a 1.5yr burn.

[–]22oregon22 4 points5 points  (6 children)

My last relationship started to implode at around the 3 year mark. Less sex, blow jobs near non existent, GF lazy as hell, holding resentment about me pursuing a doctorate and not giving her enough time, etc. She broke up with me at around the 4.5 year mark because I was a bitch back then. Now she’s dating a more wealthy older guy because she is hot and can get away with whatever she wants.

Anyways, loved the write. Even though my example is anecdotal I see it all the time.

TRP changed my mode of thinking and quite frankly my life.


[–]JayRock379 5 points6 points  (5 children)

Like I said man, don't take it personally. That's how women are wired. Wouldn't have mattered if you were Brad Pitt. Hell, look what happened to him...

[–]22oregon22 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Absolutely. At 26, just starting my career, I’ll be that man in my mid to late thirties who is established financially with status and doing the same thing to guys like me at my age. Women can’t fight hypergamous inclinations— it’s biology.

[–]Da_RectumWrecker 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I thought I got laid a lot in my twenties. Jesus christ my mid thirties have been insane. I've been with 9 girls since new years.

[–]22oregon22 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Haha well done my friend. At what city is this taking place in?

[–]Da_RectumWrecker 2 points3 points