Comment Of The Week: Sexual Self-Control Is A Male Thing

Reader whorefinder posits a theory explaining why, historically, women’s sexuality has been deemed more dangerous than men’s sexuality to societal cohesion:

One thing about bitches in heat is that they really aren’t that used to it.

For all the jokes about men being led around by their dicks, men at least have the experience of being turned on a lot more and for a lot longer than women. And, because of that, how to socially deal with that.

Consequently, when a man is turned on —say, at a strip club— he doesn’t charge the stage and throw a stripper down and fuck her right there, even if he wants to. Fear of the bouncers, arrest, rape charges, etc. are there, but so is the social approbation and, generally, his experiences as a younger man knowing how his sexuality acts and not succumbing to it. This, too, shall pass.

Women, on the other hand, experience lust and turned-on-ness more rarely, and its more fleeting for them. After all, the sexual reproduction is accomplished when men ejaculate, not when females orgasm, so nature made men hornier. This is also why women complain of a mood (for sex) “being broken” by a smell, a phrase, or a sight, while men do not have that happen—because men are built to push through and get the job done.

But because women get less horny, when they do get turned on, and especially turned on well, they have much less control. A smooth player who hits all the right buttons on a girl will have her in a puppy-like state because she doesn’t know how to handle it. It’s at the root of when women say “it just happened”—she was so overwhelmed by unfamiliar instinct that she went on autopilot (almost literally), as she had no experience fighting it.

Hornier women—i.e. more masculine women—-are more in tune with the male mindset because 1) they’re led around by their vaginas more; and 2) they have experience taming their vagina cravings. They don’t act girlish because girlishness is for girls who don’t know what waking up horny every day feels like.

All this is to say that women who are able to deny sex based on some “rules” mentality are thinking instead of feeling, which means they aren’t feeling horny enough to jump on you, which means they aren’t very turned on by you in the first place.

Men have a tiger in their pants. When you have spent your whole post-pubescent life side-by-side with a tiger, you learn how to tame it so it doesn’t get you trouble. You learn to think clearly when it’s breathing down your neck. Women have an elephant in their pants; passive and docile most of the time, content to graze languorously, but when it’s roused there’s no stopping it from a destructive rampage. When her elephant is rampaging, she is helpless to think clearly.

Women only seem like they have more sexual self-control than do men, but that’s because they don’t get tempted nearly as much as men do. If women were as frequently, indiscriminately, instantly and intensely climb-the-walls horny as men are, you’d see them begin acting in some very strange ways that broke all sorts of social taboos. Women, for this reason, cannot empathize with men’s libidinous natures and psychological states. Similarly, men find it difficult to empathize with women’s needs for sexual prudence and deliberation (though men find it less difficult to empathize with women than the other way around, owing to the nature of the sexual market requiring more reality-based thinking from men than from women).

For a perfect demonstration of women’s unfamiliarity with powerful uncontrollable horniness, just watch in wonder at how crazily uninhibited in bed a “good girl” will get with you if she has little prior experience dating charming men like yourself, or dating any men at all. Women in these situations often go into a shaman-like state of complete abandon, shrieking pleasure at the top of their lungs, and unable to wind down until sleep becomes too heavy to fight off. And when they fall in love, they become utterly dependent.

whorefinder is correct, then, to say that any man struggling patiently to close the deal with an overly prudent woman is probably falling short of turning her on sufficiently. A woman who truly craves a man will surrender quicker than she anticipated to her surprisingly powerful lust impulse, and her thinking processes will then be hijacked in service to her emotions, rationalizing the pleasure-seeking actions she’s about to take, rather than turned in service to her arid reason or rules. In contrast, a woman who is able to think clearly in your company is a woman whose vagina remains dry and unperturbed.

To put it another way: You wouldn’t want to date any Rules girl who succeeded at convincing you to obey her rules.

The next post will seem to be a direct contradiction of this post, but it won’t be to those who understand that woman is cursed with dueling reproductive directives. This long duel of the female soul — eternal, unrelenting, stalemated — imbues women with a vague veneer of crazy. It’s what makes women inscrutable to high and low men, and sometimes even to the most perceptive masters of the mind.





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  1. Yes – girls only seem to have more self control. But it’s only because most girls don’t come across the kind of Dominant Alpha that’s actually capable of getting her so sexually turned on she can’t control it.

    Thus we see most women getting the substitute in a pale imitation fantasy life – this explains how millions of women are obsessed with the book “50 Shades of Grey.”

    In that book, the main character a dominant Alpha who takes her through all sorts of debasing activities that drive the girl wild.

    Most women never experience this in reality, so they have to find the substitute somewhere

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    • I just found out that The Game by Neil Strauss is going to be turned into a movie pretty soon. Am I the only one kind of pissed off about that ? I really don’t want Game to go mainstream.

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      • Unfortunately in this day and age pretty much everything -eventually – becomes mainstream

        keeping a secret and posting on the internet are kind of opposites

        just look at the fact there are more women here than a few months ago, the secret is out.

        although I must say I have not been spending that much time in the comment section,and only found out about this site maybe 6 months ago
        so I might be wrong…

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      • Female involvement runs in waves around here. This is a moderately high mark at the moment.

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      • Waves of desire, building towards an irrepressible crescendo of release.

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      • Like the musical orgasm in Rihanna’s song? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg00YEETFzg“#t=1m42s”

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      • This musical rendition is more to my taste:

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      • Interesting. I enjoy classical music though I don’t know too many operas.

        What is funny about the Rihanna song is that while first listening to it, I was particularly struck by the perfectly synthesized section leading up to the musical firework (is that a chromatic scale?). It wasn’t until I went to link the video here that I realized my little theory was correct based on what was being visually portrayed at that part. I had never watched the video before. Further of note, without knowing why, I heard a young girl (far too young to have any concious understanding of the topic) declare that section of the song was her favorite part. While music in general is often very primal, I had never heard anything quite like that. I’m not sure there has melodically (not lyrically) been anything that overt.

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      • Comparing that tinny synthetic pop gun of mulatto Babylonian sound-tripe to the world-ending Aryan passion and rebirth denouement of The Ring’s finale pretty much says it all, in re which side of the Abyss one prefers to stand.

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      • Oh stop being so dramatic 😉 This alphette loves to type.

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      • Great art requires a great audience.

        +1 on the ‘alphette loves to type’ parody, though.

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      • I’m not pissed off. Game will never stop working and very few guys are predisposed to master it.
        And it won’t be the first movie about game. There were tao of steve, magnolia, hitch… And it will never be as blunt and un-PC as this blog (which is about to become a book, and probably a movie or tv series about H like californication and shit…).

        Even among the readership of this blog and other pua forums, a small minority is consistently going out and practicing. I honestly did it for a while and now I’m settled down because I don’t have the energy to spend my life sarging. I will never find it difficult to get a new girlfriend if I ever break up but that’s about it.
        And I’m among those who benefited the most from game. I suspect that most guys in here are still the betas that they always were, because even if knowledge is cool, nothing can be achieved without practice.

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      • on September 15, 2012 at 2:09 pm Rihanna Deserved It

        Game already is mainstream in the sense that most college males are aware of its existence. Luckily, they either choose to deny that it works or don’t have the cajones to try it out.

        Most people who have successfully learned game will (wisely) never admit to it, but I can always spot out a guy who uses the Mystery and RSD styles of game.

        Try this out: next time you see an extremely outgoing, upbeat guy “beasting” on girls at a bar or club, ask him where he learned game from (assume you already know he is into game so that he doesn’t feel judged). Chances are he will mention something about Mystery Method and RSD.

        Thanks to this blog, I have started practicing a more masculine, “alpha male” form of game that most people will never embrace or understand, even if Mystery’s feminine style of game eventually becomes mainstream.

        The key to success in life is understanding how the things work and exploiting the situation for your benefit. Survival of the fittest. Always be one step ahead of The Game.

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      • I hear talk of “negs” on campus all the time, especially from nerdy aspie engineers.

        But they’ll never get it. When you compare those types to the strong alphas in athletics who not only still behave more dominant, alpha around women, but also stand more than a half foot taller at 6’2-6’6, often more facially attractive, and strong by magnitudes, it’s no contest.

        And that’s how game will progress after it hits movies and mainstream more.

        Game is a zero-sum game. When enough men learn it, genetic qualities like looks, height, physique will come more into play.

        This is what capitalism and making cash off SEDUCTION, a supposedly free idea, has wrought.

        Seriously, The Game going mainstream is a feminists dream come true! Whereas before game would combat hypergamy, now that every guy, even the already-desirables know it, hypergamy is free again to score the top genetic match.

        Again, I’ll be poolside.

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      • College athletes don’t have enough time to learn game. You need to rethink.

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      • I know lots of former D-1 athletes and you’re right. Lots of them are actually soft spoken. Their game is just their natural default state. Some of the biggest, burliest dudes are also some of the “nicest,” although they would shove your nose into your brain if you crossed them.

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      • How much time do you think it takes to learn Game ?

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      • “…genetic qualities like looks, height, physique will come more into play.”
        Not that neceserily, dominance will play even greater role.

        If let say somebody who is short, can make taller guys fear him, and is able to make fun of them, thus dominate them, taller guys will simply fade away from the women’s perspective, at least until they find the way to anull it, which some of them may, but over time, and meanwhile you yourself won’t just wait it to happen, you will constantly be improving yourself too.

        If you are in small comunities(up to 300 students or what have you), danger is that they might unite against you and together shame you and isolate you, so what you need to do is divide et impera, make friends with strong ones, find a crew to watch your back and don’t turn on them, if they don’t turn on you. Must find a way to calibrate your assholnes not to turn other guys against you… Just a thought.

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      • Mainstream? Hell, it’s gone commercial…

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  2. Indeed.

    Consider the staid behaviour of men at a strip show, compared with the behaviour of women at a hen night where male-strippers perform.

    It perhaps also explains why women are so careless (unlike men) about contraception.

    Women may enjoy male desire, but that does not mean their desire is equal to that of the male

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    • Gosh, honey, I don’t know how I got pregnant with a black baby on girls’ night out… must’ve been all the alcohol, that’s it.

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  3. This is why one of the Four Cardinal Virtues is Temperance or Self-Control. It’s the opposite of being impulsive. In fact, all of the virtues are related; Courage, Prudence, Justice, Self-Control.

    Plato was the first to list them, although people think they’re from Christianity (St.Paul added Faith, Hope and Charity).

    Men in the past did know what they were talking about.

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    • And that’s what our muslim friends (when they’re not rioting and burning down our consulates ’cause they’ve got an excuse) know: the “greater jihad” of mastering one’s urges and having agency in the world (i.e., an “internal locus of control”) beats the reactive (i.e., “external locus of control”) “lesser jihad” of blowing one’s self up or dying versus infidels to get the “72 virgins” at the behest of the other dudes with the resulting “game” and status to have all the money and the four wives. Master your passions or they will be the master of you. Or… grow up or blow up.

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  4. “…social approbation…”

    Opprobrium. Approbation is basically the opposite of what he means.

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  5. Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.

    “Men think with their dicks” is pure feminist projection. It’s women that get “beguiled”. This is why lib chicks absolutely hate the creation story.

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  6. I’m not convinced of this theory. This would only be true for western women, who are not accustomed to being hit on a lot.

    If you go to latin america where men are aggressive, talented smooth talkers and seducers, women are more aware of their own horniness, how to control it and how to release it without shame at the right time. Latinas are used to these kind of emotions, the game, seduction, etc., because courtship is still well known by men.

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    • And yet Latin America has much more external control over women’s sexuality than up here. Is abortion even legal there? Women who practice self-control don’t need social control. Just sayin’
      I’m not convinced of your theory!

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      • Latino jealousy and overreaction to any real or imagined slight on a man’s machismo is proverbial.

        It’s a more open culture in many ways, sexually-speaking, that I’ll grant… you can tell that just by watching what passes for “family variety entertainment” on the Spanish channels.

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    • I suspect you’re right about that. All the Latin cultures take a more realistic view of male and female desire.

      This suggests that Muslim women must be absolutely unprepared for any seduction — which is what Muslims believe to be true of all women. Self-fulfilling prophecy, I guess. (This suggests that girls from the Middle East will be absolute lunatics in bed if you can get past their anti-slut defenses.)

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      • Straight-laced, stuffy Protestant views of sexuality are much closer to Muslim views than to Catholic views, in my estimation.

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  7. A long time ago, well before Strauss’s Game started making the rounds, I came upon heretical (dot) com. More precisely Simon Sheppard’s the Science of Sex and The Tyranny of Ambiguity. Good stuff in there, if you haven’t come upon it already, HEARTISTE. Needless to say, the boot came down and hard on that enlightened pair of ponderers, supposedly on HBD grounds, but I have the faint suspicion that it was due to their ingress of the uglier truths.

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    • “supposedly on HBD grounds” — Bullshit. They were arrested for distributing Did Six Million Really Die, then fled to LA, where TSA promptly turned them over to the British authorities. Everyone can read the story on the website.

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      • Heh, I read that pamphlet back in the 1970’s… if memory serves, it was straightforward and plain in tone… merely facts and figures, little or none ‘political’ commentary… and not by any stretch of the imagination ‘hate literature’.

        Geez, if the UK is arresting people on those grounds, then the New Inquisition is upon us.

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      • To be fair, Sheppard was running a website called “Red Watch” which turned the tables on anti-racists by publishing their photos, addresses, instances of anti-white agitation and so on. He made himself a target.

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  8. “A woman who truly craves a man will surrender quicker than she anticipated to her surprisingly powerful lust impulse, and her thinking processes will then be hijacked in service to her emotions…(snip)…In contrast, a woman who is able to think clearly in your company is a woman whose vagina remains dry and unperturbed.”

    Yep. This is why guys will say “you only sleep with sluts” (hi, Jack!) and it’s like no, you don’t get it. They’re only sluts for me because I know how to trigger that shit. For you, they’d make you wait 5 dates. But you have to have a certain amount of experience with speed seduction and Secret Society shit to understand that. If you’re still going on sexless dates with girls , you’re like a kid in science class telling NASA engineers how space flight works lol

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    • Yep. This is why guys will say “you only sleep with sluts” (hi, Jack!) and it’s like no, you don’t get it. They’re only sluts for me because I know how to trigger that shit.

      Actually, the guy who imagines “she’s only this way with ME” is usually the one who doesn’t get it.

      Male hamster on parade.

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      • You’re the 50+yo guy who’s married to a woman he has to bribe for sex right?

        I would definitely take your advice on modern pickup and gaming in the current sexual marketplace.

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      • A lot of men bribe women for sex, it isn’t a big deal. If it’s worth it to him, then it’s worth it. If it’s not, he’ll find something else to do with his time and money.

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      • Just because bribing women for sex is common doesn’t make it NOT a big deal… especially since trading sex for bribes ultimately means a lot of women are whores.

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      • Isn’t that otherwise known as “prostitution”?

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      • Never said I had to bribe her, so don’t taze me bro.

        Note in my previous comment I said usually the one who doesn’t get it.

        Now in the case of, why… a Lochinvar of the boudoir such as yourself… I’m sure there’s an unfailing and kvorka-esque ability to turn even the primmest Miss Jekyll into the ravingest slut of a Mistress Hyde.

        We know this, here at the chateau, because… well, you’ve told us so yourself!

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      • It’s you who doesn’t get it. Of course it’s possible to be a slut only with one man. Actually, I can’t imagine a girl being a slut with everyone (unless she’s deeply damaged emotionally and in this case she needs help not more men who using her for sex). Appears that you know NOTHING about women …

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      • Well, then… case closed. Maya to the rescue to set us straight about women’s virtue.

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      • haha 🙂 They’re always the last to know

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      • I think you are right, it’s foolish self-deception to believe a woman telling you “normally, I don’t do that [fucking a guy so quickly]” or “I never did that before”. Maybe, she doesn’t even lie, but often it’s just a lie, because she wants you to believe she is a good girl.
        Of course, every guy will eat it up, because every guy likes the idea that she is oh so especially dirty just with him.
        Although it’s ego-flattering to believe that one is the best seducer in town, there are other good men too – and embracing that thought makes life easier and harder at the same time. Every guy stepping into game firstly thinks he now found the secret key to all pussies, but later on finds out that others also know a bit about how to bed women.
        The best lesson to learn from this fact is to never loosen your game, even after years of happy relationship, otherwise it might fall back on you, as I had to learn the hard way.

        Nowadays, if a girl tells me “that normally, she doesn’t do that”, I smile, kiss her and change the topic. Alternatively, I reply “the same thing said my last 5 girls too”

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      • “it’s foolish self-deception to believe a woman telling you “normally, I don’t do that [fucking a guy so quickly]” or “I never did that before”.”

        Agreed. That’s why I don’t listen to what women say. That’s like, Game 101. Every chick thinks she’s an innocent angel and writes off all the times that “don’t count” like sex outside her race, vacation sex, drunk sex she regrets, etc. Just like an interrogation pro can generally tell when someone’s full of shit and what makes them tick because he’s dealt with so many people trying to bullshit him and his job is to get to the truth, a PUA can generally tell when a woman is full of shit and what makes her tick because he’s dealt with so many of them (not just sexually, but in general interactions/conversations with thousands of different ones since that’s what we purposely go out and do on a regular basis (“sarging”)).

        Here’s why all girls are sluts, broken down in-depth:

        Attraction is a primal emotion/instinct/reaction, like anger. If you figure out what a person’s boundary is, you can make them angry. Some people are easy to make angry, some people are more difficult, but everyone has a threshold where their instincts kick in and they’ll get angry and fight.

        Ergo, all girls have the potential to be attracted, you just have to find their threshold. Some girls thresholds are lower than others, but just as Ghandi and monks who spend their lives learning to repress those emotions are basically the only ones you can’t eventually piss off with the right stimuli, pretty much any women’s attraction can be triggered since Ghandi is the outlier and those guys swinging fists outside the bar and getting angry on Internet forums is the norm.

        PUA teaches guys to specifically dig down to the girl’s attraction blueprint and extract it in a smooth way (this is where the non-judgement Secret Society stuff comes in) VS most guys who stumble around clueless and occasionally trigger it, or natural players who are good at instinctively triggering it but are the equivalent of a “friend who listens” VS a “trained psychologist” (they’re good, but not targeted/trained like a sniper). To go back to the anger example, a PUA is like the bully or comedian who can sum a person up quickly and just KNOWS exactly what button to push on someone to “zing” them and piss them off, while other people just spray-n-pray insults like “You’re an ectodweeb!” desperately hoping something hits.

        So let’s Occam’s razor this. Which is more likely?:

        1) That women are all just running on emotional instinct with various thresholds that can basically all be triggered, some more difficult than others but since even the good girl ends up getting married even SHE has an attraction threshold.

        2) Or that there’s a super secret subset of women who (despite that we all know from the Manosphere women are completely encouraged and rewarded NOT to self-analyze or train themselves to control their emotions in any way) have defied all odds and natural programming and have trained themselves to be impossible to attract in under a specific amount of hours and in specific conditions because they are MADE OF MAGIC lol And that this subset of women is statistically huge enough to be in any way more relevant than using Ghandi as an example of how peaceful people are.

        So why do red pill guys still cling to number 2?

        I suspect there’s an overlap between people who can convince themselves there’s a God to avoid the reality that bad things happen for no reason, and people who can convince themselves that not all women are like that to avoid the reality that girls and humans in general (including us here in this comment section) aren’t unique and special snowflakes.

        The reality is that some of you are still clinging to the hope that “not all women are like that” because it’s scary to think that 1) your wife, mom, etc. is/was exactly like that, 2) you will have to accept the terrifying notion that if you want to settle down, your girl will have the same slut-potential (but with a lower, but not un-reachable threshold) than the drunk mini-skirt chick dancing on the bar and you can never fully trust that she won’t stray on you unless you lock her in the basement and keep her from any human contact, and 3) you may die alone because the goal you’ve created in your head as a requirement for you to marry and settle down doesn’t exist, the same way you’d die alone if you made a vow not to marry a woman until you’ve videotaped yourself high-fiving God.

        What’s controlling these fears (which are what lead to this desperate view), is the madonna/whore complex rooted way down in it’s deepest form to where you can even ADMIT that “some girls are definitely sluts” but it has to be followed by “…but not ALL of them.” to appease your fears and to allow you to keep searching for your non-existent treasure…because if you admitted to yourself that that treasure doesn’t exist, the future you’ve imagined for yourself would be shaken and it would all be too bleak to accept.

        This is the same illusion-shattering concept as when you realize your CEO job won’t get you the pussy society built the illusion in your head that you’d get, your best friend did something unforgivable to you because they’re human and not perfect like the illusion you built up for them, and when women realize they’ve hit the wall and wasted their high-SMV years without securing a future because feminism built the illusion in their heads that there would be men a-plenty at 30+. Your world goes from black and white to shades of grey and you’re forced to contemplate “if everything I was so sure about was wrong, what else am I wrong about?” and you’re entire core, identity, life, purpose, goals, etc. are rocked.

        It’s at this tipping point that a person goes down two paths:

        1) Depression. You become jaded, cynical, sad, miserable, and feel defeated. Life feels pointless and hopeless as your brain comes to terms with the new realizations that just butt-fucked everything you held close to your core about how the world works. You become bitter, angry at the world, frustrated by the unfairness, and probably end up a MGTOW (to be fair, you can become a MGTOW in a healthy positive way too, I don’t think they’re all bitter losers despite their shitty Public Relations lol). This can also be the catalyst for removing yourself from the game entire (certain types of MGTOWs, the grass eaters movement in Japan, etc. The only difference with these groups is that there’s more of a head-in-the-sand “fuck it then, I’m outta here, good luck with all that shit y’all” mentality, which, technically speaking is actually a little healthier than reveling in the depression from a day-to-day happiness standpoint lol)

        2) Acceptance. You accept the pain and shell-shock of what’s happening as a natural thing and eventually overcome it. You find new ways to appreciate the world around you despite it’s faults and you learn to accept reality for what it really is: flawed and imperfect but often filled with good things if you look for them. You realize that people are the same, we all have potential for good and bad, and that all of that is simply societal judgement attempting to solidify shades of grey into black and white for easier processing and teaching to new generations and to keep society stable.

        A person can go through a period of Depression and end up in Acceptance, but it’s a difficult climb. How much of your identiy, reality, beliefs, hopes, future projections, etc. you based on your beliefs is a big part of what determines which path you go down. When I swallowed the red pill, I had no problem traveling the Acceptance path because I had so little experience with women that I had no part of my world based on them except the occasional day-dream about the white-picket fence life. Most of the middle-of-the-road madonna/whore complex guys tend to have much more wrapped up in their beliefs on how women are or should be, so they can go either way. The stereotypical angry bitter MRA types have usually been so burned by women that their whole identity/life/etc. was shattered by the red-pill which is why they tend to end up on the Depression/MGTOW path.

        This has been your daily dose of “how we all work”, by YaReally. I don’t expect this to sway any of the haters in this thread obviously lol this is more for the lurkers reading who may one day hit this tipping point as they read the Manosphere, PUA stuff, and meet a lot of women because ideally I’d like them to have as much information ahead of time as possible to make it easier to transition onto the Acceptance path rather than the Depression path.

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      • Thanks for your effort, but as a doctor of biology with high interest in evolutionary psychology, I don’t really need your daily dose of “how we all work”…
        You may be right in many points and especially when you say that you are better off when you start to accept the truth of who and how we are; thus tossing all romantic phantasies of good girls that are always faithfully unconditional – but honestly, almost noone here really believes that, isn’t it.
        What I don’t like is your overinterpretation of everything: game is important for your success with woman, but there were times before the invention of game, in which some men have been very successful with women.
        Conclusion: It’s not a secret science, it’s just a reminder of how men should be and behave. We unlearned that, but in the end, showing game is nothing secret, nothing special – it’s just to simple not bowing down to women. 2 centuries ago, this was normal for the majority of men, and noone called it game, it was just called “male behaviour”. It’s as simple as that. Get a life, get a vision, be ambitious, think high of yourself and believe in yourself – the rest follows almost automatically.
        Overusing game interferes with your spontaneity – if you check everything in the “alpha-filter” before you actually do it, you are just a slave to an ideology.

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    • It’s also why chicks who say game only works on sluts and they’d never sleep with a guy that fast blah blah don’t get it. They just haven’t run into a guy with solid game. Then they run into shitty PUAs at the bar and go “oh I got hit on by one once and I told him to go shove his neg up his ass!” “you go girl!!” and it’s like okay lol, think what you like. The reality is when your emotions are triggered proper you’ll spread it like the rest of the and your hamster will backwards rationalize it later.

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    • she’s a slut only for you … and any other guy who can “trigger that shit”.

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      • Unfortunately for women not many guys can. Go out and watch guys gaming, it’s pretty awful. Some of them take a girl on 5 dates without even making a move on her till the 3rd date. Bunch of frustrated blue vag out there. 😉

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      • But being a recipient of “bad game” doesn’t make a woman any less of a slut.. it just makes her “unlucky”.

        I know a guy who trains security dogs for a living. I’ve seen him work wonders with some crazy ass, baby eating, Michael Vick rescue pit bulls to the point they look like best in show pets….doesn’t mean those dogs aren’t fucked up ticking time bombs though.

        Call yourself a slut whisperer if that helps, but stop pretending that “good girls” fuck on the same day they meet someone… cuz they don’t.

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      • Careful, now… you’ll ruffle the preening peacock’s feathers, lest he fail to seduce the peahen who’s been holding out.

        Think of the peachicks.

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      • “Call yourself a slut whisperer if that helps, but stop pretending that “good girls” fuck on the same day they meet someone… cuz they don’t.”

        Wow. I usually don’t agree with YaReally, but now I’m really surprised at these comments here. Seems that many CH readers have some kind of madonna-whore complex, imagining that there are two different kinds of women etc. As a woman I can assure you something – women are all the same. Good girls=sluts. There is absolutely NO difference (if we subtract STDs and emotional problems).

        Guys with madonna-whore complex have their SMV about zero. Repulsive …

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      • Maya don’t be stupid.

        Are all men the same? Nope. Some like pussy while others suck dick.
        Not every woman is a slut despite what sluts want men to believe. Good girls can’t be sluts. That’s an oxymoron.

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      • Sluts always try to convince guys that every women is just like them. Are all guys the same? Nope. Some like pussy others suck dick.

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      • And because you chirp it, my little wren, that makes it so.

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      • Evil-I can see that you really don’t know much about females. Some of the best and good girls will sometimes just meet a guy that they instantly like and will be having sex with him an hour later. When I was younger I had this experience a number of times. In fact one of them I happened to ask how many bf’s she ever had and she said two. She was 19, slim with long natural blonde hair with a rather sweet girlish personality and I’d rate her like an 8-9. Now the funny thing was that she seemed a bit nervous and when I asked her what was wrong she admitted she was a virgin. So she actually lied thinking that I wouldn’t want her because she had no experience. Little did she know 🙂 Anyway sex is not rocket science so she was ok. I do think that a lot of chaste girls will have sex if they meet someone they like whether it’s the first date or you just met them. Perhaps they just wanted to lose their virginity and they pick you for some reason (I was much older than her) And believe it or not this same thing happened a 2nd time with another good looking slim girl. Both of these girls were in a very hard course of study (medicine)at Uni and perhaps didn’t socialise much and were also a few years younger than the average student in their classe. So I wouldn’t automatically assume that a girl is a slut just because she had sex with you right away.

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      • There is no such thing as a “good girl” who bangs a stranger within the hour.
        Please STFU.

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      • I should have made myself clearer. I did sort of vaguely know them or should I say they knew me better. I was an instructer of anatomy and they were students so of course they knew what I was like while to me they were just students out of 60, that I may have noticed. It was really just a fortuitous meeting outside of Uni.
        I’m actually still friends with both of them.
        As I said, you’re not really too experienced if you think a girl is a slut just because she has sex right away. Sometimes things just click and it’s sort of like love at first sight.

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      • So you update your story to “good girls” bang their instructors. In which shit hole foreign country did you received your feminist indoctrination?

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      • maybe there aren’t good girls, just women who are so paranoid about STDs that no amount of desire will make them fuck the guy/girl the same night. That’s me. I’d fuck a lot more people if I wasn’t so scared, especially women

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      • @evilomega- hmm let me guess. You’re a sex starved 20 something who doesn’t get out of the house much and sees the world through a geek’s eyes.
        It’s all black and white to you with the “good” girls(the virgins like yourself) and the “bad” girls (the normal ones) .You really need to grow up because you think like a litle boy.

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      • Aww… did I butthurt you Bluto?

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      • > So I wouldn’t automatically assume that a girl is a slut just because she had sex with you right away.

        Isn’t that the very definition of a slut?

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      • Anyone else tired of YaReally?

        His comments are just an amalgamation of, “I’m alpha! I can game any bitch! If you disagree with me, it’s cuz you have no game! Game works 100%! The true answer is game! Game can cure cancer, launch space ships, and provide renewable energy! Here’s a post from RSD!!! Whee!!!”

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      • Hey, anyone with whom Maya agrees 100% must really know his stuff.

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      • YaReally is CH’s ex boyfriend (they are still good friends) so he has to know a lot.

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      • Denzel washington in American Gangster said it best:

        “The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room”

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      • Your mom said it even better:

        “Shut the fuck up!”

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      • You guys sound like a bunch of hating bitches.

        YR has been providing more wisdom here on the actual pick-up and based off what I’ve seen, has more credibility than a lot of the 40+ keyboard jockeys.

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      • And you look like a refugee barker from a Tijuana circus sideshow.

        If you want to call whoremongering ‘wisdom’ well… maybe there’s something lost in translation when English is a second or third language.

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      • Nice tiara, Foster Grant.

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      • Yup he does give good advice, but this time it was with a big side helping of bullshit and passive insult. It’s the second part that’s causing all the blowback.

        And if really you wanna help the guy then join the argument about sluts and share your opinion… because otherwise you sound like a prison bitch defending “her” man.

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      • So when are you graduating jr high, gable?

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      • Has that been your experience?

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    • It’s not about this, yareally and you know it.
      We all agree that women, even the chast ones, can become uncontrollably horny if you push the right buttons. That’s not even a question and you keep insisting that it’s the crux of the matter.

      People who argue with you just don’t want to commit to a woman who has been used before, that’s all. There’s nothing shameful about buying a second-hand car, but most people prefer a new one.
      I love sluts and non-sluts, just like you. It doesn’t matter if another guy came in their mouth 5 minutes before I make out with them (although that’s fucking gross), but I just wouldn’t commit to one. I don’t show it to her, I don’t treat her like a piece of trash, and my actions don’t betray me when I’m with her.
      But if I’m going to MARRY a girl, spend the rest of my life with her and get a white picket fence and all that shit, I wouldn’t do it if she had another dick inside her.
      That’s my instinct and its utility is confirmed by studies. Non-virgins divorce more and make poor partners and mothers. It’s not even because of the studies. There’s a chance that a slut can become a wonderful wife, but the issue is not even rational. It’s a gut feeling, an obscure limbic system thing that partly defines me as a man.

      If you don’t have the same feeling, props to you but don’t try to convince us that it doesn’t matter bla bla bla. We know where you stand.

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      • The problem you have is that virgins (and non-virgins) could never fall in love with a guy who says “I love sluts and non-sluts, just like you. It doesn’t matter if another guy came in their mouth 5 minutes before I make out with them, but I just wouldn’t commit to one. I don’t show it to her, I don’t treat her like a piece of trash, and my actions don’t betray me when I’m with her.”

        You’re unlovable.

        But you still have a chance to change your beliefs and become lovable again.

        (I’m not trying to be mean but please, try to imagine this – could you fall in love with a man-hating feminist? No? Women can’t fall in love with you either.)

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      • He’s completely loveable. When he says loves sluts he means… he means love sluts because they keep his balls empty, not real love.

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      • Sluts keep his ballz empty just like banging a good girl, you know.

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      • Not really. Empty ballz is all sluts are good for.

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      • So now his balls match his head

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      • Women love jerks… men don’t.

        That’s chateau 101, Maya… and I would have thought by now that even you, my dense little cupcake, would have grok’ked.

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      • Sex fills a physical need for men – for women, particularly loose women, its fills mainly a psychological need. The psychological need to be constantly validated as beautiful, sexy, desirable and constantly worshiped and flattered. There is a strong psychological component to female orgasm and a very powerful trigger to female orgasm is this – ie to be validated as beautiful, sexy, etc.
        When normal men marry and are getting sex from the wife, they don’t need to stray because their physical needs are being met. When loose women marry, their psychological need may not always be met when hubby turns attention to things like paying the mortgage or when this psychological void can only be filled by not one, but an army of men. I think men subconsciously know this – hence the won’t marry sluts rule.

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      • You were a man in another life. Good comment.

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      • If she’ll cheat w/ you, she’ll cheat on you… and take the house and half your income to support kids who’re really her new beau’s.

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      • It’s one thing if an alpha got her….if she’s giving it to betas, then she’s a slut.

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      • on September 14, 2012 at 9:42 pm Subway Masturbator

        I would think the opposite… once an Alpha-addict, always one, five minutes of… etc.

        If she has proven a liking for betas before, isn’t that better?

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      • Yup. Sex fulfills a physical need in men while it fulfills mainly a psychological need in women. The more sex a woman seeks from multiple men is a sign that she needs to be constantly validated as beautiful, sexy and desired. When a normal man marries and he is having sex with his wife, he is less likely to stray since his physical needs are being met. When a loose woman marries, her psychological needs may not be met if hubby then turns his attentions to more serious things like paying the mortgage or if her psychological void is so vast that it requires an army of men to fill it. Men know this subconsciously hence their reluctance to marry a “slut”.

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      • Anon, I agree with you in your dislike of YaReally full-punch approach.
        BUT diving girls into sluts and virgins is really a bit off, it’s plain unrealistic. Only a tiny minority really sticks to the “true love waits” BS. If you say you wouldn’t marry a girl that is not virgin, you hardly will ever marry (not that getting married should be any aim at all). Nowadays, only nuns and female sociopaths or extremely ugly girls are virgin – and it’s good like that.

        Also, it’s better if a woman tried some dick (a few, but not hundreds, of course) before she comes to the conclusion that you are the best thing she could ever get, than a woman getting married too soon and too unexperienced just to find out 15 years later that there are other guys much sexier than you and that she never had another dick than yours.

        Fear of competition is a big love-killer, so let her instincts decide to stay with you and not the enforced pseudo-monogamy of marriage.

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      • Kronos you left out the biggest pool of virgins… young non atheist white chicks from 2 parent homes that don’t live in NYC. You have no idea how many attractive girls enter college unsoiled do you.

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      • Maybe the US are very different from Europe in that aspect…which is hard to believe, but not impossible.
        Here in Europe, (24 y.o.) , she was sweet, but the fact that she was virgin rather scared me off than made her attractive, since I only wanted her as a fling. She also told me that several guys before me ran away because she was virgin, none of them appreciated it or saw is as an honour to be the first.

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      • Maybe the US are very different from Europe in that aspect…which is hard to believe, but not impossible.
        Here in Europe, you hardly find a virgin in college. Just once, I met one (24 y.o.) she was sweet, but the fact that she was virgin rather scared me off than made her attractive, since I only wanted her as a fling. She also told me that several guys before me ran away because she was virgin, none of them appreciated it or saw is as an honour to be the first.

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      • There are a lot of key differences between US women and European women. What country are you from?

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      • There are many differences between peeps living in the US and peeps living in Europe, in spite of these two areas of the world being part of the West where the culture is similar. One of these differences is that European guys have been much more brainwashed by liberal ideology, especially feminism, so it’s very rare to find an “older” virgin (24) in Europe. Virgins make European guys queasy. They don’t want to deal with a virgin. A European man rather she lost her virginity with another guy/guys before she comes to him. “kronos1978” is a case in point. Peeps in Europe are taught that virginity is not desirable and that it’s OK and even required that you lose it as soon as possible and without much fanfare. Just find any guy that is willing to do the honors for you and from that day forward start fucking guys with abandon. It’s a disgusting liberal mindset and I can’t believe women think it’s in their best interest and guys are encouraging it. Is there any wonder why Europe is falling apart both morally and financially and Muslims stampeding and rampaging it? It all starts with sexual decay. From there it’s a slippery slope. Muslims realize Europe is in a decaying mode. Therefore, they’re trying to take advantage of this weakness to further their agenda of converting the weak minded to Islam.

        In the US we have many more conservative people than in Europe, and unless you’re a far-left liberal (they’re all far-left nowadays) who has been brainwashed by feminists/gays that permeate the media, public schools and college campuses, you don’t see virginity in a woman as a labiality. You see it as a plus to be her first and to be her teacher. Sometimes, that male instructor/female student dynamic even ends in a successful marriage. Instinctively, whether you are from Europe, the US, or any other place on earth, guys likes the idea of being a woman’s first and having that feeling of authority. kronos1978, you need to get back in touch with your masculine self and re-think virginity. If a virgin comes your way again, don’t turn her away lol.

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      • There are many differences between peeps living in the US and peeps living in Europe, regardless of these two areas of the world being part of the West where the culture is similar. One of these differences is that European guys have been much more brainwashed by liberal ideology, especially feminism, so it’s very rare to find an “older” virgin (24) in Europe. Virgins make European guys queasy. They don’t want to deal with a virgin. A European man would much prefer that a woman he’s involved with lost her virginity with another guy/guys before she comes to him. “kronos1978” is a case in point. Peeps in Europe are taught that virginity is not desirable and that it’s OK and even required that you lose it as soon as possible and without much fanfare. Just find any guy that is willing to do the honors for you and from that day forward start fucking guys with abandon. It’s a disgusting liberal mindset and I can’t believe women think it’s in their best interest and guys encourage it. Is there any wonder why Europe is falling apart both morally and financially and Muslims stampeding and rampaging it? It all starts with sexual decay. From there it’s a slippery slope. Muslims realize Europe is in a decaying mode. Therefore, they’re trying to take advantage of this weakness to further their agenda of converting the weak minded to Islam. Between the liberals of Europe destroying the West and the Muslims moving in, marrying stupid European girls and breeding with them, no Europe will exist soon enough. Same thing is happening in Australia and Canada. In America the process is a little slower but it’s happening here too. The Left is tirelessly working to achieve the destruction of civilization here too.

        In the US we have many more conservative people than in Europe, and unless you’re a far-left liberal (they’re all far-left nowadays) who has been brainwashed by feminists/gays that permeate the media, public schools and college campuses, you don’t see virginity in a woman as a labiality. You see it as a plus to be her first and to be her teacher. Sometimes, that male instructor/female student dynamic even ends in a successful marriage. Instinctively, whether you are from Europe, the US, or any other place on earth, guys like the idea of being a woman’s first and teaching her what they like. Having that feeling of authority too. “kronos1978”, you need to get back in touch with your masculine self and re-think virginity. If a virgin comes your way again, don’t turn her away lol.

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      • Lily, I disagree, on almost everything you write.
        First: A virgin is a virgin and I don’t get satisfaction from being the first. If you don’t fear competition, it’s no big deal if she had some fun beforehand.
        It’s actually much better than a women who finds out at age 35 that she had only one guy and despite he is cool, she fancies to know how it would be with another guy…
        Second: Believe me, we are not falling apart – our common currency has some weaknesses that have to be overcome, but overall, we are doing much much better than you guys. You guys hear a lot from your media, that Europe is doing badly, and vice versa. In both cases, displaying that “the other one” is doing worse easens the own situation. You actually need a lot of reading of independent, high-quality information to be able to judge.
        There is no need to spark a mental war between US and Europe, but on the long run, you guys just can’t compete, because you don’t have an organically grown, centuries-developed societal system with cultural diversity. I know, for most Americans this is a no-go, because you receive a lot of “trash foreigners” (uneducated people…of course there are exceptions as your universities are full of Chines and Indians). However, in central Europe we manage to attract a much higher percentage of well qualified, urgently needed foreigners.
        Here in Switzerland, we have more than 20% foreigners, and Switzerland is by far the richest country of the whole world. Reason: Most foreigners are highly qualified, contributing A LOT to the economy and society.

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      • Out of curiosity: could anyone give me rough estimations about the number of female virgins at the age of university entry in the US?

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      • I reply here, because further down it isn’t possible anymore.
        I originate from Austria, but live in Switzerland since many years, spent also a year in Czech republic. To my experience girls are more or less the same in whole Europe when it comes to easiness…If you speak of differences, you might be right, but maybe rather in the opposite direction than you intend.
        Here in central Europe, American and UK girls are known to be quite easy to impress and consequently easy to bed.
        It happened several times to me that american girls told me “you are the most interesting guy I ever met”, whcih I never heard from a Euro-Girl.
        For many of your girls, a guy who speaks 3 languages and lived in 3 countries is something they never encountered before.
        (I admit that it’s a lot easier for a European guy than for an American to achieve this, since your country is so huge and english is understodd almost everywhere…)

        In conclusion, I highly doubt that american girls are very different from european girls, rather there is a difference between urban girls and girls from small town in the countryside.

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      • You have the data, but interpret it wrong.

        Traveling girls are easier to bang than when they are home. All girls are like this. For example, New Zealand is full of sluts. But Kiwi girls get even sluttier when they visit the United States. That’s just the way it is.

        As far as urban vs rural. There is a difference within a nation, but that still does not change the fact that a rural American Woman will be different that a rural European.The average American bride is mid 20’s the average German/Austrian bride is 30 ish. There are plenty of key differences to note.

        The American girls that I mention in previous comments don’t lose their virginity till after 18 on average. How does that compare to Europe?

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      • Evilalpha said

        …Traveling girls are easier to bang than when they are home…

        Many years ago in Men’s Health magazine a study/survey had come to the same conclusion

        women were more “easy” while traveling abroad

        the other thing they discovered was that to her doctor the woman claimed a low number of sexual partners ,
        but when the nurse ( who was actually part of the study) asked the women , they gave a higher number ( they trusted the nurse more apparently) of sexual partners

        I say, multiply it by two and that should be closer to the actual number she has had.

        Most women lie about it, a lot of extrapolation is required.

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      • European girls are much easier to bed as a rule. But also as a rule, girls from urban areas are easier than girls from small towns and villages. That makes sense. Same thing with girls in large Urban centers in America – NYC, LA, Chicago, Miami Beach etc…..they’re very easy because they’re mostly liberal women who are clueless regarding men. It doesn’t even take an Alpha to bed them. All is required is have a dick we’ll travel. The day after they feel dirty, empty, and used. That’s when they experience buyer’s remorse. There is nothing worse than having buyer’s remorse after meaningless sex.

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      • But by he time they’re 18-19 and haven’t done it they are eager to and they almost always choose an older man to lose it to. I guess they figure he’s experienced and safe.If they’re 19 and still a virgin and have sex with some college nerd he might gossip, like they all do, and tell his friends she had sex with him and was a virgin and embarrass her. And btw, don’t think for a moment that girls in NY or any other city lose their virginity any earlier than country girls.

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      • “Also, it’s better if a woman tried some dick (a few, but not hundreds, of course) before she comes to the conclusion that you are the best thing she could ever get, than a woman getting married too soon and too unexperienced just to find out 15 years later that there are other guys much sexier than you and that she never had another dick than yours.”
        .
        That’s the prevailing mindset, but it’s not true. Women are not like men needing that same kind of experimentation so that they wouldn’t miss what they don’t know. What a woman needs is one strong guy to love her and she will flourish. She needs her man to take an active role in the marriage – be her leader and lay down the law so that she doesn’t feel ignored and doesn’t feel that he isn’t willing to make the tough decisions or take the responsibility in their relationship. Masculinity turns a woman on. Not just looking manly but acting manly too. Most of a woman’s attraction to a man is centered in her mind. Her orgasm begins in her mind. She isn’t going to get wet like all of you guys talk about here if you can’t get her turned on mentally. You get her turned on by unapologetically being your true masculine self, in and out of the bedroom 24/7 so that she always feels your control to varying degrees depending on the situation or need. Sometimes your control should be subtle, just as a reminder to her, and sometimes your control should be more obvious. It’s hard work for a man, but if you’re ready to settle down and a woman is worth it, being the leader of the relationship is a must. That’s what keeps a woman hooked on you and not thinking about trying other man while you’re in her life. Being like a man and sewing her wild oats with other partners before you so that she supposedly appreciates you more or feels she got a good catch, isn’t going to work in the long run. If fucking hundreds is not good, then fucking a few is not good either. In my book, the fewer the better. Cultivating a woman’s sluttiness before marriage as opposed to her good-girl side isn’t going to help your relationship with her. Unfortunately, what you’re describing is role reversal. I hate role reversals between men and women.

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      • Finally… a woman’s touch that actually brightens the chateau.

        Gaze upon her, ye cock carousellers, and despair!

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      • Lily, there is a continuum between slut and good-girl-
        I agree to some points you make, espc. that the man has to be the leader in the relationship.
        But dividing girls into sluts and good-girls is wishful thinking. It’s your job to make the “outside good girl” a slut in your bedroom.
        No mentally sane woman feels well with being a real slut and having many, many dicks – we also agree on that point, but probably I’m a bit more liberal when it comes to allowing a girl some fun before she had me.

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      • Look, if it doesn’t bother you then good for you. No judgment form me. BUT, I think if you met a younger girl who hadn’t had sex before and you fell in love with her very deeply and vice versa, you’d be thanking your lucky stars she didn’t have anyone before you. In fact, you’d feel jealous every time you imagine her with another guy. That’s why I said if a virgin comes your way again, don’t turn her away or feel apprehensive and scared. Roll with it and take the challenge and the responsibility of doing the honors.

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      • “A virgin is a virgin and I don’t get satisfaction from being the first. If you don’t fear competition, it’s no big deal if she had some fun beforehand.
        It’s actually much better than a women who finds out at age 35 that she had only one guy and despite he is cool, she fancies to know how it would be with another guy…”

        Look it’s your choice; you got to do what you like. If a virgin doesn’t turn you on, so be it. But that doesn’t change the reality that your attitude pushes women to lose their virginity with whomever because they figure the man they want would want them experienced before they come to him. I don’t think it’s the right approach or the right message man should send women, and yes it’s quite Liberal indeed.
        .
        “Second: Believe me, we are not falling apart – our common currency has some weaknesses that have to be overcome, but overall, we are doing much much better than you guys.”

        I beg to differ with you; I do think Europe is experiencing moral and financial decay. We are too, but I think it’s more pronounced in Europe, especially the moral decay. I find most Europeans turned pagan, lacking any morals, and that reminds me of Nazi culture a bit. I know you’re Austrian and Austrians are a little bit more conservative than people are in other European countries, but on the whole Europe is in a decline and the rampaging and stampeding of Muslims who immigrate to Europe without any proportions to take over weak-minded unnationalistic Europe is just proof of that. If Europeans were more vigilant about protecting their culture they wouldn’t allow Muslims to move into European towns and build masques unhindered and unrestricted. What’s going on with you guys and your love of Islam? I know Austrians are a bit different because they really hate the Turks that have tried to storm Austria for generations, but it’s not this way in the UK for example where Islamic extremists were welcomed at first and now are shouting form the rooftops they will sit one day at Buckingham Palace and at 10 Downing Street. Europe is decaying form the inside out. Maybe you can’t see it because you’re in the middle of it. Or maybe your mindset is so Liberal you can’t see the harm lack of morality does to a civilization.
        .
        “I know, for most Americans this is a no-go, because you receive a lot of “trash foreigners” (uneducated people…”

        What do you call Muslims stampeding Europe if not trash immigrants? Who needs them? Let them stay in their Islamic countries and kill each other so we can all be rid of them.
        .
        “However, in central Europe we manage to attract a much higher percentage of well qualified, urgently needed foreigners.
        Here in Switzerland, we have more than 20% foreigners, and Switzerland is by far the richest country of the whole world. Reason: Most foreigners are highly qualified, contributing A LOT to the economy and society.”
        .
        If you’re speaking about immigrants from eastern Europe, they are very bright people. If you are talking about trash immigrants, I don’t think they contribute anything. All they do is take away and destroy a civilized society. Look at what the Germanic tribes did to ancient Rome? It took over a 1,000 years to get out of the middle ages. Both the US and Europe are looking like empires in decline. It’s getting worse much faster now.

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  9. On a parallel track; modern American women have no skill at all in coping with sexual rejection. If they come on to you straight-on and you tell them “No!!” – you will not see much gracious-ness or even sanity in their response. They may well try to hit you as their brains short-circuit and go into panic mode.

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    • I’ve experienced this as well. I’ve had women that are cute (just not attractive to me) literally bawling, in hysterics after they realize that when I say no, it really means no. The worst ones have been the ones making easily 2 to 3 times my income or more. It’d be fascinating if it weren’t so disgusting.

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    • They’re completely unused to not having their way.

      I’ve never seen more persistence than from a girl I was putting off for whatever reason (usually pussy stink).

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    • I caught one of my employees stealing from me once about 6 years ago, and I fired her on the spot. We had had a warm-n-flirty relationship before this, but I never made a move because fucking an underling only works in places like Russia where the judges don’t mind it, yet. The chick popped her blouse, and offered me sex; I told her to get the hell out.

      She STILL talks about me to her friends as the only man who ever said “no”. She spiralled down the drug hole, and eventually spent time in jail for hiding her drug pipe in her pre-tween daughter’s purse.

      Oh, and the business is doing fine without that crazy bitch.

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      • Yeah, she became a crack Ho because you rejeted her 🙂 lol And only little dweeb omegas worry about shagging females under them.
        And if she was your “underling” she must have been at the bottom of the barrel. What were you? Chief burger flipper and she was assistant burger flipper?:)

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  10. Reblogged this on aneroidocean and commented:
    Very interesting post over at CH where a reader comment is highlighted for it’s theory regarding women being the ones who have the hardest time controlling their sexual urges, instead of men. Quite compelling.

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  11. In their online dating profiles, women almost universally demand “chemistry”. This is a barely transparent way of saying, “It’s strictly my vagina that determines who I date.”

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  12. “When there’s doubt, there’s no doubt. bit.ly/R18Kyi 45 minutes ago”

    So you think it’s not smart to get married to someone you have doubts about? When you settle for someone you probably always have doubts … But it’s still better to marry someone you can’t love … Loveless marriage is better than loneliness.

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  13. “It’s what makes women inscrutable to high and low men, and sometimes even to the most perceptive masters of the mind.”

    Beta! 🙂

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  14. on September 14, 2012 at 3:11 pm The Man Who Was . . .

    Maxim for today: Women have no defense against the alpha male.

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  15. Check out Pierre woodman for proof of this.

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  16. ” it just happened”…” I have no idea why but it just did!!!”

    This lack of self control would also explain why some feminists want to call it Rape when the morning following a one night stand the woman has buyer’s remorse.

    They hate it that their vagina can overwhelm them

    they want to blame men and make them pay for their lack of self control.

    of course this only confirms women tend to refuse to be accountable for anything

    I have said this in other threads and I will say it again; I LOVE women but they are so messed up in the head they drive me insane…

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    • John Cleese had a great party trick.

      He would walk into the center of a room and announce, loud enough for everyone to hear, “The trouble with women is that they always think everyone is always talking about them.”

      Invariably, two or three women would saunter over and say, “Well I’m certainly not like that.”

      (Proving, of course, that they did think like that.)

      I highly recommend Cleese’s old BBC TV Special “How to Irritate People”, which he made pre-Monty Python:

      http://www.amazon.com/How-Irritate-People-John-Cleese/dp/6302684862/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1347655391&sr=8-1&keywords=how+to+annoy+people+cleese

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    • Yup… if he’s not hot after the booze wears off, then it was rape.

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      • Yeah, this BS happened to me one night after seducing this girl, although I’m sure she thought I was hot, she was just a bish. Got kicked out of my university cause this psycho couldn’t handle taking it like the skank she was.

        I think I may be in the beginning stages of Alpha, though I’m not sure. I have gotten four numbers in 2 days and have slept with over 60 women, only 1 fat chick, cause I was really, REALLY drunk. NEVER AGAIN. 😉

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      • It’s hard to cry rape when you have her posing on your camera phone. CYA.

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    • Sex with those six guys at a party…

      Anal with your best friend…

      Screwed your brother while she came by looking for you…

      “I don’t know how it happened…”

      Yup. Pretty much.

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  17. Man, two comments promoted to opening for the Chateau? If I were a chick my vagina would be all a tingles, like the girl the lead band member winks at *twice* during a ballad.

    Makes me think if I weren’t so racist I’d have a lot more followers.

    Oh well. I just gotta be me.

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    • More poon, less coon is indeed the answer to your woes. But hey, you gotta be you.

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    • Whorefinder

      took a look at your site

      I’d say you are more a race realist than anything, but that would make me a racist

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      • Ha. I like that.

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      • It’s okay, most people telescope “race realist” into “racist”. It’s apparently easy to do.

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      • Lol, its quite apparent your upbringing wasn’t up to par when it comes to societal conditioning, whorefinder. However, you comments about women are more logical and helpful than your ignorance based remarks about race. You are who you are!

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      • I have only read 3 posts at whorefinder’s site but…

        although his delivery is quite harsh/angry , I am not so sure about “ignorance based remarks”

        when one looks at the facts our liberal PC media and academia is bending over backward to hide from us, there are in fact striking differences between races.

        some races despite all we have done to help them are still lagging behind in many areas

        FBI crime numbers per race speak loud and clear

        It can not possibly whitey’s fault anymore , not after all we have done and are still doing to help them

        It is not ignorant to say there are differences between races, the opposite is; if you believe we are all the same, you have been seriously brainwashed thus are not aware of important facts.

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      • Yeah, well many nations are lagging behind the West, but it wasn’t always so.
        Muslims were much more advanced in the middle ages, and with a reason. we used to be to them what is India or Vietnam to us.

        Look at history of Rome and China. China Surpassed the Roman empire in many things at the hight of Roman power…
        Even the Kushites(they are blacks) ruled the Egypt – quite effectively, and Egypt was always a regional giant but also, at the time that was one of most developed regions in the world. The GDP of disunited India was much higher than that of The Roman Empire (not to mention Germanic nations or rather hordes at the times that are a backbone of USA’s power today).

        In todays world west has held the most dominant role for a long time now. It will and it must come to an end. When? Nobody knows but it will, as any empire and force becames fractured inside and leaves space for others to take it’s place. Besides how did Germanic race came to such a power, if it didn’t exactly like that, well at least made their position much better than it was, and later created the Frankish empire. Still we managed to outperform Muslims only in second half of the seventienth century.

        Point being all of the human civilizations will someday rule over others, and all of human civilizations will be in subjected positions toward others that they once considered lower. It is a dinamic that ends only when this world ends.

        So the Africans too will have their day once, and others will be forced to listen to what they has to say. By the way, i’m kinda pissed at when Africans whine so much about the slavery, but i’m pissed only because I know that if we were less developed than them, they would have taken us as slaves to them, and everything would have been the same, just with the race reversed. That’s how world works.

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      • This is where you are wrong. As an academic and a thinker you surely must realize that the “FBI crime numbers” do not suggest a difference in races. “Despite all we have done to help”? Interestingly, inner city youth, as well as poor people are thrust a life simply by being born into it. It is foolish to suspect that kids who grow up in a neighborhood full of violence and crime not to be affected by it. What is to blame is lack of educational opportunities and poverty. It is ridiculous to suggest that if these same people who are on the streets and committing crimes would do the same if they grew up in Newport Beach with a loving and financially stable family. Think about it.

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      • “I am for doing good to the poor, but…I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. I observed…that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer.” – Benjamin Franklin

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      • Interestingly, inner city youth, as well as poor people are thrust a life simply by being born into it. It is foolish to suspect that kids who grow up in a neighborhood full of violence and crime not to be affected by it. What is to blame is lack of educational opportunities and poverty.

        Actually, this statement is what’s terribly foolish. And after having that sort of thing spoon fed to me in school some forty years ago, it appalls me that the same claptrap is being perpetuated, now with an addition two generations of the so-called Great Society showing abysmal failure.

        We’ve been hearing this “it’s just because of poverty” nonsense for innumerable generations now.

        It’s the behavior that causes the poverty, not vice versa.

        Innumerable ethnic groups have suffered far more poverty and yet pulled themselves out of their respective ghettos within a generation.

        The issue is, is said behavior tied to the genetics of the situation, improvable by any means beyond mixing in a certain amount of white blood, as with American blacks?

        Or, when left to their own devices, are nations such as Nigeria or Jamaica the best one could hope for from their kind?

        I leave that to what remains of the history of this planet…

        But it’s about time people, however well-intentioned, get off the apologist/Marxist bandwagon and try to look realistically at the fact that, no matter how much money you shovel at negroes, you’re going to get a lot more Idi Amins than Sidney Poitiers… and South Africa is never going to be as safe and comfortable as Austria.

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      • Poverty?

        and why is Africa such a mess?

        you know they have been around much longer than white people, they have been around at least 150,000 years and yet, have never invented anything, not even a written language or the wheel

        White people also were living in mud huts or caves or whatever in the beginning, but look at all they have accomplished, look at all the scientific advances and the civilized democracies ; they were not born into it , they created it with hard work and by using their brains

        You think poverty explains all?

        then why is the rate of whites born into poverty who become criminals lower than with other races?

        why would poverty – the exact same poverty in the exact same nation – affect white people differently than other races?

        What about affirmative action?

        no matter what is done to help them succeed, Blacks do not perform as well as whites or Asian.

        denying facts about races is counter productive, it is not helping anyone, not even those who you claim are victims of our alleged racism

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      • Greenhouse,

        Eventually, all black children will be relocated by the state into white homes, if any’s left after fo’ mo’ years.

        There they will learn to be white and succeed, and prove you right.

        We here shall be holding our breath.

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      • “You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift. You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong. You cannot help the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer. You cannot further the brotherhood of man by encouraging class hatred. You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich. You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your earn.
        You cannot build character and courage by taking away man’s initiative and independence. You cannot establish security on borrowed money. You cannot help small men by tearing down big men. You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.”
        –Abraham Lincoln

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      • And a Jew. Just so we’re clear.

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      • What’s your take take on the jew thing (not H since he doesn’t promote lies).
        Do you really think it’s a deliberate attempt to promote decadence and multicult in order to get back at whitey, or is it just a feature that come with the high ashkenazi iq?

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      • First, pay no attention to the stupid Catholic below who has fallen for the lie that “Jew is a religion, not a race”. I was referring to whorefinder.

        Second: It isn’t a question of deliberation. Jews aren’t the only high-IQ race on the planet, but much of their history is a record of their adaptation to exploiting European nations. Frenchmen and Germans, in step with rationalism, woke up to this in the 18th century, and for two decades we’ve been telling them what they’re doing to us, and they’ve never listened. And they never will listen, for the same reason women won’t listen: they’re self-deluded opportunists averse to incurring a loss of advantage among their hosts (white men). The vaunted high IQ is the result of this strategy, not its cause.

        In the end, you can’t ask an entire race to stop doing what it does best, even if it destroys those who provide the medium of its success.

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      • your fist reply was so poorly constructed that no one here could understand it

        stupid piece of shit

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      • “stupid piece of shit”

        Uh is a lot of things.
        Stupid is not one of them.

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      • If an anthropologist has a skull of a Jew and one of a nother caucasian , he will not be able to tell which is a Jew by examining them side by side. As anthropologists define race Jews are caucasian as are all Semites and south east Asians. Caucasians also brought the wheel and proper textile weaving to china 5000 years ago , as well as argriculture. Google search Chinese mummies.

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      • While I disagree about being a piece of shit, naturally, I’ll agree that it was a horrible answer to a very important question.

        Let me try again — and that by referring everyone to the great NXSchell:

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      • Ugh. Should have linked to his “GROUP WARFARE”. Whatever.

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      • two centuries, obv

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      • Purely academic as to why the boys throw stones…

        What matters is their target gets hurt or dies.

        For the record, I side with the intrinsic nature theory… like the scorpion in that fable.

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      • Do you really think it’s a deliberate attempt to promote decadence and multicult in order to get back at whitey, or is it just a feature that come with the high ashkenazi iq?

        Both, really. Some Jews have an attitude of themselves against the world. As for the rest, well, either very high or very low IQ plus a non-Christian and non-European background is likely to make anybody disposed to being pervasively leftist, not just Jews. (Yes, I’m proposing that Dems have a considerably wider IQ spread than the GOP, in line with their tendency to advocate for all the freaks and weirdos of the world.)

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      • Me a Jew?

        nope, an agnostic Catholic

        not a contradiction ; my birth certificate still says Catholic no matter what I believe in

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      • he’s talking about the (main) author of this blog.

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      • Nah, your birth certificate just says you were baptized a Catholic. If you became a Mormon I don’t think anybody could, or would, still call you a Catholic.

        Jews are an ethnic group. Anybody can be (or decide not to be, for that matter) a Catholic.

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      • Looks like every little nancy boy and girly man has a site these days. What they don’t have is a real life 🙂

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  18. Ok so what DOES turn women on? Not physically, say we are at 0 hour now, mine and her hand just touched because a friend of ours introduced us….

    what do?

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  19. …except in the islamic world…probably why it’s such a shithole

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  20. Candy is dandy
    but liquor is quicker.

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  21. Princess Kate was photographed topless in full view of a public road. Sounds like someone is bored with the prince and wants some alpha cock.

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  22. on September 14, 2012 at 5:16 pm gunslingergregi

    yea rum i took up drinking the other day for a while i think its gonna be a good move

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  23. on September 14, 2012 at 5:22 pm gunslingergregi

    the only prob with game is you end up with a bunch of bitches you don’t want slashing your tires and robbing you and shit telling their husbands they are leaving them for you and don’t love them anymore and you got husbands calling you talking bout they knew it was gonna happen.

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  24. on September 14, 2012 at 5:34 pm gunslingergregi

    and i’m callin bs cause woman cum a fuck of a lot more than i can
    and want more sex than i do why it can never be equal cause we are not equal derrr

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  25. on September 14, 2012 at 5:35 pm gunslingergregi

    or my dick can’t fuck for 24 hours their pussy can

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  26. on September 14, 2012 at 5:36 pm gunslingergregi

    men are the ones that need all the compassion and subsidies for this massive freaking chasm of freaking pleasure on the femal side

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  27. on September 14, 2012 at 5:37 pm gunslingergregi

    when i fuck a bitch for hours i get an orgasm a bitch gets multiple i am fucking jealous and want research done to make that shit equal

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    • Maybe if you lay off the pipe for a while you wont care so much

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    • Yeah, smoking hinders your blood flow, if you stop smoking and eat a high protein diet and eat very healthy, you should be able to orgasm multiple times during sex, unless you’re like 103 years old.

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  28. on September 14, 2012 at 5:40 pm gunslingergregi

    its a cruel world and bitches got you thinking men got the best of it lol gtfo

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  29. Hmmm. so is this why promiscuous chicks smoke alot?

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  30. I’ve never thought of it this way before but it’s a great post. It may explain why when I’ve slept with so called “good girls” when we’re in the act I’ll sometimes laugh at how ridiculous they are acting. It’s like a complete 180 in their behaviour and when you contrast that uncaged animal they have become with the “proper” behaviour they show in public, to me it can almost funny. It’s true that I’ve learned to tame the sexual urges I have because they are so common. So when I’m banging one of these girls I’m in a way more controlled state than they are. Funny…

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  31. One additional factor – when women unleash, they unleash passively.

    The charge-the-strip-club-stage equivalent for women is still a passive act of ready submission to the male who will be actively pursuing her. This means her act of sexual assertion will not be seen as overt, as a male act of assertion would be.

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  32. on September 14, 2012 at 6:51 pm mermaidsplashes

    “To put it another way: You wouldn’t want to date any Rules girl who succeeded at convincing you to obey her rules.”

    I don’t know, so many women with perfectly normal sex drives know that guys sometimes lose interest after sex because the chase is over. Don’t get me wrong, it can be very tempting, but it can really sting when a guy you slept with and are very attracted to loses interested. I’m not saying all guys lose interest if women put out too soon, but it seems to happen more often than not.

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    • No.

      A guy doesn’t come back for more because:

      1) You’re horrible in bed AND/OR
      2) You’re not as hot as his previous girlfriends or current girlfriend.

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  33. on September 14, 2012 at 7:01 pm gunslingergregi

    it is not because the chase is over its because the sex was shit

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    • No, some guys are just have weak attachment circuitry , they often boast of it, although some really fall in love and just posture. Therefore, they are more indifferent and if they have other status markers women will tend to go for them then feel humiliated and like shit when coldheart drifts off.

      Who said “Woman is vanity?” Getting pumped and dumped makes you look pretty stupid with chicks over 25 unless the high was an uber-alpha.

      One woman I knew was an on-call fuck for Bob Weir of the Grateful Dead when they were almost at their zenith. He was 40 and she was 25, and she was even embarrassed at the age difference though he was an international star and essentially an Immortal. She was American.

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    • Exactly. I’ve had girls tell priests!!! FUGGIN PRIESTS, that I was the best sex they’ve ever had. You gotta learn how to make em shake with delight.

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  34. This is so true. Sex with a girl who’s into you completely >>> girl who’s just down for some mutual grinding. Guys remember the honeymoon phase because it’s awesome sex.

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  35. Yes, very true, and yet another reason why self-serving rationalization is so important to women. The morning after they lose control, the ultra-hamstering begins in earnest and doesn’t stop until all responsibility is swept under the rug or shifted onto someone else. It’s why women who have affairs are routinely comforted and supported by their female friends…because, of course, the idea that she’s at fault for her loss of control is an entirely foreign concept.

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  36. Women have an elephant in their pants; passive and docile most of the time, content to graze languorously, but when it’s roused there’s no stopping it from a destructive rampage. When her elephant is rampaging, she is helpless to think clearly.

    I thought it was a hamster. But I’ll accept the concept of “elephanting” too.

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  37. Then again it’s easy for men to exercise self-control when surrounded by ugly woman after ugly woman in this modern day and age.

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  38. I assume you have all heard about the American University professor who breast-fed her child during a lecture. Well, get a look at this piece she submitted to Counterpunch, of all places. Her chances at tenure after this debacle: zero! CH….you need to write about this!

    http://www.counterpunch.org/2012/09/05/exposeing-my-breasts-on-the-internet/

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    • Parody-proof

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    • Wow, there are some gems in that piece, aren’t there? That breastfeeding – a completely natural act and the way one’s fucking biology determines that you feed your child – “ties her to her body”. ” I love my daughter unconditionally, but she does not define me, nor do I hope to define her”, and then the bitch refers to her child as “it” in emails to her students. Refusing to let her TA hold the baby, as would be logical, as it’s not part of the TA’s “job description”. “I am among the privileged white professional class that legislators would like to see breeding, and I have conformed to my alleged biological mandate…” as if Congress sits around and discusses how to force women into slavery of the uterus. Calling the student newspaper “anti-woman” for daring to publish an article suggesting that drunk girls bear some of the responsibility for drunk sex…

      Wow. Just… wow.

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    • I had no patience to read this whole sorry piece, but I want to know where is her husband? Must be some spineless beta who is too afraid to put his foot down and tell her how to behave or else. She shouldn’t be working anyway when her child is that young, let alone expose her boobs in public just because she is a female and feels entitled to all kinds of garbage considerations. It’s men’s fault women are behaving like this and lacking any inkling of femininity. Men can stop feminists if they really wanted to and wrest back social control. When men ruled things society was less chaotic. I guess most men lost their masculinity and leadership abilities a long time ago and don’t even realize how control is being eroded from them.

      Wait, whom am I kidding? She probably doesn’t even have a husband. Probably got pregnant form a sperm bank. Isn’t this what they all do nowadays? Those types of women have no morals anyway. What does she teach, women studies? Disgusting wench.

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    • Shoot her. Dump the body.

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  39. I’m one of those 24/7 horny, thinks-about-sex all the time kind of women. It’s horrible

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  40. Disclosure, with Michael Douglas & Demi Moore….the point in this post is illustrated clearly….

    3:55 “You get back here and finish what you started… you sonofabitch!”

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  41. Disapprobation, not approbation.

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  42. Whorefinder’s argument is also analogous to each of the sexes’ evolved method of violence. Men are equipped for physical violence, women for social. Men fight, women gossip. Men injure bodies, women assassinate characters.

    And the analogy holds in terms of controlling our violent impulses. Men normally hold back — fightng carries a price and we know it. But women can’t resist engaging in gossip and destruction of reputations.

    You know how I dub blogger Whiskey “one part insight, none parts ridiculous extrapolation”? Here is Whiskey’s bit of insight: the female/gay-driven media (aside: women and gays are not the nexus of our problems wiht the media, but they are a significant part of it) — ever since Linda Tripp, the media’s M.O. has been to ridicule and destroy any private citizen who one way or another — and usually for subjective reasons — comes afoul of the prevailing etiquettes.

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  43. NINE parts ridiculous extrapolation

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  44. OT – Women prefer girls:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2203712/Americas-100m-year-gender-selection-industry-revealed.html

    Prediction:
    Science + Female_Vanity = 80% of children, in the future, will be girls

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    • Hey, muslims already use the excess 75% of their male populations for the military and suicide bombers– for those 72 virgins, you know– so the ones with status will be able to have four wives and change them out when the reach 19. Yehah! Talk about disposbal males… you go, feminazis!

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    • Google her name, Ada Calhoun, and check out the images. You’ll even see a photo of her with her husband. That’s all you need to know.

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      • Holy shit, does it get worse. Google her husband, Neil Medlyn, and check out those photos. You won’t believe it. Why does the NYT allow these perverted fucks to write about their relationships as if they are remotely normal?

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      • Is that fag really her husband?

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      • Some would say that it’s because non-conservative jooz own the nyt, and non-con jooz promote decadence. That’s what they do.

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    • Morals, monogamy, keeping a promise, etc. are all “racist” and uptight for liberals… do it (unngh, baby!) for a higher puprose, you know.

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  45. “woman is cursed with dueling reproductive directives. This long duel of the female soul — eternal, unrelenting, stalemated — imbues women with a vague veneer of crazy.”

    In other words, women are like Hamlet… to be, or not to be…wet. That is the question.

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  46. on September 16, 2012 at 8:40 am Sir Charles Pipkins

    This long duel of the female soul — eternal, unrelenting, stalemated — imbues women with a vague veneer of crazy.

    Bit more than a veneer.

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  47. OT:
    A few threads ago ago, I stumbled upon the comment of another whore trying to justify female cuckoldry
    https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/09/05/a-virgin-mormons-journey-to-game/#comment-365813

    “Lily

    “Women of course because of the heavy price of female cuckoldry.”

    Heavy price for whom? Society? What if the intended provider is on a short, overweight and timid side while lacking in extraordinary talents, and his woman cheats on him with more intelligent, assertive, talented and physically fit men? Clearly, such a woman would benefit society as she’d find a way to pass on more genes from superior men while having those offsprings provided for by the genetic undesirables. That’s what most of the birds do and their species are better off for it. Slavic village men were also required by the elders to honor and support the women of the village who spent a few nights on the ships of the invading Vikings (usually by choice) by marrying them and raising any resulting child as their own. It’s perfectly logical. The village benefited from the strong Viking genes in the next generation, and the most that could be done by the shmucks who couldn’t even keep the Vikings away in the first place was to help raise the village’s own viking warriors which was a much better contribution than whatever would come from the shmucks’ own sperm.”

    That was my response (swallowed by moderation):

    “What if she cheats on a viking with another viking?
    What if she cheats on a good-looking guy with an ugly one?
    What if she cheats on a CEO with a club bouncer?
    What genes are better for society? Those of a greater beta engineer who can participate in building something and rising above the state of nature, or those of a sexy bartender cad who was utterly bored in school?
    What’s best? r-selection or K-selection?

    Women’s infidelity is not only about acquiring a better set of genes. It is also a tool for survival. And it is fundamentally situational. It was certainly useful in the serengeti but it’s only a tool of destruction in a civilized or half-civilized world, thus the heavy penalty that unfaithful whores have suffered during the last thousand years.

    Your attempt to override morality and ignore the cuckold “schmucks” who unwittingly raise another man’s spawn is only fair-play, since we’re mostly social darwinists and objectivists here.
    But what you need to consider is that for the most part of humans’ history, unfaithful women who were exposed have been shunned or killed, and that dominant males used to live with harems of (mostly) consenting beauties. That tells you a lot about what’s acceptable and what’s not.”

    Any thoughts?

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  48. Fabio was a guest on Howard Stern’s program years ago, they taped him meeting with several reps of the radio station. The middle-aged woman later admitted to Howard she got light-headed in Fabio’s presence, lol.

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  49. I just Wanna add one additional point to why women have more self control In general- sex biologically is meant for reproduction, men are superfically attracted to women who appear fertile – big tits, perfect proportions in body and face, these represent healthy genes that will be passed on to offspring. Men who go around spreading their seed without looking for or wanting a relationship will always lust for this. Men ready to settle down look for the superficial attractive + the good mom personality traits (which for the record I apparently don’t posses since men are drawn to me sexually and this can keep them interested for quite sometime but never lands me the deal).

    Women on the other hand, as in heat as they may be cant just sleep with anyone. They can’t spread seed. They get planted. It’s all subconscious but when a chic sleeps w a dude somewhere in the back of her mind she has dubbed him potential parent material both genetically and otherwise, even if he can or seem to only be able to support financially and never be seen of heard from again, that’s enough to push a girl “in heat” over the edge and banging some guy she just met or that platonic friend who suddenly was in the right place at the right time.

    I guess what I’m saying is… Here’s a tip. If you come across a girl who is just begging for it (and often we are, we also get really horny, it’s not 24/7 like guys but it’s frequent enough, in my last relationship I was askin for it regularly) do all your alpha moves but be sure that you convey some kind of “I am capable of giving you a genetically superior child AND supporting it”…I promise you will score. Just my 2 cents

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    • TOGTFO

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      • yea, i got huge natural tits. def has helped getting what I want in life from chix and dicks

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      • Doubt it, otherwise you’d be featuring better photos.

        You got a big yiddish mouth though… that’s apparent without pics.

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      • lol. i wont argue that one. i dont show pics of myself…its called anonymity. i dont need employers etc knowing ive banged my way across south america or that i enjoy chasing Vicodin with scotch

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      • ive banged my way across south america or that i enjoy chasing Vicodin with scotch

        And no one’s swept you up, up, and away yet… to that picket white fenced home in a CT suburb… where you can blissfully raise 2.3 children?

        Go figure.

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      • Haha. Who said that is what I wanted?

        Yea…try and be a LITTLE open minded, you might learn something. Not all women want that when they are 24. That sounds like the depths of hell actually. Why the fuck would I want to live in suburbia…in CT or in a house?? that’s such a friggin boring, superficial, uninspired stereotype of what women want.

        When I want to settle down with one man, have kids, live in an apt in a city, my transcontinental screwing, pill popping and binge drinking days will be looong gone. That’s what your 20’s are for…FUN. or are women not allowed fun? just guys

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      • In response to what my ring finger to index finger ratio is, my index is slightly longer on both hands. This is a “masculine” trait right? Like I was exposed to more testosterone in the womb or something.

        I’m not a man, not a homosexual. I mean I guess you have reinforced that I need to change both how I act around men and how I present myself if I do, and I do, ever want a family, and I ain’t getting any younger so I better start soon. Otherwise, it’s hard for me to be insulted by comments made in complete anger without any rationality.

        Calling me ugly or saying my skin is bad or anything about my looks is moot bc U have no clue what I look like, and I know I have great skin, t&a, sparkling blue eyes. I know I aged well, def look better than all those 24 year olds in Cali w fake tits, terrible skin from sun dammage who cake on make up and are having Botox by thier 28th bday. I’m not a 10, but I don’t have an interest in being one, basically I’m aware of my flaws and assets and happy w the package.

        And yes I’m an excellent cook. Top notch, grade a, come from a culinary school educated family and i find it relaxing to come home and cook after a stressful day at work. That is one area I nail the guys with. They come to stay for a few days and bt my insatiable appetite for sex, their insatiable appetites and my ability to whip up a gourmet meal, they end up staying 2 weeks or asking me to move in.

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      • Your blog says almost 30.

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      • I am almost 30. I did the banging across south america when I was 24-26. These days I’ve been keeping local and less frequent. What’s fun is relative and fluid.

        I am SO glad I got to experience all those hotties with accents and huge cocks who knew how to use them. Now, it’s not that interesting to me anymore (think it’s called maturing),

        [heartiste: i think it’s called approaching the wall.]

        and I can go live my adult life without ever wondering “what did I miss out on bc i was swept away to a house is the suburbs of ct when i was in my 20’s?”

        [what’s your ring finger/index finger digit ratio?]

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      • Most women wouldn’t brag about having ridden the cock carousel… you’re truly a unique little snowflake.

        I’m sure your suitors will soon be hewing hard at one another for spelunking privileges.

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      • 🙂 thanks. I am a rare breed. Often feel like a man trapped in an overly hormonal/emotional woman’s body. The two persona’s often at odds with one another. hey, like I said, it’s been a helluva ride, and yea, I’ve ridden hard. So, guys…spelunk away. I’m always one to reciprocate, plentifully.

        For real though, I do want a husband, home and family – someday and am completely monogamous, loyal and loving for the right person at the right time.

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      • Make sure you tell any potential husbands about the time when you whored yourself across an entire continent. That will impress.

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      • I will, eventually. Probably won’t be my pick up line though. I know how much you guys love banging chicks, but hate that chicks you’re with have banged. Such a retarded double standard

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      • That’s so sweet that you keep trying to make a point.

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      • Isn’t it? I’m sweet as cherry pie 🙂

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      • All of your comments… Lol.. Trying to push my buttons… How can I NOT take that as sexual? Are you doing this on purpose or are you really that slow?

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      • For real though, I do want a husband, home and family – someday and am completely monogamous, loyal and loving for the right person at the right time.

        Try not to let on that he won’t be the Edmund Hillary of your Mons Veneris…

        Nor even the Tenzing Norgay.

        Only the rankest omega is going to be happy about throwing a hotdog down a hallway.

        Often feel like a man trapped in an overly hormonal/emotional woman’s body.

        Funny, my first instinct was that you were actually a homosexual… the catchers often fancy themselves a Sex In The City-esque bon vivant.

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      • Noted. Thanks.

        Hmm, I guess I kinda am like a gay man, not even sure I’d be a bottom. I’m not very girlie in general, Hate shopping, no interest in bags, shoes or makeup. Enjoy being athletic and have a slight violent streak. Also, now I didn’t add this to my “sex bucket list” bc I know it would alarm most people, but i have this fantasy of taking a guy or a girl, from behind with a strap-on… I can feel you cringe now. Lol.

        I’m a female, straight, attracted to alpha’s. Between how I was raised, with my dads hippie free love views, his hatred of the word “slut”, belief that everyone is entitled to express themselves sexually without judgement or recourse, my moms more traditional take but always telling me that sex was healthy, basically vital, like food and shelter and I should have it often to stay “upbeat”, preferably w one man but a rando here and there is ok in emergent situations PLUS my natural hormanes that make me just love and enjoy sex… I’m all confused!

        Maybe there is no place for me in your guys’ world. Maybe you try to fit all women into too small boxes. Dunno.

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      • “Maybe there is no place for me in your guys’ world.”

        Sure there is, honey. How’s your cooking?

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      • but i have this fantasy of taking a guy or a girl, from behind with a strap-on… I can feel you cringe now.

        No one here is cringing at the idea of you taking a girl from behind with a strap on..the guy though. Can’t say either surprises me. I know a girl like you… who now is married and lives in the OC… poor husband.

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      • imagine taking a girl from behind while I take you from behind at the same time. at once you’re both dom and sub

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      • imagine taking a girl from behind while I take you from behind at the same time. at once you’re both dom and sub

        The middle one is called “Lucky Pierre”, if my urban argot memory serves.

        And yes, it’s nevertheless gay.

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      • Doubt it, otherwise you’d be plastering better pics on your blog.

        From the one pic you do have, I can tell you wear too much makeup and your hair is mousey and lackluster.

        From the tone of your writing, I’m betting you’re a JAP nearing 30, about to hit the wall.

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      • NONE of the pics on my site of me or anyone I know.

        Judging from your tone I’d say you were jaded and dense and have a small cock. Why else would you be competing with my huge cyber tits?

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      • Keep screeching, honey. Maybe the guys won’t notice your rapidly plummeting sexual value.

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      • Ok, because you all are guys I DEF wanna bang…right. Just for my own knowledge, what is the formula that computes sexual value? maybe it will help me stay on top (it’s my fav place to be after all)

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      • “Stay on top”

        Given the fact you are posting on a male game blog, you were never even remotely close to “on top” in the first place.

        Know that with each year in life you tally to the wall in your single prison cell you call your bedroom, youre getting farther away from EVER locking down a hot guy with a huge cock.

        You missed your chance, sister. The hottest men your age will forever and always want to be dating a young tight broad with skin you haven’t had for more than half a decade.

        So from all of us hot guys out there, enjoy your sex tourism, cause you’re too blind to see, no matter what country you go to, whether the US or South America, you WILL be pumped and dumped.

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      • Really?? You are that enmeshed with this ideaology of male superiority or the projection of male dominance you cant even take a joke?

        When I said I like being “on top” it was metaphorical – you are familiar with this literary device right? See, I was referring to the sexual position of woman-on-top, the most common sex maneuver to cause female orgasm. Hence, why I like to be on top. I wasn’t talking about who had control of the argument. Geez… Maybe you need to get laid, and laid good, you sound tense. Can’t even pick up on simple blatant sexual innuendo… Are you even really a man? I naturally translate almost anything anyone says through the sex dictionary, the words “on top” should be a natural trigger for you to relate anything said to sex….I dunno man

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      • She’s not a jap, but she’s 30, at least that’s what she said.
        And she’s complaining about being old and lonely, and seems to prefer birds over cats. At least she’ll avoid one stereotype.

        Skimmed through her blog and there’s nothing really worth the detour. Just the pre-wall rationalizations of a former bangmachine.

        She calls herself red-pilled but her responses are typically swpl libtard. She needs a shitload of cognitive dissonances to repent and adopt a conservative mindset.

        In a nutshell, she’s a slutty mess. If she keeps trolling, I’m looking forward to the spanking sessions by H and King A.

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      • My God, this one knows how to press all your buttons and all you guys are letting her get to you. Maybe you do have sexual self control, but you do need to know how to better control your reactions to women who like to press buttons.

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      • It was her button I was hoping to push…

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      • I think we hit a few of her buttons as well… alas, it seems like she’s the kind of person who can’t be insulted… reinforces my theory that “she” is actually a homosexual.

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      • The only button you can push is to totally ignore. The one sure way to get reaction here on these sort of male blogs is to say
        1) wow I’m so attractive and all guys want to bang me
        2) you guys are so retarded/neatherthal and don’t know what women want
        3) here I’ll teach you how to get hot girls like me

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      • I would have expected better replies from the men’s club, but it’s always amusing to bash a troll, especially the slutty ones.

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      • I thought my “spelunking” and “Mons Veneris” barbs were pointed indeed… alas, great art requires a great audience.

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      • You lost points for that comment. Most guys write rude shit while yawning.

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      • Uh Oh. Alison feels ignored. Everyone pay attention to Alison.

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      • Heh, heh… that was my first impression as well.

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      • I don’t think she is successful in pressing any buttons. She is revealing slutty stuff about herself, and these guys rightfully don’t like it so they’re treating her with disrespect. If you are a ho in real life, at least don’t advertise it, and definitely don’t advertise it to men who have a conservative mindset. I don’t think her baiting them is doing her much good as they’re hammering her just as much if not more, and rightfully so.

        I just can’t understand women admitting they’re sluts and being proud of it. There is nothing to be proud of in being a slut. If you’re going to be a slut, it should only be with your husband, and even then play coy a little and hard to get from time to time. Never let him see you totally unmasked and your female mystique completely revealed. Give him a chance to woo you a little, even within a marriage. Men love women that play hard to get who end up succumbing to the advances of a strong powerful man even if they are not in the mood. The art of femininity is sooooo long gone, I am afraid. Liberal girls boast without a hint of embarrassment, bragging with pride about how many sexual partners they had. It’s the same with the gay community who instead of being embarrassed with their backward-ass lifestyles, have been taught to come out of the closet and be proud of themselves when they should really be crying about their unnatural inclinations. The gay community and the feminist movement are kindred spirits and use the same mindset to justify their defective destructive ideology. This one is not the minority, she’s the majority. That’s why she’ll remain alone if she continues bragging about her sexual expertise. Unfortunately, even the most skanky of skanks ho in the back of her mind is skanking herself because she is longing for a husband and children, and she thinks that by putting out, acting like a man, and having a big filthy mouth on her she will catch a husband. These kinds of women have faulty reasoning and delusional beliefs they heard from relics of the 60s bitches who pump girls with misinformation and know-nothing bull shit.

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      • Lily nails it… I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

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      • Lily

        if you really are a woman and you are good looking

        I want to marry you

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      • Yup. I should’ve seen this coming…my bad my bad

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      • Greg Eliot and Canadian Friend, you guys are very kind. Thank you for your support.

        BTW, yes, I am a woman and I am pretty. I couldn’t be ugly with my kind of mindset lol. Conservative women are by far better looking than their liberal “sisters” (not that I have any feelings of sorority with liberal women mind you) and wouldn’t be caught dead not looking good. Looking hot should be an essential part of any girl’s life, and there is no excuse today for any woman to look unattractive (and I am not talking about putting on tons of makeup). If you’re a woman not interested in making yourself attractive to men, if you don’t work out and take care of yourself, then you’re nothing more than a complaining sourpuss filthy-mouthed bitch who hates men and who thinks she’s entitled to get male attention in spite of not looking her best (within the confines of what God gave her, of course). It’s that sense of entitlement that I hate most about liberal women/feminist bitches. I can’t believe I am calling other women bitches, but they really need some tough talk some of them, especially the ones who don’t comprehend why they can’t find true love and who blame it all on men not willing to commit to women, instead of on their shitty behavior. They need a serious jolt of reality, not that they would know what reality is if it hit them on the head. Ignoramus bitches all of them.

        If men only started putting their foot down again and taking back control, maybe they can save what’s left of the male/female dynamic, which the Left and its various tentacles are doing everything in their power to destroy. Lefties just don’t want any sexual polarity which is the essence of what makes sex alluring, especially for women. If the Left had its way, we’d all be one-sex robots devoid of any passion. That’s what the Left is doing – destroying the innate passion between men and women.

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      • Lily is another apologist of female cuckoldry (see my previous comment above).
        I would think twice before marrying her.

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      • Not so fast Anon! Just because there is another Lily poster doesn’t mean we’re the same person. I only commented on Heartiste once before this thread and that was about 3 months ago. Before you accuse me, first check the facts to ascertain your accusations are true. Otherwise, you risk looking like a complete paranoia. That other Lily isn’t me. Wise up!

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      • My mistake, milady.

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    • Read: you’re not hot as you think.

      For the record, if you’re going against chateau’s MAIN premise that women actually DON’T have more self control than men, you should provide evidence why you feel that is the case…

      …Not just open your point on an implied fact that women have more self control.

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      • I didn’t go against his statement that we have more self control when it comes to sex at all. I agree. I was just adding that there was one supplemental barrier that men need to address when approaching a woman in the midst of a sexual frenzy, but if they do, there is very little bysides their own lack of “game”
        stopping them from reeling in a chic in heat.

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      • I’m sorry that you have to be trolling here (sadly, I’m even worse) and you probably feel really bad. Anyway, don’t lose hope. If you see yourself with husband and children, you shouldn’t give up that early. I’m about your age and I also was really depressed because of this but there is still some hope and we have to focus on this hope. It’s very important that you stop talking about your past sexual experience. Don’t mention this to your boyfriend too soon (ALL men are very disgusted by women who had sex with many other men – you will have to accept that, sooner or later – but if you really feel guilty and ashamed, your husband will probably forgive you what you did).

        Hope you’ll be OK,

        Maya.

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      • LMAOOO

        I love it. A troll trolling a troll.

        Trollception.

        ROFLSSSSSSSSSS

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      • lozzzzollll

        Troll-A-Palooza

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      • And if that doesn’t work, you two can form a lonely spinsters club and come here and troll in tandem…

        Win-win!

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      • I was thinking about you … I’m not sure if you are a real person or a lying troll … Anyway, my previous post wasn’t really helpful and I was being hypocrite by giving you advice from my position. What I really wanted to say is that if you feel very sorry about what you did (having casual sex etc.) you can ask your future husband for forgiveness and if he is a human being you can expect that he will forgive you. Especially if he’s been having casual sex himself. Sleeping around is a huge sin for men too (imagine what STDs they can catch and infect their wife and baby, or imagine how immoral is it to use a drunk/insecure girl for sex and then brag about it).

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      • Thanks girls for the advice. I know I have to change my ways and mentality. I don’t really think of this as bragging. This is a blog, its anonymous and no I don’t go around telling everyone all the intimate details of my sex life.

        JUST ONE THING… all this talk about STD’s and pregnancy… where do y’all live that CONDOMS aren’t ALWAYS used?? I have a Master’s in Public Health. I’m basically a condom dispenser. And the guys I sleep with tend to be very anal about protection as well. They dont wanna end up diseased or w an illegitimate child either. I use birth control and condoms. I’m not saying it makes it any better, just safer.

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      • I’m basically a condom dispenser. And the guys I sleep with tend to be very anal …

        Damn, woman… you can’t but keep telling on yourself, can ya?

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      • Nope. and by condom dispenser… i mean i give them to people about to have sex so they are protected. It’s part of my job as a public health advocate. I dont think it has any reflection on my personal sex life.

        Also, I think its hilarious ive been referred to as having feminist ideals. Feminists HATE me. I go so against their grain AND yours. So yea, still, where do I fit in? Not conservative not a true liberal. Maybe there needs to be a new ideology for folks who dont fit within the lines…?

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      • Where do you fit in? You’re going to have to fit in somewhere because the middle is getting squeezed out, and people are going to have to draw lines in the sand pretty soon. The fact you’re here despite being somewhat of a harlot (lol, just couldn’t resist), and from what you said about men liking good girls, I believe you’re not as delusional and thus not a true liberal, so you have some hope after all. My advice, stay here and learn some wisdom from conservative. It will take time, but eventually it will undo all the damage done to you in public school, college, and the media. Ultimately, you might see the light and acquire a clearer picture of the real natures of men and women. When that happens, you’ll definitely understand why you need to change your ways and fast, even if no one knows of your sexual exploits and you think no one can hurt you with it. I just hope you’ll see the light before time runs out and you’re too old to find a quality man.

        BTW, if you are truly repentant and sorry about your past deeds, I think a man might forgive you. I hate to tell people they have no hope in hell for redemption. That’s just totally wrong and heartless. Existing without hope makes life useless. None of us is without sin. Cutting each other some slack can go a long way for both men and women. Just some food for thought there for you.

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    • Oh Lord no.

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    • LOL. Welcome, I guess.

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    • I hate your blog

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      • you wanna do an I-take-you-while-you-take-another girl threesome, dont you

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      • No, thanks for the offer though.

        Lilly, question, bc I do subscribe to the idea that men don’t want “sluts” (I’d really like the definition as y’all see it to the word slut. I have my own, but it def differs from yours. How can you be a true slut w ur own husband? To me slut implies a person, of either sex, who sociopathically seeks out and engages in sex in order to feel validated. They use it as self value currency and dont necessarily enjoy the actual act of sex) as wives and mother to their children. I know you have to play coy and emit a virginal wholesome aura. But what I don’t get it why you can’t have more than one phase of sexuality in your life. I’m not bragging about the amount of big dicked men I’ve nailed no more than I’m bragging about having seen 4 of the 7 natural wonders of the world. They are just part of my history. They were what was appropriate at the time. Should I have been playing hard to get w the hot Brit I meant in Argentina who after our 2 week romance I could never see again?

        Why can’t I have had that and then when I’m ready be chaste and ripe with feminine mystique? Im almost there and I would never sleep w a guy I saw an actual future with until he proves himself a worthy and lasting companion. Why do I need to do that for every man if im not ready for a commitment? Is there an assumption here that a woman always wants a boyfriend or something? We all Want to be appreciated yes, but tied down, no.

        A good friend of mine was loose as you’d say in HS and most of college. She’d wracked up over 30 guys by age 21 (which is still more than I have btw). Then she met someone, they fell in love, got married 5 years later and just had their first baby. No, he doesn’t know about her “number” he doesn’t want to know. All that matters is who she is now with him. Devoted wife and mother.

        So, is my friend the “urban fairy tale of sluts”?

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      • Because men know instinctively that once a woman’s been on the cock carousel it’s difficult if not impossible to keep her off. For the most part the only women I know that have had long happy marriages are ones that a) married young, and b) had few sexual partners before they met their husband.

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      • A slut is a girl who won’t have sex with them. It’s a shame word, but hey, it doesn’t help them. I wouldn’t judge.

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      • I’m too lazy and unmotivated to read your blog right now. What’s it about?

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      • “So, is my friend the “urban fairy tale of sluts”?”

        Maybe.

        But her husband is definitely a hapless chump. I wouldn’t even look at a car if I didn’t have its history report in my hand, let alone get married to a girl without knowing hers.

        Ignorance is only short-term bliss.

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      • So, is my friend the “urban fairy tale of sluts”?

        The jury’s still out…

        But if she had all those pricks sticking out of her that have been in her, she would be a porcupine.

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      • (which is still more than I have btw).

        Ah, the back-pedaling starts… see what a little slut-shaming can do?

        Keep it up, boys… she’ll be swearing it was merely one gaucho a decade ago… and that she didn’t inhale.

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      • I’m not back peddling… men sow their oats… why can’t women and then just want something different later in life?

        Did you always like the foods you like now? Would you have enjoyed and appreciated the louvre if you went as a child as opposed to if you went today? we change, grow up, hormonally and psychologically.

        No, I wouldn’t tell man my former exploits. Another friend of mine, also happily married, who had slept with over 3 people (7-12) before she met her husband has a “we don’t talk about our relationship/sexual past” arrangement with your husband. they are both really smart, attractive people who understand that all that matters is what happens in THEIR relationship. Everything else is done, over, it never needs to be thought of or talked about again. They are building a future. All you guys seem to do is focus on the past.

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      • Why can’t I have had that and then when I’m ready be chaste and ripe with feminine mystique?

        Slut it up in the twenties (at the highest point of SMV), and then become the person you ought to have been all long, chaste and full of mystique, when you’re ready to ‘settle down’, eh. That is, when the old SMV is on the decline and the choices are narrowing.

        How the hamster jumps off and on the wheel! My god, you broads are truly pieces of work.

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      • “I know you have to play coy and emit a virginal wholesome aura. But what I don’t get it why you can’t have more than one phase of sexuality in your life. I’m not bragging about the amount of big dicked men I’ve nailed no more than I’m bragging about having seen 4 of the 7 natural wonders of the world. They are just part of my history. They were what was appropriate at the time.”
        .
        OK, “amateur blogger “ here we go; you asked a few very important/interesting questions that are worth my time to answer you and maybe help you realize what’s truth and what’s just feminist mambo jumbo. I’ll answer you in 3 parts.

        First, if you had more than one phase of sexuality in your life, why talk about it? It shouldn’t be anything to be proud of, and yet I see girls wear such past sexual activity as a badge of honor when it shouldn’t be. My motto is: If you weren’t chaste at least pretend you’re a good girl who haven’t been passed around that much. By bragging about it you’re advertising that you’re indeed a slut and guys subconsciously/instinctively treat you like one, whether they want to or not – they just can’t help their male inclinations. Not only are you proving yourself a slut by speaking about your exploits, you’re actually egging other girls on and promoting such behavior, helping to destroy West societies. I care more about women teaching other women bad behavior directly or indirectly, than I care about individual misguided women causing harm to themselves.
        .
        “Should I have been playing hard to get w the hot Brit I meant in Argentina who after our 2 week romance I could never see again?”
        .
        No, you shouldn’t have played hard to get with that Brit you met in Argentina. You shouldn’t have slept with him, PERIOD. What did you get out of it besides being used for two weeks by a man you’ll never see again and who didn’t have any potential for anything long term or meaningful? You were just wasting yourself on something futile. Was the thrill of acting like a slut (which is not my kind of thrill but to each his own) worth risking STDs, pregnancy, increasing your numbers, or feeling like a worthless empty slut? Not in my book. I don’t like wasting myself over something useless. I am amazed by women that waste themselves over men with no potential just for the thrill of quick sex. The thrill of quick sex should really be the domain of men, not women. Call it double standards, but I call it reality based on our different natures.

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      • “Why can’t I have had that and then when I’m ready be chaste and ripe with feminine mystique?”
        .
        Honey, you’re really clueless if you’re asking these things, and you definitely need re-education form that feminist mindset which told you that women can behave just like men by sewing their wild oats and still be desirable after it all. Yeah, you’ll still be desirable but to men who just want to fuck you and leave you, or to men with low/no standards. Men with low/no standers don’t attract me, but if they do you then you might be a feminist looking for a loser that she can emasculate and trample on. I want to have the best and a man lacking standards ain’t the best.

        OK, Listen here. If you think you can be chaste after playing the field, it doesn’t work very well for a woman. A woman who enjoys having a 1-night stand or a 2-week relationship with some dude she just met during her travels and which she knows she’ll never see again, speaks volumes about her poor character. Certain men, especially the high-standards ones or Alphas as we call them, can detect a woman like you a mile away and they are just not going to buy it. Pretty soon you’ll find that all the men you want and are attracted to are not interested in having you. They rather have a younger girl with less sexual experience. A girl that hasn’t been used and abused by many men, albeit in her mind she always thought it’s what she wanted at the time and wasn’t being used and abused by any of the men who fucked her back in her heydays. They rather have a girl that isn’t easy to bed so they can feel like they got something precious; something that’s not easily obtainable by other men. Such a girl has high standards and that makes her feminine and desirable for high-standard guys.

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      • “Im almost there and I would never sleep w a guy I saw an actual future with until he proves himself a worthy and lasting companion. Why do I need to do that for every man if im not ready for a commitment? Is there an assumption here that a woman always wants a boyfriend or something? We all Want to be appreciated yes, but tied down, no.”
        .
        How hypocritical!!!! You mean you’ll easily sleep with a man who has no potential to be your mate, but you’ll hold out on a man you want to have something lasting with? Can you blame men who say they ain’t paying for what another got free before them? Or can you blame men who say they’re not paying for the cow if they can get her milk free? Men have it right; it’s we women that are confused and are trying to change the rules of engagement and reality.

        Let’s face it, and I am not trying to be mean, just making you look at yourself in realistic terms. If you don’t want to be tied down to a man and family at a younger age, you’re just not the wify maternal type and won’t make a goof wife to someone. You just don’t really have it in you, but you still want it because you have been taught by the nonsensical feminists to have it all. Well, you can’t have it all. That’s just a myth. You can’t run wild and free and overly independent, then expect that when you’re older and ready to settle down a man will treat you like his beautiful flower that needs his love and protection. He is going to look at you like the average woman who is good for one thing only, sexing and dumping.
        .
        “A good friend of mine was loose as you’d say in HS and most of college. She’d wracked up over 30 guys by age 21 (which is still more than I have btw). Then she met someone, they fell in love, got married 5 years later and just had their first baby. No, he doesn’t know about her “number” he doesn’t want to know. All that matters is who she is now with him. Devoted wife and mother.

        So, is my friend the “urban fairy tale of sluts”?“
        .
        She’s a ticking time bomb is what she is. Studies show a direct correlation between the number of men a woman sleeps with before marriage and her high chances of cheating. If a woman can’t belong to one man, she belongs to no one. A virgin belongs to one man and one man only. OK, it’s too late for many women to be virgins after the feminists brainwashed them, but seriously at least cut it off at 3 men. BTW, your friend is being smart by not telling her hubby about her number. She sure sounds smarter than you who likes to brag about your prowess. I hope you don’t talk about such things in real life, not even to friends. People have a big mouth. If you still want to try settling down, change course now, stop sleeping around even with men of no potential, and don’t boast about your lovers to anyone. Start acquiring some standards.

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      • you scared baby?

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  50. on September 17, 2012 at 3:50 am gunslingergregi

    oh look “fresh meat”
    if you give me money i will let you take my class where i turn former ho’s into woman that a dude wants to marry

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  51. on September 17, 2012 at 4:17 am gunslingergregi

    Noob
    Ok so what DOES turn women on? Not physically, say we are at 0 hour now, mine and her hand just touched because a friend of ours introduced us….

    what do?

    ””””””””””

    like today some dating site talk to chick for sec talk about i want to do something diferent get her number
    then i call bullshit for about an hour which is more than normal.
    have her kiss me on phone
    keeps telling me she feels like she has known me for a long time or i make her comfortable like some movie shit or something but then i am like i am coming up tonight she does the whole but your not getting sex thing i am like no pressure i don’t need sex just cuddles just trying to get to know diferent woman again no pressure on sexytime. She trying to act like she is a good girl or something. we hang up for her to send me more pics i send her a couple more and i’m remaining aloof on the smexual stuff. Asks me what i am looking for i give her the psalm out of the bible about the perfect woman and tell her that i am actually married to that woman i just can’t be with her at the moment. I then tell her about the other chick i got near my house and the day before we went to lake and cooked some tbone steakd. she allready saw pics of this chick and me (validation of me as a wanted man by a decent looking chick). Chick on phone is like she studying to be a doctor working on masters at moment. Talks about how she makes guys fall in love with her. Says she hasen’t had sex in a while talks about how i probably had sex three hours before. I laugh loud cause uhhh it came out of nowhere
    anyway chick acts tired wants to go to sleep we changed the meet cause i had some shit come up i had to do during convo.
    so going out for tomorrow night
    we hang up
    chick 30 minutes later texts me
    hey honey what time will you be on your way
    me around 12 or so
    me can’t sleep thinking about me
    i call her like what you texting for you supposed to get some sleep
    you want to kiss me more huh
    her yea
    anyway do some phone sex type shit
    i talk about owning every square inch of her body kissing her and that her ass gonna be my ass her pussy gonna be my pussy i will own her to do with as i please atm drinking my cum gonna be all mine her tits gonna be mine her lips gonna be mine her body mind and soul are gonna be owned by me all your love is gonna be for me she cums but yea anyway there it is

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  52. on September 17, 2012 at 4:25 am gunslingergregi

    actually don’t normally talk to a woman that long so we did click so hey another love in the world in bloom maybe he he he

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  53. on September 17, 2012 at 4:32 am gunslingergregi

    no alchohol or drugs involved lolzzzz

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  54. on September 17, 2012 at 4:41 am gunslingergregi

    i actually said this is our third date lol cause three dif calls but yea maybe when venue changing saying this is like date 3 or 6 or whatever to take away the defense

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  55. When was the last time a man acted outraged when being approached by a woman, because he ‘was not that sort of man’? Never going to happen, is it. Yet women are like that all the time with endless fitness tests and faux outrage. If women were as horny as men life would be like a Gay Club- but it is not, and the male prostitute would be as common as the female – but they aren’t. The supply side is female, the desire male. When was the last time a man became outraged because it had been asserted that his partner count was higher than it really was? Do men spend a fortune on cosmetics? Women are the dolls in the shop window, men the punters. if that weren’t so, the shop (i.e. pussy inc) would be bankrupt within the week. Men do; women are done to. That – whatever feminists say in protestation – is how the Good Lord arranged it and there is nothing that all the political correctness in the world can do to change it. A men can be ready to go in seconds with virtually any woman – and have forgotten it as quickly thereafter; a woman needs every last detail to be correct, and the slightest thing will kill her desire – and thereafter she either sees the man as a cad if he does not return to her or if unhappy with the man perceives it as Rape. No man ever thinks like that.

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  56. on September 17, 2012 at 5:14 am gunslingergregi

    and put her on hold during first convo too cause i had a call
    i guess worked out perfect, hit pretty much every button there was to hit

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  57. on September 17, 2012 at 6:23 am gunslingergregi

    When was the last time a man acted outraged when being approached by a woman, because he ‘was not that sort of man’? Never going to happen, is it.””””””

    i actually did bring up her trying to take advantage of me and acted outraged he he he

    but now i can’t sleep grrr

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  58. Rupert Everett On Gay Parenting: ‘There’s Nothing Worse Than Being Brought Up By Two Gay Dads’

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/16/rupert-everett-gay-parents_n_1888272.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000009

    I would say that there are some worse situations, but kudos to him for speaking out – not the first time he has.

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  59. on September 17, 2012 at 4:14 pm brains behind the operation

    Your apt analogy is hilarious, because taking a drunk bisexual girl to a top flight strip club is the surest way to see this lack of control evidence itself. Get her to the champagne room and be sure that you hit the ATM in advance. The downside is that cameras are not allowed.

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  60. “Women in these situations often go into a shaman-like state of complete abandon, shrieking pleasure at the top of their lungs, and unable to wind down until sleep becomes too heavy to fight off.”

    Anatomically, males and females are not that different, so I can’t imagine a logical reason why this same degree of pleasure sensation should be any less attainable for the males of the species. Not unless the most sensitive moving parts from which male erogenous sensation derive were amputated from the man’s genitals, leaving him with essentially a broomstick, the primary purpose of which is now to pleasure the woman.

    A male with partially amputated genitals from birth would never have experienced the natural sensations of sex. Circumcision may very well have DONE ITS JOB that is, to dull and control male sexuality– which historically was ALWAYS its purpose– the 19th century anti-maturbation practitioners of foreskin amputation understood the foreskin to be the epicenter of male pleasure, which is precisely why it had to go- the male prepuce being, “the best of a man’s property” as 18th century conventional wisdom went. This is knowledge we have lost in the past 120 or so years.

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  61. on September 18, 2012 at 9:36 am gunslingergregi

    it was inevitable we had smexytime she wants me to stay for some more days i guess i can take a vacation from local ho’s prob do a body good. She ready to get married allready.

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  62. on September 18, 2012 at 9:40 am gunslingergregi

    gettin shit tested now lol
    we got done with smexytime she had to go do some shit texting me what i’m doing talking bout checkin in with my wife whoom you took to the airport
    when i told her i took my sister home from airport but yea lol

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  63. […] writes: On a parallel track [to women being less familiar than men with continual horniness]; modern American women have no skill at all in coping with sexual […]

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  64. […] [Comment Of The Week: Sexual Self-Control Is A Male Thing] […]

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  65. You guys keep proving you’re betas by the way you get angry at the women who post here. Only betas get pissy with women, period. You’re those guys in the club who buy drinks all night then starts throwing shade when the woman doesnt want to go home with you. Losers. Alphas are pussy strokers. They don’t act pissy and mean. That’s why women love them. They can make a woman feel insecure, but it’s a special gift that alphas naturally have. You guy don’t understand the success of the bad boy if you think it means being pissy and mean spirited. The poster who said when he’s with a ceertain kind of woman, he doesn’t show treat her bad or let on how he feels is a true alpha. That’s how alphas behave which is why 50 years later the woman is clutching the skittles gift and can’t stop thinking about him. He treats her badly in his relationship behaviour, but he doesnt actually say mean words to her. See Richard with whom Samantha, the slut, fell in love in Sex and the City. Perfect TV alpha. Wining and dining her and alway always making her feel good. Women can sniff out pissy insecure beta ness very well and many of you on here have an anger towards woman that screams beta very loudly.

    Also, Heartiste told you that a woman truly attracted to you will give it up easily and yet you are insisting on marrying the woman who makes you wait weeks b/c she is not that attracted. That’s the woman who will marry you b/c the guy she slept with early and really really wanted slut-shamed her with rejection and society’s misguided rules. End result: sexless marriages!

    Marry the bitch in heat who takes your phone calls immediately. She will be your emotional lapdog who always wants your seed. You guys are mistaken in arguing that if she is hot for you, she’s hot for the football team. Not true. Once a woman is imprinted by a strong alpha who doesn’t reject her, she is his lapdog forever and is immune to the wiles of other alphas, unless of course she is a true mentally unstable slut. In which case, she will not be clingy because she is already on to cock two and three and four before you can ak for date 2.

    The insistence on marrying the virginal 20 year old also is what causes so many marriages to end when the woman gets to 35 and feels bored. She initiates divorce thinking her SMV will get her the same attention and ease of commitmnt as when she was young. If she had been imprinted, she would be loyal, more interested in sex because her initial sexual interest was soooo high and because she has enough experience to not wonder what is out there because she knows what’s out there. Divorce stats and who initiates them bear me out so keep denying and good luck getting any sex from your virgins who Jessica Simpson it out once Bam Margera comes along. Note Angelina Jolie clinging to Brad with everything she’s got. Notice the difference in attitude. Now apply that to ordinary women in less extreme ways.

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  66. here is how to cure ur anus itch
    1. scratch it after u cut ur nails
    2. get ur cat/dog to lick it ( smear some pet food on ur anus rim first thickly and massage thoroughly(
    3. tell ur grandparents or significant other (video urself doing the anus cure)
    4. post it online on youtube for free

    recommended that u cure ur anus itch before u turn 13, d1ckw4ds f4gg0t5 haha

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  67. hunk hunk is a tranny he thinks he’s a girl but he’s actually gay but his LDS MORMON family wont allow his gayness thats why he had to go get tranny surgery look he’s so bad bro he’s REALLY MAD bro hahahaha

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  68. Symptoms & Signs
    Blood In Stool
    Rectal Bleeding
    Penile Itching
    Anal itching is due to irritation of the skin around the anus accompanied by a desire to scratch. The intensity of itching increases with moisture, pressure, and sitting. At its most intense, anal itching causes intolerable discomfort described as burning and soreness. Scratching only makes the discomfort worse. Treatment of anal itching is to shower gently without directly rubbing or irritating the skin and to clean and pat dry the anus thoroughly. Use of moist pads rather than toilet paper after bowel movements can be helpful. Local application of cortisone cream may also reduce inflammation and itching, though prolonged use of cortisone may be damaging to the skin. If anal itching is prolonged, a physician should be consulted and a search made for the cause.

    HUNK, get ur neighbor’s obese perverted granma to help u with anus itch cure ok u going to need 2 dildos 20 inch each, a christian pastor who has done at least 14 (same number as ur age) years in juvie, and u need mosquito cream.

    some chilli from leftover dinner (spoiled) can be used instead of mosquito cream. ur helper will kno wwhat to do

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  69. u mad bro u mad u mad u really mad u madder than ever bro u mad that u arent a girl bro u crazy mad bro UMB go look up lemon party nad goatse tubgirl u mad bro YOU SO MAD!!! haahaahah

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