It’s Hard Being A Man In Public

Sometimes you just want to go home, but you’re stuck being a man in public.

You get on the train after a long day. The doors are trying to close and a big fat woman jams them open with her bulk, unintentionally letting on another guy. A man in a military uniform takes his earbuds out and says to the obese door-blocker, “Don’t hold the door open.”

“What did you say?”

“Don’t hold the door open.”

“Did you just touch me? That’s sexual harassment!”

You can’t help staring at the scene, like a rubbernecker slowing down to check out the carnage surrounding a car accident, and unfortunately the nasty fat woman catches you gawking at her. You take a seat as far away from her monstrous apparition as possible and try to disappear into your Kindle, averting your eyes. Everything finally calms down.

The door-blocker, who’s already proven herself to have zero qualms about confronting normal-sized people, is looking at you. You can see her in your peripheral vision — she’s hard to miss — and you can feel her looking hungrily at you.

You’re at a distance, but your suit is faddishly undersized and you’re wearing Sex Walrus cologne so you know she noticed you. Keep reading, keep looking down. You briefly wish you were less attractive or a woman or that you were wearing a rainbow flag t-shirt so she would stop thinking you were interested in her. She keeps looking at you. There is nothing worse than an ugly fat woman with delusions of attractiveness and a penchant for false eye rape accusations making life uncomfortable for you, the average man in public.

The person on the inside of your seat needs to get off. You hold your breath as you let them out and you move in, thinking of all the things you’ll say and do when she tries to plop down next to you like a tranquilized elephant and talk to you when you just want to avoid that gross feeling of a ham-shaped arm pressing into your side.

You exhale when an older woman rushes to take the seat you’ve vacated. You’re safe and insulated by the window now.

Door-blocker exits at the next stop and the imaginary sexual tension leaves with her.

It’s only been a few minutes, but this is what goes through your head when you’re existing as a man in public and ugly fat women assume you want them, when all you were really thinking was “why is this fat bitch hyperventilating?”.

Originally published at the fittingly named Jezebel Groupthink blog.





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  1. And for contrast, the beta response to the original post, along with a huge piling on by the feminists:

    http://groupthink.jezebel.com/wanted-to-make-this-its-own-post-on-group-think-as-a-re-1447073203

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    • dear god i was just going to mention that

      “Another day of surfing the net alone in your studio apartment and ending your night with a disappointing release following your third viewing of a Hawt tattooed girls on Xhamster, awaits you.

      This is what constantly happens to you when you’re a man in public.”

      it almost seemed like satire but i guess he’s probably real. somebody ought to nuke our entire marble.

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    • After reading the original on jezebel, I realized how hard women have it. Perhaps they should have a list that would help us guys know which one of us is allowed on the train and which guys should walk. We would not want to scare any of them. There is always a chance that one of these males might come over and invite a women to coffee, lunch or something. This is a great proof how patriarchy and rape culture is oppressing women.

      Gentlemen is the beautiful lady in the picture the one that wrote the Jezebel article. Because as beautiful as her curves are I think I would rather masturbate to porn.

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      • Isn’t there are smart way to hit on chicks during the day? I read Roosh’s day bang and have been using that. Basically men have to be aware that during the day women are nervous and scared so you have to approach them in a way that makes them comfortable. You can’t really blame the woman for being scared by bad game–anymore than you could blame a cat for being scared if you run up to it shouting kitty–even though you’re only intention was to give the cat a snack.

        Nevertheless she should not vilify the guy as a monster. She should acknowledge he could be a great guy and if he approached differently she might see that.

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      • Fully agree. However as you mentioned being socially awkward beta is not a crime, but ladies at Jezebel are working hard to change that. They should really be concerned with this : http://majorityrights.com/weblog/comments/muslim_rape_wave_in_sweden/ ,but this doesn’t fit well within the ideology of diversity.

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    • Feminists: “NEVER EVER EVER try to pick up a woman in public. That’s what bars and dating sites are for.”

      Okay, feminists, we’ll do it your way.

      Bars/nightclubs- Loud as hell, conversation impossible, everyone wasted. Pretty much boils down to a meat market, if that. You all say you want a good, intellectual guy, but if you met one here you’d have no idea.

      Dating sites- 3 to 1 guy/girl ratio. I’ve made enough fake profiles to know that an average looking woman starts getting inundated with messages before she can even finish her profile, while no man is able to pull more than a couple sporadic messages per week. Essentially impossible for men below 5’10”.

      My parents met “in public,” in a place where you’d be bitching if a man tried to hit on you. If my parents took the advice of feminists, I wouldn’t exist. If everyone took the advice of feminists, humans would go extinct.

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      • Agreed on ‘dating’ sites, they’re useless.
        Bar anecdote to illustrate a point: A friend of mine (mid 50’s, tall, intelligent, ok looking) recently asked one of the ‘regulars’ out on a date. She told him that she is very selective in whom she dates, would never date anyone she met in a night club and would definitely NEVER date anyone his age.
        The girl in question is probably late 20’s and could be a 5 if she lost 60 lbs.
        In everyday reality, as hopeless and pathetic as it often seems, bars and nightclubs are often the ONLY places a guy has a reasonably realistic chance of meeting attractive, potentially available women of dateable age.
        Everything else has been tried ad nauseam and dismissed.

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      • This is partly because most women can’t efficiently and coldly filter out wankers online.

        Women prefer men who actually go outside and hunt. Online dating is rife with masturbators who don’t like to put any effort into their orgasms.

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  2. Not the best parody piece by CH (or the CH-lets, or whoever is writing these days). A better counterstory would not be a fat chick checking out a man on the subway, but a golddigger/ex-wife/parasite trying to legally or extra-legally extract resources or social value from a man, take away his kids, etc. It’s hard being a man in the world-? Yes but not becuase of unwanted attention on the subway. Parody didn’t quite get the inverted situtation right.

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    • you’re right, but i do think it is illustrative of the presumptuousness of the female author. i think the point is imagine if men thought like this, or just to look at how unlikely it is to ever hear this (admittedly unlikely) from a male perspective. but women just get to take every little part of their day as an assault and affront.

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      • “but women just get to take every little part of their day as an assault and affront.”

        lol:

        “Women are just constantly patting themselves on the back about how difficult their lives are. And no one corrects them cause they want to fuck them.”

        …well, except this one. Oh Jezebel, you unintentionally provide endless amusement.

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    • If the worst thing you’ve had to deal with, in life, is a fat woman checking you out, or a demanding ex wife, consider yourself lucky. Neither one is exactly the Bataan Death March.

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    • The post is satirical. In that sense, it is a great parody of the first one. To think that some fat landwhale can truly believe those delusions actually baffles me.

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  3. Written by: “TyrannosaurusBLOODBATH”.

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  4. Like 90% of women who complain of being hit-on, this is just a veiled brag.

    “Hey look at me! I’m relevant in the SMP. Look! Look!”

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    • I prefer the portmanteau “humblebrag.”

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    • got it in one.

      “Oooohhh it’s so hard being pretty, all the time men look at me and it makes me feel all icky, I wish I wasn’t as pretty as I am, but I guess I can’t help it because of being so naturally pretty, other girls can avoid creepy guys by not wearing make-up but even if I dress down I still get harassed because I’m so pretty.

      Life is like, so hard….

      Did I mention how pretty I am?”

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      • It really bothers me when women write narratives like this girl wrote, because I feel like it discourages men from approaching women. Maybe the difference between me and the girl who wrote this is that I am not a total babe like she is, so I am not getting approached as constantly, but if it were me, I would take a conversation with someone over reading. I consider myself average or below-average looking, (I got Classic Beta on the Dating Market Value test for women), and I am pretty happy when a guy, or a girl, comes over and talks to me. Humans enjoy contact with other humans. My good friend and I will go out together- I haven’t shown her the DMV test, but I would guess that she would be a bona fide hottie or the one just above that, right below super alpha. She is really pretty, and enjoys talking to people too. There are tons of guys that approach her, but she is nice to all of them. So I don’t really get it. There must be some kind of personality thing, where this girl is just really introverted and does not want to interact with other people at all.

        This isn’t to say that if a girl is not interested in talking to you, you should needlessly harass her, or follow her off the train. That would be a problem. I like to believe that most guys wouldn’t do that though.

        The only scenario I can imagine where I wouldn’t want to talk to the guy is if I were doing work or something, in which case I would say the following:

        “Hey, I am so glad that you came over to talk to me. I just really, really have to get X done. I am so sorry, and I don’t want you to think I am blowing you off or anything, I just really have to finish this.”

        I hope that wasn’t too much talking about myself. It’s just that this whole thing is a phenomenon that really interests me.

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  5. Reframe!! I love it you do this, Heartiste.

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  6. If a fatty is looking at me like she looks at a bowl of ice cream…I know I’m in trouble.

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  7. Thers’s a vid from Paris where a gent applied his foot to some broad’s ass as she ran her mouth and held up the train. LOLZ.

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      • That, right there, is priceless. I thought the French routinely put up with that kind of rudeness from other Parisians.

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      • Are you kidding me; the French don’t put up with any slight whatsoever.

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      • Jesus christ, look at this youtube video.

        Australian blonde, entitled, drunk princess on a subway starts yelling at other passengers. Then she starts hitting them and spitting on them, after the guys make clear they won’t hit her.

        After they push her out of the subway at the next stop, she goes crying to the nearest police officer.

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  8. Unbelievable. I didn’t get far into the comments, but the spin is that unwanted attention from guys isn’t just annoying, it’s physically threatening. Always. Are you kidding me?

    What stinks about being a woman in public isn’t being approached in the subway, it’s the apprehension you feel if you get off and the guy follows you closely down one of the mostly empty tunnels. Even though you know he’s probably totally harmless like 99% of the male population.

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    • The comments on jezebel seem to be neurotic and paranoid. I could understand it if they lived in a bad neighborhood, but they don’t.

      I dated a Thai girl who stayed at her mother’s place in a ghetto every weekend. It had a large population of Muslims and other non-western immigrants. One afternoon when we walked hand in hand a group of young Muslims guys yelled “whore” at her, because to them it wasn’t okay to date a white guy if you’re a dark skinned girl. My ex’s white girl friends were afraid to visit her at her mother’s place and would rather take a 40 minute bus ride to the country, where my ex lived with her ex-step father.

      My Thai ex was a racist, not a feminist.

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      • I knew plenty of Jezebel-like feminists in college. They really do have this mindset that all men are ill-intentioned predators. It’s their default position when a man approaches them… even if they grew up in nice neighborhoods. People focus on feminist entitlement and their dislike of men, but fear is a big part of it. I think many of them have an irrational fear of men and sex.

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      • Can they really be blamed though? They hear ghost stories about 1 in 4 not making it out of college without being ass raped from day one.

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      • Read Tom Wolfe “I am Charlotte Simmons” for a great expoundation (yes I just made up a word) of what you just said.

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      • I think most colleges now do some kind of sexual assault/date rape awareness presentation at orientation so everyone is exposed to it, not just feminists. But they have to keep it politically correct, so they can’t say straight out what we all know is true– that most of these incidents are fueled by alcohol and involve ambiguous consent, rather than true non-consent. And that most can be prevented if girls stay in control of themselves and stop getting blind drunk at parties.

        I learned that lesson (the hard way) without developing a fear of men or sex, so it has to be more than just the college date rape horror stories that turn feminists against men. I think they get into a negative feedback loop where they spend too much time with other feminists and start developing attitudes that turn men off. So men don’t approach, and the less attention they get and the less time they spend with men, the more distrustful and fearful they become, and the more they cluster together.

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      • I’m Danish and the only time I met a feminist like that was back in high school. She had the broadest ass I’ve ever seen; she was ugly but not fat, just that huge ass. It’s not like Danish girls aren’t neurotic, all Danish people are mentally ill, we just solve our problems with drinking, cigarettes and casual sex.

        I tried to research why it’s like that, and found a feminist article that basically said, “how can we make feminism cool in Denmark the way it is in Norway and Sweden?” The answer is, no, they can’t, we are way too down to earth and politically incorrect in Denmark to accept that bullshit.

        When they tried to criminalize prostitution, like they did in Sweden, the whores in Denmark founded a sex workers interest group and that was the end of the discussion.

        When the feminists wanted to make a quota of 40% women in the boards in directors in big companies, like they did in Norway, we realized that Norway had to import Danish business women to fulfill the quota, because there wasn’t enough women to do the job.

        And recently, when the feminist wanted to earmark some weeks of parental leave to the father, as a way to enforce “modern gender roles”, we realized it would lead to fewer weeks of parental leave, because men wouldn’t stop working, so we kept our old system where the parents can decide by themselves how to share their weeks of parental leave.

        The fat acceptance movement in Denmark is obscure, especially compared to the smoking acceptance, and the biggest social issue is immigration, and the right wing win on that issue.

        Rambling rambling, I’m still drunk from yesterday. The Danish women have behaved like men for a 1000 years, so they don’t like to be treated like victims. Extremist feminists are called “betonfeminister” (literally “concrete-feminists) and the word is in the Danish dictionary, right next to “betonkommunister”.

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      • “I think many of them have an irrational fear of men and sex”

        I find it interesting that the same word they use to describe these men (creep/creepy) is the same word I and most people use to describe spiders. This makes me think that it is an entirely irrational fear that they are born with.

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      • Yeah thats muzzies for you. A Belgian girl made a documentary about the harrasments she gets subjected to in Brussels, mostly from middle eastern guys.
        http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xsknaq_femme-de-la-rue-sexism-in-the-streets-of-brussels-english-subtitles_webcam

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      • = sexually frustrated religious sheep

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      • Perhaps feminists will defend these uncultured beast as a product of colonialism. It is not really their fault that they have 0 respect for women. Oppressive white men society made them that way. I mean we have to find a way to blame white men for this somehow, and someway.

        We have to note that this is completely different from cultured beta male being socially awkward and politely asking a women out, and she wanting to have him hanged, because he as a low status male dared to ask her out.

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      • on October 18, 2013 at 5:02 pm haunted trilobite

        I’ve seen this sort of harassment on the streets of Brussels from Moroccans, and have been in fist fights with Algerians. You have to just take it sometimes coz if you’re fighting one guy, you’ve got to worry that another ali baba will knife you from behind and they’ll throw you into a canal. Luckily there’s usually a high police presence where they swarm. The verbal stuff they throw at women can be vulgar all right like in the video, but it’s character-building, and helps keep you street-wise. That guy Mourade has a good perspective on it, and if adverts depict white women as sluts, that’s how these simple-minded-folk will pick it up.

        Algerians and Moroccans, they love that hanging around the street life, and they can actually be all right. Hashish is a big thing in those parts, so they’re all little hash dealers cycling around on bikes. They’re cool enough fuckers I have to say, and you can get on with them. They love talking and dominating their patch of the street. There is a bit of that infidel hatred always circling in the background, but it didn’t feature that much in my experiences and they’re generous. If you talk about something they know like football they love you, and they’ve helped me out on many occasions

        Even though I don’t like the Muslim religion, I wouldn’t get too hung up in the American thinking of ‘all Muslims are bad’, coz these guys don’t really give a shit about their religion from what I can see. Although I do see American gap year students putting Canadian patches on their backpacks to throw them off the scent, so I can’t speak from an American’s perspective. You have to remember that there are some serious atrocities taking place in the war zones, and if they have a dislike of Americans, or the French for what they did to them before, it’s somewhat justified. I don’t know how bad the cultural clashes get in Germany but like I said, in my experience they just add a dash of colour to proceedings.

        The Pakis in England seem to be more antagonistic and less willing to integrate. Their women are heavily veiled, whereas the middle-eastern women mostly wear sexy clothing. I give these guys credit for stepping to women on the streets, it’s just that they obviously lack some sophistication when dealing with prissy white women. If you read what Roosh says, I doubt their game is much different to Christian Argentinian men.

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    • Thanks Amy, I’m glad you blessed us once again with a personal anecdote. Although I enjoy reading the articles here, something is just missing until I get to hear a little snippet about your life as it relates (however vaguely) to the topic of the posting.

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    • If you know 99% of men are harmless, then why do you feel so “physically threatened” ?

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      • I only feel threatened if the guy is doing something unusual, like following me closely in an isolated area. And maybe not even threatened, just cautious. A heightened awareness. I’d have it if I were in an isolated area and some random guy was approaching me– not because he’s doing anything wrong or I’m convinced he’s going to rape me, I’d just have a heightened awareness that if he turns out to be one of the 1% of men who are bad dudes, there’s really no one around to help me. It depends on so many factors and it’s mostly subconscious. I’m small, I don’t know self defense, I don’t carry a weapon, I’m not going to be much of a challenge in a physical altercation. It would be foolish not to pay attention to my surroundings. All women do this instinctively to some degree. It’s just that some women completely overdo it, like these women freaking out when men look at them on a crowded subway car. To claim that’s threatening behavior that makes women fearful of rape is just totally absurd.

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  9. ABC News getting ready to launch a hit piece on the “Manosphere”:

    http://abcnews.go.com/2020

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    • Hey ABC journolisters, Always Be Closing. That old announcer next to you is just dying for some great haired male attention.

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    • Oh that ought to be rich… poor Rooshy V is going to get more face time from a national audience meaning he may have to come back here and accept his celebrity status from American landwhales who are pining away for his peen. (Though I see no mention of this piece on the link you posted above)

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    • I follow MRA shit so I’m watching for Paul Elam. He hates PUAs the way the MSM does (ie – doesn’t really understand what we do or why and has made his judgements off the usual stereotypes), but that’s alright with me because he’s been doing excellent work in the MRA scene and his site is way more likely to convert the Blue Pill men who come to check out what a horrible demon 20/20 says he is, than someone unrelatable to normal guys like Roosh.

      http://www.avoiceformen.com/misandry/back-from-new-york/

      http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/avfm-on-2020-update/

      Paul has the right idea: he KNOWS this will be a huge hit-piece and that they’ll do their best to make him look bad. He knows 90% of the people that check AVFM out after the 20/20 piece will be coming at him with misguided blind hatred.

      But he also knows that 10% of that 90% will use their rational, logical minds as they read the articles there, and will go “hey this really gels with my life experiences and/or the experiences of my male friends…” and do their own research and convert.

      As I said in a discussion on Rollo’s blog when a Manosphere guy went on a news segment anonymously, this is the way to win this “war”…accepting that we will never win over the MSM/feminists, and that we shouldn’t expect to. All we need to do is get as much exposure as possible and we’ll win over handfuls of men who look at the facts beyond the surface, in the privacy of their own homes without feminists or Blue Pill’ers watching over their shoulder to shame them for not accepting the social narrative that they’ve felt in their gut doesn’t make sense.

      This’ll be a good thing for the MRA movement and possibly the Manosphere in the long-run when all the trolling/attacks settle down in a couple months.

      The more men we unplug from the Matrix, the better…even if we have to do it 10% at a time.

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      • The work that happens now happens on the margins. The real work happens on a generational scale.

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      • Also this is the time to be promoting Married Man Sex Life. Someone running a popular Manosphere blog that’ll get swamped by traffic from this 20/20 story should do an article about it or something so it’s front and center when the traffic comes.

        Cause the guys who check the Manosphere out will be the disillusioned trapped-in-a-sexless-marriage or divorced-and-fucked-over men who know something isn’t right but don’t have a solution. MMSL is something that speaks to those guys and their life situation/experiences more than “fly to EE and bang nightclub chicks”. It’s something they can read and go “hmm that kind of sounds like my relationship…” and try some of it out, see results, and he’s hooked on the Red Pill truth from there.

        Sure that guy himself may not do much with it. Maybe he’ll save his marriage or get some questions answered…but more importantly, he’ll make sure his sons understand the Red Pill to avoid his fate. The more men we reach, the more future men we reach.

        That’s why I like Paul Elam and A Voice For Men…sure they might be a little white-knighty compared to the Manosphere, but they’re the middle ground between the Blue and Red Pill, that normal guys unsatisfied with the life society tells them to STFU and appreciate being allowed to have, will be able to relate to.

        The Rational Male blog is the same way. Rollo is the kind of guy normal guys will listen to. I heart CH but no one is gonna read CH with an open mind lol

        [CH: you wound me, sir. *sniff*]

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      • Agreed… you can’t unplug a dude from the Matrix and not expect him to go batshit crazy much like what happened in the movie of same said name. You don’t dunk him into the brilliant light of truth at CH before giving him some baby steps to prepare him for staring directly at the sun.

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      • What? You expect Manospherians to ORGANIZE? As in, stop stabbing each other and unite? All before tomorrow morning when people are going to start really looking? My own humble and obvious suggestion is to make sure both “20/20” and “Manosphere” are in the titles of new posts so they immediately come up in searches. There’s a page of them already, but there could definitely be more.

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      • Correction: there are four pages.

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      • Having spent a little time over the last few weeks exploring the Manosphere and learning a ton, I will say that CH is the most entertaining and enlightening over all, among the ones I’ve read. I say this as a Christian who uses game only to enhance my marriage. A couple of married Christian men who I really admire have been hyping this area of discourse for a while, and it was through conversation with them that I decided to read. Both said I would find good analysis at CH.

        Of the ones I’ve explored, Dalrock and Rollo are both solid, and there is a bit more overlap especially at Dalrock with my total world view, but Heartiste is superior in the following areas: race realism, keeping Game analysis very lighthearted and funny, and an ability to connect more dots about the Matrix than just the Feminist Imperative, which really is only a single wing of the Cathedral, though a mighty one. And as many here have often pointed out, the utility of Game is not limited to pick up. It comes in handy all the time, and has been helping me in general as well as at home.

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  10. Fat women are a predicament. Because I’m not a total monster, I will have non-descript/brief small talk with a fat woman at a party (usually near the snack table) like I would with any irrelevant person I happen to bump into.

    Invariably, she falls in love with me because I wasn’t a total shit to her and I hear through the grapevine that she wants to “meet up.”

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    • Spot on. Fat women are frequently so (deliberately?) delusional that even a polite brush off registers as interest on your part. Be polite to a cutie and down goes her opinion of you because she thinks your just like all the others who are trying to fuck her. Be direct to a fat pig scarer and experience the indignant protestations of her friends and any nearby sackless white knights. Act like a jerk to a toothsome filly and she will find herself wanting you to fuck her brain out.

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      • she just needs to open with a disqualifier to drop you guys’ bitch shields “hey i have to get back to my friends in a sec but i need a man’s opinion…”

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      • Yeah, it’s all messed up. What’s really fucked up is that a beta male is the equivalent of a fat girl in a woman’s eyes. And I’m not talking about loser omega males.

        I’m talking about a tall guy, solid 6 or 7 in looks, decent income, in shape, his dick works. . .and because he’s not an alpha-ape bullshitter douche and is mostly a 9 to 5er he’s the equivalent of land-whale per hypergamy.

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      • Far, far better to be a beta male than a fat girl.

        Fat girls get disqualified instantly, while the beta male you’re describing can at least hang with some tight poon for a bit.

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      • Wishful thinking.

        There is no shortage of guys willing to shag a fat woman, within certain reasonable limits. It doesn’t become a real problem on the level noticeable reduction of prospects until a woman is really really fat…like 250+ for average height, and if she has other uglifying factors.

        It’s like instead of 100 guys per day willing to offer a dick, they’ll encounter 70 per day. Since a woman generally only needs one dick at a time, the difference isn’t noticed.

        Pussy is in higher demand than dick, and so long as that is true, it doesn’t have to be the best pussy to have buyers.

        A woman has to become pretty freakin’ ugly and pretty mean as well, to have no prospects at all. A friend of mine is fat and has cerebral palsy, and is Christian and so has to fight dudes off who are trying to offer her a dick.

        I’m not saying this to defend ugly women. I’m saying this to help you to understand the reality of the situation, and why fat with cerebral palsy and female could, if she wanted, do a different dude every week and never run out of dicks, but some tall, dark and handsome guys out there are jacking off and jealous of a hairy dwarf banging hotties on the regular.

        Game is for men what beauty is for women. You can’t get away with not having it, and even a little of it can make a difference for you the same way that luxurious wavy naturally blonde hair and gorgeous eyes does for my friend. Dudes are willing to look beyond the fat and twisted to get to her goodies…if you become more charismatic, girls will look beyond whatever other defects you have in looks and personality to get to that alphaness.

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      • Also, I’d like to point out that what a man desires is not what makes him more or less alpha.

        What makes him more or less alpha is whether or not he has the will to take whatever it is he desires.

        Since most men naturally go for youth and corresponding beauty/fitness markers, the willful man will have the ability to acquire young, hot women, and usually take full advantage of the opportunity. However, since he has that ability to gain the attentions of the most elusive and sought-after females, less sought after, more available females are cake.

        Since alpha level willfulness is usually the result of a seriously higher than normal sex drive, plenty of adrenaline stimulating activity, etc. he has plenty to go around for everybody.

        No man should assume, from looking at a woman, that because she is not among the most sought after, she has no seekers at all, or too few quality seekers to consider herself taken, or at least satisfied enough that she doesn’t need excess beta drama in her life.

        Unless by a woman’s choice to remain chaste, assume that you are competing with whoever is her “Mr. Yeah”. Since most women are not choosing to remain chaste…

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      • on October 17, 2013 at 4:58 pm FuriousFerret

        I though about that too:

        Imagine that if 80 percent of women were obese land whales. When you look at it that way, can you blame them for be repulsed by betas?

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      • Having power walked a few miles in those shoes, I can tell you that it’s not that we’re delusional. It’s that we’re spoiled.

        I had to come here and stay a couple of years to find out what at least the dark side of guys were really thinking when they looked at me. At the time, I, who considered myself a bit of an expert in human sexuality, perceived the world through the rose colored lenses and got offended by things that I should have received as flattery or compliments.

        Granted, things aren’t as dark overall as some guys state them here, but seriously most fat women just don’t have an idea of where they stand because of the overly accepting on one side and the overly critical on the other. Both unrealities being pressed on a woman at the same time, will skew her perspective.

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  11. Not meaning this to be a ‘pointy elbows’ comment, but as any good sergeant will gleefully inform you, 670-1 clearly states earphones in any uniform are prohibited. That jizzabel story is bullshit.

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    • She may have seen a wannabe in a camoflauge jacket or something. Civilians usually can’t tell the difference, especially libs.

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      • Or, gosh, maybe the guy in uniform figures ‘i am on the subway with a bunch of civs, who will know enough to give a sh*t?”

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    • That’s not a pointy elbows comment, that is a good catch. Is that for all branches of the military?

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  12. Me (before she opens her mouth): “I’m gay”.

    My Friend Next to me: “No you aren’t”.

    Me: “I am now…”.

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  13. on October 17, 2013 at 1:25 pm Lucky White Male

    Jezebel girls , please rest assured no high value man wants you. The delusion levels are really breathtaking with these people

    ION: First Manosphere hit coming tommorow nationwide on 20/20

    If its true Roosh was interviewed I’m looking forward to how he acquits us. I have my differences with him but he represents much of the best of our movement. You can certainly put him in the category of “man’s man”

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    • I assume they will ponder questions such as “Can fat shaming week be applied by society at large?”

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    • Gak. Why’d it have to be Roosh? He’s just going to be dismissed as another Tucker Max. I guess Rollo has too much cred for the inevitable spin.

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  14. CH, thanks for posting that picture of the landwhale where I can read it at lunch time.
    Not hungry any longer. But will choke down some food to avoid getting too skinny.

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  15. The delusion of these fat fucking broads is hysterical!

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  16. I politely pretend they don’t exist and turn my back when I see obese women.

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  17. I’m gonna say it: That jizzabel author sounds creepy. And I guess the “equality” between women and men doesn’t exist on the DC Metro, huh?

    Here’s a classic Overheard in New York moment:

    Chick #1: Ew! Did that man just take our picture with his cameraphone?
    Chick #2: Ew! That is so rude! Why would he do that? Don’t look up. Don’t look up!
    Man: Don’t flatter yourselves, ladies. A) You’re not nearly that hot, and B) I was sending a text message to my boyfriend.

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    • I was not even a -little- surprised when I clicked back to the original article and saw a familiar DC Metro car in the photo. Times that attitude by tens of thousands and you’ve now painted an accurate pic of the majority of the chicks here.

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  18. In case you aren’t happy with the way things are going over at the Headquarters of Twitter, here’s one person’s theory….

    http://feministing.com/2013/10/09/why-twitters-woman-problem-is-about-more-than-identity-politics/

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  19. Classic case of an American society. It’s hard being a man in America period. The type of shit one can get away with in other countries as far as being an Alpha dominant male goes, they would hang you in the states :). #Just Saying.

    Like putting your GF in check to regain dominance in the relationship: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5NWizsEPHY

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  20. Fat women and hopeful gay guys hitting on me almost every day. Such is the life of a decent looking guy with moderately successful social skills.

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  21. Muslim men realizing that men will be men, came up with a solution for their women so they wouldn’t have to have these feelings when they are in public.

    In the West though, women expect the men they personally don’t like to win the battle over biology.

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    • I don’t know what the general demographic is like at the Blaze, but at the bottom there is a poll that says “Do you think this mother’s photo is a form of fat-shaming?” and only 6% said yes. So, there’s still hope right?

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      • on October 18, 2013 at 4:43 am The Burninator

        Conservative (in theory) and mostly male, by and large. There are a disturbing amount of Huffington Post types who go there and spew idiocy to get their rocks off, but normally “decent, regular” folks.

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    • as more women get fatter and fatter, we’ll see less and less fat shaming and more fit shaming like in the article.

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  22. on October 17, 2013 at 5:15 pm Days of Broken Arrows

    When I was 23 I dated an 18-year-old who modeled part-time. Absolutely gorgeous. Stunning. Somehow, she was able to be out in public without much fuss. Occasionally a guy would hit on her; she’d say she was “spoken for.”

    I’m wondering how, exactly, it is the Jezebel crew can’t seem to handle being out in public. All this complaining sounds like stretching the truth or making a symphony out of a folk song. One or two remarks or looks does not harassment make.

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    • Yup. Actual attractive women seem to be able to handle it just fine, which the jezeblites won’t ever acknowledge.

      You don’t hear hot women with developed social skills crying about rape around every corner.

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    • on October 17, 2013 at 6:38 pm FuriousFerret

      ” Somehow, she was able to be out in public without much fuss.”

      Answered your own question. “Stunning”. Most men won’t dare hit on a truly beautiful woman in a direct manner. Indirect stuff however is through the roof.

      “I’m wondering how, exactly, it is the Jezebel crew can’t seem to handle being out in public”

      The reason these chicks are getting all bothered is because they are fuglies and the price of being an ugly dame in public is that lower betas and omegas think they have a shot. Their plight is kind of understandable, they are hounded by undesirable men every time they do out. That’s why weirdo in the story instantly surveyed the surroundings and found a reasonable target, her.

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    • “I’m wondering how, exactly, it is the Jezebel crew can’t seem to handle being out in public.”

      I can only guess that, as children, their mothers were a little too zealous in lecturing them on not talking to strangers.

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    • The 8-10’s of the world realized at a very early age (4-5 or so) the effect they have on the males of the species and are quite used to it.
      Getting hit on is to them what mopping the floor is to a janitor.

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  23. “Being a White Person in Public”

    Sometimes you just want to go home, but you’re stuck being a white person in public.

    You get on the train after a long day. The doors are trying to close and a black guy jams them open to let on another guy. A man in a military uniform takes his earbuds out and says to the door-holder, “Don’t hold the door open.”

    “What did you say?”

    “Don’t hold the door open.”

    “Oh, who are you, man? Who are you?”

    You take a seat as far away from the conflict as possible and try to disappear into your Kindle, averting your eyes. Everything finally calms down.

    The black door-holder, who’s already proven himself to have zero qualms about confronting strangers, is looking at you. You can see him in your peripheral vision and you can feel him looking. You’re at a distance, but your skin is pretty bright and you’re wearing a pea coat so you know he noticed you. Keep reading, keep looking down. You briefly wish you were less affluent or had dirty hair or had an invisibility cloak. He keeps looking at you.

    The person on the inside of your seat needs to get off. You hold your breath as you let them out and you move in, thinking of all the things you’ll say and do when the black guy tries to sit down next to you and either beg you for money or rob you, when you just want to be left alone.

    You exhale when an older woman rushes to take the seat you’ve vacated. You’re safe and insulated by the window now.

    Black door-holder exits at the next stop and the tension leaves with him.

    It’s only been a few minutes, but this is what goes through your head when you’re existing as a white person in public.

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  24. So according to the Jezebel Feminists, meeting women in public is prohibited. So where exactly are men allowed to meet women?

    Bars/Clubs? No, feminists will accuse you of trying to take advantage of drunk women.

    Workplace? No, feminists will accuse you of sexual harassment.

    Friends? No, feminists will accuse you of having Nice Guy Syndrome i.e. pretending to be friends with a girl just to get into her pants.

    Online? Perhaps, but be prepared to have your profile mocked by feminists if they don’t approve: http://jezebel.com/5969737/meet-the-so+called-nice-guys-of-okcupid

    Let’s face it; if feminists had their way, the human race wouldn’t reproduce except through artificial insemination.

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    • ^ Best comment I’ve seen in awhile

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    • This +10.

      Remember, in their worldview, you’re not supposed to be able to date/fuck/reproduce, unless you’re a top-dog chosen by the girl.

      You have to accept whatever scraps are thrown your way, by the fatties/uglies. If you don’t have any pleasure from sex or marriage or reproduction, it’s not their problem.

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  25. Get a car …

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  26. […] Sometimes you just want to go home, but you’re stuck being a man in public. You get on the train after a long day. The doors are trying to close and a big fat woman jams them open with her bulk, unintentionally letting on another guy.  […]

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  27. Oh God I read that article, I read it and I wept for women everywhere. What terribly difficult lives they all live, I will never know the pain of being looked at when in public.

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  28. The girl who wrote that original article is an idiot. The reason why the military guy told her not to hold the door open here on the DC metro is because it’s DANGEROUS. They are not elevator doors. They close immediately and do not reopen. You could get your clothing stuck in the door and possibly get dragged. The guy probably continued to stare at her, not because she’s attractive, but because she’s an absolute moron who nearly got hurt. There aren’t many guys who approach women in the DC metro anyway. The only guys who’ve approached me have been drunk on Friday/Saturday night, but no one has ever been obnoxious during the commuter hours. Most people don’t talk at all on the train b/c everyone is tired from working all day. This girl is just the typical narcissist taking selfies and wishfully thinking she’s on her own reality show.

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    • The doors are dangerous? To women? The DC metro is fuelled by misogyny?? Jezebel writers, here’s your stop.

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  29. My GF told me “it’s hard to be a girl” and then sighed repeatedly.

    When I was giving her multiple orgasms, however, she was in heaven.

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  30. […] The person on the inside of your seat needs to get off. You hold your breath as you let them out and… […]

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  31. It’s really tough being a woman in public when the patriarchal capitalist white men force you to ride a wrecking ball while in your skivvies to gain a little profit in the oversexualized music industry that objectifies women at every turn.

    Or at least that’s what this victim-laden feminist column would have you believe. It may have convinced me if it didn’t end with all the rainbows and puppies and unicorns singing, “We’re ALL right” at the end, utterly devaluing whatever message it may have tried to proselytize.

    Nah, no it wouldn’t.

    http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2013/10/14/my-two-cents-on-feminism-and-miley-cyrus/

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  32. Apparently, women are too stupid to avoid drinking around bad guys:
    http://www.neatorama.com/2013/10/17/Women-Drinking-Rape/

    Hot mama apologizes for fat shaming: http://www.neatorama.com/2013/10/17/Is-This-Hot-Mom-a-Fat-Shaming-Bully/

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