How to Handle It When The Girl Sees You Gaming Other Girls

If you have your eye on one particular girl but get sidetracked by other attractive girls, often you will lose your chance to get the number of the first girl if she sees you having too much fun, or even exchanging numbers, with other girls. This is particularly true of girls who like to play “gotcha!” games with men they suspect are players. To this end, I have found that the best way to overcome this self-sabotage is to acknowledge what she saw, but within a frame, of course, that does not sound defensive.

THE ROVING COCK: Hi, I just wanted to do the gentlemanly thing and tell you that your bra strap is showing.

HER: It is not! That’s my shirt underneath. I saw you talking to those girls over there. You sure you want to leave them so soon?

THE ROVING COCK: Yeah, they’re crazy those girls. Very friendly. It was tough to get away from them to come talk to you.

HER: I bet. You could always call her later. She did give you her number.

THE ROVING COCK: We’ll see. I’m not that easy.

From there, I went into a routine about girls giving out their fake numbers accidentally to guys they really like, and regretting it afterwards.

The point being, that when a girl tries to get you to capitulate to prevailing social norms and thus to prostrate yourself to her putatively superior morality — i.e., DO NOT hit on more than one girl per night, DO NOT hit on two girls within sight of each other — you should deny her the satisfaction of your defensive mewling by glibly acknowledging her observation of your seediness and acting unashamed of your behavior. Girls lust for unapologetic heels before they lust for proper gentlemen.





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  1. on August 30, 2010 at 12:03 pm maciek_krol_chujow

    this is right! it sometimes even turn them on more haha

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  2. on August 30, 2010 at 12:05 pm lubisz_chuja_w_dupe

    “yeah, those girls are nice, very friendly, but I don’t think that my grandma would like them”

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  3. I had to do major damage control after my first week at uni. 2 girls in 5 days taken to my pad to finish the deal. And there’s picture evidence with me making out with another 2. (though no nookie that anyone can tell)

    When the other (hot)girls then started looking to see if I was a lucky drunk or a player, I’d simply go on the aloof offensive:

    GOSSIPY COCKBLOCK: I saw you leave wiht XYZ in a taxi, by yourselves. What happened?

    THE ILLEGITIMATE SPAWN OF ROISSY: *blank stare, subtle smirk* Any answer I give you paints me in a bad light.

    GC: What does that mean? Did you take her to your place?

    SPAWN: A gentleman never tells *shit eating eating grin, walks off*

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  4. This is true. But, unfortunately, they mostly don’t let you know they saw you hitting on someone else and just act cruel. If you succeed anyway, they tell you much later why they were cruel at first.

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  5. This is universal behavior by the way. It has nothing to do with feminism. In EE one has to be very careful not to look like a player.

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  6. on August 30, 2010 at 12:18 pm Kenny F'ing Powers

    Good post on a topic a lot of us encounter a lot. I would be interested in other lines used in this situation. It would be good to have a couple of responses to pick from, and even use in the same night.

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  7. “you should deny her the satisfaction of your defensive mewling by glibly acknowledging her observation of your seediness and acting unashamed of your behavior. Girls lust for unapologetic heels before they lust for proper gentlemen.”

    This was my college experience. I was huge in the ballroom and swing dancing scene at my college, so every year I would prey on the freshman girls. It was a great scene because it was always 7:1 girls to guys. Anyway I was there with my LTR at the time, and she didn’t want to dance with any of the Beta, so she was getting off on watching me swoop and seduce these girls as I went from hottie to hottie, when she overheard this conversation.

    Girl One: Who is that? licks lips*
    Girl Two: That’s X… He’s daaangerousss. Lustful twinkle in her eye*

    When she told this story back in my room it wasn’t long before she was all over me. Women love that shit.

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  8. on August 30, 2010 at 12:24 pm theobsidianfiles

    Duh, no sh*t Sherlock. This is a non-issue: you’re not married to the gal, you’re not a declared couple who agreed to see each other exclusively. You’re just hanging out, and as such, you have the right to see what else is out there, just like she has the right to do so also.

    Sorry chap, but this post is akin to a cure looking for a disease.

    Simple commonsense will suffice.

    *shrugs*

    O.

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  9. re: “HER: I bet. You could always call her later. She did give you her number.”

    “You know? You’re right. I could, couldn’t I?” (delivered with a sly smile and a knowing, cocked head and raised eyebrow look)

    In other words, act all surprised and slightly pleased at the revelation. With the undertone of show me why I shouldn’t call her.

    Would that work?

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  10. on August 30, 2010 at 12:32 pm defenestrator

    Jerry : True. In eastern europe, if you go to a party and you’re hitting on a lot of girls, you will not only be perceived as a “player” (not in the good way) but also can get into some troubles with the guys. Of course the size of the troubles depends on the venue and the type of clientele.

    “HER: I bet. You could always call her later. She did give you her number.”

    “She did. Did you like her? Do you want to call her as well? Here is the number”

    “I like your shoes more, I think I might rather stick to you for the next 2 minutes and 34 seconds”

    “Do you think that her number is more important than yours?”

    “She seemed a bit naive, I want to make some prank calls with my younger brother later on”

    blah blah blah!

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  11. on August 30, 2010 at 12:43 pm Anonymouses Anonymous

    Thanks for the guidance

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  12. So true. I had a girl over to my place who suddenly put on the Anti-Slut Defense when I went for the kiss.

    She started saying I was always chasing girls.

    I wasn’t defensive and adopted an alpha frame saying “What is it about me chasing other girls you find so interesting?”

    We were making out 10 minutes later.

    In two weeks, I have two girls coming to visit me from Mainland China. Both are 8’s. One is a friend who wants me to meet her hot friend.

    We’re going to a party where there will be a lot of other girls who know me.

    Until reading this, I was worried: how do I play it with the two hotties while not blowing future prospects with other girls in my social circle?

    But showing up with two 8’s one of whom I’m going to pivot to meet her hot friend only increases my value and intrigue.

    In this Chinese society a lot of betas like to position me as some type of “playboy”.

    In some cases that has caused some girls to avoid getting closer to me while in other cases it’s only increased the fascination.

    Culturally it may actually increase one’s value to be “pre-selected”. Chinese girls have told me that they get intrigued when they see a guy surrounded by or with a hot woman/women.

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  13. it’s natural to try to act like you really weren’t talking to anyone else, that you were saving yourself for her. betaness is hard to shed

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  14. Can you rename the blog “The Roving Cock”

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  15. Roving or Rowing?

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  16. I don’t think many girls that you just met are going to tell you that then are uber jealous of you talking to a hottie. Like Jerry said they just act mean.

    – I personally think Roissy is dead or has had a baby. This blog is soooooo different now.

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  17. This is one of those shit tests where ignoring it can work against you and acknowledging it by blowing it up to rediculous levels works best.

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  18. kaikou I like to think I can still pick out the genuine posts…

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  19. @Brant – Is this one of them? If so, it’s fairly short. Which leads me to believe that there is a different significance to Roissy’s life now (like a baby, lol). But what was with pumping out 3 semi-posts in one day then taking a 4 day weekend. Or that post with the chubby fingers? Something is fishy around here.

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  20. on August 30, 2010 at 2:10 pm The Rational Male

    Several months ago my buddy gave me shit about getting another girl’s number in front of my date at a party. My date immediately pulled me over and asked me if I had just gotten her number so we could exchange party pics on facebook. I looked her straight in the eye and said “Yep!” and went right back to being social.

    Both chicks eventually blew out on me, but I seriously doubt that it had anything to do with me getting the second girl’s number.

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  21. on August 30, 2010 at 2:49 pm Hey theobsidianfiles

    GTFO!!!!!!!!

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  22. ” 3 semi-posts in one day then taking a 4 day weekend. Or that post with the chubby fingers? Something is fishy around here.”

    i thought the same thing

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  23. the beta look is clearly observable on the aforementioned lion’s face.

    alpha:

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  24. @Reader

    When ‘bring the movies’ goes sour.

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  25. I’m bored.

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  26. Namae Nanka,

    The lion in the video pisses alpha. Shows what it means to be a man.

    That video should be shown in every school to every lad. But it probably won’t be.

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  27. On the whole Roissy/Non-Roissy post issue.

    There has been varying styles of writing on the blog going back to the beginning. Posts ranging from graphic descriptions of conquests to a set of essays on F Roger Devlin’s research into female hypergamy. Style ranging from ornate to blunt.

    As for the pattern of posting – it was always pretty irregular. If you take March 2008, there was a period of posts almost every day, save for 3 day gaps.

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  28. How cute! OMG. I’d offer at a social event I’d want the men chasing as much tail as possible. It is fun to watch. But for some ladies, I guess we could get hurt seeing it…

    A little personal story that could have gone wrong and sad, but b/c of the mans action we all just loved him even more.

    Last Fall, I went to see 69 eyes. They were a class act, perfect music, total professionals. Finns know what the heck to do.

    So I was there alone and was hoping to see 1 certain person. I walk up to do the ticket exchange. we shall call him. E. E was there looking as gothic as to be expected for a halloweenish style rock concert.

    E is talking to 3 girls that were 6 to 9’s on the 1-10 scale. IMHO, of course. I thought all of them were pretty.

    Everyone is dressed nice, me included.

    E looks at me stops talking. He starts saying, “she is here”! He brings the girls over with him. E hugs and kisses me and says, “this my dearest freind, Linda”.

    I just thought he was a god. I was so touched, it was wayyy cute on his part. I knew he was a cool guy b/c we were already freinds thru being locals. The girls and I hung out the rest of the evening as he effectively talked to a few more girls. And if I read the situation right he got phone numbers from them too! But it was cool. He gave me some girls to hang with so I would not be alone. He charged my ego with that little act of coolness. And we all had a blast. I saw the game in complete operatinal control. This alpha could not have done wrong in any of our eyes….

    Later on E hands one of the girls my info and we are still hanging out. I made a get girl freind to cat around with.

    Hence, why we all adored the guy. Sigh! Swoon.

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  29. Today was a light and quick one, with a little bit of meat. There have been far dumber, throwaway ones in the past. Cut the hosts some slack- it’s hard being original and incisive all the time, and everyone’s entitled to an off-day or two.

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  30. CR:
    Girls lust for unapologetic heels before they lust for proper gentlemen.

    Of course.

    Well, d’uh.

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  31. on August 30, 2010 at 5:29 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

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    THE ROVING COCK: Hi, I just wanted to do the gentlemanly thing and tell you that your bra strap is showing.

    HER: It is not! That’s my shirt underneath. I saw you cumming on those girls over there. You sure you want to leave them so soon?

    THE ROVING COCK: Yeah, they’re crazy those girls. Very friendly. It was tough to get away from them to come cum on you.

    HER: I bet. You could always butthex her later and tape it secretly and get an article written about you in a neocn magazine exaggerating your height and succeth. She did give you the weekly standardth’s number.

    THE ROVING COCK: We’ll see. I’m not that easy.

    From there, I went into a routine about neocons giving out fake weekly standard numbers accidentally to guys they really like who wouldn’t butthex them and tape it without tehir conthent, and regretting it afterwards as they put healing balm on their sore anuthes through whihc th fed desouls womenz. lzozozlzlzoz

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  32. lzozlzozozzol GBFM

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  33. The guys saying this is common sense have to remember that there are Betas that this isn’t common sense for. When I work with highschool guys and tell them things like flirt with other women in front of her, its more revolutionary than the invention of the wheel.

    As to the posting and style stuff, the Dark Lord is smart enough to play with different writing styles, and its enjoyable so who cares? Changing post amounts again, eh if the muse doesn’t hit you, it doesn’t hit you. Besides sometimes shit happens. He doesn’t have to write anything.

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  34. More fun when GBFM-ified.

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  35. Yeah this is elementary game but it’s also true that a lot of guys screw this up and do get defensive.

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  36. so yeah, my retarded cousin Elmo we keep him in a cage in the basement, my sister showed him her vaj she said “You will never get this. You will never get this.” well one day he got out and he GOT it, ha ha ha ha lozll lzozlzozozzol lzoozoozlzozozozozozloz

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  37. “We’ll see. I’m not that easy.”

    That line is brilliant. Classic Roissy.

    You guys might not be too impressed, staring at your monitors. But in the heat of the moment, to pull out a frame-flipping line like that is absolutely devastating.

    Roissy is a genius at frame control. And frame control is 90% of game.

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  38. Did you ever notice men who date within women in the same age group for years & years eventually end up with a lower quality woman? The rich guy at 35 who dated the 25 year old runway model ends up at 55 dating the 25 year old IHOP waitress with two chirrun. But damn, he’s got a 25 year old who thinks he’s great! He doesn’t even have to try!

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  39. See what you wanna do is bring the first girl back to your place, have sex, kick her out, and then go back to the bar right after that. Girls will be attracted to the scent of a man that just had sex. Now go for #2

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  40. on August 30, 2010 at 8:41 pm Gunslingergregi

    THE ROVING COCK

    lol

    Probably a good frame to be in.

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  41. Sometimes you just want to tease (sexually) the hell out of a “proper gentlemen”!!! hee!hee!

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  42. @da TROOF

    Did you ever notice men who date within women in the same age group for years & years eventually end up with a lower quality woman? The rich guy at 35 who dated the 25 year old runway model ends up at 55 dating the 25 year old IHOP waitress with two chirrun. But damn, he’s got a 25 year old who thinks he’s great! He doesn’t even have to try!

    What would you want him to do at 55? Date a 55 yo ex-model who now looks like Helen Thomas?

    The average 25 year old IHOP waitress is probably a better lay than the ex-model his age.

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  43. Something else I don’t think anyone mentioned….

    “Why is that important to you?”

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  44. “You have to wear this because I know you’ve been with a lot of other girls recently”.

    “OK”

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  45. on August 30, 2010 at 10:49 pm Max from Australia

    Isnt it funny how the same person can be both Alpha and Beta

    Alpha

    http://www.tvfanatic.com/gallery/don-draper-photo/

    Beta

    I think the secret is never smile happily (only devilsh grin is exceptable) and never lower your head below others.

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  46. @MichaelC

    You’re assuming 55 year old ex-models are a legitimate option for any and every 55 year old guy; while Andie MacDowell certainly ain’t the piece of ass she was in sex, lies, and videotape, she’s not slobbering over some 50-something hobo, either; I’ll go out on a limb and say that’s because she–GASP–can do better!

    But hey, best of luck convincing yourself that stretch-marked, loose-cootered, paunch-a-jiggling 20-something is just as good as Megan Fox or Melanie Oudin because of her birthdate…ignore those niggling pangs of fear that remind you of your rapidly approaching irrelevance…and keep plunking down that credit card for Ms. 1981-1992; she’s gotta feed those alpha male spawn somehow 🙂

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  47. Girls lust for unapologetic heels before they lust for proper gentlemen.

    While this should be beyond obvious for anyone who’s read any degree of Chateau at all, note that how Chateau actually does it is a lot more subtle than this.

    He doesn’t just admit that he’s a player. He’s not adverse to her more or less figuring how that he has been or could be. But he’s playful about it.

    First knowing she’s seen him flirting he preemptively negs her about her bra strap showing. The there’s the line about the girls being crazy and not letting him go. Then when she says she saw him getting a number, and that he should call her later, he said “We’ll see. I’m not that easy.” Which is perfect. He’s implying maybe he likes his target girl more and he’ll forget about that number the girl might have pressed on him. But then again he’s got options if target girl is difficult.

    That’s a lot more skillful than just shrugging shoulders and saying, yeah maybe I am a player. That would work with some girls but would definitely scare a way a lot of other hot ones. The sorta good girl types who can still be fast seduced with the right game, for example, often enough.

    Though it’s true that the worst thing you can do is be apologetic to talking to other girls, and flirting with them some. The frame is you’re a sociable guy and like talking to pretty girls. What’s wrong with that?

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  48. on August 31, 2010 at 4:06 am smelly monkey

    Agreed. This is not Roissy who wrote a couple of years back. Have you outsourced you writing, roissy?

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  49. I’m not sure that flirting with other women turns women off, but then I suppose it depends on how and who.

    I’ve only had a labia shrivel over it when the guy is flirting with women who look like diseased whores.

    Had that happen recently. The girl who was flirting with me looked hotter and cleaner than the girls he was flirting with. Sad. I loved this guy for years, but it went platonic in a snap.

    So my reasoning might be a little freaky, but I suppose it’s similar for totally straight women. If the girls you were gaming are beneath her in some crucial way aside of looks, then it can be problematic. One should consider what she knows that you don’t.

    It’s a good reason to not be so drunk that your bottom rung standards manifest themselves.

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  50. Congrats on the baby, R!

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  51. RE: Don Draper.

    You can’t judge if someone is ‘alpha’ or ‘beta’ or both with just one snap shot. He could have been yelling- “i gotta get out of here, i got triplets waiting in the limo”

    😉

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  52. @Nicole

    I’m not sure that flirting with other women turns women off, but then I suppose it depends on how and who.

    I’ve only had a labia shrivel over it when the guy is flirting with women who look like diseased whores.

    You have a point. If he’s flirting with girls who are higher or equal rating to the girl who sees him flirting, then he’s got game, particularly if they flirt back. If they’re of significantly higher rating and they flirt back, then he’s really got game.

    If he’s with a 7 and flirts with a 3, then he’s got no standards, and I can see how that would be a tingle-killer.

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  53. Need immediate help:

    I’m sitting in cafe working…three girls walked in, sitting approximately 12 feet away having conversation. One girl is 8.5 with amazing rack, other girl is a 6.5, other girl appears at least 5 years older than the other two.

    I had 3 seconds of strong eye contact from the hot one, and she is definitely expressing the demeanor that she is single.

    Open approach would be socially inappropriate given the time of day, location and their numbers. Best strategy to wait and hope that the hot girl breaks off from the other two? Or wait for one of the other girls to break off and open to one of them? (with the goal being getting to the hot one eventually)

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  54. Sidewinder,
    You’re married.

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  55. Laura,

    I know, but its fun. I don’t ask for numbers or anything. I honestly engage in flirt game with strangers to test the effectiveness of these theories, develop my own self-discipline in maintaining good non-verbal and frame…and this girl has amazing breasts. I just want to see if I can handle the situation effectively enough to receive clear IOI from her. I’m trying to improve my social skills across the board, with women and men.

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  56. Okay. There’s nothing wrong with that. I was sort of teasing you. I bet your wife is a really nice person, though.

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  57. Laura, so help a brother out! They just all three looked at me and laughed, I looked over and the hot one blushed and said “ok, now we’re creating a scene” to the other two. I smiled back.

    Evaluating the situation objectively, this girl is above my league in looks. I’m a 7.5 on a good day, she’s a 8.5. I am the only attractive male at the cafe, however. I have a nice watch and decent cloths on, which probably indicates some status, but probably not enough to bridge the looks gap.

    I can’t tell if she’s evaluating me, or if she’s already determined that I’m below her value to a degree that she sees me as completely harmless.

    My wife is fine. 🙂

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  58. Friends have left hot girl alone at the table.

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  59. And now they all three left…

    (Sidewinder experiencing sadness)

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  60. Old Army Maxim:

    ANY reasonable course of action, BOLDLY carried through, is better than inaction.

    Or, as Jerry Pournelle paraphrases, “The mark of a good leader is the ability to make quick decisions. If they happen to be right, so much the better.”

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  61. on August 31, 2010 at 11:47 am European Beta

    Hi Roissy! Hello, companions of the Gentleman’s Club that this Chateau is!

    I have this off topic thing that I saw and I wonder if it’s true or not… so I thought of exposing that here to see what you people have to say:

    http://therawness.com/31-days-of-game-day-9/#comments

    So, is that true that WE CAN INCREASE OUR VALLUE BY GETTING WOMEN INVESTED ON DOING SHITTY THINGS FOR US???

    I’d appreciate any insights…

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  62. THE ROVING COCK would make a good pub name. We should get a wooden pub sign made to swing outside over the door and use it as a new blog logo around here. THE ROVING COCK with a strutting rooster.

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  63. Ah yes, more roissy daily vomit.

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  64. @sara
    Ah yes, more roissy daily vomit.

    If this is what it’s like when CR blows chinks, then imagine when there’s singing.

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  65. @sara

    But a vomit you love to hate (or hate to love?). That is why you come here to get yer daily fix. Junkie! 😉

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  66. Mad Men is a good illustration of AMOGing and frame control, e.g. Lee Garner eventually making Sterling put on the Santa suit or when Draper stuck his fingers in the girl’s vag and said “do as I say.”

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  67. @Sidewinder

    And now they all three left…

    (Sidewinder experiencing sadness)

    You are near hopeless. Anger, man! Anger at yourself that you did not act. (Even as an etude. You need a different frame of a self-reference)

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  68. I don’t understand why bitter cunts like Sara come here.

    I don’t waste my time trolling man hating feminist sites leaving snarky comments.

    My guess is that the truth cuts deep and rather than debate like an adult, they resort to name calling and slurs.

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  69. Is this the same Sarah who used to comment here all the time?

    I miss that spirited old cougar.

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  70. Hey, Sidewinder. You were playing what I call “catch-and-release game”, a fun way for men in LTRs to keep their game sharp, which has a positive influence on the LTR because of the redirection of the resulting energy.

    Sorry I missed your post earlier, at that very time I was in a cafe myself and a very hot young girl (18, 8.5) sat down next to me (I was at the table next to the electrical outlet, that you need to be near if you want to plug your computer in instead of just work off battery power, as she did). I helped her arrange things and chatted with her a bit, but did not flirt with her because I had a feeling her Mom would be arriving shortly, as indeed happened. I picked a time to get up when her Mom had gone to the other room of the cafe, which gave me an opportunity to ask her what she was doing, and a very friendly and pleasant short conversation followed (since I was obviously leaving she did not feel like I was trying to hit on her).

    In your situation I would get up and go to another part of the cafe, or the restroom, or something for a few minutes, then approach from a different angle, in case one of the girls has gotten up and can be spoken to in a natural way. If they’re all still at the table, you can still arrange to be facing in the right direction to smile and nod at them as you approach your seat.

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  71. @Montzilla

    I appreciate your indignation, but that is what sara really came for. She likes to push buttons. You are her play toy kitten. Pwned.

    If you can’t ridicule, then at least ignore.

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  72. on August 31, 2010 at 1:18 pm Rollo Tomassi

    How do you handle target A when she becomes aware of target B?

    Just remember this WWCD?, what would Cory do?

    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/08/12/umm-sorry/

    Caught red handed by a parsimonious target insisting on your contrition and surrender of frame?

    WWCD?

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  73. A bit OT but a recent NYT Magazine piece discussed the trials of making clothes for the “larger woman”. They said sizes have adjusted over the years. A size 10 back in the nineteen-forties would correspond,they said,to a size 2 today. And the Times also informs us that soldiers today are having a lot of trouble getting fit;soft bones and a lard-filled ass. The article decribes a new style of fitness training emphasizing pilates type movements.

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  74. on August 31, 2010 at 2:21 pm helene edwards

    The problem is that people, including your interlocutor, routinely mistake what “conservative” actually means in practice. From a macro social perspective, after about 1990 all a “conservative” is is someone who is impatient with bullshit pieties and just wants to tell the truth about group differences. So, a liberal is someone who insists on pretending that blacks are no more prone to violent crime than anyone else, while a conservative rejects this charade. A conservative doesn’t want to pretend that the “problems with the schools” is insufficient money, knowing instead that older generations managed to become educated despite a small fraction of the spending. It goes on and on. If we define political self-delusion or lying as “cool,” then liberal chicks are cool and conservative chicks not. If we define truthtelling as “cool,” then liberal chicks are the uncool ones.

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  75. polymax–

    You’re around again.

    I’ve been meaning to ask you if you’ve read an La Griffe du Lion – the wonder HBD statistician.

    Seeing as how that’s your area, I’d love to get your thoughts on him. He impressed the hell out of me, but then I only took one intro to statistics course at Stanford many moon ago.

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  76. Doug1,

    I have read him, he is good but doesn’t write enough. Unfortunately I have no time to comment on blogs anymore, having experienced an enormous increase in my email correspondence recently, for a reason you would find familiar.

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  77. Don’t stop, Helene… you’re turning me on!

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  78. Did that a few times. Once someone called the police on me for that. They banned me from visiting that establishment ever again. So i’d still say not sarging two girls within site of each other is just a prudent thing to do. It is so easy to complain and have the cops on you these days. And the accuser does not even have to identify herself/himself. And the cops love to bust someone like this instead of fighting real crime. Ofcourse go ahead a flirt with as many girls as you want at parties, bars, social get togethers whatever. But if you are doing day game at places like Whole Foods/Book stores, I’d say apply some common sense and don’t go overboard.

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