A Critical Moment

Everything was going right.  My game was tight.  She was responding with an everlasting feedback loop of positivity.  All smiles, all electrified touching on the legs, chest, arms.  Unforced laughter.  Whispers in ears as cheeks grazed.

A culmination in same night sex was within the realm of possibility.  I could practically taste it.

Then she pulled the classic last ditch stone cold shit test.

Using inviting body language, she welcomed a male interloper into our perfect night.  He dutifully took the bait and chatted her up.  She snapped her eye contact away from me and to him.  She laughed at his… what were they?… jokes?… no, she laughed at any old stupid thing he said.

He was in heaven.  Getting the girl AND sticking it to some chump who thought he had it in the bag.

But I knew better.  He was being used by her.  A compete tool in a skilled operator’s hands.  She just needed to know if I was strong enough to not get rattled.

About half the girls I have picked up have at some point attempted to pull this maneuver.  Club and bar girls are the worst offenders because it is so easy for them to recruit an all-too-willing male foil from the crowd.

It used to chasten me.

Now it charms me.

There is one way to handle this final shit test that is absolutely GUARANTEED to work every time — walk away.

First, chat up the guy in a friendly manner to show you are unaffected by his presence.  Stay for a few minutes.  Smile.  Then, leave, preferably right in the middle of something you were saying to both of them to maximize the impact of your exit.  Give no explanation or excuse.  Just walk away casually and confidently to another floor of the bar.

Can you walk away from a girl in whom you have invested three hours of seduction?

Literally 30 seconds later she joined me downstairs — by herself.

Test passed.

It was funny how compliant and eager to please she became after that.


  1. You guys are all so adorable. I love being a completely disinterested third-party observer to this stuff.


  2. “A culmination in same night sex was within the realm of possibility. I could practically taste it.”

    –> what about that ???


  3. What do you mean, “walk away in mid-sentence”? That seems weird. Maybe pause for a moment, then walk away. I want more details on this little technique. Happened to me, too.


  4. I salute you for having the patience for this kind of cockteasing shit. I stopped putting up with it after around 30 or so because women that age had no business being so picky as their eggs grew stale.


  5. not mid-sentence, but mid-conversation.

    “so yeah, chicks really dig karaoke, and i’ve always wondered about that.”


    jahmon – yes. i can tell what a girl’s pussy tastes like just by the smell of her skin.


  6. Nice strategy Roissy. I used to look at my watch and announce that I had told a friend of mine I’d find him at whatever time my watch read. One time I supplemented things with the statement “you two have a great time; you seem to have a lot in common.”

    I really like the idea of walking away because it shows you just don’t care whether you hook up with her or not (which obviously you do). Calling a woman’s bluff forces her to put up (or put out) or shut up.

    “Can you walk away from a girl in whom you have invested three hours of seduction?”

    The same question could be put to her. She spent most of the night chatting with you. Does she really want you to walk away, leaving her with chump-boy?


  7. This technique works. It all goes back to establishing controlled confidence in a particular situation. By walking away, you showed her that you don’t ‘need’ her and are not desperate. This conveys strength on your part, which of course she is attracted to. Women want what isn’t readily and easily available..i.e., that pimp (you) that just walked away.


  8. So what is the innapproprate response to this scenario


  9. also, does this look like ‘fleeing’?


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  11. So what is the innapproprate response to this scenario

    Falcon punch to the groin?


  12. I’ve encountered this test many times in the past. In each of the times I walked away, the set ended. The girl never chased me down. It just ended.


  13. driftwood, if it ended then good on you, alpha males dont put up with that shit..she for sure chumped the other guy anyway..f-her.