Handling Alpha Male Interlopers

I’ve got another post up at men’s magazine The Spearhead for my Friday Night Game weekly series. An excerpt:

Luckily, the AMOG is more oversized totem than reality. Nine out of ten times you will not have to worry about another man deliberately interfering with your pickup. It is even rarer for a man to hit on your girlfriend in your presence. (This latter flavor of evil normally happens when the victim boyfriend gives off the beta vibes of someone who is hanging on by a thread to his girlfriend, and knows it.) But it does happen, and if you go out a lot to meet women or to chill with your lady you should be prepared for those times you get AMOGed, because nothing lowers your status — or your testosterone — faster than a tooling by a socially stronger man. And every woman who sees it go down will treat you like the plague.

I go on to describe tactics for dealing with especially aggressive alpha males who are trying to steal your girl. Go read the whole thing of beauty over there.





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  1. on October 9, 2009 at 9:01 pm HUNGRY HUNGRY HIPPOS YO

    Awesome! It’s still a little weird you’re blogging on the spearhead considering that a lot of th mgtow types seem rather hostile to game.

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  2. HUNGRY HUNGRY HIPPOS YO

    Awesome! It’s still a little weird you’re blogging on the spearhead considering that a lot of th mgtow types seem rather hostile to game.

    Of all the writers on The Spearhead, I can’t think of one that is actually hostile to Game. Probably about half are very enthusiastic young guys, a quarter are silent practitioners (i.e. the older guys who know the score), and another quarter are neutral.

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  3. Damn, you’ve posted way too many threads within two days.

    I’m cross-posting to this one in the hopes of conveying the message to you sooner.

    To Roissy :

    I think BitingBeaver and a few other E-mail’less new blog commenters here are from 4chan.

    Threads about you are popping up en-masse on 4chan’s /r9k/ board in regularity… Much of it is vitriol, which corresponds with the occasional rise of overt trolling here… But there are a few folks who support your message.

    BitingBeaver seems to be either a supporter or a bored neutral-troll.

    Be wary.

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  4. [Cont’d.]

    Nice article.

    I have a question about your last suggestion, though… Ending relations with a girl who opens herself up to an AMOG, FOREVER.

    There should be a sliding scale, don’t you think? What if you’ve been dating this girl for a few months, she’s angry at you for a short while and is obviously shit-testing you by showing IOIs to another guy?

    If you DO decide to escape & evade permanently, should you convey anger and disappointment in a manly way or be classically aloof?

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  5. There is a time to fight, there is a time to be a sneaky-fucker, there is time to hold ’em, a time to fold ’em, a time to walk away; and a time to run.
    That is, if ya want to to get lots of pussy and die of old age in yur sleep.

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  6. In terms of channers. They’re rather cult-like, with very strange group behaviour. Depression and other illnesses seemed quite commong among them. Isolated, they’re rather lonely betas generally, with more misdirected bitterness. Same as normal bitter men on here overall, who could really use a bit of going out of the metaphorical basement to do other things with their lives. I think some basic knowledge about females could come in to use for the ones who have seriously bothered with weights or staying thin at least.

    It’s a poor substitute for real socialising. I had a friend who basically dropped out of uni due to his trolling obsessions, as well as my life. I had to make sure he ate, check on him, give him the right notes, wake him up to get places… he basically needed quite a lot of support.

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  7. I guess it depends on two things:

    1. Do you care? If you do not care enough, it does not matter.

    2. If you care, will you cripple/ kill the person and his progeny?

    Personally, I don’t care about the opinion of others, so who cares…

    However, a few calmy asked, but vague, questions about the wellbeing of a guys kids or dependants- especially if you do not know him shuts people up. But you have to know how to push his fear buttons in a legally vague, but meaningful way.

    If you suspect that the person is involved with organized crime, do not try the above approach. Your two options are either laugh away the situation or use methods and ideas, that I will not discuss, to ruin his life.

    If you chose the later option, wait for a couple of months before starting your course of action.

    However you have to decide whether revenge is profitable. It is usually not worth it. But if you think it is worth it, don’t let morality, conceit or vanity come in the way of maximum carnage.

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  8. The biggest blindspot for women is their inability to handle a reality where men see their true worth, because they have none.

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  9. For when you’re out with your g/f (or even just a date), this quote from the article is the only thing to focus much on:

    “One last thing. If your girlfriend is so easily swayed by an AMOG, you and her are likely on the road to a breakup.”

    A girl who is genuinely into being out with you (or your g/f) is not likely to show legit IOIs to other men. If she does, you’re probably a doomed beta to her to begin with.

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  10. Lucy
    Pushing peoples fear-buttons (without the wherewithal to consummate the deal) is a sign of deep craziness, imho.
    Where I live, most white-skinned adults have concealed handgun permits and a barely contained lust for emptying theirs guns into the twitching bodies of slow-moving, stupid, evil-doers.
    Revenge? Fear?
    You are not from around here, are you?

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  11. HHHY: “Awesome! It’s still a little weird you’re blogging on the spearhead considering that a lot of th mgtow types seem rather hostile to game.”

    Welmer: “Of all the writers on The Spearhead, I can’t think of one that is actually hostile to Game. Probably about half are very enthusiastic young guys, a quarter are silent practitioners (i.e. the older guys who know the score), and another quarter are neutral.”

    Question: What is the difference between your average PUA and average MGTOW?

    Answer: About 10 years.

    That’s probably generalizing it, but a good portion of MGTOWs came into their masculine state of awareness through PUA. (probably at least 40%). PUA allows men to demystify women, and see the world of gender relations for what it is, instead of what it should be.

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  12. This one’s for David Alexander:

    The documentary “Zoo” is available on YouTube.

    It’s about Kenneth Pinyan aka “Mr. Hands” who was a Boeing engineer who engaged in receptive anal sex with full-size stallions at a farm in Washington state. He videotaped those sex acts and distributed them informally under the name “Mr. Hands.” The videotaped sex acts are available online, but I won’t link to them here. Your lustful curiosity should find them easily enough.

    During a July 2005 sex act, videotaped by a friend, he suffered a perforated colon and later died of his injuries.

    Since you’ve given up on pursuing women, and enjoy degrading yourself so much, perhaps the documentary will inspire you to embark on new frontiers.

    Though it goes without saying, remember that like Ice Cube said, “Big dicks in ya ass is bad for ya health” so be cautious.

    If nothing else, at least you will now have new masturbation material.

    Enjoy.

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  13. Anyone who grew up around horses will know that young stallions are not a good love-match to any sentient human life-form. The animals have no manners nor sense of restraint.
    The real, hard thrust of the problem I shall leave un-explained.

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  14. Rum,

    If most people have concealed weapons, why would the crazy guy not have them too?

    It is really a game of chicken, in which the person with most to lose (perception) will chicken out.

    In any case, your hypothetical gun-toting white man has to sleep, eat, shit, drive to work, step outside his house etc. The guy might also have close relatives, a job which could be lost through carefully thought out actions etc..

    Look, it comes down to one simple question: is it worth it?

    In almost every case, it is not. In the few cases it is, one should not hold back or show any mercy.

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  15. Where I live, obtaining a concealed license is very difficult. Your record must be spotless and you must demonstrate excellent “gun control” at the rage.
    Most local cops cannot qualify, FWIW.
    When you show your CHL to a Cop they never ask you why you took the trouble to get one.

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  16. Alpha Male: Man Marries 4 women on same day.

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/8292312.stm

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  17. I think an important tactic that sort of goes along with AMOGing are the boyfriend destroying tactics developed by Tyler Durden. Including:
    1. qualifying him and then disqualifying him
    2. evoking negative emotions in the girl towards the boyfriend by talking about him being a beta provider

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  18. Alpha Male: Man Marries 4 women on same day.

    That man is South African. Our president, Zuma, has also been married at least 4 times and has 18 children by ~ 7 women.

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  19. Roissy et al:

    I thought this was interesting. 45 year old Adam Duritz, who has fucked Courtney Cox, Jennifer Aniston, and Mary-Louise Parker, is now dating 23 year old Emmy Rossum.

    He’s fat and ugly with dreads. But he’s alpha as fuck (lead singer of county crows, tall, witty).

    http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/10/08/2009-10-08_new_couple_emmy_rossum_and_adam_duritz_make_sweet_music_together.html

    Thoughts?

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  20. on October 10, 2009 at 6:50 pm ironrailsironweights

    I love the smell of GNP in the morning.

    And in the afternoon, evening, and night.

    Peter

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  21. JC,

    Women are fame-fuckers, who knew *S*

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  22. Shut up, Peter.

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  23. Lucifer,

    Non black people can afford themselves such luxuries as starting bar fights and threatening people’s families; however, if you are black such behavior will result in being beaten, tased, arrested, beaten again, jailed, and forever stigmatized with a scarlet F (for felon) that will prevent one from ever obtaining a high paying job that doesn’t carry a risk of a RICO conviction or reproducing with a woman that doesn’t have a tatoo on her neck, upper thigh, left breast, two children, and at least one venereal disease.

    If your girl is giving action to some guy popping at her at a bar, then your game was never tight with her to begin with. Any decent woman would tool the guy out to prove her devotion. You’re much better for recognizing her as the slut she is and leveraging her to pick up another chick. Bonus points for the jealousy and insecurity this will incite in the inconsiderate little tart.

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  24. Addendum: if this is the initial pickup, DON’T COMPETE. Immediately walk away and start running your game on another woman of equal or greater status. It does not need to be in visual proximity, her bitchy radar will pick it up. When she sees the IOI (WTF does that mean anyway?) from woman #2, it will trigger her competetive instinct. Never underestimate how how bitchy and competetive women get over men. If done right, she will try to get your attention by brushing up against you, standing in your immediate field of vision, or doing both. Make surreptitous eye contact, smile, close woman #2 and go to woman #1. She will take you away from woman #2 so she can CLOSE YOU without any distraction. If she doesn’t come around, then at least you got woman #2, right? Happy hunting gentlemen.

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  25. Another gold post.

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  26. ””””’The Specimen
    Lucifer,

    Non black people can afford themselves such luxuries as starting bar fights and threatening people’s families; however, if you are black such behavior will result in being beaten, tased, arrested, beaten again, jailed, and forever stigmatized with a scarlet F (for felon) that will prevent one from ever obtaining a high paying job that doesn’t carry a risk of a RICO conviction or reproducing with a woman that doesn’t have a tatoo on her neck, upper thigh, left breast, two children, and at least one venereal disease.
    ””””””””’

    There where 3 black guys on my cellblock and like 20 white guys. Yea your right white people can do whatever the fuck they want. Jesus the stupidity knows no bounds.

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  27. IOI (WTF does that mean anyway?)

    indicator of interest

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  28. ””””””’I go on to describe tactics for dealing with especially aggressive alpha males who are trying to steal your girl. Go read the whole thing of beauty over there.
    ”””””””’

    Best tactic is to not give a fuck then the girlfriend will be talking about beating up other woman that come on to you.

    Now if you give a fuck about the woman then she should be worth giving a fuck about which should take some time and she should have passed multiple tests already. Once she has passed those tests. It should be impossible to even look like another guy is trying to steal your girl. It should only look like guys are looking in worship at a woman they could not possibly have and they know it by the way she defers to your manhood.

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  29. slinger,

    White guys can’t do whatever they want, but they can get away with much more than black and hispanic guys. Same goes for asian (excluding southeast asians) and indian guys. The fact of the matter is that if you’re black or hispanic, a police contact is much more likely to end with an ass whooping and/or an arrest. But you wouldn’t understand. People never really believe it until they actually see it in action, but ask ANY black guy and they’ll tell you: If you’re black don’t ever give the cops the slightest inkling of a reason to arrest you, because they will go to town on you, whether you’re breaking the law or not.

    Anyway, how would you know? Because you have some story about seeing white people in jail? Well I once did a night in the drunk tank for something one of my white friends did that I had no involvement in. He got off with a warning. Try that one on for size you soprano singing gelding of a man.

    P.S. Your blog sucks.

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  30. I am honorary black now according to my bitches son. But yea not seeing where you are coming from on the arrested thing. Blacks always say “others” don’t know where they are coming from or couldn’t understand but I know where your coming from and your talking shit. Oh yea I may get her pregnant thinking of it just so that the black dude can look at his new half white child. Hell I may even come back to fuck her every once in a blue moon.

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  31. Oh yea when she does the stereotypical black woman shit I just laugh at her ass. She starts laughing too because she knows what shes doing lol Of course everyone else takes her serious. I don’t know where they got the tough rap since they all hot air.

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  32. Guess I was wrong I was able to fuck a black chick kind of cool since they are so easy to pick up. I got cousins sisters and shit lining up.

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  33. on October 11, 2009 at 7:32 pm Fijian in Portland

    Gunslingergregi:

    “Seriously though I don’t know how the fuck I m gonna get rid of this chick. Can you take her lol”

    When you are ready to end it with the cumdumpster:

    Listen carefully.

    Call her, and tell her you have to meet with her immediately. That you cant tell her over the phone and that its serious. And hang up.

    Then meet her in a semi private place.

    Tell her she needs to get tested for HIV immediately.

    (its helpfull for you to have a brochure of a free health clinic that does screens, to give her) Tell her that you are worried about her.

    Then tell her, and look very sad/lost/distant.
    about this time have your cell phone ring, via a “break a date” phone service. Have your phone ringtone switched up to Ring “Live like you were dying” -Tim McGraw.

    Then tell her the Bombshell, but act like its hard to say.

    That you just found out and its confirmed that you have HIV/aids.

    Next Tell her she is the only person, that you have told. (keeps her from flapping her lips, to other girls, if she it will be traced back to her)

    (also if you hear “it” going around, pass it off as pure cockblocking playa hating, started by a girl you ended it with)

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  34. Fijian in Portland,

    lol dude I can’t lie though it sucks. Like really before I couldn’t fuck black chicks. Then I started hearing all the bruthas on here talking about white chicks and shit so I was like oh ok well fuck it. I can fuck up some shit lol

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  35. on October 11, 2009 at 8:49 pm Fijian in Portland

    I take it your into SK, and while I dont like anything by him (excepting eyes of the dragon)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Eyes_of_the_Dragon

    If you asked me slinger, if I had to choose 1 horror writer, I would say I prefer Koontz.

    Specifically the Frankenstein updates, “Prodigal Son”, “City Of Night”, and “Dead or Alive”.

    Although, I wouldn’t have chose New Orleans as the setting. Too much Anne Rice Vampire stuff in that town already. Maybe, instead… SF and the Bay Area or Manhatten/Upstate NY.

    Back to your girl problem. The only reason you cant lie, is because your weak, and male. Unlike women who are weak yet female. Women come by lying naturally. Men, have to learn the hard way.

    Best of luck anyway, White-slinger. (normally I don’t bring up race, but you seem keen on it at the moment… Perhaps working on a reverse oreo?)

    I, Bau have spoken.

    “The ultimate good desired is better reached by free trade in ideas [and] the best test of truth is the power of the thought to get itself accepted in the competition of the market.”

    Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., (dissent, Abrams v. United States, 1919) US jurist (1841 – 1935)

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  36. Been an enforced reverse oreo since my dad lost millions and we became poor. But yea King owns and the lifestyle of a gunslinger not too bad. Not lieing is not weak it is strong as I am willing to deal with the consequences of my actions whatever they may be. There are other worlds than these. On the girl thing yea will eventually leave that may be a weakness of mine I hate tears lol But yea gonna have to harden that shit up.

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  37. Course when my actions will cause tears and scarring of souls I may hesitate. Tears really I enjoy from woman but mixed with true pain I don’t like to see.

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  38. Not lieing even got me out of my papertrail with the gov so yea it has done me well thus far. Plus I told the chick from beginning I am married and we where friends I cannot help she fell in “love” or whatever or that she wants me to only fuck her. These are things she knew from the beginning where not gonna happen. So really there is no moral dilema other than what always happens with woman.

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  39. I think I may be getting some tires slashed though he he he
    Shit like that.

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  40. on October 11, 2009 at 9:22 pm ironrailsironweights

    reproducing with a woman that doesn’t have a tatoo on her neck, upper thigh, left breast, two children, and at least one venereal disease

    And, worst of all, a Hideous Pedophilic Bald Eagle.

    Peter

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  41. The Specimen–

    You’re a racialist leftist ideologue.

    When was the last time you ever admitted anything “against interest”, as lawyers like to say esp. re: the law of evidence? (Because the statement reflects fundamental human nature and tells as to when someone is being honest, or not.)

    You have zero cred.

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  42. Specimin–

    White guys can’t do whatever they want, but they can get away with much more than black and hispanic guys. Same goes for asian (excluding southeast asians) and indian guys.

    Complete crap. When it’s clear what happened.

    There is some truth to a claim, which you aren’t making, you don’t limit yourself, that black men are held in greater suspicion than white men or NAMs.

    That’s for very good reason. Blacks commit 7-8 times as much violent crime per capita as white men do. That’s not quite a lot more. That’s HUGELY more. That’s not 20% more, which would be WAY significantly more by any social science measure, but 800% more.

    There should actually be more racial profiling than there is. Any efforts to reduce it should be fiercely resisted, for the public safety.

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  43. Meanwhile, McGruff the Crime Dog is giving his own brand of advice to little AMOG victims, i.e., the bullied, i.e. the greater omegas of 2020.

    http://www.mcgruff.org/Advice/bullies.php

    Here’s what McGruff says:

    Try to talk it out. Say, “Why are you being mean to me?” [sounds good – classic frame control and perhaps gets the attention of the doorman, I mean the gym teacher]

    Walk away from the bully. [uh-oh…major DLV and often logistically impossible]

    Speak up. Say, “Stop picking on me!” [same as the first piece of advice]

    Make a joke. If you say something funny, even about yourself, the bully might laugh and forget to pick on you. [even if this wasn’t foolish advice, it’s too vague to be of any use. Make a simpering, clownish display of submission and he will be appeased? What do you do when you run out of “jokes”?]

    Stick with your friends. [sensible, but if you were good at aligning yourself with others, you wouldn’t have been selected as a target in the first place.]

    Ask an adult for help. [most kids know that being a snitch is fraught with risks but if no one hears you speak up, you may have no choice.]

    How much of this was field-tested?

    McGruff looks like a guy, but I think his parts of his script are written by women. Or Jimmy Carter.

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  44. The best response to a school bully: a sucker-punch.

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  45. This thread got real interesting, real quick…

    In Response to Doug1 :

    Continuing our discussion from a previous thread, what tenable actions WOULD you take for the different ethnicities of NAMs in this country, then?

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  46. Doug:

    There is some truth to a claim, which you aren’t making, you don’t limit yourself, that black men are held in greater suspicion than white men or NAMs.

    That’s for very good reason. Blacks commit 7-8 times as much violent crime per capita as white men do. That’s not quite a lot more. That’s HUGELY more. That’s not 20% more, which would be WAY significantly more by any social science measure, but 800% more.

    Gee, I never would have guessed this, what with the impression I get from the fine black gentlemen who frequent this blog.

    BTW, what does “outliers” mean again?

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  47. on October 12, 2009 at 12:43 am Fijian in Portland

    ironrailsironweights aka Peter

    “And, worst of all, a Hideous Pedophilic Bald Eagle.”

    You like hairy muffs? Dude, like seriously?

    If this is truly so, You will love this ancient skinflick from the 60s. Language track is german, but Bushy GNP is all for you.

    http://www.perfectgirls.net/17062/young_girls_13_classic

    I, Bau have spoken.

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  48. Porn star/actress Sasha Grey commented on an entry I wrote about her on my blog, The Holy Mountain: Anarchy and Alchemy, earlier today.

    Roissy, I’d like some analysis:

    http://thealchem1st.wordpress.com/2009/10/10/an-open-letter-to-sasha-grey/

    This blog is going to focus primarily on philosophy, psychology, religion, art, dating/game, and politics. And whatever I feel like, really. I’d like you guys to read regularly, and possibly add me to your blogroll if you like the material. I will be updating on a daily basis. One of my recent entries, “The Man of Power,” is a MUST READ for all pickup artists and men in general.

    However, I must ask that you don’t mention game or pickup too explicitly in the comments section. A lot of girls from campus are reading this blog and I don’t want to have my cover blown and get blacklisted as a player. Thanks in advance.

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  49. Well, my goodness.

    I thought your blog was dead.

    I saw it on various blogrolls, but every time I clicked over to check you out, it appeared you stopped posting eons ago.

    I figured that a legend had died.

    Now … I see that you are actually alive and well.

    And sticking your foot in it.

    A kindred spirit.

    xoxo.

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  50. The hot, busty redhead from Mad Men Christina Hendricks just got married. To this schlemiel.

    The ugly doofus is some no-name loser actor. You might remember him from the classic Super Troopers which he was in for like 5 minutes at the beginning as one of the weed smoking high schoolers that get pulled over. 3 out of his 5 most recent jobs involved him playing the parts of a “Mohammed”, an “Egyptian Joe”, and voice work as a pedestrian (not even a main character) in a video game.

    She is 35, so only a few years left on her, but it’s hard for any guy to turn down those tits.

    So what was it? Massive cock? Hollywood connections? (He does seem like he might be Jewish; F. Scott Fitzgerald: “Hollywood is a Jewish holiday, a gentile tragedy.”) Family fortune? Game?

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  51. An amog while picking a girl up and an amog while out with YOUR GF are two wildly different things. Your advice works great for the former, not the latter.

    If I guy approaches YOUR GF IN FRONT of you, blow him out of the water right away. Even if you come across as slightly angry/un-social. A real man simply does not watch his GF get hit on. Discretion is not a virtue here.

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  52. Also…99.999999 % of the time, if you get agessive to A GUY HITTING ON YOUR GF IN FRONT OF YOU, he will back down. Unless you happen to hangout at the same joints as MIke Tyson, there are few guys who wi hit on yourgirl and then want to fight when you call him out.

    I still just don’t understand the call for subtlty here…is it worth watching your GF getting taken from under you by acting “socially masterful” instead of just ending the situation. Don’t “neg” the amog…make him fight or flight. He’ll flight.

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  53. the whole question is preposterous.

    if a guy hits on your girl, GF or not, with you by her side, it is either you screaming “I am beta, please someone cheat me with her” or the guy will look downward ridiculous. Either you have already lost before the fight started or the guy will humiliate himself

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  54. gig said: “Either you have already lost before the fight started or the guy will humiliate himself”

    There is probably more truth to this than most in the PUA community would like to admit. Even Roissy sort of alluded to this in his opening paragraphs.

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  55. This Amog stuff is nonsense….

    Explain to your woman in no uncertain terms, that any vocal contact with any unrelated MALEs will result in instant end to relationship. Women know how to ignore/blow off males…and this will be required ALWAYS.

    Here in NY City….if you talk to a guys woman….a stabbing, gun shot or broken bottle/glass to the face is NORMAL….just peruse the NY Post/Daily news blotters on Modays. Puff Daddy and Plaxico didnt bring guns for a show & tell.

    If you have a 8-10 woman you will encounter ALOT of stares on the street. Strong, sustained, direct eye contact will scare off most as many will deduce you are carrying a gun or blade.

    I know most of you will say: what about all those martini bars and frat bars? where there is tons of talking/hitting?

    Answer:

    those women enter alone. No man in his right man brings a woman into that situation. If he picks up, its quick and he exits immediately.

    If its any pseudo friendly environment (private party, wedding, mixed dinner) a simple 3 word: “She’s with me” works. If he persists, move, or leave.

    No chick is worth incarceration, bodily harm or if you have $, a lawsuit which you will pay-up in and lose, either in defense or settlement.

    Roissy you post can be mis-interpreted and cost many here pain/-$.

    MEN: dont confuse your honor or manhood with female stupidity or local male scum.

    This AMOG defense shit will result in fights, deaths, maiming, and lawsuits.

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  56. “If I defend myself, I am attacked.”

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  57. rock solid, Roissy.

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  58. on October 13, 2009 at 2:08 am Fijian in Portland

    @Silver Fox

    OR you can always tell the AMOG:

    Hey! She is on the clock, $450.00 an Hr, Upfront or take a hike. Two hour minimum, If you wanna talk, call a 900 number.

    Most guys bail, and a few will try to hit an ATM… by then you will have moved on to a new bar.

    I, Bau have spoken.

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  59. some solid advice in that article. i like the tactics you suggest.

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  60. I am new to game so I have nothing to say directly about the topic, but I was in a situation in a downtown DC bar recently that drove home the pussy power of violence and my belief that for a man the bottom line is always the credible threat of physical violence.

    Basically, I was with a group of male friends drinking on a recent weekend night in a relatively laid back popular place. It was a relaxed but pretty crowded bar, and it was chock full of DC betas and SWPL pussies. Par for the course around these parts.

    Anyway, I went outside to talk to someone and smoke a cigarette. When I returned inside one of my companions was absolutely enraged for no apparent reason. Turns out that while I was gone some guy gave him shit while my friend was saving my chair. Essentially asshole wanted it and gave lip when politely told that it was not available.

    I could tell my friend was gathering his courage for a physical confrontation. He was vacillating between making loud and rude comments about the asshole and sullenly drinking and staring at the guy. In short, he was generally acting in that passive-aggressive stage men sometimes use to build up themselves before a violent confrontation.

    Normally it takes way too much to get me mad as I tend to be relaxed to a fault, although I am a former football player, wrestler, bouncer, and martial arts geek and I am almost always the biggest guy in the room so it’s not usually an issue because I don’t start trouble and I look like I can handle myself. But I got really pissed off because my friend happened to be a blood relative and he was essentially acting in my stead by defending my territory. So taken together the situation pissed me off beyond all rationality.

    So to make a long story short, I walked over to the asshole and his group and got in his face in a very public way. He totally backed down in every respect – body language, words used, etc. – which was good because at this point I was so angry that I was absolutely going to throw the first punch at the slightest display of attitude or resistance.

    Don’t get me wrong, I am not a real badass (I have known a few in the past) but I am just saying that I have been around the block a few times and I know how these things work.

    The really interesting part about this incident is what happened subsequently.

    After about ten minutes or so of cooling down back at my table, I looked around and noticed that most of the women sitting around the area were seriously checking me out when I had been just another face in the crowd before the confrontation. They were largely ignoring the guys they were with and throwing me serious IOIs. They were so obvious that even I could tell that they were seriously interested in me now and I am just a few steps along in my quest to get real game.

    I know that this shouldn’t have been a surprise given my past work and everything, but since I have been learning more about game I’ve become much more sensitive to social situations and group dynamics that I must have missed it in the past during similar situations. Jesus I wish I knew then what I know now.

    Regardless, this incident and others in a similar vein really drive home to me just how much modern women want men to act like men and when you do you get their attention quickly. I’ve noticed similar reactions from women with the changes I’ve made in body language, vocal diction and tone, and everything else that I’ve changed since becoming a student of game. It’s amazing. If you just act like you are a regular guy living in 1950 the results can be dramatic and you are automatically more of a man than most guys. At least in DC.

    My real problem is that social manipulation enrages me because it insults both my intelligence and my manhood. It’s as if I am supposed to give in to someone who is socially manipulative because I either don’t realize what he or she is doing because I am a fool and/or I won’t do anything real about it for fear of social opprobrium because I am a pussy. I have absolutely no problem causing a nasty public scene and being hated by most people in the room if I need to. It’s a strength and a weakness, like most character traits.

    But a few months back I made a conscious decision to either be passive or aggressive, but never again to be passive-aggressive. In my opinion there are few things as unmanly as being passive-aggressive because it shows that a man knows he should be doing something but is constraining himself from doing what’s necessary. It just screams weakness and no one respects a weak man.

    It’s worked out very well so far. And if it ever leads to assault charges, getting my ass stomped, or worse than I accept that risk because I have finally realized and accepted that it is far more important to me to be a man than to be afraid of the physical or social consequences of being a man.

    Anyway, in the unlikely event someone tried to AMOG me (it hasn’t happened yet – although a while back one guy tried to hit on a girl I was with while I was in the pisser but he damn near literally ran when he saw me coming back to the bar) and I had the presence of mind to think about it, I would probably try to use physical cues to warn him off without a direct confrontation. If that didn’t work he’d get one warning and if that didn’t work it could get physical.

    But it’s all talk until it actually goes down, so we will see.

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