Face Saving

Recently I was talking with a girl about the first time we met (read: the first time I forced her to meet me with my brazen approach) and how I went about seducing her. She laughed and told me my “palm reading was gay”. I reminded her how much she enjoyed it at the time, her palm outstretched in eager anticipation.

This is not the first time a girl I have banged has mused on the gayness or silliness of the game I ran to seduce her into bed. Girls love to look back fondly and say “Oh, he was such a dork the way he tried to pick me up”, as if they thought it would be cute to let me think I was making headway with them, then decided to sleep with me for reasons beyond my ken. Naturally, I accept this for the face saving maneuver it is; girls simply don’t want to rationally acknowledge how easily they fall for a man with tight game. But it’s so transparent. Every girl who has said my gaming of her was “gay” or “silly” had lapped it up in the moment like a hungry kitten in front of a bowl of milk.

Girls are gay.





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  1. Because it is silly. “The Cube” all those things are “silly.”

    But they’re different from,”Hey, I’m Steve, what’s your name?” They’re fresh.

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  2. “She laughed and told me my “palm reading was gay”.

    A gentlemanly come-back:

    (Rhett Butler voice-over) “I like to read the palms of girls to to see the future of those palms and where they will be. When I read your palms, they told me what I always liked to see: that they’d be wiping my cum off your tits very shortly”.

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  3. ”Hey, I’m Steve, what’s your name?”

    Never discount the power of a strong introduction.

    To be truthful, many times my opening is “Hey, my name is Michael Mason”, delivered with supreme confidence.

    Just like I straight up run things. (which is easy for me since I do run things).

    Lately, I have been getting away from “technical Game”.

    – MPM

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  4. I’m sure you’d be able to do a strong introduction, since you are a G, but most guys would come off as friendly or weak in doing it.

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  5. I mean friendly in a doomed to be friend-zoned sense.

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  6. “Girls are gay.”

    hahaha

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  7. “Lately, I have been getting away from “technical Game”.

    To further my point, I think it is really innovative to swoop girls without “technical Game”.

    Doing everything against common pick up theory and still swooping fly girls.

    That is mad futuristic.

    – MPM

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  8. Doing everything against common pick up theory and still swooping fly girls. // That is mad futuristic.

    That’s because you are a mad futuristic level player.

    The beginners are like white-belt students doing their in-stance wax-on-wax off blocks and kicks. The intermediates execute competent roundhouse kick-punch combos. While you bend spoons with your mind.

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  9. on July 24, 2009 at 12:39 pm deTocqueville

    Roissy’s point is that girls will never admit or don’t realize that game works on them, even though it does. This is absolutely true.

    This is like guys saying fake boobs are gross and they would never accept them. Bullshit, guys’ brains are hardwired to stare at that shit.

    Girls want to believe that they were seduced by natural and organic love and not a technique that can be reduced to quantifiable measures.

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  10. PA

    “The beginners are like white-belt students doing their in-stance wax-on-wax off blocks and kicks. The intermediates execute competent roundhouse kick-punch combos. While you bend spoons with your mind.”

    Ha. Great comment.

    It is really true though. The true art of picking up girls is to not pick up girls. (Sort of a Sun-Tzu approach to Game if you will)

    To have girls pick up on you.

    This is what I have been working on the last 16 months.

    I am going to write on it soon.

    I still use my “Drunken Style” though, a la Jackie Chan.

    – MPM

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  11. on a completely separate note: last night I went to a party, and left with a girl to her hotel room. After a few rounds of stupendous sex late into the night, she revealed that she was a call girl, and that’s why she had the hotel room; (also, told me we had to leave the room at 5am, since she was high tailing out of town; no, not a line, she left with me with her stuff).

    Question: should I be elated with fantastic sex for free from a girl that charges, or should I be in ever STD clinic in the city right now?

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  12. Lurker,

    Probably both.

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  13. It itches…..

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  14. lurker:

    Did you use a condom?

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  15. “no, not a line, she left with me with her stuff”

    Unless of course she did a U-turn back to the room.

    – MPM

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  16. Unfortunately, no. Before she told me she was a lady of the night.

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  17. They call you gay because it’s flamboyant to read someones palm in the middle of a bar or social gathering. And they sleep with you because they feel sorry for you. It’s like giving a treat to a dog because they whine so much.

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  18. G, it would have been quite a set up—she packed up 2 bags worth of stuff, made me wait to walk out with her, and pulled her car out of the garage.

    I’m sure she gets rid of johns easier than that.

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  19. “girls are gay” – yeah, if they are bulldykes in flannel shirts. syntax error. although, bi is hot.

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  20. on July 24, 2009 at 1:21 pm Seeking Alpha

    They call you gay because it’s flamboyant to read someones palm in the middle of a bar or social gathering. And they sleep with you because they feel sorry for you. It’s like giving a treat to a dog because they whine so much.

    Yea, I’ve noticed guys get laid all the time because the girl feels sorry for them. That’s why the biggest losers get the most pussy.

    Come on, what kind of silly logic was that?

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  21. lurker,

    Maybe you should have done “The U-turn move” and caught some extra zzzzz’s.

    And maybe whistle up some lobster tails and some champagne on the room.

    – MPM

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  22. It’s not silly logic……ok…let me elaborate…only stupid women “fall” for that stuff…or women who know you’re spitting game and just go along with it anyway cuz they want ass too.

    It’s just way to cheese not to know what a man is up to.

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  23. It’s cute that I wrote my number down on a bar napkin rather than putting it in her phone, and wrote her a little note. They think it’s so cute that they keep it in there little drawer next to their bed for months, until I get bored and stop calling. If they only knew how many girls have that same napkin, with that same note on it tucked away in their own little night stand drawer, I wonder if they would still think it is cute. It’s like the opposite of G’s futuristic pick up…I go back in time before cell phones haha

    I have a new idea for opening a girl…Completely skip the opener or any form of introduction or question and just talk….as if we were in conversation for the last 10 minutes. Walk up to a girl, start telling her a story….

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  24. Girls are gay.

    That’s cute!

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  25. on July 24, 2009 at 1:39 pm Seeking Alpha

    It’s just way to cheese not to know what a man is up to.

    You’re in a bar and a guy is talking to you. That’s all it takes to know what he’s up to. Unless his free hand is down another guys pants, a male stranger in a bar is talking to you to try and convince you to have sex with him.

    I don’t know what you’re trying to knock it. Everyone wants sex with the best they can get. Men screen by looks. Women screen by social status (humor, money, charm, looks, etc.). This is the world.

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  26. I’m knocking the cheezzee, gayness men resort to inorder to get laid….capiche…??? It’s lame.

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  27. @ Tyler

    That’s what I do quite frequently. I’ll walk up to a chick or chicks and start talking like I know them or am part of their group. I routinely have women ask me what my name is or offer their’s because there has been no formal intro. When used with a modicum of confidence and common sense it works very well. It’s how I got over approach “anxiety” many moons ago.

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  28. Chris

    @ Tyler

    I like that technique.

    I use the napkin one all the time as well.

    – MPM

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  29. Tyler, you seem cool but need to change that name. Already a PUA with that name, plus kind of cliched by now.

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  30. Deep inside we all believe that we are special little snowflakes. For women this is not just a belief but essential to their femininity. After all, how else could they explain to themselves that the number guy they all want would like her more than the other chicks?

    Game is a slap in the face for that matter.

    Girls find it incredibly hard to believe that what worked on them works on any other girl. Their jaws literally drop if you go to a bar with them and demonstrate by approaching other girls in the exact same way you approached them.

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  31. Joe: I know, when I first started writing in my blog I didn’t really think it through. I just thought I’d be writing in it for my own reading, and picked this randomly. I might switch it over to something else, I just haven’t yet…

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  32. Three posts in one day hes on a roll for the weekend.

    Cool thoughts.

    ””””Roissy,
    But it’s so transparent. Every girl who has said my gaming of her was “gay” or “silly” had lapped it up in the moment like a hungry kitten in front of a bowl of milk.””””””

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  33. ”””””””””The G Manifesto
    “Lately, I have been getting away from “technical Game”.

    To further my point, I think it is really innovative to swoop girls without “technical Game”.

    Doing everything against common pick up theory and still swooping fly girls.

    That is mad futuristic.

    – MPM”””””””””””

    Or tieing your arms and legs behind your back getting fat chopping your dick in half and still swooping fly girls. Yea ownage.

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  34. ””””’Tyler,
    I have a new idea for opening a girl…Completely skip the opener or any form of introduction or question and just talk….as if we were in conversation for the last 10 minutes. Walk up to a girl, start telling her a story….””””””””

    Act like you have been dating her for years and you already have mad rapore and she is already your woman. the first sex with her already happened you are trying to gear her up for another great night.

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  35. you’re such a fucking tool it hurts. I know what you look like and you would HAVE to have game because you are one ugly mother fucker. and I’m sure you’re game was gay and many girls are laughing with her friends at how she gave you a pitty lay because you worked so hard at being something you are not. joke is on you. please have your mother post on here sometime apologizing to all at her complete failure to raise you well. she and you should be fully ashamed, but you won’t be I’m sure.

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  36. Women still have their own massive internal double standard as to sex. They are unable to comfortably admit they want it, so they have to go through all sorts of mental gymnastics to deny, compartmentalize, rationalize and/or minimize their actions.

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  37. Good insight. You dug down deep on this one and parsed the nuances of women’s reaction to Game.

    I’ve found that anytime I say something funny but borderline stupid/goofy, but the woman I’m saying it to laughs but says “you’re so gay” or “that’s gay” (and it happens quite often), it’s a very good sign. her bond to me is tightening during those moments despite the words coming out of her mouth.

    the laugh is the important part, whatever she’s saying is secondary.

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  38. Dunno man, I’ve never run the whole palm reading routine on a woman. I tend to qualify ’em with my giant cranium, or do crap like, “oy, you never shot a gun? What the hell is the matter with you?” Of course, once they’ve touched your gun, they’re doomed. As such, I’ve never been accused of doing “gay” things to get down their pants. Despite all the NLP hooey that goes into game, I figure stuff like reading their palms is just an over complicated way of telling them you’re interested. I suspect they have more respect the direct approach. “You, lady: buy me a drink and touch my gun!”
    I can kind of see the gay thing though. When girls do stupid crap to get down my drawers like talk dirty to me, I find it kind of gay also. Though maybe it is true, and I’m just saving face in my own eyes.

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  39. Gungslinger, I like what you’re thinking, this could be funny. Taking it to the next level. What about if you act like you have already been dating for 2 years and you are tired of her bull shit and bored with the relationship, and just jump right into a nothing argument.

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  40. ”””””on July 24, 2009 at 4:57 pm Tyler
    Gungslinger, I like what you’re thinking, this could be funny. Taking it to the next level. What about if you act like you have already been dating for 2 years and you are tired of her bull shit and bored with the relationship, and just jump right into a nothing argument.””””””’

    That could be fun but I would rather jump into the make up sex. My arguments usually involve a one sided deal where I chastise the woman without yelling she cries begs forgiveness and then we fuck.

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  41. on July 25, 2009 at 1:03 am Why am I talking to LR?

    The serial-killer trope isn’t “he was such a nice guy” it is “he was so quiet”. Not the same.

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  42. That’s confirmation bias right there. Of course, every girl you slept with has “fallen for” whatever it was you did.

    How about people thinking the palm reading is gay and then proceeding to leave? That would balance it out.

    If no one ever does that, then you can safely conclude that palm reading doesn’t hurt, and is probably an effective technique in your arsenal. Not every technique is 100% amazing and perfect. They might have some cheesy aspect to them but who cares as long as it gets the job done. That’s IF.

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  43. on July 25, 2009 at 9:21 am Kick a Bitch

    just goes to show how much women will go with their emotions/feelings in the moment and then later rationalize it to suit their ego.

    Understanding/Manipulating this is a large part of game.

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  44. LR likes being abused, humiliated, belittled, and shamed. Roissy evidently enjoys being her willing partner. It’s nice they spend so much time and energy playing together, but I wish they’d do it somewhere else, it’s tiring to have to click past all that and try not to let a single syllable of it fall into one’s eye.

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  45. on July 26, 2009 at 1:27 pm Vanilla Thunder

    Mike:
    “Healthier cultures taught women to put up “prude shields” to screen out the cads rather than “bitch shields” to screen out the decent fellows. Most women on a conscious level still want a decent guy, but won’t ignore their gina tingles, so they end up rationalizing the irrational. No wonder most of them turn into headcases…”

    Too true. All too true.

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  46. testing

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  47. Seriously!

    My reaction would be to laugh but really you can say the sky is green and the grass is blue but if youre cute and nice then I’ll do you!

    I’m just a squirrel trying to get a nut like you boys!

    FYI: not every girl is looking for a relationship.
    no that does not mean I’m a slut!

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