Let’s You And Her Fight

I’ve written a post for the new men’s interests and issues online magazine ‘The Spearhead‘ (great name, btw) for a weekly series I’ll be doing over there called “Friday Night Game”. Here’s an excerpt:

Unless you are a man who mostly runs day game (i.e., meeting girls outside of venues designed for contrived social interaction) you will rarely encounter a woman alone. In bars, nightclubs, museums, at shows and events, a woman normally will be with other women. In these circumstances the opportunity to run “Let’s you and her fight” game is limitless. You should incorporate this tactic into your game right now.

Go read the full article over there. And check out some of the other articles by various contributors. Good stuff.





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  1. The shit is great Roissy! What an article! Food for thought.

    And congratulations for it or somethin.

    Besides, I just joined a lair. At least on the net, but they are definetly trying to make me go through the field. And I can hardly wait although I’m anxious.

    Oh. And if you want to know more about that exchange with the Ukrainian girl on college:

    This time she was wearing few acessories. She’s a fricking eight! (or a very high seven) which means that she’s too much for me anyway.

    Still, she just entered in the room yesterday, passed through me with a big fricking smile (more a smirk than a smile, to tell the truth) and said hello after we had made a I-will-not-say-hello-first-strong-eye-contact for three seconds. And then she sat next to me instead of in the other side of the room like she usually does.
    I ignored her.
    I just made the best translation on class, twice. And mannaged to exit when she was going to exit to talk a bit to her.
    I opened the door for her with a clumsy body language and when she was trying to pass through, I passed first 😉 I only pitty I was so clumsy.

    And then I was not able to talk to her because a friend of mine called me to invite me to a party. In a way, that’s the social proof I need because I am always alone in college. And so I attended the phone in front of her and spoke like I was fed up with this friend that wanted my presence although I had more to do already.
    When I finished the call and looked back for her, the bitch got into the closest bathroom.

    What the fuck! If she has no boyfriend, getting to know her, and maybe even flirting with her will be a great fucking challenge and lots of fun.

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  2. Roissy, can you discuss how to become a good storyteller? My storytelling abilities blow and I feel that is a huge crimp in my game.

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  3. I think my issues stem from memory problems – recall, attention to detail, and the like. Additionally, transforming the stories into a funny and interesting dialogue is difficult. Of course, I’m a reforming beta.

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  4. You should do a post on the Dave Letterman thing. What are your thoughts? I noticed from watching his confession that he didn’t really apologize at all. He said that he did “creepy” stuff, but there was no true apology. Alpha?

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  5. That was you? Lame! I typed in roissy.wordpress.com right after reading the spearhead hoping for something better.

    Regardless, thanks to your guidance I have been having sex with multiple girls at the same time.

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  6. on October 2, 2009 at 9:37 pm Biting Beaver

    Fucking Rapist.

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  7. they better be paying you!

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  8. On Roissy ‘s New Column:

    This is LONG overdue.

    I’ve stopped posting here because every comments thread deviates from the discussion of “Game” and into some of the most idiotic comments I’ve ever had the excruciating horror of reading.

    Hopefully your future contributions to “The Spearhead” can remain pure — Giving men in need the tools to improve their sexual lot in life rather than giving jackasses the justification they need to masturbate their e-go.

    Also, how is the book coming along?

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  9. Ruby,

    are you a fucking jewboy?

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  10. roissy, consider updating your blogroll. ferdinand’s site, the spearhead, and maybe others are great reads; not to mention, they are aligned with this site on a number of areas and often refer to your site, as well.

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  11. on October 3, 2009 at 1:18 am Rising Wolf - formerly Katto

    Off-topic, but completely related to Game and what modern women are after etc.: I was in the streets buying a pizza slice when two attractive young things came up to have one as well; I’d bought two so I gave them one. They were visiting from away, and they asked me if I could direct them to any “fun nightclubs.”

    Turned out they’d already been informed of a few in particular, but they refused on being informed that they were full of “rich boys.” I was surprised to hear this, being a relative newcomer to the Roissy worldview. So later on I talked it over with an old Russian acquaintance, and his opinion was that they weren’t impressed by men who had nothing going for them except their wealth, and presumably, they’d had plenty of exposure to such bores.

    A bit of further reflection suggested to me that these chicks fit right into the Roissy scheme of things: They were obviously not gold-diggers, but almost certainly well-employed and well-heeled; they were looking for EXCITEMENT, not potential provider husbands. In other words, they were looking to be gamed by cads, players, bad boys, and what have you, and would probably be very excited by the kinds of men featured in the blog “Hot Chicks With Douchebags.”

    It was a stunningly clear, textbook illustration of the new dispensation in sex relations, right in front of my own eyes.

    Actually, I know now that things have ALWAYS been this way, really, but until recently, the vast majority of women could not afford to be so dismissive of the “rich boys.”

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  12. JC

    I am sure Roissy has some suggestions but here are mine

    #1 Practice. Its trite but the more you stories you tell the more calm you will be, the more experience you will have with mid story adjustments.

    #2 Tell the same story over and over to multiple audiences. That way you can see what the differences are in delivery versus the pure value of the story

    #3 Arc. The story must have arc. Its got to lead up to something. If you start telling a story and find that it has no arc then you will need to adjust it.

    #4 Related to the above. Do not feel bound by reality. Even if you are telling a story in the company of friends that know the truth don’t be afraid to alter the story on the fly. As long as the feeling is in tact only a douche is going to point out that you didn’t get the details right.

    #5 Start slow and more deliberate. This will help you punch the ending.

    #6 Make them as first person as you can. Say you are telling a story about your friend Joe. Don’t just say “So this guy I know named Joe . . .” Make it personal. “Joe and I used to hang out all the time. We would do X and Y. Once when I was out of town Joe did Z and . . .”

    #7 Never ever go back chronologically. If you forgot something alter the story. If it can’t be altered then say something like “because of course . . .” acting as if everyone should know this basic information. Never ever say “I forgot to tell you.”

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  13. this post needs a reframing, as long as my personal experience is concerned

    it is not to “let them fight”, but neg your target by lifting her friend up. This has the side benefict of casting doubts in your target’s mind about any criticism her friend may make of you

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  14. Possible submission for the this-guy-is-better-off-than-a-beta thing: Lobster Boy, a circus freak who was twice married and had four kids.

    http://thehumanmarvels.com/?p=66

    The only problem is that one of his wives had him killed by a hitman, so maybe omega basement dwellers are actually better off.

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  15. More stupid drivel form the blog king.

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  16. on October 3, 2009 at 2:27 pm Horatio Sanchez

    As long as Lobster Boy can be confirmed as true, consider this another vote for him to be included in the “Being a Beta Is Worse Than Being…” series.

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  17. Ugh… My creative juices are completely clotted.

    So, a question to my more Alpha peers:

    What would be the most Alpha “Happy Birthday” call?

    And to the many Femmes to Roissyland:

    If you could Build-A-Dude, and have him give you the perfect “Happy Birthday” call, what would he say?

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  18. If you let the two fight then which do you take home?

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  19. Great article, and a great photo!

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  20. ”””What would be the most Alpha “Happy Birthday” call?””””””””’

    Their is no alpha birthday call. You never bring up birthdays, christmas any of that shit. No need to buy presents for special occations. You buy presents when you want to.

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  21. on October 3, 2009 at 6:38 pm masterblaster

    excellent article. this type of game works wonders when applied correctly. It’s brought me success in landing threesomes. Also helps in snagging chicks for buddies. Even better, it means that you don’t have to talk to any one girl for too long, because let’s face it: talking to a brainless VLSS for too long makes you want to jab knitting needles into your ears.

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  22. Some idiots say that the rural south is full of “alphas”.. sure!

    How can a white guy who is afraid of dildos and black cock call himself a man..
    _______________________________________________

    To the delight of headline writers, the Alabama Supreme Court recently decided the case of 1568 Montgomery Highway Inc. — also known as Love Stuff — v. the City of Hoover. In a 7-to-2 ruling, it upheld a state law banning the sale of sex toys. The dispute may seem a bit frivolous, but it rests on a fundamental question: After the Supreme Court’s 2003 ruling striking down sodomy laws, how free is the majority to impose its morality through the law?

    http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/02/opinion/02fri2.html

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  23. Your really living the only way you can where you are lucifer I salute you.

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  24. On the doing woan for money only not on the you being afraid of black cock thats just wierd.

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  25. Arrakis: ‘Come here, baby, for a nice long…’ * 😉 phone connection cuts off*

    Curiosity kills the cat. (Or did they mean the other p-word they use for cats as well as in reference to other things?)

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  26. Gunslingergregi,

    Your wife could turn on you and take you the cleaners, or just avoid having sex with you.

    I do not face those problems.

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  27. Well that is why I got married in indo. They don’t have those problems. They are actually equal. But yea pointless to get married or even date in us. You see the same woman on here from years ago and they are still fickle and go on whims for everything with nothing to really offer.

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  28. Getting a bitch in the us is like playing the lottery where every ticket is a loser just that some tickets you only lose a million and some tickets you lose a billion but all tickets you lose money and all tickets you lose your soul.

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  29. Mlle. Jacob is among five most beautiful women who ever lived.

    The music is pretty good too. And as a bonus, in this move, she shows what a perfect bush looks like. The sweet-spot balance between an wild thatch and a disturbing baldie. What’s not to love?

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  30. All the proof of God’s existance I need is in this video. That, and “eighteenth-century Dutch composer Van den Budenmayer.”

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  31. gig “This has the side benefict of casting doubts in your target’s mind about any criticism her friend may make of you”

    I didn’t follow that. I understand the words, but can’t see your meaning.

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  32. DC “Regardless, thanks to your guidance I have been having sex with multiple girls at the same time.”

    And I thought that I had a magic penis.

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  33. @ Lucifer

    I thought deeply about what you wrote, about Alabama manly whites, dildos, black cocks and so on. And I want to ask you a question:

    did you spend another saturday night alone?

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  34. @ xsplat

    if you neg your target by lifting up hr friend, if her friend ever decides to take you down, your target will tend to blame it on her interest on you

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  35. For sluts, the 0-1 scale is all you need.

    Translating the 1-10 scale into the 0/1 scale is instructive:

    1-4 – definite 0
    5 – a maybe, usually a 0 though
    6 and up – definite 1.

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  36. How much do you charge for articles?

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  37. This kind of game works only on crazy girls, well, enjoy…
    (i guess DC is full of them)

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  38. gig,

    No, I tried another new escort. The recession has knocked almost 50$/hr of their rates.

    She was skilled (and had good attitude).

    With escorts, you only have to put aside 1.5 hrs for a 1 hr encounter. No strings, no talking.. just action. Like the freedom!

    Was a 7-8, if you want to know.

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  39. From the asses mouth: Never underestimate women’s natural instinct to outcompete other women in the sexual market for a desired man’s attention.

    God, you’re an idiot roissy. Any woman who competes for a man’s attention is an abject loser from the start. If these are the women you’re after, no wonder you have so many women troubles and can only think of seducing and dumping them. You’re basically a shallow pig.

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  40. Second of all, there is absolutely nothing NATURAL about a woman competing for men! In all of nature, it’s the males who attempt to attract a female and only in human society have we become so perverse and unnatural that now women are competing with each other for men’s attention. I doubt very much that the roissy ass kissers will ever get that, or they don’t care. As long as they get off; who cares what stupid perversions they’re a part of?

    It’s the MEDIA which encourages all kinds of stupid, self destructive behavior and they do that by stroking female egos, because they are by and large the gatherers of society. In that regard, nothing has changed.

    Carry on fools.

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  41. hypotheracy, you are completely right.

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  42. And these girls, also the Tucker Max girl seem like they have no clue about how they are treated. and how they should be treated. American college is souldestructing, people learn how to get drunk, high and slutty.
    I’m happy i live in Europe, (Hungary) women are not treated as a heard of goats, we are treated like women and thats why we treat our man the same way,
    i cannot take guys on this blog seriously, you react upon a sexual instinct, no desire, and u don’t love women, you love yourself so much you don’t even see women as individuals, then you complain about all the bitches in ur country, but with guys like u, no wonder they are bitches..

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  43. Biktopia,

    Maybe your men aren’t as sexually hungary as we are?

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  44. harharhar…

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  45. @ Lucifer

    what did you do in the remaining 22,5 hours of the saturday? Did someone call you? Did you call any friends?

    I have a personal problem with this blog, that all my posts on weekends tend to be written either stoned or simply drunk, depending on time. And drinking always involves those rare and unseen creatures, called “friends”

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  46. Good tips in the article; however, in most Friday night game locations it is hard enough to communicate with one girl audibly, let alone with a group.
    These are usually bars, clubs, disco’s, etc. where you have to shout to be heard and it is OK to shout to one girl, but addressing a whole group while shouting, saliva flying around and all, is pretty hard.
    I usually try to isolate.

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  47. biktopia

    I’m happy i live in Europe, (Hungary) women are not treated as a heard of goats, we are treated like women and thats why we treat our man the same way,
    i cannot take guys on this blog seriously, you react upon a sexual instinct, no desire, and u don’t love women, you love yourself so much you don’t even see women as individuals, then you complain about all the bitches in ur country, but with guys like u, no wonder they are bitches..

    A woman with intelligence! See, roissy…and she’s from Hungary, of the Eastern European women you worship! She thinks you and your minions are pigs! Funny stuff here…..

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  48. ””””’A woman with intelligence! See, roissy…and she’s from Hungary, of the Eastern European women you worship! She thinks you and your minions are pigs! Funny stuff here…..””””””

    Shrugs the funniest part of it is nothing matters. So gonna be real tough to give a fuck.

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  49. Its plagiarism of TA (tranactional analysis)…its listed on their wiki page and this Table of Contents below

    Not sure he cited it, but its a classic “game”
    others include Drunkard, Debtor, etc.

    http://www.amazon.com/Games-People-Play-Transactional-Analysis/dp/0345410033

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  50. Gunslinger

    Shrugs the funniest part of it is nothing matters. So gonna be real tough to give a fuck.

    You only cared just enough to comment, huh? You’re a really tough guy. To quote biktopia: harharhar…

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  51. Silver Fox

    Its plagiarism of TA (tranactional analysis)…its listed on their wiki page and this Table of Contents below

    I read that superb book in college; I was always fond of Sickbed and Rapo

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  52. Hey Roissy

    Will you please tell some of those PRATS (such Chuck Ross) who think that they know all about Game to stop p#s#ing all over men and sneering at them for not getting laid.

    You guys are supposed to be helping men like that, not mocking them.

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  53. on October 5, 2009 at 8:10 pm gunslingergregi

    ””””””’James
    Hey Roissy

    Will you please tell some of those PRATS (such Chuck Ross) who think that they know all about Game to stop p#s#ing all over men and sneering at them for not getting laid.

    You guys are supposed to be helping men like that, not mocking them.
    ”””””””””
    fag

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  54. on October 5, 2009 at 8:11 pm gunslingergregi

    Gonna go impregnate every bitch in the projects.

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