Social Media, Dating Apps, And The Decline In Millennial Sex

Millennials are having less sex than previous generations, according to research by the CDC and other outfits. This is likely bifurcated survey data (i.e., the number of sexually inactive soyboys and fatty bluehair Millennials has increased over previous generations but a sizable minority of bubbly babes and trumpening chads are going hog wild). Call it the 80-20 Piece-of-ass Principle of Female Hypergamy. Nevertheless, an explanation is out there, and it’s missed by lots of people because it seems so counterintuitive. Doktor Jeep comments,

So with all the dating apps and simpery at its peak, women get their validation with a swipe – post some cleavage on social(ist) media and get scores of likes by the thirsty hordes – this explains why (mainly white) teenagers are having less sex than previous generations.

The great paradox of social media and dating apps which were intended to facilitate hooking up and relationship formation is that the technology leads to LESS sex because, as the good Doktor noted, women get their egos stroked so thoroughly by thirsty swiping betas, they don’t need their kittens stroked.

How utterly ironic that the very tech that was supposed to usher Sexual Liberation 2 has instead flattened the romantic landscape into a dreary chafed handscape. The Whoring 60s, 70s, and 80s have given way to the DVZ: Devirilized Zone. Chicks get swamped with empty anhedonic come-ons and the mass of thirsty betas drains their energies into porn and their dignity into Tinder aka chick crack.

A stroked female ego is a dormant female libido.

A sapped male libido is a debased male ego.





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  1. I think I’m a Millennial, but just barely. And I do, ahem, quite well for myself on Tinder.

    That being said, I’ve been with three different girls where we actually sat there, scrolled through her phone, and laughed our butts off reading some of the other messages she’d gotten from guys. It’s sad. But I can see how an attention whore would just eat it up.

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    • It’s true. I do the tinders and there are a sizable number of outright prostitutes on there, but about as many penpal chicks. They ghost when you ask for a number. Or you get a number then they ghost when you ask them to meet.

      It’s almost amusing the level of trainwreck these girls are, by and large. I had a girl or two that just wanted to swap nudes. Weird times.

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      • Thanks to the solid advice I’ve gleaned from this site over the years, I push to move to a new “venue” very quickly. Even if that’s just kik. And I push to have an in person meeting at least set up within 2-3 days. Any longer and it’s too easy to fall into “So how was your day?” and then you turn into exactly what this post is warning you about.

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      • So you know that the ones who just wanted to swap pictures were actually male homosexuals with fake accounts and fake pictures, right?

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      • Dont ask for numbers. Every bloke and his cousin is doing that.

        As a general rule, don’t trade Snapchats unless you’re *definitely* meeting the girl (although I’m a bit more relaxed on this one as putting a girl in cold storage on Snapchat can work as a medium-term strategy). Snapchat is great for plates you’re already spinning but it is a female attention whoring vehicle if you haven’t banged the chick yet. Many many chicks will send you racy snaps with ZERO intention of ever meeting.

        I just ask them what’s on tonight. If they’re busy, ghost them. If not, tell them to meet you. Preferably straight to your house, although that’s up to you.

        Chicks on Tinder that are truly thinking about meeting/fucking you are going to do the same thing with you after 5 messages that they’d do after 50 messages, so time your interaction perfectly and then strike. Don’t waste a second of your time thinking you have to build extended comfort with them over text. It’s not necessary and more often than not you’ll cockblock yourself.

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    • It’s more than just attention whoring/validation for them. Social media gives them too many choices.

      When women have too many choices their brain locks up and they cannot make a decision. This guy looks good… but wait — maybe I can find another better one. And another and another. It’s hypergamy in full tilt at their finger tips.

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  2. so what we are saying here is Facebook is to Girls what P0rn is to boys.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 9:35 am Alea Iacta Est

      Yes. FB, tinder, dating apps, all the other networks too numerous to mention. It’s their porn, that’s why their eyes are glued to their phones, while walking the dog, pushing a stroller, crossing the street, at the gym, in the elevator, etc. I see it everywhere and it annoys the crap out of me.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 12:23 pm Captain Obvious

        It’s not annoying, it’s a castastrophic singularity.

        The ubiquitous incessant signal of the innert00bz, as delivered by the iPhag, has created the greatest sea change in human behavior in all of recorded history. Nothing else – not the harnessing of fire, not the invention of the wheel, nor papyrus nor sail nor printing press nor steam engine nor telephone nor radio nor television – none of it holds a candle to what we are seeing with iPhag addiction.

        And all of the early statistics show that the addiction is destroying everyone who tunes into The Signal.

        We’re talking an ELE here – an Extinction Level Event.

        If it is not stopped, iPhag addiction [and its successor technological addictions] will do to the human race what the asteroids did to the dinosaurs.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 12:29 pm Enfant Terrible

        The Iphag addiction is fcking terrible. And women are by far the worst addicts when it comes to it.

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      • “Nothing else – not the harnessing of fire, not the invention of the wheel, nor papyrus nor sail nor printing press nor steam engine nor telephone nor radio nor television – none of it holds a candle to what we are seeing with iPhag addiction.”

        Pro comment. I call tardphones simply The Meaning Of Life. Mankind never knew it, but this is the device that all of human history was leading to, and now there is nothing left to achieve — other than direct neural implantation so that we never have to “jack out.”

        I have seen raw panic in the eyes of tardphone addicts (which includes all women and most men) when their precious is almost out of juice: they will physically convulse and tantrum if they can’t find an outlet to recharge it NOW!!!

        “Neuromancer” was a documentary of the present and the future.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:28 pm SteveRogers42

        Well said, Cap. The IPhag generation will clamor to be implanted when the first in-skull neural devices become available.

        And then (((their))) control will be complete.

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  3. Facebook like P0rn provides release that takes the edge off of a person’s urge to mate and therefore makes them less likely to have sex

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  4. […] Social Media, Dating Apps, And The Decline In Millennial Sex […]

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  5. Technology itself isn’t very romantic. There’s something dispiriting for the girl in question to put her hand on a computer that’s practically smarter than her and which will tell her what’s going on. Woman want to bump into someone into the street who turns out 6’1″ with wind blowing through his hair and a “whoa” grin on his mug.

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    • Beat it sociopath. Not wanted.

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    • on November 4, 2017 at 8:39 am Oleaginous Outrager

      Woman want to bump into someone into the street who turns out 6’1″ with wind blowing through his hair and a “whoa” grin on his mug.

      If most of the modern iHags actually did bump into such a man, they’d roll their eyes in irritation, walk briskly away, and then create a horror story about “everyday sexism” and post it with a #meToo.

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  6. I think it damages women though. I have seen this a few times.

    A girl who is an 8+ will have over 4,000 friends on facebook from all over the world. It must be like crack to them and every picture they post gets 100+ likes.
    They see themselves as celebrities in their own little world but what happens on facebook is not reality.
    A girl who is a 6 or 7 will have over 1,500 friends and get about 50+ likes for a picture.

    But the problem is they want the ultimate hit- meet a mega rich alpha male 10 as they feel they are well on the road to this with their faux facebook validation.

    So they do not land settle in their prime and once 30 starts approaching, they try to maintain their fading looks by working out excessively and building a more masculine muscle toned look.
    And they still think they will land Mr. Big but they never settle and are not having children so all that initial beauty is lost.
    Miami seems to be full of women like this.

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    • I like this, and it reminds me of when I was in Miami for an extended stay. The rotation of hot girls from other parts of the world into modeling Miami Beach disguised this feature, though. The “normal” girls were overshadowed by the lanky models.

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    • “But the problem is they want the ultimate hit- meet a mega rich alpha male 10 as they feel they are well on the road to this with their faux facebook validation.”

      And does such a fellow exist? I wonder at times if, while we can say that a female unpainted 10 is surely rare, the metric by which men are rated, which is not aesthetic (“beauty”) makes such a man impossible to exist.

      Take for example Bill Gates. Women might want his money, but they won’t want the man. Bezos appears to be hitting the gym and trying to get a Jason Statham look going and he got bucks. Faceburg basically simped with his mate choice.

      I think you are onto something though. Consider that a woman so immersed in the visual (social media and selfies, etc.) is going to reflect her concept of perfect into a hybrid of rich provider plus model handsome. So even a Bezos with the looks of a young buck would not possibly be a 10 only by the perception of a woman with a destroyed perception, the destruction coming from her unnatural source of esteem.

      Rather dark world then for these 5000-friend social media girls.

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      • Mr. Perfect don’t exist my little friend…and I tell you that again

        women want a rockstar billionaire who resembles a sculpture. But they never want him to work, show attention to other women, or devote too much time to the gym. LOL.

        Women are basically stupid, that’s what I’m trying to say.

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      • There’s some old sayings, that I just made up.

        Women want fried ice.

        Women want more.

        Women want their cake and eat it too.

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      • Girls will always pick the guy with game who drives a 2003 Camry over Cuckerbergs will billions.

        Well, for sex that is

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      • https://m.facebook.com/kurt.vosburgh

        This us a guy who is up there. He posts …women respond to him.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 12:20 pm Days of Broken Arrows

      “But the problem is they want the ultimate hit- meet a mega rich alpha male 10 as they feel they are well on the road to this with their faux facebook validation.”

      I think there’s more going on that just this, although you’re correct in your basic idea. These girls have been raised as boys by their Boomer parents. It’s not so much a matter of “settling.” They see themselves in a lot of ways as the husband and that creates basic identity confusion for them when the time comes to mate. They’ve been raised to marry the workplace, not a man, no matter how wealthy.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:45 pm Vagina dominator

        Yes. They have married the workplace and they are having an affair with the State on the side.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:48 pm Vagina dominator

        Yes, their f*ther is the State, who m*arries them off to the workplace and they have dreams and affairs on the side with disembodied shadows on their smartphones.

        What a world they live in.

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    • From what I’ve seen about girls with thousands of friends, it may be due to their being quite attractive, but in their hometowns they were unable to meet any non-soyboi males (e.g., musical theatre majors). So they move to NYC or LA in hopes of finding a rich dude, and are constantly traveling all around the U.S., or the world even, and their FB count snowballs. Those are the real validation addicts. They’re too flighty for any but maybe the richest most alphiest alphas on earth to hook them.

      If she has between about 500 and 2,000 friends, she’s likely a sorority chick. Most are their high school friends or everyone in the Greek system they met during college. In their case, they’re probably not full-blown addicts like the above women, but that does mean you have to DHV over all her frat boy friends.

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    • The biggest problem is; you can make money off of instagram, tumblr and whatnot’s so really they could be extreme z-list omega celebrities if they had any idea of what they are doing.

      4000+ Beta’s is a lot of potential resources if you know what to do with it.

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    • you nailed it Lichthof. they don’t really realize where they are headed, only that they ain’t getting any prettier. silly girls are going to have a rough second half

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  7. Miami is a shithole

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    • Pittsburg’s a shithole. Not Miami.

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    • Took a customer to a corporate training meeting in South Beach years ago. Hotel was incredibly swanky, high end, etc. Every dude that worked in that place was a homo. Flight back got delayed, went to pool with customer, surrounded by queers & hot women, customer was 20 years my senior, took me a minute to realize that I looked like a f*cking twink spending the weekend with an old gay chicken hawk. Went back to room. That place was Sodom & Gomorrah reborn.

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  8. https://www.facebook.com/trina.adkins

    This girl..from young, innocent beauty to tatoo’d more masculine older look with her soy boy. Makes me weep.

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    • 2012 she was beautiful.. 2017..ugh. I don’t know her btw.

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    • Wha, beauty?

      She looks even more spic than the beaners she hangs with.

      Next time you post a ‘beauty’ at the chateau, keep it White… alt-R ally.

      (((shakin’ mah haid)))

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      • whachu’ gonna dooo?

        God-Damned BND plant gonna plant

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      • If you check her family out you will see she is white stock and engages in a white lifestyle. Yet her look over the last 5 years has changed…more ghetto..and she will continue to go this way. I see this a lot with white girls.

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      • Oink..it’s getting tiring. I asked you for your contact information to meet up. An anonymous email is fine. I can show you who I am. Stop hiding behind a computer screen.

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      • https://www.facebook.com/herestheskinny

        Another one..maybe too slavic for Greg but a young attractive early 20 something to now a tatto’d lesbian. I will probably be accused of demoralizing but this is what I see more and more. Save our women..if they were having children in their prime none of this degeneracy would be happening. A lot seem to be Marilyn Manson fans as well.

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      • The latest link isn’t working, but Slavic is fine… spic or possibly yenta is not, and that first girl you posted, don’t care how Aryan her name may be, gives off that vibe… not to mention sparrow tits.

        Now tell us, alt-R ally, why do we need to see these specimens of agitprop?

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      • This is the family

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      • It ties back into the post that if these urban women do not have a good husband and children by a young age, they sneak out mystery darker meat and then start a slide into tattoos, drugs, lesbianism in some cases.

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      • Office girls do not slide as badly as non office girls. Working in a professional office environment gives these women some much needed discipline particularly in dress and appearance.

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      • If I wuz her daddy, I’g get that DNA checked on her.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 12:26 pm Days of Broken Arrows

      She works as a “professional pet stylist” at PetSmart. What does it say that such a job exists?

      [CH: last days of romerica]

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      • On top of that, there’s a pet walking service via an app, where they’ll walk your pet for you. You leave a key for them to enter your house, they take your dog for a walk and return him home.

        Oh, and they’re bonded! HAHA. . . .shit’s outta hand

        https://wagwalking.com/

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      • the pet and animal worship is out of control. vegetarians, vegans, people obsessed with their pets and animal causes. all of it is ridiculous and every single one of those people is screwed up mentally. every one. sad

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 1:45 pm earlthomas786

        I didn’t know they had those baby carriers for dogs…and the guy is the one carrying the dog. Talk about embarrasing.

        It’s becoming more true…

        great grandmother had 8 kids
        grandmother had 4
        mother had 2
        now women are having abortions and treating dogs like children

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:51 pm Vagina dominator

        She’s on the fast track from dog walker. Who knows how far she could go.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:53 pm Vagina dominator

        @ mendo “and they’re bonded”

        Ah, those (((middlemen))). There they are, standing there in the middle of every single fucking relationship in our lives with their filthy claws extended.

        But we haven’t seen anything yet. Wait until tyeh money is all electronic, the try to avoid them!

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      • I’ve seen bikers, BIKERS, riding with Chihuahuas on the saddle. And they let the runt bastard pick their face. That’s how sad this attachment to animals is.

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      • on November 4, 2017 at 8:49 am Oleaginous Outrager

        What does it say that such a job exists?

        That unambitious comfort is too easy to achieve and true individual success has been made infinitely harder. It’s a perfect set-up for Easy Oligarchy: the plebes aren’t starving, but they’re very insecure economically, but they’re also easily placated with consumerist baubles, and obsessively fighting each other about things that don’t matter.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 8:46 pm SteveRogers42

      Guy’s a doofus from south-of-the-border, but at least it looks like he lifts.

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  9. “has instead flattened the romantic landscape into a dreary chafed handscape.”

    When you are on, you really know how to turn a phrase. I LOLed.

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  10. @ Lichthof 100% agree, well said.

    The current technological era also leads to what I will call “expanded peripheral hypergamy”. People, women mostly, will post pictures and videos on FB/Insta/Snap for validation yes, but also in an attempt (consciously or sub-consciously) to show off or one up other women. Say a chick is happy in her current relationship. Let’s even say that she isn’t that much of a social media whore. Even if she isn’t as “plugged in” as other women she will inevitably see on a day to day basis the “fun” and “exciting” parts of these other lives. Slowly and slowly she will compare her life and relationship to the “fantasy” versions she views online and it will consume and potentially doom her current relationship and mindset. It is like the concept of “keeping up with the Joneses” but on a projected, fabricated, ultimately unfounded emotional level. Even if a woman has it great she will always think another woman has it greater and will need to do whatever it takes to try to get to that level. Lather, rinse, repeat. Forever.

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    • Yes, very good observation. Without the Internet I would not be able to read any of this, but not all of it is positive.

      I would also trace the origins of this to the point when cinema became popular and got people to fantasize with unrealistic lives. TV followed soon afterwards and the rest is history.

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  11. men know this

    which is why thirst shaming is a thing

    destroy thottery by destroying the white knight infrastracture that fuels and enablez it

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    • calling a thot a thot does nothing when she has 40 nerds calling her a beautiful classy lassy

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      • One alpha calling her an easy hoe is going to undo all the beta go-grrl crap in her head, because the hamster knows that shit is fake.

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      • yep, problem is, there aren’t enough men calling them out. still too many men giving sloots the ultimate reward of love and commitment. even the almost alpha high end betas are doing it.

        for many it’s because they’ve been taught that all girls are the same and as long as you’ve got game you can turn a whore into a housewife.

        game is valuable but it’s given a lot of men a false sense of power and security. there are limits to everything and some women simply aren’t a good return on your investment.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 5:28 pm Days of Broken Arrows

        Actually, it does. Studies have shown that people brush off compliments but take criticism hard. Hence “the neg” and backhanded compliments being effective.

        Also, if negative comments weren’t effective, then Twitter, Facebook, etc. wouldn’t have to constantly monitor and ban people.

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    • the sort of public shaming CH did to that huth character is very necessary

      beta of hour/day/week/month/year is very necessary

      women have no reason to become respectable until men decide to become respectable

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    • One time in Vegas at the lobby bar of Caesars I saw and old and obvious prostitute,who was on contract I assume (married?) I dunno…Anyways, she was going on and on about I love you bubbyblah blah etc to her senior citizen moneyman. This went on for a bit and then he went off to do something. In the middle of her goodbyee I love you babeeeees I chortled “I DONT BELIEVE IT” loudly. She sneakily sneered and played it cool until he was out of sight then she evacuated thankfully. Ladyhounds.

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  12. this is why a guy should always, always, ALWAYS leverage his strengths in the dating market. what is a woman’s strength? the ability to attract? what is a man’s strength? the ability to provide resources (attention, protection, actual resources). you dangle your resources in front of the girl you want, and she dangles her pussy. you work out a deal.

    if you meet her on her turf, say on social media, where she has ALL the advantages of attraction, you’re screwed. you might get lucky, but that’s it. meet her on YOUR turf. there are lots of ways to do this. you can figure it out. and you should always combine meeting girls with making money or having fun doing what YOU enjoy. at the very least set up a booth in a tourist spot and sell stupid trinkets. something. use your brain. don’t be a chump and try to get invited to flash-of-gash attention whore bash. do it on your terms.

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    • You gotta let go of the provider crap.

      Girls don’t suddenly think you’re hot because you saved up some cash working as a data analyst. They may settle for you because sex isn’t their end-all-be-all and they don’t want to have to pay rent anymore, but it doesn’t mean they’re primally attracted to you.

      You have to have game, and the Chateau has made this point for years. You don’t have to be that attractive, you just need to be tough in mind and spirit. And you have to have balls and want to have a real man SEX DRIVE, not soyboy cuddling drive.

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      • “You gotta let go of the provider crap.”

        you gotta let go of the poor reading comprehension crap. I listed “attention” as the number one resource you’re “providing”. did I need to specify “quality” or “alpha” attention? I assumed the readers would grasp that.

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      • … and your missed the entire point, which was: do things on your terms. it actually has nothing to with women “thinking you’re hot”.

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      • Making bank increases sex drive. It’s an indirect way.

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      • … it’s also just sensible to make good use of your time. a guy needs to look after his future. if he’s going to chase tail, get paid while doing it. win win. and your don’t do it for the girl. you’re do it for YOURSELF.

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      • So leverage your Leverage PJ? 4-D Chess.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 12:40 pm Captain Obvious

      >>> “what is a man’s strength? the ability to provide resources (attention, protection, actual resources)” <<<

      The ability to provide frame, narrative, stories, tales, humor, jokes, giggles & laughs.

      The ability to provide historical memory, advice, insight, prescience, and direction.

      The ability to provide spiritual, moral & intellectual guidance.

      The ability to defend, comfort, and heal.

      The ability to lash out in anger, rage & blood lust.

      The ability to lick his finger, slide it in her pants, rub her cl!t & drive her nuts with passion.

      And of course the ability to PUT A [email protected] BUN IN HER OVEN [and then re-apply most of these abilities with the resulting pr0geny].

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      • exactly, cap. we “provide” all those things. guys mistake being a provider for being a spineless, self-defeating chump. and they think the opposite of a provider is being a con man who gets something for nothing.

        being a “provider” doesn’t have to mean screwing yourself over in the process. you’re SUPPOSED to be a savvy negotiator and get something out of the deal.

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      • I don’t know why but I laughed really hard at this comment. I love the laser beam focus on procreation.

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  13. on November 3, 2017 at 12:18 pm Enfant Terrible

    As far as I’m concerned, the ideal girl to be married to it’s one that:

    – Comes from a stable family background. AKA, no divorced parents
    – Grew up in a stable community, and has lifelong relationships going back to childhood, with friends and family
    – Has a strong religious background, although does not necessarily means she is overtly religious

    Those three conditions are essential to finding a woman who is not flaky, and has something more to offer other than her ability to give you a nice blowjob.
    If you are not looking for a girl to get married, then why even bother sticking around once you banged them??? Move on after two or three dates, and be done with it.

    On the other hand, the types of women to not get yourself attached to:

    -Comes from a broken home
    -Has substance abuse issues, AKA, likes to get drunk or stoned
    -Has no relationship with her parents
    -All, or most of her friends are either from work, or from activities she’s involved with
    -Has no relationships with cousins, or brothers, or sisters
    -Does not know how to cook, and has no interest in learning it
    -Lives in a messy place
    -Has kids from other men
    -You met her on tinder
    -Is a career girl, even though her job consists of working for some soulless corporation in a meaningless job

    I could add more the list, but I think it’s pretty good as is.

    Of course, if you’re a wealthy guy, most of that doesn’t really matter, and you can just go for the eye candy, and blowjob skills, lol.

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 12:44 pm Captain Obvious

      Lives in a messy place == Cluster B [especially Borderline]

      Lives in an immaculate place == Cluster C [especially Obsessive-Compulsive]

      Cluster B’s are he11 on wheels, and require a righteous-strong pimp hand, but, over time, a Cluster C will drive you nuts.

      BONUS PRO-TIP:

      Cluster B == much more likely to experience multiple 0rgasm

      Cluster C == much more likely to be frig!d

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 12:50 pm Enfant Terrible

        Lol, you may be right.

        All the women, without exception, in my extended family, from grandmothers, to aunts, are cluster C types. Cleanliness is next to Godliness is their motto, but I’m not sure they were frigid types cause, there’s lots and lots of kids in the family. Must be the Catholic thing.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 1:19 pm Captain Obvious

        BONUS BONUS PRO-TIP: If you cross paths with a chick who cums & cums & cums for you, AND who keeps a tidy house, then BUNZ -> OVEN.

        [CH: hallmark that pro-tip]

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    • The important thing is men need to discern women better. Experience certainly helps…but if you can spot a particular woman and get a good read whether she’s potential wife material or your run of the mill deluded dog mom thot feminist within a few interactions, you are well on your way.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 1:21 pm Enfant Terrible

        Absolutely!

        As a man, you need to develop a discerning eye for what is good and bad for you.

        A lot of guys either have mediocre standards, or no standards at all, and are just floating through life. They get themselves into shitty relationships, waste their time, and limit their chances for having a better life, and all because they do not use their head enough.

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      • yes, this can’t be stressed enough. discernment is hugely important.

        many think any girl will do as long as you have enough game but that’s an insane way to approach things

        you can waste years on a shitty woman killing yourself to game her into being be good wife/mommy material and passing her endless shit tests. but even at her best she will only ever be tolerable, never great.

        or you can pick a girl who his feminine, with a low notch count, a natural affinity for partnership, nurturing, etc. and save yourself some misery.

        like Captain always says…you are the prize!
        be choosy gentlemen

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    • on November 3, 2017 at 8:59 pm Vagina dominator

      When you get her undies off and she discards them beside the bed, glance at the crotch.

      Is it spotlessly clean like it was just brought in off the clothesline on a hot, windy summer’s day?

      Crotch of undies not spotless, girl is probably a lazy slattern and not properly domesticated to her housework and keeping b*by clean and happy.

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    • You forgot one of the most crucial ones:

      She has an severely damaged credit rating and doesn’t think that’s an issue.

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  14. the cannibalism of the left intensifies. leftist fishrag the LA Times unironically, unconsciously fat-shames a fellow member of the “oppressed” caste:

    “Sarah Huckabee Sanders does not look like the kind of woman Donald Trump would choose as his chief spokesperson. Much like Roger Ailes when he was stocking the Fox News lineup with blond Barbie dolls in short, tight skirts, the president has generally exhibited a preference for sleek beauties with long legs and stiletto heels to represent his interests and act as his arm candy.

    Trump’s daughter Ivanka and wife Melania are the apotheosis of this type. By comparison, Sanders looks more like a slightly chunky soccer mom who organizes snacks for the kids’ games. Rather than the fake eyelashes and formal dresses she puts on for news briefings, Sanders seems as if she’d be more comfortable in sweats and running shoes. Yet, even if Trump privately wishes he had a supermodel for a press secretary, he is lucky to have Sanders.”

    http://www.breitbart.com/california/2017/11/03/los-angeles-times-mocks-sarah-huckabee-sanderss-appearance/

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    • experts at talking out of both sides of their mouth

      wrong to have hot women in the white house but we’ll make fun of the women when they aren’t hot. how do people not see how ridiculous this is?

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  15. Funny thing. I’ve run into several girls, all of whom I know well enough, who would reject, or even BLOCK, me on Facebook and then flirt with me hardcore in real life. (As opposed to avoiding me IRL, which is what they’d do if they wrote me off as gamma/omega. Big difference.)

    Conversely, those who appeared to be close to me on Facebook always appeared completely satisfied with their boyfriends.

    Maybe girls themselves are introspective enough to realize that social media stagnates the lovin’ process. So if they take a real shine to a dude, they kick him away from their social media unless and until they close the deal in (heh) meatspace.

    So that guy she just friended and started a relationship with? No, she has known him for quite a while. Years, even.

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  16. Regarding the 7th Commandment of Poon, how does a married man “always keep two in the kitty”? I could see how that would work with a girlfriend, especially if she didn’t live with you as it would afford a certain level of autonomy in which you could maintain a circle of friends independently of her. But with a wife, that is really difficult, as most of your social interactions are done as a couple. It seems like a very dangerous game to play.
    I get it that occasionally flirting with other (younger, hotter) women in front of your wife/LTR will increase her attraction, but how far can you take that? I don’t think most wives would react well if the flirtations went far enough that a man could confidently consider another woman as a legitimate back-up. Any hypergamous attraction you could build seems likely to be cancelled by the insult to her social status of her partner openly courting other mates in front of her and her friends.

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  17. on November 3, 2017 at 2:09 pm Ralph Stanley

    Social media for the married woman involves “vacation bragging”. My wife and her friends are engaged in a subtle cold war of one-upping each other on Facebook with photos of vacations and cute offspring at events (“We went to the park for baby’s first outdoor concert! Cute!” or “Here were are apple picking! FUN!!”).

    It’s basically a validation feeding frenzy. You’d better start saving for that beach vacation, bro.

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  18. on November 3, 2017 at 3:02 pm Baked georgia

    When it comes to tinder and others instead of 80-20 it’s something like 90-10 or 95-5.

    Sure there are girls that you pick up in “real life” that may ignored you in tinder. Thats the problem with such apps becoming so mainstream. Years ago girls are ashamed to admit they used badoo or something

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    • I think you are right. It is hardcore Darwinian in terms of looks.

      It is about validation for many girls too. Particularly the hot ones. They don’t need any apps.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 8:33 pm baked georgia

        8,5+ girls dont need tinder but many of them are there, if only for the eventual buzz of huge attention. that “sugar daddy” thing is real, by the way

        many people, include me to be honest, are losing their time in tinder and will have more luck (or more approachs than matches, at least) in real life. day game is also very important, that’s why ((( they ))) want to ban men approaching women in real life.
        do you think they’ll ever charge a “refugee” with that law? no way. but typical gentile white of course

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      • this is true. hot high value girls don’t need apps or social media to get men. they meet them at the grocery store, coffee shops, wherever they go.

        so if you see really hot girls on these apps, they are only doing it because they love attention or they are looking to target desperate losers for meals, money, and gifts. either way it’s bad news.

        the hot nice girls i know who have used those apps tried them out to see what they are all about but then almost immediately stopped using them because they were too overwhelmed by the amount of attention they got and didn’t like it

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    • I don’t even get why all these betas are on there. Is a cleavage shot really that exciting when 20 million chicks are posting the same thing?

      Why are they even wasting their time? They must see the chick has 4000 likes and they are less than a needle in the haystack. It must be brutally boring. I don’t have a smart phone for the same reason I cut off cable and the endless reruns/commercials.

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      • Yeah, I often think the same. I open Tinder from time to time and mechanically press “Like” until I run out of credits. If I hit something, fine, if not, no waste of time either.

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      • Not understanding what all the hype over Tinder was, I tried the damn thing on a laptop (Never download and run a piece of un-inspectable foreign code — ergo, no apps on phones) … 3 days was enough. I saw maybe 400-500 pics of girls. Maybe 4-5 were hot.

        So, what am I missing?

        Why are guys on Tinder, if only some 1% of the chicks are hot?

        Oh … and the “hot” ones are SLUTTY.

        Tinder = Waste of time.

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  19. There’s so many attention whores or chicks genuinely looking to date on Tinder (and growing by the day….wasn’t the case 3-4 years ago) that you do actually have to screen ruthlessly and efficiently for DTF if you don’t want to waste your time.

    It’s difficult to do that without in some small way giving the girl a notch, so the whole exercise often becomes a catch 22, even for chads.

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  20. Girl here. Maybe CH or another commenter could help me analyze this message from a guy I met on tinder.

    ‘[name redacted] I just want to say I’m extremely sorry for not responding for a couple of days. You deserve a lot better. Honestly I was trying to look for something serious and long term but I never thought about how much work takes up my life until after I saw you for the first time. You really are a beautiful and great women to be around but I really can’t even balance a hook up relationship. Again I’m extremely sorry for how this ended up it was never my intention to ignore you but I just can’t handle any type of relationship even if it is just a hook up type. You didn’t do anything wrong at all I promise everything wrong was on my end.’

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    • He’s not that into you.

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      • On both occasions he had a hard time finishing. I asked him was it something i wasn’t doing or something about me physically. He assured me that wasn’t the case and a few days later he sent the above text.

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      • People lie.

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    • Why’s your name missing?

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      • I don’t want my name known.

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      • You couldn’t make up a name like Ashley or Veronica? Not being able to role play is a huge turnoff.

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      • Add a name yourself and use your imagination

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      • You’re boring. You have to stroke a man’s ego if you want his attention. Compliments to his looks are most effective. How many times did you tell him he looked sexy?

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      • Actually he commented he wanted to get in shape and I told him he looked perfect and how hot he was. He told m verbatim ‘you can say that all you want but that doesn’t mean I believe yo

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      • He must have loved that but you may not have pumped his ego enough . Or it could be something deep like the way you talk. Language patterns are important. Some women can just speak in a way that makes men want their attention more. Find a famous actress that you can study who has that way about her.

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      • “Add a name yourself and use your imagination”

        Snark is a massive turn off. If that’s your first response to a simple question I think you have your answer.

        Of course being a lower primate doesn’t help either.

        I actually think you’re a low quality troll tbh.

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    • you’ve been post hoc swiped left.

      that’ll be $15.

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    • It means he’s found between 1 and 100 other girls he enjoys banging more than you.

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    • Maybe something came up; maybe he’s psychologically off enough a relationship is too much for him.

      But it sounds like he’s focusing a bit much on trying not to hurt your feelings.

      Maybe you came off as needy when you met?

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      • I tried not too I did text him everyday at first but then I tried to play cool and give him space. He sent this a week after we met for the second time. I’m black and he’s white

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 7:24 pm Captain Obvious

        Light-skinned or dark-skinned?

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      • Dark.

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      • measurements ?

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      • Well; maybe the texting every day was a bit much in the beginning.

        He had a hard time finishing?

        Perhaps he wanted to try out some of that “chocolate” but then he just couldn’t do it in the end of the day.

        Maybe he simply felt like a “race traitor”.

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      • on November 4, 2017 at 11:27 am Captain Obvious

        “Dark.”

        What’s your height, weight, and bra-cup size?

        [It’s a serious question.]

        No lying.

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      • She wants an easy answer, CO. She doesn’t want to put in the work to become the women than her man desires. The majority of women are incapable of self-improvement.

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    • Actually he commented he wanted to get in shape and I told him he looked perfect and how hot he was. He told m verbatim ‘you can say that all you want but that doesn’t mean I believe you’

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    • hey ma

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    • On both occasions he had a hard time finishing. I asked him was it something i wasn’t doing or something about me physically. He assured me that wasn’t the case and a few days later he sent the above text.

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      • Tell him he was so charming. That you have never met a man with so much meaning and understanding in his words. Charm charm charm. You can’t go wrong.

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      • on November 3, 2017 at 9:04 pm Vagina dominator

        You can’t take him at his word? He said he’s busy, ffs. Clearly you have trust issues you need to work on.

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      • could be he’s not that attracted to you or the sex itself was bad. probably gave it a second try hoping it would be different the second time around, when it wasn’t, he decided to cut things off but didn’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you it was lack of attraction or bad sex.

        or he has a problem with finishing because of too much pr0n or some other issue, knows it’s an issue that will probably happen again, and he wants to avoid more awkwardness with you so he ended it in a way that wouldn’t reveal his vulnerability

        either way a healthy new couple with the right amount of attraction and chemistry shouldn’t be having problems like that. a little premature ejaculation if the attraction is high and it’s been awhile since you’ve had sex is understandable sometimes. but not finishing at all, that’s a problem that i’m not sure would be worth trying to resolve

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      • on November 4, 2017 at 6:49 pm Lord of the Gulf Stream

        Could be that the stench of your rotten cunt turned him off.

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    • He’s nuts. He’s talking to an anonymous person like there is some love relationship that’s been neglected.

      There’s some wild fantasy going on which would skeeve me out.

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      • I would agree with this really. Guy sounds kind of off. And considering how prone to conspiracy theories and autists we can be here, that’s says a lot.

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      • We lose our humanity when the majority of our relationships are not built on face to face communications.

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    • You need to find a husband and have lots of children. 🙂

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  21. So a girl doing Tinder, Facebook etc…..is kind of like a guy who talks about writing a book?

    Doesn’t need to actually have a relationship or go on a date because they already get the validation they were looking for.

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  22. Regarding the 7th Commandment of Poon: how do you “always keep two in the kitty” when married or in a cohabitating LTR?

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  23. Sorry

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  24. If a woman wants a man to come (back) she should smell fantastic. A bad smell makes a dick limp. Wash that pussy and butt crack!

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  25. I had a lot of girlfriend-fucks over the years that I met at their house or mine at 10 or 11 AFTER some other guy took them out to dinner and a handshake or less good bye before I got to her at 10 or 11. That is still going on throughout the society, it always did. Heh…

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  26. off topic, but here’s a typical montage of a day out at the races in Australia. I lament at how Australian society has become and the tolerance of ham beasts as an example of Aussie womanhood.

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  27. Im glad i have finally found a post that explains how i have been feeling these past few years.

    Anyone noticed an increase in men visiting whore houses in the past few years? Id say a huge amount.. because of this castastrophic singularity.

    Im a single male, and get completely pissed off whenever i see or hear about a girl that all she does is be on her phone and thats her life, those are her interests. Nothing else matters like it used to. Its a dead end. Where do i turn to? i spend my money on decent escorts/p0rnstars to fill my needs.

    Picking up chicks aint how it used to be, they dont even look at you or notice you in a club or bar anymore, even there, they are on their phones “checking in”. You talk to them and they look at you without interest, its just NOT how it used to be. 4 – 5 years ago, i used to fuck a lot!. I used to meet chicks all the time and hook up often. Now its like they’ve all become walking social-media-robot-whores without a soul.

    The sad part is, that we can’t do anything about this, or can we?
    Maybe we should exterminate the founders of social media. But it won’t help will it? because another cunt will come up with a life changing idea to fuck the world up once again.

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  28. Lots of people wonder about Israel’s epic secular fecundity rate of 2.8, which completely destroys all other industrialized nations. Autistes crunch numbers and discuss incentives. The real reason, obvious to the Enlightened:

    https://www.instagram.com/hotisraeliarmygirls/

    The fruits of military service physical fitness. Israeli’s have to stay fit for the army reserves, so obesity is frowned upon. They get fat, like everyone else, but it appears to be later in life, as in past the brief female fertility window. Plus, note the paucity of bluehairs.

    Interestingly, as I posit, Israel is the 4th Reich. Jews left Germany under Havarra, with Hitler’s auspices and many with NatSoc sympathies. Germanic Jews (many with mischlinge ancestry) have since been the nation’s backbone. Nazi/Wehrmach residue is obvious in Israeli military culture and doctrine, such as In the last few weeks when police have been fire-hosing ultra-Orthodox Jews about not wanting to serve. The “best kept secret” of the last 50 years: Israel being the lifeline for apartheid Africa, supplying arms to Rhodesia and South Africa.

    Few discuss.

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    • That’s a hard sell, but I’m willing to listen if you provide evidence.

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    • It’s no secret at all that Israel was working both sides of the street on Rhodesia and South Africa…

      … how’d that work out for the Whites there?

      As far as your Israeli Army Girl porn goes, meh… some banging during a few prime years in exchange for the go-grrl yentality and ultimate severe decline, even on the few remarkable examples of yiddishe pulchritude?

      And then there’s that pesky “don’t love Christ” thing, amirite?

      (((shakin’ mah haid)))

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    • on November 4, 2017 at 9:01 pm Vagina dominator

      Silly comment.They have a sizable family-support program with cheap housing etc and don’t have a media targeted at their genetic destruction.

      Thanks for the “aid” goyim!

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  29. I am generally loathe to entertain “purple pill” arguments, and I am unsure how closely I will fly to that terrain obstacle without crashing into it with this post.

    The problem with betas is that they are simply jumping the shark— placing the cart before the horse, as it were. All men, even the most alpha of them all, wants the intimacy of the nubile and feminine. Even our dark Lourde and Savior here at le Chateau, in his excellent prose, has admitted that all the worthy women who he has graced with his bed have been deep and profound loves.

    I have hit a point in my life where a night in with the woman of my rod’s attention and my heart’s affection is deeply satisfying time spent— some good cooking, good wine, even candles for good measure, good cinema, and retiring to a good fucking (which may have already happened a time or two on the countertop or couch)— in essence, a beta’s romantic wet dream of intimacy and squishy love professions.

    The alpha man is rewarded with romance and intimacy for fulfilling his masculine role. The beta man yearns to be rewarded with a masculine role for professing romance and intimacy.

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  30. The point of the Israeli hotties, isn’t “porn” but that beautiful women boost fecundity. This is obvious but defies conventional analysis. The Left understands that ugliness depresses white fecundity and encourages white women to defile their appearance.

    https://identitydixie.com/2017/04/18/moldylocks-trashy-villain-tragic-victim/

    Certain countries favor beauty. It appears to be a side-effect of a martial/nationalist culture. Sparta and Nazi Germany favored beauty. Sparta was said to have the beautiful women in the world (Who, like Israeli women, had martial training).

    France, Brazil, Venezuela, Brazil, Columbia, Israel still seem to prize female beauty. Everywhere else in the West, ugliness is cherished. A healthy nationalist culture views the beauty of its women as part of its national identity. Give the lads something to fight and die for. Israeli army girls perfectly embody this.

    Israeli’s won their independence in Messerschmitts. Israeli tank commanders perfectly applied Guderian’s tactics if Hitler wasn’t so stupid as to hold them back, again, and again, and snatch defeat from the jaws of victory. The Israeli commando culture harkens back to Nazi commandos. Many early Israeli parties featured the faces symbol. Israel was secretly the strongest ally of South Africa and Rhodesia. Vlaams Belang/ Dutch right wing are tight with Israel. Israel’s history, oddly, is interlinked with White Supremacy. Intuitively, this makes much sense as Israel is existentially an apartheid/ethno state as well. OFC, US Jews are not going to get this. You can get pissed at the hypocrisy, but this is just too mindblowing for a typical US Jew to grasp.

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  31. Hard to have sex with your iPhag.

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    • The wimminz can’t just put it on vibrate.

      Actually not a bad idea for an app, supervibrate while cooing sweet nothings, with multiple options for the words, ranging from “I love you cat lady” to “you’re daddy’s naughty biatch”. Who knows, maybe even a small electric shock feature?

      There’s serious shekels to be made there for the right schlomo.

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  32. I read the New York Chaims article. There’s an interesting statistic that proves how much less sex millennials are having compared to their boomer parents.

    From 1965-69, 6 percent of young adults between 20-24 said they were still virgins at age 18. That same age group of kids that are being surveyed today say that 15 percent haven’t had sex before 18. We have double the number of virgins today than our parents did back when people were supposedly more chaste and prude about sex.

    My theory is that 15 percent is made up of Lindy Wests’ and Elliot Rodgers types. Insoles and Incels.

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  33. read Marshall McLuhan and his book Understanding the Media, especially his chapter on Electricity.

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  34. This app can help in getting better chances for a hookup.
    https://www.meetloverepeat.com/

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