Slutty Women Are Unhappier Than Caddish Men

Study: People with fewer sex partners report happier marriages

The Shitlantic is just now getting around to reporting on a subject which was discussed extensively years ago on this very ‘umble blog. Yes, Virginia, sluts really do make bad wives. Sluts are unhappier in marriages, which makes them higher infidelity (and cuckoldry) risks.

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a slutty woman your wife.

Inevitably, the femcunts of muffstream media will bend the knee(s) to Chateau Heartiste, and take all of my lovefacts. (It’s a mouthful)

The more interesting part of this particular sociological affirmation of Chateau teachings is the finding that men with a lot of premarital partners aren’t as unhappy in marriage as are women with a lot of premarital cockas.

Over at the Institute for Family Studies, Nicholas Wolfinger, a sociologist at the University of Utah, has found that Americans who have only ever slept with their spouses are most likely to report being in a “very happy” marriage. Meanwhile, the lowest odds of marital happiness—about 13 percentage points lower than the one-partner women—belong to women who have had six to 10 sexual partners in their lives. For men, there’s still a dip in marital satisfaction after one partner, but it’s never as low as it gets for women…

In fact, men with 6-10 premarital partners report the same level of marital happiness as men with 2-3 partners. (It seems men who aren’t virgins are happier if they have sampled more than five pussies. For men, a point is reached when quantity becomes its own quality.)

Women with 6-10 premarital partners are the unhappiest in marriage.

Even funnier, from a biomechanical point of view, marital happiness actually ticks up a bit from men with 11-20 sex partners to men with 21+ partners.

For both sexes, entering marriage in a virginal state provides the happiest outcome.

This all makes complete sense looked through a “cheap sperm, expensive egg” filter: men are wired to compartmentalize sex, to better spread the seed. All else equal, a man with hangups about casual sex won’t be as reproductively successful as a man who can love em and leave em, and live to settle down with a marriageable woman when his rigor has mortised.

So for men, past performance is not as indicative of future marital satisfaction as it is for women, who are psychologically scarred a little bit more with each cock that carves their sugar walls. Women aren’t wired to “spread the egg” (they don’t have that many to spread, and they can’t walk away from a pregnancy like men can do); they are wired to hoard the egg and save it for high quality seed. This explains why sluts are unhappy in monogamy; they have given their eggs away so often and so profligately that no man they marry could possibly register in their hindbrains as the zenith of penis. Too many cocks have come and gone that it has messed with sluts’ ability to bond to men.

Virginal brides, by contrast, will explode with lovingtightness upon surrender to the nuptial cock, because they have no other cock with which to compare their husband’s cock. By default, the virgin perceives marital cock to be the finest quality seed she could get. Some call that love.

“Contrary to conventional wisdom, when it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage,” said W. Bradford Wilcox, a sociologist and senior fellow at the Institute for Family Studies (and an Atlantic contributor). In an earlier analysis, Wolfinger found that women with zero or one previous sex partners before marriage were also least likely to divorce, while those with 10 or more were most likely. These divorce-proof brides are an exclusive crew: By the 2010s, he writes, just 5 percent of new brides were virgins. And just 6 percent of their marriages dissolved within five years, compared with 20 percent for most people.

5%? So you’re saying I have a chance! (I wonder how the percentage of new bride virgins tracks over generations. I’m willing to bet ours is the least virginal era in all of Western history.)

Only 6% of virgin-bride marriages dissolved. Well, no kidding. Given the dearth of virgins in Post-America, the man who locks one down would be a fool to let her go.

Let that be a lesson, ladies:

If you want a loving man for the rest of your life
Never take a cocka before your wedding night.

By the way, the fact of modrenity that virgins are as rare as unused buttplugs in CNN anchor desks portends horrible outcomes for civilization, as it has formed in the American miasma. As age at first marriage increases, the number of female virgins approaches zero. Few women will hold out until age 30, so if women aren’t getting married until then, good luck finding a virgin whose vagina is a Chinese finger trap instead of a hallway. Many MANY more marriages will be miserable for both parties because

a. the wrinkled newlywed bride is past her nubile peak and

b. she’s corrupted by a caravan of cocks.

(a) will reduce a man’s ardor to provide and protect, and (b) will induce a woman’s ardor to cheat and eject.

You can thank shitliberalism and the Pill for this slutty state of gnawingly empty affairs.

It doesn’t matter in practice whether sluttiness causes marital unhappiness, or is correlated with marital unhappiness. If you are a man seeking to enslave yourself in bonds that you think will sit lightly on your limbic limbs, then your best bet is to wife up a woman who doesn’t have a variety of sexual experiences. That is, go for the virgin, or near-virgin, before choosing the “woman who knows what she wants in the bedroom”.

You can teach a virgin to be a better lover; you can’t teach a slut to be a purer lover.

In the final analysis, once-frequent commenter Man Who Was Thursday condensed all these lovefacts about virgins and sluts and marital unhappiness into a pithy phrase:

Success with women is more disillusioning than failure.

PS The lead author of this study is Nicholas Wolfinger. Not a J_w? (If not, it would explain the mass droppage of realtalk.)

PPS Relevant:

Ha! An otherwise perfect meme marred by one flawed assumption: that slut grandma wouldn’t have died childless, in the paws of her adoring cats.

Heather asks the questions the legacy won’t,

Is a slut’s chance of dying alone with cats eating her eyeballs, equal to the chance she has mystery meat grandchildren?


  1. This apply to black girls? Asking for a friend.


  2. Impossible. Bad sex with dozens of men is what makes a happy, strong, independant woman. This study is wrong.

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    • on October 24, 2018 at 5:53 pm Hackett To Bits

      “And that’s why I’m a Democrat…Honey? Can I get you and Jaquon anything from the store?”

      “*thump* Uh uh uh uhhhhhh!!!”


  3. “Contrary to conventional wisdom, when it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage,”

    No the convential wisdom was always less sex outside of marriage led to better marriages. The feminist upside down world where telling women lotsa cockas makes them strong, independent, and like a man is the contrarian nonsense.

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    • on October 24, 2018 at 4:37 pm Captain Obvious

      The scary thing is that at ALL pre-marital data points, wives are LESS HAPPY than their husbands.

      If you assume that, as a first approximation, the HBness/SMVness of husbands & wives are very roughly equal, then no matter what her pre-marital history was, the wife is ALWAYS moar likely to be looking to trade up.

      Maybe something along the lines of:

      Married HB0s want to trade up to SMV2 men.
      Married HB1s want to trade up to SMV3 men.
      Married HB2s want to trade up to SMV4 men.
      Married HB3s want to trade up to SMV5 men.
      Married HB4s want to trade up to SMV6 men.
      Married HB5s want to trade up to SMV7 men.
      Married HB6s want to trade up to SMV8 men.
      Married HB7s want to trade up to SMV9 men.
      Married HB8s want to trade up to SMV10 men.
      Married HB9s want to trade up to hypothetical SMV11 men.
      Hypothetical Married HB10s want to trade up to fairy-tale skittles-defecating SMV12 unicorns.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 4:38 pm Captain Obvious

        tl;dr == HYPERGAMY IS REAL.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 4:41 pm posts only tweets

        On that note, we should call fairy-tale sk!ttles-shittin’ unicorns: hypergamies

        Time for some new mythology, with hypergamies afoot.


      • The women have this oddball idea the should be equal in marriage…when they find a man who agrees with them all of a sudden they realize the want the man to be the head in marriage…like God intended so they dump Equal Ed to find Head Fred.

        Hypergamy is only real when men submit to the idea they are equal to their wives…they’re not. They are the head.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 4:47 pm Captain Obvious

        >>>>> “hypergamies”

        Like if, say, Fabio, at his SMV height, had had Paul McCartney’s song-writing skills & Bill Gates’s fortune & Michael Phelps’s olympic gold medals.

        B!tch still wouldn’t have been happy.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 4:57 pm posts only tweets

        The Mull of Kintyre.

        It’s like you keep saying Cappy with women and their phones: nothing short of that hypergamy SMV12 will ever suffice, let alone make them happy.


      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:00 pm Captain Obvious

        Earl, we may have stumbled upon a very important point here.

        If you assume that the sex gap in marital happiness is due to women’s hypergamy driving them to TRADE UP, then the logical conclusion to draw is that women can’t be happy in marriage unless they perceive that they are clearly INFERIOR to their husbands.

        [CH: this is true for any romantic relationship. Chicks dig power, men dig beauty.]

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:05 pm Captain Obvious

        p-o-t, it feels pretty obvious at this point that modrenity [via Feminism or Scr0tial Media or Beta-Pedestalizing or whatever] has completely phucked up the natural order by giving these skanks a vastly inflated sense of their innate value.

        I guess if you were a psychopath, then you could use a really Evil form of Game to hold down your w!fe by “gaslighting” her into a ruined sense of self-worth.

        For a while there, Anglin’s lead banner at DS was something along the lines of “the leading marital rape website” or somesuch.


      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:26 pm Captain Obvious

        >>>>> “Chicks dig power, men dig beauty.”

        CH, something’s gotta give.

        And since Hypergamy seems to be an immutable implacable irresistible force of Nature, the man might very well have to compromise on some of his ideals.

        Cause apparently the Hamster [in its desire to trade up] ain’t never gonna compromise.


      • on October 24, 2018 at 6:24 pm Reinald Vallejo

        Women are weak, so they have to manipulate to get what they want. Women are never happy because they are manipulative, because manipulative people are never happy, because they are liars who carry a lot of guilt that they ignore.

        Therefore, women can’t be fixed, they can only be controlled. This has been true since the dawn of time. Women are less unhappy when they are brought under control. Western men are unskilled at controlling women, therefore some other agent(s) control Western women.

        Western women are therefore least happy around Western men. And this is why nobody is happy anymore with just one partner. Even those couples who attempt it are both impacted by the external pressures put on them by those agents who are better at controlling Western women, so both man and wife have expectations that are unrealistic. It’s fucked up.


      • Rollo has posited that a woman is only ever satisfied if she’s with a man who’s 2 full SMV points higher than her. Any lower and the feeling of lost potential makes her likely to leave. Any higher and the dread is too much for her to bear.


      • on October 25, 2018 at 3:17 am Mean Mr. Mustard

        Well said Sir.


      • Part of the issue Cap is a large fraction of women will self report as “unhappy” regardless of their situation.

        Some day her prince will cum…


  4. […] Slutty Women Are Unhappier Than Caddish Men […]


  5. on October 24, 2018 at 3:46 pm posts only tweets

    Number of women at my office are unhappy. Hmm?

    Good thing they let go of the one that tempted me the most. (sort of)

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  6. on October 24, 2018 at 3:47 pm William of Orange County

    Must resist temptation to use lock-key metaphor…
    Must resist temptation to use lock-key metaphor…
    Must resist temptation to use lock-key metaphor…

    I am shocked. Shocked to learn that slutternaughts are unhappy.

    I mean just look at these beauts…

    One of them routinely smokes a cigar during the routine for cool look-at-my-unorthodoxidness points, but with the smoke bonus of concealing a well-worn 1000 cock stare.

    You didn’t fuck any guys ladies. They fucked you.

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  7. on October 24, 2018 at 3:52 pm gunslingergregi

    yea that is what I want for my future kids if have any to have a chance at happiness with virgin marriage if that fails go ahead and be a ho lol


  8. on October 24, 2018 at 4:00 pm gunslingergregi

    nice post

    yea good luck finding virgin in America by 13 ex ex daughters have already fucked pretty much
    by 16 multiple partners have been had and already had miscarriages at 13


  9. To my German ears, Wolfinger sounds like a typical family name of southern German / Bavarian / Austrian origin.


  10. on October 24, 2018 at 4:04 pm gunslingergregi

    why I been trying to move to indo where virgin marriage is normal


  11. I keep reading how women are unhappier than 50 years ago…perhaps it was the promiscuity that did it as opposed to working a career and being all feminist.

    [CH: probably both and all of it. shorter version: feminism gave women teh sads.]


    • on October 24, 2018 at 5:10 pm Captain Obvious

      How can career women NOT be promiscuous?

      All day long at work they’re surrounded by Strange C0ck.

      Then they go to the conventions & conferences & regional meetings & retreats, and they spend the night in the same hotel/motel/bed-n-breakfast as the Strange C0ck?

      In those circumstances, B!tches would have to be friggin Saintes to not cheat on their men.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:10 pm Captain Obvious

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      • Back in my Big Corporate days, the hot married girls were always banging other sales dudes at the NSM. One blew my roommate in an outdoor hot tub with other people around at a resort.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:30 pm Captain Obvious

        >>>>> “hot married girl… blew my roommate in an outdoor hot tub with other people around at a resort.”

        Meanwhile, Mr Nice Guy is back at home, dutifully tucking his adorable bel0ved little children into bed every night.

        I guess Mr Nice Guy better not run any DNA paternity tests on them.

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      • you’re right about the career women

        proximity is a huge factor in people hooking up. these women are spending far more time with their coworkers than with hubby or boyfriend. they have work crap in common, bond over work drama, complain about home together, etc easy connections are made

        they have the situational alpha situations happening too.

        some schmuck who is a nobody outside of work can seem like a great catch if he’s surrounded by other less impressive dudes.

        that’s why grocery store and restaurant managers are always hooking up with the hot young checkers and waitresses. from the outside looking in, they may look like losers to us, but within the confines of the workplace bubble, they can seem like top dog

        add to that, all the positive attention they get at work. coworkers don’t see her without makeup or in her slob house clothes and bitter bish naggy attitude like hubby does. they see her all dolled up to impress and on her best behavior so they think she’s great and tell her she is. the dude at home can’t compete with that

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    • I’m sure TV has a role in spreading the unhappiness. A 24/7 broadcasting device telling women what they’ve been missing.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 5:33 pm Captain Obvious


        (((The Anti-Culture))) makes HB5s think that they’re HB7s who naturally [via Hypergamous Trading Up] deserve to be with SMV9+ men.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 6:00 pm Captain Obvious

        In which case it’s MATHEMATICALLY IMPOSSIBLE for “average” girls to ever be happy.


      • Its all in the palm of their hands.

        Moar potential/perpetual options means lower satisfaction with the eventual choice.

        Then once selected, satisfaction is further eroded for women in the same way welfare erodes all the incentives and reward systems around productivity and the corresponding value attachments.

        IOW, players roll thru poon but know that its a function of their work, both directly and indirectly.

        Thus they are more satisfied with more or better quality poon options; its just a higher rate of return for their productivity.

        Sluts, otoh, getting run thru by players has very little to do with their investment/work/effort.

        The easy sex and the near infinite facade of options is a manufactured state of the modern SMP.

        The sex market is a welfare state for women.

        So we get unhappy sloots – even the ones who eventually land a man, along with all the other garbage.

        They didnt earn it and the incentive to do anything but cash in on their pussy pass has long been removed.

        Men = effort; women=entitlement.

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      • I’m pretty sure I recall TLM’s comment from a previous a post (the sales girls blowing guys at the hot tub). That etched a horrifying image in my mind.

        I think certain careers are worse than others. It’s a lot better for your wife to work in a beta/gay-dominated field with no traveling required. Sales attracts a certain type of alpha dude that is going to pick up on her “harmless” flirting and make a move. I know a dude whose secretary blew him while she was pregnant with her husband’s baby. I tried to tell him he was playing with “true crime” level adultery.

        It’s best to avoid women who are hyper-ambitious, too career-oriented, and/or working in jobs where they travel or are surrounded by (or work directly under) alpha’s.

        Come to think of it, if you can avoid women who need to travel for work, you’ll be in decent shape.


  12. serious question. can muslim women be considered ‘happy’, despite their genital mutilation and constant beatings?


    • The mud world is a shithole no doubt. They can all eat a MOAB for all I care.

      But its a fallacy to think the pussy doesnt have (and exercise) power just because its under wraps. There is a lot more going on than beatings and walking ten paces behind.

      If women desire to be protected and provided for by a strog man, demonstrating the submissive relationship in the public sphere isn’t such a rediculous thing.

      It would be far sillier to demand P&P from men you openly compete with, marginalize, regularly emasculate publicly, and when in doubt release the full violence if the State to seek your ‘justice’.

      As for cutting. All muslim boys are cut while only some tribes will cut the girls.

      Happiness is a terrible metric.


  13. I guess it’s the alpha widow phenomenon. Sluts are unhappy because their husbands are less likely to have weaned them away from the memories of alphas past. (As for virgin cheating, I suppose that could happen if they were arranged-married to an omega.)

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    • “As for virgin cheating, I suppose that could happen if they were arranged-married to an omega.”

      that’s a great point for people to consider

      many men fall into the trap of thinking that virgins, arranged marriages, unemployed women that result in marriages where more of them marry for monetary support, etc will guarantee that girls will stay loyal and true to you. or they think as long as you keep her preggers and taking care of kids, she’ll stick around.

      while she may stick around for awhile, if you don’t have more than that there’s no guarantee she’ll give you the life and love you want. sure, she may do her duty and give you sex on occasion but that’s most likely only going to be transactional sex. that’s the opposite of the kind of genuine desire most of us want from our women.

      you’ve got to have something else going on besides being her marital obligation. she’s got to want you more than any other man around. it takes game, establishing that you are the man way before take your vows


  14. on October 24, 2018 at 4:25 pm Barry McKochiner

    Slutty wife, shitty life

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  15. I wonder if the number of ‘partners’ goes up significantly when a slutty woman burns coal for the first time. That seems to be a turning point for chicks.


  16. Don Draper: What DO women want?

    Roger Sterling (blows out plume of smoke): Who cares?

    I remember seeing that and thinking, “I would easily watch 10 seasons of just this.”

    Anyway, nah- isn’t da feminism or da career shrike, or da meetoism or even (though more likely than other candidates) da obesity. Broads have always been and will always be the whiny sex. But now they have more money and time to think about it (instead of family and kids) and we give it time and attention.

    Why didn’t people in the past die of cancer? Diagnosis.
    Why aren’t broads as happy? Diagnosis. Betas actually give it their time and attention now.

    Everything else is same as it ever was.

    It won’t get better, but it will certainly get worse.
    So play the hand you’re dealt.

    Shame mud sharks and druggies. Do not touch.
    Take care of yourself mentally, physically, financially.

    Make the move. Have fun out there or head for the monastery.

    Glad you’re all my bros.

    [CH: much wisdom in that little conversation. That’s exactly what women want…a man who doesn’t care what women want.]

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  17. There is one other important point to note.
    Regardless of number of partners women always report a lower index of happiness than men.
    Bitches just don’t know how to be happy.
    It takes a man to train them.

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  18. I like this quote –

    Is a slut’s chance of dying alone with cats eating her eyeballs, equal to the chance she has mystery meat grandchildren?

    To me it’s always interesting to talk as a friend with women and speak these kind of things. I get the disbelief attitude initially. I get the my sister/mother/grandmother knows how to get men and I’m listening to them line. Then when I bluntly ask do you really want to be a single mom with an unemployed boytoy? They actually start listening.

    It’s a curious effect of all this fempowerment. Young women really think the world works like Disney and Cat Lady Feminist Teachers say it does.

    The only way to get through these young women is if their Mom or Older sister has a mystery meat spawnlet at home. Or Mom has just graduated to multiple cat who she calls her fur babies.

    But normally these girls will never ever take advice from their Genetic Father.

    The only time I’ve seen it is when dear Dad marries a young lady that is within 10 years to his daughters age. THEN the daughter is all about currying approval from Dad. (Think Ivanka)

    But I have seen numerous examples of sad sack single dads living in a single bedroom apartment not getting any respect from their daughters.

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    • “The only time I’ve seen it is when dear Dad marries a young lady that is within 10 years to his daughters age. THEN the daughter is all about currying approval from Dad. (Think Ivanka)

      But I have seen numerous examples of sad sack single dads living in a single bedroom apartment not getting any respect from their daughters.”

      and think about all the men who right now who are staying with their shrew wives getting bitched at constantly, mocked, disrespected, cheated on, etc.

      those men are teaching their daughters and sons that’s how women should be allowed to behave and that men should just man up and tolerate it. no dad in the picture is bad for kids. IMO a pussy dad who allows a woman to make him look weak and like a schmuck in front of his kids is even worse

      best thing a man in that situation can do is do what you said and get a new better woman. a least then the kids will have a good example to draw from

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    • on October 24, 2018 at 5:36 pm Captain Obvious

      >>>>> “sad sack single dads living in a single bedroom apartment not getting any respect from their daughters.”

      Two options at that point:

      1) Learn Game, or

      2) Stick G*n in Mouth and pull Trigger.

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  19. Pump n dump takes its toll. the man that buys that cow will be the whipping post of past transgressions.

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    • “When you buy a used car, you buy all the other owners’ headaches, too.”

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      • Agreed, and to add, lest he knows…


      • on October 24, 2018 at 6:51 pm Captain Obvious

        Whenever something’s for sale, there’s a reason it’s being sold.

        As a devoted student of eBay auctions, I can assure you that the very best deals are from scavengers who grabbed something at a local estate auction, but who don’t understand what it is that they grabbed, and are simply re-poasting the item for whatever it might bring when advertised to a national audience.

        Conversely, people, who think they understand what they’ve got, have utterly ludicrous opinions as to actual market value on eBay.

        It’s particularly bad since eBay has this “Advanced Search” function, which would allow these nuts to realize how badly they’ve overestimated the value of a thing.

        There’s some really bizarre psychology involved here.

        Probably it’s closely related to Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

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      • on October 24, 2018 at 6:54 pm Captain Obvious

        Extrapolating to the Big Picture, if you’ve got an (((Anti-Culture))) which is shoving all of this “Self Esteem” crap down thots’ throats, 24×7, you get badly malformed personalities which are completely incapable of coming to realistic evaluations of self-worth.

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  20. on October 24, 2018 at 5:55 pm Reinald Vallejo

    One cock rule stands the test of time.

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  21. “You can teach a virgin to be a better lover; you can’t teach a slut to be a purer lover.”

    Bravo CH. It’s the expertly honed shivs of unfiltered realtalk and logic like that that keep me coming back to this blog.

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  22. on October 24, 2018 at 6:09 pm Captain John Charity Spring MA

    It goes up at 10 because that’s a nice round number.


  23. “5%”

    As always, I wonder where the dads have gone.


  24. I’m sure this has been said before, but time and time again, science proves some random thing you’ve written about may 5 or 6 years (or in this case 8 years) after you blog about it. One question: how? How the hell do you know all this stuff? How did you learn it in the first place? If it was by trial and error, are you a 100 years old or what? Seriously, how?


  25. on October 25, 2018 at 5:19 am robertobuffagni

    Welcome back, reality!
    The Romans used to say: “Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.” = “You can chase away human nature with a pitchfork, but sooner or later it’ll come back”


  26. “Ha! An otherwise perfect meme marred by one flawed assumption: that slut grandma wouldn’t have died childless, in the paws of her adoring cats.”

    you forgot mudsharks – the “purebred” niggers will endlessly ridicule “mixed” niggers in 2090 America for the slutiness of gramma

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  27. I was listening to a news show on the radio the other day and a panel was criticizing the original “Halloween” movies as “problematic” — a favorite SJW term — due to sluts being murdered and the virgins surviving. I could feel my teeth start to grit. Even horror films are put under the microscope of feminist critical theory.

    One reason I despise critical theory (be it race, gender, queer etc.) is that it gives actual morons (in this case some black chick commentator on a news show), a deluded sense of intellectualism for doing nothing but trying pick something apart, even something as harmless as a slasher film. It’s like “the science of nitpicking”. No wonder it’s popular with women and fags.

    She talked about the recent remake and how she was “pleased” to see the virgins dying. Fer chrissakes. We need to push back on this idea that men valuing chastity in women is “slut shaming”. I despise that term immensely.

    And, not to burst the bubble of this study, but I have seen many slutty girls settle down with nice-seeming dudes. Many of the skanks I hooked up with my prime are now posting smiley-faced photos of themselves with hubby and shake my head. Maybe they are unhappier than their photos suggest.


    • there is 5000 years of kultur.

      If one needs an aesthetic repose, there plenty outside ((holywood)) drivel.

      why would someone waste 1-2 hours of his short span in this world on what is GUARANTEED to be misdirecting, demoralizing filth?

      dabbling into the “critique” of that filth, takes it to an even lower level of loserdom

      (…paging GBFM…)


  28. Wahmen with reported lower kok count may have a lower kok count; or maybe be lying about the count.

    which shows an appreciation (conscious or not) for the one kok rule and a desire/attempt to squeeze within the confines of reality

    no wonder they are happier happier.

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  29. I’m a bit late commenting, but I noted a confounding variable: Spouse’s sexual history. At least for men, this is probably a bigger factor than their own partner count. There’s definitely correlation, as partner count goes up, spouse’s partner count probably goes up as well. Men with higher partner counts are likely to get married older, be less Christian, etc. and thus are definitely less likely to marry virgins than virgin man are.

    I think if you did a mirror study and focused on marriage satisfaction by spouse’s sexual history, you’d note a much steeper and statistically clear negative correlation, at least for men.

    [CH: good point. this research needs to be controlled for spouse sexual history. and i’d bet the same way, that relatively chaste men hitched to sluts would be unhappier than chaste men married to low N women.]


  30. I have a wonderfully happy marriage of 42 years. Wife had her first lover and then me. I’ve had more or less sixty sex partners. Thirty college girls in the last four years. Store up those memories, chads.


  31. “Success with women is more disillusioning than failure.”

    The illusion that’s lost is that women are capable of being our equals.

    As this illusion is lost, it spreads to other relationships. Women aren’t capable true-empathy, true abstract thought, nor true logic. Is this other demographic capable of empathic behavior? How about this one and logic? Do these people have any abstract thought at all?

    As I accepted the truth with women, I was rewarded with easy-access sex with hot women. That’s a powerful motivator.

    PUA men are easily red-pilled because the reward is sex with attractive women.

    Being red-pilled means accepting the truth. If you behave this way, you get laid. The other truths are right there, unignorable. You can’t walk away from them because the impetus to continue accepting the world as it is is sex with attractive women. The carrot and stick in this case knows no equal.

    The disillusionment is not with “women”, in the end, but with the entire sociocultural design we’ve been taught. It’s still new, and it’s entirely wrong, but it was attractive to the “New Man” of the 20th Century.

    I guarantee our great-grandfathers would not be experiencing disillusionment, as they never would have believed the lies in the first place. We’re unlearning the New Man ideology. What follows is unknown.