She Cheated On You. What Now?

If a woman cheats on you, there is only one acceptable response:
WALK.
And don’t look back.
Anything else is accommodation.
For if you decide to “stand by” and “support” your cheating ho, you’ll have doomed yourself to being a second class man in her eyes.

Female infidelity is the septic tank of shit tests. Trying to “pass” this shit test within the boundaries of a relationship will only cover you in liquid shit. If a woman knows she can get away with cucking you, there’s no end to the mischief she’ll visit on your dignity. The surefire way to lose a woman’s respect is to forgive her cheating. You will forever be that pitiable beta spittoon who stood by her side soothing her worries and relieving her guilt after she opened her furrow to another man’s plough. You set yourself up as a man for whom no woman’s insult to his pride is too great to endure.

“Ladies night out with some random men in tow? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”

“Getting drunk with my boss at an after-work function? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”

“Attending an underwear and dildo party with a casting couch director? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”

“Getting pregnant while on a two-week ‘business trip’ in Ibiza alone and telling my boyfriend it’s his? Of course he’s cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”

There’s no turning a ho into a loyal harem primary. You could Game her into a more compliant and respectful lover, but the stink of her infidelity, and your disgrace, will waft over the detente. No real love can find purchase in that poisoned ground.

Remind yourself that female cheating never occurs in an emotional vacuum, or without downstream consequences. (Male cheating often does occur in an emotional vacuum, because of the male psychological wiring predisposing to visual-triggered arousal and polygyny when the option is available.)

If she cheats because she’s impulsive, then what’s stopping her from giving in to her urges again? If she cheats because she is horny for the alpha fux to supplement your beta bux, then how will you feel knowing that your worth as a man to her is as an asexual sounding board with a wallet? If she cheats to fill a romantic void, then she likely had a long emotional affair accompanied by nightly fantasies before she physically consummated her infidelity, in which case you would be tolerating and forgiving not one isolated cheating event, but months and perhaps years worth of emotional betrayal, creating a horrible imbalance of power that will corrupt any attempts to salvage the relationship. Very rarely will women cheat spontaneously and out of the blue if their relationships bristle with sexual polarity.

A reader asks,

What about beating the shit out of her?

Scoundrels would argue that’s an option for a more enlightened age in the past. But we’ve regressed as a society, so the best move is to move on, and leave her to suffer the fallout by herself.

Another reader suggests the playa protocol (aka the “I don’t give a shit about her feelings anymore” full throttle pump and dump alternative),

Ah might I suggest banging her sister or best friend? Takes some good frame control to be sure but it is one way to do it…or for the hardcore men her mother.

Make lemonade out of sour pussies.

Banging another woman within the social orbit of your cheating ho is the MOAB of Dread Game. You drop that explosive load and you’ll wipe the patronizing smirk right offa dat ho’s mug.

Ghosting on a cheater is for men who had good intentions and wanted to get serious with the girl. If you’ve made a bad investment, cut your losses because that slutstock will never rise again….for you. But if you’re just playing around with a girl and you discover she cheated on you, the option remains to continue fucking her, if she’s still putting out and you double bag it. I have done this once with a fling; we had a few great months of fucking, and then I came across evidence suggesting she may have cheated — although under the circumstances, I’m not sure it qualified as cheating since I never gave her promises of exclusivity. Anyhow, instead of confronting her about her whoring, I ignored it and continued the Plow Protocol, knowing it would end soon. The important detail was that it would end on my timetable. Three weeks later, after loading her up with a few more gallons of souljuice, (and sensing by her erratic behavior that the time to move was then), I told her I couldn’t see it working out, and that she was great but she wasn’t the one. Her face instantly morphed from distracted indifference to twisted rage. WHAAAT, she bellowed, are you taking about? You’re not good for me, I said. Red-faced, she fumed, Whatever, maybe you should know I’ve been cheating on you! Eyebrows raised half-staff, I feigned mild surprise. Ok, then no harm no foul. This works out for both of us.

The key to really sticking the shiv under the skin of a cheater is state control. You knew she was like that, you didn’t care, the fucking was great regardless, but there was no way she would be anything more than a fun time for you.





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  1. on October 5, 2017 at 10:52 am Captain Obvious

    “I told her I couldn’t see it working out, and that she was great but she wasn’t the one.”

    You’re a better man than I.

    I just disappear and never talk to them again.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 10:55 am Captain Obvious

      I guess that’s what you meant by “Ghosting”.

      http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ghosting

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      • Gotta laugh as the example they give. The guys ghosts the girl because he’s not “mature enough”. Sorry ladies, a man’s time is far too valuable to waste on a discarded woman.

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    • Always leave a cheating gf. Period. Do not pass Go!, do not collect $200.

      Well, maybe on your way, fuck her mom or sister, yes. But if you stay after that, she’s going to eventually stab you or worse.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 11:20 am Captain Obvious

        t777, you also need to go to that Dark Place and start into The Abyss and axe yourself WTF you did wrong.

        Examine your weaknesses, your mistakes, your misjudgments.

        Be brutally honest with yourself as to your shortcomings.

        Then double down on the ZFG, reject & eject all the weaknesses, and swear to yourself that you’ll never be that loser again.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 11:20 am Captain Obvious

        stare into The Abyss

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      • Get out, but skip the revenge. It just proves you cared too much and feeds her love of drama. Leave with dignity, because the woman can accuse you of rape, get preggo and sue for child support, etc…

        If you had other women in your life as an alpha should, you won’t have oneitis and give a shit what some batshit does with her life.

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    • The best failure is the early failure. Learn the lessons and go out again.

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  2. I know you can’t extrapolate from the particular to the general but when I was younger there was a lot of cheating among married couples of my acquaintance yet their marriages all survived to this day and seem to be no different to anyone else’s.

    [CH: it matters who’s doing the cheating. marriages can survive male infidelity because men don’t need emotional connection to cheat, and the consequences for the marriage are far less catastrophic than female infidelity.]

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    • a lot of reasons why women cheating is worse

      one difference between men and women cheating is that when a man cheats, his girl will be hurt/feel betrayed but will most likely respect him more for doing it. especially if she was dropping the ball in the relationship.

      if she loves him and wants to keep him, it will actually encourage her to get her act together more so she can prevent it from happening again. so respect and a new found desire can be renewed in the woman after a man cheats

      when a woman cheats, she already has lost respect and desire to please her man or she wouldn’t be doing it in the first place. then if he forgives her and stays with her, she doesn’t gain more respect and desire for him, she actually has even less than she had before the cheating. on top of that, the man feels betrayed and disgusted by her being intimate with another man. the idea of that repulses most sane men.

      hopefully a man chooses a good woman who he never feels the desire to cheat on. but if he does, the relationship can usually survive. sometimes it can even be better for it.

      when a woman cheats, the relationship is never better for it, it can only get worse

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      • pretty much true…had to tell my gf about a date i had with another chick that ended up in my getting put in jail. After a drink or two she wanted to jump on me.

        I went home anyway just because I didn’t want to find out she had changed her mind in the middle of the night and I wake up dead.

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      • And don’t overlook that women emotionally cheat without physical cheating often. It’s a situation that’s almost as serious and you need to make sure thet never happens

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      • yep

        like i said, there are a lot of reasons it’s worse when women cheat. the loss of respect she’ll have for you after is just one of them.

        men can have a fling with someone they don’t care one wit about and still go home to love his w1fe. there are even some who can love more than one woman. i had a great uncle who had a second family in secret for many years. he loved both women equally. when a man is with one woman, it’s not necessarily a sign he has less love for another.

        women can’t separate things out like that and they can’t have strong feelings for more than one man at a time.

        so if she’s giving herself over to another man, she’s feeling it for him not you. she can’t do that unless she’s already done with you in her heart. once a girl gets to the point of cheating, it’s already over

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      • And don’t overlook that women emotionally cheat without physical cheating often. It’s a situation that’s almost as serious and you need to make sure thet never happens

        Don’t those iPhags make it pretty much inevitable that pretty much all women are “emotionally cheating”?

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 5:41 pm Vagina dominator

        Yes. Their phones are their one true Chad. Doesn’t matter how she blathers on, the phone is always there to listen to her, take photos of her, give her the attention she craves. And it even lets her order in anonymous cock.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 5:37 pm Vagina dominator

      @irishsavant “…yet their [email protected] all survived to this day and seem to be no different to anyone else’s.”

      Probably I am cheap but what really grinds my balls about w1ves cheating is that – financially or otherwise – it means that the [email protected] is *paying* for the bitch to fuck other guys.

      If a [email protected] fucks another woman, the w1fe isn’t out-of-pocket or even out of time. And it isn’t the case that w0men have to put up with men, but men certainly have to put up with women.

      Basically, wom3n are just stupid pests a lot of the time, so if the [email protected] is putting up with her shit but some other guy is tapping it hassle-free, shouldn’t that chaff?

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  3. Perhaps, but there seems to be a lot more cheating these days, especially from girls. I’ve never seen it this bad, or, from a man’s capitalization view, so easy…

    [CH: word from the field is that female cheating is way up over historical US norms. i’ve heard the same horror stories, and frankly i predicted this new reality in old CH posts. economic self-sufficiency has incentivized female cheating. also, i believe beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well.]

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 11:08 am Captain Obvious

      I used to say 90 days, and now no more than 30 days, and maybe more like 3 days, but if she ain’t Mother of Your Children material, then move on quickly.

      Conversely, if she is MoYC material, then immediately get her off all of the ab0rtifacients [subdural Norplant/Implanon, IUD, oral BC] and kn0ck her up within 90 days. [And the very best of them won’t be on the ab0rtificatients to begin with.]

      In the modern world, 90 days is a lifetime.

      Move quickly to get out, or move quickly to get IN [with the pr0geny], but do not dilly-dally.

      Dilly-Dallying & Wishy-Washiness are for Betas.

      Alphas make a decision and then act upon it.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 11:13 am Captain Obvious

        The sh!t don’t get real until you introduce progeny into the equation.

        The rest of it is this artificially constructed nightmare of Instagram/Snapchat/Tinder Days-of-our-Lives/General-Hospital merry-go-round cock-carousel Gramscian-Cocoon-of-Anti-Reality (((Bug People Satanic Ever-Dying Hell on Earth))).

        Make it real, and stick around.

        Or leave. Fast.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 11:15 am Captain Obvious

        And if you do decide to make it real, then you up the ante with the choke-phuckings and the wh!ppings and the black eyes.

        You leave no doubt whatsoever in her Hamster’s mind as to who precisely [and who alone] is her Baby Daddy.

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      • This is absurd. Most of the guys on here probably haven’t been laid in 90 days, how tf you expect them to make a good decision on this in such a short timeframe?

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 11:24 am Captain Obvious

        That’s precisely my point.

        I don’t expect them to make a good decision. I expect them to make a bad decision.

        I’m just telling them how to go about making the good decision.

        Alphas TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS.

        Betas get lost in the Fog of War which the Frankfurt School is constantly spraying all over the battlefield.

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      • CO, I’m being very serious with this question, do wimmin use chemical birth control even if not in LTRs?

        I’ve never known one to use it for casual $ex. I’ll guess many are lying about being on it or not, or maybe I’m just insulated in general by family and geographic circumstances. I’ve spent some time in the big NYC and around it’s denizens but not enough to really know anyone.

        I will admit, though, I was really shocked in high school to learn that lots of kids used to drive to the seedier side of a few towns over to have $ex in hourly rate motels. Man going from catholic to public school was a damned head trip. I thought getting assaulted by rando Dominican guys in my Catholic school was bad enough. Public school was a total jungle, I suppose that’s where this whole mess started anyway

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      • Preening simply for your pleasure, CO.

        3rd bun currently in oven.

        First two are knockout blonde and blues.

        Building the future army one bun at a time.

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      • Speaking of progeny, St. John Chrysostom (349-407), wrote that “The child is a bridge connecting mother to father, so the three become one flesh. . . . And here the bridge is formed from the substance of each! …. which is why Scripture does not say, “They shall be one flesh.” But they shall be joined together “into one flesh,” namely the child. But suppose there is no child; do they then remain two and not one? No: their intercourse effects the joining of their bodies, and they are made one, just as when perfume is mixed with ointment.”

        By the way, he almost surely preached on this subject, and knowing how his congregation might react to this he wrote:

        “Why are you blushing? Leave that to the heretics and pagans, with their impure and immodest customs. For this reason I want marriage to be thoroughly purified, to bring it back again to its proper nobility. You should not be ashamed of these things. If you are ashamed, then you condemn God who made marriage. So I shall tell you how marriage is a mystery of the Church!”

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 5:50 pm Captain Obvious

        ^Thread Winner.

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    • “i believe beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well.”

      The amount of “understanding” in our society is disgusting. Understanding and caring are great things but there is a line. A line that is crossed against something so good should never go without severe consequence.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 3:00 pm Oleaginous Outrager

      ” beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well”

      Like the recent spate of female teachers fucking their students and then their dudsbands “standing by” them at sentencing? Seems the main thing that college inculcate in most female students is an endless lust for riding the carousel (I know, no news there). It’s pretty dangerous for most men involved with them, and utterly disastrous when they’re “teaching” in junior and senior high.

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    • It’s Facebook but alphas need to be responsible with woman and be their brothers keeper. I’m not sure woman can say no to God therefore it’s gods responsibility to say no to them. Has to do with men needing to protect woman’s souls from themselves we have power we know we have power how do we use that?

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      • Same token woman need to have it within them to say no but under 16 I would say I don’t think woman could say no to me.therefore it is my responsibility not to lead that direction.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 6:42 pm Vagina dominator

      STD stats tell a big chunk of the story.

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  4. […] She Cheated On You. What Now? […]

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  5. I have friends and acquaintances that I’m convinced would undoubtedly forgive cheating girlfriends/spouses…It’s so prevalent that I bet the rest of you here know a buddy or two who would forgive their girlfriend/spouse…

    [CH: weak men with no perceptible options forgive cheating women. there’s no escaping from that sexual market reality.]

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    • i have a brother and a friend who forgave their women. one was a long term girlfriend. the other was only a short term thing but still serious and supposedly heading toward marriage

      things seemed to get better at first. both girls seemed more attentive and trying to make it up the men. bragging about their love on social media, the works. that didn’t last long though. within a year both couples were just as bad off as before. probably worse and they were just putting on a brave face so no one would know what was happening behind the scenes

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 3:04 pm Oleaginous Outrager

        bragging about their love on social media

        ALERT! ALERT! MACH SCHNELL! Whore mining her own horrible behavior for likes and virtual validation! Immediate implementation of retrograde movement action plans is required!

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    • I have intentionally been choosing woman of what people would say questionable charachtet or I’m fooling myself and that’s all I can get but after getting some regular chicks and they wanted to get married after two dates I was slightly freaked put. Don’t really want a regular chick getting that attached plus trying to learn about the bad side and grow my brain. Which shit ex ex shows up every time I’m alone to save the day lol and wanted my kid and doesn’t believe in abortion just like ex wanted my kid and wouldn’t of aborted it so it does make ya wonder who is the actual good people. Yea it’s been emotionally taxing but I have grown as a person I think fucking unreal adventures lol life what ya gonna do been riding this bitch hard. Definitely not the conducive lifestyle for.kids though so yea slowed way down from 3 years ago or so

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    • dont get this. whores arent all that expensive. not great but better than cheating gf.

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  6. [CH: weak men with no perceptible options forgive cheating women. there’s no escaping from that sexual market reality.]

    Couldn’t agree more. The amount of disgust I have for men like that is a mile high…

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    • what’s worse is that these women get the enormous ego boost of having a man forgive her.

      these crap women who don’t even pay a penalty for their behavior. instead they get his continued support and commitment, him trying to please her so she won’t do it again, etc.

      that’s how you create monsters

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  7. This is one of those rare truly black and white issues. No matter the circumstances of her infidelity, there is absolutely no going back without permanently diminishing your manhood. Ever. Period.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 11:26 am Ponce du Lion

      Not even if her was raped

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      • I don’ t think actual rape counts as “infidelity.” That’s like saying being unexpectedly mugged just outside the bank while heading in with your paycheck is the same as gambling it away.

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      • on October 6, 2017 at 1:05 am Ponce du Lion

        How autistic. Anyway she’s used by other men. Things aren’t guilty of worth less when they are used, but they worth less. Women are like stuff

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    • on October 7, 2017 at 1:09 pm Randy The Random

      Ha, all this high and mighty talk, yet CH himself says to wife up “LOW N COUNT” girls.

      Low N count huh? So if one dindu has railed her 10 times a day for 5 years, that’s a low N count right?

      What I hate the most about this so called “men’s movement”, is that it is still so milquetoast. Most of you can’t see it though, because you were all raised in the generation of milquetoasts.

      A mere 50 years ago, a woman who had opened her legs to even one man was used goods. This was common sense, and no self respecting man would wife her up. Even if she was a 10/10.

      Times have changed, because today’s men are so unbelievably weak. Today’s man talks a big game (lifting, swagger, game, etc) but when it comes to his dignity, he’s willing to part with it at bargain basement prices.

      If a man who is otherwise successful in his life came up to you with a shit eating grin and a spring in his step, and told you that he just bought a heavily used rental car with 1 million miles on the odometer for double the price of its new equivalent, what would you think of him?

      Now tell me exactly what I am supposed to think of the lot of you who espouse “low n count” marriages.

      Embarrassing. If you entertain the concept of marrying a non-virgin, you and I are not of the same species. The muzzies have this one aspect figured out right, and you lot are too embarrassed to admit it. Manhood means seeing the world as it is, not for what you want it to be. Western civilization was always soft on women, but its gotten so soft that the women increasingly want nothing to do with its so called “men”. And who can blame them?

      Repeal the 14th and treat women as dependents, like the west had done for hundreds of years prior to the current year. Because they are dependent on men, no matter how you look at it. If you even entertain the thought of women having anything to offer men besides their wombs, you are in a childish fantasy.

      But hey, I hear there’s lots of “low n-count” wife material out there to wife up, so my words may not reach the target audience.

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  8. on October 5, 2017 at 11:24 am Ponce du Lion

    Stoning cheating sluts is a good tradition.
    Romans punished (to death?) husbands for their wives’ infidelities. Of course that was when only fags thought that let women out of the house was a good idea and wife beating was mandatory daily. Getting rid of liberal men that way was very eugenic.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 11:27 am Captain Obvious

      “Getting rid of liberal men that way was very eugenic.”

      LOL’ed.

      From the archives:

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    • It makes sense to punish the husbands of wayward wives as well. Men whp get lax in thier pimphand duties have put all of society at risk

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    • “Romans punished (to death?) husbands for their wives’ infidelities.”

      Proof that Romans were more masculine than Muslims.

      And an attitude I could get behind.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 5:55 pm Vagina dominator

      When a man fucks your w1fe, he also fucks you. It is the equivalent of [email protected] and should be punished as such.

      Adult3ry in [email protected] should thus be punishable with prison sentences and should be prosecuted by the State and be reportable even by an individual not party to the [email protected] Same as any crime.

      A sp0use should not have the option to “forgive” and not prosecute. Like [email protected], this is a matter of the health of the State and community.

      At a minimum, for those outside the marriage who unknowingly interpose their genitals between a couple, severe civil damages should be on the table.

      On the other hand, d1vorce should not be onerously difficult.

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  9. on October 5, 2017 at 11:30 am Ponce du Lion

    She Cheated On You. What Now?
    Defamation, give publicity of her acts and shaming. And cut obviously

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  10. Even the Bible makes it perfectly clear in numerous places that it is absolutely fine to move on after your woman cheats, it’s just a situation that can never be reconciled within the man’s mind. God is not unjust, He gets it.

    Honestly, if that happened to you, and you stayed with the cheater, could you get the mental pic out of your head of her blowing and/or banging some other dude. Good luck with that!

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    • yeah, i was cheated on by an ex. you’re right about never getting over it. i couldn’t.

      at first i felt a lot of guilt because of course she had a shizload of reasons why she did it which basically boiled down to it being all my fault. some of it was sure, but most of it wasn’t. she cheated on her exes too and i was stupid enough to think i’d be different.

      but even though i was in repair mode trying to fix things because i thought it was all on me, i was also thinking of her giving herself to the other guy all the time and how i had been intimate with her after that without even knowing it.

      i was pretty disgusted by it and her. i ended up not being able to touch her at all without thinking of her as dirty and tainted. i stopped trying to work on it anymore and that was the end of it

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      • Good for you!

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      • thanks man

        it was one of the hardest times i’ve had in my life. i was head over heels for this girl.

        staying focused on her actions instead of staying in guilt/fix it mode was the key for me. i may not have been the best boyfriend all of the time. i had things i needed to work on. but that didn’t mean i could or had to pretend what she did didn’t happen.

        she was still responsible for doing what she did and i didn’t have to accept it or live with it. it was a real eye opener for me

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 2:35 pm The Philosopher

        What does being a ‘good boyfriend’ mean. Im curious. My inclination is to think there is a lot of women that would prefer a distant, abrupt and even cold partner, as long as he was tough as teak and good looking/socially popular.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 5:54 pm Captain Obvious

        ^T-Phil staring into The Abyss.

        Re-defining the very language we use to describe Reality.

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  11. Contrary to most observations here, I’ve noticed an uptick in alpha attitude, a decrease in liberal political statements by females and increase in men lifting and getting in shape since Trump was elected. Many liberal chicks actually want to get drilled by Trump supporters, not pajama boy. I know my fortunes have improved since the world changed on Nov. 8, 2016.

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  12. @ l82dagame…

    I bet 75% of these femalel cheaters are married, or date, to liberal beta cucks…

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  13. “Just walk away”

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  14. on October 5, 2017 at 11:43 am Muerte aka Luciano

    tbh

    only time I was cheated on was during a long distance thing where i was getting action but telling herthat i was staying true

    she fessed up in a series of texts about getting fucked by somebody at university

    i t was a blow to me but it also freed me from some guilt. we were growing apart n e ways because long distance doesn’t work. it was delusional to think it would work

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  15. I’m surprised that this even needs to be said.

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    • yeah, unfortunately there are still a lot of men who will keep a girl after she cheats. it’s all the brainwashing people get nowadays.

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  16. I posted this in the last thread but will post again, BUT GUYS WOMEN CHEATING IS OK!

    http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/05/health/why-women-cheat-partner/index.html

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    • This is actually a much more complex subject…women left to their own devices will cheat. Even when they know they will get stoned if they’re caught.

      Marrying for love and fulfillment is a modern fantasy. In the old days, you married who your parents told you to. And you never let the affairs embarrass the family.

      I bet half the guys in that article on CNN are like thank god she’s got someone because now she leaves me alone. This isn’t a cheating gf, it’s a cheating wife who you’ve had 2 kids with already. A successful marriage is more like managing a nonprofit corporation; there’s really an excessive value placed on love.

      After 30 years or even 10 you may be glad she’s got a side fuck…

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 3:15 pm Oleaginous Outrager

      Gesu Cristo, that article! It tries to make female cheating some sort of revolutionary act against “duh patriarchy”, but can’t keep that pretense up, finally admitting that women just get bored really easily and want what they want NOW.

      What’s ironic is a number of these women claim that their husbands “are like children”, while at the same time positing that thinking everything should come easily and she should be happy every minute of every day is an adult worldview.

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  17. The way I see it is that we’re just in a transitional phase. Those tend to be chaotic, except for those who truly know how to capitalize on it. The last century has given us dishwashers, refrigerators, computers, transportation, etc. We have become less and less reliant on individual relationships and more upon the technological advances. Women no longer require validation from the husbands, they can just post a selfie and all the thirsties give that to her. Technology will come full swing and solve the male problem in the form of the perfect, non-cheating, non-testing, non-vapid robot of his dreams. We are just caught in a transitional period where some folks can adapt accordingly (cad types), while the rest bare with it.

    Women will soon come to know their true worth. It’s not career grrrl or gatekeepers to sex. This will be the next revolution. It will dig deep in to the psyche of society. Many men will simply go on with their life without needing flesh and blood. Some will become “breeders” either through the sport of it or because fundamentally wired. It will become a form of Darwinism, which should lead to the next phase.

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  18. This post reminds me of a joke:

    My friend says that his wife likes to talk during sex…in fact, he told me, just the other night she called him from the motel. ta-dum

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  19. on October 5, 2017 at 11:50 am Carlos Danger

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  20. on October 5, 2017 at 11:59 am Werkof Rodann

    You can actually recover from this. Did it with a past girlfriend (broke up because I moved to the other side of the earth). You need to

    1. Have her get an equally hot or hotter close friend of hers for you to fuck. It’s important that SHE makes this happen, not you.

    2. Threesome with hot friend, only a) your gf sucks you off til you’re ready to pound her friend and b) she never gets fucked, instead getting to listen to her friend get satisfied by you and suck pussy juice off your dick.

    She agrees, she is genuinely sorry and every time she sees her friend she will be reminded to never fuck around. She doesn’t, push that ho straight onto the trash heap where she belongs.

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  21. Unless it is something that can be easily done I would not spend time and energy scheming revenge. Fucking her sister, mother, girlfriend…
    Life is too short to waste time; just move on to the next prospect

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  22. on October 5, 2017 at 12:05 pm Muerte aka Luciano

    also

    being a willing cucks lowers u in other men’s eyes which I think is the worst part

    it was always the elephant in the room when my boy forgave his hoebag girl for a drunken fuck with her ex

    like u can’t unsee that shit. how can u hold the same respect for dude n e more.

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    • true

      it’s hard to be fake nice to the girl when he brings her around too. you have to because he’s your buddy and he chose to stay with her. can only tell him he’s a dumbass for keeping her so many times until you have to let it go and respect his decision. hard to see that happen to a guy you like though

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      • a cuck buddy is worth nothing. he’ll bail when you need him most.

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      • changed my mind on this. a man might be a cuck with a woman but that doesn’t always make him a bad friend or a screw up in every other part of his life. in most cases it’s a bad sign but not always.

        i’ve known some good guys who were great at their jobs, in their communities, with friends, family, etc but total pussies when it came to their women. situational alphas i guess.

        sometimes a man can come off still looking good if people don’t know the whole story with the girl, he is a rockstar in everything else, and she is able to keep up a decent image. most will just feel sorry for him that he is stuck with someone below him but they won’t necessarily question his worth for it.

        the situation a doesn’t want is when it’s obvious to everyone that the girl is low quality, raunchy, a cheater, etc. your girl represents you. so if you’ve got a girl everyone sees in a poor light that’s going to reflect poorly on you.

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    • on October 7, 2017 at 1:03 am HungarianPatriot

      A buddy of mine just finally stopped cucking after his oneitis. After forgiving her for fucking his then best-friend he got back with her but it wasn’t long before she was up to her old tricks so I hope he ditched her for good.

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  23. I have to show some appreciation for the fact that the option of beating her for her infidelity was given an honest reply. You will rarely if ever see a genuine question like that get a genuine response. That is the intellectual honesty I expect at the Chateau.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 2:39 pm The Philosopher

      Honestly, its the first instinct of most non brainwashed men around the world. You think in Colombia, Uganda, Kazakhstan if a wife cheats she won’t get hit?

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  24. I find it odd that a woman would continue to have sex with a man she was cheating on. Every case I’ve ever seen of the girl cheating involves no sex for the guy getting cucked, and the sex draught usually starts well in advance of the cheating.
    It seems like only a raging slut would be simultaneously fucking multiple guys.
    Frequency and quality of sex in my experience has been a pretty good leading indicator for the health of the relationship.

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    • true for the most part

      although my girl did still have sex with me around the time she cheated. in retrospect, i can see it wasn’t her initiating because she had a voracious appetite that needed to be filled by more than one man.

      but more probably she was giving me what i needed occasionally so i would get off her back about my needs and also so i wouldn’t suspect anything.

      true what you say about a lackluster sex life and drought leading up to it. our sex life was nothing to brag about

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  25. What’s the bounds of cheating?

    If she drunkenly makes out with a guy, and tells you after with apologies, still time to bounce?

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 12:31 pm meistergedanken

      Yes, FFS.

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    • she’s not telling you the whole story

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    • yes that’s cheating

      and why would she tell you? girls only tell you that kind of thing if they are secretly hoping you’ll break up with them over it. if she really loved you, she would carry that secret to her deathbed

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      • correction:

        girls only tell you that if they are…

        a. secretly hoping you’ll break up with them

        OR

        b. to see if you’re the kind of chump who will forgive her and be her patsy for the rest of your life

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      • @Cracker They tell you that because 1. They want to test the waters: if he doesn’t break up over me making out with someone then it should be fine to continue 2. They’re usually downplaying the whole thing: making out usually means more than that 3. Biologically they always trade up. Hypergamy. So if you don’t dump her they will assume you’re too weak anyway. That’s the paradox.

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    • Making out with a dude doesn’t “just happen”. There is definitely planning going into it.

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      • yep, and alcohol is no excuse.

        my girl doesn’t go out clubbing with friends or anything. but even if she were to meet them for a drink or two at bar/restaurant and get a little tipsy, she’s not stirring up trouble with other men

        without fail, as soon as the liquor hits, she’s thinking of me, texting me, saying how much she misses me and wishes i was there, she comes home earlier than planned, etc.

        alcohol just exaggerates what a person is already feeling, if she’s into you, she’ll be thinking of you more when she drinks…not less

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      • Recently made out with/felt up a girl that I hadn’t even flirted with before that night.

        Last second before we go to fuck, she says she’s seeing someone. I was like wtf is wrong with these how’s these days.

        So I wasn’t butthurt and kinda shrugged my shoulders to go back to the party and started to walk off and she’s like “no wait don’t go” blah blah blah. Could have maybe banged her but didn’t push it. Who knows.

        But I’m not about banging other white dudes girlfriends. Sluts, sure. But it pays off long term IMO to treat fellow white men with respect and that means walking away in my mind.

        Fucking hoes are out of control. Guarantee I’m just another dude in a wide array that she’s making out with/getting groped by behind her boyfriend’s back. If he knows she’s going this, that’s just sad if they’re still a thing.

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      • *hoes

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 6:19 pm Vagina dominator

        Plenty of commenters here have fucked some twat and she talks the whole time about the bf and how much she loves him.

        They even ask for relationship advice.

        Relationships with women; there should be a sign outside their cunts; “Give up common sense, all ye who enter here.”

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 6:21 pm Vagina dominator

        “doesn’t just happen…planning”

        She doesn’t even have to have any idea who it might be. She is just ready for it to “happen”.

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    • Why the hell is she out getting drunk with someone who isn’t, say, you? That’s 9/10ths of the way to humping some other dude right there.

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    • if she’s drunk with other people around in your absence, she ain’t moyc material anyway. fuck and dump at pleasure.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 6:30 pm Vagina dominator

      Huh?

      What if she just lets him finger her? Is that within the bounds? What if she tickles his cock with just her tongue (no tonsils!) until he blows a load on her tits? Is that okay?

      What world am I living in?

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  26. About 8 years ago this happened to me. I kept her around and kept cheating on her for revenge, without being careful of getting caught. Sometimes she suspected and found out. Finally I cheated on her with a girl about 23 years old, 11 years younger than her at the time. It was too much for her to handle and that ended it. But not after I had my fun. It drove her crazy in the end.

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  27. “A reader asks,

    What about beating the shit out of her?

    Scoundrels would argue that’s an option for a more enlightened age in the past.”

    I suspect that may have been the case in traditional Catholic countries, where full divorce wasn’t an option and a man would have had the choice of 1) beating the sh!t out of her and getting her back in line, 2) getting a second wife and living in mortal sin, or 3) dumping her and going completely without for the rest of his wife.

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    • Or 4) Dread Game using a (preferably hotter) woman.

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 2:43 pm The Philosopher

      I grew up in a severely Catholic country. Beating your wife was common. Not necessarily for cheating either as you often got ‘stuck’ with someone you hated or married for practical reasons.

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  28. All sage advice, but once a man has established a routine and a bond with a girl it’s much easier said than done. Girls like excitement, or the public impression of it at least, while men are oft content with the familiar.

    It’s always amazed me how girls can so quickly flip a switch on a relationship when it comes to the sexual side of things. (And then justify the newfound aspirin between their thighs by twisting their sins into yours.) They are lovely but fickle creatures, incessant in their craving to draw emotions out of their men, rather than having said emotions proferred.

    The only way to overcome her infidelity is to go fuck a different chick. Fuckin period dudes. A hottie if possible, but i dont think it really matters for a fella in the proverbial pinch. Not to get her back and tell her what you did, convenient and tempting but kinda gay.

    Dumping a load in a different girl is the quickest and most pleasurable way to help you move on from an evolutionary and psychological standpoint. Just beat it up with some strange and lope outta camp like our ancestors did. It’s not a cure, just good medicine.

    I’ve learned over time with situations like this, the only thing you can do to not sit and stew is go fuck another, less for spite than for YOU.

    ‘When a woman turns to scholarship there is usually something wrong with her sexual apparatus.’ -Nietzche

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    • right. as long as your plan also includes dumping her ass

      difficult or not, it doesn’t solve anything to have fun with another girl then go right back to the woman who cheated.

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  29. on October 5, 2017 at 1:23 pm David Goldsteinschmirtz

    This is classic CH content, love it.

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  30. That is funny because that’s exactly what the recently departed Hugh Hefner went through. His girlfriend confessed that she had been unfaithful to him while he was in the army but he still married her.

    >

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  31. on October 5, 2017 at 1:28 pm Ralph Stanley

    Why do you think there is constant talk in the media of “polyamory”? There is an undeniable push by feminist psychologists (including Esther Perel), to promote a kind of “virtuous female infidelity” on men.

    I get sick when I see article after article championing female infidelity as an avenue for “personal growth”. Inevitably, the female cheaters in these articles reference the “lack of excitement” in marriage and the feeling that they had “lost themselves” as a result of the very same union they were gunning for years earlier. News flash: marriage requires a lot of hard work and raising a family will interfere with any couple’s love life. Infidelity or polyamory is really not a good solution, even for the man.

    All of this talk about about monogamy being “unnatural” ignores the fact that for human beings, raising children and nurturing a family require a strong pair bond. I sincerely doubt that one’s children will benefit from so-called evolved polyamorous marriage. If you want to see the wages of children raised in broken families, take a look at the black community.

    Even more annoying is this new concept of “emotional work” that married women/mothers supposedly endure as the coordinators of the household. I don’t deny that wives and mothers do more housework. They also remember everyone’s birthdays, schedule doctors’ appointments for the kids, and plan birthday parties. It’s called “motherhood”. Fathers/husbands have their own unique burdens.

    You’ll notice more and more that this “uncompensated” “emotional work” is referenced as a justification for wives seeking lovers. As with any social or pseudo-scientific piece on the sexes, the male of version of infidelity is inevitably debased as “just sex”, “selfish”, “reckless”.

    This site is ripe for a piece on married game. While the main laws hold true, it’s a very different animal. Even if you marry a good woman, she will still notice cute guys, shit test you, flirt (mildly) at parties, nag you, have male colleagues, go on vacations without you, complain about the distribution of chores, accuse you of cheating/flirting etc. While her infidelity is an absolute deal-breaker, all that other stuff is something you will have to endure and manage to some degree, especially in these wacko times.

    As a husband, I think the key is to: (i) stay in reasonably good shape; (ii) be stylish; (iii) keep your edge (preserve a degree of independence; don’t give up every single hobby that made you attractive in the first place). In short, be a presentable financially stable guy, who other women would still consider a “good catch”. Aside from that, you will have to pick your battles wisely, cuz women usually go crazy and wives are demanding. And don’t forget (iv) Actual love (there needs to be genuine tenderness there, because raising a family and keeping a house takes work and both parties are under pressure; constant asshole game will not work).

    Lastly — and I understand this is a long-winded comment — it really helps your ego (and power balance) to be a husband who has options. But you have to walk a very fine line there because “having options” can involve just enough flirting to put you in a danger zone.

    Ultimately, female infidelity really is the H-bomb destroyer of love (“toughing it out for the kids” is not a good option). Even if some women are supposedly able to have a fling and still love their husbands, no self-respecting man can stand by a cheating whore wife. You can always, always, always, do better than that.

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  32. I like that Paul from you’re the worst went from cuckold fetish enthusiastic to budding shitlord (ok…annoying, weirdo MRA guy). It’s like the people who write this stuff found the next layer of red pill world after the now overused trope of “I’m going to neg her…” stuff.

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  33. on October 5, 2017 at 1:30 pm Jimmy Russell

    I work with a guy who made the mistake of sticking around to churn other men’s nut butter. He had a girlfriend whom he’d taken in because her parents kicked her out after lying about her brother molesting her (red alert #1). They were together a few years, she fucked some guy on his shitty sports team, and he fought the guy (because white knight faggot) and took her back.

    Then they have kid, definitely his, carbon copy. No sex ever again. Months go by, she kicks him out of his own bed and he sleeps on the couch for months. He comes home early on fucking Father’s Day to the sound of her getting fucked in that bed which he allowed himself to be cast out of. He left and got hammered, then bitched out for missing Father’s Day AFTER he told her how he knew she was fucking around.

    Now he pays her to fuck other guys, apparently it’s called “child support”, even though she’s a nurse and makes more than he does. He lives in his Mom’s apartment and at the house of the parents of his new girl, a single mom with a screeching bastard spawn son whose father is in prison several states away. It gets worse: so far she has left twice with only a few days warning to go back to her home state to “visit family”, and each time she’s fucked another one of her exes and a few of his friends, and they send him the god damn pics and video on Facebook and talk shit to him. He doesn’t do shit.

    I tried to get through to him a few times, but he says I “don’t know what I’m talking about”. The guy is a fuckin caricature of the spineless doormat cuckold, but I don’t know what I’m talking about. k.

    [CH: intervention, stat, before he decides to shoot up a festival.]

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  34. on October 5, 2017 at 1:30 pm Ralph Stanley

    Why do you think there is constant talk in the media of “polyamory”? There is an undeniable push by feminist psychologists (including Esther Perel), to promote a kind of “virtuous female infidelity” on men.

    I get sick when I see article after article championing female infidelity as an avenue for “personal growth”. Inevitably, the female cheaters in these articles reference the “lack of excitement” in marriage and the feeling that they had “lost themselves” as a result of the very same union they were gunning for years earlier. News flash: marriage requires a lot of hard work and raising a family will interfere with any couple’s love life. Infidelity or polyamory is really not a good solution, even for the man.

    All of this talk about about monogamy being “unnatural” ignores the fact that for human beings, raising children and nurturing a family require a strong pair bond. I sincerely doubt that one’s children will benefit from so-called evolved polyamorous marriage. If you want to see the wages of children raised in broken families, take a look at the black community.

    Even more annoying is this new concept of “emotional work” that married women/mothers supposedly endure as the coordinators of the household. I don’t deny that wives and mothers do more housework. They also remember everyone’s birthdays, schedule doctors’ appointments for the kids, and plan birthday parties. It’s called “motherhood”. Fathers/husbands have their own unique burdens.

    You’ll notice more and more that this “uncompensated” “emotional work” is referenced as a justification for wives seeking lovers. As with any social or pseudo-scientific piece on the sexes, the male of version of infidelity is inevitably debased as “just sex”, “selfish”, “reckless”.

    This site is ripe for a piece on married game. While the main laws hold true, it’s a very different animal. Even if you marry a good woman, she will still notice cute guys, shit test you, flirt (mildly) at parties, nag you, have male colleagues, go on vacations without you, complain about the distribution of chores, accuse you of cheating/flirting etc. While her infidelity is an absolute deal-breaker, all that other stuff is something you will have to endure and manage to some degree, especially in these wacko times.

    As a husband, I think the key is to: (i) stay in reasonably good shape; (ii) be stylish; (iii) keep your edge (preserve a degree of independence; don’t give up every single hobby that made you attractive in the first place). In short, be a presentable financially stable guy, who other women would still consider a “good catch”. Aside from that, you will have to pick your battles wisely, cuz women usually go crazy and wives are demanding. And don’t forget (iv) Actual love (there needs to be genuine tenderness there, because raising a family and keeping a house takes work and both parties are under pressure; constant asshole game will not work).

    Lastly — and I understand this is a long-winded comment — it really helps your ego (and power balance) to be a husband who has options. But you have to walk a very fine line there because “having options” can involve just enough flirting to put you in a danger zone.

    Ultimately, female infidelity really is the H-bomb destroyer of love (“toughing it out for the kids” is not a good option). Even if some women are supposedly able to have a fling and still love their husbands, no self-respecting man can stand by a cheating whore wife. You can always, always, always, do better than that.

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  35. OT, but double bagging is not a good idea. It actually makes you less safe because the rubbing of the two bags together during thrusting can cause them to split. If skankitude is a concern, it’s much better to use one of these:

    https://www.amazon.com/Lifestyles-Extra-Strength-Condoms-Pack/dp/B00014UHIK

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  36. OT: I think you guys will like these vintage photos. https://www.boredpanda.com/cool-vintage-parents/?page_numb=1

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  37. Wife of 18 yrs cheated on me. I bounced her ass out and hit her with divorce papers so fast she didn’t have time to react. Judge finalized the uncontested divorce in 1-1/2 days.

    We had 2 teenaged daughters and they moved all her stuff out and dropped it in front of the dude’s house she was cheating with while I was at work.

    Folks say I’m still too angry at her. I tell them exactly what I feel — nothing. That isn’t anger, it is apathy. I don’t give a shit about her one way or another or what happens to her, good or bad.

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. If she cheats with you on someone else, she will eventually cheat on you, too.

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    • nice job

      great lesson for your girls too. they will see that real men don’t tolerate that kind of behavior and will be less likely to do it in the future

      even if kids don’t know all the details, you have to think they can still sense what’s going on with their parents.

      when a man stays with a woman who cheats, they can see that something is off. that he’s hurt over something but staying with her anyway. even without knowing she cheated, they probably saw all the disrespect indifference lack of affection etc going on before she cheated. so when he stays, they just see him as weak for putting up with that.

      leaving is best for you and any kids you might have

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  38. If you had plans for a future together, she cheated on you, and you still stick around, you may be a genetic male but you are not a man.

    If she was one of your girls who cheated on you, the best move is to fuck multiple women and never tell her. Do this for at least a few months, while tightening your alpha game. She will feel “embraced” and forgiven, even if she doesn’t know you know. The delight of her finding out much later how, as she was trying to mend your “relationship”, you were callously dipping your stick in multiple wetspots will have twofold impact
    – she will have found out she is of no more importance to you than other women,
    – she will have wasted her “precious” time with you, but now cannot blame you for it

    If you want to stick a shiv into that heartless throbber of hers, tell her how, after having had se with so-and-so, you spent the night with her, and then moved on to another chick the next morning, or some combination of that.
    She will want to tell all her friends what a heartless ass you are, yet will know deep down that all her friends know that she is the reason you should not care in the first place.

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  39. Matthew 10: 8 – Because of the hardness of your hearts, Moses suffered you to give a writing of divorce. But, from the beginning it wasn’t so. Jesus said – whomsoever divorces his wife except it be for fornication …

    God gives you a wife – you mileage may vary – but she was given.

    You made a vow – before God – and God means for you to keep it.

    Keep your vow – BUT NOT at the expense of being cuckolded.

    In rank order of importance are a mans dignity, his word and his husbandry.

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    • yeah, and most people aren’t even having religious weddings anymore. they will do the justice of the peace thing or some sort of generic non-religious ceremony. basically just a government contract and nothing else.

      according to most religions, those [email protected] are not ordained by god so the typical rules of compliance don’t even apply

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    • yeah, and most people aren’t even having religious w3ddings anymore. they will do the justice of the peace thing or some sort of generic non-religious ceremony. basically a government contract and nothing else.

      according to most religions, those [email protected] are not ordained by god so the typical rules of compliance don’t even apply

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  40. Many years ago, a friend called me, distraught that his fat white trash wife had slept with a coworker. I told him to divorce her on the spot. He ignored my advice, told the whore what I said, and allowed her to drive a wedge between us. We are no longer friends, and he now pays the bills for his fat white trash wife and a brood of kids that look nothing like him. He is literally no longer a man in the eyes of virtually everyone who knows him. Sad.

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  41. on October 5, 2017 at 2:43 pm Days of Broken Arrows

    It should be easy enough to develop a litmus test for women more likely to cheat:

    1). Had mad “crushes” when she was young that were more like obsessions. (Well-adusted women are more comfortable being the object of affection, not the facilitator of it.)

    2). Takes the initiative to ask guys out. (This means she’s a bit too aggressive. Yes, it’s nice to be asked out by women, but in my experience, these type cheat.)

    3). Is on any type of mood-altering pills. (The meds made me do it! Honest!)

    4). Experimented with other women in college. (Hyper-sexuality, which will come out later in some other “taboo” form.)

    5, Works in a high-drama field, especially one where she deals with a lot of bad boys. (This includes anything from women who work in prisons — there are quite a few — to men’s clothing stores to nurses to actresses, etc.)

    [CH: sounds about right.]

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 2:44 pm The Philosopher

      Test

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 2:52 pm The Philosopher

      Litmus Test should be:

      1. Does she put on makeup and dress well around you like she did at the start of the relationship.

      2. Here’s something that many of you will think is stalking….whatever…look at her facebook friends list. The algo puts the top people she interacts with and view her profile/she views near the top. If you see guys there outside her social circle shes fucking around. Double skank probability points if they look alpha or are of course, black.

      3. Do her friends cheat often and regularly?

      4. Another trick I like is to ask what her fantasies are in a playful manner. You will easily gauge her ‘appetite’ from that.

      5. Look at her eyes when a cad joins the group. A lot of guys don’t bother paying attention to their gfs because theyre socially retarded. Follow the eyes, a kind of ‘shine’ will come across them when she’s hawny.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 2:54 pm The Philosopher

        If youre considering marriage, which you shouldn’t, but if you are, I would definitely do or ask all of the above. As losing 50% of your wealth and the emotional pain is far worse than being ‘creepy’.

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      • good ones

        also a red flag when girls don’t have their relationship set to in a relationship or [email protected] when they are.

        hyphenated [email protected] name or keeping the maiden are other obvious ones

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      • She can set her friends list to only show mutual friends, that will interfere with checking her friends list fyi.

        Though if you realize that she’s doing that the only logic reason is to cover cheating.

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    • on October 6, 2017 at 6:04 am Muerte aka Luciano

      with exception of #5 this is one of my exes to a t

      she approached me

      told me about her lesbian past

      man

      i used to be so naive and ignant

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  42. I’ve actually put some thought into what I would do in this scenario, and here is my plan:

    Immediately say I want a divorce, leverage her guilt to get the better deal with splitting the assets (wouldn’t work for most, but I could pull it off knowing my wife), listen to tear-soaked apology indifferently, sign divorce paperwork… once ink is dried, casually tell her that I’ve slept with eight other women since we got married. Move on with my life.

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  43. on October 5, 2017 at 2:59 pm Les Saunders, Protestant

    The fad or trend of girlz and even mârriéd women having male “friends” and cozy male coworkers raises new questions. Mostly it’s asexual but the guys would gladly bang if they could. I work with many mârriéd females who go on business trips with male colleagues (me being one of them): sitting on the plane for hours together, sitting through meetings together, but also taking meals and a drink together in the hotel bar, or even doing some sightseeing together after hours. Frankly, my opinion of a mârriéd woman who would do such things with me hits rock bottom. A lot of shit can go down on these business junkets.

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    • yeah, nothing good can come from that. it’s natural to develop feelings for people you spend a lot of time with. especially people of the opposite sex.

      best to avoid that at all costs.

      we have some women who travel with us for work. i always make a point of only interacting with them if other men are around. if the men leave and it’s just me and her left at dinner or whatever, i will make an excuse to go back to the hotel to get some work done or something. never a good idea to spend any length of time alone with people of the opposite sex unless they are family

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 6:02 pm Vagina dominator

      Poon that is out-and-about will always attract a player.

      You might call it the Thermodynamic Law of Pussy Heat Attraction but the basic rule is that random cock abhors a pussy vaccum and will always rush to fill any vacant pussy in the vicinity.

      Something Tesla observed, apparently.

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    • on October 6, 2017 at 2:57 am Carlos Danger

      It’s a post marriage beta orbiter, a guy she can fuck on the sly if she wants to but would rather string along. It is disrespectful of you and still indulging her need for hypergamy. No woman who really loves her man does this stuff.

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    • what happened wit/da kareerist-kunt you were about to deosoul?

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  44. Similar but different; dated a woman from Idaho who wanted to have the “California Experience” before she moved back home. What in the world did that mean, I wondered?

    I was serious about her, and she was serious about me. Right up until she wasn’t. What she WAS serious about, throughout, was experiencing everything that SodomByTheBay could offer. She wanted to watch me have other women, she wanted to try more than one guy, she wanted to be filled up everywhere I could fill her.

    So that whole “California” thing was having as much h3xual experience as she could cram into a few years before moving back home where her family would keep an eye on her. Her goal was to move home, get married, have children, and live a normal happy life.

    Bookfaced her; got married at 40, no kids, hugely fat, “emotionally broken” if you know what I mean by that. If I knew then what I know now, rather than enjoying her, I would have gamed her into lockdown and made her submit. Too much variety is the fastest way for a woman to ruin herself, and ruin any chance for her to be happy in her future.

    That’s the irony of the redpill for me; it’s like a magic power for bedding hot women. Yet, if I’d known about it when I was younger, my n= would be LOWER, as I would have locked down a worthwhile woman and gamed her into a dozen children.

    The more I altright/redpill/realman, the less I want to libertine from poolside, and the more I want to fight tooth and nail to keep civilization alive.

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  45. For marriage gunslinger prenump is only viable option.

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  46. The streets of the world are full of discarded husbands …The bedrooms are filled with ZFG jerky boys that don’t hang around long enough to be cheated.

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  47. I have seen some women fake affairs (and heard one marriage counselor advise them to) in the belief that their BF or husband would start doing whatever they weren’t getting (I will give the counselor credit, he did advise them to tell the guy what they were looking for). One woman was throwing herself at two guys trying to make the guy she dumped me for jealous, really weird to watch.

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  48. Me walk? Bitch better (like they said in the Amityville Horror): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=patBBeY5wFs

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  49. I must admit that much of the stuff published on this site makes perfect sense.
    However, when something like this is written, I have my doubts of the legitimacy of such opinions (I quote): “What about beating the shit out of her?

    Scoundrels would argue that’s an option for a more enlightened age in the past. But we’ve regressed as a society, so the best move is to move on, and leave her to suffer the fallout by herself.”

    I have difficulties distinquishing between the islamic medieval ideology many writers in the sphere try to distance themselves from and the above statement.
    You might truly mean that multiculturalism is a bum on western living. But a statement like this is more an indication of competition anxiety (if you hold the afore mentioned statmement) than it’s any rational fear of western culture being taken over.

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  50. Walk? What are you afraid of you manosphere cowards? Can’t take a little competition from a vibrant strain of antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea? http://www.who.int/mediacentre/news/releases/2017/Antibiotic-resistant-gonorrhoea/en/

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  51. “if she’s still putting out and you double bag it.”

    Never put two condoms on – if that’s what this means. The rubbing between the layers makes them more likely to break, not less.

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  52. I recently banged a married soccer mom that confirmed pretty much every truth I’ve read here at the Chateau. Here’s what I learned about her:

    1. High-t alpha girl athlete type that rode the carousel in DC during liberal college years.
    2. Admitted to being a serial cheater on every boyfriend she had.
    3. Got tired of the carousel and settled down by marrying her beta “best friend” husband.
    4. Started cheating on her hubby after cranking out three kids…been caught twice by him and he forgave her and kept her around.
    5. Says now she feels dead inside and her husband doesn’t get her wet anymore.
    6. She was so desperate for some alpha cock she would do anything, anywhere with me. Stuff she wouldn’t do with her husband.
    I felt like a dick sending her back to her beta husband with her holes stretched out and full of my seed so I ended it. Admittedly not my best decision to bang a married woman so save your value judgments.

    You’d never know it to look at this girl…she’s comes off like the perfect subburban housewife. Stay at home mom, volunteers at her kids school, drives a fucking minivan …all the while a raging slut on the sly. Can’t turn a ho into a housewife is right. This was a serious redpill aha moment for me.

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  53. An addendum on men cheating:

    A lot of women don’t actually care if they are your “only” woman. They just care if they’re your favorite. They endlessly deal with cheating (presuming you’re alpha enough) so long as they can rationalize that the other women are hoes and she’s your “main course”, and as such gets the favors of being the highest ranking pussy on your buffet.

    The real trouble starts in her mind when a different woman gets moved into the top slot. That’s when hell breaks loose.

    With women cheating, something similar happens. The beta who stays after cheating gets demoted to orbiter status. No more pussy access, but she’ll string you along for emotional support.

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    • on October 6, 2017 at 9:56 am Muerte aka Luciano

      >”The real trouble starts in her mind when a different woman gets moved into the top slot. That’s when hell breaks loose.”

      yea

      i admitted to a girl that i cheated. it crushed her. she spent a night crying and hitting the bottle. said she couldn’t trust anymore and i betrayed her

      no contact for a few days and then i get a text on new years eve saying she’d rather die than live without me

      lmao

      i realized over time that she didn’t give a fuck about betrayal. it was the trauma of being replaced by youngah tightah hottah

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  54. Yo, bitch…

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  55. Since when beating the shit out her is belongs to the past??
    It might be that way today but it certainly shouldn’t.
    There is not a really good another alternative…unless you start to play according to her rules…
    Beating her sets a price for infidelity, price that she can understand and in the end even respects. Being hard disciplined sets borders and extracts a price .
    It also sais to her that you care and you are hurt but in a way that doesn’t make you a floor mattress, even the opposite of that.
    The bitch might be upset with you after that. She will be even mad as hell and go her way… but in the end she will respect you as see you a man of principles.
    This is the only way possible that a betrayal is neutralized and things can move on without further resentment and understanding from both sides regarding the price of such an occurrence.

    It won’t always work but it is the only thing that works.
    There is nothing new under the sun especially regarding woman….

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  56. I found a gf had cheated. So, fucked her one last time at her place and split early in the morning. Left a $100 bill on the nightstand.

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  57. “Banging another woman within the social orbit of your cheating ho is the MOAB of Dread Game” O blimey I did that, by accident rather than design.
    In a tent (reasons, long time back) so she actually heard it all, from thirty yards away. Lllozzlzollzlzlllzllzzllll!!!

    Richly deserved. She’d sprung an “ooops!” pregnancy on me just before I went abroad for a while (work), and when I said ” I have to go to work girl, let’s make that baby rich”, had an abortion just before I got back. Of course when she told me in the car, I cried a bit. For the kid. But let’s try and straighten this out? Nope. I then eventually discover she was seeing someone (not living together by now, work all over the shop, both of us, always have done). Visiting me at weekends (how women cover their tracks I have no idea). So that was that.

    Year or so later we ended up at the same place with the tents, and the girl I copped off with was her best pal and mentor from way back, who’d started her off down the “stronk radical womyn” primrose path, from naive undergrad to demented slapper. I was in right on the beginning of that slide.

    The laugh was, I’d no idea she’d known anything about it, so my insouciant manner the next day must have driven her internally haywire, I now realize.

    She later (again, years later) drunkenly confessed to another of our female friends that she would never get over me. Well fuck that sugartits, you dumped me. Hard. But not as hard as what I stuck in your heroine, as you well know. And worse, you committed (legal) murder. Unforgiven.
    I never think about her now, except when I’m reminded by e.g. this post. And I still chuckle. Damn that tent was cramped and sweaty.

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  58. I have a slightly different take – that of someone trapped behind the lines of marriage: if you can control your emotions, look at the evidence as your ticket out without giving over half (or, at least limiting your damage). Sit back, collect evidence, bide your time and when you have enough, pull the trigger.

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  59. Sometimes reality is unfortunately not that easy. I am in a situation, where I am still wondering what I should do. I discovered the red pill about a year ago, in the middle of a midlife crisis. Since then I have taken serious measures to improve my life, with considerable results on the way. I am looking better then ever, having new exciting hobbies and I managed to convert my struggling marriage of 15 years to a never expected high – my wife confessing being in love with me more then ever before, unlimited excess to great sex, etc. Note, that we also have three great kids (Age of 7, 12, 14) together.
    On the way I confronted her a few months ago with my long lingering doubt of her cheating on me a few years back, in the darkest days of me turning beta. She confessed ashamed altogether 3 (!) very different instances: 9 years ago a few-month-lasting love affair with a black capoeira asshole from Brazil, 8 years ago a one-night-stand with a former class mate, and 2 years ago a random ONS with a total stranger hippie on her one-week-vacation alone. Although I suspected all that already back in my beta days, I was still devastated. She told me that she actually regretted all three of them. Actually she told me, that I am definitely the best lover of all three (the class-mate thing didn´t even work out, because of erectile-disfunction of the guy, the hippie was a minute-man, and the love affair, that started it all, was just not that great after the initial momentum was gone). She said these things are all long-gone-past for her (I know, the hamster at work). I actually tend to believe her, even if you reading this may not be that convincing. I would like to avoid the trap of falling into self-pity, I know now at which point I screwed up slipping in betahood, but I still believe that this is no excuse for her disrespect.
    Now I am becoming a different man. Or, better to say, I am becoming a man again. I am standing for a decision: walk, or stay. If I walk, it means: a broken family and financial uncertainty, but freedom and dignity. If I stay… well, I think am emotionally detached enough to start relearning game install dread and start actually fucking around to make up for my lost chances. I guess she would even tolerate it in the mindset she is by now. I can still leave her in 5 or 10 years. At the moment I enjoy seeing her regret and never expected submissive art, but I am also a little disgusted just on the thought of being a husband cheated on.
    Leaving is a tough call if you have 15 years of life time investment in 3 children. But I also want them to know, that I am a man, not only a father. Currently I think I would like to grow even stronger before I pull the plug. I have no hurry, I can stay, improve, raise my SMV and then, when she doesn´t matter anymore, I can still go. Any thoughts?

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