How To Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend

Recovering Beta has what I consider an important Game-related question about girlfriend management.

Need game advice guys!

If a girl you been seeing starts to lose respect for you.

Do you call her out and say: “- I feel that I don’t get the respect and admiration from you and its a big turn off for me”

jfc no. Pity ploys never work unless you’re a rape-y syrian refugee. That’ll only earn her growing contempt.

…or something like “- Cut that shit off right now. I need respect from you or its over”?

The first half of this response is good. But you should’ve stopped there. When you spell out the reason for your demand, it loses potency. Telling a girl you “need respect” is borderline mewling. If you have to ask for it, you don’t deserve it, and you’re not getting it.

Because I believe respect is something a guy earns, not demand and calling a girl out on this may even make her feel even less respectful for you.
Because I just admitted to her that she is losing respect for me, something she might even noticed herself.

What to do?

Exactly, you verbalized the reality of her disrespect, validating it in her mind. Instead of causing her to reconsider treating you shittily, she’ll double down in the reconfirmed belief that you’re not worth her feminine respect.

What you should do is call her out when she disrespects you, but without airing demands for more “respect” that you feel you “aren’t getting”, which will almost always sound like the butthurt pleas of a lower value man. Just tell her to cut the bullshit, and if she keeps it up, kick her out (or kick yourself out).

If she’s disrespecting you as a shit test of your character because you’ve acted too beta of late for her taste, then slapping her with the verbal pimp hand and walking out if she doesn’t comply will encourage her to reassess your alpha cred, and she’ll likely come back to you full of apology and begging for a reconciliation bang.

If, otoh, she’s disrespecting you because she has lost that loving feeling and is just fishing for a way out, then walking yourself out of her life will give her the denouement she wants while preserving your masculine dignity. Either way, you win.

This is the short-term solution. Long-term, you’ll want to apply some patented CH Dread Game to permanently reorient her behavior towards a more respectful tone. There are only so many times you can tell a girl to cut the shit before her excessive need to be dominated and told to shut up soils your spirit. You want to avoid girls who incessantly crave their disciplining; this is the kind of shrew who will cheat the moment you slip up and forget to administer her daily ration of taming.





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  1. […] How To Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend […]

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  2. on October 4, 2017 at 2:39 pm Muerte aka Luciano

    >”Do you call her out and say: “- I feel that I don’t get the respect and admiration from you and its a big turn off for me””

    he needs some serious work if this shit actually went thru his head

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    • Never say “I feel” or “I think” as a man. And don’t say “for me”. It’s too passive. Always use you, not I, statements.

      Even though it’s still beta, look at how much the statement improves with these minor edits:

      “You’re neither respecting nor admiring me and it’s turning me off.”

      Like I said, it still sounds needy, but witness the improvement.

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      • Say “cut that fucking shit out or you’re out of here.” She KNOWS what she is doing. Do not explain it to her, see through her and tell her to cut it the fuck out or hit the bricks.

        Watch Alec Baldwin’s cameo in Glengarry if you need help on how to deliver it.

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  3. on October 4, 2017 at 2:44 pm Days of Broken Arrows

    The preemptive breakup: “Break up with her. You reverse everything that way.”

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    • What is required of you is to CUT AND RUN before her doubts about you cement. You must be the one to leave first. Minimize face time. Don’t call her. Be friendly but ambiguous. Don’t inquire into her life. Laugh off her crappy attitude. Most importantly, act as if nothing is wrong. If she senses you are acting aloof out of spite the spell will be broken. Eventually, she will wander back to you, bewildered and intrigued, filled with doubt about her hasty judgment. You will resume a pattern of dating and sex that eerily resembles the first few weeks together. NEVER give the game away that you knew she was losing attraction if you want to avoid rekindling her impression of you as a weak beta.

      Doesn’t happen at nearly the speed of that Seinfeld episode but it is a solid strategy.

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  4. What is a bit telling imo about this, is if the issue is indirect, something like – “don’t bring that shithead girlfriend of yours round here. I don’t ever abide by disrespect upon myself” – that works, but if it’s a direct matter, and you say – “Cut the shit. That attitude don’t cut it round here. I don’t ever abide by disrespect upon myself” – you have said too much, you gotta leave it at “Cut the shit. That attitude don’t cut it round here”, because if you add the reason when it involves her directly, it implies you are giving her an out (like she didn’t really know what she was doing, covert-like, with her shit behavior, ….. you know just excusing it as general brattiness), but since she know what she was doing, that comes across as weakness (like a signal that you aren’t seeing it all). Man are the ladies machiavellian by nature. Seems pretty much like they can’t help it. Just is.

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    • There is an exception to all this stuff about never demanding respect, and that would be when your relationship is established. At that point, it’s worthwhile to explain that you need respect from her more than you need love.

      Love is good, ‘makes the world go ’round,’ and all that, but without respect the relationship will go to shit upon any excuse.

      “obey” vs “worship” in the old Anglican wedding vows isn’t there for giggles

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  5. “You want to avoid girls who incessantly crave their disciplining; this is the kind of shrew who will cheat the moment you slip up and forget to administer her daily ration of taming.”

    ^^^THIS

    this is what i’ve tried to express countless times on here but could never say in a way that wouldn’t end up with people replying that all girls are the same, you just need to game them better, etc.

    some girls will take more game than others from the get go because they are naturally bitchy, have walls up or whatever. that is a fact and we all know it.

    these are the girls that usually need you to be in top form passing endless shit tests every stinking day forever to keep them in line.

    then there are other girls who are easier to get along with using very little game from day one. and they don’t need constant diligence to keep them in line and happy.

    you always have to weigh the ROI for every girl. if you’re up for living the rest of your life with a shrew like CH describes, go for it. some of us are not interested in that kind of life so we screen those types of girls out and choose better

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    • CH:

      There are only so many times you can tell a girl to cut the shit before her excessive need to be dominated and told to shut up soil your spirit. You want to avoid girls who incessantly crave their disciplining; this is the kind of shrew who will cheat the moment you slip up and forget to administer her daily ration of taming.

      Yeah, either you’ve never been in a serious LTR (spanning several years or longer) or you’re not remembering stuff, but every single fucking girl I’ve met or kept on required the pimp hand from time to time. It’s like taming a wild beast. Every single one of them craves disciplining from time to time.

      With my life it’s like every two to four months I gotta discipline her. Physically by spanking her, or verbally berating her. I gotta let loose of the control, or she does. And she’s not the only one. I’ve had three LTRs before I got married, and it was like this with every single one of them.

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      • i’ve been in more than a few LTRs all lasting more than a couple years. my current has been going 10+ now

        while i agree that all girls will test you from time to time and you have to maintain control, there are different levels of that depending on the girl.

        i’ve been with some real shitty women who i had to keep under control in the ways you mention or they would get out of control. have not once had to physically or verbally berate my current girl.

        minimal shit tests in the beginning that required only that i show my displeasure with her and nothing more. now that’s a very rare occurrence. maybe once or year or every couple years.

        there are some comfort tests for sure but that’s a totally different thing and requires a different reaction on my end.

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    • not minimizing the need for game though. have to stay on your toes even with the best of girls.

      pays to pick well in the first place though. says you a lot of time and heartache. speaking from experience here and hoping some will take it to heart so they can avoid some of what i’ve been through

      like that socrates quote says…

      “By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

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    • not minimizing the need for game though. have to stay on your toes even with the best of girls.

      pays to pick well in the first place though. says you a lot of time and heartache. speaking from experience here and hoping some will take it to heart so they can avoid some of what i’ve been through

      like that socrates quote says…

      “By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

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  6. on October 4, 2017 at 2:56 pm Recovering Beta

    Thanks CH!

    I can add that we are in NC mode- no contact, since today. She wants to think about wheter we should go on whit our relathionship or not

    I havent slide once into betaboredome during our time together, being faithfull and treated her well. So I belive my chances are pretty good.

    But I will be fucking other girls during this NC. Just to keep the plates warm.
    I love her never told her that, but I need to put my mind on something else other then her right now.

    Anyway. We decided that she will call me in a week when she decided if she wanna continue.
    I will never call or text her before she contact me again. That much I can tell you all.

    But my question is…when initate the contact again:

    A) Should I wait for 2 hours and send her a message, saying Im busy right now.
    Call me tomorrow night instead?

    Or…

    B) I respond a few hours later and say I needed 1/2 days to consider my future as I do not want us to experience a similar disappointment again.

    Because I belive I need to reframe the situation.I need to prove to her that I have the power to choose. I have the control. I was going home under my terms?

    What do you guys suggest I do?
    Because I dont wanna overgame this.

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 2:58 pm Recovering Beta

      Edit: ” When SHE initate contact again”

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    • Even the mother of my boy doesn’t hold that much power over me. smh

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    • A) Should I wait for 2 hours and send her a message, saying Im busy right now.
      Call me tomorrow night instead?

      Or…

      B) I respond a few hours later and say I needed 1/2 days to consider my future as I do not want us to experience a similar disappointment again.

      ……

      A. How about actually getting busy with your life? Getting some stuff done? Lifting? Hanging out with buds? Taking care of business? Of family?

      B. jfc that might just be the most effeminate response ever.

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    • You are operating fully within her frame and you don’t even know it.

      What do you want out of this relationship? Let’s start there.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 9:33 pm Recovering Beta

        She actually said this Sunday that she needs two days two think about if she wants to continue.
        It took her 4 hours to break that and text me.
        I didnt anser and she was like:” You read my messages but dont answer them”
        After 5 messages and text her back and told her I was dissapointed of her doubts about us and that I dont know what a feel anymore.”

        She responded by saying that we need to discuss this by phone.

        The next day I got 4 more texts, saying:” I dont understand anything. You dont call me the whole day. No text…nothing. You said you like me.”

        I was thinking to my self. That she was the one who iniate this and now…she send text like this.
        My God! Women are a mystery.

        I called her yesterday and sounded just like CH recommended. Aloof, like talking to a normal buddy.
        And we decided that she can call when she know wheter to continue or not.

        So, up to that I handle it well.

        But now she has the upperhand.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 10:07 pm Recovering Beta

        CH!

        In my last comment. My nickname, Recovering Beta, somehow became Varangian.
        Could you please edit it to Recovering Beta. Very confusing for the readers.

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      • No. It’s a sign of your shame.

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    • A high school girl could have written this about the Chad she’s currently after.

      Your main problem is probably a lack of abundance. This girl is hotter than all the other girls you’ve hooked up with, isn’t she? Also younger? (but I repeat myself.)

      Look, the reason you are hanging by thread on this chick is because you don’t really believe you can get another girl as attractive as her. Simple as that. Don’t try to act hard by telling us you’re spinning plates. Just porking something do-able will do nothing to help you here. This is a *quality* issue.

      You need to prove to yourself that you can consistently score a certain level of girl, and then no girl at that level will ever have you by the balls again.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 3:29 pm CalvinDecline

        Yeah this^

        To really prove your worth to this girl…. just shoot her a text before the end of the week and say something like “don’t worry about calling, I’ve changed my mind”. That’ll really get her hamster revving and have her wondering “changed his mind about what? Surely he hasn’t changed his mind about ME?!?”

        That’ll put you in the drivers seat. From there, I can’t say for sure if she’ll reach out to you again, but if she does… no contact. Stick to your guns. Ignore any pleas she makes for clarity like “are you talking about me? or us? What do you mean you changed your mind?” Your lack or responses will slowly bring the answer to light in her mind.

        After a week or two she’ll prob try again, at which point, you can talk to her if you’re feeling inclined.

        Proving to yourself that you can move past this girl and search for bigger and better things will do WAY more for your game than stringing her along just because you can.

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      • Pussy loses value anyways. Remind her that every time.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 9:40 pm Recovering Beta

        William k,

        Yes,
        She is 15 years younger than me. Thin, blonde and a little bit shy.
        She was a virgin when we meet.
        She have never been to bars.
        Nor does she drinks or smoked or have a attitude.
        A keeper.

        Yes. The lack of high quality plates/abundance is really bad.
        One is a washed up bartender with ovarie cancer.
        The other one is fat single mom who struggles with depression.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 9:57 pm Recovering Beta

        Calvin decline,

        I like that but I would break the first rule…dont iniate contact.

        And it does looks like I’ve been waiting for her to text and now Im just pissed of. Or even worse…sulky.

        The thing is that I thought one should be indifferent. If she calls, she calls and I let her wait for 2 days to respond or let her know that I need more time to really think about this.
        Am I right?

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 3:43 pm The Philosopher

      When I think of this commenter as a person, basing it on the tone and language he uses or options he suggests…this man.. will have problems with other women even if he gets someone else.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 4:26 pm Captain Obvious

        Well at least his screen name is honest, and he is trying to recover.

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      • That’s why we are here to help and give him support. I think we (especially the older guys) have a moral obligation to help those who are trying to help themselves

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 5:42 pm Captain Obvious

        Yep.

        We were all Mr Nice Guy* once.

        Thinking that we could deploy Gentleness & Good Manners & Thoughtfulness & a Steady Hand to ride out The Storm.

        Little did we know that secretly The Storm wanted us to smack sh!t out of it.

        [*Until we got tired of always finishing last.]

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 6:33 pm The Philosopher

        Yeah i didn’t see the name ‘recovering beta’. I would suggest something tangential – boost your testosterone over the long run. Maca root, lifting will change the way you think and you won’t feel as helpless or liable to have women put you in these situations.

        For now:

        1. If you are with any girls even platonically over the next few days, put pictures up on facebook for social proof.
        2. Try to do a hobby or socialise and not think about the situation. if youre with friends, don’t turn it into group therapy. The more you obsess about it, the worse youll get.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 6:37 pm The Philosopher

        If you do break up, it will probably be a positive thing in that you know you have to improve. You have ‘feedback’.

        A lot of ‘beta’ guys never get that feedback so openly from their gf, and their gf may cheat repeatedly and treat them like old timber. There are many married women I know who sleep around with younger cads. Women with children and established homes. Secretly.

        You should count yourself lucky you will never be blindsided like that, for that long and never get the ‘feedback’ to change.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 9:41 pm Recovering Beta

        My mother toungue is not english.

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      • CO, that’s like a drunk calling himself a recovering alcoholic while he’s at the bar getting loaded.

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    • I can add that we are in NC mode- no contact, since today. She wants to think about wheter we should go on whit our relathionship or not

      look up blackdragons ‘soft next’. If you verbalize the no contact, it kills the entire point.

      We decided

      She decided.

      https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/04/10/how-to-win-back-an-ex-girlfriend/

      Just read this one now…

      I’d say greater than 75% chance she ends this in a week.

      Read this one before you have that phone call

      https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/02/27/handling-the-two-types-of-breakups/

      FYI you’re scenario #1

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    • It’s over, you’re corked.

      Time to move on.

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    • A few thoughts from an old man, who has been through this a few times, and done it wrong and done it right.

      1. Hard fact: Right now she thinks she has an option with you–keep you or not. That you will come running back if she says she wants you. She has no attachment to you whatsoever. Hate to say it, but a woman is like a monkey in this sense–most don’t release a vine (or a guy) unless she has another in her grasp.
      2. You have to make hard fact not true in your own mind–you have to believe that you have options. First, you must go lift. Deadlift and squat with every ounce of force and anger you can muster. Go to failure.Make sure you have nothing left. Go for a bike ride that challenges your limits.
      3. She is dead to you. Go out and find someone else. Find more than one. Get them in to bed if you can, but more important, show yourself that you are capable of gaming and getting sexual attention from other girls.
      4. If she texts you, let it sit AT LEAST 24 hours. 48 would be fine. You’re a busy guy with a lot going on, not least your new and very intense workout schedule. If you respond quickly, what you have shown her, and yourself, is that you will jump entirely on her whim. This will breed her contempt, and more ugly scenes. She will lose respect for you.

      How do I know? Because I have been warm and friendly in similar situations and welcomed the girl back with open arms. Big, and painful mistake. I have also let it sit and gone on with my life. When she followed up with a call, I let her speak her piece, and let her inevitably ask about whether I was seeing anyone else. Here, her imagination is your best weapon and ally. In my experience most women are much more concerned about whether you have formed an emotional connection with another woman. They will forgive or forget a sexual encounter if that is all it was. So I told the ex in spare, but telling, detail how intelligent, interesting and active the new woman was, how we talked so long we closed the restaurant, really getting to know each other. Kept it light and friendly when describing it. Trust me on this–her mind will fill in the blanks with all the crazy sex you must be having with her. Say “active” because the ex will instantly conclude she’s hot. Your words will not have the same force as her imagination if you slightly understate things. I told my ex the new one was a graphic artist and part time yoga instructor [I made up the yoga part, but she was in great shape]. Did that feel good?

      Damn right it did. Now go forth and conquer.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 5:48 pm Captain Obvious

        “She has no attachment to you whatsoever.”

        This is why it’s so crucial that you not take her back.

        Her Hamster has lost the tinglezzzezes.

        It’s over.

        And even if you now go on to become a $10 Billion real estate mogul with a successful run at the Presidency, and her tinglezzzezes for you are suddenly reignited, you NEVER take her back.

        She had her chance.

        And she blew it.

        NEXT.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 5:49 pm Captain Obvious

        You are The Prize.

        Not she.

        YOU.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 5:52 pm Muerte aka Luciano

        aight oprah

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      • sadly i think CO is right here. it may be possible to salvage this if he stays detached and moves on with trying to meet other girls. she may regain some attraction

        but you have to be careful with that. she may confuse her jealousy and anger over you moving on with actual attraction and love. then once that rush of emotion wears off, you’ll be back where you are right now with her being basically indifferent and unattached to you.

        girls don’t cheat or leave unless they are already at the end of the line in their mind and heart. very hard to turn things around in any real way when things are that far gone

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 6:03 pm Captain Obvious

        Cracker, never give a girl a second chance.

        NEVER.

        The keepers don’t stray.

        And they don’t lose the tinglezzzezes.

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      • in total agreement with you Captain

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      • i have an example to go along with this. i work long hours and travel sometimes for work.

        i had one ex who broke up with me and another who cheated. both claimed it was because i wasn’t giving them the attention they needed, didn’t take them out enough, support them in their lives, etc

        in both cases i took them back. i won’t go into detail but both relationships got much worse before they finally ended. there was no salvaging them even though i tried my hardest thinking all the responsibility for fixing things/making it better was on me.

        fast forward to my girl now, i still have to travel and work long hours sometimes but she doesn’t complain, she doesn’t go out trying to get attention from other men, she doesn’t try to make me feel shitty when i’m busy with things or spending time with buddies or on hobbies.

        instead she entertains herself with her own hobbies if i’m not there. she tells me she misses me, sends me nice text messages when i’m out of town, she’s always home and eager for our nightly phone call before bed.

        most of all, she tries to be as pleasant and fun as possible when i’m around so i’ll want to be there. after 10+ years she’s still excited to see me when i walk in the door. whether it’s the average day during the workweek or after i’ve been out of town for days. it’s the same every time.

        that’s the opposite of the way it was with the others. pretty much routinely it was a bitch fest/complaint session, nagging, complaining about how tough their lives were, that they needed more of this or more of that, etc. it was so emotionally draining that i actually went on anti-depressants for awhile.

        life shouldn’t be like that. a woman should add joy to your life, support you, make life easier. if all she does is make you feel like crap and everything is your fault, she’s not a keeper and there’s no point wasting time on her.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 6:51 pm Captain Obvious

        “fast forward to my girl now”

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      • Old school wisdom, before the poz:

        My cool father,
        Said “Give her up, don’t bother,
        The world isn’t coming to an end.”
        And he said
        “Walk like man, fast as you can,
        Walk like a man, and done.
        No woman’s worth
        Crawlin’ on the earth,
        Just walk like a man, my son.”

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      • Dang cap I wrote a little similar below osmosis telekinesis? Lol

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      • I’m happy for you cracker nice.

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      • life shouldn’t be like that. a woman should add joy to your life, support you, make life easier. if all she does is make you feel like crap and everything is your fault, she’s not a keeper and there’s no point wasting time on her.

        I’ll go one step further and say if she doesn’t feel like her main job is to “ease yo’ troubled mind”, and figures YOU’RE there to take care of her little problems, well…

        Anyway, good on ya, Cracker, for finding a good one.

        Your words will not have the same force as her imagination if you slightly understate things.

        PAY EXTRA CLOSE ATTENTION TO THIS TRUISM, YOUSE YOUNGER YEGGS!

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      • thanks gunslinger and greg. means a lot
        the point of greg’s is right on the money too…

        “if she doesn’t feel like her main job is to “ease yo’ troubled mind”, and figures YOU’RE there to take care of her little problems, well…”

        that’s exactly right. she should be working hard to please you, comfort you, ease your burdens, etc.

        she shouldn’t be doing it just to keep you or as a favor either. she will want to because it hurts her to see you suffer and making you happy is her greatest joy

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    • She wants to think about wheter we should go on whit our relathionship or not

      LOL. It’s time for YOU to decide that the relationship will NOT continue.

      Verdict: Dump.That.Bitch

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 6:44 pm Vagina dominator

      “Because I dont wanna overgame this.”

      Lord give me strength.

      If you are sitting by the phone waiting for her to call, I recommend “Rectinol” and a break from anal sex because you are a fag.

      FFS, do you have any idea how much female front-hole there is out there at this moment in history?

      Do you realize that women are a burden that a man takes on only if he wants to have children? And if that is your purpose, you must be absolute master of the relationship and of yourself.

      A woman is toying with you and fucking negotiating with you and you are playing along with it? She is a woman for fuck sake! She is NOTHING compared to you!

      Wake up.

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    • You’re overthinking this. Imagine yourself getting head from a hot new bitch. What the heck would you do? Probably not care and call a few days later and tell her you’ve seen her text(saw her call), but was busy and then forgot to get back(because the imaginary bitch wanted to snort cocaine off your dick all weekend long). The forgot to get back part is important.

      Stop thinking that treating her well or being faithful means that much. Watch the Dog Whisperer because that shit applies to both human and female bitches. She’d probably find it more motivating to stay if she smelled the scent of some young girl on your dick when she gave you head than you being faithful. Just like those dogs in the TV show, women don’t care for niceness that much.

      Fuck it, I personally start believing that there’ll be personal time and family time when I’ll marry.

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    • Dude, I sure hope that English is not your native tongue, because your writing is indecipherable.

      Dump her. Start dating other women. Make sure she bumps into you on a date. She will be eating out of your hand thereafter.

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    • Let her go.

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    • Let her go.

      She has already come that far, if she wants to “think for a week”.

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    • Dude, don’t listen to these guys…buy her flowers and even a diamond. Tell her how everything was your fault and you’ll do whatever she wants to win her back.

      fuck I can’t even troll like this with a straight face. Basically do the opposite of what I just said.

      You lost me at “she’s gonna think.” WTF are you doing letting a woman think? Can they even really think anyway?

      What are you doing putting her in control of your relationship? If she’s salvageable it goes something like this…
      you: “yo let’s go get drunk; i wanna see you.”
      her: “I’m thinking about our relationship.”
      you: “lol…where df you get the idea that this was your decision? I’ve decided you’re mine, beyotch…when I’m done with you I’ll let you know”

      If she doesn’t respond in the affirmative, do not send another txt to her. Ever.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 3:57 pm Recovering Beta

        Trav777

        Next week when she calls I will wait and respond for 2 hours with text.
        Then text her and say that I need 1 or 2 more days to think this through.
        “Call me tomorrow and I let you now what I decided about us.”

        Thats the best thing I belive a man who is in my postion right now, relationship wise, can do.

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  7. Really, man or woman, don’t tell anyone they need to respect you. Makes you sound like a naggy feminist harpy.

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 3:02 pm Days of Broken Arrows

      Or like Cartman: “Respect my authora-tuh!”

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 4:29 pm Captain Obvious

        Well except there was that whole thing about Scott Tenorman’s parents…

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 7:20 pm Brad Matthews

        “Respect my diversi-tuh!”
        “Respect my uni-tuh!”
        “Respect my identi-tuh!”
        “Respect my ethnici-tuh!”

        The whole narrative works

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    • Yes – telling someone they need to respect you is really fucked-up syntax, even man on man, even if you are implying that as a show of dominance (like – “you need to respect me or else”), because if that’s your intention, then don’t be pussy about it, just dominate then.

      But one nuance here, with respect to man to man interactions. You can have a conversation with another guy questioning whether he is intending to disrespect you with a series of flippant comments directed your way – something like “you disrespecting me buddy?” – sometimes it is good to clear the air – reset the situation that way, hopefully towards a modicum of mutual respect, but if the guy doubles down, then it’s – “I don’t abide by no disrespect upon myself” and then let the chips falls where they may.

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 6:46 pm Vagina dominator

      Only niggers demand “respeck”.

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  8. on October 4, 2017 at 2:58 pm Muerte aka Luciano

    dread game ftw if ur more sadistically inclined

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  9. recovering beta == continuting beta.

    j.h.c. dude. just ghost and be done with it. GFTOW then see how things are. Sounds like she’s already checked out.

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  10. Grab her by the pussy and bukkake choke slam her?

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    • well if you do get back with a girl like this, first sex should be psycho game…tie her up and tell her you own her and put a little fear into her. Chicks get crazy turned on by violence actually…then cuddle afterwards.

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  11. If a girl stops respecting you give her a spanking. It works, trust me. And keep a serious face while you do it.

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  12. Just whip it out, wrap it around your wrist and say, “What time is it woman?”

    That’ll learn ‘er.

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  13. on October 4, 2017 at 4:08 pm Brad Matthews

    You don’t. Get that nonsense out of your head. No contact. It will drive her insane. When she calls, just say you have been really busy. If she asks doing what, make up some cool man shit like building a deck, brewing beer, training a killer canine, it doesn’t matter. Keep it simple, but NFW do you initiate. Ever.

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    • Yea the ex been calling but I don’t feel shit even though I ain’t been doing smexytime shit really I’m chilling with ex ex we get along great as friends that live each other I’m ok with that now.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 5:26 pm Captain Obvious

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 7:07 pm Brad Matthews

        Great man. Never show you care more than her (even if you do). Women sense that in an instant and it shifts the entire power dynamic to her.

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      • Yea I just woke up cause she laid down next to me with her but towards me I thought the sun was in bed with me. He he he
        The one that says bad motherfucker
        Yea that’s the one he he he

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      • Yea if I do smexytime with ex ex she might become quadrapalegic ROFL really though she had her chance she missed it.

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  14. Off topic,

    Concerning the latest (((gun control))) debate if anybody has any artistic ability and interest in propaganda I was thinking of developing a poster using the words ‘Gun control is Jewish control over you’ and possibly using an image of schlomo and a group of dindus hacking a blonde blue eyed family to death. Does anybody else have any good ideas for images to accompany the catch phrase?

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  15. the moment a girl shows a hint of disrespect, you state in a firm, low tone, loud, clear voice: ” stop that RIGHT NOW.” Then if she keeps doing it, you start to count loudly “ONE.” If she doesn’t take then hint and keeps misbehaving at “THREE.” then you immediately grab her, take her over your knee and spank her. After about 5 or so swats you tell her “Go stand in the corner, you are in Time Out.”

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    • And if that doesn’t fix her, tell her “No cock for you tonight missy. That’ll teach you to be more appreciative. Remember, there’s horny girls in India.”

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  16. Simple. If you’re driving around with her and she starts bawling, just drop her off in her house if nearby, or at a parking lot. That’s how I ended my last serious relationship, about five years ago.

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  17. “jfc no. Pity ploys never work unless you’re a rape-y syrian refugee. That’ll only earn her growing contempt.”

    Another tactic is to point out her behavior is racist against white men. See these brainwashed liberal women hate white men, but respect (if you can call it that) these browns. These browns when you look at the situation objectively are the most undeserving men (if you can call them that). They routinely whine, complain, and bitch about the weather like faggots.

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    • Its also why they are so ruthless at routing any white man who doesnt kow tow the liberal biggov nigger loving party line.

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  18. Game advice, distilled:

    Never give a woman a free kick.

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  19. -I feel that I don’t get the respect and admiration from you and its a big turn off for me

    I kid, I kid. But definitely stay away from anything that sounds or feels like neediness. It’s the sort of thing a ‘professional relationship counselor’ would say…their profession is a racket.

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    • all relationship counselors do is make the woman out to be the victim in everything and force the man to get more in touch with his feelings and work on communicating with her in a style that works for her. no emphasis on her trying to communicate in a way that’s is better for you and no forcing her to be accountable for anything at all. anything wrong she might do is going to be excused because it’s somehow your fault that she did it. a bunch of bs.

      and men are not supposed to dwell on feelings and communicate like women. going to counseling when you’re already having troubles is a surefire way to split up faster. great if you’re trying to get out of a relationship while still looking like a decent guy who is at least trying. not great if you actually want things to get better.

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      • heh. I’ve had more than a few girls give me the “this is what guys need to learn and understand about women, their emotions, and what their needs are” schpiel, complete with links, books, vids, etc. and my reply is always, “this is what women need to learn about men and what their needs are: younger, hotter, tighter. oh, and nicer and more compliant.”

        that usually ends the “we need to work on our r-e-l-a-t-i-ohh-n-s-h-i-p” conversation pretty quickly.

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      • Coincidentally, for all this “we need more wymminz in various career fields” mode, this is what most women go to school to study. And inevitably, it’s the ones already damaged. Just another way to not acknowledge their own faults and blame men.

        And how much you wanna bet it’s these people behind those annoying fatherhood.gov commercials that tell fathers to literally “take time off to be a dad.” I rarely get worked up over trivial stuff but this pissed me off to no end, and I don’t even have children. Heartiste, if you’re reading this, you should consider doing an article about this.

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      • I’d go as far as taking away a person’s right to call the police if they don’t want other people to have guns they must believe they are never needed.still thinking that one

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      • I had a post-menopausal marriage counselor….she told my ex “your personality is borderline.” LOL. Not all of them are total bs but I agree with your sentiment

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    • Anyone who served in a warzone should be issued an automatic Mac 10

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      • The people saying gun control should have neither the ability to get a gin or hire security for themselves.

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      • I got to admit when I was American soldier walking through the German airport in Frankfurt I was jealous as fuck they got to have sub machine guns for guarding airport and I didn’t. Shit I didn’t even have rounds in my weapon on the way into Bosnia can someone please fucking get rid of the haters of our army people and find out who really was in on me and my boys going into a warzone with rifles and no bullets just our fucking looks on a train that took two days to stop everywhere on the way down. Then later I talked with the bosnians I mean we were around some dangerous fucking people without being able to defend ourselves. Got used to check Bosnia intentions I guess lol look at the massacre of those American soldiers bad Bosnian bad lol wtf then swedes that get made fun of here had a fucking personnel carrier stacked up with rockets and ammo jealous of them to and they had hot pussy

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      • The swedes just clowned us in every way and weren’t even trying they had beer for fucks sake hot fucking woman and mad armament. we had no rounds for Bradley’s a bitch nicknamed yellow drawers who looked like a troll who tried some sexual harrassment shit with me but even if I didn’t promise to not fuck with people I work with I would not of fucked her at that time. When we got to base at least we got 30 rounds though. Take whoever be making us not combat ready at all motherfucking times and drop them off with the lion with a rifle and a handful of shell casings.

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      • I want my boys who volunteer for armed services to be taken care of. I want them combat ready at all times cause there is no reason they should feel vulnerable maybe supposed to be like that but I think after basic ait they can be trusted and if you don’t think they can be trusted make it harder then.

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      • I want my boys who volunteer for armed services to be taken care of. I want them combat ready at all times cause there is no reason they should feel vulnerable maybe supposed to be like that but I think after basic ait they can be trusted and if you don’t think they can be trusted make it harder then.

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      • All I know is I have given America my loyalty certainly not because they deserved it bit had to be love.
        But I don’t owe shit for not being able to have a family I can raise how I want. Not being given rounds in bosnia and getting told I’m equal to people who can’t go three hours without a chick and I did almost 5 years without don’t ever fucking call me equal

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      • Any woman pushing equality bullshit needs to get in the pit with a man for takedowns. Let’s see it same weight. I mean the old hags especially.

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      • I’d go as far as taking away a person’s right to call the police if they don’t want other people to have guns they must believe they are never needed.

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    • And be able to walk around with it call em gunslingers he he he

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      • Oh and of course a license to kill
        Bring some old school knight shit to the party.

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      • Oh and of course a license to kill
        Bring some old school knight shit to the party. Ok to earn the license to kill they got to be first ones crucified.

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  20. Almost 72 hours feeling pretty good

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  21. Kind of why I don’t want to bring my wife and kid here they put my kid on drugs it be all bad better to live where they shoot drug dealers know what I’m saying.

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    • Its not Schizo. Lion is wrong.

      Schizo’s can’t do long-term planning, they have huge cognitive deficits and they most often have problems with vision (aka they aint sharpshooters). This guy planned meticulously and methodically and was normal to people. Its not schizo.

      The gunman’s bank robber father was diagnosed as psychopathic, according to an FBI agent at the time.

      Psycopathy is estimated to be 60% genetic. Given the nature of the crime and family history, Psychopathy is the most likely diagnosis for our Vegas gunman.

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      • on October 4, 2017 at 10:42 pm Carlos Danger

        He had some long standing connections to both Lockheed and the CIA apparently as well in his past. The second 4th floor shooter filmed by the cab driver and confirmed as the same night from his dispatch radio is a big tell this wasn’t a lone wolf.

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  22. Give her a belt across her bare behind.Actions speak louder than words

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  23. on October 4, 2017 at 5:41 pm Vagina dominator

    “How To Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend”

    By the throat.

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  24. My MLTRs know that, if they test boundaries too much or too often, that “Naughty girls get spanked.” They get one clear warning, and then they go over my knee, skirt up, panties (if any) down, and then discipline is administered.

    Pussy Tingle Generator Level: Niagara Falls.

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  25. on October 4, 2017 at 6:47 pm safespaceplaypen

    OT but lolol

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    • lol. that’s excellent.

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    • Holy shit yea said today if you took a dog and druged it to make it act like a kid in school and sit one spot people would be calling the humane society or even if ya didn’t drug it

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    • Holy shit yea said today if you took a dog and druged it to make it act like a kid in school and sit one spot people would be calling the humane society or even if ya didn’t drug it

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  26. Really though I used to just respond to someone fucking with me with a punch in the face but now I can desoul people with words that last longer than a punch and can make them think and really change their life. I appreciate that skill to be able to be hard as fuck mentally on someone and still be caring for their soul.

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  27. I had a fling with a girl who craved being disciplined. At some point she actually asked out that she wants to be punished and I told her she should fuck another guy then and she said I’ll kill her if I did that. Lol. I’d have just left then instead of later. I don’t know why she thought I’d kill her instead of leave, but fucking with her her mind was amazing.

    I wish putting your dick in crazy wasn’t so fun.

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  28. Really I mean any real chick I have dated never disrespected me so really if a woman disrespects you that’s it no More dating.

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  29. on October 4, 2017 at 8:38 pm Captain Obvious

    Las Vegas Strip mass murderer Stephen Paddock used his Mandalay Bay hotel room to spray massive aviation fuel tanks with bullets Sunday night, a knowledgeable source told the Las Vegas Review Journal… https://www.reviewjournal.com/local/the-strip/Las-Vegas-Strip-shooter-targeted-aviation-fuel-tanks-source-says/

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    • on October 4, 2017 at 8:38 pm Captain Obvious

      The bullets left holes, but did not penetrate the two circular white tanks, sparing the nearby Route 91 Harvest country music festival from a potentially massive explosion, the source said Wednesday.

      The tanks are roughly 1,100 feet from the concert site, where Paddock killed 58 people and wounded almost 500.

      Within the past couple of days, construction crews repaired and painted the holes, and FBI agents inspected the tanks and took measurements of the line of fire from Mandalay Bay, the source said…

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 10:42 am Carlos Danger

      Jp8 is impossible to ignite without tracers and iffy even then.

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  30. You can refer to me as “Lord Dreadful” or “Your Dreadship.” I go out dancing without Mrs. Gamer at bars almost every week. It’s been great for our marriage. She has hit me up for sex several times this week and she’s constantly messing with my crotch when I come near her.

    This Sat. I’m going to a party without Mrs. Gamer…invited by a pretty 30ish woman. It’s a house party, for you doubters. I declined an invite to another house party where I could have taken Mrs. Gamer because of my previous party acceptance. I got a girl in Paris, I got a girl in Rome….

    (Greg, these girls are options…I’m not banging them…I’m just enjoying them…spanking is always an option.)

    “I didn’t do it, nobody saw me do it, you can’t prove anything.”

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  31. If a woman disrespects you, you have several options, depending on your style:

    1) my favorite is to flirt playfully with the girl in a way that shows that I am enforcing my boundaries,
    2) give her a “seriously?” look
    3) severely reduce attention and affection to the girl

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    • on October 5, 2017 at 12:11 am Vagina dominator

      This is actually a pretty good ladder of “escalation of negative attention”. You begin by not taking it seriously and then move to showing you are taking it seriously but not allowing yourself to be reactive or manipulated and finally punish appropriately by removing attention.

      All of it is negative, unrewarding attention. Again,very good. Exactly how naughty children should be handled.

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      • Another time, a random girl swatted my butt because she wanted my attention. I put her hands on my chest and pushed her around the dance floor, grinning all the while. Then I left her. She got the message. People watching saw me enforce my boundaries.

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    • I’ll give a couple of examples of flirting playfully. Once a random girl tried to steal a hankie from my back pocket while I was dancing with another girl. I played my Broken Taillight Game on her after introducing myself. She was amused and got the point. Unfortunately, a couple of guys WK’d when they saw this.

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    • I been using this one too…first I joke and tease, then I get obviously put off and then I just clam up and completely ignore her. She lasts usually an hourish before coming and sitting down and asking me what is wrong or if I’m ever going to talk to her again and then I tell her well that’s what you get when you’re bein a bitch.

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  32. on October 4, 2017 at 10:53 pm Carlos Danger

    Steve Pieczenik says LV is a false flag.

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    • Lol

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    • Yea man and his lack of whatever
      You want to hit people hard collage of all the suicides and people getting the Fick out of here for last thirty fucking years and put it hanging off the statue of liberty in the other hand pics of all the soldiers who died.
      Oh to show what white men can do time magazine the Iraqis fleeing Kuwait pics of God when he is slightly irritated.

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  33. Think gonna lesson pop I coughed and puked and all there was was nasty black shit with the stomach acid fuck that think mountain dew more pure than Dr pepper for this shit maybe should be doing more beet so far 3 I think three days

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    • Beer

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    • Honestly not even hardship yet and got ex ex and daughter in house I keep getting food for and they keep saying how good it is. I think the food might really be tasting that good to them as they try to help me in my test and be Eve fuck Eve
      Really like you can eat here you go it is ok
      Shit out the Bible men
      M like no I said I wasn’t gonna eat and I’m not going to practicing forging my iron will stronger they like it’s ok eat like it doesn’t matter but if I eat they will lose all respect for me little temptress lol

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      • Now I get Adam and Eve story the man said he was gonna do something like not eat for 4 days and Eve got him to eat the fucking apple and hated him ever after. Nicccccceeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!! Loving it I may go 21 days like naked and afraid just for fuck of it cause this ain’t feeling like a real test yet maybe until after 5 days I don’t know anyone want to put some jack on me doing 10 so I can send this kid to military school? Like that switch he he he

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      • Actually you guys would know what is a good school for high energy kid really like I do when I take kids out to eat when they get Andy and don’t want to sit still instead of yelling I take em outside and have em run this hill then they run down and I catch em then go back I resteraunt they calm as hindy cows basically kids are telling me recess was taken away they are doing like no physical activity and expected to stay at desk like I said people wouldn’t let someone treat a fucking animal like that a zoo couldn’t get away with it but schools are fuck that.

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      • Naked and afraid actually seems to me like they lie all the time only dude I really felt like was real I saw was one who ate rats and did well catching them and could of killed the monkies and ate really good but against the rules which all ready made the whole game false from the get not fair. Even at end the sick fucks had to make him lie like everyone else did and fake like he couldn’t swim to the boat cause cramp which they were eating bananas so no lack of potassium for sure total bullshit then all the episodes where the people get giving some food at around the same day every time they magically find something. Where a woman makes it on her own u can tell they just give her food. I know a woman can survive 21 days getting her own food I seen my wife’s mom do it and feed other people so that is not the issue that shoe would be a thousand tes more awesome without the lies I see in my opinion but more people would probably quit faster. Still pretty cool shoe but really no food would see a lot more real ingenuity. Like making 50 rat traps like an assembly line and digging a pit with pungi sticks and eating like Savage Kings. Like when in Africa they didn’t dig a pit first thing how I think I know a lie.

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      • They also didn’t dig a hole to get in and make Spears to have pointed out the open end of the hole so they couldn’t of been that scared of lions or even just practical defense to have a chance might of been in a fenced in area to sleep is what I think was really going on

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 9:03 am Captain Obvious

        “Loving it I may go 21 days like naked and afraid just for fuck of it cause this ain’t feeling like a real test yet maybe until after 5 days”

        While you’re fasting, keep the WATER going & the electrolytes.

        Pro-Tip: A single multivitamin tends to have lots & lots of electrolytes in it.

        Also, Walmart stocks basic Potassium tablets for just a few dollars, and you can munch on a few of those if you feel like you’re cramping.

        tl;dr == Water. And electrolytes.

        Don’t ever let your urine start to turn yellow on you. Your urine needs to stay clear, just like water.

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      • I was a little mad that ex ex didn’t get me chewables lol then I took the nasty tasting vitamin she did buy for me and said after is this like eating she said no it’s just a pill that’s why I didn’t get you chewable gummies cause that would of been eating dangggggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!
        I’m impressed.

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      • Hmm ethical question guys did cap get me to break my fast by taking a vitamin? I actually feel wrong about it shit.

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      • Technically I ate the pill fuck all though didn’t chew swallowed it with fluid.

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      • Didn’t do it to enjoy the pill all though my evil devil on my shoulder wanted gummy good tasting ones to actually break it but the onees that taste like shit probably ok to be able to eat to be able to safely continue fasting I think ethically ok.hmm

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      • I.can agree that eating gummy ones would of broke my fast.

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  34. Naked and afraid actually seems to me like they lie all the time only dude I really felt like was real I saw was one who ate rats and did well catching them and could of killed the monkies and ate really good but against the rules which all ready made the whole game false from the get not fair. Even at end the sick fucks had to make him lie like everyone else did and fake like he couldn’t swim to the boat cause cramp which they were eating bananas so no lack of potassium for sure total bullshit then all the episodes where the people get giving some food at around the same day every time they magically find something. Where a woman makes it on her own u can tell they just give her food. I know a woman can survive 21 days getting her own food I seen my wife’s mom do it and feed other people so that is not the issue that shoe would be a thousand tes more awesome without the lies I see in my opinion but more people would probably quit faster. Still pretty cool shoe but really no food would see a lot more real ingenuity. Like making 50 rat traps like an assembly line and digging a pit with pungi sticks and eating like Savage Kings. Like when in Africa they didn’t dig a pit first thing how I think I know a lie.

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  35. Oh yea and the ten thousand connex for Puerto Rican a lie too cap u hustler
    Do u realize how many that is lol

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  36. They also didn’t dig a hole to get in and make Spears to have pointed out the open end of the hole so they couldn’t of been that scared of lions or even just practical defense to have a chance might of been in a fenced in area to sleep is what I think was really going on

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    • Hole also to have a nice cool place to chill out while ya relax with your full belly lol

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      • If naked and afraid was real and those schools need a survival class I mean the dam fish trap thing they make if it was my families I’d cage off a whole fucking area of the lake put a gate and bait it and pick the fish I wanted like it was my aquarium.

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      • Holy shit abortion is a giant fucking Eve tempting American men and we failed to stop these stupid bitches yea that’s base problem right there.
        Shout out to major and apparently not eating brain is good.

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  37. Holy shit abortion is a giant fucking Eve tempting American men and we failed to stop these stupid bitches yea that’s base problem right there.
    Shout out to major and apparently not eating brain is good. In beginning of the Bible it says don’t let woman change your mind about morality.

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  38. Yea man and his lack of whatever
    You want to hit people hard collage of all the suicides and people getting the Fick out of here for last thirty fucking years and put it hanging off the statue of liberty in the other hand pics of all the soldiers who died.
    Oh to show what white men can do time magazine the Iraqis fleeing Kuwait pics of God when he is slightly irritated.

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    • You want to show white man prescision at death team of all snipers next problem area and the mass looting starts graphic pics of body parts and them all dead block the roads to get away create a kill zone and do what they trained to do.

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  39. Just switching to eating every 5 the day us could save bunch of money

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  40. Please forgive us god we fought wars for everything that was the wrong reason instead of killing in the name of God for the children.

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  41. on October 5, 2017 at 6:15 am Muerte aka Luciano

    did western men forget what a shit test is or did lifting the lid off hypergamy encourage women to engage in endless shit testing?

    talkin to my grandfather i get the sense that shit testing wasn’t really a reality for him. and he damn sure wasn’t alpha.

    seems like pre-d 1 v 0 r c e [email protected] womyn instinctively knew to shut the fuck up and not mess up a good thing. like putting constraints on hypergamy makes them rationalize their beta hubbies as alphas and the best of all worlds

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    • Your second assumption (lifting the lid off hypergamy encouraging women to engage in endless shit testing) seems, from my purely anecdotal observations, to be correct.

      I’ve known a rather exceptional number of older people for someone my age, people who were young before this ultramodern blather or at the time when it was just getting rolling (and were still carrying on the older culture at that point).

      The sample size is necessarily limited, but the idea of “constant shit testing” seems as alien to the world they lived in as electing a groid to the Presidency would have been.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 9:49 am Days of Broken Arrows

        Parents even in the ’70s raised their daughters in an entirely different way than they do today. They taught them to be polite, catch a good husband, be chaste until marriage, etc. All the things that feminists work overtime to undo.

        If you think putting daughters in lacrosse and soccer and making them “fierce” doesn’t have an effect on their relationships with boys — and then with men — think again. Same goes for the college carousel.

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  42. With each passing day I come to realize I may never find a quality woman…

    http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/05/health/why-women-cheat-partner/index.html

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  43. Get the fuck rid of her. Problem solved.

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  44. I think RB has A LOT of work to do just to get to a level where he might be at best, less vulnerable to unrequited love. I hate to say it, but I think it’s the way we are made which separates alphas from betas and can’t really be helped.

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  45. “Liberalism is white supremacy” shouted BLM protestors at William & Mary in Virginia this week.
    That’s a new one!

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    • It’s all just dominance, not logic. Being accused of being “white” puts people on the cringing defensive, so of course their enemies use it in order to trigger a Pavlovian response of groveling.

      Refuse to back down on the basis of it and they’ll be reduced to a state of baffled fury (as with Trump), not knowing whether to s*** or go blind.

      That’s because their dominance actually has no substance backing it up; it’s not a truth they even believe in, it’s just a hollow gesture that they’ve learned to flourish because most people are conditioned to immediately fall to the ground and start “knocking head” in front of them like a Chink peasant in front of a mandarin the moment they pronounce the Ritual Words of Anathema.

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    • He he he

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  46. Don’t explain, at most tell her “you just don’t get it, do you?”

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  47. “Because I believe respect is something a guy earns, not demand and calling a girl out on this may even make her feel even less respectful for you.”

    We guys must earn respect from other guys – but not from our woman. The Apostle Paul got that one right two thousand years ago when he commanded men to love their wives (whether they deserved it or not) and women to respect their husbands, unreservedly.

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  48. The love and attraction a woman has for a man is rooted in respect.
    No woman can love a man she does not respect, though the inverse is not true.

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  49. The 2017 Nobel Prize in Literature has been awarded to English author Kazuo Ishiguro

    Good ole fashion cockney me arl china

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    • Actually, Ishiguro is a fine author who deserves it.

      What is pathetic is the Japanese media claiming him as one of their own despite the fact that he left his birth country at age five and speaks English as his mother tongue. He’s about as Japanese as haggis.

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      • on October 5, 2017 at 5:23 pm Vagina dominator

        While Ishiguro is a respectable writer (we probably all know of “Remains of the Day”), his literary abilities are neither here nor there to the awarders of the prize.

        He has been selected as the winner bcs it fits in with the globalists’ race-mixing agenda. And *for no other reason*.

        As for being as “Japanese as haggis”, he is in fact as Japanese as his DNA.

        Do you not read here at all? Or do you not understand what you have been reading? Or are you saying that if I had moved to the democratic republic of Congo at age five, I would have grown up into a groid?

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      • Kyo, you missed the point. Doesn’t matter how long he’s been there, or what language he speaks. He’s as English as I am, ie not at all.

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  50. disrespect is a negro concept. it means you are not giving them unearned respect and are instead noticing their behavior.

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  51. Hey guys understand that women are SAVING marriages by cheating – http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/05/health/why-women-cheat-partner/index.html

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    • Naa they seeing if you will murder them pure death game on their part no other reason.

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      • What has changed I’m the last 27 years the abortion has changed they would rather be murdered than live in this death cult baby killing shit hole blight on the face of the Earth.

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  52. What will bring the us together is president trump declaring war on abortion clinics and people involved in it and Americans as a group men woman and children destroying them in the most just war ever made. Anything goes. Then we get to be cool again.

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    • Then crucifiction for every American who let it go on. How many blacks have attacked abortion clinics but have loot and destroyed and killed for other shit how many whites. That’s why I’m pissed at blacks they fickin around and not doing the job they were made to do u want respect there it is.

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    • dude, abortion has to stay legal…can you imagine how large the black population would be without it?

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      • Fuck u

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      • Show me the stats I don’t believe that black woman having abortions that much. Devil boy. Even if they are more reason why black men fucking up and not using their ability to not give a fuck about certain laws like whites tend to.

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      • Or maybe diversity also equals abortion being accepted now I can understand if the father kills the baby after it’s born cause he don’t want his child to live a fucked up life and have his seed go chill with god.

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  53. “Exactly, you verbalized the reality of her disrespect, validating it in her mind. Instead of causing her to reconsider treating you sh!ttily, she’ll double down in the reconfirmed belief that you’re not worth her feminine respect.”

    Girls are very vulnerable to neurolinguistic programming (NLP). For example, tell a girl she seems to have lost attraction for you, and she will protest but also may recognize it’s true based on her feelz and then decide YOU are not attractive rather than acknowledge sexual heat gradually dissipates in every relationship. Girls have zero insight, introspection, or self-knowledge — it’s nothing but feelz all the way down and YOU are responsible for her feelz. So if she suffers bad feelz, man, it’s YOUR fault.

    Vulnerability to NLP is why the (((gaystream media))) direct most of its ads at girls.

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  54. Donated for first time CH still owe 9900 more I didn’t forget just slow. Thank for the blog.

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  55. […] Chateau Heartiste’s “How To Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend” […]

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