Women In Love Act Like Beta Males In Lust

The behavior of a woman in love bears striking similarities to the behavior of a beta male in lust. CH previously explored this theme in lurid detail, and recently reader bw7and invigorated the theme with his personal experiences dealing with girls desperately crushing on him.

Heartiste, There have been a few girls I am fucking right now….all of them are around 2 points below my SMV. But I am getting regular action so I ain’t complaining.

One thing I noticed is that these girls will act the same way beta males act with hot girls. They try to entertain me when I am not in the mood. Like literally trying to make me laugh, entertain, put in effort which you just don’t see the hot girls doing for you or these same girls doing for other guys.

I play the aloof alpha card. suits my personality as well and I am able to pull it off pretty well.

Like this one chick, I never even showed interest in her whenever we met (thru social circle). I knew she was wildly attracted to me…she qualified…some comfort and she escalated physically all the time whenever we met. She actually made things happen like got drunk and got to my place unannounced to fuck me.

This is typically how 99.9% of false campus rape allegations go down: a mediocre girl with a major case of the tingles for a man strongly comes on to him, deliberately puts herself in a situation where sex is very likely to happen, and lubes the whole thing with alcohol because she wants the dick so bad she doesn’t want to risk her sober inhibitions making a “surprise, I might be a slut!” appearance at the moment of consummation.

The man, of course, is completely innocent, but the next day when the bitch realizes she will never be his Number One and has plugged into the feminist industrial waste complex the end of his life as he knows it will have begun.

I never made a physical move first….was just leading until the bedroom…..some kino escalation….kissing then F-close. Didn’t have to work for anything. Felt like a hot chick having to do no work to get laid. Played the aloof alpha card all the time and it worked like a charm. (never fell for her shit-test, total indifference at times even during LMR….no neediness)

I’d appreciate a more in-depth post on how women act with alpha males the same way beta guys act around hot girls.

Well, I say you’ve pretty much given all the depth the CH readership needs. A woman in the company of an irresistible, aloof, dominant, self-possessed alpha male will act not unlike a beta male in the company of a pretty girl.

The primary difference between the two is that the alpha male will bang the needy, try-hard woman as long as she’s decent-looking, while the needy, try-hard beta male is banging nothing but his head against a wall.

PS The implication of this post is that women are able to quickly and deeply fall in love with alpha males, despite their claims and romcom platitudes to the contrary asserting that love needs time to bloom. Corollary: Any beta male who tells his girlfriend that he loves her and receives from her a “it’s too soon for that, we need more time to see where this goes” response should accept it as fact that it will always be too soon and his girlfriend will never go with him where he wants her to go.

PPS Here are a few more examples of beta male-ish behavior that a woman swooning over an alpha male will display:

  • ask a lot of questions about him
  • laugh too hard at his lame jokes
  • get too butthurt by his teasing
  • agree with everything he says
  • eagerly accept all of his venue bouncing suggestions
  • pay for his drinks
  • make no effort to qualify him
  • excuse every lame, stupid, or shitty thing he says or does
  • take it up the pooper at his request
  • clumsily make all the first moves (with women, this means “incidental” contact with his erogenous zones)
  • try too hard to fill momentary breaks in conversation with fluff
  • misconstrue every minor indicator of interest as evidence of a blossoming love affair
  • apologize too much




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  1. The man, of course, is completely innocent, but the next day when the bitch realizes she will never be his Number One and has plugged into the feminist industrial waste complex the end of his life as he knows it will have begun.

    If he apologizes.

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    • gotta beg to differ with CH here; women don’t regret sex with alphas almost ever. Even when shown up and embarrassed, they still pine.

      It’s the gaming betas pretending to be alphas who get this treatment. It’s like when you take a chick home in the dim light and later realize what she really looks like in the morning when her makeup is off in the sunlight. The mattress girls see that they got played by a beta, and THAT. IS. RAPEZ.

      It’s the same as how a male-purposed sexbot is misogynistic but a dildo or other female-purposed sex machine is totally ok, yougogurrrrl. Feminine-primary social order. They can play you, you can’t play them. Seriously, this order would make lesser men even looking at women punishable as a crime. Women want to put a gate 1000 mi high up between their vaginas and any non-alpha. In fact, there were attempts to criminalize acquisition of pussy by “fraud,” including lying about one’s employment, income, etc.

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      • on September 28, 2015 at 11:21 am Captain Obvious

        t777, it’s the CUMULATIVE EFFECT over the years. I gotta get my graphics up to display the horror of it all. She’s not ashamed of her association of you, but moving forward, she will be ashamed of her association with any other dude whom her hamster perceives to be less Alpha than you were.

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      • on September 28, 2015 at 11:21 am Captain Obvious

        > “her association of you” = her association WITH you

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      • I agree with some of your dissent. There are 3 types of false rape accusations that I can elucidate. First, girls bones an alpha and wants more attention for it, second, drunken bang with a dude who reveals himself as a beta afterwards, and third, the girl who got totally used as a slut and needs to protect herself socially… this third case is the most common, IMO. Girl who got spitroasted, cheated, or banged out in public or at a house party. There is a very good reason that the majority of false rapes I hear of occur at frat parties. If there is discretion and no need for the girl to provide social cover for her actions, false rape acc is far, far less likely to occur, alpha or beta notwithstanding.

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      • meant house parties, not frat parties

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      • There have been plenty of high profile false rape cases. Not knowing the protagonists personally, one can’t judge whether they are “alpha” or otherwise, but their external features (e.g. lacrosse teams) would seem to indicate alpha status.

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      • Yeah, betas who have no frame but can be cocky funny get this treatment.

        Funny, an alpha can spread 5h1t about a broad and she won’t get mad but will be happy that he was thinking about her.

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    • on September 28, 2015 at 4:57 pm Experienced Father

      CH,

      You are a fountain of Game wisdom.

      >applause<

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  2. >This is typically how 99.9% of false campus rape allegations go down<

    ahem.

    I'm pretty sure fake ass accusing bros of assaulting hos by said whooo-oar is about 50% pointing at some random frat, jock, greaser whatever to get the sympathies from the crush.

    look, if said whooo-oar is part of the education rape complex, don't touch.

    Mattress girl? yup
    Jacky Coakly? yup

    It's their go to .

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  3. on September 28, 2015 at 10:33 am Captain Obvious

    PPPS: And after you pump-n-dump [emphasis on “DUMP”] the poor girl who swooned for your Uber Alpha Magnificence [your “UAM”], The Darkness grows ever stronger in her heart, and the sheer awesomeness of your UAM causes her lifetime notch count to jump from 0 to 1 to 2 to INFINITY. Meaning that she’s completely damaged goods for the rest of her life, and the probability [the “P”] that she will become a shriveled-ovaried barren-wombed saggy-t!ttied old hag of a cat lady spinster soars upwards towards P=1. This is the Master Code of Female Insanity which Eskimo Psychiatry unraveled a century ago, and which L’il Paris Airport Dude is only now reverse engineering.

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    • on September 28, 2015 at 10:35 am Captain Obvious

      Actually, that’s the “Weak” version of the Master Code; the “Strong” version is even more horrifying than that.

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    • I’m thinking they’re pre-depraved from any lack of buffer to hypergamy (ie. Zero traditional religious upbringing or rebellion against said traditions). Thus, no matter, she will default to the most masculine character she can get her claws in and proceed to n=infinity. If she can’t optimize the Alpha, she’s still a slutty mess in her head because her hindbrain (minus buffers) wants sex with a MAN and security in her late 20’s and beyond. By having a sexual encounter with said slut, she isn’t changing one iota or getting sluttier. The Alpha, or what she considered as Alpha as she could get, just optimized her plan.

      Now, if she has strong buffers (religion) and seeks not to be a ho, she won’t go down this road of n=infinity. She may go n=1 and stick with that, as the Bible says, or go n=2 and stop.

      Buffers, my friend…Buffers.

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      • This recalls the “Godfather, Part II” when the mob family member who is testifying in front of the congressional committee as a turncoat is momentarily flummoxed by the word and then, upon realizing what it means, says “Oh yeah, the Family had a lot of ‘buffers’.” Whether an organized crime family or an organization of feminist women, the existence or non-existence of buffers matters a great deal.

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      • on September 28, 2015 at 4:21 pm Captain Obvious

        > “just optimized her plan” ——— That’s the ‘Strong’ version of the Master Code. More when I have time. ||||| > “if she has strong buffers (religion) and seeks not to be a ho” ——— Dune C00n apologist ARBITER is going to love this story: ‘A Muslim man has confessed to strangling his 19-year-old daughter to death with his bare hands after learning from police she had been caught shoplifting condoms to have sex with her forbidden boyfriend.’ http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3342217/posts

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      • not all Muslims are like that, and she wasn’t a real Muslim anyway if she was having sex outside marriage.

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  4. Makes me think of that classic scene in Bridesmaids where the chick won’t blow him and Jon Hamm leaves her on the side of the road and drives off yelling, “you’re no longer my #3!” Alpha. As. Fuck. If she were in college, he’d definitely be dragged before a kangaroo rape tribunal for that.

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  5. […] Women In Love Act Like Beta Males In Lust […]

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  6. OT but had to comment. Rob Lowe (sounds like raw blow) was videotaped in his 20’s having sex with a 15 year old chic. When I saw him being interviewed today, he’s sitting like a fag. Legs crossed, hands limp, faggy skinny jeans. I remember chics loved him. Beta, fag, or alpha? Cheers

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    • i’ve noticed the same. i think he’s just getting old and lazy. low T probably adds to that. all humans naturally lose some of their feminine or masculine traits as they age. gotta fight it like a mother effer.

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    • With Rob Lowe it simy would not matter how “Alpha” his pose was or wasn’t. As a good looking movie star (especially one that got caught banging) his SMV with the womynzz was astronomical. He could have worn high water pant and a pocket protector and bagged 3 or 4 10’s by noon. I think CH has pointed this out previously. If you’re extremely Alpha or High Value in the eyes of womynz, they forgive you of beta indiscretions.

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  7. misconstrue every minor indicator of interest as evidence of a blossoming love affair

    Heh, heh… ain’t that the truth.

    A few common gallantries on my part have gotten me into more awkward spots… with dames in which I had no real relationship interest… than I care to remember.

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    • Reminds me of an experiment I conducted. I invited two different broads to my truck one night. One accepted and the other declined. Both chased me for months.

      I learned a valuable lesson which became another Gamer maxim. “Invite early, invite often.”

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      • In fact, that night I told both of them that chemistry and flirting are fun, but they aren’t going anywhere. Which, of course, the broads ignored because they were only paying attention to the nonverbals.

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    • on September 28, 2015 at 11:25 am Captain Obvious

      > “A few common gallantries” ——— Pro Tip: NEVER BE NICE TO PHAT CHICKS. They will think that you’re a beta/gamma whog [a White nog] who gets wood for the cottage cheese, and that beluga b!tch will never stop hounding you for your c0ck.

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      • It’s bad when you can’t be polite to someone without them thinking it’s something else. One of my friends thinks she’s the hottest thing (she’s not) and any time a guy is simply nice to her she thinks he wants her.

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      • on September 28, 2015 at 3:52 pm snowdensjacket0x0x0

        I won’t even speak with them anymore. They get crazy and start stalking you. I had one turn full on bulimic after I rejected her. Been stalked by two others.

        For your own personal safety don’t talk to fat chicks.

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    • no shit…i generally like doing nice things but you have to treat these hoez like shit. And even that doesn’t work to keep them away

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  8. Other things:

    Giggles incessantly.

    Tells him that she’s holding on for dear life when they dance.

    Upqualifies him.

    Fails to approach him on first eye contact when his SMV is much higher.

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  9. you know u got ’em when they constantly ask you “are you okay?”, even if all you did was just sneeze.

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    • ‘are you ok?’ Insecure chic that is overwhelmed by you. She’ll be devoted to you. If she’s cute enough, marry her whilst young. Or you might ONLY end up thinking about her for years. And years. Cheers

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  10. I got approached by some girl on campus the other day. She wasn’t exactly the type I’d shoot for if I was the one doing the approaching, but it served as a healthy reminder.

    If you’re getting approached by ANY women, it’s a sign that there are other, higher-caliber women literally waiting for you to make your move.

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    • Reservoir Tip: Bingo. I’m just starting to realize this. Just in the last few months, I’ve been approached by a 7 on the street, “asking for directions” when I was the least convenient person to ask, just stepping into a shop. And a 6.5 offered me (bizarrely) a small pack of tissue paper on public transport (I wasn’t sneezing or anything -it was just her approach). I number closed the latter. And that’s not even counting the approach invitations and IOIs I get.

      I have to remind myself that if 6-7s are approaching me and running “day game”, there are far hotter girls who want me to come talk to them..

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    • on October 1, 2015 at 2:06 pm mendozatorres

      Truth!

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  11. another one:

    they get furious at the periodic (incidental) reminders of their lack of importance to you, but will mewl apologies and beg forgiveness before you even have time to respond to them about it.

    which leads to another beta similarity. eventually these groveling women, unless they’re actually hot and sweet, will eventually make you sick to look at them. just like betas do.

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    • But how often do you find one like that who is also hot and sweet? Unfortunately it’s pretty rare.

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    • sounds like a keeper burke.

      and yes, a girl like that is a rare find. even when in love, most girls aren’t capable of being cordial let alone sweet and charming when they are in a hurt and vulnerable situation. their default response is to lash out with nasty bitterness and blame you for everything.

      find a girl who is hot and sweet like that and you damn well better do your best to keep her. or someone else will.

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  12. Staring. When they think you can’t see them in your peripheral.

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  13. on September 28, 2015 at 12:00 pm A Fist To Cry On

    Appropriate timing.

    A few will cry troll with this comment, but I’ll leave here for your input.

    Another beta male before excluded from the list: buying of lavish gifts/trips

    I’m currently in this situation (obviously a big hat-tip to CH for being the guiding light) — I’ve been showered with thousands of dollars of gifts and expensive vacations, all for the low, low investment of being an aloof asshole.

    My question to the Heartiste consigliere:

    This chick is pushing me for marriage. With my current knowledge of the marriage shell game, I have zero interest in this. However, my dark side makes me think. She, personally is quite rich – significantly more so than I (once again, h/t to CH for helping me around this). Split 50/50 after a divorce – I would come out significantly ahead.

    Is this one of the instance where marriage would be smart? Could I game the divorce racket and be one of the few men who wins in divorce? So far I’ve only heard a single story here of a man eluding the rape theft of divorce…

    Appreciate the thoughts.

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    • Always have an excuse to be away from her. A hobby-pursuit that requires solitude. Make sure she knows how important this is to you. Get in a bad mood when you don’t get ‘your’ time. This has worked for me. So marry her, spend her money, and take her in divorce if need be

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    • @A Fist To Cry On

      May work but check divorce laws in your state, don’t sign a prenup, and most important, don’t have kids, because the money tends to follow the kids. Also, no guarantee of getting 50% esp in short marriages..

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    • I wouldn’t risk it. Take all you can get while the getting is good, but don’t put yourself through the ringer of a divorce just for some money, endless hearings, etc.. In the end the only people who walk out smiling are the lawyers. Women just do it because they lack any other prospect.

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  14. Another important difference is the shit test. Women in love will now and then shit test alpha males and presently stop loving him should he fail. One should also take into account beta margin of error if he’s currently banging her. Beta males remain helplessly enthralled by a girl’s beauty.

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  15. It’s easy to start taking that kind of female attention for granted.

    [CH: one thing a man can learn from that kind of female attention (should he be the fortunate recipient of it at least once in his life) is how to stop doing the same thing with women he really likes. he should be able to see the mirror of himself through the eyes of his smitten woman in love in the behavior of the hotter girls he tries too hard to impress.]

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    • Ya, I can’t seem to stop taking the attention for granted lo these many decades. It’s hard to get up the energy/ambition to work hard to impress women. So I don’t and somehow the attention keeps coming.

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  16. on September 28, 2015 at 12:52 pm gunslingergregi

    speaking of beta or i dont know what
    i been away from girl for two weeks dudes talking about marrying her
    put a fork in this shit it is done he he he

    might be alhpa dont know lol
    chick yea he killed and cooked a duck for me today lol
    me didnt you have to work
    chick yea just got off start new 1 at 3
    me so where did you eat the duck
    chick his house now bout to eat
    me and tetin me
    you stay there last night
    chick no i stayed at home where im staying again tonight but what you mean why am i teting
    me so really a friend i guess
    chick and im teting you
    chick yea just a friend
    me yea im just jealous here board as fuck
    chick awww sorry
    me still happy your creating a diferent life not being owned by this town
    chick thanks me too
    me got to save an american woman there better be a heaven
    chick there is im here lol
    me rofl
    me i hate you lol
    chick what
    me jealy but yea life so funny
    chick what
    me you in paradice
    chick thnk to you
    me and you doubted my letters to you in jail i dont fall in love with shit woman
    chick i love you
    me love you too want the best for ya
    chick but you wouldnt marry shit either
    me yea my wife is a good woman
    me i wouldnt marry in us told ya that
    chick yea i know but you said u dont fall in love with shit but u dont marry it either told me u never marry me
    me said would not get married in us but yea you have been a bad girl in need of beatings i didnt want to give
    chick i know so in love i got dude here dont even know me got keys to their cars house keys and putting loot in my pocket want to marry me and im not fucking sucking or even sleeping in bed with them
    chick what
    me dude asking you to marry
    chick didnt ask me to but said he would yea he trys to get with me i told him i love someone allready i dont want no man right now dont know if ill ever want one but told him i be his friend

    so is she trying to get me desperatly asking the marry me question he he he

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  17. on September 28, 2015 at 12:53 pm gunslingergregi

    dam yea appears cant post a long comment

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  18. *Paying rapt attention to his stories even if it’s about something boring while excessively nodding.

    *Wanting to do something for the same reason I do that thing (i.e; she says she wants to travel more to get a break from her everyday routine. which was exactly what I had just said was the reason why i travel (maybe she does this subconciously)).

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  19. I’ve had this happen to me several times and noticed the same behavior. It’s interesting when you’re aware of it how much women DO act like betas when they’re attracted to you. That’s probably why they hate men doing the behavior because they are supposed to act that way not the guy.

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    • Well hot women also act like alpha’s before the’re smitten… Aloof, indifferent, forcing qualification, shit testing, etc. Game is backward engineering female social behaviors.

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      • And once they switch to smitten, you can’t act surprised at how well it’s going or your inner beta will jump out and make you bail. Happened to me on several occasions. On top of that, I remember seeing this video YaReally posted of this London PUA guy blowing these two girls’ minds by spiking their attraction so much that the girls could only run away. For me, on several occasions, the lines were flowing so smoothly, I actually noticed myself starting to sport a semi-club. Every happen to any of you guys? I literally spiked my own attraction too much for how well the pickups were going. Going too long without getting some going-through-the-motions sex with the old lady I guess.

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      • I find a little semi is natural when the vibe is going… And i believe it really subcommunicates strong attraction that makes laser eye game so effective. Happened last night for example, post in mod.

        You can do the exact same thing without attraction trying to “run game” and get predictibly poor results. Subcommunication and state transfer is real. And running away is just her strong ASD… Happens. Since I am also married i would say it perhaps happens more to married guys, she doesn’t want to be that girl and all… But maybe it happens as much to single guys?

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      • In stack

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      • Sentient, I agree. It’s just weird when you’re aware of it and notice the behavior. It’s like being a sexual Nostrodamus and being able to see what’s coming.

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      • on September 28, 2015 at 3:48 pm Captain Obvious

        > “It’s like being a sexual Nostrodamus and being able to see what’s coming.” ——— Now imagine that you’re an Eskimo Psychiatrist – Sigmund Freud circa 1910 or Herbert Marcuse circa 1940, and you’re telling your Eskimo colleagues: “Here is how we are going to unleash Female Insanity to destroy Western Civilization, and here is the roadmap for how we turn up the heat on the frog so slowly that it doesn’t realize that it’s being boiled.”

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      • c.o, it’s quite possible the guys you mentioned were reincarnated demons whose mission was to sow discord among humanity, and/or were under the direction of demons unknowingly. they would have therefore had access (subconsciously perhap s) to greater knowledge than humans can conceive of

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      • likewise, nostradamus had gone beyond the level of humans and had enlightened to greater truths.

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      • @newlyaloof
        You are talking about being ‘on’ and ‘hot’ at the same time. In the zone, so to speak. The perfect storm. All the clichés. It happens like that in art and work and social situations. Being able to MAKE that happen, at will, is the obvious goal, of course. I can rarely remember specifics when it happens. This is where I don’t understand comments or field reports where they’ll type out an entire conversation they had with a certain chic. I’ll remember highlights and particulars, but not the entire interaction.

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      • @Sentient, even though back in my younger days I got ass aplenty, I would never think of cold approaching. The thought of doing that without being nervous was like an unanswerable riddle. Now, my mind and body WANT and NEED to approach. I’ve altered my days by coming in a few hours earlier to work just so I can go out jogging in the mornings and open. Now lunch isn’t lunch to me; it’s merely an hour-long opportunity to open. It’s like a lovely addiction now. Neo-vision activated. Thanks to everyone in the community.

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  20. I agree 100%. The last girl I saw was also below my SMV, and like the OP I stuck with her because it was just effortless to get sex (Although the entire time I was eyeing other girls and trying to upgrade). What made it so easy was she always set up the plans and always paid on dates.

    Shortly after we first met we went out, but I called things off with her because I wasn’t feeling it. Then a month later we ran into each other again at a mutual friend’s birthday party, and after thoroughly ignoring her all night she kept trying to make out with me. Fast forward to the end of a night filled with her buying me drinks and she plopped down $150 to get a hotel room where we fucked. Had our SMV’s been reversed I could’ve been the one buying her drinks and paying tons of money just to get her to a place close by where we could fuck.

    Meanwhile, the last two girls I’ve fucked I spent a combined $7 on both of them – I ordered each the cheapest drink at the bar and brought them home. I probably didn’t even need to do this gesture since the IOI’s were out of control. But this taught me that pussy is valueless if you have enough game. Only a fool would try to win a girl over by buying her a fancy dinner when a PBR might work better.

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  21. You see this in dance a lot

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  22. There’s a feedback loop I’ve noticed here more than a few times – the more beta she becomes, the more alpha-aloof I am and vice versa – which is pretty obvious and yet, when experienced, full of lightbulb “duh” realization.

    A few other traits seen – neediness, wistful “I wish I was there too!”, reporting, willingness to run errands and tooooons of emotional checkups like “Hey – are you okay?”, etc which are summarily ignored.

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  23. Nelyaloof, it’s happened to me before. I’ve also had it where all of a sudden I was going so smooth I got the “you must be a player” shit test and had to hold frame in it to win the prize. It happens that sometimes your game is too good, just like how sometimes it doesn’t go so smooth, and I’ve had things blow up in my face. If you approach enough it happens good and bad results. I’ve also self examined myself, and now I do several “warm up” approaches to get warmed up and in the zone. It was a necessary self assessment to be solid in approaching & getting my best results. I now always make it a point to be social to someone anywhere I go even if it’s just bs small talking a McDonald’s cashier.

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    • @Ben, yeah I’ve amped up my social 10-fold in the last few months. I’ve noticed it really reduces the approach anxiety. And you get to know a lot more people, which is overall cool.

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    • when I’m about to make out with a chick on an airplane, it’s so by-the-numbers that they’re asking me if I make out with a chick on every flight…kinda, yeah. I don’t have a glib answer for that one. Maybe I will say “no sometimes the mfin airline puts me next to a gd fat guy”

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  24. on September 28, 2015 at 2:36 pm she was virgin; now she begs to toss my salad

    smh

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  25. OT: CH, not sure if you’ve already covered this, but there’s a new survey study out from Chapman University here in OC that shows what men and women most prefer in their partners. Not surprisingly, rich women prefer rich men and rich men prefer young, slender women. Where have we heard this before…?

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    • on September 28, 2015 at 3:50 pm Captain Obvious

      LBF, correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe that GBFM wrote an epic poem about that very topic.

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      • You may be right. The study is due to be published in the journal ‘Personality and Individual Differences’ in January 2016. I love it how researchers are always shocked, SHOCKED!!! at truths already taken as givens here at the Chateau.

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    • on September 28, 2015 at 4:49 pm Diversity Is Good

      But, but, muh EEKWALITEE! Noes, it can’t be true.

      Feminism, ignoring science since forever.

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  26. NFL players girlfriends: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=169074083

    Evidence for the following: Thin blond white women are the most prized commodities on earth, and they are scarce and declining.

    and

    White men’s obsession with football gives blacks status, fame and money that make white women attracted to them. Beta white men… they are their own undoing.

    [CH: i stopped watching or caring about american football. i switched to another football-like sport that is a decidedly whiter shade of pale.
    ps this still don’t mean i go around like a total chode wearing the names or uniforms of alpha athletes on my chest.]

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    • These are organized amusements that the white male invented out of boredom. Such amusements, at their co-opted helms, should largely keep others out of vital world politics/strategic policy etc. When they’re not wholly fulfilling such unspoken filtering roles, maybe it’s time to pump some new ‘sports’ into the mainstream dictum.

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    • When people start talking about football (now that the season is here), I quickly tell them I don’t follow the NFL.

      When they press me further on my disinterest, I merely say: “It’s negro worship.”

      Women’s eyes get wide, some try to laugh it off, and the men seem to always look around nervously and start sidling away slowly, crab-like.

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    • And try not to give further legs to these Mudshark Mania websites… 😡

      Especially if all you’re allegedly doing is making a case for the fact that thin white women are the most prized commodities on earth (DUH!)

      That WAS all you were doing, right?

      Right?

      I mean, you wouldn’t want us to mistake you for a Cathedral-shilling cuck fairy, right?

      Right?

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    • All televised mainstream professional sports in the USA serve the same purpose as the gladiatorial games in ancient Rome. If people studied how the world’s institutions (including governments) and economies really functioned as much as they study these professional sports things would be very very different.

      How this society values professional athletes is a sign of how warped it has become.

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    • Seriously there are 32 teams and 53 players per team… If they were all niggers Thats only 1700 players and there are plenty of white dudes… Patriots are a mostly white team btw…. Negro worship is overblown in real life.

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  27. Gotta work on that Tom & Jerry game:

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  28. The switch to beta behavior is so true. In the last few weeks, the following have happened

    Divorcee Chick

    Got defensive when I said her fridge (with many pictures of family on it) was “homey.” Apologizes for her shitty TV. Says I’m at “top level” compared to her (she’s a teacher).

    Told me how she told her mom how smart I was.

    Called after some late night texting “just to say goodnight.”

    Mumbles anything she might say that might be “embarrassing.” Sends me text of her in glasses with apologies seeking approval, as if it’s some major disclosure against interest (I guess she wears contacts usually).

    Begs to go down.

    Indian Chick (13 Years My Junior)

    Blew her off for a week, shows up for sole purpose of booty call.

    Hugs all over me when she’s over.

    Goes to my room to “take a nap” and then calls/texts for me to join her.

    Makes bed, does dishes, and otherwise keeps my place clean when she’s over.

    Multiple unsolicited flirty texts, texts to say hi, see what I’m doing, etc.

    It’s easy when you see the patterns. It’s also easier when you’re spinning plates.

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  29. Thoughts on aftergame when “mediocre girl with a major case of the tingles for a man strongly comes on to him” to avoid a false rape accusation?

    My guess is that in many casession the unattainable SMV men acted unnecessarily callous to the slut afterwords. My thought is that letting her down easy along the lines of “you are a special girl and I’d love to have you for a girlfriend but fate blah blah blah complicates things.” Along those lines.

    [CH: yes, a simple, low-investment risk-aversion strategy like this is often enough to cool down even the craziest BPDs.]

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  30. The headline here is hardly surprising – it would be odd if it were otherwise. In each case, this is the behavioud of sombody who perceives himself/herself as the underdog.

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  31. Be on the lookout for this type of behaviour and gauge your responses accordingly. If it seems too good to be true it probably is.

    This attention can transform into clinginess and obsession which is indicative of BPD or Cluster B traits. They put you on a pedestal and idealize you. Crazy ex was like this, throwing herself at me at the beginning. When I finally started reciprocating…suddenly she started pulling away–another sign of BPD. They love the thrill of the chase but when they “have you” they lose interest. If it seems too good to be true it usually is. Flipping the script is why game is so powerful.

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  32. “take it up the pooper at his request”
    lolz

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  33. on September 28, 2015 at 6:38 pm A Fist To Cry On

    Another beta male behavior excluded from the list: buying of lavish gifts

    I’m currently in this situation (obviously a hat-tip to CH for being the guiding light) — I’ve been showered with thousands of dollars of gifts and expensive vacations by the current girl I’m seeing.

    My question to the consigliere:

    This chick is pushing for marriage. Obviously, I have zero interest… Except for the fact that she, personally is rich – significantly more so than I (once again, h/t to CH for helping me around this). Split 50/50 after a divorce – I would come out significantly ahead.

    Is this one of the instance where marriage would be smart? Can a white male in this day and age actually come out on top in divorce?

    Appreciate the thoughts.

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    • @Fist read my post above. If it sounds too good to be true….it is. She’s put you on a pedestal and is pushing for a legal commitment. Why the rush? Dig a bit deeper.

      Then you have kids, then she moves on to another dude, then what? Read up all you can on BPD and marriage.

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      • At first that didn’t even occur to me, but that could be her end game. Reel him in with lavish gift and then after marriage the big surprise: He actually has to pay off all the debt 😉

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    • reverse golddigger game. nice. nah marrying just for a divorce windfall is lame, and no guarantee of success with the court system and her best money can buy lawyer. just keep milking. you can shear a sheep many times.

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    • Here’s a thought: you’re a total utilitarian piece of shit for considering marrying someone for their money. Literally being a male gold-digging whore. Anyone willing to risk marriage on the one person shouldn’t have to do it with someone who is purely using them. Fuck you. You’re exactly as bad as the fucking cunts that do this to guys. Go shit in your hat.

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    • No.

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    • I have to agree with “themanofmystery2”.

      If this is legit, you are a cunt.

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    • You sound like a natural. If the chick is good looking, you will be fine. Your value and capacity too act on it will skyrocket after formalizing your relationship.

      i’m in the same boat w my current girl. Being perceived as in a relationship with a true high end girl is hands down the most discrete pussy lube there is.

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      • “Being perceived as in a relationship with a true high end girl is hands down the most discrete pussy lube there is.”

        yup. and the reverse is true as well. people see you with someone who is low on the desirability scale and your stock takes a tremendous hit.

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  34. Les Brigandes again, a French hardliners RealTalk ladies’ band. This time singing “The Great Replacement.” English subtitles.

    The chorus, musically speaking, is original and the harmonious notes inspired. I’m impressed on various levels by the talent and professional production quality. Sublime, understated choreography.

    Also check out their song “Antifa.”

    Writing starts things. Art follows. Then the sword. Alt-Right art is emerging. Degeneration is not long for this world.

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    • From a counter-currents article about this band:

      “There are over a dozen activists involved in this project including musicians, producers, editors, and actors. At least two of them have been evidently pregnant over the course of the group’s six months of activity.”

      🙂 🙂 🙂

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    • We would never have had the American Revolution without Thomas Paine’s an American Crisis.

      THESE are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of their country; but he that stands by it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have this consolation with us, that the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value. Heaven knows how to put a proper price upon its goods; and it would be strange indeed if so celestial an article as FREEDOM should not be highly rated. Britain, with an army to enforce her tyranny, has declared that she has a right (not only to TAX) but “to BIND us in ALL CASES WHATSOEVER” and if being bound in that manner, is not slavery, then is there not such a thing as slavery upon earth. Even the expression is impious; for so unlimited a power can belong only to God.

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  35. I had a girl once swooning so bad for me that she was “afraid to act how she normally does with guys that are into her.” That’s a very close paraphrase to her actual words, which I otherwise took to mean that she thought I might walk out on her if she pulled her usual crap. I eventually realized this entailed being a complete unhygienic sloth and giving demands to guys she knew would cave because they wanted the pussy. Standard predatory woman…but I have yet to have another resort to communicating the con game so overtly.

    Another possible sign of girls in love (as a corollary of failure to qualify) would be their inability to properly shit test, or at least abdicate the ones they are consciously aware of being specifically useful on betas.

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  36. I’m curious because I’ve never seen it talked about on the Christian sites is how much do looks matter to Christian betas. How much would someone who looked like Emily Ratajkowski effect them? Say if she was half way nice and not a too slutty past. Enough for them to over look how religious she is? Over and over I see it posted that looks don’t matter that much on those sites I’m curious how that would work in real life.

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    • Looks still do matter. But Christian men, alpha or beta, will look askance at a girl if she takes a more liberal attitude toward sex for the simple reason that she’s a heightened cheating or divorce risk, and will consequently weight having a lower notch count much higher versus looks than secular men would.

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      • I ask after reading about someone who was seriously considering a woman with a 400+ notch count and a former hooker. Later he decided she had too man issues but that was a rare redpill christian who had options. She was also apparently very hot. If you’re talking about say the very rare hotie like Emily Ratajkowski with a n=less than 2 then how many other things get overlooked other than giant in your face flags like her crazy man-hating single mother if she had one.

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      • I ask after reading about someone who was seriously considering a woman with a 400+ notch count and a former hooker. Later he decided she had too many issues but that was a rare redpill christian who had options.

        Back in the Middle Ages, marrying a hooker was considered a huge act of charity. Of course, back then, divorce was banned.

        If you’re talking about say the very rare hotie like Emily Ratajkowski with a n=less than 2 then how many other things get overlooked other than giant in your face flags like her crazy man-hating single mother if she had one.

        Nobody’s perfect, so it depends upon how blatant they are. With low N count girls, mental and health problems are probably the most important to look out for. Thankfully, girls with man-hating single moms generally either have a high N count or go lesbian, so the worst red flags are generally avoidable.

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    • Religious affiliation is a 100% sign of a weak mind prone to influence. In a chick, it’s probably good and indicates she is leadable. In a guy…..er, no….it signals a severe lack of internal direction that requires externalized control mechanisms.

      The only caveat is say, your Mexican catholic drug lord. A religious guy who chops off the head of his enemy’s is attractive. Some gay faced youth pastor with a Prius and strong convictions about “living Biblically” is just some idiot who”s wife will strip off her ring on a girls night out after she “loses her friends”.

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    • on September 29, 2015 at 5:20 am Captain Tautological

      Why the phuck would a White Christian want to marry the Eskimo-ess Emily Ratajkowski? And why is Mossad operative Talmudikim on this subthread dissing Christians?

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  37. can’t believe no one said it yet:
    does the dishes
    cooks for you
    does the laundry

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  38. You can’t claim alpha until more than one broad attempts to trick you into accepting her call from another phone (usually an orbiter’s) after numerous attempts from hers.

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  39. XD so true all of it

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  40. Fuckin’ whores… Post-Wall bitches make thirsty betas look like nothing.

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  41. Ok…so would someone please give me a bulleted list of how a wife, with same smv as her husband, acts. I took your dmv for females & scored 34 (and answered all ?s honestly- like no you can’t see my triceps, but you can see my biceps, and I’m doing skullcrushers like crazy. I’ll see them by next month).

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  42. False rape and her ugly sister, false domestic violence have been roaming around the family courts for decades now. It is an open secret. It should not come as a surprise that false accusations are now bleeding into the popular culture. The good news is that their marginal productivity is declining to the point where that and $.50 will get you a cup of coffee (probably should update to $2.50).

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  43. a slow but steady source of crazy-eyed shitlibs
    http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/series/blind-date

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  44. Well, since this has turned into “how to tell if a girl likes you,” I’ll contribute an observation from experience: Any time a girl brings you food, whether she made it herself or not, she is DTF. If she’s cooked it herself, then it’s DTF tonight/asap. The exception to this, of course, is if you’re already in a relationship with her (LTR/marriage). But pre-commitment, she’s thumping for worm-sign.

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  45. on September 29, 2015 at 1:27 am Bobby Cuddlefuck aka The Hamster Whisperer

    This is why you shouldn’t slum it. It’s pathetic to watch. You should understand why women are so repulsed by this behavior. It is truly cringeworthy.

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  46. Now I see the error of my ways. I’ve been telling girls I love them early on a first date just to get things off to a flying start.

    I’d have thought a great number of false rape accusations are not made against the man she wants, but against the man who hovers around and pounces when she’s at her weakest moment.

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  47. YaReally, Sentient, HABD, Wala et al

    Short “social” FR and musings.

    Weekend away with extended social circle (so no messing around for me). 20-30 people, mix of single and couples with kids, adults in 30s.

    Some of you may remember an FR from me last year about this group and how one married woman took a liking to me and kept talking about cheating and infidelity to try and “test” if I would be up for an affair with her, while her beta husband (taller, better dressed, better looking than me) literally stood next to her.

    Anyway, they were on the trip and she KEPT trying to engage me and shit test me, and talk to me and bring me in o conversations. I wasn’t rude and engaged her a bit (and passed a couple of her shit tests), but I really tried to be a touch aloof and not be near her too much, because I don’t want to bang her and mess up my social circle, but she just KEPT coming and engaging with me. It was so funny. Pity the husband though – even one of the other married chicks was chatting to me and talking about how this woman treats her husband like dirt – basically like her employee.

    I remember HABD saying about last year’s FR that all this woman needed to bang me was the back of the car and some isolation and I really think he’s right. Not even any need for alcohol. Isolation and 30 mins of sexual tension and escalation will do the trick.

    A lot of this is really subtle though – if I hadn’t been primed, I wouldn’t have noticed how she made an effort to be near me, or talk to me when I came into a room, or actively bring me into a conversation at the other end of the van..(like I doubt her husband noticed this time although he definitely noticed at last year’s conversation)

    On a separate note, I saw a 4 year old being disciplined which really reminded me of Gaming girls. He did something naughty (broke a plate deliberately) and dad was like “This isn’t acceptable – go apologise to your mother”. 4 year old ignores him and keeps sitting down silently. Dad’s like “Okay, I’m taking away your favourite toy” and suddenly, the previously impassive kid is crying and begging dad not to do it and rushing off to say sorry to his mother.

    Reminded me a bit of trying to break through and get emotional reactions from women – several of my recent FRs have been about how I’m trying to get better at doing this with women who aren’t “on” from the start..I think there’s a lesson to be learnt here but I’m not sure I’ve quite got it..

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    • Are you attracted to this woman?

      To me the red pill has stripped away all illusions around so called married or taken women. It’s all so impermanent… Of the moment. Meaningless… And that cuts both ways of course.

      The thing is she is challeging you. You have 3 options to put her in her place. 1 if you don’t like her just call her out in front of her husband. 2 If you don’t like her work her up and then leave her cold, showing her you are in control. And 3, if you do like her isolate and bang… Again showing her who is in control.

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      • Sentient – she’s about a 6.5, but she’s smart and funny and I can just tell she’ll be really wild in bed, so I’d quite like to bang her, but she’s not just in my home city, she’s part of my core social group of friends and knows people in my family and stuff. NOT getting into that mess. Also (as YaReally pointed out when I last posted an FR about this chick), she’s likely to turn into stalker material when I try to break it off.

        So basiclaly I’ll just try to maintain a bit of distance and let her cool off and move to some other target (which she may not find easily because most of the guys she regularly interacts with just follow her lead and she orders them around)

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      • Monty, I choose door no. 2.

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    • @Culum I recently banged a married girl I met at a party within 3 hours of meeting. Now she just treats me with polite distance—still fun and chats but will not make plans with me alone. She’s fun, but surrounded now by orbiters who i’m sure have no clue what she’s really like when she lets lose.

      I had the most unusual experience with a girl i’m banging. She came over after a month of me putting some distance between us. We were going to take a Jacuzzi. She strips down and I notice what looks like a squirrel on her crotch. It was the biggest nastiest hair I’ve ever seen in my life.

      “No, that won’t do” I say. On impulse, I pull out my razor…and proceed to sheer her like a little baby lamb. It took an hour! After that she blew me and I banger her freshly shaven muff.

      What was interesting was this talk we have of “comfort”. She is totally sexually inexperienced but was up for the idea because I had mentioned it several times before even going as far as saying I wouldn’t meet up with her again unless she cleaned herself up.

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      • Wala – Lol. Bet you didn’t think you’d have that experience when you first got into Game..I suppose if done right it could be quite a sensuous experience..

        BTW, not sure if my post to you about it ever came out of mod a couple weeks ago (maybe because of the name), but I tried out your suggestion of a pill to enhance my capabilities at my last session with a married HB7 I met online and it worked great.

        Early 30s, cute, in an “open marriage” (hello beta husband who gets off on pictures of me doing his wife). It was “on” from the moment I met her for a drink and we were in my hotel room within an hour. Epic 90 min session – one of my best bangs – the chemistry between us was great. Aided I think by the pill. She even messaged me a few days later just to tell me how much she enjoyed it and asking when I was back in her town.

        Unfortunately..I’m one of the 10% of guys who are hit by side effects of taking the pill..so I had to spend the next day in bed and missed work with a crippling backache/headache. Possibly because I self-medicated and took too large a dose..

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    • on September 30, 2015 at 10:02 am having a bad day

      @Culum

      once you get to a certain level, this stuff is EVERYWHERE…lol…good job on putting in the work…

      “Some of you may remember an FR from me last year about this group and how one married woman took a liking to me and kept talking about cheating and infidelity to try and “test” if I would be up for an affair with her, while her beta husband (taller, better dressed, better looking than me) literally stood next to her.”

      i vaguely remember this one, but this is a shit test to him…which he FAILED…but it’s not out of the ordinary for ‘equalist’ couples…and he’ll probably be looking at a frivorce when she hits late 30’s…bc she’ll want to consolidate (and chase alpha…bc she deserves it/making up for missing out/etc) before she ‘hits the wall’, and like other women, she’ll completely mistime the transition…lol…

      back of the car and some isolation is right, but…

      “Isolation and 30 mins of sexual tension and escalation will do the trick.”

      just for pedantic thoroughness…rethink this cause and effect sequence…the sexual tension/escalation (verbal) could happen in ‘the group’ and then isolation to ‘compete’…especially if she really doesn’t want to be ‘caught’ (as a shit test to hubby…)…the same as getting a bj in the bar bathroom…lol…

      “(like I doubt her husband noticed this time although he definitely noticed at last year’s conversation)”

      oh, he noticed…he just didn’t have the tools to address it…

      “Dad’s like “Okay, I’m taking away your favourite toy” and suddenly, the previously impassive kid is crying and begging dad not to do it and rushing off to say sorry to his mother.

      Reminded me a bit of trying to break through and get emotional reactions from women – several of my recent FRs have been about how I’m trying to get better at doing this with women who aren’t “on” from the start..I think there’s a lesson to be learnt here but I’m not sure I’ve quite got it..”

      that’s a takeaway/devalidation…

      https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/04/23/the-game-concept-of-devalidation/

      good luck!

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      • Thanks HABD.

        Yeah, she’s 35-36, so I imagine the frivorce is coming in a couple years – probably when the youngest kid is a bit older and able to take care of himself better and she can go back to work (she’s a housewife now). You know it’s a bad place when even the social group of betas with wives thinks you’re *particularly* ground down by your wife..

        Will check out the devalidation link – I remember the post but good idea to brush up on it again (plus gonna look again at those Julien videos on Youtube that YaReally keeps linking to about devalidation – he linked one recently on Rational Male with an amazing Julien clip of him telling a “cougar” that she’s really old to her face and her lapping it up..)

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  48. The risk with these girls of course is that the effortless sex might dissuade you from aiming higher. Always be closin’!

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  49. Reblogged this on XWorkx.

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  50. on September 29, 2015 at 5:01 am gunslingergregi

    average contested divorce in us 50k
    documentary called divorce corp
    pretty good show must see

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  51. James Bond author’s wife objected to 007’s “sexism,” and he caved in to her.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3251114/Horowitz-says-sexism-new-Bond-novel-Trigger-Mortis-edited-wife.html
    ————————————————————————————————–
    lena dunham decries twatter “verbal violence” after posting images of herself in underwear.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3253042/Lena-Dunham-says-stopped-managing-Twitter-account-body-shaming-comments-posted-underwear-selfie.html

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  52. To those of us who understand DNA, more so, reproduction through Meiosis cell fusion, this is no surprise at all, during Meiosis cell fusion the male and female chromosomes “hug” each other, during this stage of impregnation protein-mechanisms cut and paste entire sections (large sections) of DNA from the male and female chromosomes to swap places, the end result is 4 haploid cells, 2 of which have predominantly male DNA, blended with sections of female DNA (AND the traits that are accompanied with those genes) and the other 2 cells have predominantly female DNA blended with sections of male genes, again accompanied with the traits of the genes that were transferred.

    CH previously outlined that the most Alpha of all men have the ability to vividly imagine themselves being women, and thus, the ability to understand what women would want.

    The great paradox of the genders is that the most manly men, have inherited the better traits of the female genome from their mothers during this “hugging” process between the chromosomes, and most feminine of women have inherited the better traits of the male genome from their fathers this way.

    All these things become easy to understand when you understand that all sexually reproductive species are a SINGLE SPECIES divided among 2 morphs. And all the traits the original used to possess are also divided among those 2 morphs, and what makes a man a proper man, and a woman a proper woman, is the correct recombination of both the good male, and good female traits in a single specimen, bringing that specimen as close to the original as possible. Sexual reproduction is all about recombining the split halves of the species to form another ‘complete’ specimen, it’s all about reunification.

    In Greek Mythology, Zeus, the wielder of electricity, split the human being into 2 halves to taunt Prometheus, condemning us to a forever searching for our other halves, it’s important to note here, that the personifications of things like lightning or fire, are exactly that, personifications as ambassadors to what they represented, so when Greek Mythology mention Zeus did this or that, they actually say electricity itself is doing those things.

    In reality, the forces of electromagnetism which is what dictates microbiology, (and all things for that matter) have caused this sundering of the genes, creating the genders back when life was bacterial, and with sexual reproduction evolution as we know it truly kicked off, what followed, was the Cambrian Explosion.

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  53. on September 29, 2015 at 8:27 am she was virgin; now she begs to toss my salad

    “You will never be a player with that attitude man.”

    Most of you know what it means when a hundred desouled anuses are lying side by side, or five hundred, or a thousand … the things that gave us strength!

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  54. Runn hamster runnnn. Have a look at women’s responses http://ashevilleblog.com/women-speak-out-against-waking-life/

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