Accidental Alpha Game

A reader stumbled on a text schema that has the potential to light up vaginas from Tokyo to Toronto.

Dude. I just accidentally hit on a great way to sexualize a text exchange. I was Tinder chatting with a girl and after I spit some game, instructed her, as I always do, to punch in her number “and I’ll hit you up when I’m back from India.” (I’m really going fyi.) except that this time, I accidentally left out the word “up.” So, “I’ll hit you when I get back.” I then said “whoops. Meant hit you UP. stupid autocorrect…But I can hit you if you’re into that.” Which then led to a convo about hitting and I’m pretty sure she’s about to get punished soon. It may sound minor but it changed the flavor of the convo–and if there’s anything I learned from this site, it’s that the little things make all the difference. Cheers.

PS thanks for fucking changing my life

Better a sheepish alpha than a bold beta.

I think this reader would’ve had results just as rewarding, or at least as rewarding, had he not bothered issuing a regretful explanation, and let some time elapse wherein the girl could allow her hamster to roam freely trying to decrypt his true meaning. Spin spin rodent!

When a man hears “I’ll hit you”, his immediate instinct is to gird for violent battle. When a woman hears “I’ll hit you”, her immediate instinct is to wonder just how unbelievably sexy this man could be. Then, depending on the follow-up psychosexual feedback, she either girds for retreat or ungirds her loins.

PS Readers have approximately a six week window to try out this text trick before market saturation renders it unusable.





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  1. Simple. Brilliant.

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  2. OT, but how do I deal with the fact that every pretty girl I meet seems to have a boyfriend? I don’t understand how to deal with this…

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    • Just ignore it and press your agenda. Every halfway decent girl has a “boyfriend” of some strain. Even husbands don’t matter in many cases. All girls have buttons to be pushed. Learn to push the buttons.

      FWIW- picture a rock show. The audience is a sea of women. 90% of whom have a male I. Their life. The headline act comes on and this sea of women is aroused, clamoring, enraptured… All the band has to do is point to her and motion and she will follow. Remeber this.

      Start learning game.

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  3. A submissive bottom is the way to go, no doubt. And if she can cook, marry her.

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  4. on September 8, 2014 at 8:35 am Ted Cunterblast

    But does Kumar even know how to throw a punch?

    Rhetorical, of course.

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  5. on September 8, 2014 at 8:36 am Mitch Cumstein

    Ray Rice game

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    • “When a man hears “I’ll hit you”, his immediate instinct is to gird for violent battle. When a woman hears “I’ll hit you”, her immediate instinct is to wonder just how unbelievably sexy this man could be.”

      As Ray Rice and Chris Brown illustrate, women’s instincts prevail even when they SHOULD be girding for violent battle.

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  6. Sexualize the conversation WITHIN THE FIRST FEW SENTENCES. Strike quickly while the iron is hot. And a little “50 Shades of Grey” corporal punishment banter is a great way to do it.

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  7. “I think this reader would’ve had results just as rewarding, or at least as rewarding, had he not bothered issuing a regretful explanation”

    Or even more rewarding. That’s my vote.

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  8. CH,

    Have you ever been to Toronto? Readers harp on it a lot but I’m wondering if it’s as bad as people say?

    I have a job offer waiting there.

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  9. on September 8, 2014 at 10:25 am Anotha Snarkesian

    I like a good blunder into success story, but isn’t tinder that gay hookup ap?

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  10. Loved the disclaimer at the end, by the way.

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  11. I’m down with spanking. The word “spank” is a bit more difficult to work into a text though – but do-able.

    In on-line ads I will also self-describe myself as “manly and dominating – but not in a kinky way – much.”

    The nerves in the “sweet spots” of the buttocks co-mingle with the nerves to her cervix, vagina, and clitoris. The stimulation from spanking spreads to the nerves of the main sex parts. I once had a woman who would orgasm and squirt when spanked. We loved it.

    Hair-pulling and general forceful restraint also works wonders.

    To set the stage, I will be sure and physically pick up a woman and jostle her a bit in the air early on in the relationship. They want a strong man.

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    • Ultimately it all gets back to childbirth – chicks [invariably childless] who go off in search of BDSM thrills are responding to their primordial reptilian brainstem desire to experience the supreme pain [followed by the supreme ecstasy] of vaginal delivery.

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      • The terrible democidal tragedy, of course, is when they settle for fisting-induced or XXXL dildo-induced orgasms, rather than pushing out real, live, flesh and blood babies.

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      • A nation whose women get their orgasms from being fisted is a nation which is only a few short decades away from disappearing and vanishing into extinction.

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      • My experiences are usually with women who have had children. There may have been some women who hadn’t given birth in the mix but I don’t see that as the differentiator.

        Not every woman will let go to spanking of course, but they all love the sense that they CAN be dominated physically.

        Personally, the whips and chains and gags do nothing for me but a warm, glowing, freshly spanked bottom on a woman pushes some monkey buttons!

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      • > “My experiences are usually with women who have had children.”

        Divorcees? Or still married to Betas?

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    • on September 8, 2014 at 3:56 pm Pijama Wearing Ninja

      “Spank you very much”
      There, you can work it in a conversation each time she does something you might thank her for by introducing it as a joke children use.

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  12. mine’s a sort of ex international fling, so not totally apropos, but i told her i’d rape her when she was unconscious, and just got back:

    “No promises please, action!!!
    Smiling Face with Horns Emoticon”

    and her n=2 currently. you can’t really overdo the rough stuff on normal hetero girls. or at least you’ll do better overdoing it than underdoing it. like last time i grabbed a set of jugs in a bar the only issue she had was i didn’t really _grab_ them.

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  13. Wrote this a couple times not going thru. Excuse if double post

    OT: CH have you been to toronto? Is it a bad a dating scene as people say?

    I have a job lined up there

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    • it honestly depends on which neighbourhood you’ll live in. that’s what i found.

      pro tip – if you pick up a HB near/on church st. it will have a penis.

      have fun!

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    • Hey T-blast,

      Toronto is Canada’s most exciting place to do PU! Big challenges, big risks, big rewards!

      It is possible to do spectacular pickups in Toronto, including downtowners wearing the famous Toronto Microskirt®

      Get ready to swim with the sharks man.

      You do need to apply yourself, or you’ll wind up like the whiners who claim Toronto girls are bitches, self absorbed, unapproachable – yada yada yada

      The best way to break into **effective** PU in Toronto is to identify the good lairs (yes, that’s plural) and network to find good mentors, good wingmen. Ask on the better PU forums, and get on Cliff’s List.

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  14. im tindering alot lately an having good results

    today i got some girls numbers and im pushing for a meetup tomoro but they are responding with im moving too fast for them

    thoughts on sidestepping this or avoiding it altogether?

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    • on September 9, 2014 at 7:44 am Pijama Wearing Ninja

      Build more attraction and rapport.

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    • @Anonymous Yes, I get this. Some girls are just so so. If they’re keen they’ll play along and initiate chat.

      If you make a move and they say “I’m busy” and don’t offer an alternative, I usually wait a week or so, re-engage.

      If I get blown out or flaked on a second time…I usually play it off fun and light but don’t re-engage.

      “Think of a way to make it up to me” is how I respond if I get a flake.

      Then they may waffle and I’ll say:

      “When we meet up again you’re buying the first round”.

      Leave it at that…if they’re keen they’ll open you. If not, it’s Tinder…keep shuffling.

      I banged 3 girls off there. In one case it was a smoking hot 27 year old who was all chatty, then pulled back, then I re-opened. She was on a business trip to my city.

      Finally she agreed to meet up with me at her hotel at 11pm at night. We went to another place. She downed 2 champagne cocktails. I escalated. Back to my place. Wild night.

      She left. I re-opened her. She said she didn’t want to meet again. I said ok. Done. Next.

      I’ve since learned that until you bang them it’s open-season. They will flake, shit-test, push back. I just keep ploughing forward but without a needy and pushy vibe. Just offer a time and place…if she pushes back. Pull back. Wait and re-engage. See what she’s really all about.

      Some girls are just mixed up in their heads. They want to go out, hamster is spinning. They think a million things and talk themselves out of it.

      With that hot 27 year old…she kept talking herself out of meeting up. Finally on her last night I just boldly texted: “I’m back tonight, come over.”

      Then she said “I can’t come over, I don’t even know you…”

      I knew then she was up for meeting. So I said “You will know me.”

      She suggested a drink at her hotel bar. Etc etc.

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      • yeah online is a different animal. Had a chick I hit her up she saw my pics and she comes at me straight, when are we meeting up. Of course, I said, soon if you behave but you gotta gimme your # first. All complied to.

        Then we get into the txting, and it’s just boring…she says something about being into yoga and doing yoga instructing and I say some women like being on all fours.

        “Wow. So this is where we stop txting.”

        NEXT. DELETE. Got no time for a bitch that cannot take a joke. Half of these hoez will come on REAL strong virtually, will chase, flirt, innuendo, then when you try to close it IRL, they recoil and act like you’re a dirtbag. And other times, the total opposite they are totally goody goody then you get them in person and you are up in it within a few hours…

        If they flake or trip, just walk. Next.

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  15. I banged 9 girls this year…every one was into being spanked. The one I’m banging now in my “mini harem” is 26 and a bondage freak. I spanked her with a belt that left lines on her ass. She loved it.

    The idea here is that it’s not something openly discussed. You have to just do it…and see how to amp it up.

    My crazy ex gf loved being tied up, spanked and banged hard.

    My go to text with her was “Spank you hard” instead of “Hey what’s up?”

    But it requires two things: 1) an understanding of what turns them on…not just smacking them around but slapping their ass, tits and face. 2) knowing how hard to do it and how to amp it up…you start slow, alternate with kissing then smack hard.

    With bondage queen we worked ourselves up so much I banged her twice….we were both speechless after…couldn’t talk.

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    • How many live births [combined] have these NINE women produced?

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      • ZS who in their right mind wants to have babies with 95% of the women in the US environment – no upside.. you are not winning odds 80/20 against beating the cultural rot

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      • In a reasonably stable society, those nine women should produce between 18 and 27 children. But I’m guessing that there are close to ZERO children amongst them so far.

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      • You can either get busy putting buns in your women’s ovens, or else you and your race can get busy going EXTINCT.

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      • ZS, I’m curious.

        As one who consistently lobbies for men to go forth and multiply, how many buns have you put in the oven?

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    • I remember one woman who I spanked harder than planned one night. It was late at night and she was giving me an annoying BJ – it was frustrating. I got pissed and flipped her over and gave her bottom a vigorous wailing in the dark. I’m usually calm and deliberate when spanking but this time I was mad.

      The next morning she proudly showed me the bruise I had left on her butt from the night before. She showed me again two days later.

      I made the mistake of apologizing which is not what she really wanted to hear – she wanted confirmation that I would escalate brutality.

      However, my policy is NEVER leave physical evidence – like bruises.

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      • Broadsman, you wanna step it up a notch, and do the world some good in the process?

        YOU: There’s only one thing in this life which is more exquisitely painful than [fill-in-the-blank].

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      • SHE: What, what, anything you say, do it to me!

        YOU: It’s called natural vaginal delivery without an epidural.

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      • Force your voice as deep as possible. Stare her square in the eyes and don’t flinch a single muscle as you say it. And 9 to 10 months later, you WILL be a father. Guaran-damn-teed.

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      • sorry ZS – the grandeur of saving my race from extinction weighed against an 80% chance Ill be cursing my existence for the rest of my life b/c my wife and kids are selfish foolish rubes of a facebook society – hmmm Ill choose not playing..thanks

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      • “80% chance Ill be cursing my existence for the rest of my life b/c my wife and kids are selfish foolish rubes”

        As a red pill man, you are almost guaranteed to be among the 20%. So if fear alone is your guide, you are a weak man who happens to gave red pill knowledge.

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      • gave = have

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    • on September 8, 2014 at 4:13 pm Pijama Wearing Ninja

      “you start slow, alternate with kissing then smack hard.”
      That’s because women love not knowing if they will be loved tenderly or roughly. It’s why blindfolding them gets them off so much or at least my exes enjoyed it.

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      • @walawala I agree. It is frustrating I put a lot of work into not only the posts but the actual gaming in the field. And these other incessant buns in the oven comments drown out real comments.

        I did one below that took lots of time out of my busy work and travel schedule and its gets drowned out and all the noise or held in moderation. And by the time it does get put up. It is now in an old post. I just copied the comment below to a new post. But it has not shown up yet.

        There should at least be a tierd membership charge a little if you have to. So legitimate commentators have a way of getting access. I would pay. Most of your troglodyte basement dwellers would not.

        I am in the airport in Miami today and had to stop just to comment on this because it I think it is that important.

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    • Was gonna respond to this sharing my own experiences but I just don’t want another dozen ZombieShane “buns in the oven” replies to sift through when I come back to try to have a discussion. Fucking ridiculous that this shit is still going on.

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    • @YaReally and others on this thread…. 9 1/2 Weeks explored a lot of these themes and was completely panned by feminists who saw many of the scenes as violent and putting down women.

      How things have changed…enter ’50 Shades of Gray’.

      But check out this scene. It’s a role play where John (Mickey Rourke) is the bored boss asking his slut/secretary (Kim Bassinger) to crawl and pick up money while he threatens her with a belt. The schmaltzy music and the awkward editing make it seem like he’s being a complete dick. But watch the very end where he sits down and she starts laughing—it’s the “game”.

      Of course you’re not going to beat on a chick, that would be ridiculous and violent. But the emotional triggers for pleasure can also be triggered by pain: spanking, cracking a belt, pinching, calling a girl slut, bitch etc.

      I don’t know the full psychology behind it’s the same idea of haunted houses and roller coasters: you are put in a scary situation but you know you’ll be ok.

      Women want to be lead and protected: spank her, pull her hair, pinch her nipples and alternate it and do it in a way the demonstrates you know where you’re leading this and she’ll submit.

      Do it in a sloppy way…ask her “is that too much?” and she’ll lose that attraction.

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    • So like…..
      ….anyone else get bored by it, though?

      Real talk. You slap a girl, spank a girl, choke her while she’s on top or doggy, shove her face into the wall with your hand twisted in her hair, call her whatever names you can think of, tie up her hands, blammo-spunk in the face, blah blah blah…

      But then it’s like. Well, fuck. She’s gonna want to do that all the time with me now. And I mean..lol…you don’t need to climb a mountain twice. It’s only fun to climb the next hill. Sure for a little while it’s fun, but it’s never as good as when you first cross that line. You can only truly conquer something once, right? After that you’re just playing defense like a sucker.

      I guess it’s like opening up the lid on something and it’s shiny and cool at first but now it’s like ‘ya chicks like getting dominated, cool.’ Idk. The thrill of new hotties and the banality of familiar bitches, I guess.

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    • In the interests of adding to the decent comments – I’ve been experimenting lately with a little light ass spanking and it goes down great.

      Recently I did tit spanking for the first time (it was in a swingers club and I was asked to) – what really surprised me was just how hard you can do it and still really turn her on (and not leave a mark).

      Also – topical post on redpillgame.com – good tips on how to get into spanking with a belt:

      http://redpillgame.com/how-to-use-belt-during-sex/

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  16. It’s true. I’m not sure how I stumbled on this either. Several times over years while chatting with a woman via phone, SMS or online, have tested her with a half-joke about spanking her: “And not the namby-pamby, jeans-on spanking either. I mean bare bottom spanking. It’s all right if you need to cry. I’ll let you choose the brand of shea butter for afterwards.” Part of me silenly awaits the variation of eww, Lash, stay away from me, you have mental problems, etc. In all but say two cases, the response is girlish giggling. Think about that. A grown woman, with a mortgage and a station wagon, will giggle in excitement at the prospect. As for delivering actual spankings, that’s been only a couple of dates. But see Broadsman’s related comments, above. My findings agree with his about commingled nerves.

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  17. Here’s a classic Joni Mitchell lyric that makes the point that even a hippie chick like her appreciates male dominance – “Carey”

    “Come on Carey get out your cane
    I’ll put on some silver
    Oh you’re a mean old Daddy
    But I like you”

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    • Go on OKCupid (you can create a pictureless account). Answer all the kink questions as a dom, and the kink questions only. Many, many, of your top matches will be feminists, self-declared. I think it’s a yin-yang thing.

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  18. YaReally mentioned it before and it’s an eye-opening read. Read the Sex God Method book.

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  19. see Nymphomaniac: Volume 1 & 2 – gets crazy at end ..long.. boring at times but sadly true ..chics r loco

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  20. off topic – when the hamster is revved up, there seems no limit to what you can get away with (note btw that the Nigerian fraudsters are now living in England)

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2748186/Match-com-conmen-guilty-persuading-woman-hand-174-000-string-frauds-against-lonely-hearts.html

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  21. PA – how do you figure.. 50% divorce rate .. then the other 50% survival rate half the guys are married miserable – alpha guys get divorced too ..fucked over too .. unless you are a player while married.. I guess Im not cut from that cloth.. you can game your long term relationship to your advantage I agree.. but no one has that much control.. of environmental influences..and to retain sexual mastery bonding with a woman you live with.. with kids and real life.. I guess maybe its possible..but Id bet thats 5% club or better

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  22. response to PA in mod or lost to wordpress gods

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  23. irt got game now

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    • You gotta love the manosphere lesson further down the page–the woman who put her face on the page, Katrina. A close up face pic only, and “a little extra cushion for pushin.” In other words “I’m a tub of lard who’s too ashamed to show her body.”

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  24. OT–watching some early Big Bang Theory, isn’t that such a perfect example of life for betas in America? Leonnard, the nice, considerate, smart guy pursues and ends up getting the gorgeous waitress… after plenty of bumbling, put downs from her, and after, by Sheldon’s estimates, that she’s had 30+ partners and is getting close to 30.

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  25. on September 8, 2014 at 11:48 pm gunslingergregi

    so uhh
    met two 18 year olds in last two days that want to become doctors what’s the odds of that
    so the one dude is one that was trying to flirt with my girl before
    it was kind of cute tried to block her from moving out from behind table wouldn’t move I bout put him through wall tenderly
    but yea his girl putting on the ioi’s somewhat hard
    said my cologne smelled really good
    said she doesn’t want kids now
    wants to wait and live life first
    wants to be dr.
    told her don’t take all views from tv have 16 kids
    she is an extreme hottie
    bla bla bla
    what’s the play?
    now that it is reversed and his girl flirting with me
    he he he
    is this a bun oven scenario
    i’m tired of being mr. nice guy

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    • on September 8, 2014 at 11:55 pm gunslingergregi

      I literally told myself other day I want an 18 year old girlfriend
      the power of positive thinking
      someone is gonna ruin em might as well be me
      I can at least give em some decent guidance
      I think it is just an excuse for takin the easy way
      I don’t want to ruin young chicks
      but really someone might be getting em on drugs or some shit
      so with me no that won’t happen
      give em a taste for wanting the good life ya don’t need drugs for
      I need a male pill aisle 5 stat

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      • on September 8, 2014 at 11:58 pm gunslingergregi

        she was pushing the not have kids to hard I think it is an entrapment baby attempt
        I sensed a ripple in the force
        or really she prob don’t want em ride the cock carasel till 35 and shit
        really what she was saying

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      • on September 9, 2014 at 12:00 am gunslingergregi

        she really said have kids after 30
        so 12 years of the cock carasel
        already factored in

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      • on September 9, 2014 at 1:27 am Pijama Wearing Ninja

        What’s so unnatural? I’m 25 and most of my female friends are 22 to 25. I was talking to a friend about how it’s ridiculous that a lot of the girls we met during our university years already look… old. It’s subtle, but you can see the beginning of aging on their faces and their personalities(they’re no longer full of life and energy and a desire to discover new things).

        On this note, this friend was asked by a girl he fucks if she looks fat and he said that no, you look old. I would have paid to see her reaction. Regarding drugs, by 18 most girls that will use drugs already tried drugs, at least here. This seems to be a good Tinder game strat: flirt with her on tinder and invite her over to toke. Cheaper than going out with her anywhere. lol

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      • Coke game FTW. Seriously, I knew of a guy who was old and ugly and banged lots of strippers. Could be weed, or anything else too. Chicks mark for drugs.

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      • on September 9, 2014 at 1:13 pm gunslingergregi

        I already banged lots of strippers
        its time to move on, time to get goin

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      • on September 9, 2014 at 1:19 pm gunslingergregi

        What’s so unnatural? I’m 25 and most of my female friends are 22 to 25. I was talking to a friend about how it’s ridiculous that a lot of the girls we met during our university years already look… old. It’s subtle, but you can see the beginning of aging on their faces and their personalities(they’re no longer full of life and energy and a desire to discover new things).

        ””””””””””””””””

        yea prob the worse part about keeping a chick although I guess love goggles help
        but what if you realistically look at the bitch

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  26. on September 9, 2014 at 12:15 am gunslingergregi

    this dude that asked one of my chick buddies to marry him called again today
    he just can’t fathom that I don’t give a fuck about his bitch romantically
    he even told me she already talked about putting life insurance of 250k on him lol and yea she was gonna get it too
    after 3 month great idea
    so I am like why the fuck would you even get married anyway
    then she entitled to your shit
    gave him 2k reasons why its a bad idea
    then gave him another set of options
    yea hung up on me
    that’s why I prob love my bitch
    she knows about shit like this I should of listened and said nothing
    but oh well I tried to help but really I guess guys got to learn that shit on own or some shit
    especially when they as thirsty as this dude obviously is
    he is a workaholic and shit gone for most of week working
    perfect for her if they did marry and she still fucked it up
    all she had to do was coast
    but nooooooo
    but it don’t matter the dude gonna stick with her
    you know as long as I don’t want her
    I have tried to be my brothers keeper
    but yea whatevs
    this dude get life insurance he prob gonna be found dead of natural causes soon after
    gave him that much real talk

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  27. on September 9, 2014 at 12:26 am gunslingergregi

    also talked with grauate student chick
    had right to life type shirt on
    talked about my marches on Washington
    think I got new hangout spot

    the waitress gave me the I have some game discount
    he he he

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  28. […] A reader stumbled on a text schema that has the potential to light up vaginas from Tokyo to Toronto. Dude. I just accidentally hit on a great way to sexualize a text exchange.  […]

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  29. O.T. I can see why Yombie always talks about putting buns in ovens. Europe is toast demographically!!! https://www.youtube.com/embed/6-3X5hIFXYU

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  30. The war on white boys continues…lowering the burden of proof in alleged campus sex assaults.
    http://www.thecollegefix.com/post/19170/

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  31. More scary super white women shit to make your dick limp:

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  32. I was at a girl’s house a couple weeks ago and made duck confit for is for supper. We drank 3 bottles of wine between the two of us. I got a late night message on Tinder from another girl asking how my supper was. I replied, “Dick is awesome!” And only saw the error the next morning. Hilarity ensued 😉

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  33. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2748971/Sex-cult-uncovered-Israel-women-brainwashed-thinking-sleep-non-Jews-save-Jewish-race.html

    Israeli police say they have broken a prostitution ring where Jewish women were brainwashed into having sex with non-Jewish men as a path to religious redemption. Police say they arrested a group of eight ‘messianic’ men and women who targeted vulnerable women and ‘prostituted them under the influence of drugs and alcohol.’ The affair was brought to the attention of police by Lehava, an extremist Israeli group which fights against intermarriage.

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  34. I’m skeptical if this works .

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  35. I do this play on words with chicks all the time. Leaving out personal pronouns works great, but I find using words that have sexual connotations really gets their hamsters spinning. If they call you out play innocent and accuse them of being perverted. It works a treat because you’re spelling out whats already on their minds, so they have a free pass to make the conversation sexual.

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  36. Got a question for the group. Yareally, SteveH and HABD especially. This is a lost set and I am doing some analysis and wanted to get everyones take on here.

    By the way HABD I took your advice and backed off on the hot little big boobie chick that was married. Hopefully I can maintain. lol

    On to the Macedonian chick. If you can remember we had started out good met on line she is 34 and very hot. Solid 8 blond thin perfect body with large natural titties. Educated speaks 8 languages small kid divorced and a little arrogant. Typical of FSU chicks. We had some good exchanges she sent me plenty of photos un solicited. This is the one that HABD you wanted me to get her to pay when we meet. Long story short we both had travel outside of the country and now back in town. Tried to set up a meet but timing was not working. I have gamed her hard. Text intervals, not falling into her frame, etc. And I was wondering if it was working. Not I think it may have been a little.

    So I pick up the phone and call her and we have this seemingly decent conversation about getting together. But she was shit testing hard bringing up a lot of money type things. She just got a new job from a Turkish “friend” who is wealthy she is his “personal assistant” lol and she knew him from long ago. Hmmm. Now she just kept bragging and I held my frame not acknowledging any of it. Now these turkish guys are serious pussy hounds and they like to buy it. And traditionally they scour the the FSU countries like Macedonia hunting for their own pussy that they can never get back home. So I wonder. Anyway.

    We agreed to stay in touch and when schedules worked or we were in the same city on our travels we would meet up. Call ends I write it off as a 1% of ever seeing or hearing from her again.

    Then the next day this text exchange ensues. Now I know my frame is not good on this. But in my defense 80% I fuck up a text exchange is when I am busy doing something else and text anyway instead of waiting to think about it. This was one of those cases. I literally had 4 other chicks blowing up my phone wanting to meet all in the same week and I was trying to work during all of this. Needless to say I am a little overextended. So lets listen in shall we?

    Her: Too bad u were not interested in sb relationship, my gf was available and yes she is amazing …beautiful and sexy 6:21 PM (i had specifically told her I did not want SD/SB at the beginning and she was ok with it then)
    Me: Send me her pictures 6:33 PM (tell her, but still stepping into her frame)
    Her: That’s her..but even if u like her she is not available any more 6:41 PM (shit test)
    Her: She is Serbian 6:42 PM (if my chick is a 8 this Serbian chick is a stone cold 9 fucking awesome)
    Me: Nice I love these Slavic women…did you send the pics? 6:43 PM (falling into frame)
    Me: What the hell? 6:44 PM (completely into her frame while displaying weak sarcastic humor, im not proud of this)
    Me: You trying to torture me? 6:45 PM (does not need explaining)
    Me: You are mean. 6:47 PM (beta whine)
    Her: I know…too bed u could of have both of us.. Lol.. 6:48 PM
    Me: Both of you? Why are you doing this? 6:50 PM (just a little whiny beta humor)
    Her: Because I can… 6:51 PM (she gets what she wants, later I realize that I was affecting her pretty well the last few weeks)
    Me: I would tear up both your little pussies…you would not know what to do. 😉 6:51 PM (trying to recover)
    her: Lol…blah blah blah…after yesterdays conversation, u cannot even have coffee with us…oh my gf just wanted me to show u what u could of have.. I am sure u will find what u were looking for 6:54 PM (shit test)
    Me: What do you mean after yesterday’s conversation? I wanted to meet and our schedule did not mesh so we were going to try to meet some other time. 6:56 PM ( i really did not get it yet)
    Me: Am I missing something? 6:57 PM (I should have said someone sounds bitter)

    I am still getting used to recognizing the subtle signs and I think that at the beginning I gamed her well. And she was into me. But she is very red pill. Most of these FSU women are. And I just do not recognize the signs. I also think I failed the rule of whoever has the strongest frame wins. And I collapsed my frame too soon. In my defense I did have a lot of women that were really into me and showing very very strong interest. Two Americans, one Asian, and one DR. May be getting some flags here shortly.

    I also think that she has fallen in with this Turkish dude who is ugly fat and bald in her words. And he is probably keeping her around as assistant and fuck toy and she is feeling shitty about herself. And was hoping I would have white knighted her and come save her from all the nastiness of having to have his sweaty, fat, smelly, hairy body rolling around on her beautiful petite little frame. Basically I was not into her frame and she doubled down and try to pull me into her frame. So give it too me. What do you think of my analysis and performance on this one.

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    • It sounds like you were up against impossible odds. A little slip is recoverable, a misstep means that you work hard to just get out with little damage. I would have done the same thing as you, when really the best play would have been to ignore her completely until you would maintain your frame.

      You might want to reopen her after a couple months of dead air.

      Yes, she sounds boner-worthy but not enough to give up your abundance attitude. Spin plates. She’ll come around or leave you alone. Either way you win.

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    • Reco dude – not much to add here. You know exactly why you failed and what you did wrong. Your analysis is spot on. Just chalk it up to “no one can be perfect all the time” and move on and try not to do it again. You’re not a robot.

      Maybe give her a month of silence and send a random message, but don’t expect a reply.

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  37. Haha so topical….the media is spinning itself into circles today wondering why Janay Rice is standing by her man.

    “But WHY is she still with him?!? Didn’t you see the video?? How savagely he hit her!?!”

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  38. Hey quick question. Guy here posted a link to his blog which was nothing but Tinder convos with chicks. Sum total of his texts is basically “#”, to which chicks comply. Funniest thing I’ve ever seen and want to share with some buds.

    Can anyone recall the link to the blog? I want to bookmark and share.

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  39. It’s time for zombie Shane to be banned. The bun in the oven troll shit is nearly ban-able, but pushing yareally out of the comments pushes it way over the top!

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    • What he said. Srsly – driving YaReally out of the comments removes the main source of value in the comments, and the rest of the cool guys in the comments will just follow.

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  41. Making a typo on tinder is alpha game? Since when?

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