Game Is Real

Occasional testimonials of the awesome power of game are useful for new readers. Via Vox at Alpha Game,

Small example: I recently ran into a girl I’d been very interested in a couple years back and never really gotten over, but our conversation went very differently than it would have even 6 months ago. She’d effectively friend-zoned me a long time ago (or more accurately, I’d clumsily friend-zoned myself), but at one point after I said something that surprised her, I saw unguarded respect in her eyes. That’s a feeling I’ll not soon forget, and in an instant it confirmed more of what’s been said here to me than 100 logical arguments could.

The result was that I’m no longer friend-zoned, and I’m also no longer interested.. funny how when you change from responder to initiator you start seeing people differently. Now of course an Alpha will find all that amusing and a silly thing to call a victory, but that’s fine. It’s progress. Some guys have to start bench-pressing with just the bar, but they don’t have to linger there for long.

That “unguarded respect” is what I like to call a “Surge of Tingle”. It’s that feel women get when shocked by a blast of alpha-tude from a man whom they never expected such a blast. The Surge of Tingle sends lustblood to her physical and cortical extremities, and the perceptive man will notice it most clearly in her eyes, where the dull sheen of boredom with the world’s mediocre masses of beta males is swept away by a lively, shiny, moist expressiveness roused to ocular attention by a charismatically challenging man.

Sometimes all it takes is a few words that are different than all the words you have spoken in your life to women before. A path formerly untravelled, but rich with promises of breathtaking scenery, if you will only take a step forward on it. You have a license to charm. Use it. When you do, the reality of game will materialize like an obelisk from the retreating fog, and you’ll finally have your understanding.





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  1. It’s a good thing.

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    • Game is a synonym for manliness. It needed a new jargon hook for this hyperfeminized generation because the terms themselves have been vilified and satirized into punchlines. Didn’t you just giggle a bit at the word “manly”? Isn’t the word archaic and embarrassing?

      There are thousands of works of art about honor. It is only a matter of translating the concept to those who would be manboobed, who, by the way, used to be called “sissies.”

      Whatever it takes. Just get there.

      Matt

      P.S. “Alpha” is the new word for “leader” or “power.”

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      • Game is an actual game you play between players. Sometimes you win, sometimes you don’t win. See Game Theory.

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      • Not sure I agree with Matthew.

        For one thing, “manning up” as a woman would have you do is always the opposite of game. So it’s not that sort of masculinity.

        There’s a slippery, elusive side to it, heck there’s even a specific technique called push-pull, while “manliness” denotes utter stability and reliability and protectiveness.

        Game isn’t protective, the girl’s an adult and has to make her own decisions.

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      • Your understanding of manliness is skewed (and I don’t use the hopelessly corrupted, clinical term “masculinity”), as I note is the default position with our generations.

        The “slippery, elusive side” is for unmanly chumps who learn to mimic “alpha.” To them, starting from so far behind, they must consider it all a “game.” Playing, manipulations, coyness, misdirection, and games are all feminine; they are substitutes for brute strength, forthrightness, directness.

        Matt

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  2. You use some kind of psychedelics bro, that language you use isnt normal. Only psychonauts talk like that.

    “obelisk from the retreating fog”

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  3. The context has to be right, though, and the moment, for you to vault out of the LJBF zone when you’ve been there for a while. I think in general it’s hard to reverse that. Otherwise, you come off as the orbiter who is trying too hard- they’ve seen that so many times that they instinctively lower their esteem for you.

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  4. on September 4, 2013 at 12:43 pm Rajeen Klietbonner

    Here is something that works EVERY TIME for me:

    Her: Blah blah blah blah blah (stops and looks up as if waiting for agreement).

    You (eyes narrowing): You are so full of shit.

    Her (shocked): I beg your pardon?

    You: Who taught you to think that way?

    Her (full hamster mode): I think for myself!

    This can go on and on for several minutes while you playfully bat down her inanities. Pretty soon she’ll start finding things she can agree with you on … and then you’ll know the tingling has commenced.

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    • Per my comment above: some times it will work that way. Some times (if your LJBF status is immutable) she’ll think “what a loser asshole!”. You have to know your woman and your situation. I’ve extracted myself from LJBF a few times in my life, and there were always other, more important factors than simply saying something unexpected or alpha.

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      • What happened in the other cases, where you said something alpha but the rescue did not eventually succeed? Did she get angry at the unexpectedness of it?

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    • ^ This times ten.

      With most chicks you don’t have to wait long for them to say something you disagree with, if she’s really sweet and agreeable you might just have to make up something. But you definitely have to call them on their bullshit. The spergs will get all angry and turn it into a fight, the betas wont call her out for fear of losing her approval.

      But tempered and playful disagreement like Rajeen outlined here will work most of the time.

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    • Instead of losing the fucking weight, she goes on CNN to complain. Jesus, adults shouldn’t be that fat let alone teenagers. Stop eating so much and lost the fucking weight. I didn’t get far enough into the video to see but I’m sure her mom is a porker too. Seriously, all it takes for women to be a 6-7 is not be fat, have shoulder length hair or longer, and not have some serious facial deformity.

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      • I just skimmed it but even worse apparently her mom wrote a letter complaining that they had hurt her daughter’s “self esteem.” Feminist brainwashing buzzword. What hurt her self esteem, of course, was her failure of a loser mom turning her into a fat pig by failing to teach her healthy habits. That very same girl would literally have been 30 pounds lighter 20 years ago.

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      • You should understand that she and her mom did not “go on CNN to complain.” Make no mistake. CNN is straight Cathedral and CNN went out and *found* this story. It might be 100% fiction, and you can see she’s reading from a Q card or saying what she was told to say. This is part of CNN’s daily leftist brainwashing agenda.

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      • > “CNN went out and *found* this story.”

        That would be the CNN branch orifice of The Frankfurt School.

        The Frankfurt School never stops – 24 hours a day, 365 days a year – they’re constantly, relentlessly, virulently pushing The Narrative to new depths of depravity [depths to which you (naively) would have thought that The Narrative could never have been pushed].

        There is a portion of the electorate who is largely immune to this stuff [i.e. the flyover country hayseed Red State hicks whom The Frankfurt School so despises], but my God, it’s shocking to see how effective this relentless Frankfurt School propaganda can be when it’s applied to people who seem to have no innate “moral immune system response” to it.

        It really makes you believe that John Calvin stumbled upon a fundamental truth about our natures, when he declared that some folks are predestined to be Saved, whereas other folks are predestined to be Damned.

        Or, as Calvin’s successor, Charles Darwin, would have framed the argument: Some folks seem to have an innate sense of morality in their DNA, whereas others simply do not.

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    • At one-minute mark: look how many tabs are open.

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  5. First time I stumbled upon game was 21st bday. an alpha friend had two girls in tow. I was getting drunk with all the alcohol being purchased for me. Two girls were essentially ignoring me as the alpha friend was way cooler and there were other friends there so it was a mixed crowd. Anyway, long story short one of the girls made a crack about me being drunk and I promptly responded ‘shut up with your man hands’

    she sunk into her chair, apparently she was self conscious about her stubby chubby fingers and hands. Few minutes later she was sitting next to me, hands on me, feeding me her beer.

    no close, just a turn of interest and attention level.

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  6. I call it her eyes lighting up.

    “The result was that I’m no longer friend-zoned, and I’m also no longer interested.”

    Game ups your value and also gets rid of the nasty pedestal.

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  7. Game is a lie. Its a transient state of affairs due to western wealth. And many men want to hold onto it as sometimes it works, its something to believe in, its so ingrained as a part of their identity. But it is a lie nonetheless. The only game that matters is the society that holds onto timeless values (not most Western subcultures). Hence, Western men as a vast majority (even the ones getting the girls) are not alpha.

    Game is sold by the PUA industry. An attempt to explain the world. And the ‘elites’ like it because gamified pussy chasing men can never challenge their power structure.

    Consider that it is common to see alpha females in long-term relationships with useless non-alpha, non-beta men in the UK. These men have no game; they just won’t cheat on the women and women like this security. Social roles have been subverted. Game is an attempt to describe social relations, which have been subverted a long time ago. Arguably, the only Western alpha men are rich banksters. Most other men are not Alpha. Game is a distraction whilst the looting and collapse of Western society continues.

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    • Nah. Social relations are the what, game is the How-to. and the description of those social relations is the why.

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    • Where to begin …

      1. Women get less bitchy in more difficult economic times. The USA is in an economic dump at the moment, but the effect of that on women is reduced because of affirmative action for women. Men have been disproportionately laid off in the past five years. Our government policy is “women’s empowerment at the expense of men”. Still, men are needed, both economically and by women.

      2. You can define “alpha” as you want. You define it in terms of wealth.

      3. Having defined it that way, you say game is a lie and transient. I guess you mean it allows “non-alpha” (by your definition) men to get “alpha” like results. So … even you admit it works, you just don’t like it apparently.

      4. As for being transient, rich men are even more vulnerable to the scam of marriage then divorce leading to massive alimony and child support payments. So being “alpha” that way may be more transient. Has anyone analyzed risk of woman initiated divorce vs. man’s wealth going into the marriage?

      5. And you even say that in the UK, there are wealthy females going with poor men. So females don’t require a man to be rich to stay with him, as I speculate in (4).

      So your point was?

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      • 1. that right there is the number one thing that Hollywood always gets wrong in their disaster movies. Take the Walking Dead. That wife Lori was a 100% total bitch, in a real life scenario like that every single surviving woman would have dropped all feminist crap.

        They wouldn’t be weak simpering cowards. But they wouldn’t be grade A bitches AND be survivors. The two wouldn’t mix for more than 1 week.

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      • That wife Lori was a 100% total bitch, in a real life scenario like that every single surviving woman would have dropped all feminist crap.

        The feminists would die after their belly fat ran out, unwanted and unloved, to be food for the packs of feral dogs and other wildlife.

        [CH: Some of those porcine feminists could last for months on their fat stores.]

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      • Disagree. Lori had a dedicated provider husband + a safety net (Shane, pre-zombie). That, plus the amount of viable (fertile) females around made her a commodity. She had all the relative luxury in the world to stay a bitch.

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      • That, plus the amount of viable (fertile) females around made her a commodity.

        Uh…. dude… higher supply, lower price. [facepalm]

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      • Never mind, if you’re talking about there being a lack of females. But in that case, a lack of Big Daddy State would have given the men more hand over her, Chris Brown style.

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      • Lol. I didn’t say “higher supply”. Have you seen the show? There’s like no women around.

        Shit, am I getting trolled?

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      • Oops, missed your addendum before my snarky reply. Yeah, I was talking about lack of females.

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      • There are no feminist on a sinking ship – Bill Burr.

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      • on September 4, 2013 at 9:11 pm Hammer of Love

        ” Women get less bitchy in more difficult economic times. The USA is in an economic dump at the moment, but the effect of that on women is reduced because of affirmative action for women. ”

        You might have a point with that one, but I think it also stems from the fact that alot of the population is still in denial. They believe, that any moment, the economy will improve, and unicorns draped in American flags will be start farting gold coins again. Letting go of the empire is a hard think to do for the average
        ” merican “.

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      • And especially for the average female ‘merican, who doesn’t reason from fundamentals but what she considers her destined standard of living that SOMEBODY has got to give her.

        It’s a big step to give up on that expectation. It’s like hot women e.g. Hope mentioned elsewhere who stay on the carousel too long, not realizing that they’d better hurry to settle as options are drying up fast. Hope realized it at least 5 years too late.

        If we’re right, females who settle now will be looking very smart in a few years as they look out from their kids’ preschools to see their single former friends trying to stay hot looking with more and more makeup and obvious surgeries.

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      • The top 10 per cent or so are doing relatively better than ever. Buying up houses and apartment buildings to further their wealth. But that’s like, Frankfurt school narrative. Those are the “job providers.”

        The Frankfurters! What, in objective, material terms do the Frankfurters advocate? I still don’t get it, but we don’t get too many elites down here in the subway.

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    • Parts of game are lies.

      However a man being masculine…isn’t a lie.

      Feminism does a great job of tearing down masculinity. Game at least brings some of it back.

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    • Marxism was never comprehensively discredited, despite the wars and blood. It just buried itself into the intellectual DNA of detached poseurs like the “theorist” above, to come lurching out at random moments.

      Game is a capitalist plot!

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      • Because YKW are the principle movers and shakers of Communism and the same crew controls the media, so just as you’ve never heard of Genrick Yagoda or Lavrenty Beria, you won’t ever see Communism criticized by the MSM in the US either.

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      • Why is it so quiet on CH today? Is it Rosh Hashanah or something?

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      • We spanked your girl pretty badly a few posts ago. I imagine it still hurts to sit down.

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      • Lily likes the spanking. It is her old Hebrew soul’s way of atonement in a modern, secularized context.

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      • on September 6, 2013 at 6:42 am The Burninator

        Marxism/socialism have been thoroughly discredited intellectually, logically and economically. The last front it holds the line is emotionally. This is why feminism has been the dominant trend, especially after the collapse of the USSR. The Berlin Wall came down and almost immediately the meme of “men be dumb brutes” emerged, with subsequent linking of all things pro-liberty to “brute stupid men”. If feminism dies on the vine, socialism in all forms disappears, I suspect.

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    • on September 5, 2013 at 9:17 am Captains Courageous

      Jazzy, There is no such thing as “alpha females“ – there are merely mother hens.

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  8. OT: Obama’s sons carjack 85-year-old grandmother, steal her bingo winnings, beat her with tire irons, then roast her alive in the trunk of her car. I’m sure we’ll be hearing coast-to-coast media outrage for months on end starting any time now.

    http://www.bnd.com/2013/09/03/2778353/youngest-of-trio-pleads-to-killing.html

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    • on September 4, 2013 at 1:41 pm North Vinlander

      Are you trying to fuel my White rage to boost my testosterone to help me pick up chicks?

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      • I think my nausea has passed, so I’ll try: Narcissistic old bag was too busy traveling, sleeping around, and acting like a man to settle down during her peak years, and now can’t figure out why “real men” aren’t swooning over her bitchqueen attitude and saggy leathery body.

        Warning: There are photos of her in a short skirt.

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      • LOL! Those are serious hard core old hags.

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      • She complains that only “boys” want her. And there’s zero probability that she is still able to get pregnant. Connection?

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      • The short skirt wasn’t even the worst part. The low cut top couldn’t even reveal her old ass saggy wrinkly titties. Absolutely horrific. All I saw was OLD worn out skin.

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      • She should make some couch-crease-loving omega quite happy.

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      • At this point, she couldn’t even land one of those.

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      • This is a pretty common sight in Europe, the continent of perpetual adolescence.

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      • In her defense, she does look fairly fit for a woman approaching 80.

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      • Wow. Just wow.

        Hamster of the month?

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      • One might think so, but no, not quite. Deborah Nixon in the comments beats her with the following contribution:

        “Ask my boomer friends if men are more attractive as they age. Hahaha. It’s the women who get better, not the men. Women become more interesting and look amazing. This writer certainly does.”

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      • She lies too. She says “VD” had not “hit the pavement” yet.

        Heck, in junior high school “back then” we learned all about “VD”. Venereal diseases were gonorrhea and syphilis. That acronym comes from that time. The current acronym is “STD”. You never hear “VD” any more.

        I doubt that her Cornell class had a reliable comparison of starting salaries, for her to say that hers was the top of all 1000 or so graduates in her year.

        And of course, she is plain stupid. She dumps the men when they are interested in her, then wonders why she didn’t end up married. U fywaa agw gets an F in basic reasoning.

        A liar and a moron she is. As for what she was in her “glory years”, I’d rather not think about it.

        rofl …

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      • No, “STI” is the au courant term.

        It keeps changing, like “nigger” to “negro” to “colored” to “black” to “Afro-” to “African-” to “people of color” to “nigga” … aaand back to NIGGER for the endtimes.

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      • I am probably too old to switch from STD to STI. It took me a while to switch from VD when my kids started hearing this stuff in school.

        Growing up I remember colored, and black, and african-american. I think it might have actually gone colored, then african-american, then black. And then I refused to change any more.

        So now they’re downgrading the apocalyptic HIV / AIDS to an “infection”. I guess that push comes from the gay agenda. The very gay agenda Pope Francis singled out as being evil, saying the gays aren’t evil but their lobbyists are.

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      • And she’s so humble and down to earth too. After showing us a leathery photo from Ibiza, “this summer, [the author] finally decided [she] wanted ‘off the train’.” (Or as we call it here, the carousel.) What to do?

        Happily, an awe-inspiring comment by a Deborah Nixon shows us the way:

        “Ask my boomer friends if men are more attractive as they age. Hahaha. It’s the women who get better, not the men. Women become more interesting and look amazing.”

        O Dearly Beloved Hamster, it’s quite simple then. Just wait another ten years to become so awesomely attractive that you will get the men you’re entitled to.

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      • Some fairly good comments under the article, hundreds of comments. One of them links this classification of women, by a woman:

        http://datelikeagrownup.com/2012/07/are-you-waiting-to-be-wowed-femitype-4-the-wow-me-woman/

        in case you all want some more of this sort of entertainment.

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      • That woman is straight up narcissist, wondering why she can’t find anyone and then blames it on men being “intimidated”. Gee, I wonder where I’ve seen this before………

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      • on September 4, 2013 at 9:19 pm Hammer of Love

        I think she would to great on the senior cruise line circuit.

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      • Yeah she’d meet a lot of other old dried up single women there who “are in the same boat”! hahaha

        Conventions of old people, unless it’s something like a gun club, are always overloaded with women, men are scarce.

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      • She knows the bitter truth.

        “Scenester” a made-up word which she uses to describe herself is pretty close to “spinster”.

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      • on September 6, 2013 at 8:11 am The Burninator

        That is an awful lot of rationalization for her to go through to avoid the realization that she is not attractive. Hamsters are as hamsters do, I suppose.

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    • “LaTosha Cunningham”
      “DaQuan D. Barnes”
      “DeMarcus Barnes”

      Well, shit…you don’t even need photos to know.

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    • on September 4, 2013 at 9:13 pm Hammer of Love

      Yeah , get that timer set. lolz. Any moment now; still waiting. Where’s Jessie ” ass face ” Jackson when you need him.

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  9. Adventures in game —

    For the first time ever, I ignored a girl’s beauty. Simple anecdote about the 7; we were talking, and she’s still all sad about the fact that she may leave (and I’m sticking to telling her that if she stays that I’m probably not ready for a relationship). But she’s started saying a lot of shit that has turned my viewpoint around.

    “I’ve never missed a boy so much like I miss you.”
    “I usually am reserved about how I feel, verbally, but with you I’m just like a lost puppy dog….’I miss you,’ ‘come see me,’ ‘thinking about you.'”

    She’s becoming just a girl to me. Not a hot girl. Just a girl. And I’m just a guy dreading her dropping an L-bomb or some shit.

    Also, baby’s first legit AI:

    Ya. I seen it. From another 7. Girl was with her boyfriend, but I caught her looking over at me several times. She then asked whether or not we had a triangle over at our pool table, to which I just told her to look in the normal slot. Of course in my mind I’m like ‘lol he’s RIGHT there…’

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    • lol nice dude! before i started practicing, i pretty much relied on AI’s to do anything… and honestly i’d never actually DO anything. I’d just look at her over and over and she’d get pissed and leave. Problem is i’d spot one, and be like “See? I knew she wanted to fuck me” in my head lol. simple ego validation.

      I pretty much take the littlest thing as an AI. Like yesterday, I was waiting at a stop light next this cute girl and her friends (I think she was a 7 too). Then I walk past her and go to Walgreens. As I leave Walgreens, I see her and her friend coming in and I see her smile at me out of the corner of my eye.

      I could’ve easily stopped her at that point… BUT i was too much of a pussy lol.

      Anyway, good stuff.

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      • My problem too. I see the interest, fan it, then choke.

        Cute hostess at a restaurant I eat at regularly always comments on my ‘stache and has a big smile. I’m always teasing her about something. Yesterday as I was leaving she asks my name.

        At a shop and get mobbed by 4 shop girls, again over the ‘stache. They want pictures so I oblige. Start flirting with one of the pretty ones, even dancing with her in the store.

        Choked at getting numbers both times. Trying not to beat myself up too badly but recognizing I need to be much more aggressive. I’ll get there. Soon.

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      • @BA
        Ask for the number every time even if you don’t want it. Even if there’s more than one girl. (often the friend will make the girl that likes you give her number). You’ll be desensitized to the anxiety and you’ll learn real fast that numbers ain’t shit. Then you can move on to more interesting stuff.
        @Hunter
        Approach invitations are not needed for any approach. If you get an approach invitation from a cute girl and you’re not already with a chick, the only thing that means is that you MUST open. At least that’s my rule. And next time talk to the chick AT the stoplight. In the beginning it doesn’t matter what you say as long as it’s something.

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      • @pulsotic Gotcha. Might as well try, right?

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  10. > moist expressiveness roused to ocular attention

    Aha! The eye that weeps best when best pleased?

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  11. re: the Hamster Vortex article.

    is it a parody or is it just fucking poorly written?

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    • I think he means that it’s only saving grace would be IF it were a parody. I see nothing in the text that would indicate a joke. I think it’s poorly written because it’s a throwaway blog and most people don’t have the artistry of words like CH. For extra hilarity check out her amateur website and download the pdf at the end of her delusional rant. She looks like a man in drag with down syndrome. “Where are all the real men.” Indeed.

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      • I guess writing means something different to people like her. It’s just a stream of consciousness list of shit she did while riding the cock carousel. I don’t think dirty foreigners count as baby boomers because … don don don… they don’t count. The BB was an American phenomenon.

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  12. It makes me wonder if dudes who have emerged from friendzone have only done so once they got so pissed at their ladyfriend that they freeze them out or start belittling them.

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    • Since almost anything other than usual nice guy schtick will have a decent chance of working (some will be easier to follow up than others though), getting mad enough to do something different may be enough.

      Girls may not hate nice guys but they sure do punish them. Life is pretty nice if you’re anything but a nice guy, imho.

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  13. Wasn’t born knowing how to tie my shoes either. When living in a world with shoe laces in shoes, one must learn to tie shoes or wear other types of shoes. It’s sad too many people make negative comments about learning how to live in the new society we are in. Those persons are fools. Learning new habits is necessary. Nice post.

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  14. ‘I like to let the smegma of previous women linger on my dick for massive pre-selection. Not really kidding.’


    .lmfao

    ….

    Almost as funneh as ‘sometimes you gotta fold Aces pre-flop to balance your snap-fold range.’

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  15. on September 4, 2013 at 5:09 pm Kinesthetic Wonder

    The first thing I did when I got Game was over time reestablish contact with every girl in my life who ever ljbf’d me and fucked them. It was greatest thing in the world to see tue look of shock on their faces as I’m blowing my load into them. They fall in love after that and I got rid of them. Quick pump and dump because they were all veteran cock riders.

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  16. on September 4, 2013 at 7:01 pm gunslingergregi

    I guess calling a chick 9000 times a day might work too
    my ex chicks husband will call her for hours and hours
    when she with me
    over and over and over
    she asking to move somewhere with me he he he
    dude came over the house I went out talked with him on porch
    commiserated with him and shit lol
    he keeps telling her he gonna kick her out or some shit but then doesn’t
    she told him at least greg keeps his threats they promises
    dam straight when I say i’m gonna boot her ass she gone he he he
    she finished cooking for me and shit fed me
    guess her day would of been perfect if we fought

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    • on September 4, 2013 at 7:06 pm gunslingergregi

      she doesn’t answer but I think she does like the validation from that much attention being paid stalker style
      me I don’t call the bitch
      she said she was checking yesterday to see If I would call her
      naa
      she called me this morning
      another chick from last year called me yesterday
      still thinking of me he he he

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      • on September 4, 2013 at 7:12 pm gunslingergregi

        oh yea she was walkin saw the chick down the street that looks good
        chick was asking her if we back together
        same chick that husband was trying to set me up with when they broke up and saw him other day and he was still trying to hook me up with her lol
        she looks decent but baby factory
        22 or so
        but yea exchick said we talkin
        chick said we a cute couple
        maybe get a knock at the door

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      • Cant wait to see you on the news…

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  17. on September 4, 2013 at 9:32 pm alberta koritsi

    this is another good one. Subscribe! Most of his posts are really good. Just ignore the bad ones.

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  18. Off topic, sort of: Hugo Schwyzer, II. The guy who started Femen did it just to get laid, too. http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/sep/04/femen-man-topless-protests-victor-vyatski?CMP=twt_gu

    I call for his immediate execution.

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    • I have an idea along the lines of what Schwyzer and the Femen guy did: I’m going to start a worldwide feminist organization, but in order for a woman to join, she has to do an on-camera porn tryout without me, and if they want to do a mass protest, they have to first prove themselves by doing a 20-girl- -and-me orgy scene.

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      • On top of it, he’s red pill, to an extent:

        In Green’s film, Svyatski talks of the campaigners needing a firm hand as they lack strength of character – and he is the one who will teach it to them. “They show submissiveness, spinelessness, lack of punctuality, and many other factors which prevent them from becoming political activists. These are qualities which it was essential to teach them.”

        lozlzozlzoz, what an asswipe.

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      • on September 5, 2013 at 8:06 am gunslingergregi

        that’s hot I got to do that the 20 girl thing

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  19. The weird girl I dated last year for a couple months came back around, and started wheedling me. I finally texted her that I was not interested, that it would not be right to be giving me birthday presents and taking me to dinner on my birthday since we were not in a relationship — rather innocuous, right? — and she completely BLEW UP my phone with angry texts. If I was still a nice guy — as she was apparently assuming — I would have wilted and begged for an apology. But I felt cold, and said her carrying on like that made it obvious she wanted a relationship with me (her designated beta sucker marriage target).

    She then demanded I refund some money I owed her, and when I remembered that I did owe her some money and mailed it to her, she seemed to calm down, and then I blocked her. Brought to mind that quote about how you pay hookers not to sleep with you, but to GTFO when you’re done with them. She also made a laughably weak denial of her affections, claiming she was seeing someone (heh! — most likely her on-again-off-again boyfriend for the past seven years).

    Most unpleasant.

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  20. Haha, here’s a revelation that I made in NYC. Acting like a beta male can help you to snatch a number because of social conditioning. But this is a rare case:

    Here’s a scenario that happened a month or so back. I was in New York City walking into the subway train, taking the M train from the Lower East Side to Williamsburg, Brooklyn. I noticed that the subway had very few people in it. But there’s ALWAYS a hot babe sitting by herself in these places. Its New York City, after all. So, there she was, my next target. I sat my ass right next to her and within a few minutes right before my stop, got her number. Even after she gave the boyfriend objection. (The hottest women are always stringing at least 3+ guys along in relationships. The guys are mostly always chumps.) This chick was a promoter at some of the top tier clubs in the city. But that meant shit to me. My lifestyle has led me to treat every person exactly the same, it doesn’t matter if they’re homeless, rich, uber sexy, fat, or retarded. I’ve started looking at each and every person as a legit person who has something to offer beyond their genitals. Haha, maybe that’s the true lesson in all of this pickup shit. But I digress. I got her number and left the train. But then, it hit me. Why is it so easy to grab a chick’s number when the train is all isolated, as opposed to when it is super crowded?…………………..

    Read more @ http://the-underground-player.com/?q=blog%2F2013%2F09%2F05%2Fpitfalls-social-influence

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    • But then, it hit me. Why is it so easy to grab a chick’s number when the train is all isolated, as opposed to when it is super crowded?

      Because it’s quieter, and she is able to relax much more than in a crowded train, making things automatically seem more intimate on her end.

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  21. CH, you need to setup a bitcoin address for donations. I recommend CoinBase.

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  22. The emerging alpha surprised her by taking away her triumphant power over him. He was neither supplicating nor butthurt, as she likely experiences with most of her LJBF victims. Women love to walk around and point out their friends and say, “He thinks he still has a chance.” A man is off-script if his attitude is instead, “I guess I dodged a major bullet with you. I suppose I should thank you but really, that would take more effort than it’s worth.” The woman then freaks that she has just witnessed her own SMV slip 2-3 digits. She’s not used to that.

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    • Well….. it’s not always that mercenary. I had an orbiter-type guy friend in college who, when I saw him again at a party about six months after graduation, had dramatically improved his looks and confidence level. He was friendly but indifferent to me and the other girls who were there. I didn’t freak out or feel like my value had slipped. I was happy for him. But I’m also not the type to keep guys I’ve LJBF’d around to feed my ego. There are plenty of ways to get attention and feel good about yourself that don’t involve hurting other people.

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  23. Off topic.

    This just happened.

    In fact it’s happening right now in my office.

    One of my coworkers is an unusually attractive middle-aged woman. I mean attractive, too: physically and personally. She’s sharp and good at her job, has a cool haircut and wears cool eyewear. An exemplary coworker. (If you’re a Washington, DC-area local, you may know what I mean when I say it wouldn’t surprise you that she and her family are from Montgomery County.)

    She has three teenaged kids.

    Over the summer, she brought in one of them, the oldest, now a high-school senior, to do some basic admin work. She made a point of giving him the full tour and enthusiastically introducing him to everybody. He’s a good kid. Tall and heavy but very friendly and eager, and if his personality is a little obtuse then he’s also very agreeable. (It’s the kind of teenage baby fat that you can tell will come off easily during or after college.)

    Somebody told me that the local public schools are out today. So today the woman brought in another one of her kids.

    This one is a teenage girl. She has her mom’s smart tastes in hairstyle and eyewear. But there’s something else. Let me be blunt. She is at peak nubility. She came in today wearing a weather-appropriate frilly miniskirt.

    Her mom isn’t introducing her to anyone.

    Mid-morning, I went downstairs for a coffee. Off the elevator and back to my section of the office, I had to walk by Mommy and Daughter in a somewhat narrow corridor. They were conversing with someone. I wasn’t interested in joining them. “Pardon me” I said, to make my way past.

    With the instinctive protection you expect, she put her arm around the girl and pulled her out of my path.

    It’s only noon. Let’s see if she brings her over and introduces her.

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    • I’m from Montgomery County- raised there and live there still, work in DC.

      you gotta give mom props for being savvy about that- understanding both her daughter’s natural sex appeal and that she probably doesn’t have the sense at that age to make good decisions where that sex appeal is concerned.

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    • Addendum.

      On one of his blog posts quite a while back, our host pointed out the fact that regardless what they say, parents raise their sons and daughters differently. Those differences are what I mean to illustrate with this live example.

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      • Absolutely, and you can tell from curfews too. I had a curfew, all my girlfriends had a curfew… my brother never had a curfew. He came and went as he pleased.

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    • Is the woman married?

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  24. on September 5, 2013 at 10:17 am Young Journeyman

    How do you hit on a girl in your social circle you mostly ignored until now?

    There’s this 6 in my SS that goes out with us about 3-4 times a month and comes mostly as a friend of another ‘regular’ girl. She’s not very social, doesn’t really care or try to interact with the rest of us.

    I want to manage to ger her on a date, I haven’t been on a date except once in my life before reading about game. I’m still too scared to do daygame and I don’t even consider nightgame. Besides I’m going to college next month and want to have atleast SOME experience going out within my social circle before I go there, don’t really want to setup a reputation as an inexperienced guy.

    I don’t really care if it goes well or not with this 6 , I’m not very very attracted to her but still not indifferent to her looks, I’m mostly doing this for experience so outcound inependence internally is handled well enough as far as I can.. feel.. but that being said I do want to have some sort of plan/ guideline to go by.

    We go out as 5-6 mixed group in parks and stuff, not in venues. I figure just full on engaging her and really focusing my attention after indiference over 10+ encounters would be kinda awkward, I can’t really think of much I can do to atleast get her to go on a date and not making the whole situation awkward.

    Any advice would be appreciated, thanks.

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    • Your indifference is to your benefit, as it’s unlikely she’s slotted you into orbiter zone.

      Simply isolate her the next time your group is together and ask her out. Preferably toward the end of the gathering, so there’s no awkward tension to deal with the rest of the time. Don’t worry about it being perfect or text-book “PUA”, just do it.

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      • This. Also, act like you already know her and she’s not a stranger, because believe me, she does know who you are. That’s one great way to cut down on awkwardness.

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      • on September 5, 2013 at 2:25 pm Young Journeyman

        We have a pretty small group overall, besides me there are 2 more single guys . One of them she saw before me and told her friend that told the guy that she wants to fuck him, long story but nothing happened. Then the other single guy who is an AFC started hitting on her on facebook but she ignored him. The other guy friends that are in a relationship are telling me not to do it because so many guys were trying to get with her that it would be akward as fuck for me to start ‘obviously’ hitting on her or asking her out and I kind of feel it that way too. Also i feel like shit because I know if I do this all of my friends will judge me for it and that alone I think keeps me from it the most.

        Went out last night and she came again but the overall convo was very serious, political gibberish etc. The whole night the vibe was serious couldn’t really joke about a lot of stuff and nothing came through my mind that could steer the conversation anywhere fruitful but I’m still knew at this so I don’t stress it too much.

        Can’t isolate as that will be seen very awkward by the group, she is perceived as ‘off limits’ for some reason. Fuck, the more I write this the more I start seeing that this group is really holding me back, I only care so much about what they think because they’re literally my only friends but fuck it if I’m going to let that stop me.

        Man this ‘putting your problems in writing’ is a pretty good tool for thinking about things. I thank you guys a lot as you’ve opened my eyes to a lot of stuff and just the fact that you’re responding keeps me from going deeper into pessimistic/negative/depressing moods.

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  25. Amy…..turn around.

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