The Neediness Scale

Love is the alibi of neediness, and neediness is the accomplice of love. The two are rarely without each others’ company, yet they are an irascible, codependent pairing of old friends that would do one another a lot of good if they were separated and communicating via time-delayed diary entries.

It’s a short hop from self-directed purpose to neediness. A dash of neediness seasons the motivational stew, but too much spoils it right quick. We all know variants on the aphorisms “the hungry wolf gets fed last”, “we want what we can’t have”, and “women love a challenge”.

All true, and it’s why one of the first instructions at CH was to implore beta males to shore up their inner game by banishing the specter of neediness.

But beta males aren’t the only victims of crippling neediness, and it’s important that those who tend to gather their life lessons from the ego chamber internet instead of from the human world

The CH Neediness Scale, from most needy to least needy:

  1. sexless men
  2. loveless women
  3. sexless women
  4. loveless men

My chart is borne out in the real world, where it is common to see (and commonly agreed upon) that sexless men (blue pilled betas and blue balled omegas) are the neediest creatures, often sabotaging any chances they get in the dating market by chasing too soon and crashing too hard when their lust-love isn’t immediately and similarly reciprocated.

But then things get interesting. The next neediest group is the loveless women. Iconic representatives include your Wall-imminent single sex and the city ladies, your BPD headcases, your lonely fatties and fuglies, and your cock accumulating slut machines. Women over the long-run value love more than sex, give or take a few breathless moments getting buried under a tingle avajanche. The woman who is a loser in love (no matter how many cocks she’s coitally collared) will get more bitter, unfeminine, and emotionally damaged as the years grind her down. See: Amanjaw Marcuntte. There’s a lot of rueing in spinster nation.

The second to least needy group is the sexless women. Unwilling sexlessness — or what we in the caulk-gine community call incel — is rare among non-obese women of non-autistic child-bearing age. If a healthy, height-weight proportionate young woman wants sex badly, she can get it. She may not like the morning-after feeling, but that’s the sort of long-term thinking about accountability and consequences which the airier sex is ill-equipped to undertake. Therefore, actual involuntary sexless women who are worth sexing are rare, but they do exist; usually though their sexlessness has at its source, not a personal failing that turns off men, but an exquisitely conjured mental image of the perfect man that prevents the sexless woman from ever conceding her cooch to any man who falls short of her fantasy by even a cat’s whisker. The sexless woman can tolerate her condition for quite a while longer than can the sexless man, which is why she’s not often prone to the sort of self-sabotaging theatrics that are the desperately horny beta male’s stock in trade.

Finally, the least needy of the neediness groups is the loveless man. A CH maxim would serve us well here:

Maxim #80: For women, sex is validation of love. For men, love is validation of sex.

Sex validates that a woman loves a man, and that a man loves her. Women give their sex because they feel in love with a man. Or they give their sex because they want a man to fall in love with them. One night stands aren’t the hard exceptions you’d think, either. The same internal bargaining exists whenever a woman presents her most valuable asset for purchase. Inversely, women are susceptible to thinking that a man who fucks them must also love them, which is true enough to sustain their delusions.

Love validates that a man desires a woman’s sex, and that a woman sexually desires him in kind. Men give their love because they have fallen in love with a woman they love fucking. Or men give their love because they want a woman to keep giving them sex. Inversely, men are susceptible to thinking that a woman who loves them must also want to fuck them, which is true enough to sustain their delusions.

The scone code truth is that men who swim in pussy can go a LONG time without love, and not feel any ill-effects from it. Love is the perfect transcendence from the banal, and every man is more a romantic than the average woman, but unlike women for whom love is notarization of their self-worth and a green light on a future together, men receive their external validation primarily from internal penetration. Any validation of a man’s sexuality is already complete by the time penis is waylaid in vagina. Love, after that, is icing on the pound cake of a cad’s leavened ego.

Still, sexually fulfilled men can become love-parched; one sometimes sees this in aging players who never settled down and have lots of war stories with which to console themselves during bouts of fleeting loneliness. And however good the pussy is, love makes it that much better. In this way love injects meaning into all the sex the womanizer enjoys, by adding an extra layer of limbic fluffing. A sexed man feels on top of women; a loved man feels on top of the world. Furthermore, the loved man gains a sense of security over his sexual destiny, knowing that his penis is craved by the woman who loves him as a nearly divine object of spiritual commingling and a meaty medium of soulful consummation.





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  1. Based on that scale, in the long run of things, seems that #2 is more volatile than #1.

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  2. — Love is the alibi of neediness, and neediness is the accomplice of love.

    “I want you” – direct game
    “I need you” – vulnerability game
    “But there ain’t no way I’m ever gonna love you” – passionate challenge game
    “But don’t be sad, two out of three ain’t bad” — jerkboy game

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    • Kudos for the Meatloaf reference.

      That LP rocks.

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      • There’s been two references to that album. I gotta give it a listen.

        Sounds like the kind of album you wanna hear on vinyl

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      • Never listened to Bat Out Of Hell?

        Arguably one of the top twenty albums of the Rock Era… and you’ll get no argument from me.

        And if, like me, you’re looking for that extra “I’m no antisemite!” virtue signalling bonus, Jim Steinman))) wrote all the songs!

        I believe his dad was from Germany. Steinman wrote about a billion songs (foremost, Total Eclipse Of The Heart), the soundtrack form a pretty cool cult movie Streets Of Fire, and also the musical Dance of The Vampires, which didn’t translate well to this side of the pond, but I heard was doing well in Europe, especially Germany.

        /half-Jewish rape!

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      • Yes, Jim Steinman wrote potboiler lyrics but they went well with the vocals of the singers, from the robustly soulful Meatloaf or Bonnie Tyler, to the ethereal Air Supply.

        “Bat out of Hell” is a classic. The 1993-release “Bat out of Hell II” has some fine songs as well. The sublime bridge from one of its songs:

        For taking in the rain when I’m feeling so dry
        For giving me the answers when I’m asking you why
        And my oh my
        For that I thank you

        For taking in the sun when I’m feeling so cold
        For giving me a child when my body is old
        And don’t you know
        For that I need you

        For coming to my room when you know I’m alone
        For finding me a highway and for driving me home
        And you gotta know
        For that I serve you

        For pulling me away when I’m starting to fall
        For revving me up when I’m starting to stall
        And all in all
        For that I want you

        For taking and for giving and for playing the game
        For prying for my future in the days that remain
        Oh Lord
        For that I hold you

        For my part, my two all-time favorite albums are U2’s “Achtung Baby” and Pearl Jam’s “Ten.”

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      • I’ve heard only a few songs from Bat Out of Hell II but none from the first.

        I do like that almost every song is over 5 minutes.

        That’s one reason I like CCR’s version of I Heard It Through The Grapevine. 11 minutes of pure bliss!

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      • One of the best things about Bat II is the boy-girl dialogue coda on “I’d Do Anything For Love (But I Won’t Do That)” that echoes a similar conversation interlude in “Paradise by the Dashboard Lights.” I think it’s with the same female vocalist too.

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      • For my part, my two all-time favorite albums are U2’s “Achtung Baby” and Pearl Jam’s “Ten.”

        Different generation, I suppose… I could never identify.

        For me, Who’s Next is the Gold Standard, with an honourable mention to Beggar’s Banquet. And as far as concept album, Quadrophenia… all others are also-rans.

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      • I do like that almost every song is over 5 minutes.

        Well, if long songs are your thing… and CCR’s Grapeville scratched you where you itched, try any of these:

        The Who Won’t Get Fooled Again
        Iron Butterfly In A Gadda Da Vida
        Steppenwolf Monster
        Mountain Pride & Passion

        And just about anything from early Genesis or Renaissance, if a softer brand of rock is to your taste.

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      • Different generation, I suppose… I could never identify.

        Agreed, popular music is woven hard into our personal youthful angst and our figuring-out-of-things at that age. I do I acknowledge the greatness of the earlier generation’s Pink Floyd (musically timeless, Gilmour’s slow-tempo guitar solos are unsurpassed) and others.

        Another great one from the early-90s Cambrian explosion of creativity and energy: GNR’s “Use Your Illusion” double-album. I put “November Rain” right up there with Skynyrd’s “Tuesday’s Gone” in the epic ballad pantheon.

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      • PA, that’s one of the things I liked about the album version of I Would Do Anything… It was woven brilliantly.

        Greg, yup, I enjoy Won’t Get Fooled Again and Ina Godda…. Will sample the others.

        On that note, I heard a 30 minute version of Dazed and Confused at a gastropub once. Despite the ambient noise from the patrons, I was able to enjoy that masterpiece. Not sure if it was the version from The Song Remains The Same and I’ve been trying to find that version I heard every since.

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      • Ah yes, Steinman.
        Arpeggio-heavy opera rock.
        Good stuff.
        For those who want to try to escape that musical time bubble, there are, believe it or not, some current bands worth listening to, such as The Pretty Reckless (first 2 albums, no. 3’s a little weak), Halestorm (kinda grrl-power-y, but still good) and Diemonds from Canada.
        All three have pretty hot lead singers, which isn’t essential, but it helps.

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      • Dare we say… Wagnerian? kek

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  3. i’m sometimes asked, “don’t you ever fall in love?”

    usual response: “of course. I fell in love three times today already.”

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  4. What do you guys think of gun collection game? Does it make you look like a dangerous bad boy, especially to gunphobes?

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    • on December 14, 2016 at 5:50 pm Captain Obvious

      “Collections” make you look like a sperg, which is creepy for ordinary things, and repulsive for something as serious as g*ns. On the other hand, an outdoor date – with excellent ear & eye protection, one or two guns, plenty of ammo, plenty of targets, no sh!tlib neighbors, and lots of Chardonnay afterwards [you do know how to pack a picnic lunch & a blanket, right?] – will make her [email protected] runneth over.

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 5:50 pm Captain Obvious

        Work hard on maintaining proper Been-There-Done-That/Ho-Hum/Another-Day-At-The-Office Alpha body language when you hold her to your torso and put your arms around her and teach her her positioning. Breath deeply with your diaphragm [i.e. your “stomach”], speak in a slow deep seductive voice, no trembling, no sweaty palms, etc.

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 5:51 pm Captain Obvious

        I’d do this first in an ammo-free run-through with her before the two of you put on your eyewear & earphones/earplugs, so that she can clearly hear that deep seductive voice of yours, because once she puts on her earphones/earplugs, she won’t be able to hear you murmur the sweet little nothings in her ear. Also, if you feel that you need to display some vulnerability game, you can tell her how nice she smells, but that’s playing with fire – you have to get the setup & delivery just right so that you don’t come off as looking needy.

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      • This is good advice. Gun knowledge is sexy, if she is curious about you first or if she is trying to find something out. Women who like Trump almost expect a man to know about guns.

        Randomly mentioning that you own said guns is going to make her wonder about your mental stability.

        You could make it interesting and make up a story about how you used to work as an international gun trader, being vague on purpose and filling in details including the people and places surrounding your deals.

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      • Not collecting things you’re interested in for fear of being judged ‘creepy’ by some 160 pound bitch is the most blue pill concept ever.

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 9:13 pm Captain Obvious

        I didn’t say he shouldn’t collect guns – I indicated that he shouldn’t BRAG about his gun collection to her. Taking her out on a “picnic” date for some sh00ting & chardonnay, with maybe one or two or three different guns for her to try, is a he11uva lot different than unlocking the super-secret backroom vault in his bachelor’s pad and there’s enough hardware stored inside to arm a friggin battalion of the USMC. A couple of gunz on a sh00ting date == SEXY. A couple of hundred guns in a private vault == COLUMBINE/VATECH/NEWTON.

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      • Spoken like a true gentleman and fair enough.

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      • Every rock solid man I know has a massive gun collection. I meet ther coolest people I know of at the range. Chicks like a guy who likes guns, they just don’t want you obsessing over them. You give orders they follow. They like it that way best of all, most just don’t know it yet. Take her to the range make a few plastic bottles dance and treat her like a novice. She’ll be blowing you in the car on the way home. I don’t give a shit what some split tail thinks either. Their job is to make me happy.

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    • Does it make you look like a dangerous bad boy, especially to gunphobes?

      Yes. Liberal women (which is to say pretty much all women) absolutely love to fuck an unapologetic gun owner. Nothing gets women’s pussies wetter than being in the presence of a man who has actually made plans to kill other men. Broadcast it far and wide, but not so much that you look like a try-hard–that’s a killer. I’d say one bumper sticker on the car and one sign in the window of your apartment should be just enough. I have a GOA life member sticker on my car and one of these in my window:

      https://patriotpostshop.com/products/767

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 6:03 pm Captain Obvious

        > “not so much that you look like a try-hard–that’s a killer” ——— Right. It’s imperative that you not look like a Sperg, much less like a nutcase who’s one insult away from going Allahu Akbar on her. Calm, forthright, slow, patient, “been-there-done-that”. Breath from your diaphragm. Deep seductive voice. Nothing hurried. No nervousness. No apprehension. Slow -n- easy wins the race.

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      • You think owning guns means you’ve made plans to kill someone?

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 7:34 pm Captain Obvious

        No, of course not, but “she” [whoever she is] will have been inculcated by The Frankfurt School in anti-gun propaganda & disinformation & brainwashing since the first day her parents dropped her off at daycare. So she will be hyper-sensitive to any sort of spergish Columbine/VaTech/Newton nervousness or apprehension or over-eagerness on your part.

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 7:36 pm Captain Obvious

        [cribbing from something that’s in m0d]… She’s just in it for the BANG. Concentrate on making her experience fun for her [which means primitive/primordial/neanderthal/troglodyte back-to-basics], and don’t you dare start sperging out on her.

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      • You think owning guns means you’ve made plans to kill someone?

        Either that or something.

        Doesn’t owning a car mean you’re planning on driving somewhere?

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      • Do you know where you can get those clear university stickers for car windows custom made? I always wanted to drive around DC with a Junkerschule Toelz alma mater sticker on my car just to bust their balls. They are the very worst offenders on this account.

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      • Do you know where you can get those clear university stickers for car windows custom made?

        Any print/reprographics shop can take a custom order for anything.

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      • Thanks. I’ll get a bunch of them made.

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    • alphabet agency troll?

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 8:29 pm Captain Obvious

        Yeah, I got to wondering similar thoughts. Something feels off with this one. Could be just the usual JIDF termites, but it feels different, at least so far. Maybe a new initiative on (((their))) part – break the ice with 2nd Amendment talk?

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      • No doubt with all the new publicity. Be careful (((they))) are watching.

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      • I never said anything about breaking the ice. I really meant just having a gun collection that people including dates are bound to find out about eventually.

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      • Well, saruh recently came out as a Holocaust-denier (and, wonder of wonders, her essay was by far the most coherent and level-headed comment she’s ever made), but of course she continues–DON’T HOLD IT AGAINST THE JEWS YOU ANTISEMITE SCUM!!! lozlzozlz

        I mean, sure, they’ve tried to psy-op you into extinction, but c’mon Fellow Huwites, what’s a practical joke between friends?

        omg is the new Benetton catalog out yet?!?! life’s like a tub of ice cream, it’s more fun when it’s Neapolitan, just dive in! oh cmon u know u want to!!! lozlz

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      • on December 15, 2016 at 4:08 am (((Divine Son of Kek)))

        You’re all so paranoid.

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      • on December 15, 2016 at 11:59 am Captain Obvious

        Your initiative tried to break the ice as some loony-tunes trapped-in-his-Yenta-mom’s basement prepubescent kike named “Sorcery God”, but lately you’ve reverted to form as a grumpy old septuagenarian retired yid psychiatry professor. PS: Say hi to Tamir -n- Yossi for us.

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    • very hit or miss. Talking about guns = game over.
      Get her out shooting somehow = laid for sure

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      • on December 14, 2016 at 11:08 pm Captain Obvious

        Exactly. You’re trying for Sean Connery as James Bond in “Me Tarzan, You Jane.” Not some damned spergtarded lunatic like Adam Lanza.

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  5. Thanks CH, for the best collection of priceless coinages yet. Some favorites:

    ‘blue pilled betas and blue balled omegas’
    ‘a few breathless moments getting buried under a tingle avajanche’
    ‘there’s a lot of rueing in spinster nation.’ [I humbly suggest ‘there is a deal of rueing in spinster nation.’]
    ‘love, after that, is icing on the pound cake of a cad’s leavened ego.’
    ‘a meaty medium of soulful consummation’

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  6. “Still, sexually fulfilled men can become love-parched; one sometimes sees this in aging players who never settled down and have lots of war stories with which to console themselves during bouts of fleeting loneliness. And however good the pussy is, love makes it that much better.”

    Speaking of which: is Warren Beatty’s new movie still out?

    Annette Bening in her “Valmont” to “Bugsy” period was an impressive femme fatale, but by the mid-90s had painfully hit the wall, and now Beatty’s saddled with a tranny daughter who obviously tends to some pudginess (not a fatty from what I’ve seen, but there’s an ‘issue’ there) and thinks she can score gay guys if she transitions.

    He’s a man who, despite his leftism and the “Bullworth” White Genocide equation, supposedly drops all kinds of slurs in private convo and allegedly retains streaks of his Christian upbringing, if only as barbs in his conscience (he also nepotistically nursed a pederast cousin into a career as some sort of associate producer, who ultimately wound up on the run and was found dead with a belly full of lighter fluid).

    And he nursed Presidential aspirations too. I wonder what he makes of his life now?

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    • He was a Cheerleader at Washington and Lee High School in Arlington. Just another DC nerd trying to make up for his high School deficiencies. I used to deliver the Washington Post to a former classmate of his and Shirley MacLaine’s.

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  7. Wow. How touching. That last part made me cry.

    /sarc

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  8. Me, I am happy with my money and porn. And guns. Lots of guns.

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  9. CH: Betas say ‘I can’t wait until my friends see her with me.’ Alphas say ‘I can’t wait to bang her.’ [And then waits just as long or as little as it takes.]

    SF: Mittens says ‘I can’t wait until my friends see me as the first Mormon to run for a major party.’ The God Emperor says ‘I can’t wait to wield power.’ [And then works like a man of 30 for eighteen months to get it.]

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  10. one sometimes sees this in aging players who never settled down and have lots of war stories with which to console themselves during bouts of fleeting loneliness.

    I admit, this sometimes keeps me up at night. I have plenty of memories, but will they ever run out? As the late, great Johnny Thunders sang: “You can’t put your arms around a memory.” Oh well, we’ll see.

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  11. ” If this barstool had wheels,
    I’d roll on home to you “

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  12. I think I can be needy for love, after endless ONS sex just doesnt hold the same sway. Really just want a girl to love and I can be myself around, but I know that that sabotages the relationship, which leads to a melancholy of wanting love, but if you have to ‘act’ for it, is it really love?

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    • I think you are still struggling with the concept of love
      I suggest you trade it for another one beauty that is
      You will never be betrayed by it and you can find it anywhere
      in a woman, in a late hot summer day that refuses to day,
      in a moonlight….

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      • Il dit : « Rappelle-toi tes amours,
        Rappelle-toi puisque c’est ton tour.
        Y a pas d’raison pour qu’tu n’pleures pas
        Avec tes souvenirs sur les bras. »

        Et moi je revois ceux qui restent,
        Mes vingt ans font battre tambour.
        Je vois s’entrebattre des gestes
        Toute la comédie des amours
        Sur cet air qui va toujours.

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  13. Here is our favorite kike, Tim Wise, wishing for another Bolshevik revolution:

    [i]Du bist nicht ein Deutscher, sondern ein Täuscher. Du bist nicht ein Welcher, sondern ein Fälscher[/i].

    Wehrmachtssoldaten und Waffen SS, wir gedenken eure Heldentaten.

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  14. ¡jeb!

    lolz…no game needy loser. smh…

    Gawd damn I love Trump.

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    • You know….here you are, the (arguably) best-looking of a below average but EXTREMELY POWERFUL political clan (your mom looks like George Washington, for cryin’ out loud), bro of the erstwhile most powerful man in the world, surely loaded with more cash than 4 Mexican states put together in GDP, you go to Mexico – where there are TONS of sultry hotties, provided they are under 30 – and you come back having wifed…..this….??????
      Ouch.

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      • To be completely fair, she’s probably pushing 70 in that pic. She probably wasn’t nearly as unattractive when he wifed her up way back when.

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      • in this pic she doesn’t look too bad.

        but realistically jeb was never going to get much better than her.

        he is no way the best looking and even with all his wealth and birth given status (status that is not earned is like no status at all to most women) he has no swagger or charisma.

        but check out w in this pic. he’s got that alpha ZFG stance that speaks volumes.

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      • I’ll be at da club tonite and I’ll bet dollars to donuts there will be at least a dozen or three Hispanic girls – including some who are actually from Latin America – WAY hotter than Mrs. Jeb ever was.

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      • no doubt there will be. not questioning whether there are hotter latinas out there. there are many who are very hot and i have a soft spot for them myself.

        just saying that jeb and columba are a pretty reasonable match for what he has going on looks and personality wise.

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      • but check out w in this pic. he’s got that alpha ZFG stance that speaks volumes.

        GWB’s ZFG stance speaks about as many volumes as the average nigger buck’s ZFG stance. Both are to stupid to know that they’re hothouse flowers and not real alphas. Take away the protection of the CIA on the one hand and the protection of the almighty DoJ with its hate crime laws on the other, and neither would amount to a hill of shit. Jeb and HW at least have the fucking brains to know they’re not alpha in any sense and have no right to act the part.

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  15. Love is the perfect transcendence from the banal, and every man is more a romantic than the average woman, but unlike women for whom love is notarization of their self-worth and a green light on a future together, men receive their external validation primarily from internal penetration.

    Indeed. The “romance” genre should be called the “pragmatism” genre because it’s all about a woman’s struggle with internal and external barriers to getting her needs met, whereas men know that romance is tragic. The Tarantino movie True Romance was actually a riff on that difference.

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  16. It’s even worse: sexless men are also almost always loveless men.

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  17. Some of the love feels are for chillunzes. With the par’dner the pimp hand has to stay strong. 4ever

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  18. “…men are susceptible to thinking that a woman who loves them must also want to fuck them, which is true enough to sustain their delusions.”

    That is true. It is also true that a woman who loves a man want to be fucked by that man.

    That corollary, incidentally, is the premise for “assume the sale” in Game.

    “He wants to fuck me, so he must love me,” projects the woman onto the man, followed (successfully) by, “I love 💘 him, that’s why I’m fucking him.” Any failure of this façade, that is, the cad’s assumption that sex will naturally follow because the object of his desire is smitten, ruins the mating dance with a woman’s id.

    Additionally, this is why high notch count women should be avoided. Such women have accumulated demonstrable evidence that fucking does not cause men to love, and so withhold their own love from carnal partners. Your virgin bride only ever fucked you, and thus cannot personally extrapolate contrary trends from a single data point.

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  19. Julia Ioffe claims Trump is fucking his daughter and gets fired by Politico.
    Julia wishes Trump was fucking her.

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  20. on December 15, 2016 at 6:46 am (((Divine Son of Kek)))

    btw

    What is it with white men and self-deprecating humor? Do they think this is charming? I hear it everyday and it’s so off-putting. I can only roll my eyes and try to hide my contempt.

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  21. a meaty medium of soulful consummation.

    Haha, that’s a good one.

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  23. BEST FUCKING ARTICLE I READ IN YEARS!

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  24. Rings mostly true but you’re being too generous to the new breed of western woman. You don’t fuck 40 guys by the age of 25 because you’re in love with them all. In a society chock full of feminine men and masculine women this aspect of the post almost seems outdated. Plenty of women are out there just looking to get fucked with zero strings attached. Encouraged by the sexual liberation wild oats narrative. You’ve touched on all this before.

    Also where does the beta bux angle come in under Maxim 80? It’s well established that women will trade the goods for financial stability.

    Women employ sex as a means or even per se far too often for sex to neatly equal validation of love.

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    • was going to say something similar. when people who “love” each other shank each other the next day as easily as killing the ants on your countertop you really have to go deeper and look at the underlying biology.

      “love” in conjunction with sex seems to serve as a local anesthetic, temporarily numbing each person’s left cerebral hemisphere so they’ll forget about anything rational and pop out some little guys, even with someone who’s emotionally incompatible, but genetically complimentary. my guess is we’re wired this way because in ancient times the responsibility of raising kids was shared around and so partnership compatibility wasn’t as big an issue as it is with the nuclear family model.

      love in conjunction with sex and birth control (a la the nihilist fairy tale of modern times) is more or less just recreational drug use. numbing for the sake of immediate gratification. this is why one should approach the opposite sex merely from a cost/benefit approach. don’t delude yourself into the soul mate crap. you can have 100s of “soul mates”, each one better than the next. if you’re smart, you’re looking for the best soul mate deal for the least possible amount of risk/investment.

      call me cynical but I don’t think there’s anything unselfish about love between two people fucking. in fact, they seem to be inversely proportional: the more sex-based the relationship, the more likely each person is thinking only of themselves. they may GROW to love each other, but that seems to be an entirely separate matter.

      where love comes from I have no idea. all I know it’s the more I love a woman the less I want to fuck her. go figger.

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      • “all I know it’s the more I love a woman the less I want to fuck her. go figger.”

        This is one of the most painful truths i have learned since finding the manosphere. The more i love a woman, the less i want to fuck her like an animal. I wish it wasn’t this way and I could have these “wife goggles” i have heard so much about. Instead new pussy is what makes my blood run, motivates me at the gym, keeps my edge.

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      • “all I know it’s the more I love a woman the less I want to fuck her. go figger.”

        I’ve always been more the type of guy who had to have a great level of fondness… indeed, even call it “love”… towards a woman…

        … in order to truly despoil, degrade, and shag her totally rotten like a mindless simian.

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      • Guess I’m just the sensitive type.

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      • I generally agree but can say with all honesty that love is more than just a drug to get you to pump out little guys. ist also a drug to keep you around to take care of them. Sex is also much more fulfilling when there is genuine care and affection involved. My 2 Cents.

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  25. Trumps AMOGing…of Paul Ryan was a joy to behold. Comparing him to a wine…people tired of winning coming to Ryan (as he is a loser)and pleading to tell Trump to stop.

    Trump also said we’re going to knock (the fuck) out (of) Isis
    Splendid theatre

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    • on December 15, 2016 at 11:51 am Captain Obvious

      A 20-year toll: 368 gymnasts allege sexual exploitation ||| IndyStar investigations revealed that children were being abused in gymnastics gyms, but no one knew how widespread the problem was. Until now. ||| Dec 15, 2016 ||| http://www.indystar.com/story/news/2016/12/15/20-year-toll-368-gymnasts-allege-sexual-exploitation/95198724/

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      • Shocked… shocked to learn!

        The as-of-yet untold story of rampant sexual abuse of children in the ghettos and barrios will likewise surprise no one.

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      • That Video is from France and Belgium and it interviews Alain Sorrel discussing the problem. I have seen more than one like this on German TV. They interview a couple of victims and witnesses of the SRA. The man in the title shot is discussing how Marc Dutroux’s wife was released early from her 30 year sentence and allowed to live in a convent in this small Belgian town and that it was scandalous. The witnesses describe children being cut up with electric knives and allowed to suffer, systematically drawn and quartered while alive after being raped by several men.

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      • Marc Dutroux was procuring these children for the Belgian royal family. That’s why he sat in pretrial confinement for many years.

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      • The witnesses describe children being cut up with electric knives and allowed to suffer, systematically drawn and quartered while alive after being raped by several men.

        Sounds more like Tales From Treblinka.

        I tend to be very skeptical of “witnesses” telling such tales.

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      • That’s fine. You think 9 11 was done by OBL and Lee Harvey Oswald shot Kennedy too, so I take your assessment in light of that. Sorrel is very credible.

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      • You think 9 11 was done by OBL and Lee Harvey Oswald shot Kennedy too,

        You forgot to mention “and that a carpenter can be resurrected.”

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      • but the sign of Jonas

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  27. I’D LIKE TO ABOLISH BLACKS.

    http://dailycaller.com/2016/12/14/dc-public-schools-spokeswoman-wants-to-get-rid-of-all-white-men/

    Oh, was that in poor taste? Pardon me.

    (Your tax dollars at work, goys.)

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    • I bit on this one. Note that the woman has a shirt that reads “dibs on prince harry”… they just can’t help it can they.

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  28. Thank you CH. A thousand times thank you. Your words helped me break my neediness/thirst. Your 16 Commandments of Poon belong in the library of Congress. Your teachings can benefit many men if they study and apply.

    This weekend i fucked 3 girls in one day. The old me never would have imagined that was possible. Now I do crazy shit like this regularly. Still beaming over this. I am dripping confidence. Girls all around me are open and flirtatious- they feel the sexual energy and i feel unstoppable. When i see sad bitter men shoot me dirty looks I know they can sense i am getting more than my share of pooosy. When i see fellow gamers we give each other a knowing nod and smile because we know how good this life is.

    Meanwhile I have some awesome really nice buddies who are on years long dry streak /incel status who are richer than me, more successful than me – but none if that matters because they are blue pilled. I have tried to help them but they think redpill thinking is racist/sexist lol so they continue to suffer and feel lonely. One of the girls i fucked literally told me she wanted to be grabbed by the pussy. So i obliged. Been cleaning up immensely with Trump game.

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    • Trump game ftw lolzolozllzolzozl

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    • This weekend i fucked 3 girls in one day.

      Careful ’bout them 2nd degree burns on the ol’ Johnson…

      … among other things. 😮

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    • right on, quix. enjoy it. i wish this Intel was available when I was your age. I did pretty well, but the decoding was slow and tedious. with what i know now i could have been the genghis khan of my region. that’s on your shoulders now. spread the conquering far and wide. in a few hundred years maybe one of every five shitlords will have you as an ancestor.

      CH and a handful of others provided the Rosetta Stone that tied it all together. we’re all indebted.

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    • Hahaha true Greg. My dick was tired as fuck on monday lol needed a rest.

      I dont want to get doxxed by strapon-type lurkers on CH’s board by posting pics or bring unwanted attention here. My favorite one was tiny as fuck, 4’11” (im 6’4″) with double d’s and a fat ass. funsize haha. It’s weird man, CH’s board is one of the few places i can be honest. I have a group of friends who can get chicks but I don’t want to just brag to them, gotta wait til we meet up for a beer and trade war stories. My other group of friends is way more tame and I could never tell them this stuff. They would never believe me, then resent me anyway lol. Only one guy in that tamer group is like me, and he has the same problem – can only share stories with me cuz it makes the other guys with wives jealous and resentful and we don’t want to brag just to be dicks. That dude tagged 4 girls in one week and was proud but could only tell me about it cuz the other dudes would act all judgmental and prudish lol.

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    • worthy of a Leo, Quix…

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    • on December 15, 2016 at 3:00 pm Captain Obvious

      >”This weekend i fucked 3 girls in one day… Only one guy in that tamer group is like me… That dude tagged 4 girls in one week” ——— Congrats, but at that rate, you WILL cross paths with herpes, human papilloma virus, chlamydia, antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis, etc etc etc… Try to stay clean, Holmes, ’cause you just MIGHT [email protected] a Nice Girl some day, and it would be horrible if you gave her herpes or similar.

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  29. post a picture of her

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  30. on December 15, 2016 at 2:07 pm (((Divine Son of Kek)))

    https://kakistocracyblog.wordpress.com/2016/12/15/the-national-gerrymander/

    “If it helps, perhaps in 2020 Putin will agree to sneak over the border and obtain an EBT card and subsidized housing before taking any part in the process. I presume by precedent this would assuage their concerns.”

    Heh.

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  31. Women love themselves and – if the children are very lucky – their biological offspring, sperm donor irrelevant.
    While men are certainly capable of love – whoever came up with the notion that women are the ‘romantic’ sex musta been a VERY good con artist – a man actually looking for genuine love is best served with a trip to the local animal shelter.

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    • Men are capable of abstract thinking, and of agreeing to work with those around him to accomplish an abstract future goal. Women can’t abstract; if they can’t put themselves into the scenario, they can’t imagine the scenario.

      That said, Men have a hard time understanding that women DON’T love the same way a Man loves. When a Man experiences love, it could be present throughout his life, including should the woman leave (that emptiness heals). A woman doesn’t feel “love”, she just feels. If the feeling passes, the “love” is gone just as sure as if it was never there.

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  32. Great article

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