Signs That A Woman Is Cheating In Her Heart

A reflexive male impulse to white knight for women may have evolved because, one, enough women in the past sexually rewarded men who went out of their way to protect female virtue and, two, the precoital penumbras of female sexual vice are fainter than the leery male sexual vice, and therefore more easily missed or misinterpreted by constitutional white knights.

White Knights and Pussy Polishers provide a useful context for the topic to be discussed in this post. Many men, especially pedestal-primping provider-primary beta males, are utterly oblivious to any signs that their girlfriends or wives may be growing romantically removed from them. Worse, when a man does feel that sinking feeling that his woman’s nethers retract to his touch, he reacts with self-abasing misunderstanding of the nature of her sexual withdrawal, often wrongly supposing his own fault and figuring that more of what she claims she wants from him is exactly what she needs.

More cynically, there’s an ego protective mechanism in men, evident in its advanced stages in married men, to elide the existence of, or the causes for, any romantic dissatisfaction percolating in their lovers.

Given the characteristic white knight urge of men to, basically, assume the best of women and the worst of themselves, it should come as no surprise that women often begin cheating in their hearts long before their boyfriends or husbands are aware of the limbic detour. The stereotype of the befuddled beta hubby oblivious to the real reasons for his wife’s foreclosed desire is a sitcom staple.

Luckily, you are honored to be on the elite Chateau Heartiste guestlist, (“I’m an H-lister!”) which means you have access to knowledge that the ancients pondered. Here you will learn what signs to watch for that betray congestive infidelity in your woman’s heart.

She has stopped spontaneously touching you.

White Knight/Pussy Polisher Imagined Cause: She’s reacting to your emotional distance.
Real Cause: You lost that alpha male mojo.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Tenderly express your feelings so she’s comfortable being intimate again.
CH Solution That Will Work: Slap her ass after flirting with a waitress in front of her. Ass-ownage is 9/10ths of the law.

She’s stopped acting jealous when other women talk to you.

White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s matured into a secure woman with a healthy self-esteem.
Real Cause: You no longer inspire her to mate guard.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Compliment her on her independence.
CH Solution That Will Work: Dread game.

She’s nagging all the time.

White Knight Imagined Cause: You aren’t doing your share of the household chores.
Real Cause: She’s becoming repulsed by your beta stink and lashing out by subconsciously emasculating you.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Be a helpful househusband.
CH Solution That Will Work: Tell her to shut the fuck up. Leave for a few days. Don’t say where you’re going.

She’s stopped asking for your opinion about mutual concerns.

White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s a strong independent woman who has learned to think for herself.
Real Cause: She cares as little for your opinion as she cares for your dick in her pussy.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Leave all decision-making to her.
CH Solution That Will Work: Rudely inform her when you think she’s about to do something stupid. When she complains that she didn’t ask you, act nonchalant. “No shit. But I said it anyhow.”

She’s stopped dressing like a feminine woman in your company.

White Knight Imagined Cause: Love is unconditional and she doesn’t have to prove herself to you all the time.
Real Cause: Women don’t try to please men they don’t want to fuck. You’ve become weak.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Learn to appreciate her ratty sweatpants.
CH Solution That Will Work: Have another woman’s perfume on your shirt collar.

She’s staying longer hours at work.

White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s an ambitious woman.
Real Cause: She wants to fuck her boss.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Support her!
CH Solution That Will Work: Come home even later than her. Humming a happy tune.

She’s making impossible demands.

White Knight Imagined Cause: Her demands are reasonable. You’re letting her down.
Real Cause: She turning into a cruel bitch who hates having to live under the same roof as you.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Supplicate harder!
CH Solution That Will Work: Agree and amplify. “Yeah, I’ll do that right after I bang your mom’s hole ten ways to Sunday.”

She shows no appreciation for what you do.

White Knight Imagined Cause: Whatever you’re doing for her is not nearly as much as she’s doing for you.
Real Cause: You turn her off and she’s lost any desire to please you.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Drop passive-aggressive hints about feeling unloved.
CH Solution That Will Work: Stop doing things for her. When she notices, tell her, “You have two arms and hands? Use them.”

She’s never satisfied.

White Knight Imagined Cause: You aren’t treating her like the strong, independent woman she is.
Real Cause: She despises you.
White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Compliment her. Cuddle her. Perform cunnilingus. Ask for nothing in return. Promise to do more.
CH Solution That Will Work: Flip the script. Get her Skittles for her birthday. Make her do favors for you.

The number one sign that your woman is thinking of cheating may be a monthly biological process, which moderately correlates with all of the above signs.

The male infidelity urge resolves itself quickly. When men start feeling that tug toward fulfilling their primal genetic compulsion for poosy varietals, they will, if unburdened by scruples, execute in fairly short order and without the psychological torture that emotionally distancing women will put their men through. But a woman’s winding road to infidelity is longer, twistier, and unmarked. She’ll take a while getting there, and she’ll drop moldy bread crumbs for you along the way, but once she’s there she’s never coming back, not in the same way you knew her, and you won’t be able to reach her when she’s that far out either.

A woman’s unfaithfulness is like Ebola; by the time you’re bleeding from the eyes, it’s too late. You have to catch her waywardness early and deliver the proper correctives — 90% of the time, this means stop being beta. At the first notice of any of these omens of unfaithfulness, you have a window of opportunity to switch her bitch off. Dial down the beta provider comfort giver, and dial up the alpha lover excitement giver. If you are already at the stage where she’s denying you sex on flimsy pretexts (“My cat needed his asshole Nair’ed”), it’s probably too late. Her heart has left your stable and is trotting away for alpha pastures.





Comments


  1. on August 7, 2014 at 11:04 am Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM) lzozozozozlzo (TM)

    lzolzozozolzolzlozolzol Signs That A Woman Is Cheating In Her Ass lzozozllozlolzlozolzolz

    Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 11:08 am Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM) lzozozozozlzo (TM)

      lzolzozozolzolzlozolzol Signs That A Woman Is Cheating In Her Ass lzozozllozlolzlozolzolz

      1. She has a cock in her ass, and it is not yours.

      White Knight/Pussy Polisher Imagined Cause: She’s reacting to your emotional distance.
      Real Cause: You lost that alpha male mojo.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Tenderly express your feelings so she’s comfortable being intimate again.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Slap her ass after flirting with a waitress in front of her. Ass-ownage is 9/10ths of the law.

      2. She’s stopped acting jealous when other women don strap ons and shove them in your ass.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s matured into a secure woman with a healthy self-esteem.
      Real Cause: You no longer inspire her to mate guard.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Compliment her on her independence.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Dread game.

      3. She’s nagging all the time, with a cock in her ass, which is not yours.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: You aren’t doing your share of the household chores.
      Real Cause: She’s becoming repulsed by your beta stink and lashing out by subconsciously emasculating you.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Be a helpful househusband.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Tell her to shut the fuck up. Leave for a few days. Don’t say where you’re going.

      4. She’s stopped asking for your opinion regarding butt lubeslzozo.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s a strong independent woman who has learned to think for herself.
      Real Cause: She cares as little for your opinion as she cares for your dick in her pussy.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Leave all decision-making to her.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Rudely inform her when you think she’s about to do something stupid. When she complains that she didn’t ask you, act nonchalant. “No shit. But I said it anyhow.”

      5. She’s stopped dressing like a feminine woman in your company, and she has a cock in her ass, and it’s not yours.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: Love is unconditional and she doesn’t have to prove herself to you all the time.
      Real Cause: Women don’t try to please men they don’t want to fuck. You’ve become weak.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Learn to appreciate her ratty sweatpants.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Have another woman’s perfume on your shirt collar.

      6. She’s staying longer hours at work, with a cock in her ass.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: She’s an ambitious woman.
      Real Cause: She wants to fuck her boss.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Support her!
      CH Solution That Will Work: Come home even later than her. Humming a happy tune.

      7. She’s making impossible demands, while there is a cock in her ass, which isn’t hers.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: Her demands are reasonable. You’re letting her down.
      Real Cause: She turning into a cruel bitch who hates having to live under the same roof as you.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Supplicate harder!
      CH Solution That Will Work: Agree and amplify. “Yeah, I’ll do that right after I bang your mom’s hole ten ways to Sunday.”

      8. She shows no appreciation for what you do, with a cock in her ass, which isn’t yours.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: Whatever you’re doing for her is not nearly as much as she’s doing for you.
      Real Cause: You turn her off and she’s lost any desire to please you.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Drop passive-aggressive hints about feeling unloved.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Stop doing things for her. When she notices, tell her, “You have two arms and hands? Use them.”

      9. She’s never satisfied with your cock in her ass.

      White Knight Imagined Cause: You aren’t treating her like the strong, independent woman she is.
      Real Cause: She despises you.
      White Knight Response That Won’t Work: Compliment her. Cuddle her. Perform cunnilingus. Ask for nothing in return. Promise to do more.
      CH Solution That Will Work: Flip the script. Get her Skittles for her birthday. Make her do favors for you.

      lzozozlzlzo

      Like


      • Nice! Why did this take so long?

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:34 pm Zombie Shane

        > “Her heart has left your stable and is trotting away for alpha pastures.”

        Okay, but what if she never finds Alpha and ends up living all alone, childless, with a barren womb, and an apartment filled with cats? Even as stupid as the average cunt is, most of them will be smart enough to have New Cock lined up and waiting for them before ditching Old Cock.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:37 pm Zombie Shane

        Or maybe they are that stupid nowadays – so stupid that they would ditch proven tried and true cock in favor of the fantasy of an even better cock which might or might not actually exist in reality?

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:39 pm Zombie Shane

        I guess the bottom line is that no matter why she left, NEVER TAKE HER BACK!

        Like


      • They are that stupid nowdays.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:45 pm A Random Guy

        Assuming, of course, that she leaves you for c*ck. Believe it or not, I’ve known more than one guy where after his wife had the requisite N kids, several years later, she suddenly discovers she would prefer to play for the other team…

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 5:57 pm Zombie Shane

        > “They are that stupid nowdays.”

        > ”after… N kids… she suddenly discovers she would prefer to play for the other team”

        We really SRSLY need a persistent sub-meme in the Manosphere about how to create a battery of surreptitious tests which dudes could use to gently poke and prod in search of even the faintest signs of this insanity and Darkness prior to making babies with these evil nutjob cunts.

        Like


      • The good news is that women are also malleable. With the right guidance, she can stay out of the darkness.

        Like


      • Amen to that A Random Guy.

        Problem is still the guy isn’t alpha enough to draw the requisite tingles, hence “if MY husband isn’t attractive NO MAN is attractive” or so they think => pink team

        Like


      • They ARE that stupid these days.

        The mainstream media and corporate-frakfurt school-feminist propaganda industrial complex has put many a hamster into entitlement and expectation hyperdrive.

        By the time the hamster has begun to slow down (if ever); a woman has “hit the wall” her sexual market value has plummeted and she begins to reap what she has sown.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 9:52 pm A Random Guy

        At least one was (we all think) a dyke from Day-1, but was trying to pass as straight and I think finally got tired of the lies. Sucked for everyone, especially their kids…

        Like


      • on August 8, 2014 at 4:58 am gunslingergregi

        1. She has a cock in her ass, and it is not yours.

        ””””””””””””’

        studies have shown that to be true 50 percent of the time
        he he he

        Like


      • on August 8, 2014 at 6:14 am Beatrice King

        What a bunch of sexist drivel i hope no male from York Uni will believe all of this misogynist crap they write about women.

        if you aren’t aware the OPP can file criminal charges about ur post for hateful, sexist, explicit and pornographic content

        rot in jail you misogynist loser

        Like


      • Its us misogynists that get the most pussy sweetie.

        [CH: that’s true. chicks dig a suave misogynist. unfortunately for fat cunty feminists, that doesn’t work when the sexes are reversed. man-haters don’t do very well with men.]

        Like


  2. The amount of people I’d give this list to if I thought there’d be any chance of them listening is large. Every time someone posts on facebook how much they love their GF, I make a prediction they’ll break up in six months. Outside of married couples, it’s a pretty accurate guess.

    Like


    • yeah, facebook can give you a lot of clues about what’s going on in a relationship.

      those posts by boyfriends make me cringe too. and the girlfriends or wives of those guys almost never post about the guys in a positive way. those are the girls who post pictures of themselves with their girlfriends at bars or concerts or whatever but never post pictures of themselves with the guy or anything positive about happiness, love or relationships. they post all those quotes about being strong independent women and how real men should love them at their worst. if they do post something about the relationship it’s something about how she’s happy with her man because he loves her just the way she is.

      rare to see the scenario play out any other way. facebook is a good tool if you use it the right way. checking out what a girl writes during bad times in her relationship or after a break up is good information to have. the nice girls stay positive for the most part or don’t say anything at all when things are going bad for them. the nasty ones, post all the shiz about how great it is to be single or how she’s a one in a million girl or how men don’t know a good thing when they have it…blah blah blah.

      Like


      • another facebook tip.
        if a girl leaves her relationship status blank or it’s set to single while she’s in a relationship, she’s not invested in you and she’s okay with letting the world think she’s still available. girls who are happy with a man want everyone to know about it.

        [CH: absolutely.]

        Like


      • mine wanted me to initiate the fb ‘status’ – i did after about a year.

        bish is more twitter/instagram, though regardless – even if she wants you to initiate the relationship status on fb – i’d say that’s a red flag

        Like


      • Another facebook pro tip. If there’s no pics , shes fat as fuck.

        Like


      • FB tip, don’t use FB

        Like


  3. […] Signs That A Woman Is Cheating In Her Heart […]

    Like


  4. I think men white knight because it was once a reasonable expectation. Women would seek protection, the men who gave it would be rewarded. Rather simplistic, but white knights tend not to be name Sir Thinksalot.

    Like


    • It tended to work out better if one was an actual knight

      Like


    • I blame Christianity/Catholicism. All that Mother Mary worship. I know Christianity is supposed to be patriarchal but I think there’s a lot of matriarchy in there. And shaming of men for being evil sinners. Everything Christianity tells you not to be – self-interested, lustful, a jerk etc. is basically what women are attracted to.

      Like


      • And of course I blame the left as well but I view Christianity as the origin of whites embracing egalitarianism.

        Like


  5. If she’s had short hair for years then suddenly starts growing it out, you’re done…

    Like


    • If she goes (bottle) Blonde, if she starts working out, if there’s makeup where there wasn’t, if she starts taking classes in something like languages, sports or similar, if she starts listening to music ‘younger’ than her years….the list goes on.

      Like


      • I disagree with this. Sometimes women, and men, just get their shit together. And sometimes they happen to be married when that happens. If you have a few kids and have let yourself go, you might just hit rock bottom one day and want your mojo back. And this should please your spouse, not threaten him. This also happens when the kids get a bit older and women have time to refocus on things they previously enjoyed.

        Like


  6. Cautionary note: If she changes her birth control method, she may suddenly hate your guts. So, in one example, if you’re recently married and ready to have babies and she goes off the pill…you best be forearmed or else.

    Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 11:40 am The Spirit Within

      Yep.

      When she announces that certain sexual positions are no longer “allowed”…

      When she reminisces about all the white knights who used to drive fifty miles to supplicate at her doorstep …

      When she starts a new job in an all-male working environment…

      …then it’s over.

      Don’t ask me how I know these things.

      Like


      • well, in my example, from what I’ve seen, you’re in a honeymoon period where the dude is accustomed to sweetness and being rewarded for embracing the beta. Then the hormones change, dudes have not been ready for the sex withdrawal and increase the beta instead of the dread.

        but yea, if a girl reminisces about doods…or takes teh poosy (beej or anoos) off the table, then you are in a world of hurt.

        Like


      • “or takes teh poosy (beej or anoos) off the table, then you are in a world of hurt.”

        girls who are into you will do anything and they want to please you. they don’t complain about giving blowjobs, they enjoy it. so many guys think it’s normal and acceptable to be going down on girls for long periods of time every time they have sex but never get blowjobs in return. that’s a power play if i ever saw it and it’s not the guy who has the power.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 12:23 pm The Spirit Within

        For me, upping the dread didn’t work. Her self-esteem was too high.

        Like


      • As we’ve seen time and again, even the biggest movie stars can’t hold onto their women, once the latter have decided to move on.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:42 pm Hammer of Love

        Dont forget ” no more blow jobs “, thats a very obvious one.

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:51 pm A Random Guy

        Which positions? Anything involving PIV? Or P pretty much anywhere? 🙂

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 2:15 pm midnight toker

        “Dont forget ” no more blow jobs “, thats a very obvious one.”

        Yep. She EXPECTS you to go down on her and says you’re selfish if you won’t but never returns the favor and acts like there is something wrong with you for wanting it. Big red flag.

        Like


  7. Signs a woman is cheating in her heart? … her thoughts smell like another man’s cum?

    Like


  8. If she’s had short hair for years then suddenly starts growing it out, you’re done…

    I once saw my dad say exactly this. Mom told him that a friend of her had done this, and he said exactly what you said

    Like


  9. Signs a woman is cheating in her heart? …

    she’s married
    she has a vagina
    she has the neighbor’s dick in her mouth

    Like


  10. on August 7, 2014 at 11:55 am notalifeguard

    >>She’s stopped acting jealous when other women talk to you.

    Very true. My woman I live with and bore child with admitted this to me when I complained how she would get jealous at the slightest “anything” from another woman. Constantly on my ass about every detail under the sun. I have to laugh at times at her insecurity, and the crazy scenarios she creates in her head about what “she thinks I am up to”, I go out of my way to NOT create drama! Even though she is quite a good looking woman and I get many compliments on her.

    Though At what point is the jealousy getting out of hand from the woman CH?

    Like


  11. not dressing feminine or nice for you is a big one. she’ll dress up to go out with girlfriends or for work but never bothers to wear anything nice for you. she might not be cheating yet but she cares more about impressing everyone else than she cares about impressing you. it’s just a matter of time.

    Like


  12. Signs you might be infected with “Alpha-gal” a condition that turns a red meat eating alpha into a salad eating herb – http://news.yahoo.com/bad-bite-tick-allergic-red-meat-170823632.html

    Like


  13. An aside and question for CH and commenters:

    An aside: The consequences of beta supplication never change, even as we age. (I’m over 45, and very well off). I lost someone and responded in such a beta way the memory makes me cringe. Every mistake in the book.

    A question: Once a woman sees you as beta, can she ever be made to regain the tingle reserved only for an alpha?

    [CH: yes. by way of analogy: a fat girl who slims down for her boyfriend will be more attractive to him.]

    Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 2:24 pm Hammer of Love

      Why bother ? Find another one: younger, tighter, hotter.

      Like


      • He STILL beta

        Like


      • “Why bother ? Find another one: younger, tighter, hotter.”

        you’re missing the point. sure it might be easier to find another one sometimes but some of us don’t want to have to start over with a new girl every time we have a setback.

        and getting a new girl doesn’t necessarily mean he would do better with her. he likely won’t if he doesn’t learn or change anything about himself.

        he could use this as an opportunity to learn from his mistakes and improve himself so he can either change things with that girl or get a new one. his choice.

        even if he doesn’t get her back, it would feel pretty damn awesome to turn things around and have her chasing him instead of the other way around. i think that’s worth doing just to prove to himself that he can.

        Like


    • “[CH: yes. by way of analogy: a fat girl who slims down for her boyfriend will be more attractive to him.]”

      I think men are much, much more forgiving in this scenario than women are with a former beta. She’ll just shit test him to death until he caves, because she knows he’s capable of doing it.

      [CH: i don’t think women are that perpetually calculating. women, just like men, react instinctively to having their arousal buttons pushed. if a former beta is acting sexier and manlier, his woman will eventually nestle into a more loving and affectionate rhythm with him.]

      Like


      • A woman might keep shit-testing, but if it’s a genuine personality change in the man, he’s not going to cave.

        I don’t think these tactics would work for a man who’s anything less that 100 committed to making those changes in himself, but if he is, she’s eventually going to exhaust herself. (Or she’s a psycho BPD and he’ll figure it out and leave her)

        Like


    • Once a girl sees you as beta the only way (in my experience) to become alpha in her eyes is to break all contact for at least a year then re-initiate. Otherwise the sharp transition from beta to alpha won’t be congruent to her expectations of you and will throw her off. She will just think you are an asshole beta.

      I guess you could do a gradual transition but I’ve never tried that .

      Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 7:47 pm Charlie Don't Surf

      I like to blame them for my beta mistakes. “Hanging around you makes me soft” – “Enough, I’m wrung out from all this emotion” – “Your vagina must secret some neurotoxin, I’m starting to think like a woman” – Don’t even need to put it in context – just blame her, let out a long pffft and start acting like your single. You know why some marriages last? Guys have mid-life crisis’s.

      Like


      • on August 11, 2014 at 11:03 am The Burninator

        That’s actually an interesting observation. There is no such thing, really, as a “mid life crisis”, that is a fabrication made up by the (presumably) mainstream media/entertainment complex. Men are built for excitement, for doing new things, and it’s a sign of an active mind and living spirit if a man is interested in trying out new things and experiences past the age of 28.

        That said, your observation is sound. A man who gets tired of the boring, conformist “dad” role, who is tired of coming home night after night to the same boring shit and same boring, nagging wife SHOULD by all means go out and find something exciting to do. Sitting in a cubicle for 10 hours a day then sitting at home all the rest of the hours is twenty times more boring than even the most mundane life of a farmer 100 years ago.

        Hell, a man who doesn’t get the itch to see the world outside of his suburban home, experience new things and up his game to the point that the wife gets jealous at all the girls he *might* be attracting, has a dead soul.

        So yeah, basically midlife crisis is an invention to cover up what’s really going on that has women alarmed in society – dread game.

        Like


    • Move on bra, many fish in yo fishing hole

      Like


    • Tough love much appreciated. First thing to change is me. After that, what happens, happens.

      A warning to fellow CH’ers: You can start alpha with a girl–I did–and wake up one day not realizing how beta you’ve become. Doesn’t matter a damn how educated or successful you are. I’m both–earn high six figures a year. Doesn’t change a thing.
      I’ve had my share of injuries and won and lost a few fistfights in my youth. Nothing hurts more than a woman’s contempt.

      Time to rebuild.

      Like


    • I think she can, but I’m in the move on camp. A woman who loves you loves you even when you get a little beta. In fact, she’s thrilled to see you let down your hair a bit. If she can’t let you take a break now and then without feeling “contempt,” she has an immature understanding of humanity, and you can do better. On your end, know that on the toughest of nuts, there are two ways to dominate: by being tougher than her or by being piously gentler than her (a la “the son of a preacher man.”) She’ll make mincemeat of anything in between.

      Like


    • I think you should cut ties to solidify the new you. She may have brought out the beta in you more than another woman would.

      Like


      • “She may have brought out the beta in you more than another woman would.”

        that’s a really good point. i’ve been in a situation where i was as beta as could be with one woman while at the same being totally alpha with another. some women just bring out the worst in you. those aren’t the keepers.

        Like


      • Ump Jump. Jump…

        Like


  14. on August 7, 2014 at 12:04 pm ConanTheAwesome

    More tough love from le Chateau.

    This post shall be another brick in my road to glory

    Like


  15. Signs a woman is cheating in her heart? …

    she’s married
    she has a vagina
    she has the neighbor’s dick in her mouth

    Amazing! The mind wonders how people refuse to ignore such subtle signs

    Like


    • on August 8, 2014 at 6:16 am Beatrice King

      The blogger shud be charged for hate crimes and distributing illegal and pornographic content

      [CH: so… just how fat are you?]

      Like


      • Your minge stinks

        Like


      • This whatever it is, reinforces much of what Is taught here with its shrieking. Ugly feminists have failed in their attempts to re-engineer what sexually healthy men find attractive, so the only option left open for them is to try to make normal male heterosexual desire a hate crime. The other point it underlines is that feminists believe that any opinion running contrary to their own should be censored, yet they claim to be all about freedom of expression and liberty.

        Like


  16. on August 7, 2014 at 12:12 pm Reservoir Tip

    http://eagnews.org/1000-member-secretive-progressive-journalist-group-uncovered/

    This was on Drudge for a minute or two yesterday, then it seemed to disappear.

    Ring of about 1,000 journalists, some in prominent positions, dedicated to pushing a “progressive” agenda in the news. Nobody should be shocked, but this only verifies what we’ve known for quite a while. Click-worthy.

    Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 12:14 pm Reservoir Tip

      Here’s an idea: how about starting a news network where journalists are required to not only disclose their political affiliation, but write from that point of view?

      I want to see fascist journalists go word to word with communists and cultural marxists. Unfortunately, I still feel it would amount to a bunch of Belle Knox “libertarians” representing the right, and the usual crowd representing the left.

      Like


    • And yet I distinctly remember how the cogdissers and shekel-grubbers used to smirk and snark about how anyone mentioning “agenda” was merely a paranoid mouth-breather.

      Like


    • OK, so maybe this is just fanning the flames, but … heh heh heh: http://www.smh.com.au/it-pro/government-it/israeli-propaganda-war-hits-social-media-20140717-ztvky.html

      Like


    • The liberal bias among journalists is well known. The US is split roughly evenly between Republicans and Democrats. This is no surprise, they position themselves tat way. But 90% of journalists self-describe as Liberal/Democrat/progressive.

      There is – or used to be – a website for this not very hidden conspiracy.
      Google for alternate spellings such as jornolist and you will find material to support this statement.

      Thor

      Like


  17. on August 7, 2014 at 12:15 pm Edward Scott Voeller

    >>when a man does feel that sinking feeling that his woman’s nethers retract to his touch,

    I hate it when that happens.

    Like


  18. one sign that is hard to read because it can come off as healthy jealousy and interest is when a woman nags you about spending time with her.

    it’s one thing for a woman to get jealous and say she misses you or to sweetly ask you to stay home instead of going somewhere without her. that’s healthy loving attention from a woman. but a woman who nags you or tries to guilt you into spending time with her isn’t necessarily wanting you to. she could be testing you and gathering information that backs up her theory that you aren’t worth it to her anymore.

    i had an ex that did this to me and i didn’t see what was happening until it was too late. she didn’t say she missed me or loved me, she would say things like, you don’t spend enough time with me or why are you always going out with buddies but never spending time with me. she would say i had a lot of nerve expecting sex when i didn’t take her out or do anything nice for her anymore. that wasn’t her missing me or wanting me. she was already on her way out mentally and was building her case against me.

    Like


    • that’s some good stuff.

      i think a lot of us misread things. we might think if she’s acting jealous, she’s into us but that’s not necessarily true like in your case. same as what CH was saying earlier about a girl working out or growing her hair long. those things could be a red flag or they might not be. it all goes back to the motivation behind the behavior and trying to put all the puzzle pieces together.

      i guess you have to treat it like a job. pay attention, stay objective and look at all the information you have without letting yourself get blinded by emotion.

      Like


  19. on August 7, 2014 at 12:32 pm AnonymousManosphereBlogger

    Ring of about 1,000 journalists, some in prominent positions, dedicated to pushing a “progressive” agenda in the news.

    It’s called “college.”

    Like


    • That’s just the farm club…

      It’s one thing point-shaving in a bush league game…

      Quite another when it happens in the majors.

      Like


  20. For fuck’s sake where was this article 3 years ago before this exact thing happened to me. Or more importantly, where was I.

    Oh well, come to find out a dude in his low 40s with a good job and a big house can pull way more pussy then he ever could before, and a cheatin wife with two kids in tow can’t even get a date. Life is good!

    Like


    • This article is pure gold, should be required reading for any engaged man. Worth 1000 self help books.

      Like


    • Truth.

      But I suspect we will be hearing about divorce rape soon.

      Like


    • on August 7, 2014 at 12:48 pm midnight toker

      so you’ve got two kids in tow too. does having kids hinder you in any way with the ladies? i would think it would be a draw initially but might be a problem if you want to get serious with someone or with someone young who doesn’t want to be a stepmom or wouldn’t make a good stepmom. women aren’t usually that great with other women’s kids. evil stepmoms are a theme in disney movies for a reason.

      Like


      • Well my first post-divorce GF was 22 (half my age). She never met the kids, and didn’t care. Neither did I. She said things ot me like “I LVOE IT WHEN YOU DOMINATE ME, LET’S INVEST IN ROPE” That was the best therapy ever! Current GF is my age and had kids younger so they’re basically out of her house. It’s perfect, there’s no way I’ll raise another man’s kids. Ex wanted as much custody as possible to maximize child support, but now she wants me to take the kids whenever I can. My father gave me pure gold advice “Don’t take them Friday nights, leave it open for dating” so that’s what I did. Now I have as much time with or without my kids as I want and she hasn’t had a free Friday night in years. LOLOLOLOLOLOLZZZ I don’t have two kids in tow, I have two kids whenever I want them. Oh and after she cheated I lawyered up with the best in town and I’;ve got the house. While I liked CH’s advice about going bankrupt post divorce, better to drain all finances so she get’s shit and then rebuild with a wealthy woman (my current GF has $$$)

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 1:48 pm Hammer of Love

        ” Current GF is my age and had kids ”

        Why in god’s name would you do this ?? Do you not read the wisdom posted here ?? For fuck’s sake !!!

        Like


      • @hammer of love

        Lol did you miss the part about $$$?

        HAhahahaa

        Like


      • on August 7, 2014 at 2:02 pm midnight toker

        That sounds like a good deal. You get to spend time with the girlfriend without the kids. Hers and yours. Kids are hell on a relationship especially when they aren’t yours.

        And if the girlfriend is ever around your kids, you won’t have the same problems you’d have with a childless woman. She’s a mom herself so she gets it.

        I’ve dated a couple women with kids but the kids were young and the dads weren’t around so they were always with us. Not good situations. I would probably date a woman with kids again but only if there is a dad who has them a lot or if they’re older like in your situation.

        And congrats on the divorce and the house. Sounds like you came out of a bad situation better than you were before.

        Like


      • @ midnight toker

        Yeah I’ve gotta admit, miss 22 year ass as I may, dating a woman whose kids are grown is probably the best option for me. I don’t want to deal with a woman who wants kids (I’m snipped anyway, woot woot) and I don’t want to raise another man’s kids for sure.

        I shudder at the horror of dealing with a single mom, no thanks. Been there when I was younger.

        And thanks for the grats. Yeah, nothing like some paleo, hard work at the gym and a lot of anger with your ex wife to get you into the best shape of your life, compel you to study up on some game and get everything you could only ever dream of in your younger years.

        Like


      • Evil stepmoms – and stepdads – are a staple of folklore, e.g. Grimms’ fairy tales. I suppose the Selfish Gene is talking.

        Like


    • @Adamn Last year my now ex gf had been displaying a variety of what I now see as Borderline or Cluster B traits. She was banging my brains out, then disappearing, then blaming me for disappearing when I stopped calling her during her disappearing acts.

      We had two weekends we spent which were awesome, then suddenly she started up with the distancing. Then a few days before her birthday she sent me a text: “First birthday dinner”…something was weird about it… I replied “Oh, first hand cream”—a reference to her girlfriends always buying her the shit. No response. Hmmmmmm.

      A few days later on her birthday she was late, she was bitchy, she was all moody despite the elaborate efforts I had put into creating a unique day for her and us.

      I asked, how did you go out with Tuesday? She answered with some fat, beta, white knight shlub who fancied himself a “player”.

      I knew it was over. A few weeks later she broke up. I now see she’s with that dude…

      Like


      • This is why we need to have a rotation. Never rest on your laurels, never give up your game. That’s what I’ve learned, no matter how comfortable you might be in a relationship.

        Like


  21. Don’t forget a HUGE tell. She’s been hitting the gym and is looking better then she has since before the kids came along. Game over.

    Like


    • So… you prefer women stay fat after pregnancy?

      A lot of you guys are really weird about women and the gym. If your gf/wife is serious about working out then she’s going to be walking around all sweaty and gross and not feeling particularly attractive.

      [CH: this is the reason i didn’t include “she loses weight/grows her hair long on your watch” as a sign of impending infidelity. this could be a bad or good thing. if she loves her man, she’ll want to look as good as possible for him, and she might start to love him more if he learns how to better project his masculinity.]

      Like


      • Hell no I don’t prefer that. But let’s be clear here. If your wife’s SMV suddenly goes way up and yours stays the same, you’re in big trouble. In a healthy marriage I’d like to think that fitness goals should align among the partners. Put it this way. If you, as a husband, sit around watching football drinking beer and getting fatter and your wife gets hotter and hotter, you are about to get cheated on.

        My advice? Make it a competition. I’m a lot hotter then my ex nowadays. But suddenly getting in shape does a lot for confidence and the projection of sexual energy. A woman who gets in to shape suddenly is going to be geting a lot of attention she isn’t used ot getting.

        Like


      • Nope, just saying that if her SMV suddenly drastically improves and yours doesn’t your doomed.

        Like


      • How ‘gross’ or not a sweaty body is depends 100% on the body.

        Like


  22. on August 7, 2014 at 12:49 pm EvilDictatorGuy

    This is why dictatorship and revocation of “rights” of the softer sex is the easiest and best answer. You are miserable because of freedom, pass it on.

    Like


  23. “But a woman’s winding road to infidelity is longer, twistier, and unmarked. She’ll take a while getting there, and she’ll drop moldy bread crumbs for you along the way, but once she’s there she’s never coming back, not in the same way you knew her, and you won’t be able to reach her when she’s that far out either.”

    This is…. searingly accurate. You can substitute “checking out of a relationship” for infidelity and it’s still 100% true.

    Like


    • agreed.

      when my ex left i thought it was temporary. i had seen other couples where they had separated and gotten back together so i thought that would happen with us. that she would just take a little space and then realize she’d made a mistake and come back.

      i felt blind-sided but she had been giving me clues all along and i didn’t see them. to be honest, she came right out and told what made her unhappy many times but i still never thought she’d leave.

      we have a pretty friendly relationship now and we’ve talked about what happened. she told me recently that she had been thinking about leaving me for years before she finally left and tried to keep plugging along. but once she was done, she was done and there was no going back.

      Like


      • on August 8, 2014 at 8:25 am Charlie Don't Surf

        Don’t you just love how you’re responsible for intuitively divining moldy crumby clues while being invested in a relationship – but, that once it’s over and done – out comes the directness and truth? It’s all made to sound so poignant – like after years of long-suffering – you’d failed her.

        If someone you cared about was about to be struck by a train – would you mumble up your sleeve about it – or would you be screaming at the top of your lungs? White Knight Responses Won’t Work – because they wrote the playbook – including the part where you accept blame. Meanwhile, She’s not being so oblique with the next guy she wants a relationship with.

        Like


      • “Don’t you just love how you’re responsible for intuitively divining moldy crumby clues while being invested in a relationship – but, that once it’s over and done – out comes the directness and truth?”

        Most women have to clue what they want, much less how to articulate it. And the ones that do feel conflicted and guilty for wanting it. But even if we get past all that, having to tell a man you need him to be more masculine/alpha is pointless. It defeats the purpose.

        Not defending it, but that’s the explanation.

        Like


      • “Most women have to clue what they want, much less how to articulate it. And the ones that do feel conflicted and guilty for wanting it. But even if we get past all that, having to tell a man you need him to be more masculine/alpha is pointless. It defeats the purpose.

        Not defending it, but that’s the explanation.”

        So essentially you feel guilty for being or wanting to be a feminine woman and wanting a masculine man. Because the dominant culture shames women for desiring such things and teaches that you’re supposed to be an’empowered’ careerist type. I can see how telling a man that he’s supposed to be more alpha can defeat the purpose to a degree, but at the same time I think it’s worth pointing out that the current culture we live in literally pathologizes masculinity. So boys are actually socialized to be beta, they aren’t necessarily born that way, and they’re falsely taught that women really want that.

        The first step in reversing all this, if you don’t want to communicate it to any men directly, is to *stop supporting the political left*. If you want to stop the beta-ization of men so that you aren’t constantly disappointed stop supporting the political movement that produces them and encourages this behavior. I don’t know anything about you personally but I’m saying young women in general.

        Like


    • Amy–here’s the part that I wondered about–is it true that she’s never coming back?

      Like


    • Mangina asks himself how can he recover after playing white-knight till his knuckles bleed. Thank God there is a passionate Heartiste to comfort. :p

      Like


  24. http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/dana-milbank-battle-cry-of-the-white-man/2014/08/05/961858f4-1cd4-11e4-ab7b-696c295ddfd1_story.html

    WaPo quite literally says “goodbye America, and fuck you for buying the cultural marxism”.

    Like


  25. «But a woman’s winding road to infidelity is longer, twistier, and unmarked. She’ll take a while getting there, and she’ll drop moldy bread crumbs for you along the way,»

    I have been reading a very explicit, very revealing book about infidelity, “Vow” by Wendy Plump.

    She describes how after marrying at 26 her lesser-alpha boyfriend of 8 years, she started cheating on him with really handsome cool alphas in the next few years. Her first two were same-day lays, and she describes them as:

    “I recall meeting Sarah’s fiancé and thinking, Oh my, an Errol Flynn look-alike; Sarah’s done well for herself. Then I met his twin brother and thought, Oh my, another Errol Flynn look-alike. And this one I can in fact have. Tommy had a wicked white smile that flashed a message. It said, I want to take you home. It said, Forget your husband and come with me. It said, Of all the people in this town, I want you. I abandoned myself to the scene and to the man. We ended up later that night in some grassy field, drunk on vodka and crazy to get at each other.”

    “I first met Steven on vacation, on a marina dock down in South Carolina, fresh off a fishing trip. It was 1990 and I was 29. Steven was 35, curly-haired and sun-streaked. His eyes were sharp green, like microdots, and his voice all southern honey. It was not only attraction I felt on seeing him. It was attraction on nitrous. We ended up leaving the dock that night and spending the next few days in rapturous togetherness.”

    Note the beautiful euphemisms “abandoned myself to the scene” and “ended up leaving the dock that night” for “I was determined to jump on their cocks as fast as I could”.

    Of course both were players who had other women, of which she was jealous but that did not stop her fucking them as often and hard as possible.

    The third guy was equally handsome and a very cool alpha too, but had more scruples and kept her waiting for months, until she found an opening and pounced, and she reports graphically how rapturous and wild their sex marathons were, just like with the others.

    That is how women behave with attractive men: aggressive predators who use them as sexual objects.

    Only alphas can describe true female sexuality. Betas are not involved in female sexuality. For women betas pursuing them sexually are like for a hetero man gross smelly camp gays trying to tongue kiss them.

    BTW after the first three she admits no more hidden cheats, which is hard to believe because she seems unable to control her gina tingle, and indeed she writes that she cannot understand how some women can be monogamous, because of the overwhelming sexual attraction that hot hard men generate.

    As to her stopping cheating I think that she either hit the wall or stopped confessing her cheating to her husband, because she then had two sons (probably not his own; she described her adulteries as “cuckolding”, which is more often used for adulteries resulting in children).

    She dumped him when he cheated on her and started keeping a mistress with a son; probably both the mistress was faithful to him, and he felt is was far more likely that her son was his, because he chose them over her and her children.

    Ah vital detail: he became a rich Wall Street executive, and was not really beta, just a decent lesser alpha. But evidently living with him made her start to see him as a beta.

    I very much recommend this book as a partially revealing insight on how many women live their reproductive freedom; she surely rationalizes the hell of her lifestyle, but it is still pretty clear what her motivations really are and how they are shared and supported by all her cheating friends and other women.

    Like


    • this guy couldn’t win even if he is a super alpha. women these days are conditioned to believe there is something wrong with settling down young with one man and having children.

      she was only 18 when she started dating him and had spent all of her 20s with him when she started cheating. she probably thought she was missing out or something. no doubt her friends told her she was. the mainstream media sure as hell is.

      it’s almost impossible to find a young woman today who will be content to stay faithful to a man for the rest of her life. especially during her prime reproductive years.

      with our go girl feminist culture, this kind of behavior is encouraged and supported while the idea of marrying young and having children is highly discouraged.

      Like


    • Saw her pic. She has a very masculine face. Many masculinized women (either in looks or attitude) are prime candidates for cheating and crazy unattached sex.

      .

      Like


  26. “Yeah, I’ll do that right after I bang your mom’s hole ten ways to Sunday.”

    ^”sister’s”

    Like


  27. on August 7, 2014 at 2:12 pm Libertardian

    “Diversity + proximity = playground bloodletting.”

    Strange, I’m not seeing that story in the MSM. I guess child murder is less important than chortling with glee over the guilty verdict for Theodore Wafer (making sure to remind everyone it was a white on black crime, of course!)

    Like


  28. It’s interesting to note that when a woman cheats, she knows exactly what she’s doing. A dark truth about this is: She also loves it.

    This is evident because women don’t just count physical cheating (touch, kiss, sex etc..) but they also take into consideration something called “emotional cheating” (flirting with other girls, giving other girls the eye, saying you find other women attractive in her presence etc…)

    I’ve stated before that when a girl does finally cheat on you (by getting pummeled raw dog by another guy) your use of game and or dread, will be useless to her.

    A girl has space for only one man at a time in her heart. Once she feels that another guy is better than you (re: Hypergamy) and she bangs him, you’ve been replace and there’s nothing you can do about it at this point. Rollo covers this in his “War Brides” post and it’s true to the letter.

    Knowing really is half the battle here and if any of you guys are currently experiencing your gf cheating, I suggest you abandon ship and start a new. As they say in the pimp world, “Just cop and blow.” But keep this all in mind for your next relationship.

    These teachings are a god send to any man willing to improve his “love” life.

    Like


    • I fear you are right. Once you are emotionally replaced by another guy, the sex she has with him is practically a formality. I think women also move in much more easily than guys.

      Like


    • It sounds to me like you’re saying the cheating, whether emotional or physical, is inevitable. So I’m not sure how the advice is a “god send.” It seems to be just to be a way to delay things.

      Like


    • pro comment

      Like


  29. My prior comments seems hung up in moderation. In short, once a woman sees you as beta (in context of LTR) is there any going back? Or if she is gone, is she gone for good?

    Like


    • I think the greater question is, once a woman sees you as beta, what do you need to do to get to the point of not giving a fuck? (Alpha) Win win no matter what she does.

      Like


    • The gina tingle seems to be an automatic reflex, with very little history. To the point that a horrified PUA with a lot of notches once wrote that he had realized that women are not sentient when it comes to sex.

      He used the wrong word: they are certainly sentient also as to sexual choices, but what is limited is probably the free will, not the sentience. It seems very hard for most women to will themselves to override their tingle, not that they even try usually.

      Once the gina tingles they are desperately needy; probably because the gina tingle is the signal that the man is an ideal sperm donor for having handsome dark triad player sons who can give her cheaply lots of grandchildren, by cuckolding other women’s sons.

      In decades past I have sometimes switched from alpha to beta or beta to alpha and the tingle switched too, and quickly and visibly, and apparently mechanically, sometimes to the astonishment of the women involved, when they realized they had switched from disgust to neediness or viceversa.

      Like


  30. This post gets me nostalgic and gushy:

    4 years ago (at the tender age of 23) I was in an 7 month relationship with a hot indian girl (HB8) at my school, same age. My love for her was strong and my daydreams filled with thoughts about me and her getting married, having children, and spending our lives together.

    I was the typical beta boyfriend – deferring to her on planning our dates, treating her with unflinching sweetness even during the rough times when she would verbally abuse me, and basically just being there for her every time she needed me. The kicker: we never had sex. Of any variety. She told me that she was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage and maintain her purity. Of course I respected that because I loved her (and because it was exceedingly rare for a 23 year old who lives in this country to be a virgin- regardless of ethnicity – even before taking the Red Pill I realized that). The closest we got to doing it was me spooning her as we slept together on the couch watching a movie as I summoned every ounce of willpower I had to retain my flaccidity.

    The relationship ended tragically but predictably. I was so thoroughly castrated that she didn’t even have the courtesy to tell me that she was no longer interested. It was radio silence on her end. Having some semblance of dignity, I stopped contacting her after a handful of texts and a two voicemails over the course of one weekend (I didn’t say anything to the extent of “why are you ignoring my calls” – but instead just said “I know you’re probably busy but hit me back when you’re free.”)

    After two agonizing weeks of not seeing her, I hear from one of my guy-friends that she and a friend were at a club – both of them making out with random dudes. What crushed me even more than the fact that she was making out with someone who wasn’t me was with the speed with which she made out with him. It took a good 4 dates (I’m talking “proper” dates that included dinners and a trip to a performance at the music hall) before our first french-kiss because she told me that she only considered guys who took things slow.

    In the weeks leading up to our breakup, here are things I noticed that in retrospect offer some insight into our breakup.

    Normally: She would try to garner a response out of me by saying things like “oh that guy is SO hot!” when a celebrity she liked came on TV or in conversation (I now recognize this as a tell for chick who craves drama). Occasionally this would apply to actual guys the two of us knew. I would do a poor job of concealing my jealousy: either by too-quickly changing the subject or reacting and saying the same about hot celebrity females, etc.

    In the weeks leading to our breakup: She didn’t play this game. As the saying goes: ‘the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.’

    Normally: She’d want to spend time with me. Because she wore the pants in the relationship – she’d be the one always initiating the dates and it was almost like clockwork to expect a call from her every friday afternoon/ saturday morning with a plan for our day together.

    In the weeks leading to our breakup: She became closer to one of her girlfriends and started spending a lot of time with her. Eventually I’d be the one calling on Saturday morning, only to be met with a “Oh, me and Anita are going to get our eyebrows done today…” or “I’m spending the weekend with Anita and her sister in Chicago.”

    Normally: She’d be the one to initiate our cuddle-sessions

    In the weeks leading to our breakup: She wouldn’t.

    A couple of years later, after a few semi-awkward bump ins here and there – she (somewhat) opened up to me about her reason for going silent.
    According to her: the main reason was that I stressed her out too much when we had studied together and she needed ” a clear head.” She then apologized profusely. Additionally she told me that she was surprised that I didn’t send her more texts when she decided to ignore me. Not sure if she was trying to rekindle anything or not by being frank with me, but I played it cool and did my best to act as if it was ancient history (though at the time- I still had feelings for her).

    In other words, the thing about me that intrigued her the most about our time together (enough so that she’d care to bring it up years later) was my relative indifference to her radio silence as judged by number of correspondences sent.

    Like


  31. she tells you to throw a rubber on it after 2 1/2 yrs, post abortion.

    not sure how to proceed.

    i said ‘you’ve had a preggo scare before, haven’t you’

    her: yah

    me: did you wrap dem boyz after your scare?

    her: …thats not the point

    me: hmm

    red flag?

    me: did you

    Like


  32. Try typing into google “Why am I not attracted to” and look at the suggested searches. I get “my husband” and then “nice guys.” LOL

    Like


  33. on August 7, 2014 at 3:48 pm Mitch Cumstein

    She stops sucking your dick.

    Even if you guys are still rolling in the hay on a regular basis…if you’re accustomed to getting your knob polished and she’s not doing it, something is amiss.

    Like


  34. Here are some signs, men told me.

    -Dye hair blonde. (If you did not request this, it is a red flag.)
    – Answering back.
    – Less investment in babies. (If new borns, no breast feeding.)
    – Wearing more sexy clothes.
    – Start to spend much more time with friends.
    – Is more flirtatious with men mutual friends.
    – Lack of making love.
    – Being more stubborn.
    – Hiding phone.
    – No hugs.
    – Seems irritated by you.
    – Stops cooking for you, or does not much as much effort in to your dinner.
    – Irons your clothes sloppily.
    – Does not compliment you.
    – Does not return calls or messages fast.
    – Basically, just cares less. If she was want to please you before and now does not.

    Like


    • I forgot another one.

      – Looking at other men. For example if you take your woman to dinner and she is sneak look at the waiters or other persons ding a ling area. Women in love do not.
      A natural accidental glance will be for split of second, but if she is wanting other ding a ling, her eyes will focus on that area of man for a few seconds.

      Like


  35. PA solution to everything is communism, mein comrades!

    Rape!

    Like


  36. Great, great post.

    Like


  37. on August 7, 2014 at 6:01 pm Robert What?

    OMG – CH – were you spying on me for the beta responses? Up until I found this and other sites in the ‘sphere, I WAS that beta guy. I went down the list – beta response: check, beta response: check, beta response: check, etc. For example i told myself that my wife’s infidelities were all my fault. I cringe now thinking about it.

    Like


  38. I believe the ass smacking solution works in a variety of circumstances, especially if it’s followed up with a “dat ass” and a “we’re gonna have to do something about that a little later”.

    Like


  39. Swedish Tinder, 95% 8+

    Like


  40. It is sad. Most men just want a quiet decent life with some fun thrown in every now and then. Most of life is working for survival, making money enough to support yourself and your family (if you have one). No one doing this can be “Alpha” enough to keep the average woman because there is always someone greater Alpha then you whose willing to fuck your woman. So eventually she’ll wander and the current structure of society rewards this so its only a matter of time. The only way she stays is if her options are terribly limited – i.e. she’s ugly, fat, gross, a bitch, etc. and even THEN there is still some dumbass drunk enough to drop a load in her.

    Thus the only way to keep a woman long term is for males to bring real world consequences that attack the first level of wants/needs “Bitch if you cheat on me you will be thrown out of the house and get to fight nature/beg for food/sleep with whatever is on offer for moldy bread crusts and you’ll be doing this with a broken nose, jaw, 3 cracked ribs, and a black and blue face.” Now the answer is she’ll be doing it with your house, your car, and a mandatory monthly stipend. Marriage for all but the .01% is thus impossible. Goodbye civilization, it was nice knowing you.

    Like


    • on August 8, 2014 at 2:13 am Mean Mr. Mustard.

      Find a quiet, isolated spot out in a forest. Dig a shallow grave and take a photo. Then tell her that you love her and show her where she will end up if she fucks up.

      LOLZ

      [CH: as we live in the age of the nsa, you should caption comments like this one with the disclaimer “just a joke”.]

      Like


    • “there is always someone greater Alpha then you whose willing to fuck your woman.”

      this line of thinking is a major problem. never once since my first fuck have i thought any other dude on the planet could fuck better than me.

      you need a reboot.

      Like


      • |||“there is always someone greater Alpha then you
        |||whose willing to fuck your woman.”

        This is an excellent point, and why even being an alpha is like having a tiger by the tail. Alphas know how women are really like, because women, even other alpha’s women, cheat with them.

        The alpha instinctive solution is never have oneitis. Never. Any woman who seems adoring now may backstab you the next day.

        |||this line of thinking is a major problem. never
        |||once since my first fuck have i thought any other
        |||dude on the planet could fuck better than me.

        That’s good for your self-perception of your own value, but irrelevant. Women have a drive to want strange alpha cock, even if they already have alpha cock.

        My variant of one of the maxims is: for women five minutes of new alpha beat five minutes of old alpha, even if by not as much as it beats five years of beta.

        Probably because in evobio terms having sons from several alphas instead of one maximizes her chances of having some or many healthy player grandchildren.

        Like


  41. CH Solution That Will Work: Tell her to shut the fuck up.

    lol versatile gold

    Like


  42. One of my favorite bloggers is outed. He hits back. Stands by his every word. That’s how you deal with anti-white scum, and win.

    http://m.norwichbulletin.com/article/20140807/NEWS/140809665

    Like


  43. Just ran across this. Some herbivore beats the snot out of a beta:

    JFC. If you are hunting some herbie and it comes at you. . . eat the #@&*ing thing! While I might not have killed it, I guarantee my video would have been way more cool.

    Like


  44. When in a marriage or LTR keep working out, gaming , DHV, be the prize and remove even slight acts of beta neediness – no matter how hot you think she is.

    Like


  45. LR: Girl Picked Up Off Random NYC Street and Fucked

    http : //the-underground-player . com/blog/2014/08/06/lr-girl-picked-random-nyc-street-and-fucked

    Like


  46. on August 8, 2014 at 4:21 am gunslingergregi

    that’s beta shit though you should be finding ways to make your bitch leave when you are tired of her no matter how good she treating you

    Like


  47. on August 8, 2014 at 4:23 am gunslingergregi

    does nobody else get tired of a bitch no matter what?
    am I that special that i’m the only one that wants a bitch to gtfo after a while
    I still get jealous if they get with another dude but yea that ain’t a reason to keep em

    Like


  48. on August 8, 2014 at 4:35 am gunslingergregi

    i’m looking at her and i’m thinking realistically she is hot
    and i’m like wtf she looks good her body hot I don’t want to fuck her though
    like wtf i’m calling other bitches and she in bed right there
    but I don’t want to use her body
    I got to be hell on bitches minds

    Like


    • on August 8, 2014 at 4:37 am gunslingergregi

      but she gone and I got some feelings of missing but really I don’t want to use the bitch way she needs to be used lol
      maybe give it couple months of absence making heart grow fonder or some shit

      Like


    • Rejection by a man causes hamster burnout. I’ve done this before. They can’t possibly understand why I said no! It’s almost an entitlement issue, or some hard-wired program that makes them believe that NO man can say no to them.

      Like


    • the one that got preggo for a min?

      Like


  49. on August 8, 2014 at 4:51 am gunslingergregi

    I even cheated on the ten when I was young for fuckssakes
    so not the divorce just who I am

    Like


  50. on August 8, 2014 at 5:07 am gunslingergregi

    have I just not found my real soulmate or what?

    Like


  51. Anyone see the story about the Brazilian GF that swallowed her cell phone, so her BF wouldn’t see her texts?

    Upthread, ZS discusses the stupidity of women. Apparently she spent more than a week in the hospital.

    http://www.nairaland.com/1418537/picture-girl-swallowed-cellphone-avoid

    Like


  52. on August 8, 2014 at 5:28 am lol bro, do you even go out?

    1. When she suddenly starts hanging out with a new “girlfriend” whom she has never previously mentioned and who doesn’t come around to the house or have long fone calls with her.

    2. When she gets back from being with her new “girlfriend” and –unrequested– provides general details of where she has been. (Esp. if she would not normally volunteer such details) Very bad sign.

    Like


  53. on August 8, 2014 at 6:11 am Beatrice King

    Who are you to judge women if they find another lover?

    It likely means you think you’re something special – and girls in Canada see through that ASAP. Especially in TO and Van where the girls are rather smart and very used to pompous douchebags who think they’re god’s gift such as PuAs.

    Many of you who agree with the article are violating many women. Do you love your mother and your sister or do you hate them?

    Like


    • Who are you to judge women if they find another lover?”””””””””’

      you and you

      Many of you who agree with the article are violating many women.””””””””””’

      so what the fuck are you talking about
      Are you saying if you agree you get to be the other lover a oman finds?

      Like


    • So tell me, is the righteous indignation sole property of the female sex, or can anyone hop in?

      Like


    • Well, I can’t speak for the entire chateau, toots… but I myself feel roundly chastised.

      Like


    • honey i say whore it up. this of course because I’m the benefactor of your slattern sorority sisters.

      Like


  54. This is the dumbest thing I have ever seen and completely shows why feminism is ridiculous.

    Like


    • It also shows why young men are ridiculous… for agreeing to take part in this bullshit.

      Talk about beta white-knighting… feh.

      Like


    • talk about some seriously SWPL racist shit…making fun of black men like that isn’t cool.

      Like


      • What isn’t cool is using white actors… sort of like how all those prison rapists in the movies are white.

        Like


      • And while we’re on the subject, I thought you said you weren’t a negro.

        Oh, I know… you’re just a decent white guy who feels slighted when you sense racial injustice.

        lzozlzozlzozlzolzozlozl

        Like


      • @ greg

        Clearly nuance inst your thing. Thank my stars it is in fact mine 🙂

        Like


      • If you were trying to be ironic, well… let’s just say…

        Objective: unmet.

        I’m known for many faults, but inability to suss out drollery and sarcasm is not one of them.

        Further, when my jests fall flat, I at least admit it.

        Do better next time. And check your premises in re the denotation of nuance.

        Like


    • It seems pretty accurate, no?
      The men who catcall are usually the dredges of society. I have never seen a professional, educated, polite man do it. Have you?

      It’s meant to harass and intimidate. It’s not meant to initiate conversation, show interest or lead to pleasantries.

      I don’t recall any PUA ever advising anything remotely like catcalls to attract women.

      Like


      • Thank you! Scum of the scum catcall women in public like feral dogs.

        No pity. And yes this video is true.

        Like


      • It’s definitely accurate as far as the phenomenon occurs… dreg men do this stuff all the time.

        What’s not accurate is the Cathedral shaming reasoning explaining it… and the display (in this film) of mostly white guys doing it.

        Coloured guys (negroes, dark Hispanics, etc.) do it because that’s their environment and mores… and their women respond to it often favorably.

        The disconnect occurs when said coloureds are let loose in white society and do it to white women, who rightfully feel violated.. and hence, the rise of feminism and laws restricting male sexuality.

        The problem is, the MSM distort things and make it seem like it’s a “societal issue” and then, of course, white men must be made to feel guilty and suffer the consequences.

        And yeah, yeah, YEAH we know already… not all coloured guys do it and some white guys do it.

        Like


      • its pretty much a black guy thing. dont hang with black guys.

        Like


    • Most of the white guys talked like whiggers. Some subtext there. And the most ridiculous of the bunch was the black guy.

      Like


  55. Reblogged this on Philosophies of a Disenchanted Scholar and commented:
    I thought White Knights evolved to protect the women in their family. I’ve noticed the worst of them have very strong attachments to female family, especially their mothers…

    Like


  56. Online dating guys: a gem I received today (in reply to my first message to her):

    “FUCK OFF with your demands bitch! you wrote this fucking idiotic shit to my friend on here wonder why no luck ha mothafucker!”

    Followed by the usual preemptive blocking to prevent me from replying. She was hot HB8, late 20s but massively made up and a bit plastic (probably looking for a sugar daddy).

    I get full on abusive messages like this once in a while (1 in 50 or in 100 replies maybe?)

    I wonder what the deal is? Some kind of beta shaming? Or frustration that I’m not supplicating in my first email to her etc?

    Like


  57. In the big scheme of things, keeping any human female around for more than a few weeks is just asking for a world of hurt, one way or another. Why would anyone want to do that?

    Like


  58. From

    http://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2014/03/29/there-is-no-sexual-double-standard/

    Eggs are expensive and sperm are cheap.
    This is a generic rule for the majority.
    Funnily enough, when a woman mates like a man (sleeps around) she is being treated exactly as her behaviour implies, namely, that her reproductive standards are cheap – like a man.

    The true double standard is expecting to be treated as a good girl while acting like a bad one

    Like


  59. Even if not cheating, these are usually signs you’re about to get dumped. There is no much you can really do defensively except (a) dump her first and (b) go no contact. That is the only way to appear truly alpha in the situation. It’s one thing if you’re just doing a little Alpha-relationship maintenance, but women can turn cold, heartless, and unloving overnight if you flip something in their head that they deem seriously unattractive. Your only real option then is to cut your losses (by breaking up) or make her interested and chasing (by breaking up) and being somewhat as results indifferent as you can. I will say this: it’s better to dump than be dumped and it’s the only way to salvage things if you have that in mind. But sometimes it’s just all gone, and that’s that. Just went through this myself. In a three week span, I went from hero to zero. Not totally sure what happened–I wasn’t geeking out beta–but sometimes it just happens. Move on.

    Like


  60. Treat her like a princess and she’ll act like a bitch. Treat her like a bitch and she’ll act like a princess.

    Like


  61. Glad to see CH’s twitter account rip on that piece of sh*t Nick Denton.

    Like


  62. Actually, a word of warning. If your wife/gf/whatever works roughly the same hours you do – at a paying job, whether self-employed or not – and you expect her to do all the housekeeping – she might wake up one morning and decide you are more trouble than you are worth. Two people very close to me went through this – one woman and one man. The woman made no secret of what the problem was. (And yes, in both bases I knew the other party)..

    However, doing dishes or not, there is another factor in long-term relationships. There comes a day when menopause is in sight. At that point something in her brain or endocrinal system tells her that it is now or never (regardless of if she has had children before). Here the solution is to get her pregnant. Note that the need to procreate may be way below the conscious.

    Now, this is obviously a high-stakes gamble with plenty of downside, but it is something to consider.

    Thor

    Like


    • “There comes a day when menopause is in sight. At that point something in her brain or endocrinal system tells her that it is now or never”

      interesting that you say that. women divorcing men right before they hit menopause is getting more and more common. same way men used to have so-called mid-life crises and leave for younger women. i hate to go Zombie Shane on this one but maybe knocking up the old girl isn’t such a bad idea.

      Like


    • on August 11, 2014 at 3:44 am Pijama Wearing Ninja

      My parents work about the same hours, although I think my mother works slightly more. She does all of the cooking, ironing, cloth washing etc. My father vacuums and does the dishes and they don’t really seem to have any relationship problem. Otoh, my father does flirt in front of my mother with shop attendants, cashiers, random women in the parking lot. Not all the time, but once in a while.

      Like


  63. When you tell her to hide your gun she starts asking all kinds of questions…

    Like


  64. I was born in Australia but grew up in England http://www.justcuckoos.co.uk/install/ vermox for children At two things going on they’re scared to death they believe — I have don’t you guys find it funny the Democrats keep telling Republicans look foolish you guys help us — that you’re never gonna win the White House as though they care.

    Like


  65. I’m not working at the moment seroquel 25 mg tabletten The project, one of the only ones of its kind in the city, will be built at Guy R. Brewer Blvd. at 112th Rd. It is being funded through a combination of public and private sources and subsidized with $11 million in state-issued low-income housing tax credits.

    Like


  66. […] Real Cause: You lost that alpha male mojo. White Knight Response That Won't Work: Tenderly express your feelings so she's comfortable being intimate again. CH Solution That Will Work: Slap her ass after flirting with a …  […]

    Like


  67. Cool site goodluck 🙂 tenormin tablet Warner Bros., a unit of Time Warner Inc, showcased anumber of upcoming films on Saturday at Comic-Con, including”Seventh Son,” “300: Rise of an Empire,” “Godzilla” and “TheLego Movie,” which will bring together Superman and Batman inanimated Lego form.

    Like


  68. Thoughts of an old guy:

    Don’t allow your social and emotional life to revolve around one woman. That gives her way to much power and stunts your own life.

    The moment she cheats, she’s history. Make sure she knows this from the very beginning of your relationship. Before marriage. Before she moves in. If you detect signs of impending cheating, remind her of the consequences. Women say they love communication.

    Back up words with action. Plan ahead. Consult with a divorce lawyer well before there are any signs of divorce. Laws vary by state. Make sure when the split comes, you won’t get raped in divorce court. You buy life insurance long before you think you are going to use it.

    This sounds cynical but it’s just realism. Readers of this blog understand that women are amoral. If they have personal freedom, slut shaming becomes the only reliable method to control their behavior, and that isn’t working out too well in our society, which celebrates slutty behavior in its women.

    Like


  69. I’d like to cancel this standing order http://www.chase.ie/it-recruitment/ paroxetina paxil cr 25 mg Back to Davos… One MBA banker speaking this year was Jamie Dimon, of JPMorgan Chase, who apologised for his company’s trading loss, while defending banks and their practices in general. But his words did not go unchallenged. He was confronted directly by a senior IMF official, who argued that the big banks’ lack of transparency still made them dangerous, and indirectly by the German Chancellor, who said there should be no sector of any sort of banking that was outside regulation. Belatedly, the tide may be turning. 

    Like