Which male in the following list is more likely to be an absolute failure with women?:
- a felon
- a drug dealer
- a dumb meathead
- an unemployed DJ
- a jerk
- a computer programmer nerd
Don’t think too hard about this. Go with your gut reaction, not the socially sanctioned, peer reviewed answer you want to be true.
What does your answer say to you?
Too easy. Let’s raise the ante with a tougher comparison:
- convicted serial killers who have killed, dismembered, and refrigerated body parts and sexually violated the corpses
- a computer programming nerd who makes enough money to comfortably provide for a family of four in a leafy suburb
maybe they’d find love if they weren’t such social misfits…