Ex-Stripper Describes Her “Girl Game”

I’ve noticed a trend in the MSM. Men invent something controversial, get little mainstream press, women follow up with their watered-down version, get tons of mainstream press. In this case, an aging ex-stripper has landed on the front page of the New York Post where she discusses girl game: the female version of getting “what you want” from men, which in femspeak means getting love, money, attention and resources with, presumably, the ultimate goal being marriage. (Although you have to wonder about the kind of man who would be willing to pony up big bucks for a useless rock and ceremony to geld himself by marrying a road-worn and tossed away wet ex-stripper single mom with enough cock notches on her vagina wall to make it look like a gynecological cave painting.)

I don’t much write about girl game — aka The Rules — because it is, for the most part, ineffective relative to the thermonuclear game that girls already have at their disposal; namely, their youth and beauty. An ugly girl can run all the “girl game” she wants; it won’t make a lick of difference to her prospects. Conversely, a hot girl will often get what she wants without any girl game. In fact, girl game can actually hurt her chances with the alpha males she loves because those are the kinds of guys least affected, and most turned-off, by girl game machinations. Only in the middle where the average over-25 plain janes congregate can girl game help at the farthest margins, and then only by helping them snag betas who are more likely to fall for it.

With that in mind, let’s examine this whore’s recipe for dating bliss. First, here’s a look at her:

Not bad, not good. She has the tell-tale post-op tranny face that bespeaks a lifetime of pumping and getting dumped. That lifestyle tends to masculinize women. I wouldn’t pay her for a lap dance, but I would bang her for free. Once. With a kevlar condom.

So what does this broad “Diane Passage” have to say about girl game?

1. Show your confidence at all times — especially when you feel it the least. No one will ever know if this is true, but if you believe it, others will, too. A friend of mine who was a dancer at a club once gave me the advice to always enter a room “proud as a peacock” — stand up straight and move confidently. She worked in Las Vegas, where it’s highly competitive for any type of dancer or entertainer. She was a pretty girl, but average in comparison to other women. But wherever she walked — whether it was a club, casino or a grocery store — all eyes were on her.

Classic case of female projection. Women love confidence in men, so they think men must love the same in women. Nope. Confidence in women is neutral to their dating market value at best, and actively off-putting at worst. Most likely, this “confident”, “stands tall” Las Vegas girl she talks about has a big rack, and guys were staring at her jutting tits that she was thrusting outward.

Very shy girls who are pretty will arouse a deep, instinctive authoritarian desire in men to protect and sexually serve. Women don’t need to be loudmouths or assertive if they are cute. It helps, in fact, if they are a little effacing and deferential. A woman with *clinically* low self-esteem, (as distinct from nearly all women who are told they have low self-esteem but in actuality are full of themselves), can temper a man’s lust by slouching, mumbling and denigrating herself. Why? Because men will think she’s not interested.

2. I can create my own outcome and accomplish any goal. I like to set goals for anything — serious or ridiculous. I started doing this when I worked at the club; I’d set weekly income goals to help me stay focused and not get onto a downward spiral (which is typical for exotic dancers). Along the way I set fun goals — attending certain concerts, parties, etc. My most ridiculous goal? Hooking up with a certain male porn star. A friend of mine offered to buy the star for me for one night, but I declined. It’ll be far more satisfying to accomplish my goal on my own. Whether your goals are serious, fun or both — never think you can’t have it all!

New age, feelgood pablum. Worse than useless. This will encourage ugly, old and fat girls to avoid putting in the necessary work to make themselves more attractive to men. Newsflash, ladies: No, you can’t have it all. You can have what your best assets will bring you by maximizing their impact and minimizing the impact of your worst liabilities. Some liabilities, of course, are not mitigable. PS: Getting a male porn star to fuck you is not an accomplishment. Getting him to love you and commit to you is.

3. Slow and steady wins the race. While goals are important, you shouldn’t set unrealistic time limits to achieve them. People do crazy things under deadlines. An acquaintance of mine stalked a man because she was obsessed with getting married before the age of 35. Last year, she fell head over heels on one of her first dates. On Facebook, she saw he was looking forward to a sushi dinner at his favorite restaurant. My friend knew where to find him, because he’d mentioned the same restaurant on their date! So early in the evening, she planted herself at a table with a good view of the place. He showed up . . . with another date. This woman is seemingly sane otherwise. If she dropped the marriage deadline and just had fun dating, I bet she’d end up meeting her goal — without stalking!

This advice isn’t half bad as a way to avoid the worst mistakes women make. Women can quickly kill a sexy, fun vibe and drive an alpha man away by revealing their desperation on a first date. Or even during the first year of dating. (Beta men will stick around and suffer her desperation because they, too, are desperate.) As women don’t want to feel like sex objects, men don’t want to feel like commitment objects.

4. Every girl should know the basics of fishing and dog training. Several years ago, my son [ed: bastard spawn soon to be huffing paint under an overpass] took an interest in fishing. I had to learn, too, so I could help him with it. Little did I know that my basic fishing knowledge would end up serving me well in the world of romance! When dating, I like to try a fun and sporty approach. As the person who’s fishing, I’m able to lead my “fish,” so I have the advantage of getting what I want. My bait: smile, hair, makeup, clothing, stilettos and either legs or cleavage (never both at the same time). [ed: no, because that would be slutty. it’s not like he’ll think you’re a skank when he hears about your stripper past and bastard sprog] My hook: a flirty, mysterious demeanor. When I “reel” a man in, that means I’m getting to know him. He always has the option to free himself from my “hook.” And I always have the option to throw him back into the dating sea. If I decide to keep my “fish,” then I switch to boundary-setting mode. I’ve trained a dog, raised a son and have been married twice to men who wanted nothing more than to make me happy [ed: if she’s been married twice and is currently an unmarried single mom, then they weren’t very interested in making her happy. nor was she interested in making them happy. and single women should take advice from her?]. I know how not to let a male dominate me. The one consistent thing for all types of men: consistent enforcement of boundaries and giving rewards when they deserve them.

It sounds like she ripped this nominal idea straight from the Chateau archives. Anyhow, what she is saying here is nothing new. She’s just repackaging the time-tested advice to women to look as good as possible to capture a man’s interest by trying to make it sound edgier with the comparison to dog training and fishing. And enforcement of boundaries? What does that even mean? Her boundaries have obviously been rodgered to complete permeability.

5. My wallet does not exist. It might sound like an outdated cliché, but if you’re a woman, you should never reach into your wallet while you’re in the presence of a man. Even if you’ve been married for years. Not only must a man pay for the main components of a date (dinner, etc.), but they must also take care of taxi fare, coat check and bathroom attendant tips. The woman who believes in this mantra is not a gold-digger or obligated to “return the favor.” The few times I’ve gone “dutch” on dates, it usually results in the man feeling emasculated because of it — or it means the guy has some sort of money hang-up. Can an emasculated guy or someone with issues give you what you want? Not for me!

How sweet. An old-fashioned stripper single mom. The worst of every world. Now here’s some real talk for the single women reading: the only men you’ll get by playing the role of whore golddigger are betas with few other options and rich men with harems and zero game, wit or charm. Don’t bet on the latter unless you’re smoking hot.

6. My presence is a gift. Know your value — and not in dollar amounts. Relationships are work — and work has value. Do the rewards of your relationship satisfy you? What do you want from your partner? I broke up with a guy (who my friends and I nicknamed “The Whiny Baby”) because he was too high-maintenance, emotionally. This wouldn’t have been a problem if he could have just provided a bit of emotional support in return. [ed: translation: he treated her like the worthless aging stripper single mom she is] I told him that, and he briefly turned into a decent boyfriend until becoming a whiny baby. I decided my time was too valuable and he had to go.

This reads like he dumped her and she’s rationalizing it as her decision. Allow me to clarify. Your presence is only a gift if you’re pleasing to look at. It is less of a gift if you think you look as good at 35 as you did at 25, and you are saddled with kid baggage from another man. (This is starting to sound like a broken record. But it needs to be said, over and over, apparently.)

7. Allow your man to believe he is in charge. Men like to play the dominant role in relationships, so why not encourage the fantasy? This summer, I was with a man who was sensitive about women using him for his money. He watched me like a hawk, so my usual tactics were no good. But he was open to spending extravagantly at charity events, fine restaurants and so on. So I invited him to my friends’ events and establishments — where he was free to spend money — and I remained quiet and pretty, as he required me to be.

She’s contradicting herself. Above she says she does not allow men to dominate her. Here, she says she encourages men to dominate her. Oh, but of course she couches it in terms of “letting him feel like” he is dominating her. Hair-splitting. He’s either making the decisions, giving her orders and demanding she look pretty and remain quiet, or he’s not. Leave it to a single mom stripper to vomit whatever ill-conceived toddler babbling happens to scoot across her gyrating frontal lobe.

Not that there isn’t some substance to the advice to placate a man’s desire to dominate. A woman who constantly battles a man for dominance is an unloved woman. Men don’t respond on a visceral level to those kinds of women. And it works the other direction, too: men who renege on their duty to dominate are often pushed around and unloved by the women in their lives.

8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date. Refer to mantra No. 4 (dog training) — along with boundaries, give rewards when due — leading to mantra No. 6 (value). A woman’s time, smile and interest are valuable and can be rewarded to the man who deserves her attention. Being icy or lukewarm at first also maintains an element of mystery. In addition, refer to mantra No. 5 (woman never pays). A man does not deserve a woman’s phone number without buying her and her friend(s) a drink, not to mention paying their entire bar tab.

Any man who buys a girl *and* her yakking yenta friends drinks, and pays their entire bar tab, just to get her precious, gold-plated number, is, by definition, an emasculated, hopeless beta who has the masturbation stamina of ten men. I doubt very much this skank ho would respect, let alone desire, such a man.

Mostly, what she writes here in point #8 is a rewording of the conventional wisdom that a woman who puts out too easily will harm her chance to get men to commit to her. (Leave aside her admonition to be bitchy. That’s not advice. It’s just a recognition that hot chicks will shit test men to discern their alphaness.) There is some truth in the CW. Beta and alpha men alike subconsciously downgrade loose women from potential girlfriend material to funtime sluts. But a woman has to carefully walk that tightrope; too much coyness, playing hard-to-get and bitchiness, and the alpha males of her dreams will quickly find sweeter and moister pastures. Too little, and they will relegate her to fuckbuddy status. And herein lies the main problem with “girl game”:

Girl game is effective at manipulating exactly the kinds of men women desire the least.

Horny, desperate betas — not sexually satisfied alphas — are the ones who will allow themselves to be toyed with by scheming girls. If those are the men you want, ladies, you can’t go wrong listening to the dating advice of a washed-up wednesday night stripper single mom.

Luckily for us men, game — real game — is just what the best looking girls crave.





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    • She did him a favor. She could have taken his kids in the middle of the night and ruined his life. He got off lucky.

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    • Just noticed your earlier reference to the story I later linked to, J-style. Hat tip.

      Reinforces my point. There is a real connection of bankers to skanks that goes beyond coincidence.

      great books, can you back us up on this one? Maybe something to do with Bernanke as the inveterate über-john?

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    • Hubby needs to strike while the iron is hot. Sue for abandonment and severe her parental right altogether. Get an order for support in place. If he plays this right he really could be in a GREAT position for resuming a beautiful life.

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    • He’s just a financial advisor. Those aren’t the “bankers” the rake in the cash that OWS is up in arms about. She’s just destroying her family. Touching.

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  1. “He watched me like a hawk, so my usual tactics were no good. ”

    So she was stealing from him???

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  2. I’d bet anything she’s broken all her own rules 1000 times in the past just to get pumped and dumped by some alpha.

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  3. This chick was actually married to a very wealthy fund manager who was arrested for massively defrauding his clients. Read an article abotu it last year. He is now in jail and all the money is gone, but she definitely has serious golddigger chops and track record. This advice isn’t really the same as “The Rules” from the 90s, which, as I recall, was mainly about women playing hard-to-get games to manipulate men into commitment- apart from sex or sex appeal. This advice is more like knowing the value of, and trading on, a sexy body and appearance. (I think that’s what she must have meant by “boundaries”: withhold sex, companionship, etc. to get what she wants. So a little more base than “The Rules.”

    The best line I remember from the press piece abotu this chick: “WHen your financial advisor marries a stripper, it’s a bit of a tell.”

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    • on October 21, 2011 at 10:44 pm Martin Maginnis

      What does it tell?

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      • That the guy’s an idiot. If he merely padded (pumped-and-dumped) her, he’d be a bit more of a risk taker than I would prefer from my financial adviser, but marrying a stripper???

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    • If he was massively stealing from his clients, he was not very wealthy–his clients were, and he was just spending their money.

      And she was not a winner in the golddigger game: she was essentially married to the financial world version of a meth head. He went down, and she is likely broke. Again. But this time forever, because she is too old for another shot at the money.

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    • maurice wrote: This chick was actually married to a very wealthy fund manager…. “When your financial advisor marries a stripper, it’s a bit of a tell.”

      What’s it with these finance types?

      http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/manhattan/she_plans_to_stray_awhile_opuo0dDOjE39dfRDdUZ1sM

      I suppose “masters of the universe” was always meant ironically. They’re not even masters of their own slutwives.

      My guess is, despite the kill-or-be-killed Thunderdome of finance, the very fact of cleverly manipulating other people’s wealth rather than generating it themselves makes theirs a subservient beta vocation.

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  4. ” a road-worn and tossed away wet ex-stripper single mom with enough cock notches on her vagina wall to make it look like a gynecological cave painting.)”

    LOL love this line.

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  5. I know how not to let a male dominate me. The one consistent thing for all types of men: consistent enforcement of boundaries and giving rewards when they deserve them.

    Note how her goal isn’t to find romance or to start a family. It’s a vulgar grab for power. She vies to be Sun Tzu for the “fairer” sex. This is the American woman. Then I saw the title of her article, “How to get what you want from men” – the man is just a means to some external end. The man himself isn’t the end goal.

    She is a hooker to the *core.* I wonder if she was to begin with, or stripping made her so.

    Don’t bet on the latter unless you’re smoking hot.

    I don’t know, there are plenty of rich losers, even without harems.

    [Heartiste: True. But those are the kind of men that women rarely fall in love with. Not that this manjawed stripper would know anything about love.]

    Girl game is effective at manipulating exactly the kinds of men women desire the least.

    Well put.

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  6. The best girl game is no game.

    Athol Kay talks about the mix of alpha and beta characteristics in maintaining a relationship. For men, both are mostly behavioral. But for women, “alpha” characteristics are just physical. A woman needs to have the best appearance possible, but all her behavior needs to be beta, that is cooperative, kind, caring, and supportive.

    [Heartiste: If only more women were in on this secret.]

    Most women only damage their relationship potential with their behavior. If this bitch wasn’t so full of herself she would still be married to the first guy.

    [She got a rich beta funderboy to marry her back when she looked younger, hotter, tighter, and then he was “emotionally distant” until the day he was thrown in the clink for nefarious financial shenanigans. Well, no shit. She was nothing but a trophy pussy for him to display at company retreats and client homes. Now she’s left with a bastard and a rapidly aging face and she wants to snag herself a sucker beta again before it’s too late. Lady, that ship sailed a while ago.]

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    • “That ship sailed…” Well,her son is black. Maybe going back to Black will work. Look at the talentless,lame,dope(in the original sense of the word) Ice-T,and his gruesome blonde stripper wife. She be livin’ large,y’all!!

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  7. Her tactics are repellant — at least to me.

    Her baggage is so toxic kevlar wouldn’t be enough.

    Notably every one of her gambits is manipulative. Ugh.

    No man who ever had sisters could fall for them.

    It’s teenage thinking pretty much across the board.

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  8. […] Ex-Stripper Describes Her “Girl Game” « Chateau Heartiste Posted in Hot Girls | Tagged game, girls, kind of man, mainstream press, press women, single mom […]

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  9. Does nobody see anything wrong with a society that has stripper give dating advice?

    I have nothing against strippers, I even have one on my rotation but they are far from being the right people to give advice to other girls.

    [Heartiste: In the final stage of decay, fools are the wise, the wise fools.]

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    • Strippers are the superheroes of feminism. They represent the qualities of female “empowerment” exaggerated to comic-book cartoon levels.

      • Make-up is good; pasting it on with a trowel is better

      • Short plaid skirts are good; tight micromini day-glo plaid skirts that look like an oversized belt are better

      • Getting a man to provide is good; getting one to directly stuff cash transactions into your thong is better

      • Big breasts are good; bigger breasts better; biggest breasts best

      It’s no surprise that wizened hookers are now lecturing girls on how to supposedly “maximize” their “feminine” “strengths.” They are the ne plus ultra of feminist thinking.

      There’s a reason they call it the “oldest profession.” Men have always commodifed things for the sake of economic efficiency, and the thing we value most is female flesh. If there isn’t a stark prohibition on violating the sacristy of the body, it becomes one more thing to be bought and sold — and the most sought-after item on the market are ze young white wimmen. Retarded feminists quantified this desirability in the search for power, and it has blown up in their face.

      In the shell-shocked aftermath of the penis-envy revolution, our youngest and cutest and most prized keepers of The World’s Greatest Asset now give away their only natural source of power for free because the Bernie Madoffs of sexuality like StripperMom have taught them to regard the practice as empowering. Game is like an SEC investigation, cracking open the ledgers to expose a shell-enterprise’s bankruptcy. What? My CFO promised me that indiscriminately opening my slot would give me leverage over men!

      Nope.

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      • Strippers are the superheroes of feminism. They represent the qualities of female “empowerment” exaggerated to comic-book cartoon levels.

        • Make-up is good; pasting it on with a trowel is better [……]

        “If I still recognize you with your make-up off, that’s ‘make-up’; if I don’t recognize you, that’s called ‘impersonation’!” (Dayo Wong)

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  10. heartiste

    Ex-Stripper Describes Her “Girl Game”

    Girls feel compelled to contribute something – anything – about the concept of game.

    They are mesmerized by its mythical power on a deeply emotional level so they default to the usual response to such stimulus: talking.

    NO BROAD
    feels more compelled
    to talk of things she doesn’t know shit about…than a stripper.

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  11. Females have NO comparable weapon to game.

    So, in an American where the little princesses are constantly told they’re better than men (in every way)

    they start to make up stuff, like Indians did when confronted by repeating firearms: Girls start to believe in their version of Spirit Animals that imbue them with invincibility against “bullets.”

    Heap big good.

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    • no…there was a post on it a few weeks back, the difference between hot and sultry. How sexiness or the appearance of being willing to have sex can raise a girl’s point value in the eye of the beholder.

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    • “they start to make up stuff, like Indians did when confronted by repeating firearms: Girls start to believe in their version of Spirit Animals that imbue them with invincibility against “bullets.” “

      A+

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  12. Oh great…relationship advice from ex-strippers….whatever happened to Dear Abby, lol…

    Sounds to me like her hamster wheel has been getting too much oil

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  13. That chick has the face of Wonkette, must be the anal sex. Oh did the host mention that this chick is an aging ex-stripper with bastard kids and that that status should curtail how persuasive one should consider her advice?

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  14. From experience, women who think they have “game” and are able to manipulate men and control the frame and “not be dominated” are the EASIEST women to lay lol My buddy and I show eachother txts and shit when girls try hitting us from the “I MAY allow you the privilege of taking me out, and my wallet does NOT exist, I know my mere presence is worth the cost of a steak dinner” frame and we just laugh and say “aw that’s cute.”

    These ones will not just fuck the fastest (they’ll lead a beta through months of dating for sex, but if you pass all their shit-tests they’ll sleep with you the first night), but they usually want the most dominating/humiliating sex.

    For men interested in an eye-opening look at “girl game”:

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/forumdisplay.php?f=133

    Yes, strippers have a forum where they discuss how to make the most money off men. They even discuss how to get a guy to keep coming back as a regular without having to put out, how to get him to go to the ATM repeatedly, how to handle cocky guys who try to run game on them, how to spot guys who won’t pay, etc.

    And funnily enough, a LOT of their concepts line up dead on with PUA/Chateau concepts that us men use. 🙂 It’s almost as if human psychology is universal and we’re not all beautiful and unique snowflakes, imagine that.

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=164107 – Here’s their thread discussing this article haha

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    • damn, you mean there’s really no sex in the champagne room?

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    • That forum is a shocker and ought to be discussed more here. Apparently there are a lot of rich SDs (sugar daddies) who don’t expect sex before the cash is spent. That’s gotta stop. Apparently there are gamma rich men who spend money just for some kind of thrill of the chase. It was disheartening to read strippers on that forum giving advice to each other about how men will supposedly spend more money if they aren’t satisfied sexually. I didn’t know it was even possible to have a sugar daddy relationship where there is no sexual activity.

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  15. “8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave.” Sorry dahlink, but that would be the SMART men you see turning around and leaving your crazy dried-up ass sitting alone at the bar …

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  16. Girl game 101:

    1) Be hot.
    2) Be under 27 years old.
    3) Keep your legs closed.
    4) Don’t say anything stupid.

    As for her points:

    1) I prefer confidence to crippling insecurity, but FFS ladies, don’t overdo it. Confidence is a masculine trait, therefore it’s only beneficially attractive to men.

    2) Goals are important, and she made a good point until talking about a ‘goal’ of fucking a male pornstar. Are some women so delucional that they think that them having sex with any man requires some effort on their part?

    3) I actually agree. I don’t want to wait forever, but a girl that shows too much interest will 97% of the time never end up more than a casual fuckbuddy (and I will fuck her after the first date).

    4) Her failed metaphor aside, this is her most sound piece of advice; stay hot, be flirty, be fun.

    5) Men who take women that they aren’t banging on dinner dates are suckers. As for men being ‘ashamed’ to go dutch on a date, where are these men? I think it’s a sign of good character if a girl wants to split the tab (or *gasp!* even pick it up once in a while), so do almost all the men that I know.

    6) If your presence is so valuable, why then do you string along guys who believe this and fuck the guys who don’t? I’d have less of a problem with the lies if I couldn’t feel the Hamster trying to make her believe them.

    7) Any man with sufficient game (read: a basic, fundamental level) will be in charge a good 90% of the time.

    8) Of course it is, it’s the cost of doing business, but don’t come in here and pretend that women are never bitchy for no apparent reason.

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    • Comments like this make me sooo anxious :S

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      • Most of us prefer a woman with a low sex partner count. But you really sound like you need to get laid.

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      • Yes, urgently! I need to find the love of my life immediately!

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      • What’s with the spaghetti mouth emoticon already, Maya? What are you trying to convey? A human mouth does not contort to that shape. Is it a Bulgarian thing?

        There must be better colon-combo possibilities with the Cyrillic alphabet.

        :Я = Russian ice-princess
        :Б = tongue + cigarette
        :Ѯ = balls-on-chin
        :Ф = collagen injection
        :Ж = bukkake

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      • Did you just make those up? “Balls-on-chin” made me lulz.

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      • That’s right. It’s Bulgarian. I love your ideas for emoticons, btw. So funny.

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  17. on October 21, 2011 at 5:26 pm (r)Evoluzione

    Priceless prose:
    “Although you have to wonder about the kind of man who would be willing to pony up big bucks for a useless rock and ceremony to geld himself by marrying a road-worn and tossed away wet ex-stripper single mom with enough cock notches on her vagina wall to make it look like a gynecological cave painting.”

    “A woman with *clinically* low self-esteem, (as distinct from nearly all women who are told they have low self-esteem but in actuality are full of themselves)>..”
    The late alpha male Carlos Castaneda said that self-victimization/low self-esteem is merely the shadow side of self-imporance/narcisism. It’s the same thing.

    There’s lots more gold here, but what I want to know is this:

    where do I get the kevlar condoms? If no such thing exists, somebody ought to invent one right quick. The market is begging for such innovation.

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    • “The late alpha male Carlos Castaneda said that self-victimization/low self-esteem is merely the shadow side of self-imporance/narcisism. It’s the same thing.”

      I have very low self-esteem, but I agree with this, though with shame. It is hard to admit to myself that the root of my problems is something as disgusting as narcissism. Realizing this is actually what has helped to boost my self-esteem a bit, ironically.

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      • on October 21, 2011 at 8:08 pm (r)Evoluzione

        Yes. People with low self-esteem feel they are ‘too good’ for their current life circumstances. They feel they deserve better than who and what they are, thus, the negative self-image.

        As you alluded to, radical self-acceptance is the key to transcending that. For myself, my low self esteem disintegrated once I realized that underneath my nice-guy exterior was an aloof asshole, and one that is in full possession of his darker instincts. Polite, PC feminized society teaches us to reject parts of ourselves and try to be something we’re not. Eliminate that, and the rest is easy.

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      • Wise words indeed. Thanks.

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      • Agreed. Great insight.

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      • “…my low self esteem disintegrated once I realized that underneath my nice-guy exterior was an aloof asshole, and one that is in full possession of his darker instincts. Polite, PC feminized society teaches us to reject parts of ourselves and try to be something we’re not. Eliminate that, and the rest is easy.”

        Yup, I refuse to get a Facebook account because I figure it’ll just be another place where I’ll have to play nice.

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      • Freud said this first. “In the subconscious, opposites converge.” It is true of most impulses or crusades people follow. They are compensating for a primal urge they are ashamed of in their conscious mind.

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  18. lzozllzzll

    Great post.

    Besides looks, here is what constitutes girl game:

    -Acting ditzy and submissive
    -Cooking
    -Cleaning
    -Back, shoulder and foot rubs

    May help those in the 4.5 and up range. Below that, well…..

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  19. “Horny, desperate betas — not sexually satisfied alphas — are the ones who will allow themselves to be toyed with by scheming girls. If those are the men you want, ladies, you can’t go wrong listening to the dating advice of a washed-up wednesday night stripper single mom.”

    This is a nuclear bomb of truth to set the hamster straight and pull the veil back from its eyes.

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    • Exactly. No man who gets sex thinks of strippers as anything but some entertainment and would never so naively think of them as potentially fulfilling an emotional need and forming a bond with them. Most can’t do it and are too used up in the first place.

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  20. Slightly off topic:

    Mystery was consistently referring to dating strippers when he wanted to display preselection and high value.
    I never used the routine because I’m a little bit dubious. The current feminist propaganda made cases of chronic projection very widespread. As repeatedly said in this venerable chateau, women are attracted to confident, successful men, so they assume that men want (and should be attracted to) the same qualities in women.
    So why then miss that opportunity and keep referring to trashy strippers instead of lawyers (i know, i know…), doctors or CEOs?

    I tend to do just that and It works fine. The key of course (especially with low achieving chicks) is not to make it sound like a big deal. And feign during comfort building that you’re interested in something more meaningful and profound.

    Maybe, I’m KJing here but making shit up about dating strippers would be a good strategy to game lawyers, doctors and CEOs.

    Or maybe, just maybe, Mystery is indirectly assuming that women are projecting to strippers the alpha male qualities that they crave (desired by many, only one is chosen)… even though strippers are viewed by men as filthy cumdumpsters.

    Gosh, there is some serious reeducation work that needs to be done. Keep preaching, brother.

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    • on October 21, 2011 at 6:13 pm (r)Evoluzione

      I’ve found that telling women that I date dancers is a big DHV. Often there’s some confusion around what being a ‘dancer’ is. And often a lot of overlap in dance styles.

      Case in point: One girl I’ve been seeing recently is a modern dancer as well as a burlesque dancer. Burlesque dancers are about 2″ of fabric away from being strippers–they wear pasties over their nipples. They often have a lot more sultry sexuality built into their acts as well. Whereas strippers can be sexy, but are often just trashy.

      Another girl, same deal–modern, burlesque, in addition to having a past history as a stripper. In general, I’ve noticed very positive reactions when casually mentioning this dating history when the subject comes up. Though those girls who see themselves as ‘good girls,’ will often get simultaneously aroused and fearful. Also, a quick mention is all it takes, mention it then change the subject, don’t belabor the point. Let that hamster run!

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    • At this very moment, there’s a stripper asleep in my bed. I just gave her two year old daughter a bowl of cocoa puff’s and turned on cartoon network.

      Judge if you will, but she’s a 26 year old ex who drove over 350 miles to spend the weekend with me. I’m no White Knight, but I will fuck a stripper in the ass and send her home if all I have to do is pour cereal for the future hookers of America. Plus, she paid for dinner last night.

      But I digress.

      Every single time I have *EVER* mentioned dating a stripper to a girl I was gaming, the trail went cold. I never mention it anymore. On the other hand, mentioning my ex who is Yale/Harvard M.D. (true story) and my ex who was an attorney for the state of New York (total lie) gives me instant social proof with any woman who has a professional job. If she’s a waitress or some shit, it scares them off.

      Just my $0.02 on the subject, and your mileage may vary. If anyone has stories where spinning the stripper ex story works in your favor, I’m all ears.

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      • I like your comment, Phil.

        Everyone here gets all haughty and apoplectic when it comes to strippers, hookers and rest of the fallen women crew, but suddenly, very unsurprisingly, you’ll find CH refugees sucking up to Maggie over at The Honest Courtesan.

        There’s a lot to be said for 26 year old anal and cocoa puffs on a cold October day.

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      • Damn straight. A couple of my super Alpha buddies laugh at me for having dated a single mom stripper, but they always shut their mouth when they met her for the first time.

        “Uhhh. Dude. Uhhh, she’s like super hot. I guess the kid thing aint so bad…”

        I’d never wife her up in a million years, but no man in his right mind would turn that piece of tail away – kid or not. On top of that, she’s kind of easy to get along with and her little girl is rather well behaved. Just can’t take her home to mom.

        Dating a stripper is awesome. Catching oneitis for one would be the kiss of death. I know her and her gaggle of stripper friends. Strippers are hookers – end of discussion.

        Still, my morals are flexible, and I’m not complaining.

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  21. Awww. You mad?

    [Heartiste: U projecting?]

    When a woman is “35, old and a single mom” the beta male is exactly what she desires for commitment

    [No, she desires the alpha male for commitment. But she will get the beta and sulk about it.]

    so dismissing her advice as only working for beta males is moot. She wants someone who commits and will give her resources= beta.

    [And she’ll never feel that tingle again.]

    That’s like when girls chide gamers that they will only get hot girls who aren’t ambitious.

    [I don’t hear anti-game girls saying that. What I hear them saying is that gamers will only get low self-esteem sluts. Which is obviously untrue. Game is to men what beauty is to women: it attracts all members of the opposite sex.]

    Well duh, that’s what they want.

    [Men want hot chicks. Women want powerful men.]

    Both sides are projecting what they think is attractive onto the other.

    [Projection is a universal psychological failing, but women evince it in much greater degree than do men. Chalk it up to women being able to coast through reality on their looks. For a while at least.]

    Her advice is fine and will serve it’s purpose.

    […to make aging single moms out of women.]

    If a woman wanted an alpha as you like to see it (someone who sleeps around, doesn’t commit, won’t pay easily, elicits that visceral sexual response), they would act differently.

    [No, silly girl. They don’t act differently because they *can’t* act differently. After a certain, uh, expiration date has been reached, no alpha male will put up with them. In fact, few alpha males will put up with overly coy golddiggers even when they are at their hottest.]

    Those men are only good for one thing. [and yes I realize that you will view it as the woman who gets used in that scenario but who cares about your perception when a woman is getting pleased and is discrete]

    [That’s just something loser chicks who get pumped and dumped a lot tell themselves.]

    Why are you so bitter towards old or ugly women?

    [False premise. I lacerate the deluded, man or woman. Bitterness ain’t got nothin to do with it.]

    If you aren’t dating them or boning them, why do they matter to you so much that you have to make posts on what they say?

    [Because it gives me pleasure to flay their souls.]

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  22. on October 21, 2011 at 5:57 pm Steve Johnson

    Girl game is effective at manipulating exactly the kinds of men women desire the least.

    I always thought this was exactly the point.

    “Girl game” isn’t aimed at teaching girls skills in manipulating men it’s aimed at (indirectly) teaching girls to pick men that are in their league* and if it’s applied soon enough she’ll actually bond with the guy.

    Pretty devious when you think about it.

    * Girls would sooner pick men out of their league – those men don’t put up with “girl game” tactics. The men who stick around are those who aren’t.

    [Heartiste: This is a bit contortionist, but I get your point. Nevertheless, when most women — particularly aging single moms — think about girl game, they think about how it will help them finally land that alpha male of their dreams.]

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    • [Heartiste: This is a bit contortionist, but I get your point. Nevertheless, when most women — particularly aging single moms — think about girl game, they think about how it will help them finally land that alpha male of their dreams.]

      Such projection.

      [Heartiste: That word doesn’t mean what you think it means. But keep flailing. It amuses me.]

      All the old, worn out puss, weary women I’ve heard of just wants a guy to worship them.

      [Women want the love of a top dog. But only the hottest, youthful, feminine women have a shot at getting commitment from such men (who are, after all, much fewer in number than the demand for them). So women who are aging, or ugly, or fat, or burdened with spawn baggage, or generally unpleasant to be around, will have to settle for lesser men who will have them. Or remain single. And the further a woman’s SMV is damaged, the more she has to settle. She of course will spin this settling as something she wanted to do all along, but those of us who are vivisectors of the human condition know better. Heh heh heh.]

      And if anything, to be rich/ able to provide.

      [You seem to be under the mistaken belief that only betas are rich providers. Step outside the house sometime.]

      They don’t want some charming alpha male.

      [And men don’t want some hardbody 10 either. *off sarcasm*]

      They’ve had their fun with those before and they are over it.

      [Keep telling yourself that.]

      It seems to benefit all involved.

      [Somewhere a divorce raped beta wept.]

      The beta finally gets a girl who may be a (fainting) beauty.

      [Your mistake is in believing betas want “fainting” beauties. They don’t. They want peak beauties, unsullied by numerous cocks. But since they are betas they will settle for the dregs of womanhood. Or porn. Which, btw, is what we are seeing happen today in our society currently in a state of advanced decay. Porn, video games, delayed marriage and fertility clinics as far as the eye can see.]

      The alphas don’t have to deal with old cougars and get the young, bubblies they desire.

      [The betas don’t want to deal with the old cougars either.]

      The old women get to have had their fun and now get security.

      [So certain r u?]

      I’m not sure why this concept upsets you so?

      [Silly cougar, I’m not upset. I’m having a grand time watching you spin your delusions.]

      Are you a beta getting old puss left overs?

      [Is that any way to describe your charms?]

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      • Female “Anonymous” says:

        All the old, worn out puss, weary women I’ve heard of just wants a guy to worship them.

        There is a glaring diference between what they SAY and what they WANT.

        You seem to assume that the women you met (aging, probably ugly, baggage-ed, worn out) will really come out clean and say they wanted someone (alpha) they know thay have no chance in grabing.

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      • Of Women: It will never stop amazing me what their culturally programmed frontal lobes SAY to try and convince otherwise what attraction triggers their hind brains RESPOND too.

        ~4 hours after first date meetup:

        [Ripp pumps, pulls out, blows load on her face]

        Her: “I don’t usually do this”

        Ripp: “heh” [goes downstairs to make sandwich]

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      • on October 21, 2011 at 10:51 pm Martin Maginnis

        “Is that any way to describe your charms”?

        LMFAO!

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      • [Heartiste: This is a bit contortionist, but I get your point. Nevertheless, when most women — particularly aging single moms — think about girl game, they think about how it will help them finally land that alpha male of their dreams.]

        Such projection.

        —-

        A very fascinating response. This verifies that our interloper is female. Much like children, when females are grasping a new concept, they put it to use indiscriminately, hoping for a correct usage to emerge stochastically. It doubles as a masculinity (i.e. shit) test here, as she hopes that her new weapon can be turned against CH and render his victory Pyrrhic.

        Alas child, you are but another butterfly skewered on a pin in our vast museum, which exists only to prove one hypothesis: adult women are indistinguishable from children. Emotionally, intellectually, and morally, women have never had the necessary evolutionary pressure to develop these traits to levels considered by most men to be sufficient for adult discourse.

        Weep child, not for thyself, but for us men who must live with you as company. For us, who were promised a partner of equal measure to sate our lust for life. And we shall weep with you, after naively destroying what our forefathers spent thousands of years cultivating. The patriarch’s gift was teaching woman to feign sophistication to indulge our fantasy of what woman should be; to create an illusion of woman that we could love. Just as a dazzling act of magic is revealed to be sleight of hand, woman has been unveiled to be the childish, amoral hedonist that nature made her. With a fell swoop, the spell is broken, and the magic is gone.

        Woe unto you, for no man can love woman as she truly is.

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      • That was … beautiful

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      • Thumbs up.

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      • Many a beta shlub will love a woman no matter WHAT she is…

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    • on October 24, 2011 at 2:18 am Steve Johnson

      DeNiro’s character was a lower alpha who lost his shit with women (specifically he completely lost his frame with Sharon Stone’s character).

      Peschi’s character was pure thug alpha. He also was stupid alpha and got himself killed because he was completely incapable of making allies instead of enemies of those he saw as short run weak.

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  23. This girl is so far off it belies the fact that she is, as other commenters put it a hooker to the core. I grew up around women like this, and it’s the scent of a failgirl(tm).

    I won’t speak about disqualification in terms of girl game, they have that down. They discovered “being a bitch”. If you want to land a man that is above you and keep him, you have to try (which is a world inherently male. most girls just have to be born and thats it.). What they need is skills. A proper girl removes distraction and noise from the ideas that create a mans life. If a mans world is truly her frame, and she submits to it, this is best.

    It is her duty to keep it clean and functioning better then when she got there.

    The only way someone will ever do that right is if they actually like it that frame. She has to know subconsciously shes yours. The only thing a girl can do in terms of game is open herself up more and more to that without falling in love with the “idea of submission”.

    Specifically a girl can do the following to gain points beyond beauty:

    ++++++++++Create a sub-harem where you bring him girls to fuck. This is the only way to keep an ltr going forever. You must whiddle his standards down with your age by leveraging either other women or…

    +++++++…Learn how make a guy cum till he can’t walk (this almost replaces beauty if you can find it — keyword ALMOST)

    +++Learn how to sing, or some other creative element that demonstrates inner beauty. The most skills the better.

    +Learn nutrition then keep him healthy. Any detail like this, something best done with “love” is something both people can do and it’s pretty kick ass, but not in a “its worth it not to suck this dick in front of me way” which is the only measurement that matters in a world of infinite choice.

    Theres others, but really, of all the old people ive talked to before their life was taken, these themes stay consistent.

    Girls must learn to control other girls to be seen as the princesses and queens they want to be.

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    • Men should learn how to sing too. One can’t become a crooner or a rockstar overnight, but the voice can definitely be improved.

      I’m not really a good singer but i practiced a few songs on recorder during my beta days. They turned out to be useful post game.

      One of my fwb had her cousin die in a car crash. We met shortly afterwards. She was sad, mourning and unreceptive. At one point, I started to sing “Lean on me” by bill withers.
      She melted, and for weeks, she was mine, completely.

      I really wish i was a better singer with a wider repertoire. But if you don’t have the passion, it’s hard to have the patience to learn properly.

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      • Matador wrote: Men should learn how to sing too. One can’t become a crooner or a rockstar overnight, but the voice can definitely be improved.

        Word. A big problem with bad male voices is trying to sing in a female register, rather than going with their natural tenor (or baritone, or most impressive, bass). The best place to practice? Church service. Faggy as most of modern hymns are, they give you an opportunity to modulate your voice against better (and worse) singers.

        The other problem is the inherent theatricality of singing. There’s a reason why poofters are drawn to Broadway. A woman singing is the glory of life. When men do it — particularly when I do it — it feels like mimicry of the real article, faintly feminine. Especially when a guy really commits to the musicality. There is something creepy-like-Joel-Grey-in-Cabaret about it.

        And yet that commitment can serve you in a private situation like the one you describe above.

        Maybe my unease comes from the heebies I get from the thought of a male serenade — much as I do about anything so publicly intimate coming from a man. Or maybe it’s because the content of most sung music is girlish and soul-baring and sentimental; hearing a strong masculine voice calling out military cadences or The Battle Hymn of the Republic is a very different proposition.

        Like this dude. It doesn’t get awesomer:

        The cheers are inappropriate and distracting, but an understandable spontaneous reaction in the presence of virtue. The stentor seemed to overpower the entire stadium. Think of this guy next time some melismatic “soulful” warbler gets up before a game and massacres our national hymn to war and bombast and victory.

        Not sure the stadium singer could pull off your Lean on Me, spoon in a hammock bit though. Different skill sets altogether.

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    • Nice post though.

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      • King A and Metador. You guys convinced me to start singing.
        There is a craiglist add about voice lessons. It doesn’t say if the teacher is a man or a woman. (I live a in a small town) It says that the teacher has experience in opera etc.
        You guys think I need a teacher, or should I just start practicing by my own. Should I look for a male teacher in this case, so I can sing manly?

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      • I don’t know, man. You can hit the church like King A said, or you can take singing classes.
        I’m not religious and i struggle enough in order not to miss my gym workouts.

        So I did it all by my own. I googled around, found some interesting stuff on youtube like this:

        and other videos. And i half-ass practiced by my own. The results are not astonishing, but i improved a little bit. Learning how to sing definitely needs dedication.

        One thing though: chicks are more eager to transform you into a beta bitchboy if you display songing abilities. File your singing under sporadic sprinkles of betatude. The rest of the time, you need to maintain your alpha frame.

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      • Shouldn’t matter if they are actually trained in vocal pedagogy. If they’re just an unemployed music major, though, you might be in trouble if it happens to be a woman.

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  24. “This will encourage ugly, old and fat girls to avoid putting in the necessary work to make themselves more attractive to men. Newsflash, ladies: No, you can’t have it all. You can have what your best assets will bring you by maximizing their impact and minimizing the impact of your worst liabilities. Some liabilities, of course, are not mitigable. PS: Getting a male porn star to fuck you is not an accomplishment. Getting him to love you and commit to you is.”

    This is the problem with not only woman’s advice but their actions in the dating world.

    Every woman thinks she’s the hottest thing goin or is taught to think that way.
    So when the men don’t approach we get ridiculous articles about men not “manning up” simply because they can’t get a date.

    Advice about “Game” may get ridiculous at times but at least there’s an understanding that not every guy when applying “Game” will be beating woman off with a stick.
    So we then get advice that can be used by men who aren’t the most good looking or financially well off.

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  25. What a complete and utter cunt of a woman.

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  26. on October 21, 2011 at 6:59 pm RAYMOND C.Q.KAIKAHALAULUPALAKUA T.N.W. TAINAAN, III

    ANY MALE WILLING TO PAY A TAB OF DRINKS JUST TO GET A WOMAN’S NUMBER SHOULD JUST GET A WHORE..THE SAME FOR A WOMAN….GET A MALE PROSTITUTE!……THAT’S WHY MARRIAGE IS SO SPECIAL. GET THE RIGHT MATE, AND REMAIN TRUTHFUL, AND LOYAL…HOW CAN YOU GO WRONG.

    RAYMOND C.Q. KAIKAHALAULUPALAKUA T.N.W. TAINAAN, III

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  27. “Very shy girls who are pretty will arouse a deep, instinctive authoritarian desire in men to protect and sexually serve. Women don’t need to be loudmouths or assertive if they are cute. It helps, in fact, if they are a little effacing and deferential. A woman with *clinically* low self-esteem, (as distinct from nearly all women who are told they have low self-esteem but in actuality are full of themselves), can temper a man’s lust by slouching, mumbling and denigrating herself. Why? Because men will think she’s not interested.”

    I personally grew up very shy with a clincally low self-esteem (a by-product of anxiety) as Heartiste calls it. For the most part, men have looked at me and not approached, and this reinforced my own beliefs that I was an ugly duckling. I was then often confused by the men who did approach me and my extreme shyness would eventually drive them away.

    Recently some self-realizations have boosted my self-esteem a bit and though I am still shy, I have become a lot more friendly. The number of men approaching me has increased and I have noticed that my shy and submissive nature makes otherwise beta men act more dominant and protective around me. Sometimes I find it intimidating, but I talk myself out of doing things to drive them away.

    On a similar note, while I agree that there is no such thing as girl game, per se, a lot of girls still need to be taught about what thrasymachus33308 mentioned in his comment above (“A woman needs to have the best appearance possible, but all her behavior needs to be beta, that is cooperative, kind, caring, and supportive.”). Because as logical as it is, too many girls are doing the exact opposite and expecting alpha males to fall at their feet.

    Anyway, sorry for the long self-centered post.

    [Heartiste: There’s nothing to be sorry for. Now let’s banish that low self-esteem to the icy wastelands. I’ll start.
    How tall are you?
    How old are you?
    How much do you weigh?
    Which celebrity do you most resemble?
    Do you do anal?

    I’m such a steenker!]

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    • And this, my friends, is girl game. Note the immediate response.

      Awww, I’m so cute and sweet and I used to have some mood affective disorder. I’m so submissive… so much so that even beta men feel like real men around me.

      Yes. Girl game doesn’t exist. The most average girl becomes “cute” or “pretty” when she puts on that act.

      I’m not saying the poster was acting, but it’s done all the time.

      It starts like this. Then it goes to “I just feel sad and alone. I wish someone would spend more time with me”. To “all I wanted was to feel special, like someone wanted to be with me forever”. To “I’ve never even thought of a fairy tale wedding, only people who have it all do that.” Boom, captain save-a-crazy comes in to rescue to make all her dreams come true.

      In there somewhere “wow, I would never dream of getting that [necklace, ring, expensive frivolous item].

      Girl game.

      Le sigh, I hope my guy isn’t getting too bored of my straight forwardness and lack of neediness. May need to turn it up a little.

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    • @Heartiste

      LOL! Hey, don’t make light of my whiney, pity-seeking comment!

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    • Miss_fu,

      I have the same problem – around me, everyone is acting protective and dominant. I’m actually annoyingly shy and I’m afraid that this only was some kind of cute when I was younger (I’m not sure but I had such impression because of the way men behaved when talking to me) but now it’s becoming pathetic because I’m old enough to behave like a grown-up. How did you improve your self-esteem/narcissism issues? I wish I could behave normally and I want to get rid of my shy and childish personality. It’s just not appropriate anymore. It’s so weird for a grown up woman to behave like that.

      And don’t be sorry for your self centered posts (mine are all terribly self centered), it’s just the internet. I’d actually love to hear from you more.

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      • Hi Maya,

        I’m still a work in progress, so my self-esteem is still very low and I’m still very shy. After a lot of introspection discovered that the reason I am so shy/anxious is because I am afraid of doing anything that will hurt my ego.

        What has helped has been going out of my way to do things that make me anxious or feel shy. I expose myself to a lot of potential embarrassment, but I always feel a little better in the end.

        Additionally, I don’t know about your lifestyle choices, but resistance exercises and healthy eating has also been very beneficial.

        I would suggest you read (r)Evoluzione’s excellent comments above about narcissism and chew on that a bit.

        My last piece of advice would be to avoid going to a therapist. They’re very pushy about medication and are NOT open to the idea that low self-esteem is linked to narcissm. Personal experience.

        Sorry I can’t offer more advice. But good luck.

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  28. I’m convinced that half of the advice she sputters is intended within the female sex; girls want to compete amongst themselves for the top dog, so they have to have girl game. Why else would a girl believe this? If she is walking alone through a corporate banquet full of lantern jawed trophies, she is going to be meek as a mouse. If it is a banquet full of wives, she is going to turn the strut up to ten thousand.

    I know a girl who was femininely hot. Adjectives I would use to describe her include meek, dainty, cuddly, bright face, and big tits for her small size. I think that about sums it up.

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    • “meek, dainty, cuddly, bright face, and big tits for her small size” are all things that are in a woman’s control. Do you think she is unaware of these qualities and/or doesn’t play them up?

      Do you think a plain girl could not act meek, cuddly and dainty. Could she not brighten up her face? Can’t she buy tits and become smaller?

      The idea that these are inherent qualities (though may be the case for some people) isn’t the case for all. Some women have become so good at this that it seems natural.

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      • True. There is girl game, too. Being nice, sweet, kind, girlish and even shy definitely is attractive to certain type of men. Unfortunatelly there are few such guys today and it seems that most prefer self-confident women in revealing clothes. Maybe they will change their minds in a few years though. I also agree with your comment about miss_fu – she managed to game Heartiste into being nice to her 🙂

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      • Do you think that a girl can signal shyness/sweetness while still being confident in herself?

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      • Yes. But I think that most girls who look shy really are shy. I’ve never heard of anyone using this to manipulate men. OT, I also don’t think that shyness is always the opposite of self-confidence.

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      • Why is shy, girlish and sweet opposite of confident in revealing clothes? This is where women are losing.

        There are the shy ones who think that in order to be good, they have to cover up and not realize how in demand they are. They get overlooked

        There are the loud mouth ones who claim to be confident but have to be super flashy and behave badly for attention. They get the slut label

        Then there are demure ladies who dress to flatter their bodies/ show off a little, yet know how to be quiet and let a guy feel like they are rescuing her. These girls are winning in every sense. Men will be attracted to them and not put them in the automatic slut bucket.

        Seems like common sense to me, but I guess some women don’t understand that concept. This is similar to some “caring, nerdy” guys I know who complain to me that women overlook them for the asshole. Women are overlooking you for a guy who is more exciting, not less caring. There’s a difference. As a woman, you think guys are overlooking you because you are shy, but they probably overlooking you because you aren’t showing your physical attractiveness. It doesn’t have to be either/ or.

        First step in gaining self-esteem is not internalizing some of the anti-woman comments in this blog INCLUDING the ones that don’t pertain to you. Don’t think you can make fun of sluts because you are a virgin or make fun of uglies because you are hot. Internalizing negativity about women will just lead to lower self-esteem. Period.

        Being a woman of agency (even if you realize how whatever choice you make will affect other’s perception of you and your options in life) is very empowering and will add to your self-esteem. Never think that you can do whatever you want without consequences. But realize that given the consequences, the choices are still yours. Own your womanhood and stop relying on other people (including the contributors to this blog) to tell you what makes you a good or acceptable woman… just use the blog to gauge what will be some of the consequences of your actions, whatever you choose.

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      • I agree with you. Someone here suggested a system instead of the standard alpha/beta one. It had hawks (marriage-able alphas), vultures (guys on this blog), and chickens (betas/herbs). I think the guys here oversimplify women into alpha/beta, but there is probably a system similar to the hawk/vulture/chicken one, but pertaining to females.

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  29. This is actually EXCELLENT advice…for her fellow strippers, prostitutes and gold-diggers. I have no doubt this advice (be bitchy and demanding, look hot, make him pay for everything) would work very well for women seeking lonely sadsack men to hustle out of their money. In that respect, Ms. Passage is spot on.

    For a woman looking for love, respect and commitment from a worthy man, however, it’s pure insanity. Her advice boils human relationships down to a simple cash transaction. Any intelligent, decent man will see right through this and bolt: she is encouraging women to literally filter them out and go straight for the dregs. This is great for strippers, not so great for average women.

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  30. “6. My presence is a gift.” Translated to English from the original Hamsterspeak, this means “My sense of entitlement has driven me completely batshit crazy.”

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  31. I highly doubt this ex-stripper ever dated any real alpha’s, that’s if you don’t count being a member of a black pimp’s stable as being in a relationship with an alpha.

    Most strippers are whores, (not that most of you wouldn’t know already lols), and a great majority of them have drug problems. I worked as a bouncer for a few dance clubs in Vegas back in the day and have first person experience with the scene. Most of these girls fluctuate between black pimps that beat them and beta providers that help pay their rent once in a while.

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  32. Here’s a full story on her:

    http://nymag.com/news/features/diane-passage-2011-9/

    She tries to act like she’s in control of these rich beta dudes. But other than her ex-hubby, the rich beta dudes treat her like a whore.

    But surprise, the New York media have latched on to her like some kind of tragic hero / role model for aspiring Manhattan whores.

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  33. This broad’s got a case of Princess Entitlement Complex that could knock a buzzard off a shitpile.

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  34. “Girl game is effective at manipulating exactly the kinds of men women desire the least.”
    It’s funny, because guy game is most effective on the kinds of women men desire the most. Seems like another case where the sexes complement each other in a yin-yang fashion.

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  35. Good grief, Heartiste, that comment to Miss_fu !

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  36. on October 21, 2011 at 9:01 pm John Norman Howard

    Listening to this woman’s advice about men is like hearing Egyptian history from an Afro-centrist… too much nigger in the woodpile.

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  37. What amazes me is the attention this article is getting. It’s what’s known as “filler” in the publishing biz. Read ‘Glamour’ or ‘Cosmo’ and you’ll see one of these a month (at least–Cosmo has more like 3 per issue). They always say the same thing: be confident, hold your head high, make him pay, you’re the catch, etc. The only thing that makes this one notable is that apparently an ex-stripper somehow wrote it.

    The NYP is known as essentially all filler these days. It’s almost as worthless a tabloid as Germany’s “Bild” but without the porn.

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  38. How to hide desperation and is hiding your true self a smart thing to do? Thanks.

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  39. I just have to say that finding this blog in my early 20’s has been great. Thank you for showing me the true abhorrent nature of women. This woman is the lowest scum that society has to offer.

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  40. I lol’d several times while reading this. Great stuff Heartiste.

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  41. on October 21, 2011 at 10:40 pm Anti Blue pill

    Maybe this chick should write an article about removing crabs and other diseases infesting her dry vaj.

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  42. “Girl game” is being an 18 year old piece of ass with perfect skin, fat young tits and a tight, sweet, untouched ass offered up like a wiggling puppy.

    Good to see the hard prose stylings of our original host in full effect. Keep up the in-thread flayings, one of the most enjoyable aspects of the blog.

    Maya weeps and flicks the bean. 😉

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  43. I think it’s much healthier for the lesser betas to stick to porn and hookers in the long run, considering the state of affairs in family law. Even with Game, most of us won’t make it into the top-tier of men (because we lack the resources, family ties, connections or abilities required), and those who have no game at all are better off not saddling themselves with a 4-5 who will later assrape them in court.

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    • As an omega, I agree. Best I could do even with game is a 3 or 4 (game can only raise you 2 points)

      So either put in tons of time and effort socializing, sacrificing valuable video game time for not much reward, or shell out for a hooker every few months.

      And pr0n. Lots and lots of pr0n.

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  44. An ex-stripper single mom giving advice and MSM displaying it for the masses… the deception continues.

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    • The glorification of single moms is part of the marxist agenda. Like all marxist BS is pure illusion. There is no way a single moother ex-strippepr is morally qualified to give dating advices for other girls.

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  45. “Girl game is effective at manipulating exactly the kinds of men women desire the least.”

    All too true.

    By the time they realized that the man who walked away from them was actually rejecting her (as opposed to being weak) it’s too late.

    Like most bad game, this is destined for failure, as her life is centered around men and not herself.

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  46. That stripper forum is great for a laugh. Here is a link to an entry where a soon to be worn out whore talks about how hard it is to keep a positive attitude after four years of stripping when she is only in it for the money.

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?s=3f1b09d2b509fa3d9e121314312ea56f&t=163763

    I’m surprised that would be femicunt Anonymous hasn’t said anything about manning up. Though I’m sure her hamster is getting worked up towards it.

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    • Strip clubs are virtually an exact opposite world than the rest of the world. In a strip club, its women who approach and who have to use pickup lines and persist in a set. In a strip club, its women who try to fool the guy into thinking they will have sex with him, just like in a club we try to fool the chicks into thinking one day we might marry them. Strippers game us for money, we game chicks in a club for sex.

      Of course, some guys marry chicks they meet in clubs, and some strippers end up fucking the “custie.”

      When I go out, I try to think of myself as a stripper approaching “custies.” I realize that once in a while, I pay for a dance in a strip club even though I really never want one, and every once in a while, its with a chick I’m not even attracted to. When the mediocrity is doing her lap dance for me, I realize its pretty much exactly how chicks feel when they are on the way back to my bedroom.

      Unfortunately, I’m not very good at remembering that I need to think of myself as a stripper when I go out to a club. I think if I were ever to master that, I’d pull a lot more chicks out of clubs.

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  47. In the old days it was the colleges who taught women to act like men and to morph their minds with liberal androgenous epistomology. Now, if they don’t get it in college, the really dumb ones get bernankified by tv.

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    • on October 22, 2011 at 9:29 am John Norman Howard

      Well, when one is vying for the title of Miss Universe Of Damaged Goods, one needs to go the extra length.

      Feh… she looks like Amy Winehouse in that picture.

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    • There are three rules about dating single moms:

      1- It’s better not to even bother. There are enough tight vaginas out there. And as our host regularly points out, kids (especially not your own) are a buzzkill.

      2- If it happens nonetheless, keep it casual.

      3- If the bastard is black, keep it casual, but only in the ass.

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    • And her financial-manager-who-marries-a-stripper is Jewish—and as ugly as the Golem,to boot. This is HBD on parade.

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  48. One thing to remember about all online blogs, postings, etc. is to not take everything at face value.

    For example, medical marijuana. I support it, but for a different reason than most. I want all my peers to get high as shit so I can land the jobs they can’t apply for.

    As for this stripper, she could be trolling also. An easy way to date quality men is to reduce the dating pool of quality women.

    Believe nothing online and field test everything before setting beliefs.

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    • As for this stripper, she could be trolling also. An easy way to date quality men is to reduce the dating pool of quality women.

      this was my first thought as well, although i don’t think she’s doing it consciously.

      men aren’t the only ones who should ignore dating advice from women.

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  49. moother = mother

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  50. BOYCOTT AMERICAN WOMEN
    Why American men should boycott American women

    http://boycottamericanwomen.blogspot.com

    I am an American man, and I have decided to boycott American women. In a nutshell, American women are the most likely to cheat on you, to divorce you, to get fat, to steal half of your money in the divorce courts, don’t know how to cook or clean, don’t want to have children, etc. Therefore, what intelligent man would want to get involved with American women?

    American women are generally immature, selfish, extremely arrogant and self-centered, mentally unstable, irresponsible, and highly unchaste. The behavior of most American women is utterly disgusting, to say the least.

    This blog is my attempt to explain why I feel American women are inferior to foreign women (non-American women), and why American men should boycott American women, and date/marry only foreign (non-American) women.

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    • this will backfire, the SMV of all the foreign women will go up even higher and you will be priced out and have to settle with a sausage shaped illegal.

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  51. This set of rules is a rationalization for women who don’t make the effort, end up alone and need to justify that by saying “There are no good men left”…

    Best line I ever read was somewhere in these pages: I paraphrase….

    Cougar: Where are all the good men?

    Poster: In your 20’s right where you left them….

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  52. This is just too funny! – briliant comments heartiste.

    She reminds me of Violetta in Dame aux Camillias (La Traviata) – aging slut who deludes herself that because she might once have been hot she deserves to join the aristocracy. Er no.

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  53. what th’ hell is MSM?
    although, strippers and suchlike offer some kind of lesson in game for men, at least to my ignorant eye. The Rules was all about getting commitment, since that’s what women want in some form, and game is all about getting sex. Women withhold sex to get commitment, men withhold commitment to get sex? At least if the other party is interested enough, anyway…

    Anyhow, who has some advice for improving your ability to banter with girls?

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  55. I didnt quite get the Heartiste comment about the strippers bizarre “goal” of banging a porn star. You said winning would be “love and committment” from the porn-guy? I think the best goal would be to steer as clear as possible from the dripping sewer pipe between the porn stars legs. A goal I guess Manjaw has failed to achieve.

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  56. “Show your confidence at all times.. never think you can’t have it all!.. An acquaintance of mine stalked a man because she was obsessed with getting married before the age of 35.”

    Taking on the male role, “you can have it all”, and oh God, don’t get married before the age of 35!!

    This isn’t even “girl game” at all, it’s just the same old Feminist BS.

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  57. Off topic:
    Dont you think the picture of Kadafi’s son drinking water before he was shot screams “alpha” ?
    Guy couldnt care less about the captors.

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  58. I present to our esteemed host a beta-of-the-month candidate.

    On a whim, I ventured a little ways into the cave of beta-tude known as Reddit. A place, I loathe to admit, I once frequented before I had taken the red pill and saw the beta-hell matrix for what it really is.

    I found this gem on the front page and rushed back to the Chateau with great haste.

    My girlfriend made a new guy friend, now she spends the night about once a week at his place

    The poor beta weeps:

    “Is this a trust issue that she claims I have or is she in the wrong?”

    “See that’s what this post was to gauge. If I’M the one that’s being irrational about being uncomfortable/angry about her sleeping over at his place as she claims I am. I think I’m a bit clingy/overprotective/jealous so I wasn’t sure if that was clouding my judgement.”

    Though to their credit, the prevailing advice was to ditch her. I think one commenter even through out the term ‘alpha’.

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  59. I’m torn between teeth-gritting rage and uncontrollable laughter.

    Fucking despicable.

    I’d rather shoot myself than marry a white woman with a black kid. Is this woman fucking serious?

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  60. While an undergraduate, I had a class mate from Saudi with the usual disdain for Western mores. One day, though, we did manage to get him to come out with us, and got him rip roaringly drunk. Then we took hm to a strip club.

    He had wealthy parents, and like many Arabs in the west, looked the part. Silk shirt, big watch etc., etc. Exactly the kind of guy strippers on the make are taught to seek out for a big night.

    It didn’t take long before he had some big chested skank all over him, jiggling, wiggling and angling for every dollar in his alligator wallet. But, being absolutely wasted, before a single dollar changed hands, he ended up barfing buckets all over her. I don’t know if that counts as being an “alpha” or not, but he sure did get his point across.

    Then he went back home and married a 15 year old virgin……

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  61. I always enjoy the CH’s evisceration of femicunt delusional contrive.

    It’s like chlorine in the pool of vaginal discharge mentality. Refreshing.

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  62. http://yahoo.match.com/cp.aspx?cpp=/cppp/yahoo/article.html&articleid=3973&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=876309&ER=sessiontimeout

    Here’s the type of advice that Girl Game is attempting to take advatange of. Between Girl Game and this quality dating ‘advice’, it’s a wonder Americans will ever reproduce at all.

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  63. An aging, cynical, mediocre-at-best looking ex-stripper with a mixed-race bastard child giving step-by-step instructions on how to successfully deal with men: irony of this magnitude only shows up once every several generations, I swear.

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  64. Interestingly, a close buddy of mine used to have a girlfriend who was a stripper. They broke up but he stayed friends with her. Sometimes we three would go out for lunch or dinner, and she would always pay. Once I offered to pay and she was clearly uncomfortable with the idea.

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  65. “”8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date.””

    Here’s the one truffle hidden in all the feminst bullshit…..

    This is the one reverse-engineered explanation of the shit-test.

    Pass it and appear “strong” and you plough through.

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  66. I don’t understand why you guys are so angry at a stripper.

    They are on our side. Well, maybe this feminist one isn’t, but strippers are hated by feminist for giving us lap dances, so they are on our side. lolz

    The enemy of my enemy is my friend 🙂

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  67. The whole idea of female game is ludicrous, because the means by which women manipulate men are already widely known and practiced, and have been pretty comprehensively milked for all they are worth by now. There is little that anyone can teach about female game that has not been understood by most females from a young age for a long time anyway. Western women have already played their “game” for all it is worth, and the fruits of their efforts largely exist in our current legal and cultural biases against men in various fields such as family law, criminal law, reproductive rights, health, education etc. etc.

    Game, as it is promoted by many in the manosphere, is really little more than an attempt to level the playing field and get some of their own back over women’s manipulation.

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  68. … and despite what I wrote above, her (only mentioned) goal was to sleep with a porn-star. Doubtless he was young and big and strong and knew what he was doing, (though would he care as he would be slumming it, off-duty and doing it pro-bono?) – so she would be getting a freebie, as in Drinks-whore, Food-whore Sex-whore – but, frankly, if that is the height of her ambition, that does give some idea of her real view of herself (low self-esteem). Who, after all, continually sets goals for themselves, unless their life is a continual disaster? People who continually set goals (which will never be kept or reached) are surely people who are not really functioning normally in life, and the goal gives the delusional impression that she can return to some form of normality. Perhaps, given her dismal situation, a male porn-star is as high as she can safely aspire – to be fucked for free. Might have been more sensible to hire a gigolo. Not something, however, really to brag about in public.

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    • Hey, I resemble that comment! I’ve had a lifelong goal of banging a famous porn star, and two weeks ago tonight, I bedded Rebecca Bordoux.

      Well, I don’t continually set goals; that was pretty much my only goal. Actually, I still haven’t had a 3-on-one. Or two girls spend the whole night with me rolling balls. Or ….

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      • Pix or it didn’t happen

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      • No pics, just witnesses. If you happen to know Ronnie Jeremy, he was one of the people that helped set it up, so you can ask him.

        One thing I learned that I feel like I should have known going in was that aging pornstars who regret not having settled down and had children relish the opportunity to have one-on-one sex in the dark with guys around their own age who are focused on giving them pleasure, without the crowds, cameras, choreography, and interruptions.

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  69. lol her kid is black….gameover before it even started, people should stop paying attention right there.

    girl game tip number 1: Don’t have a black bastard baby as walking, breathing evidence that you are a CHEAP whore…

    Might as well stop there seeing as she fell at the first hurdle.

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  70. Man that shit is depressing to read. I feel bad for her.

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  71. Girl game?! Girl game?

    We do not have game – attempting to cross-apply game is needless, nonsensical and ineffectual for women. I know this is complex for MANY women but there are things that we should not do and cannot do – meaning we do not have girl game. We can emote about relationships, feelings, etc., but that is not game.

    And if ya all think this is a disaster try reading “women in religion” and the goofy pseudo/ass-backwards teachings they vomit as if it were truth.

    As I have said before keep women out of everything.

    These truly are Post American times.

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    • You must not be from the US… I heard no less than 2 handfuls of women actually using the term “girl game” in October, alone.

      Then again, all 10 of them were also…alone.

      The women I see generally are more confident and in control, own their homes, make a decent income, etc — but when they’re with me, the ditziness and puppy-dog eyes come out.

      So I guess the rule is: girl game towards the world, girly feminine behavior towards your man?

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      • That is b/c “girl game” does not exist, at the risk of repeating the same basic points the writer already listed. As a female, I am saying girl game does not exist and when women try to create girl game it turns into utter bullsh-t. “Girl game” not only does not exist but its nonsensical and that (being nonsocial) is what appeals to women. This works for the women loaded up with testosterone, they think they can create girl game when observers like us know its BS.

        “the ditziness and puppy-dog eyes come out.”

        And that is real nature of a woman being properly gamed or who really likes you or a just normal thoughtleess girl. Normal women should not be known for their high IQ, stern smileless faces, rolls of fat, litter of fatherless children, knowledge of a stripper pole, in possession of any of this broads advice and a deep voice.

        But that is called the Post American effect.

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  72. How do you post a Youtube link without the video being embedded. I find that annoying. I just want the link to post. If anyone knows, thanks.

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  73. on October 23, 2011 at 10:59 am Dr. Van Nostrand

    “but they must also take care of taxi fare, coat check and bathroom attendant tips.”

    WTF ,how the heck do the logistics of tipping HER bathroom attendants work?Does he follow her to the ladies room and wait till she comes and beckons the attendant to grease her a 5?
    Silly question of course:What most likely occurs is what Sharon Stone pulls on Robert DeNiro in Casino-she aks for “tip money” and she justs pockets it herself!!

    While were on the topic of whores/strippers
    Question for heartiste-it was never really clear to me whether DeNiros character was a beta or alpha.I mean he runs a casino like a tight ship in mafia controlled Vegas(alpha) and yet he very consciously ,analytically makes a decision that his heart(read -cock) not his head should call the shots regarding this glamorous whore!(action was beta…but what that led to it,controlled risk taking, seems alpha)

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    • Lester Diamond is the alpha in Casino.

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      • ^This. Lester might have seemed like a bitch around DeNiro and his boys, getting the shit kicked out of him and whatnot, but his attitude was alpha around Sharon Stone, and thats all that matters apparently. Perfect word to describe the guy is ‘weasel’ (like a lot of pimps), and he’s (they’re) still alpha. Pretty interesting.

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    • Good question.

      In defense of ex-strippers who expect you to tip the bathroom attendant, my winggirl is an ex-stripper, and she regularly brings chicks out of the ladies room ready to fuck me sight-unseen. She’s never asked me to reimburse the attendant, but I do in other ways, like buying her drinks.

      I also once went to Scores with a stripper, and had to get her from the ladies room when she got us kicked out of the club by puking all over the ladies room. Then again, I didn’t tip the attendant.

      So, I still have never directly tipped a ladies room bathroom attendant. That having been said, I’m thinking it may not be a bad idea for guys to get to know ladies room bathroom attendants and have them wing for us from the ladies room. Surely they overhear chicks talking, and can figure out which ones are for in need of immediate cock. If my winggirl can regularly pick up girls from me in the ladies room, a ladies room bathroom attendant could probably be even better.

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      • on October 24, 2011 at 2:58 am Dr. Van Nostrand

        “Surely they overhear chicks talking, and can figure out which ones are for in need of immediate cock. If my winggirl can regularly pick up girls from me in the ladies room, a ladies room bathroom attendant could probably be even better.”

        Great point.Never thought of it that way. Of course that would be tipping her for my sake and not my “date’s”!

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    • WTF ,how the heck do the logistics of tipping HER bathroom attendants work?
      Maybe it’s like in Breakfast at Tiffany’s when the guy gave Audrey Hepburn’s character some money when she went to the bathroom.

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  74. Yeah, this country is fucked. Want to get out, but where?

    The signs:
    http://gothamist.com/2011/10/22/pregnant_brooklyn_woman_fatally_sho.php <— God look at the kids too. The names are not John, Steve or Paul. They're not going to integrate into society very well.
    http://gothamist.com/2011/10/23/finances_causing_strife_at_occupy_w.php <— Like, man, I don't get free food and shit?
    http://gothamist.com/2011/10/22/office_workers_around_occupy_wall_s.php <— Real people: "Yeah, OWS are morons. They don't get what they're doing."

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  75. This was a brilliant analysis.

    Like you said, any kind of manipulation will only truly work on the kind of men that women want the least.

    Oh, evolution is cruel.

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  76. 8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date. “”

    Interesting. This reverse-engineers why women shit-test. The fact she wants someone to stand up to her is a validation of the following: the neg, passing shit-tests, why push-pull works and why despite what she says here…women dig jerks…make decisions get laid.

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  77. As a man who has bedded and strung along strippers in the past, this makes me laugh. I’ll never understand why any man would marry one of these girls? They employ “game” tactics more than any brand of female out there. The results speak for themselves. Only a truly desperate man would consider a relationship with someone who thinks like this.

    I guess it’s the Post so I can’t complain why anyone would publish this, but you have to ask yourself what kind of girl would take advice from a twice-divorced woman? Now who would take advice from one who is (or was) a stripper? Hooking up with a male porn-star as on one of your “goals”, silly or not, just says so much about this walking disease.

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  78. on October 23, 2011 at 2:19 pm John Norman Howard

    The real sad part is, even with tar baby in tow, some Cinderella Liberty schmoe will always come along and want to White Knight her sorry ass.

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    • That’s true. But girls with mixed-race spawn won’t even get the asscocka from me. A guy’s got to draw the line somewhere.

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      • dn’t be silly…..

        mixed race black-white people don’t have longer life expectancy than whites.

        mixed race black-white people are not more intelligent than white people.

        They are not more athleticly gifted/fast as blacks.

        if what you are saying is true, they’d be outpeforming whites and blacks on all measures…..also i’m not sure if youv’e noticed r are informed enough to realise, but there are whole nations of mixed race people who are ugly as hell cough* mexico *cough, to name just one.

        this study is old and shit. i’m not sure what measures are used here to define “vigor” as you put it, but it seems to be some subjective rubbish about appearance……

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      • also even if correct, thats a reason for me to court a black chick, not supplicate to a nigger banging white chick, so not really sure what you were getting here……

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      • on October 24, 2011 at 12:51 pm John Norman Howard

        A world where the best one could hope for in re female beauty was a Halle Berry or Vanessa Williams? Meh.

        And I certainly wouldn’t want to live in a world that could no longer produce the likes of a Jackie Evancho or a Richard Wagner.

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      • Hybrid vigor doesn’t extend past F1.

        What tribe do you think that author belongs to? Funny how that tribe encourages miscegenation for everyone but their own kind.

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      • 1. The tribe does not encourage miscegenation, and I know many members of the tribe who, for better or worse, are revolted by it regardless of whether it involves another member of the tribe.

        2. I’m confident that 90% of single guys within the tribe wish there was less discouragement of miscegenation within the tribe, since those guys are, by and large, expected to choose mates among only 2% of the population, who also happen to be disproportionately hairy, obnoxious, flat-assed, and bad-breathed.

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  79. There was a time when a woman would be ashamed to admit she wanted to have sex with a porn star. There was a time when a major newspaper wouldn’t run a story in which she admitted it. There was a time when “because I want to” wasn’t an all-purpose justification.

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  80. No such thing as Alpha vs Beta when it comes to DeNiro’s character in Casino. He was Alpha all the way, a Beta would of never had the backbone to throw her out.

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  81. Girls who use this game deserve the type of men it attracts. In fact, they are each other’s equals, the least desirable mates from the male and female distributions.

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  82. De Niro’s character in Casino was a beta. See how Sharon Stone’s character, Ginger, robbed him, cuckolded him and even plotted to kill him.

    I think most people know men like that: Folks who can hold their own with their male peers, but with women, foheddaboutit.

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    • You know it is a movie and unless it was made made by someone who swollowed the red pill will not have characters always reacting in a realistic manner. Thus characters can producs contradicting behaviors – both alfa and beta.

      Usually in movies the guy is all alfa kicking ass until he confesses his love to some slut in the end of the movie like a complete beta.

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      • on October 28, 2011 at 8:10 am Dr. Van Nostrand

        Except for the fact that the movie is based on real life characters and incidents with very little liberty taken with facts.

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  83. Srila Prabhupada’s teachings on women and anti-feminism
    http://prabhupadawomen.wordpress.com/

    The purpose of this essay is to address the issue of feminism and misandry (hatred of men, the opposite of misogyny) and how it has destroyed modern society. We will be analyzing many of the statements made by Srila Prabhupada about women, their role in society, and the anti-feminism stance of his teachings.

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  84. Disgusting woman.

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  85. Article on guys in relationships with low sex drives.

    http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/are-you-gay-or-something-why-its-so-much-harder-when-she-wants-it-more/

    My thoughts:

    1. Guy is out of shape
    2. Gal is out of shape
    3. Guy is stressed

    I know that twice in my life my sex drive plummeted — once when I gained a lot of weight (and got stressed about it), once when the gal gained weight and I was trying real monogamy.

    Won’t let any of the 3 happen anymore.

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    • 4. guy gets tired of pounding the same hole
      5. gal gets older and less desirable by the day
      6, guy is plowing other ass on the side
      7. guy starts feeling sorry for the chick since he knows he’s fixing to dump her and thinks banging her is just going to make gal love him even more
      8. guy finds great porn website
      9. gal’s pussy smells really bad one day and he loses all interest in her as a result

      Anyone want to take over listing the next 300 reasons?

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  86. I’ve lost count of how many women I’ve met that tip their hand playing these games. You can definitely turn it around on them after a few weeks, make them think you are falling for their BS, then pump and dump. Next.

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  87. “Very shy girls who are pretty will arouse a deep, instinctive authoritarian desire in men to protect and sexually serve. Women don’t need to be loudmouths or assertive if they are cute. It helps, in fact, if they are a little effacing and deferential. A woman with *clinically* low self-esteem, (as distinct from nearly all women who are told they have low self-esteem but in actuality are full of themselves), can temper a man’s lust by slouching, mumbling and denigrating herself. Why? Because men will think she’s not interested.”

    You can’t seem to tell this to these women who come up with this shit. A shy, demure, self effacing women who is beautiful bypasses all higher functions of my brain to produce an erection. My brain only finds out afterwards when it hits my cold, sharp zipper. A confident woman does not mean a thing to me. If she has talent, sure I’d like it, but I am not looking for a homo with a great vaudevillian act. Me + talented, post menopausal wunderfrau = 0 Offspring.

    The whole idea of male confidence is he is expressing some survival enhancing situation, sitting on a stash of mammoth meat, just became warlord, won the lotto etc…Women are literally sitting on what they have. If her confidence does not line up with it, it doesn’t matter.

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  88. I am an American man, and I have decided to boycott American women.

    So what, then? Playstation mode full time?

    this will backfire, the SMV of all the foreign women will go up even higher and you will be priced out and have to settle with a sausage shaped illegal.

    For those in the US, true. And as GBFM would say, Bernanke is working overtime to debase the US dollar so America won’t attract that much beautiful girls from abroad neither will be Americans able to travel so often

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  89. My wallet does not exist. It might sound like an outdated cliché, but if you’re a woman, you should never reach into your wallet while you’re in the presence of a man

    Who reads this trash? I can’t imagine any barely hot girl taking this seriously.

    I think that thesame way betas rejoice with female aging, low SMV girls rejoice in imagining they can live the Sex abd the City lifestyle and still require Titanic-like behaviour of men

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