Why Chicks Dig Egotistic Men, &c.

You can judge who’s nice and who’s a dick simply by looking at them. We humans have tells, and some of those tells are outside of our conscious control, like the shape of our faces. Other tells, such as smiles, are difficult to fake convincingly without willful effort.

Further analyses of Oda et al.’s data show that the key to detecting altruists is genuine smile, which is under involuntary control and is therefore difficult to fake. Altruists genuinely smile more frequently than egoists during natural conversations.

And this is where game comes in. We all know by now, thanks in part to the illumination provided by this blog, that women are sexually attracted to men who are self-centered egotists; in layman’s nomenclature: assholes, dicks, douchebags, pricks and masters of the universe. The kinds of men women swoon for possess the “dark triad” of personality traits: narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism. It stands to reason that women would be drawn to egoists, and that, at least according to the science, one way in which a man feeds the perception that he is an egoist is by smiling less frequently than niceguys would smile during natural conversations. Which leads to…

Maxim #39: Stop smiling so much! Girls will think you’re ingratiating. Girls prefer men they can ingratiate themselves to.

So you have another weapon to add to your arsenal of seduction. Work on suppressing the smile instinct when you talk to a girl. Be especially wary when she flatters you or flirts with you; that’s when you’ll be under the least amount of voluntary control over your smiling reflex. A smile should be tamed to a barely perceptible upturned mouth corner, and limited in its dispensation so as to maximize the effect it has when it is deployed.

Note for the recently lobotomized: During the non-ovulatory phase of their cycle, women do feel some attraction for altruistic, beta providers. It should go without saying that the best seducers balance the asshole with the altruist. Within that balance is the key to unlocking a fountain of women’s love.

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Women remember your words better if you speak them in a deep voice.

[T]he authors found that women had a strong preference for the low pitch male voice and remembered objects more accurately when they have been introduced by the deep male voice.

Smith concludes: “Our findings demonstrate that women’s memory is enhanced with lower pitch male voices, compared with the less attractive raised pitch male voices. Our two experiments indicate for the first time that signals from the opposite-sex that are important for mate choice also affect the accuracy of women’s memory.”

This confirms a lesser known game concept that men who speak slowly and deliberately are more attractive to women. When you speak slowly, your voice pitch lowers, which raises your attractiveness. Try it sometime. If you want a girl to remember something you consider helpful to your goal of getting her to sex, be sure to deliberately lower your voice when you say it.

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I was right about cutters. They do it to because it distracts them from their worries and alleviates stress and depression.

The majority of people involved in self-injury do it to deal with anxiety or emotional pain, Adler said. It “self-soothes” and gives people a sense of control. And it helps many people get over a rough patch in their lives.

I contend that cutters are probably the fastest lays you will encounter. If you catch sight of the telltale stigmata, push for a same night lay.

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File under: No duh! A lack of a father in the home is bad for children’s future prospects.

Despite the widespread assumption that paternal investment is substantial in our species, previous studies have shown mixed results in relation to the impact of fathers on both offspring survival and reproductive outcomes. Using data from a large representative sample of British men, we tested whether father absence is associated with the timing of reproduction-related events among boys, while controlling for various cues denoting early childhood adversity. We further tested whether the loss of the father at different childhood stages matters, so as to assess whether early life is the most important period or if effects can be seen during later childhood. The results show that father absence before age seven is associated with early reproduction, while father absence between ages 11 and 16 only is associated with delayed voice-breaking (a proxy for puberty), even after adjusting for other factors denoting childhood adversity. We conclude that fathers do exert an influence on male reproductive outcomes, independently of other childhood adversities and that these effects are sensitive to the timing of father absence.

You kind of have to read between the lines in this study to get to the meat of the issue: if you like living in a prosperous, civilized nation, you want boys to reach sexual maturity later in life, as such late bloomers are a sign that more parental investment into learning and developing is taking place. K-selection strategy, in other words. If you want to live in a shithole, you can’t go wrong in a place where boys are sprouting pube grass and wolf whistling by age 9. The scourge of single momhood in the USA and other Western nations is an early warning sign that our once great nations are headed down the path of shitholeitude.

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If you want a quick and effortless path to sex, you should focus on gaming girls when they are alone and away from their peers.

Peer pressure? It’s hardwired into our brains.

A new USC study explains why people take stupid chances when all of their friends are watching that they would never take by themselves. According to the study, the human brain places more value on winning in a social setting than it does on winning when you’re alone. […]

The researchers found that the striatum, a part of the brain associated with rewards, showed higher activity when a participant beat a peer in the lottery, as opposed to when the participant won while alone. The medial prefrontal cortex, a part of the brain associated with social reasoning, was more activated as well. Those participants who won in a social setting also tended to engage in more risky and competitive behavior in subsequent lotteries.

“These findings suggest that the brain is equipped with the ability to detect and encode social signals, make social signals salient, and then, use these signals to optimize future behavior,” Coricelli said.

As Coricelli explained, in private environments, losing can more easily be life-threatening. With no social support network in place, a bad gamble can spell doom.

In group environments, on the other hand, rewards tend to be winner-takes-all. Nowhere is this more clear than in sexual competition, where — to borrow a phrase from racing legend Dale Earnhardt, Sr. — second place is just first loser.

What does this have to do with women and ease of sex? Well, peer pressure acts on adult women too, (it’s not just a teen skaterboi phenomenon), and is particularly relevant when the woman is surrounded by her clucking hens in a mixed group environment where men are hitting on her. Taking risks to impress friends and potential mates manifests differently in men than it does in women. A man will engage in derring-do in front of a crowd to boost his status; a woman will look good to try to capture the interest of an alpha male to boost her social status.

A woman is going to feel more pressure to snag the top dog when her friends are watching, so she will have a bigger bitch shield (to more effectively screen out the betas) than she would if she were sitting alone when you approached her. Ergo, you probably have an easier path to sex if you game her when there are none of her peers around. And this tends to confirm my real life experience. Women are especially keen to avoid the slut label when friends are watching.

But I can imagine some readers reaching a contrary conclusion (and there are enough personal examples to support an opposing conclusion). A woman alone risks more if she winds up sleeping with a cad; as the study mentioned, she has no support network to ameliorate any bad decision she might make. You might, therefore, have a better shot at sex if you can successfully capitalize on her genetically wired need for social approval by instilling the fear of loss in her through jealously plotlines; for example, by disqualifying her with negs while you flirt with her friends.

The “woman alone” vs “woman in group” theory needs some more fleshing out by field testers and theorists alike. My take is this: Women alone are better same night lay prospects, especially if you’re strong in the comfort stage, but women in groups offer more opportunity (via social dynamic pathways) to raise your value and build attraction in the early stages of pickup.

And if you keep getting blown out by cockblocks, well, a woman by herself won’t have that problem. Which brings us to day game…

but that is a topic for another time.





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  1. on September 14, 2011 at 12:29 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

    spekaing of egoistic menznzz lzozllzlz THIS JUSTS IN!!!

    BREAKING ENOEOCNC NEWWSSS!! MNEOCON NEOCON NEWS!!!lzozozlzlz

    WOMENZ TAMEZ MENZ!!!! LZOZOZZLZLZLZOZ

    http://greatbooksformen.wordpress.com/2010/03/11/jonah-goldbergs-primal-lord-of-the-flies-savagery-tamed-by-his-beuatiful-wife/

    nd Jonah Goldberg’s Primal “Lord of The Flies Neocon Savagery” Tamed by His Beuatiful (lozl) Wife!!

    omg lozlzl chekc out jonah goldberg’s wife!!

    “nuff said!” lzozlzl!

    a most civilizing force that tamed the savage, primal jonah goldberg!!

    jonah writes:

    “March 10, 2010 12:00 A.M.
    Where Feminists Get It Right
    Women civilize men. ’Nuff said.

    “nuff said!” lzozlzl!

    The reason strikes me as fairly simple. Women civilize men. As a general rule, men will only be as civilized as female expectations and demands force them to be. “Liberate” men from those expectations, and Lord of the Flies logic kicks in. Liberate women from this barbarism, and male decency will soon follow.

    –http://article.nationalreview.com/427383/where-feminists-get-it-right/jonah-goldberg

    without jonah goldberg’s wife’s arresting beauty (lozllz!), neocon woman expectations, and neocon woman demands (lzozll! omg lozlzlz!), jonah goldberg would be out playing lord of the flies, running around with no shirt on down K street, rockin’ out with his goldberg neocon cock (neocock) out, ducking into bars to ravage all that his rightfully his as an untamed beta-male neocon. lozlzlzl!

    why do neocons think that we are all like them?

    also, throughout the history of mankind, it has been men who have laid down the law–from homer and moses on down–not pussified neoconning goldberg’s wife & her feminist friends. lzozll! i mean lookw hat the fmeinist movement has done to the family lzzozlzl! WTF is goldberg thinking????? Single mother familes r good?? Have you ever dated a few chicks with no fatehrs goldberg? If so, and you still wnat fatherless families, where teh neocons repalce teh father with debt-based fiat dolalrs, you hate women & love ur kinky kink & shiznit yo.

    The cherubic, fat-faced Jonah Goldberg writes,

    “March 10, 2010 12:00 A.M.
    Where Feminists Get It Right
    Women civilize men. ’Nuff said.

    The reason strikes me as fairly simple. Women civilize men. As a general rule, men will only be as civilized as female expectations and demands force them to be. “Liberate” men from those expectations, and Lord of the Flies logic kicks in. Liberate women from this barbarism, and male decency will soon follow.

    –http://article.nationalreview.com/427383/where-feminists-get-it-right/jonah-goldberg

    hahahahah! what goldberg is saying that is if his wife didn’t lay down the law, he would be a beasty man alpha male, smacking women around, rocking out with his cock out, as that is in Jonah Goldberg’s true, deep, neocon nature. lozllz! he admits it! and then he projects his neocon nature on the entire world as neocons do to justify their pre-emptive, illegal, unconstitutional wars! lzozll!

    you guys do understand that feminism is an illegal, pre-emptive war waged against men, the family, and children to profit the fiat neocons, right? lozlzl!

    http://greatbooksformen.wordpress.com/

    for they make their profits by debauching currencies and cultures. lolzlzl! neocons r funny!

    jonah goldberg states we don’t have enough feminismlozllzlz! how many more families must be destoryed by feminism. how many more babies might be murdered by the neocon’s/feminist’s abortion regime?

    how many more fathers must be incarcerated by teh neocon fiat state and have tehir children taken from them by goldberg et al.’s feminist police state, before it is enough for goldberg?

    does the neocon’s lust for debauchery, destruction, and dehumanization know no bounds. or what? lzolzl!

    everyone ought read this book!

    http://www.amazon.com/review/product/1581825943/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt/104-4861295-3739101?_encoding=UTF8&showViewpoints=1

    “59 5-Star Reviews on Amazon: “totalitarian,” “reign of terror,” “Nazi,” “bolshevik,” say readers about the divorce machinery” writes baskerville @ http://stephenbaskerville.blogspot.com/

    OMG! LZOZLZLZLL!!

    bolshevik!! that is soooooooooooo neoconnish!!

    google:

    http://www.google.com/#hl=en&source=hp&q=neocons+bolsheviks

    http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=104×721862

    “Neo-cons: the modern day Bolsheviks”

    Jonah Goldberg is soooooooooooooo Bolshevik. lzozllz.

    “To say that liberalism is rooted in fascism because Mussolini had once been a socialist says that Goldberg’s …neo-conservatism must be rooted in Communism. Look at the roots of prominent neocons: Irving Kristol is a former Trotskyist and Josh Muravchik is a YPSL alum. …Jonah Goldberg …therefore Bolshevik Conservatives? … ” –http://www.danielpipes.org/comments/117981

    finally, check out on how the fiat masters re-engineered women via feminism–the feminism jonah goldberg exalts lzozllzlz!!

    http://www.savethemales.ca/001904.html

    Feminism is an excellent example of how the Rockefeller mega cartel uses the awesome power of the mass media (i.e. propaganda.) to control society.

    In 40 short years, many women have lost touch with their natural loving instincts. Consequently, the family is in disarray, sexual depravity is rampant and birth rates have plummeted.

    –http://www.savethemales.ca/001904.html

    Goldberg sees depopulation and the decline of birth rates as a good thing. lozlzlzlzl !!!

    “Forgetting the question of decency and morality for a moment, there’s the matter of national interests. Female equality seems to be a pretty reliable treatment for many of the world’s worst pathologies. Population growth in the Third World tends to go down as female literacy goes up. Indeed, female empowerment might be the single best weapon in the “root causes” arsenal in the war on terror.” –http://article.nationalreview.com/427383/where-feminists-get-it-right/jonah-goldberg?page=2

    as a neocon it is jonah goldberg’s DIVINE RIGHT to plan and effect the world’s population. lozlzl!

    is it any wonder the trotskyite, power-hungry, neocons had to kill the memory of edmund burke, moses, jesus, homer, and russell kirk? lozlzlz! to make room for jonah goldberg’s chubby face & endless neocon betamale prattling, as his wife keeps him tame, dulling his true, inherent, lord of the flies nature? lozlzl


    HEY TEHEY ARE STU

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  2. on September 14, 2011 at 12:30 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

    HEY THEY ARE STUDDTDYDING MEEE STUDYING MEEEE!!!!

    http://eumaios.wordpress.com/2010/06/02/gbfm-code-the-symbology-and-terminology-of-great-books-for-men/

    Neocon Butthex: symbology and terminology in the works of Great Books for Men

    Ben Bernanke : a symbol for central banks. Particularly, the rotating cabal of figureheads for the central banks.

    Tucker Max : a symbol for the kind of asshole alpha women lust for, lose their innocence to, and in GBFM’s piquant phrasing, invite in for a good asscocking.

    Charlotte Allen : a symbol for ostensibly good, virtuous, conservative women, especially the older ones who should know better.

    Jonah Goldberg : neocon hypocrisy and crypto-feminism

    “Women tame men” : the rope neocons sell men

    neocon : “conservatism after being taken over by the fiat masters.” In Moldbuggian terminology, the portion of the Outer Party that has been fully and willingly co-opted by the Quakers.

    butthex : sodomy, as pronounced by Barney Fag. Also, a “metaphor for what the fed does to a currency and a country.”

    butthex matrix : the Western system of debt-slavery. Government of the people, for the bankers, and by the eliteclasses. Implemented by universal butthex, otherwise known as fiat money.

    asscocking : butthex

    tucker max is six feet tall : this peculiarly gnomic mantra, even for GBFM, illustrates the tendency of the Cathedral to glorify those who perpetrate butthex.

    fiat money, fiat cash : Pieces of paper, or worse, magnetic disparities on heavily guarded platters that are asserted to have value by despotic governments.

    Secretive tapings of butthex without the girls’ consent : a symbol for the exploitation of the corrupt populace by the elite. The graphic image is that of exculpation for any acts an alpha chooses to perform as he engages in butthex.

    fiat masters : those who exert power by means of their control of the “money” supply.

    fiat lies : propaganda, goodthink. Polite discourse.

    fiat : generally applied as a modifier where only one opinion is allowed in the naked public square.

    desouling of women : Arguably, GBFM uses this phrase in its literal sense.

    bernankified : e.g. “bernankified chick”. Refers to the habits of self-degradation enabled by the existence of fapparently free money. The grasshopper, had the ants not demurred at supporting him over the winter.

    bernankenomics : “transferring all the risk to the worker, inventor, creator, honest man, soldier; butthexing the common people who do all the physical work and labor; and inflating and deflating bubbles purposely to win friends in congress.”

    weekly standard : respectable mainstream neo-conservatism engaged in the legitimization of depravity.

    unbuttplugged : going off grid

    vampire : usually a more or less oblique reference to Twilight’s Edward Cullen, and to the depravity in the hearts of women that allows them to lust over dangerous, yet effeminate men.

    fat, cherubic faces : a physical trait of neocons who volunteer our armed forces for tough jobs, esp. Jonah Goldberg

    lzozl (and variations) : Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.

    ===
    Notable Primary Sources:

    * keynsian economics is to freedom what secrteiv tapings of butthex outside of wedlock is to holy matrimony

    * tucker max rhyems with goldman sachs as both are into assfucking and secretive tapings of butthex which is why the weekly standard neocons never criticize their bro0thas at goldman sax and laud and repeat the pr lies of butthexing tucker max.

    * Neo: What is the Fiat Feminist Fanboy tucker max-goldman sacks neocon Matrix?
    Trinity: The answer is out there, Neo, and it’s looking for you like tucker max’s matrix-funded cock seeking out an anus, and it will find you if you want it to.

    * one of teh reasons that charlotee allen lauds and repeats the pr lies of fiat funded and publoished tucker max who created more debt than welath with his films and films secretive tapings of butthex without the girl’s conthen is that he is anti christyian, which is why miraim grossman neocon tells young gilrs that gina tingling after undead vampire monsters is a good pursuit anmd good clean gina tingling fun

    * college after being taken oevr by the fiat masters:

    * butthex and welath transfer training for womenz how to transfer wealth form men to tehir dried up ginas lzozlzlzzl

    * divorce and abortion are huge neocon profit centers, which also serve to dehumanize humanity, kill the family, grow the STATE, and make them all suck on the fiat teat

    * yummy yummy vampire sperm in my tummy

    * chances are she has had a foursome with a werewolf, vampire, anbd secretive taper of butthex and someonone from goldman sax all at the same time many times before she ever let you tocuh her boobie and buy her an engagement ring but really she is just a sting operation for ben bernanke and will pawn your ring on craigslsist and transensfer all teh alimonies to benrnke’s team of neocon goldman saxer t8ucker maxers

    * the federal resevre’s takeover of women as intruments of welath transfer has ruined them for men.

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    • “tucker max rhyems with goldman sachs as both are into assfucking and secretive tapings of butthex”

      “chances are she has had a foursome with a werewolf, vampire, anbd secretive taper of butthex and someonone from goldman sax all at the same time many times before she ever let you tocuh her boobie and buy her an engagement ring”

      Yep. The Patrick Batemans on Wall Street have taken this country over without firing a shot. And as you say, feminazism, replacement of the family with the State, (and uncontrolled immigration, and a perpetual war and serial asset bubble economy, etc etc etc), and other acts of national suicide are just part of the “divide and rule” plan. People can call this conspiracy theory if they want but you have to admit it’s all pretty convenient – for some.

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  3. The bit about deep voices got me thinking. I just started hanging out with an Indian girl (as in from India) who’s been here about two years but interacts almost exclusively with Indian men. Since they speak Hindi to each other, and Hindi is a higher pitched language maybe that is part of the reason she’s been sending lots of IOI’s (I’m being cautious in this case because I want a job with her dad and don’t want to piss him off)

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  4. http://professional.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111903532804576566553268698820.html?mod=WSJPRO_hps_MIDDLEFifthNews

    Some of the most intriguing questions involve how and when these traits emerge in childhood. Researchers with the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development have observed alpha and beta behavior even in kindergartners and found that the subordinate tots have more cortisol in their saliva. “The question some of us are now looking at is how reversible are these early patterns?”

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  5. Try smiling at everyone but her.

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  6. The sort of darwinian explanation for the early onset of puberty in fatherless homes is that the boy/girl feels threatened or less safe without a father, that triggers what is actually a self-defence mechanism, ie the body is ‘thinking’ – I better hurry up the process or I might not get a chance to do what I’m here to do, which is of course survive, and given that the body ‘knows’ it will die the only way of surviving is to reproduce.

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    • These were my thoughts exactly.

      I am also curious as the effects of having a high-T vs low-T father in the home.

      Perhaps boys with low T fathers hit puberty earlier for similar reasons?

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    • Except in the Black home,the kids are afraid of their father(Think Joe jackson) and so mature quicker to be able to fight him off!

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  7. There’s appears to be a correlation between how many orbiters a woman has and how much she is attracted to a guy who doesn’t display the attitudes of her orbiters. There’s also a likely correlation between the number of orbiters and the shit testing abilities of said woman.

    Do ALL women need an egocentric and power-wielding man in their lives? I think it’s solid to say that there’s a considerable amount of connection between their drama/maintenance levels and how often they need to be put in their lower ranking place by the men they’re attracted to.

    Foot-notes:
    Since I started focusing on my own bitch testing to see if a gal is high maintenance or low key, I’ve noticed a significant drop off in my need to throw attitude at women just to keep them around. I’d even go so far as to say I actually appreciate the women in my life more than ever, since they’re serving, caring, adoring, supportive, encouraging, sexual and excited to be with me — without the high level of drama that was contained in the average gal I dated in my 20s.

    The downside is that all men need the outlet for their attitudes and egos, and if you’re relatively happy with your rotation/stable, you’re still going to need to create more venues of pursuit (towards you) from the shit testers and high orbiter count women.

    In the previous post, someone brought up needing the challenge or dating gets boring. I concur, even though I don’t think I’ve spent much energy considering it.

    It’s a balance: we love the risk of trying to land a target, but we get so fed up with them being unaware of how disposable they can be and still cop those attitudes.

    In the end, I’ll still only keep the low drama, low maintenance “cute” gals, LJBF the high drama, bitch-shielded high maintenance “hot” gals, and give nothing to the uglies, fatties, overeducated and entitled flock of Western women.

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  8. People are going to be thrown off by the smiling thing. It is probably good advice for your typical beta. But a well-timed big grin is an incredibly useful tool, both in pickup and daily life. Specifically, you can deliver pretty strong and direct negatives and make outlandishly arrogant or sarcastic statements, and it can help people register statements as being jokes when they otherwise might just find them off-putting.

    Of course, that’s a momentary thing. Grinning all the time is a pretty significantly beta signal; women only want to see that from men they’re already head-over-heels for.

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  9. Regarding the first section of the post, this is important stuff that should be committed to habit.

    Infrequently smiling, speaking in a low voice, moving more slowly and deliberately are all things I started implementing from this blog and they really work. The cool thing is that any guy can master these mannerisms, even the most aspie among us, while memorizing stack routines is a whole different beast. The trickiest part is not smiling but not scowling either. You want to look content, but not ingratiating.

    Since most guys get excited and raise their voice pitch, smile eagerly, lean in, etc while attempting to talk to a hot girl, you instantly establish yourself as a cut above the ordinary when you do the opposite.

    One specific thing I read here has worked about 90% of the time. When you are passing an attractive woman in public, look directly in her eyes and hold contact, but do not smile. Almost every time, she will then smile really big at you, at which point you volley back with a sly grin. It’s possible to transition from that into an opener if you are good.

    Another thing I’ve noticed is that if you can master the art of smiling with your eyes, while barely showing it on your mouth, it gives you that look of amused mastery that women love. When I walk through crowded bars just looking women in the eye and smiling with my eyes, they almost always find a way to place themselves in my immediate proximity later.

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    • *lurkmode off*

      Another thing I’ve noticed is that if you can master the art of smiling with your eyes, while barely showing it on your mouth, it gives you that look of amused mastery that women love.

      YES YES YES. its called “smizeing (smiling with your eyes). Very sexy Diamond 😉 More men should defintiely do this. Sometimes not even saying a word is all you need.

      *lurkmode back on*

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    • “One specific thing I read here has worked about 90% of the time. When you are passing an attractive woman in public, look directly in her eyes and hold contact, but do not smile. Almost every time, she will then smile really big at you, at which point you volley back with a sly grin. It’s possible to transition from that into an opener if you are good.”

      This rarely works at uni. I look into the eyes and hold the gaze of every good looking woman I was past but very few of them look at me, or if they do its just a quick glance. And I’m not going to wear a pink feather boa.

      I wish I knew who the who the cutters and lonely girls were at uni. I’d jump at the chance to talk to a girl who has no friends. My uni is cockblock heaven. Just today I tried talking to a girl after a lecture but in the 15 seconds after the lecture finished she was already on her phone calling someone. At the end of my next lecture I was talking/walking with a girl when I got cockblocked by a guy friend.

      I think there are much more girls than guys simply want to sleep around in uni/college. Its sad because I would really like some loyalty.

      On another note, I wish I could make a good guy friend too. I’d fucking love to be best mates with a guy who wouldnt cockblock me or fuck off to spend time with his girlfriend or go home with a girl. I would do the same for him.

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      • Beta guys with girlfriends are the worst friends you can imagine. They just vanish and spend all their free time with their girl (and her friends). Then when it’s over they come back as if nothing happened.

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      • Wow, this describes my good friend perfectly. It’s annoying. Is there anyway to snap him out of it?

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    • Yup, agree with all.

      Add to that – talking less than you’re tempted to, especially if she’s firing a volley of get-to-know-you-better questions. Some I don’t answer at all – except with a wry, whimsical smirk plus a shake of my head, like I’m imagining a perfect day at the beach. Then I change the subject, and leave her participle dangling, so to speak.

      Can’t emphasize that one enough, guys. Don’t answer every fucking question just because she’s asking it. What the hell kinda poker player would you be if you revealed each card upon first request?

      Don’t diminish the power of mystery by revealing all the answers. You’re the magnet and she’s steel, and her desire to know is the magnetic field that favors you – it always favors you. Give that away and you both become steel, and most hot chicks will choose the unmarked envelope over the $50 bill, heart racing.

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  10. Heartiste wrote: You can judge who’s nice and who’s a dick simply by looking at them. We humans have tells, and some of those tells are outside of our conscious control, like the shape of our faces.

    Eff “Psychology Today”! Go to the headwaters:

    [U]gliness, in itself an objection, is among the Greeks almost a refutation. … Ugliness is often enough the expression of a development that has been crossed, thwarted by crossing. Or it appears as declining development. The anthropologists among the criminologists tell us that the typical criminal is ugly: monstrum in fronte, monstrum in animo.

    — Friedrich Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols
    http://praxeology.net/twilight.htm

    Monster in the face, monster in the soul.

    Just look at Bella Abzug for proof. She even added monstrum in nomine to it, though her first name ironically means “beautiful,” and even that couldn’t save her from a branch-busting descent down the ugly tree.

    Ugliness makes a human being bitter and slavish, and that infects every facet of a person’s life.

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    • Her last name means withdrawal.

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    • its only becasue of the cruelty ugly people have to bear. of course that makes them bitter. people have a very real cruelty and false compassion. society worships beauty but without ugliness there wouldnt be any beauty.

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    • feh.. ted bundy wasn’t exactly ugly or stupid.

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      • on September 18, 2011 at 12:57 pm Obstinance Works

        People will never get used to the idea that alphas like to fuck shit up. They yell, play loud music, kill people, beat women, and/or sabotage the careers and lives of others. One way or the other, they get the toxic lead out.

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    • on September 17, 2011 at 8:52 am johnny appleseed

      Brave, unconcerned, mocking, violent — thus wisdom wants us:
      she is a woman and always loves only a warrior.
      There is little of man here: therefore their women strive to be mannish.
      For only he who is man enough will release the woman in woman.

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  11. My problem has always been that my non-smiling face looks sad rather than rugged.

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  12. “If you want a quick and effortless path to sex, you should focus on gaming girls when they are alone …”

    “I contend that cutters are probably the fastest lays you will encounter. If you catch sight of the telltale stigmata, push for a same night lay.”

    I wonder whether it’s possible that some men know this intuitively? – if you want sex – go for the lonely, neurotic and emotionally disturbed girls.

    It sounds very sick and uncivilized, though. Can’t believe you wrote it again, actually. How can you put these words together like that … “push for the same night lay”. Incredible.

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    • ps. When writing the last paragraph of the comment above I was swooning because of your psychopathy.

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      • That swooning over psychopathy is the foundation of your rape fantasy. Which you will at best repress, at worst euphemize as being “ravished.”

        All very honest of you, which is refreshing, though it weakens the thrust of your “very sick and uncivilized” argument. Did you notice that? (Or are you buttering up your criticism to slip it through moderation?)

        Fascinating. I am very glad for your witness here, and I hope you behave well enough to stick around. You are a pristine example of female caprice recently freed from feminist alibi. There’s not much substance deep down, and that absence is an important reminder of what women truly are. Men talking with men in an echo chamber may be annoyed by your distinctive voice, but you are performing an educational service for everyone. Thanks.

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      • King A,

        “That swooning over psychopathy is the foundation of your rape fantasy.”

        I won’t argue about rape with you again because you already proved that you have no idea what rape is. (Well, I forgot to recommend you the rape scene from Irreversible, you might watch this to educate yourself.)

        “All very honest of you, which is refreshing, though it weakens the thrust of your “very sick and uncivilized” argument. Did you notice that?”

        Talking on the internet really is funny sometimes. I love it.

        “Men talking with men in an echo chamber may be annoyed by your distinctive voice, but you are performing an educational service for everyone. Thanks.”

        You’re welcome! I’m not sure you’ve learned anything though. You’re able to twist everything I write to fit into the beliefs you already have. Not that I mind about this anymore. You have your own reality in your head and I have mine.

        Now seriously, if you want to know what I think about the attraction to psychopaths: I believe that we are attracted to self-confident, not-castrated men who can protect us against animals and other men, but I doubt that any sane woman is attracted to real psychos like murderers.

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      • You are confused, but your confusion is instructive to the men gathered.

        You provide a consistent example of the folly of addressing women directly, especially about what makes women tick. “Now seriously, if you want to know what I think about the attraction to psychopaths….” Not really, except as a reminder of your sex’s essential flakiness.

        “You have your own reality in your head and I have mine.” This is the philosophy that creates the flake. As if reality is dependent on a woman’s whim.

        Have you heard? “A woman’s prerogative is to change her mind.” Yes, gentlemen, girls have been indoctrinated into this preposterous inanity from birth, the princess ontology which allows them to pretend the world outside of their immediate instinct is not simply at odds with her desires but does not exist at all.

        All inconvenient evidence that contradicts her thought of the moment becomes undetectable to her, and what is undetectable is not “reality” to her. Women aren’t deliberately ignoring you, betas and omegas, they simply forget you possess an existence. You are inert background props in a phantasmagoria.

        Women are considered profound. Why? Because we never fathom their depths. But women aren’t even shallow.
        — Nietzsche, TOTI

        There is no sense in being bitter about this less-than-shallowness. Find a way to be amused. And then when real “reality” clobbers them in the face with a two-by-four (the inexorable justice of aging), they’ll blink and say, “Omigod, it was so obvious how did I miss it! My true love was right in front of me all along!” That suffering into wisdom is the dawn of a woman’s sensitivity to reason and common sense. Until then, you must understand you are attempting to intellectually engage a cute little pet. A hamster, if you will.

        Run run run, little girl. Let us know when you’ve exhausted yourself on the wheel.

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      • ““You have your own reality in your head and I have mine.” This is the philosophy that creates the flake. As if reality is dependent on a woman’s whim.”

        No, no. I’m not saying that reality is dependent on anyone’s whim. Reality is reality. I wanted to say that I have my own explanation of the reality any you have your own.

        “Women aren’t deliberately ignoring you, betas and omegas, they simply forget you possess an existence. You are inert background props in a phantasmagoria.”

        Sad, but true. They can become visible again by learning game/getting a job/improving their looks/being kind.

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      • I have come to accept and embrace the differences in men and women and am genuinely happy with my role in life. However, what I do still struggle with is the *why* men and women have these differences. Especially regarding the intellectual pursuits and shallowness (I am speaking in generalities here, please don’t come back at me with NAWALT for anyone taking exception to this post). To better explain myself let me give you a specific example. My husband will come home from a long, crappy day at work and happily pick up Thucydides to relax. While obviously it is more difficult reading than the Sunday paper he can read it relatively quickly and understand it. Now, I can also sit down and read Thucydides and understand it. However, it takes genuine work for me to understand it and multiple readings. I will also have to go back and reread it to be able to explain it to someone else in any detail. Also, in no way do I find a task like this relaxing. I think this example relates to many things that men find stimulating that women simply do not.

        Now, is the reason men are drawn to tasks like this because it aids them in furthering society (I’m talking as whole here)? Do women find tasks like this daunting because our traditional roles as supporters do not require such depth and understanding? Or were we simply too busy creating a home and caring for the children that these were skills that we never developed?

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      • Go with “The Landmark Thucydides,” Stingray. It has all kinds of helpful maps and such. I’m a big reader but also very visual/spatial, and the supplementary material helps immeasurably.

        I love reading about the Peloponnesian War, but even Thucydides would tip his cap to the coolest TV show ever made:

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Decisive_Battles

        Give me video-game graphic engines and Captain Spears’s narration over clunkily translated Greek any day. That this show didn’t run for a decade is a crime! I can’t even imagine how much more detailed it would be using 2011 computing power. Now I have to be satisfied with the sensationalist tabloid version on Spike, “The Deadliest Warrior,” which is like “Decisive Battles'” retarded stepchild on meth.

        Regarding the man-woman divide … vive la differénce. Your simple recognition of our true, abiding, and insuperable difference is a huge advantage for a woman today. Your sisters are laboring under the myth of similarity, and they are wrecking themselves upon it.

        Read Harvey Mansfield’s Manliness. I think he goes into the whys and wherefores. Women are given to concrete thoughts and proximate concerns, a consequence of the maternal within them. The love of one’s own takes precedence over the love of the good (cf. Plato’s Symposium). Their loyalties are to the innermost of their concentric circle: self, children, family, tribe, community, state, world, rationality, principle, truth. So women’s thinking can be characterized as more pragmatic and immediate/intimate.

        Women are from Aristotle, men are from Plato. Men are Augustinian, women Thomist. Women point to the earth while men point to the sky, like the two great philosophers at the center of The School of Athens:

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_of_athens#Central_figures_.2814_and_15.29

        Men think more universally and abstractly, about principles rather than particulars. We’re too busy trying to alter the universe to bother color-coordinating clothes or sweeping the floor. Men will happily live in squalor and fantasy, whereas visiting women take to sponging up the coffee stains on my counter without prompting.

        While this description may in itself be a little abstract for the precious ears of the weaker sex (NAWALT!), it does explain a great deal about the mental, spiritual, and moral differences between the sexes, especially with regard to the classic communication breakdown.

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      • Thank you for the reading recommendations. The visuals will help greatly in the Thucydides reading. Also, for the recommendation of “Manliness”. It truly helps to know some of the reasons we are wired the way we are. It helps me to wrap my head around the (perceived) frustrating things about being a woman if I can understand why they are so.

        Heh, I’ve tried to sit through “The Deadliest Warrior” and I couldn’t do it. I have some knowledge of martial arts and the like and the one and only episode I saw I found so contrived I couldn’t watch any more. Though, I will definitely look into “Decisive Battles”. It sounds like one my husband would love as well.

        “Your simple recognition of our true, abiding, and insuperable difference is a huge advantage for a woman today.”

        I agree with this statement fully, especially regarding my personal life. However, I will tell you that it is not always an easy place to be. Speaking in generalities other women find me irritating and think me a doormat. Men, seeing just another woman, simply assume I am vapid and flakey without even speaking to me. Mostly, I couldn’t care less, but there are times it is difficult. However, I understand where these feeling come from and I just do what I always do regardless of how I am perceived.

        Thank you again, for your recommendations. I will be looking into them.

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      • Stingray wrote: … other women find me irritating and think me a doormat. Men, seeing just another woman, simply assume I am vapid and flakey without even speaking to me. Mostly, I couldn’t care less, but there are times it is difficult.

        You win. These are backhanded signs of your victory; treat them as such. They find you “irritating” or “flaky” and fabricate put-downs like “doormat” or “vapid” because they cannot fathom your serenity, are baffled by your contentment, and seek to rationalize their comparative misery by both actively and passively denigrating your success.

        It shouldn’t be “difficult” anymore. Your husband should be giving you all the private compensation you need (and more) to sustain your position in the face of public envy. His vocation is your defender, from within and from without. If he’s not doing the job, inspire him to step up. If he still isn’t, give me your number.

        Just keep the faith, no matter what. We were born into the worst of it. What few cultural supports still exist for your position have been mocked and corrupted into near uselessness. You and your man will have to be self-sufficient till the next generation. Find a way for the subverters’ petty resentments to fuel your mission. The envious mockery is so repetitive and unthinking that I now reflexively laugh in its face — in the dwindling instances I do still encounter it.

        Such is the blindness of men that they even glory in their blindness. And by this time I had become a master in the School of Rhetoric, and I rejoiced proudly in this honor and became inflated with arrogance. Still I was relatively sedate (Lord knows) and had no share in the subversions of “The Subverters” (for this stupid and diabolical name was regarded as the very badge of gallantry) among whom I lived with a sort of ashamed embarrassment that I was not even as they were.

        But I lived with them, and at times I was delighted with their friendship, even when I abhorred their acts (that is, their “subverting”) in which they insolently attacked the modesty of strangers, tormenting them by uncalled-for jeers, gratifying their mischievous mirth. Nothing could more nearly resemble the actions of devils than these fellows

        By what name, therefore, could they be more aptly called than “subverters”?–being themselves subverted first, and altogether turned upside down. They were secretly mocked at and seduced by the deceiving spirits, in the very acts by which they amused themselves in jeering and horseplay at the expense of others.

        — St. Augustine, Confessions

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      • It shouldn’t be “difficult” anymore. Your husband should be giving you all the private compensation you need (and more) to sustain your position in the face of public envy.

        I am so incredibly blessed because he does exactly that. I have always been on the path to where I am today, but it was when I met my husband that is came into laser like focus. He was patient enough to teach me what I was still lacking and was not hesitant to aggressively call me out when I was being an idiot. On those rare occasions that I slip and find it difficult he is the one who always brings the focus back. 99% of the time, all I have to do is think of him and what he has given me and continues to give me daily and the difficulty disappears. That 1% is so rare now that I can’t remember the last time it has even happened.

        If he still isn’t, give me your number.

        Ha! Thank you for the compliment, King A.

        You and your man will have to be self-sufficient till the next generation. Find a way for the subverters’ petty resentments to fuel your mission. The envious mockery is so repetitive and unthinking that I now reflexively laugh in its face — in the dwindling instances I do still encounter it.

        We are and tend to even ratchet it up in front of some others. It has become a bit of a private joke between us and we have of fun with it. I also teach my girls all of it. My eldest helped make dinner the other night and she was so joyful to make dinner for her family that her smile lit up the kitchen. It was wonderful.

        I, to, find it dwindling. Where I used to see a mild form of contempt for my way of life, I now tend to see more envy. While this is still not a good thing, I try to find hope that people are at least seeing what they are missing and maybe are ready to change.

        As regards St. Augustine, that is a wonderful quote. Thank you for it. Another thing I will have to put on my reading list.

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      • Stingray, you are a pilgrim, re-taming the wilderness. The number offer is always available to you, as it should be: nothing but implied competition can keep the gravitational drift to hubby-betatude in check, not in the present culture anyway. Teach your children well. God bless you and your mission.

        O beautiful for pilgrim feet
        Whose stern impassion’d stress
        A thoroughfare for freedom beat
        Across the wilderness.

        America! America!
        God mend thine ev’ry flaw,
        Confirm thy soul in self-control,
        Thy liberty in law.

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      • King A,

        Thank you again, for your kind words and the discussion. While I don’t agree with:

        nothing but implied competition can keep the gravitational drift to hubby-betatude in check, not in the present culture anyway.

        . . . maybe we can discuss it another time as I have already taken up enough of your time.

        God Bless you as well, Sir.

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      • nothing but implied competition can keep the gravitational drift to hubby-betatude in check, not in the present culture anyway.

        I’m speaking from experience, whatever NAMALT factor may apply in your case. There are no easier pickings than young women relatively recently married. It’s down to a three year itch, best I can tell.

        The consequences of adultery have evaporated, and subsequently so have most disincentives. The chump husband cuckold-in-training has no idea what he is up against, and the unconsciously hypergamous wife has even less of a clue.

        True, your husband may be on top of his shit and got you squared away. That his wife is fluent in the language of websites like these indicates he does. As aging begins to play its cruel hand, the forces allowing women to cheat abate. Soon the “implied competition” for the wife disappears altogether, and then begins the long period of male sexual advantage. The “gravitational drift to hubby-betatude” is what modern life offers to the secure the relationship, a mode-shift that keeps the man from pressing his advantage and, say, banging his cute young coworker smitten by a daddy-twinkle.

        We are smack-in-the-middle of a culture that pretends this dynamic does not exist. There are no external protections against it, only an all-too-human resolve to personally not eat fruit from the tree and the weakly felt condemnations of formerly robust traditional institutions, like the church.

        I don’t see what a wife can do about it, other than rely on her husband’s virtue and vows. Maybe crank up the submissiveness. Lay off the “mother of your children” guilt trip, for sure. Become the saintly all-forgiving sweetness it would physically pain him to betray.

        You are so vulnerable it’s not even funny. Maybe that vulnerability is a paradoxical advantage….

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      • King A,

        I have had the amazing luck to marry a self actualize man (see the Anti-game thread. It seems you have read at least some of my comments there). This, more thank anything, keeps him from betatude. It would disgust him to slide into that and he would never allow it to happen to himself. Frankly, the notion is inconceivable to him (and has very little, likely nothing, to do with me).

        As far as what a woman can do about this slip? I don’t know. Stay as pretty as she can for as long as she can. Continue to protect and, if necessary, prop his ego. Encourage him to pursue something bigger than himself, for himself alone. A man will never become beta if he has rock solid inner focus. And for Godsake, love him. Be the woman he knows he deserves to have. Maybe this is just me, but I think there is something inherently manly about seeing a man with an actual good woman at his side. Be that good woman to help him keep himself propped up.

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    • I owned a late night bar many years ago, and I would bet 50% of my assets that more women go out after 10pm looking for a one night stand than guys do.

      I’m not even basing that on how many people went home with someone they just met, but on how many conversations I overheard that were geared towards hooking up.

      For CH to repost the quote, he’s just reminding guys gunning for a SNL who they should be focused on — not all guys here are SNL type men, but there’s zero wrong with feeding part of your audience the diet they came for.

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    • Sex with cutters is a same night lay because they want to have sex with you. Why shouldn’t you do what they want you to do?

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    • duh.. that’s his philosophy. if you want LTR advice.. go somewhere else.

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    • I always get more girls when I go out alone and game on similar gals. It’s more real when we’re not tryin to impress friends with how loud and obnoxious we can be

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  13. Seduction always happens between four eyes. The presence of her peers is irrelevant, since you have to end up isolating her in order to build comfort.
    It’s true that opening a set is too much work for an introvert without social proof, but it doesn’t mean that it should be avoided. Actually, it’s the best way to shed light on the gamer’s weaknesses, and there’s no better alternative for improving one’s social skills.

    When it comes to opening sets, my approach anxiety is ten times stronger than opening a lonely prey. But if the first two minutes go smoothly, the experience can be enjoyable, even if the target blows me off.

    Approaching a lonely girl is a whole ‘nother science. Gunwitch and Badboy have some interesting things to say about that. However, Mystery was right, the best way to improve your dating life is to learn how to approach groups. But the best way to get laid is to learn how to talk to a girl, and feign interest in her interiority.

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  14. if you like living in a prosperous, civilized nation, you want boys to reach sexual maturity later in life, as such late bloomers are a sign that more parental investment into learning and developing is taking place. K-selection strategy, in other words. If you want to live in a shithole, you can’t go wrong in a place where boys are sprouting pube grass and wolf whistling by age 9.

    see Detroit. Anyway, why is the left trying to foist studies on us that hunter gatherer societies are the happiest?

    Whatevers, good find on the smiling and low voice thing. Sometimes I smile in conversation and just feel the beta being emanated. Have a natural friend who speaks so low and slow (and actually barely audible) that it borders on retardation, yet people (e.g., bitches) hang on his words.

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    • Left/libtards want hunter-gather societies because they still believe the “primitive communism” crap Marx spouted about bushmen. Never mind that hunter-gatherer societies are shitholes that suck royally; e.g., ghettos, West Africa, etc.

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  15. I’ve had a really bad time dealing with groups of chicks lately. Even in cases where the girl was clearly making eye contact, shaking her ass in front of me etc it seems to be almost a lost cause.

    I’ve already blacklisted girl get together such as bachelorette parties as they are an enormous waste of time, I think I’m gonna extend that rule to include all girl groups larger than 2. Not worth the attitude.

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  16. Why Chicks Dig Egotistic Men?

    Because they’re morons.

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  17. I dunno. The low-maintenance cute girls usually bore me. The roller coaster of emotion can be such a turn on especially when its attached to a smoking hot girl (which it almost always is). There’s nothing quite like fucking a hot chick who has just thrown a shit fit or spent the day crying. And, as long I don’t live with ’em, they’re relatively easy to deal with.

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    • And that’s fine if that’s your primary need for women.

      Me?
      1. I don’t like doing my laundry
      2. I don’t like cooking for myself (always)
      3. I attend many social functions for business networking where it helps to have a pretty gal on my arm
      4. Reputation means a ton in my life’s circles, and having a few relatively drama-free women has only helped that reputation, whereas my psychotic ex-wife certainly harmed it.

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    • Crazy girls fuck the best and are the most fun. You never know what you are going to get with them. Just wrap up and don’t live with them like you said.

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    • Nevertheless, these “low-maintenance cute girls” are marriage material. I’m inclined to think that they’re the only marriage material out there.
      The fact that they don’t cut it for you probably means that you’re not made for marriage. Nothing wrong with that, I’m anti-marriage myself, but don’t invest heavily on a high-maintenance drama queen, they are fun while infatuation lasts, but nothing positive can be expected from them on the long run. The reason I say this is that many dumb fools tend to marry them these days.

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  18. I am fairly sure that Mario Andretti originally said, “second place is just first loser”. Dale and others have said it since then, but it sounds like a Mario quote. I always associated it with him, and he was driving in the big time 20 years before anyone ever heard of Dale.

    I have found quotes for both using Google, but they are all blogs recycling what they found elsewhere. Nothing definitive.

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  19. http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/05/26/us-smiles-sex-idUSTRE74O5ZT20110526

    The researchers stressed they looked only at initial reactions of sexual attractiveness, and were not recommending men adopt a no-smile policy for a long-term relationship.

    “When people want a long-term relationship they take much more into account than sexual attractiveness. How nice a person is, is a big thing,” Tracy said.

    “So we’re not saying, don’t be a nice guy,” she said.

    [Heartiste: Actually, that is exactly what the research is saying. BWAA HAA!]

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  20. @GBFM

    So… what are the great books for men?

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    • on September 16, 2011 at 4:17 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

      loooolzolzlzlzlzzlozozlz dont be such a dummycuk!!!! fdudmbfuck!!!
      lzozlzl

      read homer virgril bible modses jesus bugddha dante shakepaere mises moses smith hayek lzozozlzlzl jefferonss admas plato asodoctreate satristostle scneneieca lzozlz

      the great books are THE GREAT BOOKS you numbnutt fuckaty tard! lzozozlzl

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      • I cant believe I can add something to the great and only GBFM, but here is my humble addition to the above list –

        Read Heartiste.wordpress.com – I believe GBFM has recommended that our host be included in the list of great authors, and I concur!

        And here’s wikipedia on the The Great Books:

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Great_Books

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  21. If you want a quick and effortless path to sex, you should focus on gaming girls when they are alone and away from their peers.

    This is why lone wolf game works so well. As long as you look like an interesting guy, if you’re sitting alone at a bar, girls who are alone and DTF will give you plenty of opportunities to open them up. The ball’s in your court champ, take it to the hoop.

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  22. Freud said the reason people love children is because they remind us of the unabashed narcissism that (most) people give up in order to become reality-oriented grownups. I think it’s much the same with narcissistic adults – they are attractive because *healthy* narcissism is a good thing, but many people lose it. It can be an enviable quality.

    A dorky beta who upholds all of society’s rules has lost some of that insouciance that makes women remember their own carefree spoiled-princess phase, which many barely grow out of and even the toughest broad still harbors. The women-in-love-act-like-little-girls meme is relevant here. Playfulness + narcissism is therefore a winning combination.

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    • That’s not it at all.

      The Man must treat himself with respect in order for the Woman to FEEL respect for him, and she must feel respect for him in order to feel attraction for him.

      The narcissist treats himself with respect, and the white-knighting doormat doesn’t.

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  23. How does not smiling work for a guy who is not handsome? All my life I have been told by women I need to smile more because I have kind of a cute baby face. I think if you are an average looking or good looking guy it works, but for guys who are “cute” or “look like a nice guy” it doesn’t work

    I have been told I look like a nice guy even when I’m not smiling.

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  24. This is one of those retarded effects of deep socialization. Its not cool to appear happy in western culture. No one likes a happy and strong person. Only if you are miserable like everyone else will people want to have you around. consider the following scene.
    your walking across campus or in your workplace and your professor or boss sees you.
    “hey jim how are you”?
    “great”you say with a genuine smile. ïm really happy! couldnt be better!
    guy mumbles ”asshole” and stalks off

    same scene
    ”how are you jim?
    terrible! why do you have to ask? just look at me.
    come with me my friend. (puts arm around shoulder) i want to talk to you about a few things.

    yes were all deeply fucked up.

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  25. I don’t know about the rest of you, but I becoming quite a fan of GBFM – and I think I have discovered the secret of his genius.

    Our computers work like this:

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    GBFM’s computer work like this:
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    • on September 16, 2011 at 1:28 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

      looozozozoozzl

      i can show you the way, neo, but you will have to walk it zlozlzlzozzlozlzlzo

      ozlzlz the more you read me and CH the mroe your life will improve as you come to see the fiat butthex matrix for what it is — you will see the green streams of fiat data (dripping with buttdouche fresh off the butthex presses) like the matrix but with a subltle difference as some of you wieinsteinas have already seen for urself lzozzll

      at the ned of the matrix neo saw it as

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      and when you have walked the path you too will see the butthexing matrix for what it is and how the fed funded the desouling of womenz with massive amounts of douchcock frrom an early age in all tehir orfices and are acting through the soulles temptresses to seize your assetts now when a girl says, “what i really really want is a nice guy, i’m tired of the asswholes (lozlzl who got her younger hotter tighter)” instead of hearing what she says and then trying to be a nice guy you will hear the truth behind the butthexing matrix’s facade lzozlzl:

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      douchebag10to butthex me0101
      010and i want you 2 buy me100
      01meals and a ring while i01011
      0101give by butt & vagina01010
      010away for free to butthexers1
      100who tape it scretely lzozl100
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      lolzlztighter1010and010propose01
      1010so1001i1010can0110rape10
      1010your101010anus1010in0101
      1010divorce01010court1010and01
      10transfer010your0101assets1001
      1010to1010bernanke1001and1010
      1010the1010fiat1010buttheex1010
      1001matrix01010lozlzlzlzlzlzzozllzzl
      omglzozlzlzllzlzlzzzlzllzlzlzlzlzlzllzlzllz

      10lzozllzlz0zzllllzllzllzlzz1ozozlzlzl0
      010111010101010101101010101

      the sublime act of butthex is a beuatiful metaphor for what the fed does to a currency and a country, which is why the neocon weekly standard celebrates butthexers–es[pecially those who taope it without the girkl’s conthent and profit off the act. lzozlzlzlzl!

      [on the war that devastated the Real World]
      Morpheus: We don’t know who butthexed first, us or them. But we do know it was them that videotaped it without our consent while scorching the sky wioth a long trail of butthex lies. At the time, they were dependent on butthex power. It was believed they would be unable to survive without an energy source as abundant as the common man’s collective anushole. lozzllzlzlzzl

      Trinity: I know why you’re here, Neo. I know what you’ve been doing… why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why night after night, you sit by your computer reading CH & GBFM. You’re looking for him. I know because I was once looking for the same thing. And when he found me, he told me I wasn’t really looking for him. I was looking for an answer. It’s the question that drives us, Neo. It’s the question that brought you here. You know the question, just as I did.
      Neo: What is the butthex fiat Mathrix?
      Trinity: The answer is out there, Neo, and it’s looking for you, and it will find you if you want it to.

      [Neocon sees a black cat walk by them, and then a similar black cat walk by them just like the first one]
      Neocon: Whoa. Déjà vu.
      [Everyone freezes right in their tracks]
      Trinity: What did you just say?
      Neocon: Nothing. Just had a little déjà vu.
      Trinity: What did you see?
      Cypher: What happened?
      Neocon: A black cat went past us, and then another that looked just like it.
      Trinity: How much like it? Was it the same cat?
      Neocon: It might have been. I’m not sure.
      Morpheus: Switch! Apoc!
      Neocon: What is it?
      Trinity: A déjà vu is usually a glitch in the butthexMatrix. It happens when they change something. Now that I am an aging women in the butthex matrix with her eggs and gina drying up having given the best years of her anus to drunk alphas during her college desouling years via massively multiplayer asscockig in the butt sessions and getting her fiat mba (masters of butthexing in da Anus) and blowing upper level mangement lzozllz, the butthexmatrix is now delivering my cats. Two this morning and now two more. yaya! lozlzl

      lozlzlzlzlzl

      Morpheus: The Fiat lozllolozllzzl butthex Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. lzozozozozl! But when you’re inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, bloggers, teachers, betas, lawyers, herbs, carpenters, and neocon womenz writing for the weekly standard, repeating the fiat lies of secretive tapers of butthex without teh girls conthent lzozlzlzlzl. The very minds and anusholes of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that butthex system and that makes them our anus’s lozlzlzozzozozl enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unbuttplugged. And many of them are so inured to butthex, so hopelessly dependent on the system of secretive tapings of butthex without tehir conthent, that they will fight to protect it and reapet the lies of secretive tapers of butthex in teh pages of the weekly standard even though they seem to be nice neocon ladies.
      [Neo’s eyes suddenly wander towards a woman in a red dress]
      Morpheus: Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress (woman as temptress in the heor’s journey myth) who was desouled via copious fiat-funded butthex from butthexers celerbated in teh pages of the weekly standard?
      Neo: I was…
      Morpheus: [gestures with one hand] Look again.
      [the desouled, massively-butthexed woman in the red dress is now a bestselling new york times author, pointing a cock at Neo’s ass; Neo ducks]
      Morpheus: Freeze it.
      [Everybody and everything besides Neo and Morpheus freezes in time]
      Neo: This… this isn’t the butthex Matrix?
      Morpheus: No. It is another training program designed to teach you one thing: if you are not one of us lozlzlzlzlers, you are one of them butthexers.

      lozlzlzl

      i wanna start lzozlzlzl media where we have a character based on CH who sees green streams of streaming data every time a bernankified chick opens her moutrh and throughout every episode all the herbs and betas pay for the meals of the chix CH butthexes in the end due to his supreme knowelge of being THE ONE lzozlzlzllzzl

      i would be more like one of those minor characters along for the ride in the mother ship stanidng off to the side going lzozlzz zlzozlzozlzozlz zlzozllzozlzlzlz and don’t gte me worng i would score with all the hotties but like CH woudl get first pick for his lead dick and i’d get the next two as that’s only fair lzozlzlzlzllzlzllzl

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      • You’re getting much better GBFM. I agree with the code of the hotties wanting to marry betas after giving it away to alphas when they were younger, hotter, tighter.

        You really need a compendium ebook. I’m not kidding, i’d buy it. This writing takes a lot of work.

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      • on September 16, 2011 at 4:10 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

        llozzzolozzo thanks dudueuess!!!

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        ctually this is form over a year ago on my blog but good to hear it is getting much better!

        http://greatbooksformen.wordpress.com/2010/05/27/i-can-show-you-the-way-neo-but-you-will-have-to-walk-it-zlozlzlzozzlozlzlzo/

        such is the nature of the great books and cassics athat tehy only get better and betetereterteter and betetrrer over ltite lzozzozlzllzlzlzl time zlozozozozo

        i won’t relelaeds a bo untile after chateau heartists eee lozozozlzozo heartistse as all tey credit goes to chaateau heartiststee lzozozl and theenee i will relelase my boooook which wont inclcud a lot of seceretive tapings of butthex without the girths cnthent so thet weekly sneoenc standadrd the weekly standiand will not reveiw nor mention me as they favor six foot atll heroic asscokers eercteeive tapers of tvutthex like tucker mzx lzozozozllzllz “womenz tame men” jonah goldberg csercerams zlozozoz as they deocnstrctcuc and sdetsory homer the bible kirk shaka-peseasebare richard weaver mises moses hayek jefferserson america and teh ocnstsientcstsin lzozlzo

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  26. “Women alone are better same night lay prospects, especially if you’re strong in the comfort stage, but women in groups offer more opportunity (via social dynamic pathways) to raise your value and build attraction in the early stages of pickup.”

    Ya, dead on.

    Remember that “away from her group” is as simple as turning her around so she can’t see them. All a girl fears is judgement, if she can’t consciously see her friends she doesn’t feel them judging her and will let loose as if she were alone.

    If you and a wing chat up 2 girls, take a few steps to the side as you talk so yours turns to face you with her back to her friend. They both still feel safe ’cause subconsciously they know their friend is behind them but they focus on you and your buddy instead of worrying about peer-judgement and you can both get away with makeouts, phone numbers, etc. that you wouldn’t have if you and your buddy stood beside eachother as 2 guys facing 2 girls like I see SO many guys do.

    It sounds dumb, I know, but there’s a lot of group psychology behind the concept to explain why it makes a significant difference. It’s similar to Mystery’s “approach someone head on and they feel scared, approach from the side and they feel comfortable” concept. These are little things but they make a difference.

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  27. Heidi Jones Guilty: Meteorologist Admits False Rape Claims

    NEW YORK — A TV meteorologist admitted Wednesday she’d made up claims of being repeatedly attacked by a stranger on the city streets, allegations that sparked an extensive investigation before police said she told them she’d invented the story to get attention.

    Heidi Jones, who has worked for stations in New York and Texas and filled in on ABC’s “Good Morning America,” pleaded guilty to misdemeanor false-reporting charges.

    Her plea deal calls for three years’ probation, continuing psychiatric counseling and 350 hours of community service – the amount of time police spent looking into her phony claims, prosecutors said. Jones is due to be sentenced Oct. 26.

    Jones, 38, told police Dec. 1 the same man attacked her while she was running in Central Park last September and again outside her Manhattan apartment in November, authorities said.

    After she provided a detailed description – including the alleged attacker’s race, height and clothing – detectives spoke to possible witnesses and canvassed the area to look for a suspect.

    Ultimately, when a detective interviewed Jones again around midnight on Dec. 13, she admitted she’d concocted the assaults, according to a court document prosecutors filed in January.

    “I made it up for attention. I have so much stress at work, with my personal life and with my family,” she said, according to the document.

    Unemployed and struggling financially since her arrest, she has had to give up her former apartment, Callan said.

    “She’s paid a high price for the crimes she pleaded guilty to,” he said.

    *Gives a whole new perspective on the definition of *attention whore*…

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    • Jesus.

      She got slapped on the wrist for wasting valuable police resources that could have been used to catch REAL rapists.

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  28. >2011
    >Taking Satoshi Kanazawa seriously

    I seriously hope you guys don’t do this.

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  29. I’d contend the smiling thing is more complex than simply smiling or not smiling. It depends on the frame set. Of course with no frame, women will pick the non-smiling guy. But with an alpha care-free I don’t need approval frame, smiling and having a good time works wonders.

    For an example from last night’s JFK tapes, watch and old tapes of JFK out and about, was smiling, having a great time. Jackie-O said she was attracted to his attitude that he never seemed to care about what other’s thought. That if he dropped a towel and was naked, he wouldn’t pause in the least bit.

    To say he’d get more ass by not smiling would be wrong. But of course, smiling with an alpha frame is the exception to the rule. Usually the big smile is a beta seeking approval.

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  30. Off topic, for public edification I want to report I tried that line from the ‘Test Your Game’ entry comments, the ‘how long have you been dating her?’ one as it seems really versatile and hilarious.

    All I can say is, be careful what kind of girl you use that on, cause for me it went as follows:
    Cockblock makes an appearance, I ask my target girl the dating question with perfectly straight-faced impunity.

    Girl gives me long sideways look that implies she’s onto me making fun of her (despite best impression of naiveté, alas), and says in a drawn-out exasperated tone “Oh, for-eeeeever”.

    I decide to go with the suggestion, smirk, let her know I know that she knows I’m winding her up, “Is that right? So in all that time, have you two ever shared a man?”

    Girl: “Oh yeah, I mean, we do all the time. Sandra prefers the filet parts and I find the meat of thighs and calves to be most delicious so that works out for everyone.”

    Right, what a ‘witty’ comeback there, lady.
    I did manage to laugh it up and roll with it after a second’s pause, and actually soften her into a tolerably fun conversation despite her seeming extremely disinclined and maximum bitch-shielded at first.
    Didn’t go for her digits though, something about a girl referencing cannibalism just puts me off.

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  31. a smile that radiates inner contentment will bed more chicks than scowls, brooding or the straight face. deal.

    i have tested this within the fire of my own experience. in the last year i have devoted myself to martial arts, yoga and deep periods of meditation. i am not talking about dabbling either, outside of work it takes up 95% of my free time.

    that said, it has lent a certain gravitas to my vibe which chicks have “felt out” and has created intrigue. inside, i was feeling these deep waves of bliss from my immersion in my self discipline but because of the writings on this blog and others that parrot the do not smile meme, i rarely smiled. it wasn’t working wrt attraction.

    so i said fuck it and started smiling more which was in line with how i was feeling inside. its been about 6-8 weeks of smiling now and the results have been volcanic.
    i have never in any period of my life had so much female attention. it feels good but i am indifferent to any sorts of “feelings” these days. what i do know is that the real secret to my success hasn’t been the smiling, it was my mission to transform myself; inside and outside.

    i get it. most betas smile because they yearn to please and this is repulsive to chicks. for you guys, stick to the straight face. however, when you smile from a deep sense of inner strength and accomplishment, women are blown away because their hind brains know that your smile comes from total self reliance and satisfaction. you have figured out how to live on your own terms.

    the smile that comes from the complete and total inner conviction that there is a secret place that a woman cannot touch (your core masculine strength, essence and Buddha nature) will bed more chicks and create more opportunities wrt women than all the brooding and scowling in the world. at least that’s been my experience, and at the end of the day that is all i care about.

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  32. I like to think of a deep voice as the solid bass line of a seduction rhythm. Without it the song doesn’t sing!

    The deep voice pulls her in to you, because it is less heard by the ear and more felt in the gut. Think Barry White or Chef from Southpark! A deep voice sacrifices clarity for emotion, but then who wants clarity at a time of luuvvv!

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  33. 3 things:

    1) Heartiste said:
    “Try it sometime. If you want a girl to remember something you consider helpful to your goal of getting her to sex, be sure to deliberately lower your voice when you say it.”

    Been there, done that ( a thousand times). It didn’t work. Yes, I look good and am muscular. No I am not awkward.

    2) Heartiste said:
    “If you want a quick and effortless path to sex, you should focus on gaming girls when they are alone and away from their peers.”

    I may be a exception but this never works. In fact, I do better when they are in their stupid groups. The success is OK, but I hate their groups, they are lame.

    3) Heartiste said:
    “if you like living in a prosperous, civilized nation, you want boys to reach sexual maturity later in life, as such late bloomers are a sign that more parental investment into learning and developing is taking place. K-selection strategy, in other words. If you want to live in a shithole, you can’t go wrong in a place where boys are sprouting pube grass and wolf whistling by age 9.”

    Bravo Heartiste! Excellently put! I wish you could put that on a billboard. Maybe some of these overly tattooed knuckleheads can fit it in somewhere. It would make for an interesting trampstamp.

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  34. While civilized and prosperous are related, they can easily be a century or more out of phase. A for nations, they are currently far too large to leave much room for civility. They made much more sense when population densities were a better match for their geographic reach.

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  35. The best seducers are the ones who have learned how to read a woman to pick up on whether they need to be a lover or a provider, and how to be alpha doing either.

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  36. “A smile should be tamed to a barely perceptible upturned mouth corner, and limited in its dispensation so as to maximize the effect it has when it is deployed.”

    But that’s a CONTEMPT microexpression. A smile is TWO upturned mouth corners.

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  37. on September 15, 2011 at 4:11 am 1st time caller

    I’ve been told I look really mean/dickish by pretty much all of my friends after they gotten to know me. It couldn’t be further from the truth though. I know that I’m too nice for my own good. Therein lies the problem. Heartise had a post a while back on being congruent. I’m trying to recover from betadom but my looks and personality clash in such a confusing way that I feel has turned off some prospects I’ve been talking to. I need to embrace my inner dirt bag.

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  38. Avoid panicky smiling, where you look like your nervous.
    Practice open happy confident smiling, women like that, it tends to engage them at the outset, once you start chatting you can tone it back, to avoid coming across as happy clappy.
    The little/no smiling advice for most guys will look fake, like your trying to look cool, and will probably but you in a sour frame of mind, no one likes a kill joy.

    You can’t beat a natural confident smile

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  39. “The scourge of single momhood in the USA and other Western nations is an early warning sign that our once great nations are headed down the path of shitholeitude.”

    Our civilization is dying because it honours the unworthy: Degenerates like “The Situation”, rapping drug-addled thugs and epicene actors of minimal talent are glorified and have women, fame and fortune. Children are told to follow comic book figures rather than the heroes of now and the past.

    How many people have heard of Dakota Meyer, or Sal Giunta? They are two of the greatest heroes of the West – living Medal of Honor winners. In a saner age, such men were richly honoured.

    http://www.cnn.com/2011/POLITICS/09/15/marine.medal.of.honor/index.html?hpt=hp_t2

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    • Meyer and Giunta are only beta losers who put something/someone else before themselves today… the actual value of heroic behavior to people if you don’t remind them of why it’s important, sadly. (Now, posturing and being a selfish *sshole… that gets you p*ssy! Who Da Man?!)

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  40. KUATO IS MY WINGMAN.

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  41. From this article about self-injury:

    “Although society was initially shocked to discover that people might harm their bodies intentionally, when compared to other ways that people seek relief from pain it offers several benefits: it’s not illegal, it’s not addictive, it doesn’t hurt others and the body eventually heals,” … “For those trapped in bad situations, it can be a way to make it through until their lives improve.”

    It’s probably the first time I saw a positive article about self-harming. I agree that it’s a very useful way to deal with stress (much better than alcohol, cigarettes, food) but I don’t agree that it’s not addictive – I’m addicted since I was 11 or 12. I was wondering why I target my face even if it makes me very ashamed and afraid that others will notice how crazy I am. Usually I cover everything with make up and very rarely people ask me anything (my friends are already used to my obsessions and since I convinced them that it makes me feel good they are very understanding).
    Unfortunately it seems that I really don’t care enough about my SMV. My mum is always so sad when she sees my injured face and I know that it might be because she’s afraid I won’t be able to have babies because of that. You need a pretty face after all. I always say to myself that I will never be able to marry because of that but it doesn’t help. I’m probably like those overweight girls who can’t stop using food for healing their anxieties even when they know they will get fat. It’s like I’m self-sabotaging myself … Can’t believe that my skin still looks quite good (probably because I naturally had very clear skin), but I’m pretty sad that it’s not perfect and every wound takes time to heal (a week or two). I don’t remember whether I’ve ever been without fresh wounds in the last ten years (I always covered everything though).
    I’ve noticed that lately I only do it when I’m really stressed, which is quite rarely, so I hope I’ll manage to recover completely … (the article suggests that I probably will: “The practice occurs mostly among those in their teens and 20s, and can still occur in the 30s but grows more rare after age 40.” Oh, shit, but when I’ll be thirty or forty my SMV will be too low to get married because of the aging process itself … So I should stop right now. But I can’t.)

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    • You are such a f’ing loon. Stop thinking your life is in any way difficult.

      Your life is easy; why do you imagine that requires punishment? People who refuse to enjoy their easy lives are fools.

      Will you always be a vacuity and a fool, Maya?

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    • [Pardon the chick shop talk]

      Maya, I’ve seen women completely recover from cutting/bulimia/binge eating and other self harming behavior with treatment (GOOD psychotherapy, not new age babble). Hard but possible. Have you considered it?

      If you want to get married and have kids with a good beta provider, even at the age of 30-40+, consider becoming an evangelical Christian or converting to orthodox Judaism. There are definitely marriage-minded guys with no game whatsoever looking for a “soulmate,” who want families and a traditional woman. Really. I’ve seen women- older, fat, decidedly post-wall– meet SMV-matched men and marry and have kids. They seem happier than most married women I know.

      [Now back to regularly scheduled ruthless analysis of human nature]

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      • Hannah,

        Thanks for being understanding with my condition.

        I need no treatment right now because I’ve recovered already and only have very occasional slips. But addiction is addiction, so it’s hard sometimes.

        About marriage – I have to say I’ve observed the same you did – older religious women marrying other marriage-minded religious men and appear very happy. I might consider this in five years if I don’t meet anyone until then. It’s hard to force these things though. I think I’ll just remain single if I don’t meet the love of my life. It’s kind of romantic to be an old maid/cat lady IMO. Better than being married to someone you don’t love.

        Now back to ruthless analysis of human nature. Any new lesser alphas/higher betas interested in having sex with you?

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      • In the old days the old maids were actually virgins. Not so romantic today when they’re just sluts who can’t find a marriage when the musical chairs stop playing, and they can’t even find a one night stand anymore.

        The “love of your life” is probably married and raising kids with some other woman by now.

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      • Yeah, you’re right. I only like virgins and reformed sluts (if this exists – if it’s possible to change your character that much). Promiscuity is disgusting. Not romantic at all.

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      • Which people now learn 20 years later, when they’re trying to play beat the fertility clock and having one child or none at all, after having wasted a lot of life and heartache they didn’t have-to.

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  42. Sarah Palin has a fetish for black men and loves black cock !!

    Glen Rice ???

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    • Paging Larry Flynt… I can see it now: “Black Bred MILF: Who’s Nailin’ Paylin, Part II” starring Lisa Anne (again).

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      • Uh oh, speak o’ the devil (family-safe, TV-showable trailer)… serves me right for not watching a lot of porn.

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  43. Women are f*cked-up… no offense, but digging some selfish idiot who treats you like crap is f*cked-up. Like they said in the “Douchebag Career College” video, “mad amounts of chicks with low self-esteem and fake tits.”

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  44. I submit to you all that only a true alpha can break into a bachelorette party and game one of the girls away from the group. That should be like getting your masters degree in alphadom.

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    • Depends where the bachelorette party is, but I’ve always had good luck penetrating those groups, getting numbers and having them meet me out for a drink another time (or even AFTER the bachelorette party has broken up).

      My favorite was on a cruise where it felt like a 7:3 ratio of guys to gals, but almost every guy was a schlub beta of the worst variety. Buying women drinks, leis, etc. That was a very memorable week, and I still see some of the ladies on rare occasions when I visit their towns.

      The downer for me is that I am one of the few guys who can not stand a drunk woman for more than 15 seconds.

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  45. One mistaken assumption of MM (and Style’s approach) was “the Bitch Shield” theory.

    While that initial observation was indeed innovative, the subsequent presumption that if the pua only penetrated the shield, underneath he would find a really, truly sweet girl,

    It’s what Firepower calls The Cloaked White Knight gambit: if only the Noble PUA can mobilize his Superpower, he rescues the maiden…from herself. This is a common theme in mythology. (For you millennials, think Luke saving Darth by turning him back into Good Annakin.)

    But, as the 21st Century grinds on, it’s becoming clear that underneath that Bitch Shield, 99.786% are, in fact, stone bitches. You’re not going to pua some hot skank doing body shots in a thong at a Vegas hotel pool party and discover Rachel Ray. Nor, will some hb9+ in your local bar corrupted by a lifetime of princess reinforcement suddenly turn into Cinderella.

    The reason for the incongruity of the Cloaked White Knight is, if you actually read The Game (all 23 lbs of it), you see that Mystery and Style were raised from youth to be OK, sensitive guys who assume fairy tale princesses possess goodness deep within.

    The smoking hot cheerleader may treat the high school quarterback wonderful, but she’s a raging bitch to everyone else who can’t do things for her.

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    • 10 years ago, I used to say “Give it 5 years, wait until she’s 28.”

      Today, I say “Give it 15 years, wait until she’s 38.”

      Now I’m actually seeing some mid-to-late-30s ex-8s who aren’t shaking themselves of their attitudes. It’s no surprise to me that so many are single and seem to bathe in their self-hatred of what they have or don’t have.

      I’m giving way more credence to the idea that excessive one-night-stands for women corrupts their ability to formulate an oxytocin response to men (the “cuddle” hormone), replaced by excessive adrenaline response to the “excitement/fear” of the one night stand.

      Young, home-focused women are going to absolutely hate the previous generation in 10 years. Plus, the tattoo-infested 8s of today are going to look absolutely freakish by then.

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      • The prattle of the slut,”I want to get married… someday!” (now still heard approaching their fourth decade).

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      • I’m not young (35) but many of us home-focused women already hate them. I hate the feminists who help make them this way, as well. I especially hate them for what they are turning (and have turned) marriage into for my already home-focused children.

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    • Big fan of mystery method – but that’s a fair point. Neil Strauss is very prone to pedestalizing the pussy.

      That said, it’s a danger in the long run, but in the short run, lowering the shield is the best approach.

      A.B.

      Good point about the Oxytocin – there is a scientific basis to that. And it also fits with the study on marriage rates that shows that a women with more than 3 previous partners has over 50% chance of ditching a marriage within the first ten years.

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      • Thanks, but remember the point I made is not primarily about pedestalizing pussy, but rather the high Egotist/Asshole level needed by a pua to even dent the 21st century American Bitch’s Bitch Shield – breaching it takes even more.

        All these Herculean labors begin with an error that this price is “worth it” because the “prize” is discovering the presumptive honorable maiden hidden under All That Bitch.

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    • “The smoking hot cheerleader may treat the high school quarterback wonderful, but she’s a raging bitch to everyone else who can’t do things for her.”

      That entire comment was gold.

      Another way to put it: MOST women feel entitled to enslave MOST men.

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  46. GBFM is a genius by the way.

    That matrix spoof was far more entertaining than any of the three films.

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  47. Women do love a deep voice dude.
    I work on a military base and often attend staff meetings with a military and civilian mix. Usually about 40-50 people in the room, with a fair amount of females. There is this Master Sergeant with a particularly deep voice who, when he speaks, literally every female head in the room snaps in his direction.

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  48. Off Topic:
    Came home today from work. Daughter is watching one of those pageant shows with the little girls being coached by their mothers.
    So I crack open a beer and begin to critique: I comment why are all the mothers overweight? Why are these women living vicariously through their children? How come the mothers spend so much energy coaching their kids, when for less energy they could lose some weight and perhaps look good themselves? Why are the daughters dancing around like little sluts onstage? Why does it seem to come naturally to them.
    Of course my daughter started screeching like mad complaining that I was ruining her watching her show and that I don’t know what I’m talkning about. My every observation was met with hardcore resistance. Her mother was the same way, whenever I would make an honest observation into womans true nature, she would shriek the louder.
    Then I remembered

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  49. Never be afraid to smile if you think your life is awesome, just be ready to accurately describe why you’re doing well and don’t let others bring you down (they will try). Otherwise youre going to look simple or psychotic.

    Inner game=nirvana

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  50. Yeah I think it’s always mroe difficult when a woman is in a group, especially if she has a boyfriend and she doesn’t want her friends to see her as unfaithful.

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  51. A case in point what comes to competition:
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2043797/Hugh-Jackman-reveals-cougar-wife-wants-quit-fitness-regime.html

    Well-toned Hugh Jackman’s chubby wife is afraid of competition, and wants him to stop working out. Her excuse is that “he outshines her while it should be her job to look good”, but in reality it’s competition.

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    • Lol, like the standard woman what she says is not what she wants. Hugh Jackman says:

      ‘Let me give you a little insight into my wife. I met her on a prison drama where I had tats all over my body and a mullet, and that turned her on,’ he explained.

      ‘She likes the bad boys.’

      Unfortunately that doesn’t explain why, at 27, he married a 40-year old woman.

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