Girlfriend Got A Dog

Reader R. writes:

My casual girlfriend is getting a dog, a German Sheppard. That is fine because I love dogs but I am concerned with the future early morning walk responsibility that she will try to shirk off.

I know what is going to happen: we will be in bed and the dog will bark. “Can you be a sweetheart and go walk him?”

I don’t want to go walk the dog so she can sleep. Whats the best way to deal with this? Just tell her straight up: “No, he’s your dog, walk him or let him shit on the floor.” Or should I be nicer about it? Or just ignore her and pretend to be asleep?

Goddammit. Balancing a girl and alphaness is harder than it looks. Thanks for the help.

PS, I hooked up with an exgf this past weekend after following your rules. I really enjoyed it but it awoke feeling that I still really liked this girl. I ended the relationship back in February because I could sense my slide into betatude and wanted to end it on my terms before I became pussy-whipped. (this was before I found your blog) I still don’t have her number but we have mutual friends and can get it. Should I? I would like to turn her into a fuckbuddy. Should I wait until we see each other again (mutual friends and parties etc) or wait for her to initiate contact? When we hooked up, I could tell the attraction for me was greater than ever (thanks to your advice). My willpower right now is being tested because while I would like to contact her, I would hate to destroy the frame I have created.

Thanks for all the help. I am confident that because of your words of wisdom, I am well on my way to becoming a super-alpha on campus. Bring on the fall semester and the packs of sorority girls.

This is a bigger deal than you might think. How many of you had parents who disliked animals? You would beg and plead for a dog until finally one day they caved and got you one, with the admonition that “now that you have this dog, it will be your responsibility to walk it and pick up its poop every day”. Of course, after three weeks, Dad would be schlepping it out at 6 a.m. every morning walking the dog and muttering under his breath about his damned ingrate kids.

Well, women are like those children who quickly abdicate their responsibilities when there’s someone else willing, or able to be persuaded, to do them. The mode of persuasion is usually implicit sex withdrawal, puppy dog eyes (fittingly), or empty feel-good flattery.

If you find yourself in this reader’s predicament with a girlfriend, a dog you could do without, and a looming literal shit test, you should firmly remind her you are her lover, not a dog walker for her royal highness. If this doesn’t work, buy a pet boa constrictor and kindly ask her to be a sweetheart and feed it the live mice you have stored in the pantry when you are too busy doing something else. That should help get the point across.

As for the reader’s second question, beta regression is an inherent danger in following the rules for getting back on ex-girlfriend; you might fall for her all over again, repeating the same mistakes you made the first go round. You should get her number through the mutual friend, but don’t call her for a couple weeks. (This is because your quasi-gf will be expecting a phone call from you once she hears from the mutual friend that you requested it; therefore, you must defy her expectation if you want her to vagina to simmer with piqued interest.) The trick to lassoing an ex-girlfriend into a sexual Act II is is to hammer home the impression that you absolutely do not need her in your life; rather, you *want* her around because she amuses you in a special way.

Since you did the official dumping back in February, you have hand, however tenuous you may believe that hand is. Girls are acutely sensitive to dump dynamics to the exclusion of almost all other relationship-ending factors. No matter how beta you think you acted during the waning months of the relationship, if you dumped her without warning she will carry that stingma (stigma + sting) with her for months afterward, and possibly into future relationships with betas who can’t understand why she still pines for an asshole like you.

Remember, too, that girls who aren’t fat, old or saddled with bastard spawn are rarely dumped by men; scientific calculations have shown that women do about 70-80% of all the dumping. Therefore, as a man having done the dumping, you have automatically raised your value far above the mass of men who could ostensibly compete for her attention. You now occupy an outsized place in her mind as a man higher status than all the other men currently chasing after her, regardless of the objectively measurable status differentials between you and them. Conclusion: dumping is a huge DHV. You do not need to game your ex hardcore; she is already thinking about you on a daily basis since that heartbreaking moment way back in February.

However, enough time has passed that she may just now be getting over stray thoughts of reuniting with you. It takes about six months for a cute girl to “move on” from a man who dumped her. (It takes anywhere from five years to a lifetime for a fat chick to move on from same.) Attempting to reengage via a date could backfire and destroy your frame as you mentioned. She might very well take it as an opportunity to retrieve some of the hand she lost from the initial dumping. I could easily envision her telling you a date is a bad idea, and smiling wickedly to herself once you got off the phone. Instead, I would try to arrange meetings with her at parties of friends and let nature take its course. Just keep to the Aloof and Indifferent frame and her hamster will do all the spinning for you.





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  1. Funny video of the week:

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  2. What do you have against puppies??? (-_-)

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  3. Dogs. Can’t live with them, can’t feed them to snakes.

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  4. Don’t drunk call or txt either, unless you know she wants it. Only time it would be great is when she got dumped by her current boyfriend.

    Seriously though going back to your ex is like revisiting thrown out trash. It is highly satisfying seeing them downgrade though. Anyways, good advice.

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  5. I know puppies taste a lot better than cats.

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  6. Just fuck them both… and don’t care about their reactions.

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  7. puppiez can’t interwebz or blogz.
    just haz cheezberger

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  8. pupu has not shared this with anyone offline. she has trouble with her girlfriends baby talking to their dogs on end.

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  9. Off topic:
    Flattery will get you nowhere:

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  10. I had a similar issue when my gf ( now wife) moved in a year back and already had the small bitch dog to begin with. Except from the beginning, I made it clear that I don’t like dogs in my house and that if she wanted to keep it, she would have to take care of it completely. Everytime the dog weanted to jump on our bed, I would push him off. If he barked(whined) too much I would discipline him. He literally would shit and piss all over the house whenever he wanted and I would make it a point to point it out and watched as she cleaned it. Walks were always on her. After three months of this she voluntarily sold it to an old lady. We got married two months later. In many ways a women is like a child with adult expectations. If you keep them in line, show love when needed, but never waver in what needs to be done, it is perfect.

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  11. In my view the emailer should view reestablishing a relationship with his ex as a long shot that’s worth a little game thought but not a lot of time. It shouldn’t distract him from finding new girl(s) to pursue as backup to his current casual girlfriend who he foresees trying to betaize him.

    If you chase her at all you will lose all chance w/ the ex. The only way you’ll get to bang her again is if she subconsciously thinks that’s the only way you’ll start to chase her again, so that she can satisfyingly be the dumper. I.e. it’s gonna be shit test city and aloof game her, as in genuinely not giving much of a shite is the only way to play it.

    If you maintain that frame post bang that’s a small outside chance you can convert her to a friend with benefit especially if you never promised exclusivity to her previously, before you dumped her. In fact aloofness but willingness to be “friendly” is probably the best frame to have to move her into friends with benefits in this case.

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  12. German Sheperds are awesome, i have one.

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  13. depressing video of the week:

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  14. i once told this jewish stripper i dated that the proper spelling of Cheeseburger was cheeseberger because it was invented by a jew

    she believed me…
    they all do…

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  15. “Please be a dear and walk the dog” at 6:00 AM is indeed a shit test. She probably does not realize this, but it is, so how you handle this is crucial.

    The middle ground is hop up, walk the dog, come back in (you’ll be energized and refreshed after the walk), and give her a good hard morning pounding – no kissing, no foreplay. Her reaction will tell you much.

    Note that after a few walks the dog will love you unconditionally.

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  16. btw, based on pupu’s observation of the division of labor in puppy care, the ongoing effort ratio between mom and dad is about 70 to 30.

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  17. Okay, I have experience with this:

    Under no circumstances walk the dog. Go with her when she walks it; but you say this loud and clear: I don’t like looking after dogs. Under *no* circumstances look after that dog.

    This is a shit test, literally as Roissy points out.

    I’d also like to point out that dogs are major inconveniences: You’ve got to go home by a certain time to feed/walk them; you have no more freedom of travel or movement; Your daily schedule is decided. No more spontaneous pickups.

    This is for settled people who spend much of their time at home.

    I’ve always found dating/gaming girls with dogs is actively more difficult because they 1) have to go (look after dog), and it’s not an excuse, because their “baby” needs them, and 2) Can’t arrange to meet because the dog is fed/walked at that time – can you meet later/earlier?

    On the other hand, it also means you have more chances to meet her or hang out at her place.

    A toss-up.

    But when you actual GF gets a dog – especially when it’s one of those cute rat-sized dogs with loud voices, … and she kisses the thing, coddles the thing and carries it around in a bag all the time – it’s almost time to get a new GF.

    You know that this is a substitute for a baby, right? Hence the repulsive treatment of the dog like a small human instead of the animal (noble, even so) that it is.

    Second question –

    I’ve converted exes to FB’s on several occasions. As I look back, I can see some consistent patterns:

    – They initiated first contact with me
    – They suggested meeting up. I arranged the time and place to be convenient for me and convenient for getting intimate
    – I remained aloof and unconcerned, but friendly
    – I was seeing other people at the time, so it was easy to remain unconcerned

    In only one case, where my ex was extremely hot and had plenty of options and was great in bed and hence my desire to reclaim her was powerful, did I lose frame; but I pursued her for sex pretty hard, more thuggishly than usual, so it didn’t matter. She was drawn in my the ease at being with me (being an ex), the fact that I offered her no consequences or judgment for her behavior, and that I kept it simple.

    But the loss of Disinterest frame might have sunk me if I hadn’t basically rounded on her and aggressively taken her in a semi-public place (a room at a party).

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  18. @THEKING – been to Korea have you?

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  19. If the girlfriend lives in her own house, let the dog out into the yard to crap and don’t clean up after it. Actually, that might backfire. Most chicks are slobs. She probably wouldn’t even notice it.

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  20. namae nanka —-

    Are you really that surprised by this? The country is not on the verge of collapse because of the economy, it’s because the criminals and idiots no longer have any accountability under the law and nobody can be bothered to do anyhthing about it. Why do you think all of the cities in this country are so screwed up and bankrupt? IKt’s because people can’t stand to live there anymore.

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  21. Mr. Reader R.,
    There is nothing hard in the case you presened. Indeed, getting a dog by her should make you extremely happy because this will give you the opportunities to do one of two things:

    1) Poison the dog.
    2) Or, if you want to be mercifull on the poor creature, walk him then release him in the wilderness. When you go back, tell her he escaped.

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  22. It’s not the dog’s fault, whatever happens. Please don’t let it suffer.

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  23. My sister of all people told me many years ago that in the end it doesn’t make any difference who did the dumping. If you got “game” you just move on. In my 20’s and 30’s that served me very well (I got married in my late 30’s) . I learned to get over relationships (gag) and affairs much more quickly.

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  24. jeezus. quit being such loads about dogs.
    if you dont like them, ditch the bitch and find a chick with a cat to fuck.

    its not like theyre hard to find . they’re only girls

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  25. Dream Puppy

    @THEKING – been to Korea have you?

    over in asian countries,
    a sex tourist can be John Holmes
    with 3″

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  26. ditch the bitch and find a chick with a cat to fuck.

    I’d rather fuck her pussy than her cat…just sayin’.

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  27. Yes, dumping is a DHV. But the only way to make that stick is by taking her back on terms more favorable to you than when you left her. Else, the DHV of you dumping her turns into you being overoptimistic about your market value and crawling back to what you threw out before.

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  28. I agree with Firepower: don’t be a drama queen about the fucking dog, just find a new woman.

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  29. Sloppy seconds on ex-GFs is nasty.

    Being where you once were after other Men is diminishing.

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  30. Under no circumstances do you get up and walk the dog. It’s *her* dog, she does *all* of the maintenance. And I say this as a dog lover and lifelong dog owner.

    If you give in here, she’ll walk all over you the rest of your relationship (and life if you end up together). She’ll do the same thing with kids, too. Soon enough you’ll be walking around with one of those retarded Swedish baby carriers and your dick will be in her purse or the refrigerator in case you should ever need it.

    I actually met my wife walking our respective dogs, and it wasn’t until a year into the relationship that I did anything for her dog, and I liked the goofy little bastard. It’s just a matter of principle.

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  31. Re. problem #2.
    Perhaps not as important an issue with a college age girl, but with an older ex I’d worry about an ‘oops’ pregnancy.

    Since she doesn’t have the dog yet, make it clear she’s on her own taking care of it. It may sway her decision.

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  32. reminds me of the time i contacted this bitch thru craigslist, as i had no wingman for the night.. the ugly bitch was high when she met me, then got *totally* fucked up… so anyways i drive her home wanting to fuck her cos she had a tight body, but she tells me i’m too short for her and we should be friends, then passes out like a rock. So I stole her wallet and took her chuiauaha with me, dropped the sorry bugger into the woods about 50 miles away. I still laugh thinking about the little guy barking wildly as he shrunk in my rearview mirror…

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  33. “if you dumped her without warning she will carry that stingma (stigma + sting) with her for months afterward, and possibly into future relationships with betas who can’t understand why she still pines”

    So girl number 1 didn’t seem to have done anything wrong, dude dumps her for no other reason but his own inability to control his own betaness. And CR points out what it may have done to the girl, but of course that’s of no concern.

    Going back..for what? Twist and turn that knife around a bit? What’s she done to him? What have her future boyfriends done to him? There’s plenty of girls in the world leave her the fuck alone.

    Or go back. And hope that karma doesn’t bite you in the ass.

    And don’t fucking moan about the state of the world or feminism. You reap what you sow.

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  34. A girl with a dog = girl with a free oral sex machine.

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  35. I agree with Gorby that dogs are for settled people. But her turning HERSELF into more of a settled person, but not you, isn’t all bad by any means. After all you aren’t planning to be exclusive w/her anytime soon.

    It’s key that he should make it clear pre dog acquisition that this is all her idea and responsibility of course. And that while he like dogs, he himself wouldn’t want to be tied down by one at this stage in his life. He sees a dog as more of a family with kids thing.

    He shouldn’t belabor this, just mention it.

    As far as the FWB thing with the ex goes, if you get her chasing and you bang her a few times, one way in my experience that’s worked to get her to accept FWB status as opposed to you supposedly soon becoming more and more committed to her is to say that you aren’t ready for another relationship now, maybe later. But hey you like hanging out with her from time to time esp. before she finds someone she really wants for a relationship.

    You can’t expect her to be exclusive in these type things unless she’s the kind of girl that really wants to keep her count down. Your official position should be supportive of her finding “Mr. Right”. heh. Or just let her slut. If you get it started right and you’re any kind of alpha and had a close relationship with her before, and maintain that aloofness between times now, but teasing warmth when with her, she’s likely to keep coming back to your booty call if she’s going the pump and dump route.

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  36. Worrying too much about what is “beta” is a big problem. Your insecurity about every little possible request you might get in the relationship will send STRONG incongruity signals to the woman you are dating.

    THAT is much more beta then, GASP, complying with a request or two once in a blue moon.

    Being an alpha doesn’t mean you NEVER do anything for your woman. Just make sure the ratio is right, make her do 3 or 4 things for you for every 1 half-assed thing you do for her.

    It’s not an exact science. As long as your alpha frame is strong, you will be fine. Just don’t do things you HATE to please a woman. That is betaitude.

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  37. Fuddz

    So I stole her wallet and took her chuiauaha with me, dropped the sorry bugger into the woods about 50 miles away. I still laugh thinking about the little guy barking wildly as he shrunk in my rearview mirror…

    uber alpha.
    just what John Wayne would do

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  38. on August 16, 2010 at 4:18 pm Rollo Tomassi

    I was recently talking with a freind about the absoulte psychotic mess of a girl I used to date before I met my wife was, and I got to recalling some of the more annoying aspects of that miserable relationship.

    One of the most aggrivating things I found myself wrapped up in was her obsession over this little Westhighland Terrier she had. I hated that fucking animal; and I don’t mean your garden variety hate, but the how Satan hates God kind of hate.

    Even after being married for almost 14 years and having put this mess well behind me, I still get a violent twitch in my eye whenever I see someone walking a dog like this.

    Now you’re probably wondering why I have such contempt for this otherwise innocent and cute little breed of dog. It’s not that I dislike Westies per se, but it was her insane, psychotic devotion to this pet that she would lavish on it in preference to paying attention to me or even her friends at times.

    It was at this point that I did a bit of research to see if this phenomenon had a psychological parallel and interestingly enough it does. I got to thinking about all of the people I knew who gratuitiously and excessively spent inordinate amounts of time and money on the wellbeing of their pets. These were universally women – I can’t think of one unattached man I know who even has a dog, much less gets up early to drop it off at ‘doggie daycare’ on his way to work and picks it up on his way home. Neither do I know a man who would spend the kind of money ‘gourmet dog biscuits’ command from a store dedicated to nothing else, nor a guy who would buy ‘Frosty Paws’ dog ice cream treats, but I do know women who will. I know women who will spend $1500 for their “little precious'” to spend a day at the doggie spa. I know women who will pamper and coddle thier pet even after it shits diarrea on the living room carpet and in the same breath berate their husbands for leaving the toilet seat up.

    However it’s not just the degree to which some women will go in their devotion to their pets, it’s the indifference they display toward the human beings of importance in their lives, in preference to their pets, that crosses the line. There is a current field of study in this psychological transference of emotion to pets. Nothing terribly conclusive has been set in stone of course, but the theory goes something like this; People (mainly female) having a tendency to dote exhorbitantly over their pets also tend to eschew meaningful interactions with significant people in their lives. It goes on to say that the pet becomes a ‘self-proving’ device that enables the individual to internalize that they are capable of loving while minimizing their reciprocation to another human being.

    In otherwords when she sits there with little Fluffy and dotes over him rather than engaging you in even limited communication or affection it may be indicative of a more complex problem – the dog becomes a cockblock. Of the examples of women’s behavior I used, all of them were in some unsatisfying relationship that they were uncomfortable discussing yet would do nothing about. However, when prompted with conversation about thier pets they were very talkative.

    So beware, part of an accomodating AFC nature is a disingenuous desire to identify with a woman in order to barter his identity for her intimacy. Nothing will bring a guy down faster than allowing this pet devotion dynamic to become a part of this identification.

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  39. @Heman “A girl with a dog = girl with a free oral sex machine.”

    Ew.

    Wait.

    Ew. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

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  40. dream–men actually believe this, my husband mentions peanut butter everytime he sees a woman with a dog on tv

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  41. Reader R sounds insecure as all get out

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  42. Rollo Tomassi FTW.

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  43. @Rollo,

    You’re right about one thing: there’s transference going on. The dog in these situations becomes a means of emotionally disconnecting from other people – there’s an odd consistency in the women I’ve met who have these dogs. Characteristics:

    1) The dogs are usually toy dogs (large rats)
    2) They’re usually a means of showering money and equipment on a small being
    3) The dogs are almost always coddled and not allowed to be dogs: treated as infants and infantilized. They’re often carried.

    4) The women with these dogs are almost always more narcissistic and less able to deal with other people as intimates or equals that other women. Why?

    5) The reason why, I think: women with babies become wholly self-centered and obsessive. Women with strollers walk across roads, hold up traffic, and look haughty and easily frustrated – they take up space and act extraordinarily entitled. They feel Fulfilled – and Superior – and others should give them what they want.
    Women with dogs begin to mimic this. They might get the same endorphin rush.

    Note that the evidence for this overall effect: It’s *always* women. Never men.

    Wait. No. It’s sometimes gay men.

    This is entirely a female emotional construct. It serves to distance them from other people and to give them a sense of emotional completion.

    Men don’t seek this.

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  44. A woman, a dog, and a jar of peanut butter…

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  45. nice doggy

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  46. Here is what I would do. Let the dog out but have it poop right outside her window. Come in and do her doggy until you finish (even make a corny joke about it). Unless she has a cavernous cunt she will get uncomfortable after a few minutes. Finish anyway.

    Inform her this is the price of walking the dog in the morning.

    Let her discover the poop on her own later. Insult to injury.

    She will either succumb to your manliness or start a fight. Both should result in hot sex.

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  47. She doesn’t want a dog, she wants to complicate things. No matter what you do or do not do, you’ll be giving her what she wants: drama. Keep in mind that what she is saying in “I want a dog” translates into “I’m not happy, I want more”. I would recognize this as the begining of the end and take control of the breakup. Fuck the girlfriend, fuck the dog, kick her out and start fucking her again a few months from now, on your terms.

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  48. “However it’s not just the degree to which some women will go in their devotion to their pets, it’s the indifference they display toward the human beings of importance in their lives, in preference to their pets, that crosses the line.”

    I maintain that this is also a subconscious motivation behind the morons in the animal rights movement. These assholes kick aside crippled street bums everyday on their way to lobby for prison terms for people who forget to walk Fido after a hard day’s work.

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  49. on August 16, 2010 at 5:19 pm The Rational Male

    Last Friday I dumped the hottest chick I’ve ever fucked in my life. I’m talking bikini model hot.

    It was a preemptive strike. She was acting sketchy and talked of things that women who want to stay in a relationship with you do not speak of.

    I was backing off (the only thing you can do when a woman is distancing herself from you) and she got upset at me for not returning her calls and texts, so she texts me “I think we need to have a chat. Let me know when you can talk”.

    I was busy with work and a house guest, so about 15 minutes after getting this text I picked up the phone, fully prepared to get it over with and move on. No answer.

    The next day I text her “Don’t bother. I don’t have time for all of this. Good luck with everything”

    Seconds later she responds “”ur a jerk. good luck to you too”

    Followed a few minutes later by “”really never expected u to be but I guess I’m not surprised. Wow if you wanted to break things off all you had to do was be an adult and at least talk…”

    So she’s telling me “We need to talk”, then doesn’t pick up the phone when I call or try to call me back, and then tells me “I YOU wanted to break things off……”

    It’s as if my proactive approach flipped the entire script in her mind. She was going to dump me but since I pulled the trigger first she thinks that SHE got dumped.

    I would love nothing more than to put her on a once a week rotation, but I’m still on the fence about whether or not it’s worth getting myself wrapped up with her again.

    Any thoughts on playing my hand from this point on? I guess it all depends on what I want from her.

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  50. on August 16, 2010 at 5:30 pm The Rational Male

    About the dog thing-

    I have the same revulsion to women doting over animals that Rollo does. It is disgusting to watch a chick fawn over a smelly ball of fur that pisses on her shoes.

    And then the poor animal (and anyone else within earshot) gets to listen to her alternately praising and scolding it for performing the same behavior.

    “Come here Dolche, my little fubby wubby….mnmnmnmmnmnm……give mommy kisses!”

    Then five minutes later:

    “Dolche get down! You’re pissing me off!”

    If you don’t know how to discipline an animal you don’t deserve to own one.

    I guess we should be thankful these women are raising dogs not kids….

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  51. @The Rational Male
    Any thoughts on playing my hand from this point on? I guess it all depends on what I want from her.

    She needs to characterize you as a jerk because she doesn’t want to assume responsibility for breaking up. Remember: it’s all about avoiding responsibility.

    Just let it go. DO NOT argue with her. Don’t defend yourself. It’s counter-productive. Dismiss her comments. Shell be annoyed by this.

    Let it go for a while. Think about it later. Chasing after her is mega beta and will justify her response.

    You need this frame: You don’t care if you lose her. Even if you do.

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  52. Rational Male:

    I guess we should be thankful these women are raising dogs not kids….

    Your anecdote reminded me how the rise of single motherhood has coincided with the degeneration of society. They can barely even take care of and discipline a little dog, nevermind a child.

    And we still got these morons in the feminist media celebrating and cheering it. It’s empowering!

    Idiots.

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  53. I have had a similar experience to Rollo with a woman who has a shit zu. And I love dogs. I have no idea where the irrational hate cone from. The little bastard is castrated and scared of it’s own shadow. Just an overgrown rat really.

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  54. on August 16, 2010 at 5:55 pm The Rational Male

    Gorby-

    I feel ya.

    She is super hot, feminine, submissive, sexually adventurous, and a genuinely decent person, but unfortunately the last few months have exposed a few things that would preclude her from being serious relationship material.

    I was only really holding on because I knew she was planning to move out of state next year. I thought that if she already had her mind set on leaving we could have some fun while it lasts and then go our separate ways.

    She recently started a second job bartending at a strip club a couple of nights per week and I have a feeling that her weird behavior might have to do with the fact that she is around a lot of coke and got sucked into doing it a bit too often now that it’s right in under her nose. Pardon the pun.

    Anyway, I’m too old to be babysitting adults. I wish her well but I don’t think that I have any business being actively involved in her life.

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  55. @The Rational Male

    Anyway, I’m too old to be babysitting adults. I wish her well but I don’t think that I have any business being actively involved in her life.

    Coke makes people do weird shit. They become aggressive, irrational, abusive, pushy. It exacerbates all of their anti-social tendencies. The effects last for days afterwards. I see this all the time; hang out with people on a movie set sometimes. Fuck, it’s like a massive pissing contest. All of these losers are snorting coke three nights a week. The effects, the worst effects, don’t fade for 3-4 days.

    Makes them shit to deal with.

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  56. Good post, Rollo. I dated a woman with a stupid cocker spaniel that could do no wrong – in spite of peeing on the floor, barking uncontrollably, and humping anything in sight. I hated that thing. She’d let it jump on the bed during sex, and I’d always kick it off. And this woman was exactly as you described, incapable of a connection with a human on par with the one she had with her dog. (I risk sounding bitter but this was years ago and I’m as sober as can be in my assessment. Luckily I never let myself get talked into walking or taking care of it.

    To this day, a single woman with a dog (especially the small-ish kind) is a huge red flag to me, a sign of an attention whoring shell of a woman who needs constant validation.

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  57. dana wtf? I haven never heard of this.

    I am starting a Rape Shelter for my fellow puppies. WE NEED AWARENESS!! I’m advocating for advocacy.

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  58. A German Shepherd in an apartment is truly a bad idea. But in general, why all the dog hate? Shepherds are one of the best breeds, smart, loyal, playful. Hope to always own at least one.

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  59. Single people shouldn’t own dogs, if they want or have any kind of social life. And, men shouldn’t date women with dogs as they will find themselves, despite their best efforts, somewhere between the woman and the damn dog. For example, dog jumps on you and hits you in the balls. Without thinking, you smack the shit out of the dog before the pain hits you, and while your eyes are watering and you are curling involuntarily into the fetal position, she procedes to chew you out.

    The dog can do no wrong, but you sure the hell can.

    I’d rather date a woman with kids than one with dogs.

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  60. Watch out that she isn’t doing a “Linda Lovelace Special” with Patches, if and when he arrives.

    Woof woof!

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  61. @riversideapartments

    Guys more likely to cheat on high-earning women –

    More like “high earning women less likely to feel any need to keep their men happy, so the guy finds a woman who will appreciate him”.

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  62. @Rational Male

    “”The next day I text her “Don’t bother. I don’t have time for all of this. Good luck with everything”

    Seconds later she responds “”ur a jerk. good luck to you too” “”

    A few months back, I got this same type of exchange. I used the ALMOST THE SAME WORDS in a text and the reply was the same.

    Me: “I thought you were cool, I thought you were different but… hey, good luck”

    In my case, after a few weeks of no contact, I re-instated contact. BIG MISTAKE.

    Then she got hand, used that to game me and rationalized the whole walking away.

    When it’s over it’s over.

    If you entertain any thoughts of going back or even having her in a partial rotation it will give her hand.

    Some things are better left unsaid.

    The reward of banging her again in a rotation isn’t worth the risk of being gamed by her and then left reeling when SHE walks away.

    My strategy has been total blanking of this woman, being seen with other girls in front of her and basically moving on.

    She doesn’t say anything, but she doesn’t have to. I’ve seen her checking me out and on other occasions she’s gone out of her way to avoid eye contact—both signs she’s thinking of me.

    Confused girls are good at gaming guys.

    In my case learning game made me a bit over-confident and thinking that these tools would carry me through. They would have had I not actually started caring and that gave off a beta vibe.

    Better to let her think of what could have been.

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  63. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/38720767/ns/health-mens_health/

    A new study may help explain it. Men who earn significantly less than their female partners, or who earn nothing, are far more likely to cheat than those in relationships where incomes are more or less equal, the study found.

    chateau, how about it?

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  64. This might seem counter-intuitive, but there’s an opportunity here.

    A German shepherd is a man’s dog. If you get a good one, and spend some time with him, that dog is yours. Germans also happen to be the 2nd brightest dogs in the world (after the border collie). Having been raised with a few German shepherds, I’ve always had a hard time taking other dogs seriously.

    So, just make yourself the alpha around that dog, and teach it to do your bidding, and next thing you know he’ll be herding your girlfriend here and there, and when she starts to give you trouble he’ll take your side (bitches will do this too).

    However, if this is a short-term relationship, that would be hard on the dog and the best thing would be to simply refuse to do anything at all with him, because it will hurt the poor animal badly if he’s deprived of companionship with a man he loves and respects. Serious dogs such as German shepherds usually prefer men to women, for obvious reasons.

    It may also be that the woman is trying to cement her relationship with you by bringing a dog into it. She probably figures that if you become attached to the dog, and she owns it, she’ll have another leash on you. This is why she’d want you to spend time with it. It’s kind of a step below having a kid with you.

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  65. A long time ago I read about a woman who bought a dog for one thing: oral sex.

    Makes sense.
    Throw some peanutbutter on the vag, “here Fluffybuns…” *slurp slurp slurp* “”Mmmmmmmmmmmm” *Slurrppp* “OOoooHHH yeaaah fluffy good boyyyyyy oooohh” *slurp slurp slurrrppp*

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  66. @Rollo & Gorbachev

    I hear you brothers. I was completely indifferent to dogs until one of my ex-girlfriends moved in with me with one.

    She was hot — a former model.

    It started off ok at first, but gradually, I became a second class citizen to the dog.

    She even used to say the dog is “like a baby” and “like a child.” Well, even children don’t get that kind of love and attention. When kids act up, you’ll at least discipline them occasionally. This 20 pound overgrown rat could eat clothing, eat work documents, steal food, shit on the floor, bark all fucking night and drive me crazy, but it was the best dog on Earth — in her mind.

    I knew it was the end when she’d come home and shower love and praise on the dog, then proceed to walk by me without saying a word. She didn’t treat one single human being in her life well and couldn’t have cared less if another Holocaust was going on somewhere in the world, but she jumped on my back and tried punching my head the time I kicked the dog because I caught him in the act of shitting on my carpet.

    I still think big dogs are ok, but the little yappy barky ones… whenever I see one like that walking around the neighborhood I want to annihilate it.

    It’s totally unfair to the dog, it’s not its fault for existing, but man, my resentment to that little fucker got so high because of her ludicrous doting behavior that I now got some fucking psychological complex because of it.

    And Gorby, you are right — the chick was super super narcissistic with a daddy that walked out on her when she was a kid. I think it feeds into the narcissistic shit because it’s a “cute” dog and if people say, “oh how cute!” that kind of shit becomes part of the girl’s own ego — the dog is an extension of her egocentric, narcissistic self. Plus the dog is the only thing that can’t tell them back, “You’re a selfish, narcissistic whore.” The bitch would spout on for hours about how “the dog loves me. the dog misses me so much.” No shit bitch! It’s a fucking dog. A fucking fucking animal and you are it’s pack leader. If you were Charles Manson, he wouldn’t know the fucking difference! Find me an owner that a dog hates… then you’ve accomplished something unusual!

    I think I can probably deal with a chick with a big dog — they don’t seem to have these transference issues, but whenever I see a single chick with a small dog these days, I’m running the opposite direction.

    I know what to expect.

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  67. on August 16, 2010 at 9:22 pm anonymouses anonymous

    Learn how to train dogs, and let her know that you will be in charge of training the dog and she has to do the feeding and walking.

    I recommend you set a night where you both watch The Dog Whisperer. She will learn from that the responsibility of dog raising.

    You will also become the dog’s master. That will boost your alpha nature to your lady. If treat the dog poorly, the dog will compete for the alpha role.

    If you build a strong connection with the dog, it will be to your advantage if you and the lady break up because most other guys she meets will not know how to control the dog, reminding your girl that you are the alpha in her life.

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  68. @Gladius,

    I hear you. Small dogs = poison. Not the dogs; the women who have them. Men all notice this, if they pay attention. The women with these dogs are narcissistic. It’s the reason they have them.

    Okay, I’m generalizing. Not all women with these dogs. Maybe 95%.

    The rest might have been saddled with the dog by an ex. Wait. Men never have these dogs. Nix that.

    PS – ever notice how it’s *only* women (or men in couples, where the women chose it) that have these dogs?

    Men never do.

    There absolutely has to be something going on there.

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  69. on August 16, 2010 at 9:37 pm The Rational Male

    gorby-

    Yea, I banged a coke head a few times awhile back. Sweet girl, but man did that blow make her a freakin’ waste. She finally got off of it, moved back to NYC and found herself a nice high income provider to take her in so she could live in Manhattan like she always dreamed.

    She might be his little angel today but I kinda feel bad for him. I wonder if he knows about her past?

    walawala-

    I hear ya. I made the mistake of taking back an ex a few years ago. She had an absolute meltdown over me breaking up with her, so I put her back in rotation on a once a week basis.

    I was fat and happy getting to nail a hot piece of ass again, this time without a commitment. Instead of keeping myself on point trying to find something better I got complacent and counted on having my weekly side dish to tie me over.

    Then one weekend I walk into the club where I would always run into her, and she was with some dude who starts making out with her right in front of me.

    I got tooled. She took the opportunity to use me as a springboard to prop up her ego until she had the hooks set in the next guy, and then she coldly and callously threw it all in my face.

    I haven’t heard a peep from her since then, but I know she eventually married that guy and they recently had a baby.

    I am the real life Good Luck Chuck.

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  70. The Rational Mind—

    So she’s telling me “We need to talk”, then doesn’t pick up the phone when I call or try to call me back, and then tells me “I YOU wanted to break things off……”

    It’s as if my proactive approach flipped the entire script in her mind. She was going to dump me but since I pulled the trigger first she thinks that SHE got dumped.

    I would love nothing more than to put her on a once a week rotation, but I’m still on the fence about whether or not it’s worth getting myself wrapped up with her again.

    Any thoughts on playing my hand from this point on? I guess it all depends on what I want from her.

    The best way to get her back is to let her go. But then you’ll have to decide if you want her back. Aloofness game.

    She hadn’t necessarily absolutely decided to dump you in that talk she wanted. I’d say that’s fifty fifty that she’d clearly made up her mind. But at best you were very likely gonna be dumped unless you did amazingly in her instigated arguments, drama and shiite tests – from the way you describe the signs going into it. Amazingly well would have been from a frame of aloof indifference, she’s the one who wasn’t pleasing you enough for the last few months, you’ve got options.

    However the way you played it was way better than running that shiite test gauntlet where she did her best to probe and expose any weaknesses she’s sensed in your sorta alpha persona.

    So let her initiate contact if she’s gonna, but meanwhile be about gaming other girls. And really in your mind consider her gone. Write her off. If she does initiate, don’t accept her proposed time to meet, say you’ll get back to her when you free up. If you do meet up at some low intensity place, make her chase. Your frame is it started out great but lately you’ve been pretty fed up with her. Don’t say that in a speech. Hint. If asked, say it. You’re the prize. She has to prove she’s gonna be a better girl, or you’re not interested.

    But it’s in all likelihood over, and act as such.

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  71. @Rational Male

    Based on my past experience, women forget that they were all needy and mushy about you.

    When they push to get hand and you give it to them, they always look down on you.

    On the other hand, if you push to get her back…you’re beta.

    It’s lose/lose. When you end things, it’s best to move on and take away any of the learnings from it.

    The problem is that as betas who are aspiring for more alpha status the idea of “losing” is completely counterintuitive to alpha behaviour.

    But it takes more balls to walk away from a situation and know you’re the prize rather than gaming a unicorn.

    Weird situation for me. The girl I had gamed loved the “movie moments ” of being gamed. She loved the push-pull, the negs, the teasing.

    But when that’s all there is and game doesn’t become a means to an end, the smart alphas should walk away.

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  72. The harm, I believe, as we are seeing now, is that women quite literally don’t know whether they are human beings or animals. Nature reflects and there is, to me, a fundamental danger to society in the undeveloped, tactical, emotion-based female “mind” staring lovingly into the eyes of a feral beast which derives interchangeable pleasure from eating, sleeping and licking feces from itself…and with that female “mind” identifying her-(it-?)self with that feral creature and (the crux of this part of my thesis) persuading herself that she has more in common with a feces-licking creature than the opposite gender of her own species or seeing herself as having just as much in common with feral beasts as with men or seeing herself as a mediator halfway between man and beast or seeing herself as an ambassador to the world of men from the animal kingdom.

    http://archives.tcj.com/232/tangent4.html

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  73. So, how the f do I email Roissy privately? I have a good situation apropos today’s post.

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  74. on August 17, 2010 at 12:38 am gunslingergregi

    Wow fellas looks like we got some hate he he he
    Can’t outcompete the dog eh

    ””””Rollo
    One of the most aggrivating things I found myself wrapped up in was her obsession over this little Westhighland Terrier she had. I hated that fucking animal; and I don’t mean your garden variety hate, but the how Satan hates God kind of hate.”””””’

    Dam lol

    If you guys think that is tough try fucking coming home after a woman has been raising a baby from birth without you there for a year and a half or so and supporting herself.
    Now that is a worthy challenge.
    A dog?
    What the fuck kind of challenge is a dog.
    You just need to learn to channel all that energy into you rather than whatever she is channeling it into.
    So yea I won.
    I beat god.
    I beat the kid.
    I beat family.
    I beat the career.
    I beat the pussy.
    I beat the odds.
    I beat everything.
    he he he

    Woman want to work their ass off to take care of something.
    Might as well be you.
    So every once in a while take a shit in the bed or piss on the carpet lol

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  75. on August 17, 2010 at 1:01 am The Rational Male

    Doug1-

    That’s exactly what I’m gonna do. It sucks to have to write off a woman who has such good qualities that are so rare in American women, but at the end of the day she would never be long term material anyway.

    I’ve already been contacting some old leads and as soon as my schedule allows I’m going to get back out and actively recruit some new prospects. I was on a roll until this one stopped me in my tracks. If I would have continued to actively game other women I wouldn’t be in this position. Lesson learned.

    walawala-

    Are you familiar with the term Stockholm Syndrome?

    The term was coined to describe a condition where hostages adapt positive feelings toward their captors, supposedly as a survival mechanism.

    I’m not aware of any concrete evidence that supports the idea that this is what women experience when that switch inside of them gets flipped which allows them to cleanly sever their emotional connection to a man once he has served his purpose, but I firmly believe that this is what is happening when a woman goes from loving you to loathing you, sometimes in a very short period of time.

    Before I understood that this is basically just a coping mechanism that allows women to be able to sever their emotions to one man in order to be able to devote the energy it takes to obtaining “new provisioning”, this hypergamy tool that women possess it would absolutely eat at me to think that the woman that I had just spent a couple of years of my life with could callously cast me aside for someone new, without so much as a passing about my feelings or even her past feelings toward me for that matter. It truly fucked with my mind.

    This led me to realize that women are utterly incapable of loving a man the way a man expects to be loved. Unconditional love from a woman? Ha! Every shit test failed, each and every thing that lowers your value in her eyes is just another strike against you that can eventually add up to cause her to lose her attraction toward you. And as soon as that attraction dips low enough and as soon as she has latched onto another man of sufficient value you can rest assured that all of the wonderful times that you spent with her will become less than meaningless to her.

    Romantic love is a sham. The only person who loves you is your momma. If you are lucky.

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  76. @Gorbachev
    @Rollo,

    “You’re right about one thing: there’s transference going on. The dog in these situations becomes a means of emotionally disconnecting from other people – there’s an odd consistency in the women I’ve met who have these dogs. Characteristics:

    1) The dogs are usually toy dogs (large rats)
    2) They’re usually a means of showering money and equipment on a small being
    3) The dogs are almost always coddled and not allowed to be dogs: treated as infants and infantilized. They’re often carried.

    4) The women with these dogs are almost always more narcissistic and less able to deal with other people as intimates or equals that other women. Why?

    5) The reason why, I think: women with babies become wholly self-centered and obsessive. Women with strollers walk across roads, hold up traffic, and look haughty and easily frustrated – they take up space and act extraordinarily entitled. They feel Fulfilled – and Superior – and others should give them what they want.
    Women with dogs begin to mimic this. They might get the same endorphin rush.

    Note that the evidence for this overall effect: It’s *always* women. Never men.

    Wait. No. It’s sometimes gay men.”

    Great insight! Totally agreed!!! You took the words right out of my mouth! Thank you! hee! hee!

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  77. @The Rational Male

    “So she’s telling me “We need to talk”, then doesn’t pick up the phone when I call or try to call me back, and then tells me “I YOU wanted to break things off……”

    It’s as if my proactive approach flipped the entire script in her mind. She was going to dump me but since I pulled the trigger first she thinks that SHE got dumped.”

    Actually, here is my take;

    In my other comments I have mentioned our (male and female ) desire to feel needed, wanted, desired….

    She wanted to see just HOW MUCH you want her. I’m not saying I agree with what she is doing, but I can understand it. Usually, this type of tests are extremely dangerous. It can work against you.

    I can hear from your(male) point of view it’s a power thing. Maybe , maybe not, but whether it is or not, it stems from our need to be desired etc…..

    How sad we have to resort to games like these to find out. If we needed to resort to game like these to find out about our desirability, what’s the point. If we find that we are resorting to these game to test whether someone is really interested we already know they are NOT… Just be direct and real.

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  78. @walawala
    “Weird situation for me. The girl I had gamed loved the “movie moments ” of being gamed. She loved the push-pull, the negs, the teasing.”

    It not weird. It only showing us her inability to be open and vulnerable. No one wants to be vulnerable and when we can’t, every situation, exchange, interaction seems like a tease, push – pull ,negs……

    At the same time, it’s a clue to us….the increase of these exchanges tells us the person is feeling more( for you) and therefore more vulnerable wanting to protect him/herself, usually from getting hurt. The irony is that this becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Sad indeed!

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  79. Is there any reason why he shouldn’t just try texting/phoning her a booty call next time he’s in the mood? She might say yes, and if she says no, I don’t see that he’s lost anything.

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  80. on August 17, 2010 at 2:04 am gunslingergregi

    I kinda miss kick a bitch.

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  81. on August 17, 2010 at 2:07 am gunslingergregi

    Yea jonathon exactly why you escalate sex instead of relationships.

    You can always have relationship later.

    But if you already have sex on lock and playing nothing you do matters.

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  82. @The Rational Male
    “This led me to realize that women are utterly incapable of loving a man the way a man expects to be loved. Unconditional love from a woman? Ha! Every shit test failed, each and every thing that lowers your value in her eyes is just another strike against you that can eventually add up to cause her to lose her attraction toward you. And as soon as that attraction dips low enough and as soon as she has latched onto another man of sufficient value you can rest assured that all of the wonderful times that you spent with her will become less than meaningless to her.

    Romantic love is a sham. The only person who loves you is your momma. If you are lucky.”

    First of all, the term “unconditional love” for years has been applied wrongly. There is ONLY “unconditional love” for children not adults. there are always conditions, BUT it’s all about how extreme the conditions are. These conditions needs to be negotiated between the two parties–adults.

    Depends what type of shit test you fail. Everyone has a check list. The problem happens when that check list has NO priorities. I always say, we might have a BIG check list, but if the guy meets the top five he’s good. NO one is perfect. If we all look in the mirror, non of us are and it’s okay. We are all human and remember what I said..we are all learning.

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  83. @Silvermouse: If you think that’s funny, check this one out. This girl Talia is on her ELEVENTH failed paternity test.

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  84. on August 17, 2010 at 2:41 am Spirit of kick a bitch

    Told the bitch I wasn’t gonna fuck whores in the house anymore only in hotels.

    She said, “Why? It will cost more money to fuck them in hotels.”

    Kick a bitch fuck there fealings even if you “love” them.

    They will unconditionally love you because you truly don’t give a fuck about what they say.

    Same with moms.

    If you listen to every little fucking thing your mom says to do she will despise you.

    If you don’t listen at all and do whatever the fuck you want she will unconditionally love you.

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  85. @Darkstar

    It’s so disgusting.

    How can such utterly useless and valueless people be celebrated like this.

    I know the show is nothing more than a mocking freakshow, …

    But a huge, ugly fat black woman can’t even tell which of her 11+ men she had at roughly the time the child was conceived was the father, …

    Is it possible that these people don’t realize what utter poison their culture is? Are black people this myopic?

    There’s a cultural holocaust going on against black people, and it’s being perpetrated largely by other black people.

    What a fucking waste.

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  86. Amazing Video DJ. Can’t stop laughing, or is it almost crying.

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  87. on August 17, 2010 at 3:10 am The Rational Male

    what=woman

    “Depends what type of shit test you fail. Everyone has a check list. The problem happens when that check list has NO priorities. I always say, we might have a BIG check list, but if the guy meets the top five he’s good. NO one is perfect. If we all look in the mirror, non of us are and it’s okay. We are all human and remember what I said..we are all learning.”

    Bullshit.

    Women have HUGE checklists, and in today’s world where women are earning their own money there is little to no incentive for them to prioritize according to traditional criteria.

    And this is what me are looking for in a mate. A woman who wants to bear children and raise them to become functional adults. Other than that we have little use for you besides getting our rocks off. That’s why relationships are for fools. Nowadays us men just need to worry about getting laid and moving on. Anything else is a sucker’s bet.

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  88. on August 17, 2010 at 3:15 am Gunslingergregi

    ””””””on August 17, 2010 at 2:49 am Gorbachev
    @Darkstar

    It’s so disgusting.

    How can such utterly useless and valueless people be celebrated like this.

    I know the show is nothing more than a mocking freakshow, …

    But a huge, ugly fat black woman can’t even tell which of her 11+ men she had at roughly the time the child was conceived was the father, …

    Is it possible that these people don’t realize what utter poison their culture is? Are black people this myopic?

    There’s a cultural holocaust going on against black people, and it’s being perpetrated largely by other black people.

    What a fucking waste.

    ””””””’

    To be fair white chicks running trains and getting pregnant also don’t know who the father is either. It might actually be the way to beat the child support racket. Ever consider that some black dudes might have diferent motvations than you. If they can all be fucking the same bitch they fuck her into confusion about the daddy but they still getting pussy. It could be evolution at work lol

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  89. on August 17, 2010 at 3:15 am The Rational Male

    Damage that’s AWESOME!

    “My dog bites me in the vagina!”

    Time to put that stupid mutt down you stupid bitch.

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  90. on August 17, 2010 at 3:19 am Gunslingergregi

    ”””””The Rational Male
    A woman who wants to bear children and raise them to become functional adults. ”””’

    That is not rational. Woman cannot raise a child to be a functional adult.
    They can do the drudge work part though.
    You got to realize they have some limitations.
    They can also work a job and bring back money.
    They can do a lot of things but raising a kid ain’t one of them.

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  91. If a small little fucker dog ever attempts to bite my dick off, he would turn into a flying dog after I kick it.

    which reminded me of this video:

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  92. Silver Fox says, “Sloppy seconds on ex-GFs is nasty.

    Being where you once were after other Men is diminishing.”

    I’m with this.

    Guys, have some dignity and don’t dig through your trash.

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  93. DJ,

    Thanks for the link. Needed a good laugh and that did the trick…

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  94. on August 17, 2010 at 7:42 am Gunslingergregi

    Dam hate to say it but on the almost year anniversity of not working I almost want to get a joorrrbb.

    “shudders”

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  95. Aww, pets…they are cute. awesome little fellas. Then the pet dies and its PROFOUNDLY PAINFUL, then you miss them, cannot replace the little darlings if you tried.

    ah…sigh…Dogs/cats are in heaven, they gotta be…maybe I shall see mine again. These days I am child free and pet free as a single adult. I was petting my freinds cat and I got all allergy-ed up. It bugged my skin and breathing. so sad.

    Now, if you are married with kids that is a different story, 2 parents care for the kids. pets? its another commitment for their care. its alot of work.

    (I finally got around 2 the admin page on my wordpress account and changed my screen name. It was not difficult and its amusing it took me this long to do so, lol)

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  96. @ Gunslingergregi

    good luck with work and jobs. it aint easy 4 anyone right now.

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  97. Nicole: Guys, have some dignity and don’t dig through your trash.

    Somewhat emotional approach, dignity is a social construct based on a sum of anecdotal experiences–a milder version of “face”, but I’d agree here. Odds re against anything good coming out of it. It invariably kicks your ass in some way.

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  98. on August 17, 2010 at 8:28 am Badger Nation

    How about AMOGing the dog? I.e. bonding with it harder than she does so the dog looks up to you and loves you? What she’ll want is for the dog to bond with her and be fun but slough off the bitchwork to you. Instead make yourself daddy, loved but feared, and her the day to day provider.

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  99. on August 17, 2010 at 8:40 am gunslingergregi

    ”””The LP 999
    @ Gunslingergregi

    good luck with work and jobs. it aint easy 4 anyone right now.
    ”””
    It’s not luck I am just better than everyone else.

    But thanks,

    he he he

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  100. “There’s a cultural holocaust going on against black people, and it’s being perpetrated largely by other black people”

    Culture generally tracks intelligence. There’s a split in the black community roughly at the critical 90 IQ mark (which enables an individual to “keep up” with mainstream society.) A large chunk of those below it tend to resent the hell out of many of those above it (obviously, race hustlers and pols who deliver the goods excepted.) The celebration of ghetto culture can be seen at least in part as an expression of envy towards the smarter blacks, iow intraracial class warfare.

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  101. on August 17, 2010 at 8:48 am gunslingergregi

    Is that the right attitude or should I tone it down lol

    Or should I put that on cover page.

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  102. on August 17, 2010 at 8:57 am gunslingergregi

    @Original JB

    Well they think that whites help each other to magically start their own businesses and such and don’t think blacks do the same.

    I mean lets take michael jordon as an example or any other black superstar with supermoney they always start some kind of social program like free shit. But they don’t do like community outreach to black men and like create little work camps where they can go and just work and save money. Like you know a success gang type atmosphere but legit.

    They think the whites have shit like that but really it is the asians, indians, and arabs who actually have the shit to help people with no education and even not much of a brain beat the system.

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  103. Gorbachev

    @Darkstar

    It’s so disgusting.

    How can such utterly useless and valueless people be celebrated like this.

    I know the show is nothing more than a mocking freakshow, …

    But a huge, ugly fat black woman can’t even tell which of her 11+ men she had at roughly the time the child was conceived was the father, …

    She almost certainly has genital herpes too, and about half the black men who raw dogged her will have gotten it from her. (You can also get it if you use a condom, from genital area to genital area contact.)

    According to the CDC almost half (48%) of black women 14-49 have genital herpes, which is incurable by medical science. (The immune system does usually cure it but not always.) It’s not the restrained black church girls who are in that 50%. It’s this type, and the thin versions as well.

    White girl super sluts who go black ghetto club slummin are also real likely to get it.

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  104. The Rational Male

    walawala-
    Are you familiar with the term Stockholm Syndrome?

    It’s treated as a sort of useful survival pathology. In fact it’s simply humans slotting into a new power hierarchy and belief system, when they either become convinced that they’ll never or not soon get back to their old hierarchy and it’s rules and beliefs. The same thing happened during the Korean war with American POWs brainwashed by the communists there. Particularly it happens when people have no deep understanding of or grounding in their own belief system.

    This led me to realize that women are utterly incapable of loving a man the way a man expects to be loved. Unconditional love from a woman? Ha! Every shit test failed, each and every thing that lowers your value in her eyes is just another strike against you that can eventually add up to cause her to lose her attraction toward you. And as soon as that attraction dips low enough and as soon as she has latched onto another man of sufficient value you can rest assured that all of the wonderful times that you spent with her will become less than meaningless to her.

    Romantic love is a sham. The only person who loves you is your momma. If you are lucky.

    Loving long term relationships with girls can and should have elements of both erotic love and agape or deep friendship/partnership love. The erotic part is heavily chemical based and is also when it’s intense very much caught up in a power exchange dynamic, which almost all girls are wired to want in the form of dominant male, submissively responding female. It’s in this realm that you can’t fail Shiite tests, or anyway not too much. Not as a general pattern.

    But if it’s a good relationship that’s gone on a long time she should be extending credit. Credit for when you screw up some. Just as you extent her credit. Not limitless credit from either side. A good part of the agape love side and credit side is culturally shaped though and girls in this messed up feminist society increasing feel little cultural pressure or inducement to do anything she isn’t hindbrain impelled to at that moment. This is hugely different from the messages still taught men.

    As for the power dynamic and how it must be played, read this. I think it’s a bit exaggeratedly stark to make the message crystal clear, but I also think it’s essentially right:

    http://stagetwo.wordpress.com/2010/04/06/control-the-male-dilemma-and-the-eerie-parallelism-between-sex-and-love/

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  105. http://sciencelife.uchospitals.edu/2010/08/09/the-calming-hormonal-effect-of-marriage/

    On a tagent gut..Marriage can have a calming effect..LOL..” “On average, males are clearly more aggressive, more violent, and take more risks than women, and this affects society and also business. If business is male-dominated, things are going to be done a certain way and if business were female-dominated, things probably would be done differently.” Oh really!!!

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  106. “Well they think that whites help each other to magically start their own businesses and such and don’t think blacks do the same.”

    Well, sad to say, but inability to recognize or utilize existing resources is a symptom of low IQ.

    The Black Chamber of Commerce exists pretty much for this purpose.

    “But they don’t do like community outreach to black men and like create little work camps where they can go and just work and save money.”

    My guess is it’s a “damned if you do, damned if you don’t” situation. Who wants to be accused of exploiting brotherman? A bunch of black guys living in tents doing manual labor is just bad optics.

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  107. Morsellaux says, “Somewhat emotional approach, dignity is a social construct based on a sum of anecdotal experiences–a milder version of “face”, but I’d agree here. Odds re against anything good coming out of it. It invariably kicks your ass in some way.”

    The only way I could see it not kicking one’s ass is if the motivation is a deep and mutual love, like the deathgrip kind. Not every couple starts out tight and us-against-the-world.

    Just for the sex though? It’s better to leave it. The guy won’t get the ego validation he wants from it, and the girl won’t get the change she wants from it. Going back means that you care and don’t want to let it go totally, or that you don’t know what you want, and are a waffling girl. At least, that’s how she’s going to interpret it.

    To further drive the point home, my ex boyfriends always crawl back. They take me for granted when they have my attention, and then once their wing is fixed, they fly away. While they’re out there, they realize that they aren’t going to find another me. They damn sure aren’t going to find me in a 10 package. So they always come back.

    Every last guy I’ve ever been in a relationship with has tried to get back in.

    …but something happens to me, and probably most women worth dating, when a guy fails me the first time. It’s like he’s tainted. I have tried to take one back. I did so with the best of intentions, and when the moment came, I couldn’t even get to that “MM!” space I get to when making love with a man.

    It’s like a switch had gone off somewhere in my mind, and it was like I was somewhere on the other side of the room watching myself have sex with him. I felt nothing. I just couldn’t get into it.

    I suppose if a woman’s intensity bar is very low, and your status is very high, she can make herself endure it for the sake of having you around…but that hope, and that throwing herself into the moment is gone.

    So do it right the first time, or just go away.

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  108. women are unequivocally able to deeply and loyally love a man whom they ADMIRE, look up to and trust with their lives. a woman hero worships a man she loves, and shit tests are a way to probe for feet of clay–in most modern people’s lives he is never going to ACTIVELY have to save her life in a disaster or lead her and the family out of danger or do any of the things she evolved attraction for–how else to discern those traits in such a time?

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  109. on August 17, 2010 at 11:07 am Gunslingergregi

    Holy Fucking Shit yo,

    Ok I knew I did everything better than everyone else and shit was easy for me.

    I knew I was losing weight cause I got to freaking bag up the pants and shit.

    But I went from

    *****240*****
    to

    *****205*****

    just checked today in 6 months. I went in army at 210 or 220 he he he

    Yea my woman should be fucking happy the only goddang excercise I get is fucking.

    I don’t walk I don’t lift I don’t excercise I still drink all the coke I want wtf.
    So living in a place that doesn’t have steroids in the meat might actually be why I am thin in a way as well.
    I mean shit wtf.

    So yea fuck all the other diets just get on the gunz fuck diet lol
    mua mua hahahahahahahahahahha

    umm I may be actual proof that fat people in america is not an accident. I don’t know.

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  110. Spirit of you remind me:
    First time a guy does his wife on the wedding night, he gives her 20 bucks as a joke. She smiles and takes it. Every time after that, it becomes a kind of signal for them that he wants sex, and she complies. Thirty years later he loses his job and is soon flat broke. She then reveals to him a savings account that she had kept of all that money and invested it, and it’s now worth 2 million, and they can retire in peace. He turns to her and says, “If I’d have known that you were doing that with it, I would have given you all my business.”

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  111. regarding Michelle O getting owned by a true alpha female, check out this statement of superiority.

    Bruni vs the Princess
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1173949/The-day-Carla-met-match-Mrs-Sarkozy-upstaged-Spains-real-princess-glamour-showdown.html

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  112. Dana, you’re right, but I think there’s more to it than that: a sense of belonging.

    I admire lots of guys, but the reason Shai and I are still together even platonically is because I belong with and to him.

    I could accept being worthless to every other man in the world, but his trust is worth more than my life.

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  113. good point, having earned a hypervigilant man’s trust has a price above rubies to me and by becoming one of his possessions i know i will be protected and cherished for life

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  114. @ vicmackey

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/38720767/ns/health-mens_health/

    “In case this has sent you scurrying to look at last year’s 1040 forms as if they were marital fortune cookies, “those couples making about the same, or when the men are making a little bit more than the women, appear safest,” Munsch said. She even has a kind of formula: men tend to wander least when their female partner makes 25 percent less than they do.”

    I do believe this comports exactly with Roissy’s theory that the most stable relationships are those in which the balance of power slightly favors the man’s status over the woman’s physical attractiveness.

    Freaking brilliant.

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  115. Apart from anything else, women really shouldn’t be responsible for a dog when a man is in the picture. The kind of direction and behaviour control a dog requires to live peacefully with humans can only be provided by a man.

    Well, maybe not the case with the really little lapdogs, but as everyone else has already said they are essentially a female accesorry aquired for obvious psychological reasons. No man should have anything to do with them.

    Women should take care of the cats.

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  116. “Romantic love is a sham. The only person who loves you is your momma. If you are lucky.”

    Great post, Rational Man!

    Even though I had the other timeless truths in your post beaten into me by the time I got out of my teens, that line is really all you need to know. All else follows.

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  117. Romantic love does exist – trouble is that it’s been marketed as a wonderful, everlasting thing: The old lie that true love lasts forever.

    A woman can cast away your love in a moment. She can leave a husband, even her children, in a quest for self-discovery, moving from romance to romance like a butterfly from hell.

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  118. dragnet–

    men tend to wander least when their female partner makes 25 percent less than they do.”

    I do believe this comports exactly with Roissy’s theory that the most stable relationships are those in which the balance of power slightly favors the man’s status over the woman’s physical attractiveness.

    Freaking brilliant.

    What she’s talking about in marriages is men cheating. Men with high SES and with kids don’t tend to leave their marriages unless their wife is impossible to live amicably with or sometimes unless he bloats up like a whale or otherwise becomes a great social embarrassment. At least they don’t until the kids are grown.

    In former times in the Anglosphere and currently in most of the world (though the American hyper feminism virus is spreading) most women didn’t leave their high SES alpha man they were bring kids up with, just because he discreetly cheated on her.

    That should of course be brought back as the norm. If wives got nothing in divorce other than child support, and the alimony portion of child support were cut out by making it deducible for the payer and taxable for the ex wife receiver of it (reversing the current situation) that would hugely change women’s proclivity to divorce when there are minor kids at home.

    That’s how things SHOULD be.

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  119. on August 17, 2010 at 1:22 pm The Rational Male

    cap’n bob-

    “A woman can cast away your love in a moment. She can leave a husband, even her children, in a quest for self-discovery, moving from romance to romance like a butterfly from hell.”

    That has to be the ugliest of the ugly truths.

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  120. Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
    Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.

    Nuff said. (apologies to the rare exceptions.)

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  121. cap’n bob

    Romantic love does exist – trouble is that it’s been marketed as a wonderful, everlasting thing: The old lie that true love lasts forever.

    It’s part marketing problem, part brain wiring problem.

    People have a terrible time with impermanence. Even the Buddha had to harp on about it over and over, and no matter what the notion has never become popular.

    We even invent an after life just to avoid the pain of impermanence.

    Count me the number of commentors here who believe in both true love and that it is impermanent.

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  122. JB–

    Women CAN think logically if they really try hard. Most of them just really don’t like to unless they have to. They don’t tend to do it socially or recreationally.

    Women CAN feel accountable. They just really don’t want to and our society gives them a gazillion ways not to be, as it endless excuses female bad behavior and blames anything that went wrong, including her cheating, on any males involved.

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  123. If you are going to notice that activating a woman’s maternal instincts through a baby proxy will fuck up a relationship, the next step would be to notice that getting a girl pregnant will REALLY fuck things up for you.

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  124. Doug1

    JB–

    Women CAN think logically if they really try hard

    Most men and women don’t think logically. Vastly more men than women think logically. Women find it more difficult to learn to be able to think logically, and even then it is extremely rare for them to do this as a habit.

    It’s just harder for them.

    Off the top of my head I only know of two women who habitually thought with cutting sharp directness – both Buddhist teachers. They made good mentors.

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  125. I agree, Doug — it is generally the FOLLOW-THROUGH associated with possessing reason and accountability that is lacking. So if action and consequences are of paramount value, it is as if women have neither.

    As far as accountability – that makes women feel bad. Women don’t LIKE feeling bad. There’s a primacy of feeling thing with them. So if they can’t come up with a good rationalization why they shouldn’t feel bad, they will cry on a sympathetic (often beta male) shoulder who will find a reason they shouldn’t feel bad. So the lesson of feeling bad is frequently wasted or at least distorted.

    Beta males are probably ruining society without realizing it.

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  126. xsplat–

    Count me the number of commentors here who believe in both true love and that it is impermanent.

    If you substitute a words such as “ardent” for “true” so that it’s ardent love that’s impermanent, I’d agree.

    At least for probably 90% of people. There’s research done in the near past showing that only 10% of people who’ve stayed in 30 year (iirc) long marriages remain self reportedly deeply in love with fulfilling marital sex lives. For the rest it’s somewhere between “yes on balance still love each other” and “we stayed together for the children and then were too old and tired to start over with someone new, and besides we’re used to each other”.

    I think it’s most female dependent especially with beta males. Alphas are gonna want fresh after 4 years no matter how hard they fall in love, I think. (That’s part of why women naturally work hard to tame and betaize their alpha husbands, which is put on hyper drive by current feminist American mass media entertainment, esp. TV.)

    Whether they remain with each other if the guy’s alpha will depend on whether she’ll tolerate his discreet dalliances and whether she remains a loving companion and partner, and also remains not socially embarrassing. (Which a blown up like a whale wife would be to a higher SES husband, in addition to being unappealing in bed.)

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  127. It has been noted in this thread that women suck at raising dogs. They lack a sense of being the dominant leader of the pack, and pamper too much.

    What does that say about being a single Mom?

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  128. Alpha bang alert: Sat, 4th date, day date, drive up to country for picnic (she made)

    I think if you bang a babe during day, standing up, from behind, for the first time, on rock ledge overhanging a lake…u r ALPHA..

    for me first bangs have always been indoors, night, lying down, face/to-face…

    this brought a primal angle…which i would recommend all try outdoors, women react to wilderness.

    ps, BJ earlier in day at 11, when drove by lake

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  129. Doug1

    There’s research done in the near past showing that only 10% of people who’ve stayed in 30 year (iirc) long marriages remain self reportedly deeply in love with fulfilling marital sex lives.

    And yet I’d wager more than 90% of people lump themselves into the 10% category, during the initial phases of love.

    My point stands – we are hard wired to avoid the painful facts of impermanence.

    Some people are starting to study what’s different about atheists. There is a new notion going around that atheists have an odd ability to not require quite the same buffers against painful truths. George Orwell described himself as being different than most for two reasons – 1) his habit of putting all his experiences into careful words, and 2) his fortitude at facing uncomfortable truths.

    Number two seems to be a constitutional ability. Rare – and probably never total.

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  130. Orig JB “it is generally the FOLLOW-THROUGH associated with possessing reason and accountability that is lacking. So if action and consequences are of paramount value, it is as if women have neither.”

    It’s often worse when a young woman has access to reason. She will only use it for rationalization.

    Reason without introspection is worse than pure emotion.

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  131. xsplat–

    What does that say about being a single Mom?

    Excellent point.

    Moms can do fine with infants on their own. Even with young children they can do pretty well. But with teenagers? Forget it. And for that matter with preteens, also forget it.

    Maybe it’s something like from 4 up, increasing with age until after high school at least, that boys and girls both really need parenting dads as well as moms.

    No woman who doesn’t continue to sex her husband or ex husband in a way that’s enjoyable for him deserves any claim on him for that parenting role. Nor should she have any claim on him for money (resources) if she ceases to enjoyably sex him. Whether he provides any after she’s left should be ENTIRELY up to him and the bond he feels or doesn’t for his bio kids. If she leaves him while they were infants or real young kids he may well not feel much, unless he’s social pressured up the yin yang to do so.

    That was historically and prehistorically what the marriage bargain was fundamentally all about. She trades reliable and durable continuing sexing of him for his helping provide for her. And, contrary to what many seem to think, it was only in rare societies that wives or tiny social strata within them that wives didn’t do more than child care and housekeeping to help provide for the family. They also helped with farming or kept a vegetable and tubers garden and or did cottage industry work. Or they helped in a shop or trade. In hunter gather societies before agriculture married women did most of the gathering, sometimes all of it.

    Most women have always worked after they were married. And they’ve stayed married to the same man with low divorce rates until the kids could behave in an adult fashion for that society. What’s changed is ideology. Marxist feminism.

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  132. xsplat

    If you are going to notice that activating a woman’s maternal instincts through a baby proxy will fuck up a relationship, the next step would be to notice that getting a girl pregnant will REALLY fuck things up for you.

    Another great insight.

    What’s your solution for those guys who want to have children and be fathers?

    Which types of guys are rather important for society.

    The Swedish solution, as I understand it, is that if the couple splits up, the state helps the mother with money even if she’s middle class and the father has to pay child support too, but at a much lower after tax percentage rate than in America. As well they strongly encourage and tend to have a lot genuine joint physical custody, in which case the father pays no child support to the mother only directly to the child.

    The French intelligencia and upper classes seems to be that historically the man takes a mistress after awhile, who tends to be at least fairly long lasting. Increasingly over the last two or three decades the wife often now seems to take a lover as well, who is preferably long lasting. But they remain together with all kinds of codes about respect and duties to their spouse in order to remain in good elite social standing.

    The American solution is wife initiated serial monogamy placing all but the richest ex husbands in indentured servitude under the enormous percentage wealth transfer and child support=stealth alimony extractions, regardless of how much money she does or could make. No thanks.

    My guess is that the Philippines solution is that if she has kids and can’t hold onto him by sexing him and otherwise being wifey to him (cooking etc.) to his satisfaction, he leaves her and she’s screwed, unless he happens to feel like sending money to her from time to time. So she’d better pick wisely. Though I don’t know how much social pressure there’d be on ex husbands to help support her and their kids there. Probably not much if she cheated or left him. You tell me.

    What’s your solution for countries like America?

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  133. on August 17, 2010 at 2:48 pm Blessent mon coeur

    “One divorced mother of two sons put her complaint succinctly: “I realized my husband was of no added value.”

    “To get the full chill of that statement, try imagining a husband who had divorced his wife saying it, or this next one.”

    No, to get the full chill, try imagining into the future, after the hyperinflation destroys the dollar, after her savings are gone, after her employability has dissolved, after social security and medicaid and a whole raft of other Federal government promises have gone with the wind, and sons saying, “We realized our mom was of no added value.”

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  134. Doug1 asks what is my solution to the quandary of babies sucking all the sex out of a couple’s life. You frame the question as a social engineering problem, but I look at it as a life satisfaction problem. My personal solution is to not marry. If I were to have kids, it would be with the strict understanding that I’d put towards that effort exactly what I wanted to. Which for me is zero infant care, and very minor child care. I’d afford nannies and be certain to enjoy the benefits of an extended family. And I’d travel and keep other households and female interests.

    I have not put my mind to a social solution. I enjoy problem solving, but am uncharacteristically uncreative when it comes to social engineering problems. Too many variables.

    I don’t believe you can socially create society anyway. I can barely socially create my own life.

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  135. A sad example of a rigorously logical and rational woman whose womanhood still screwed her up is Ayn Rand.

    Despite possessing one of the most brilliant minds of the 20th Century, Rand twisted herself into self-delusional knots in her sexual relationships.

    Her husband, Frank O’Connor, was a pleasant nobody who unfortunately for him happened to be very handsome and looked like the hero from an adventure story Rand read as a girl. Yet to justify her sexual desire for his flesh she had to project into the poor sap heroic qualities he clearly did not have.

    In her fifties, when O’Connor’s manly beauty and cocksmanship waned and his intellectual dullness became harder to ignore, Rand decided she wanted to fuck one of her young male admirers. Of course she couldn’t just acknowledge her middle-aged gina tingles for youthful cock, so she conjured up absurd psycho-philosophical intellectual reasons for her lust.

    As you might expect, it all ended rather badly.

    Lesson: even the most brilliant of women are ultimately governed by their hindbrains. Never forget this.

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  136. As for the Philippines, I saw a few different things. Generally people socialize around family. Specifically there is a lot of side action going on, by both men and women. I doubt it would occur to a filipina wife to divorce her husband for catting around. She’d just chew his ear off and mate guard better. It’s a highly sexualized environment, but people also aren’t divorce happy, and the women seem to hold their duties as a wife with a sense of honor – be feminine, keep a clean house, hold the family together, cook, and all that.

    Well, then again some of the lower class are pretty lame about everything – fucking around openly and the man not working hard enough to feed his kids. Drugs everywhere. Child abandonment. Class consciousness is severe, and for good reason. It’s the wild wild west, drenched in sex.

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  137. @Gunslingergregi

    To be fair white chicks running trains and getting pregnant also don’t know who the father is either. It might actually be the way to beat the child support racket. Ever consider that some black dudes might have diferent motvations than you. If they can all be fucking the same bitch they fuck her into confusion about the daddy but they still getting pussy. It could be evolution at work lol

    The best way for homies to beat the child support racket is to ensure the woman
    1) Doesn’t know his real name, only a nickname,
    2) Does not know his SS#, his real date of birth,
    3) There is no property in his name.

    This way, no database search can find him. He’s invisible and immune, and just needs to go to a different location to escape her completely.

    Up until the 1960’s or so, just about all guys could do this, which kept a lid on the worst of divorce rapes. When the woman knows the man can just move to another state and disappear if he really doesn’t like the settlement, it’s a motivation to keep things reasonable. What makes women obnoxious these days is the knowledge that the government will find the guy for her no matter where he is, and garnish his pay for her.

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  138. @Gunslingergregi

    Yea my woman should be fucking happy the only goddang excercise I get is fucking.

    I don’t walk I don’t lift I don’t excercise I still drink all the coke I want wtf.

    Check the ingredients on your coke can.

    In the US, they use high-fructose corn syrup. Elsewhere they use sugar. Sugar is more expensive in the US because of import bans on Cuban sugar. I’ve been losing weight over the past year with no changes EXCEPT switching from soft drinks (corn syrup) to Snapple (sugar).

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  139. “What makes women obnoxious these days is the knowledge that the government will find the guy for her no matter where he is, and garnish his pay for her.”

    You’ll find women have little switches in their brains, that are activated according to opportunity.

    A man, as part of being a man, must be prepared.

    A man, as part of being a man, should have a valid passport and a viable source of transportable income. Options.

    It will change your woman’s attitude. Watch what happens next time you knock up the girl and let her know you’ll use your passport. After she gets over the denial, a little switch in her head will flip.

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  140. I was careless to say that making a girl pregnant will fuck up a sex life. I meant letting a baby come out alive will. The first trimester is great. I know several girls who would purposely repeatedly get pregnant, and not take the herbal abortifactants until after the first two or three months, just because they loved the warm glow and how their body felt. And the big tits. Makes me glow too.

    Of course I don’t have moral qualms about terminating a creature with a mouse brain. Its sad, of course. If you do have moral issues with that then you may take less pleasure in pregnancy without live birth.

    I’m sure most would agree though that first trimester pregnancy is good times.

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  141. @Dream Puppy

    At least get the location right. They eat dogs in China not Korea or Japan. But again I don’t need to go to Asia to eat dogs that look like yours.

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  142. @The_King,

    They eat dogs in Korea. And China. But they really eat dogs in Korea.

    Dram Puppy has it right.

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  143. @Doug1,

    Life in old societies was hard for both man and woman. The woman was expected to spin yarn, weave cloth, sew clothing, manage her vegetable garden, cook over an open fire and clean the house with a broom (at best).

    She had to also keep her man happy, because she didn’t have the physical strength to do all that AND plow the fields, so if she lost her man (or he left) she and the kids would starve.

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  144. Dog is popular in Thailand, the Philippines, and Indonesia as well.

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  145. on August 17, 2010 at 5:55 pm gunslingergregi

    ”””””Indonesia as well.””””

    Just say bali dude. There aren’t any dogs here they must have eaten them all. lol

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  146. I think there is true love, but you don’t know if it’s true or just romantic infatuation until it has been tested. If they’d love you even if you were broke and lost “hand” then they love you.

    If love is going to last a lifetime, the lover has to be butched enough for real life. Too many women aren’t, and these days because they’re overly feminized, too many men aren’t either.

    The lifelong kind of love is a crazy thing. Pop psychology would class it as dysfunctional. I’d say that if the thought of someone leaving you doesn’t inspire at least a passing thought of homicide, suicide, or both, you just like them a lot. You don’t love them.

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  147. JonnyB–

    As you might expect, it all ended rather badly.

    I’m curious as to some details of how it ended.

    But not curious enough to research it. Care to enlighten me?

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  148. You haven’t seen the true horror until you see a young couple walking along, the woman pushing a baby carriage, and then seeing that she is pushing a dog in the carriage.

    Just God awful.

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  149. […] ____________ [1] Girlfriend Got A Dog « Citizen Renegade. […]

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  150. @what…

    “”At the same time, it’s a clue to us….the increase of these exchanges tells us the person is feeling more( for you) and therefore more vulnerable wanting to protect him/herself, usually from getting hurt. The irony is that this becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Sad indeed””

    I think since learning and understanding game, there is both short-term and long-term game.

    Game also helps weed out the prospects so I don’t waste time on people who don’t reciprocate.

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  151. on August 18, 2010 at 6:58 am gunslingergregi

    ”””””’on August 17, 2010 at 3:36 pm MichaelC
    @Gunslingergregi

    Yea my woman should be fucking happy the only goddang excercise I get is fucking.

    I don’t walk I don’t lift I don’t excercise I still drink all the coke I want wtf.

    Check the ingredients on your coke can.

    In the US, they use high-fructose corn syrup. Elsewhere they use sugar. Sugar is more expensive in the US because of import bans on Cuban sugar. I’ve been losing weight over the past year with no changes EXCEPT switching from soft drinks (corn syrup) to Snapple (sugar).

    ””””””””

    Still checking into it there are no ingrediants listed on my coke bottle lol
    But yea there was 800 number but no answer.

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  152. on August 18, 2010 at 7:03 am gunslingergregi

    But I also eat around a kilo of beef a day and maybe another kilo of potatoes and a loaf of bread and fruit and shit lol
    I eat like a madman.
    My woman asks me if I am hungry and then any time I am hungry I tell her and she goes and cooks.

    But I haven’t been eating like pastries and donuts and shit.
    Also not going out to chain resteraunts to eat.

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  153. on August 18, 2010 at 8:00 am gunslingergregi

    http://www.coca-colabottling.co.id/eng/ourcompany/index.php?act=faq

    Looks like it is sugar in it not corn syrup.

    Yea really I eat nothing with corn syrup anymore not really artificial ingrediants.

    Yea it is like all the meat was just killed and nothing added coming straight off the body no preservitives no fresheners whatever no coloring.

    Then the vegetables and shit same thing coming straight off the farm. Just piles of food to buy, but the original food.

    Don’t eat mocrowave diners don’t eat prepackaged anything.

    When they make their sambal sauce. They take actual garlic and actual a million other ingredients and actually mix that shit together with a mortar and pestal.

    She is making some good ass french fries but yea she shaves em up and then cuts em herself from potatoes so not prepackaged. Then if there are potatoes again cut up from whole potatoes not prepackaged.
    Then the rice is not prepackaged either.
    Nothing basically is prepackaged so yea I guess that is probably it.

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